What to Text A Guy You Like (Make Him Obsess Over You)

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Hey ladies! Amy North here with some more dating advice for you… and today’s topic will be on the 3 kinds of text messages that will make a guy instantly more attracted to you. And remember, if you want to get regular updates when I release new dating advice videos, just hit the subscribe button right below this video.
Now, before I jump into the goods, I need to start off by telling you what NOT to do… just so you know, right off the bat, what kind of text messages DON’T attract the kind of men you want.
1.) Mistake #1 - texting too much. I know, I know… you really like this guy and you love talking to him, but being a little bit too aggressive with your texting can send him running. And don’t overwhelm him with novels about how your day went or what your cat was eating that morning. And definitely do NOT bombard him with messages if he’s not responding to you at all… texting him relentlessly is a huge turn off for a guy and it’ll make you appear desperate and needy for attention, which is a HUGE attraction destroyer.
Being too aggressive is more than just sending him a few too many text messages too. The occasional smiley face or exclamation mark is a good thing - but being too expressive will make you seem insecure and a little try-hard… Every guy has his own “texting style”, but to start, hold off on the excessive dancing and heart emojis for now.
2.) Mistake #2 - overanalyzing his texts. Some of us can freak out when we see the dreaded ‘ok’ text, and it may even feel like a slap to your face… but only if you let it. See, when a guy doesn’t text you back, or texts you something really short and lame, there could be a TON of reasons why… like…maybe his phone is turned off, maybe he’s busy watching the game with his boys, or maybe he’s in a work meeting and forgot to text you back. These things can happen! And while it may seem like he’s really not the into in you, you should never, ever freak out. Keep it cool and always, remember that YOU’RE the prize and HE’S trying to win you over.
3.) Mistake #3 - sending him boring text messages. While it’s always tempting to just send him a simple “hey, what’s up?” text, you should rarely do this. If a guy’s really worth pursuing, he probably gets text messages like this all the time from girls. Do you really think that’s going to catch his interest? There are a ton of different and interesting text messages that you could be sending - some of which I’m going to cover in a little bit. But a huge part of attracting a guy (and keeping him) has a lot to do with making him “emotionally addicted” to you. And in order to make a man feel attraction to you, you need to learn how to effectively stimulate the emotional centre of his brain. There are a ton of ways you can do this, but I don’t have enough time to cover it in this video… if you do want to learn more about how to make a guy emotionally addicted to you then head over to my website, www.CoachNorth.com and watch the free video presentation on that website. In that video, I also cover the top 3 reasons why men pull away… so again, that URL is www.CoachNorth.com
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[@AmyNorthDating]

Thanks Brad. One of these days we'll have to collaborate on some videos!

[@chenda2067]

yay! thank you for approving Amy messages.... love to hear from a guy perspectives....

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Amy is not into you, Brad. Move on, fam.

[@thabomb9465]

Who asked tho

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when you already did the first mistake.

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[@AmyNorthDating]

Don't worry, Ahmada! It's not too late to turn things around. At least you know now what not to do! :)

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[@kellyparker5636]

Best tip: BE YOURSELF. People should like you the way you are.

[@AmyNorthDating]

Thanks for watching my video, Kelly. You're right, confidence is key! :)

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I'm watching this while I'm single 😂 and have no crush lol

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Manel B same

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I'M NOMORE SINGLE 😃 I CAME TO REWATCH THE VIDEO LOL

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Manel B thanks

[@damien3394]

+Manel MB how bout now

[@yosephnega9683]

"Guy's like compliments as much as girls do" As a straight guy, i felt that

[@doughdog7]

✋😔

[@adrijabiswas4564]

Really ????!! Should I compliment him???? Edit : would he think that I am being clingy or something ??? We are childhood friends. I don't things to get things awkward>.

[@IlIeven]

@@adrijabiswas4564 im a guy and lemme tell you, if you are childhood friends he likes you

[@anishpataskar1253]

dawg tf r u doing ova here?

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😐

[@nicholekerighan8528]

honestly be yourself ladies the right one will love u for who u are ;) ;)

[@AmyNorthDating]

Right on, Nichole! :)

[@nicholekerighan8528]

I have enjoyed watching ur videos thanks so much for.the tips:)

[@ann-bm9dk]

It doesnt work that way... im a shy person

[@ChildOfDarkProphecy1]

Nichole Kerighan god why are women so bad at giving advice, lol

[@ChildOfDarkProphecy1]

Nichole Kerighan basically “wait till you get old and die waiting for the world to deliver to you on a silver platter”. Most females believe this bullshit.

[@Inner.Wisdom8]

The right guy will like you just the way you are

[@shannawong9551]

Ate you from Nagaland ?

[@savannakays2862]

This worked!!!! My crush asked me out!!!

[@AmyNorthDating]

Glad it worked Savanna! :) Don't forget to subscribe for more helpful tips!

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[@alyhayes6936]

So I shouldn't tell him about my hentai obsession?

[@ariannaruiz9399]

that would be for the best XD trust me

[@moeezS]

"Its a bold strategy, Cotton, let's see if it pays off for em"

[@naneshkarivera4889]

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[@trapqueeneden]

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[@sophiejackson2656]

OMG XD

[@hj727]

I'm watching this video as I am talking to a guy I like lol

[@maggiemay5249]

me too hahah

[@justme-ui4jj]

samee

[@emilyy3446]

me 2 lmao

[@Diego-qy3tj]

samee

[@xeriiii]

Same

[@justamiss3955]

What if both of us are boring? 😑

[@AmyNorthDating]

Thanks for dropping by, Just Me! I do actually have a few videos on this topic, such as this one: kzbin.info/www/bejne/eIO8l42FfcaHmbc and you might also want to watch my free video tutorial, I think it’ll help you a lot: www.coachnorth.com/texting Good luck!!!

[@florizaba6306]

i have a similar question. what if both of us are really awkward and dont really talk much at all? not with each other, but just awkward in general.

[@nyaaaa2862]

Then that’s a rip in the chat

[@moonpleiades99]

Send a fun joke.

[@nyaaaa2862]

Damn just coming back to this video and everything went to shit 💀💀 don’t listen to this video and just go with the flow, don’t try to force things and just try to talk with ur crush more

[@teapot4238]

So this was yesterday, I asked him what he was doing. He replied with thinking, I was curious and asked what about? He replied with “You” this made my heart skip a beat 😍

[@AmyNorthDating]

Happy for you, Zoey Blossom! 💕 So are you still texting this guy?

[@vxlmsp1608]

My crush: *adds me back on snapchat * Me: *nervous sweats*

[@AmyNorthDating]

Thanks for dropping by and watching my video. Hope you find it helpful! :)

[@tiktoktea2370]

He just blocked me today when I asked him what his favorite color was💀💀💀

[@vxlmsp1608]

@@tiktoktea2370 oh my- 💀

[@tired1019]

@@tiktoktea2370 then he don't deserve you and doesn't care about you is not interested and you gotta move on😉!

[@tiktoktea2370]

Malina Hussein101 yeah but the thing is he doesn’t really know me he’s my online crush

[@iituyi]

1st thing: “texting too much” Me: oh shit 😀😳

[@AmyNorthDating]

Thanks for watching, TUYI! :) I hope you find my video helpful.

[@kifayathussain7176]

Hello baby

[@kammie20]

I texted my crush and he saw the text, but he didn't text me back.... but he is making eye contact with me ALL THE TIME! I'm confused, heeeelp ;(

[@kammie20]

And btw It's been 1 week since he saw the text....

[@AmyNorthDating]

Hi Kammie, he may have forgotten to return your text as he was busy doing something. Why don't you try talking to him in person, though?

[@doctorlane7170]

Kammie.xoxo me. Too girl

[@adrianamariadagher2630]

what did u tell him?

[@Cut_Travel_Repeat]

maybe he's just observing you, try to be normal.& whenever your eyes lock more than once either simply ask him what by the eyebrow or shoulder movt... or if not try to talk to him in person(which is little difficult 😁) than the sign language

[@tiffanyhill6337]

I always win with "I can't start my day without sunshine. So wake up!" Lol corny but I got engaged off that one.

[@AmyNorthDating]

Good for you, Tiffany! ;-)

[@yourmom-xj6li]

*all the advice you really want* send memes

[@oglhi9634]

patata patataki tbh i thought you were going to say send nudes

[@tufnail]

patata patataki perfect works every time 😂

[@colindavis3384]

that's what me and my crush do haha

[@biggerboysandstolensweethe8961]

Y e s

[@garu922]

Agreed

[@locologos1323]

Why did I watch this if I'm never gonna text him??? Ugh, this is a great video though

[@AmyNorthDating]

Thanks for dropping by, Music & Makeup Lover! :) Don't forget to subscribe for more helpful tips! By the way, what's stopping you from texting him?

[@_m.s6604]

Don't worry girls, he isn't ignoring ur txts, he's sounding it out. Give him a minute.

[@ivylillace]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@niamhharkes1031]

I love how even though I done all the wrong things he still asked me out 😂😍

[@anniek8484]

Niamh Harkes lucky you

[@AnkitSharma-nf5qm]

@@anniek8484 You can't get lucky without even try

[@thanu-go1ts]

Same heree

[@Princess15732]

He's a keeper

[@pinkadorible]

I feel empowered as a woman watching this... We are the prize!!

[@AmyNorthDating]

Glad to hear you feel that way Dalton Amy! Don't forget to subscribe for more helpful tips!

[@multilingualmegan78]

Dalton Amy ikr. Not so feminist.

[@smjanagrg566]

Yeah but honestly it's just a phrase to make u feel good about yourself 🤣😭

[@Errupt]

Nah

[@jebaitedmitsaras8854]

But you have nothing to offer except sex, you're hypergamous and always pursue something more than you Dafuq are you talking about? Edit: Men also offer sex if they have long girthy schlongs

[@svp5310]

I confessed to my crush about having a crush and he just took it as a compliment. End of the story.

[@AmyNorthDating]

Thanks for dropping by and watching my video! Hope you find it helpful! :)

[@pranalipuradkar6]

Same here 😅

[@Akash-oo5bx]

pretty sad story

[@kaitietolman4668]

my boyfriend and I had this conversation and it made the both of us laugh so hard and turned into our inside joke him: my brain is so fried rn me: like deep fried? him: yeah me: KFC deep fried like normal of extra crispy? him: definitely extra crispy me: dang now I want KFC

[@AmyNorthDating]

Such great relationship you have there, Finally Ginger. :)

[@nemo3603]

Kaitie Tolman d

[@TheBluey79]

Kaitie Tolman u must be americans if this crap makes u laugh

[@sebasaad9019]

damnn so trueeeeeeeeeeeee omgg

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Petra P i’m american and i’m confused.

[@a.slummila5689]

I don't know what to do... 1 minute he acts like he had fun chatting with me then a minute later he just left like he never care😥

[@sadqingqiu762]

Same here 🙂

[@impalanotaming]

Talk to him about this once If nothing changes dump his ass

[@a.slummila5689]

@@impalanotaming Hehe, I did exactly tat👍😉

[@kawisten]

I told him I lost my volleyball game and he said Oh no

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Kristen Tan 😂😂

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Krolf Littness lol!

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Krusty Kroissant 😂😂😂😂

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Kristen Tan hahahaha

[@Alternatives_Universum]

What´s the problem about "oh no"?

[@ifalinarabe407]

how do you redeem yourself if you've already screwed it up by texting too much x) or should i just stop texting?

[@promisonl3617]

oh my gosh i know the struggle lol

[@staceykersting461]

stop texting!!!

[@AmyNorthDating]

Hey there, I would pull back texting and let him come to you. Chances are he's feeling overwhelmed. Instead make him miss you and he'll come to you.

[@spatnaspolecnost]

just give him a breather and either wait or if he doesn't text back you can text him but don't go overboard again :)

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Ifalina Rabe s

[@hondev1677]

The problem is I have no idea what to text him or how to get to know him.cuz this is ma first Time texting a boy

[@jocelynsunday9141]

this is my problem 😭😭

[@lotemor7006]

you just need to be you and dont think what he is going to think about it .. just text whatever you want dont be afraid

[@promitytasneem8691]

hon dev

[@lilfairyprincess1o1]

Just be like hey and go from there.. Talk to him as you would talk to one of your friends but obviously be a little more flirty/teasy. Goodluck!

[@rach4162]

hon dev SAME

[@estherbee4433]

I found this really useful, I’ve used some of these tips with my crush, he likes me back and he also said he likes talking to me.THX SO MUCH

[@chrysanthemum3464]

Witty teasing gets 'em every time 😏

[@nicolegaylebiz7128]

totally agree!

[@miaamber844]

Like What? Can you give me any examples?

[@chrysanthemum3464]

There are examples in the last part of this video. I like to tease a guy about how much of a guy he is. For example, my crush says he just bought some shoes and I ask him what color are they and he says red and then shows me. His shoes are in fact not red, but they are burgundy. I tell him, "Those are not red, they're burgundy. You are such a freakin' guy!" And we laugh and "argue" about how he probably thinks all shades of a certain color are just one color name and whatever and he's just smiling and blushing. It's cute, acknowledges his manly-ness and I ALWAYS get great feedback when I tease a guy this way. This makes me stand out to him. Matthew Hussey is who I gleaned this advice. Check him out on KZbin, also.

[@mashudurathogwa4731]

Matthew hussey gives really good advice too

[@teresarobinson303]

dont tease ever also in this video she said all guys are the same thats false

[@ElliePar421]

Wit and teasing gets 'em every time...

[@phoebewoodford6884]

i told a guy i liked him and he just didnt say anything back

[@AmyNorthDating]

Hey Phoebe Woodford...You need to engage in No Contact as soon as possible. Are you familiar with this method? How often do you see each other?

[@phoebewoodford6884]

no

[@phoebewoodford6884]

we go to school together

[@reginazmail2]

Phoebe Woodford

[@phoebewoodford6884]

we go to the same school and now school finished and he texted me last week saying call me at 6:30 and with at kiss face and no word since

[@memedreamrocketteam5632]

One time this guy I liked was telling me about how he would stand up for me next time I was bullied and I asked him why and he said, and I quote, "Because you're mine and I need you here." I swear my heart mmmeeeelllttteeedddd

[@TheLittz]

I just realize that girls are the same as guys! But who ever texts first really is most needy

[@GingerOMG]

Oh so no one should ever text? That would make things move forward, orrr :P It's not about needyness, geez

[@TheLittz]

+Olivia it all depends on what the women thinks. I guess your the accepting and undertanding type

[@GingerOMG]

Well you are a guy, and obviously you think that "whoever text first is the most needy". So it depends on you aswell. When you get older you realize that's not the case

[@TheLittz]

+Olivia older I'm 16!

[@GingerOMG]

Yeah that's the worst time hahah :) Where the games and confusions are a mess.

[@Yikkoofficial]

Oh lord 😭 Let’s just be ourselves 🤷🏽‍♀️

[@TheWilDOn31]

I really really love your videos. They're really inspiring and are just changing the weird thing that happens to me when I like a guy ... I can feel confident and comfortable with it now and understand a man's side too. Thank you

[@AmyNorthDating]

You're welcome, Dana! :) I'm glad my videos inspire you. Don't forget to subscribe so you won't miss any new videos! ;-)

[@excusemeimmajikooker6064]

Once he said "See you in your dreams" before going to bed >///

[@thatcrankyface]

Woah!!

[@strawberryfox8819]

Definitly gonna use these tips.... Now how do I start texting a guy I've never spoken to and just stared at? Dundundun

[@AmyNorthDating]

Thanks, Paula! :) Have you texted him yet?

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[e-mail]

[@audrinamoon7032]

This is what I'm doing. Overtexting and telling him I love him. Pathetic right? he's ignoring me. I am so beyond devastated.

[@AmyNorthDating]

Don't worry about it PwettieUnOrignal! It's never too late to change. :)

[@shestar64]

the way you talk is very professional but makes me feel close at the same times. just subscribed! ^_^

[@AmyNorthDating]

Thanks Channary! Hope you find my videos helpful!

[@yourfriendlyneighborhoodbl9516]

I’m gonna tell my crush I like him over texts by texting him a paragraph of my confession but without putting any spaces.

[@boniface8337]

When you're too shy to write one text 😭😭

[@michellekahlez2105]

Why must be shy? R u an Introvert ?

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Army

[@chenda2067]

Yes! Finally I found you Amy thank you enlighten us woman. Love it!

[@jpn_119]

These are really smart, thanks for not being one of those so called "coaches" that just say meaningless useless advice. Subbed. 🙂

[@cosimoto8700]

I met a guy that I work with and we talk all of the time. we have those conversations that kinda never end, we just eventually fall asleep (of we're texting) or stop because we have to part ways and that's how it ends. Not to mention, we have A LOT in common. We enjoy the same things, and have similar views on things as well so we get along quite nicely. On our days off we actually spend the entire day together. We'll make plans ahead of time, and then when the day comes around 12pm or 1pm we will get together and hang out until 12am and sometimes 1am the next morning. He's super nice and actually listens when I talk whether it's something stupid or personal, and he opens up to me a lot as well. he actually asks me things about my life and my family as well, trying to get to know me better I guess. I'm just confused as to whether or not he's just being a good friend, or if he's into me. 😅

[@AmyNorthDating]

Hi Cosi, with all the efforts that he is showing you he is clearly into you. You also mentioned that he opens up to you and that's a good thing because he wants you to enter his world. Have a look at this video kzbin.info/www/bejne/pJ7FkmV4Zrmjitk. It will give you more tips to know if he 's into you. :)

[@jackiemora8621]

What if he's dry...as in he Isn't as into texting as you are. Answering in common words not exactly interacting even tho you both know there are feelings

[@d3vILfOrTr3sS]

Jackie em. Yeah

[@memz5220]

That’s probably someone you should communicate with while not texting Talking to them verbally instead of texting :)

[@d3vILfOrTr3sS]

HydroxylDoexy agreed!

[@maxdelater3369]

Just talk to him instead, then.

[@gtamadmaster0077]

Omg I have the same problem how did you fix it what did you do

[@cindywai6]

My crush knew that I have a crush on him and I didnt even know how. But then he straight away texted me like 'Umm I just see you as my little sister, I'm sorry. I dont wanna give you too much hope and also I dont want you to get hurt just because u love me. Let's just be like bro & sis?'...I was speechless & felt sad 😢 I'm so useless 😭

[@jacobsartoriusfp8274]

wow I wish I could've seen this before I text him... he called me a stalker..

[@AmyNorthDating]

At least now you already know what to do and avoid next time, Nevaeh. :)

[@jacobsartoriusfp8274]

Amy North thank you😌♡♡

[@AdioAurel]

It's scary how many girls ask here what to do when her crush has a girlfriend. It's simple: Don't always run after what you can't have! I can even imagine that most of them just broke up, because they couldn't appreciate what they already have and wanted to chase the next best exciting thing.

[@AmyNorthDating]

I couldn't agree more, Adio. Thanks for pointing this out! :)

[@ala6329]

The one about texting too much is kinda true. Everything she says about it is true, even what they might think of it. I used to do this a lot with my crush and he always sent me warnings saying 'Stop writing an entire novel/book' but he didn't warn me in a harsh way lol. I just told him to feel free to give me a little warning if I go overboard with something. So definitely don't text him too much

[@AmyNorthDating]

Thanks for watching and sharing your experience, Ala! :)

[@mikeydouglas9086]

This is excellent advice. As a guy, I have never once had a girl text me anything even remotely like this. If a girl showed genuine interest and asked thoughtful questions (such as the ones you proposed), I would immediately be inclined to want to get to know her better.

[@AmyNorthDating]

Thanks for dropping by and sharing your thoughts on the topic, Mikey! :)

[@kiranpardeshi8381]

How sweet ,hope the guy we like would have thoughts like u

[@kris_ie]

What if the guy you like tells you "you're just someone he's comfortable talking to?" meanwhile in your head you're thinking 'is this a good thing?' Because you're not just trying to be someone who he runs to for comfort you're trying to be more, what should you even do in an instance like this?.

[@ethanboltz9530]

This is basically a tutorial on how to manipulate a man

[@Suseelkumar5]

Dating advices are all like this.

[@ethanboltz9530]

suseel kumar sadly

[@unicorndust5815]

1923 it be like that sometimes

[@Lizzygotstyle]

i mean sometimes you gotta get what you want

[@GemmaCraft]

Yeah this is depressing- no thanks

[@promisonl3617]

i need to work on these lol

[@unipearl5155]

damn i did all the mistakes gotta change that

[@AmyNorthDating]

Don't worry, you can still turn things around, unipearl! At least you know what not to do this time! ;-)

[@kifayathussain7176]

Hy

[@mandybrian025]

Wonderful tips, Amy. Thanks. I love the teasing texts more 😂

[@AmyNorthDating]

You're welcome, mandybrian025! ❤️ I hope you find the video helpful! 😉

[@lindashepherd3968]

Hearing from you in the morning is the best. Brightens my entire day!

[@AmyNorthDating]

Thank you for watching my videos, Linda! :) I appreciate the support! Have you watched my latest video yet?

[@lindashepherd3968]

Amy North no, not yet. But I will! :-D

[@jackieehernandez2702]

these are amazing tips, I have seen my cousin use this before and it really works. Thank you so much! Also I am a new subscriber looking forward to seeing more videos

[@AmyNorthDating]

Thanks so much for the kind words Jackiee, and welcome to my channel! I'm so happy to hear that these tips have helped someone close to you! For more of my dating advice videos, please subscribe to my KZbin channel! :)

[@jackieehernandez2702]

Of course, much love

[@wallowing5175]

*im watching this while having a crush, but not even having his snap because he doesn’t even know I exist :)*

[@lovelylolaunicorn]

This video actually helped me a lot I’m a very awkward person and I don’t even know how to talk to people but I’m having a very successful conversation right now and he admitted that he likes me!!!!

[@AmyNorthDating]

Good for you, Lo Ca! Thanks for watching my video! I'm glad it helped. :)

[@izzy1161]

That moment when I click on the video but I'm lonely.

[@AmyNorthDating]

Thanks for watching, KZbinr Ghost! :)

[@andrelatorrem]

Ok I just respond to the guy I like and found this video... Really helpful from now!

[@AmyNorthDating]

Glad it helped you, Pau! :) Don't forget to subscribe to my channel for more helpful dating advice videos!

[@jamakovicsara]

OMG!This helped me soo much!Thank you Amy!!!

[@AmyNorthDating]

Thanks much Sara!

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[@MrAhmed-dx5hw]

I am down this rabbit hole cause my crush is giving mixed signals. But I just wanna say that we don't mind a large no. Texts when we are already comfortable. The "not text too much" tip is only applicable when your just starting to chat. Not after 3-4 weeks of proper texting.

[@princessagyei7990]

Thanks a lot for what you are doing. Am going to use everything you have said to make my guy want me more.

[@AmyNorthDating]

You are always welcome, Princess Agyei! :) Don't forget to subscribe for more helpful tips!

[@iamangela86]

Dylan O Brien , Tyler Posey and Tyler Hoechlin dont even know i exist 😔😢 ( Teen wolf characters ) They are BABES ❤

[@evesalvatorre123]

😍

[@georgeandraos820]

Derek

[@Drostvideo]

Great advice for texting

[@AmyNorthDating]

Thanks very much! Please feel free to let me know if you have any questions you'd like answered, and as always, subscribe to my KZbin channel! All the best!

[@dianaaquino9076]

Something that stood out to me is that you said "Hey ladies" at the beginning, maybe there's a guy watching...instead of assuming that there are women watching also know that there might be a guy watching

[@benjamincraig5311]

lol I text my crush who likes me a ton and he loves it😂

[@benjamincraig5311]

Lol nooo hate thooo😌

[@KiwinyanandFriends]

I can't tell if my crush likes me or not. He's super weird.

[@deanna8672]

Samee

[@fana3153]

oh hi/hey 5SOS fam!!

[@hiccup7631]

then why are you here girl

[@findingbettermen5279]

Love this! I always tend to overthink his messages. Really good inspiration!

[@AmyNorthDating]

Thanks for watching, Finding Better Men! :) Don't forget to subscribe for more helpful tips!

[@marybless_0riginals]

I love your video, you earned one subscription. I'm happy to see you're taking some time replying all the comments and giving advices... that's why you've got me really interested.So I want to seek some advice too. See I have a friend who I used to like for more than 5 years. He was like my friend/enemy because he always teasing me with everything and loved to mess around with the way I look and my things.. literally everything I say and do... i really hate him but that made me wanted him more and that feelings developed. 2 years ago I confessed to him but he said he's already inlove with someone. But we stayed as friends... and recently I found out that he used to like me too back then. And now I don't know because sometimes we talk over the phone and talk about the past... he even asked me to call him last night... I don't know I thought I didn't like him anymore but now I kept thinking about him... Can you give me some advice? thank you.

[@AmyNorthDating]

Hi Mary, thanks for subscribing to my channel, I hope that you can use my tips in your love life! Now, as for your situation, I'd say that there's a good chance he still has feelings for you. Yes, years have passed but you can use that history to your advantage. What I would suggest doing is to keep communication open with him, meaning call and chat, text, etc. (Just be careful not to overdo it!). When you are chatting it's important that you show him what a happy, fun person you are to be around. Showing him this positive side will attract him and make him want to be with you, so avoid anything negative. Is he currently seeing anyone?

[@marybless_0riginals]

+Amy North yes. he's seeing somebody and that confuses me a lot! they got into a fight lately and he still keeps on communicating me but we never talked about her that much seems like he doesnt want to talk about it.and now he is asking for us to hangout this sunday with our former friends... so i dont know. thank you so much this means a lot to me.

[@anna_gh301]

When you know the guy from when you were young but don’t really talk to him and when you text him something he shows no interest but you don’t want to get obvious that you like him because your parents and his parents are friend and you don’t want it to get awkward check ✌️😙

[@devinal6183]

MY CRUSH JUST TEXTED ME WHILE I WAS WATCHING THIS VIDEO!! I’m so happy

[@AmyNorthDating]

Good for you, Scarlett! 💖 I hope you find this video helpful! Don't forget to subscribe for more helpful tips! ;-)

[@missemma4eva]

Hi I really like your videos and love the fact that you want to interact with your audience and answer their questions! I need some advice on whether or not I should start talking to a guy again that I have liked for a while. We got together briefly about six months ago but it wasn't the right time for either of us but now we both have a lot more free time and I am more emotionally available to see where it would go. I just don't whether to message him or approach him on it since it's likely that the relationship wouldn't last longer than the summer as we are both moving away to University. If I was going to message him, how should I start off since I haven't spoke to him in a while? I really appreciate your advice, thank you. :)

[@AmyNorthDating]

Hi MissEmma, thanks for your kind words. For more of my dating videos please subscribe to my KZbin channel. Now, for your question. If you want to message him I would start with something friendly and fun. Perhaps recall a memory that's going to trigger emotions and send it. For example, "Hey, I was just *activity* and it reminded of me the time we *insert memory* Hope all is well!" You can also do this with songs, shows, music, etc. The point is to have a "reason" for messaging him. When were you last in contact?

[@irenelove7629]

you're really a good coach, i learned lot from you, i hope i can read and watch more inspiring advices from you. thanks

[@AmyNorthDating]

Thank you for your kind words, Irene! :) Please subscribe for more helpful tips. :)

[@peterhans5201]

I don´t even know why I am watching this, these are probably great tips but you know I am still too shy to message my crush and I will forever be too scared

[@indisingh9460]

#1 Ms North You have learnt me this I normally message too much in d past but now huh I leave it to him n I'm dead sure he notice the changes Thank You Ms North

[@AmyNorthDating]

Thanks for watching, indi singh! :) I hope you find my video helpful. :)

[@indisingh9460]

Ur welcome Ms North

[@melaniegonzalez8316]

When ppl say be your self Me- I like ham Him- 😐 Me- DOOOOO UUUUUU LIKKKEEEEE HAMMMM him- umm Me- 😰 Him-what Me-🍖

[@AmyNorthDating]

Thanks for watching, EveeJewel! :) You'll find the right guy for you (who also likes ham) soon enough! ;-)

[@chlobotai]

IM LAUGHING SO HARD

[@Azizaotshudi]

Dead🤣🤣🤣

[@ladylady341]

great advice about texting

[@AmyNorthDating]

Thanks Ladylady, please subscribe to my KZbin channel for more dating advice videos!

[@tequilachanel7312]

It’s simple treat every guy the same. Treat him like the guy whose already obsessed with you. Be yourself 100% and always have, “Do I even like this guy?”, in your head.

[@RH-gm4ni]

In my experience, the mistakes outlined have a lot to do with a woman's self-esteem and how involved she is in creating her own life, with or without a companion. Obviously, if your priorities have to do with being attached to someone, trying not to commit those mistakes will feel like torture. However, if you have been burned too many times or just not concerned with having a partner as urgently, those mistakes become easier to avoid. Remember: Even if a guy shows interest, you are not obligated to hang on his every word. You still have the choice of how involved YOU want to be. Practise self-awareness.

[@AmyNorthDating]

Thanks for sharing your thoughts on the topic, Hadiya R. Thanks for watching my video!

[@bbjjbb61]

Hi Amy! My boyfriend and I have had a long a complicated relationship. The past few months are the first time both of us are invested thoroughly. My question is what kinds of texts can I send him to make him think about me with anticipation until we see each again?

[@AmyNorthDating]

Hi Brandy! Have a look at this video: kzbin.info/www/bejne/d6jKo6eNZbinsNk You'll surely find this helpful! ;-)

[@camillayoung1271]

This is so helpful

[@AmyNorthDating]

Thanks Camilla Schemmel ! Don't forger to share it with your friends!

[@thegreatestg8335]

yep

[@Master63y]

I love it!, short, simple and good!

[@AmyNorthDating]

Glad you like it! Thanks for watching my video, Master63y!

[@swag4495]

Thanks a lot! I'm definitely subscribing. 😁

[@AmyNorthDating]

You're welcome, That Coolcat! 😊 Thank you for subscribing! Appreciate the support! 😊

[@elenai.8408]

I wrote him hella long Textes (well they wasn’t that long but pretty long imao) and told him I’m sorry ‘bout that and he said it’s good because he’s gonna read all of them with that kiss smiley Gosh he’s so cute 🥺😂

[@AmyNorthDating]

Thanks for watching my video, Ellie love! :) Don’t forget to subscribe so you won’t miss out on my upcoming videos! ;-)

[@VintageGal2]

you're so pretty!!! ♡

[@AmyNorthDating]

Thanks VintageGal2! ;)

[@AECRADIO1]

I've gone out to look for myself, but if I should return before I get back, please ask me to wait.

[@jzjxjdjejsisi1185]

Omg I already love U This is so helpful Thanksss

[@AmyNorthDating]

You're welcome, jzjxjdj ejsisi! :) Glad you find this helpful! Don't forget to subscribe for more helpful tips! ;-)

[@elenastanojevic3827]

my crush sends me flirty messages, lots of hearts and everything. i checked with his friends that are also my friends, and he likes me!!

[@AmyNorthDating]

Thanks for dropping by, elena s! I hope you find my video helpful. If it’s not too much to ask and if you haven’t done so yet, please like, share and subscribe to my channel to keep you updated on my new videos. I’d really appreciate your support!

[@jurneeabbott8628]

thanks

[@Blaqlock]

Hi Amy. thank you for the videos.

[@AmyNorthDating]

You're welcome, Blaqlock! :) Don't forget to subscribe for more helpful tips! ;-)

[@sucons4254]

I met a guy from another country at a bus stop last summer. We only spent 1 day together last June, but since he left he’s messaged me everyday.

[@AmyNorthDating]

Thanks for watching my video! Hope you find it helpful! :)

[@nightcraftsss865]

so thnks for your message I told a guy I love him finally he told that "don't be childish " but now I have other one .

[@AmyNorthDating]

Thanks for dropping by, 💜💜lovely magics! :) Glad you find my video helpful. Don’t forget to subscribe to keep you updated on my new videos! ;-)

[@nightcraftsss865]

@@AmyNorthDating of course and sure I will subscribe

[@nightcraftsss865]

@@abdullahiaudu8880 what do you mean ?

[@nightcraftsss865]

@@abdullahiaudu8880 I get him in 55 minutes today becos we are married he is on out now yesterday's was mine and his marriage he came and say to me that he love me so I get back him as my own husband

[@linagoncharenko2339]

Hey Amy! Thanks for sharing these tips! I like one guy, we met a month ago. At first we used to spend a lot of time together because of the circumstances, but we have never hung out. He was traveling, so then we were texting and it was nice. Now we haven't been texting for 5 days. I think he likes me, but the problem is that he broke up with his girlfriend 2 months ago and I think he still needs time to work it out. The other obstacle is that he is too good, so maybe teasing would be a little bit embarassing for him. I don't really want to be a rebound, and what if they're together again? Should I text him first?

[@AmyNorthDating]

Hey Lina, it wouldn't hurt if you'll send him a text message first. You can probably ask how he's day has been, or something to that effect. You're friends anyway, right?

[@linagoncharenko2339]

+Amy North right! Thanks! Well, I did it a few hours ago, we've been texting, I tried to tease him and it seems to me that I was witty, I think it would be okay with someone else, but he just ignored it. Of course, he replied and was really polite, I just don't think that he is ready for a new relationships. I would like to hang out with him, but what can I do?

[@starboxrock9133]

@@linagoncharenko2339 how are you doing now?

[@okayyfine3760]

Watching this so I can regurgitate everything to my best friend who is seriously really scared of talking to her crush

[@AmyNorthDating]

Thanks for dropping by and watching my video! Hope you both find it helpful! :)

[@homie19jc10]

Hi! Hope u can come up with a video that has something to do with long distance relationship. Lots of people now meet through online dating sites or apps so an advise from you would be great! Thanks!

[@AmyNorthDating]

Great idea, homie19jc! Will surely add this on my list. :) Don't forget to subscribe to my channel for more dating advice videos!

[@NPG97]

ANY IDEAS? A guy from the same college started talking to me, he's cute but he only talks to me about work.. I don't have a problem with that.. but the conversation get's a little boring! And I try to change the subject into something funny, but I don't know, it's weird!

[@noabar-sela4052]

Nat look i have a crush on a friend from my work same as you and i can tell you that you should just try to share him in your private life and make him feel like he is one of yours friends and then he will do the same and when youll feel close to him enough you will have those inside jokes with him and youll show him how funny you can be and your coversation wont be boring anymore

[@wxstednxghts]

That hockey text would win me over omfg

[@AmyNorthDating]

Thanks for dropping by, Lily! :) Don't forget to subscribe for more helpful tips!

[@CoachYvonne_7]

I love this...coach North

[@rachnapathak685]

OMG... this video is such a life saver... thanx a lot.. n stay blessed .. :D

[@AmyNorthDating]

You're welcome, Rachna! :)