What We Fight About

[@waynetaylor420]

I searched school bus conversion one time... who would have known the road would have lead me to know and love the Rhodes family.

[@theJustinRhodesShow]

Ah, that's a fun story.

[@diana9506]

This is how I found them too! It just showed up in my suggested videos once because I like watching tiny house videos (I assume).

[@TheKamakuraGardener]

Oh my goodness! I subscribed to this channel way back when y’all were on the Great America Farm Tour. Immediately I was smitten 🥰 by the love you all exude! For the last 40 years I’ve mostly lived overseas; Turkey, Portugal, now Japan (almost 38 years). I watch this channel every day and I’m reminded of how wonderful Americans can be! Our politicians are idiots, but we: you and me white, black, brown, yellow, whatever; we are beautiful people! Thanks so much for sharing your wonderful life, Justin and Rebeka! And you’ve raised wonderful children! 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰😇😇😇😇😇😇😇😇

[@HollerGramma]

Awww, that is so sweet! Blessings to you also.

[@julieb7068]

The Kamakura Gardener ❤️❤️❤️

[@mercswifejl]

Yes sir!!! Beauty is found in all things. Have a beautiful day!!

[@kanganoroo3849]

I just can't imagine either of you with anyone else. Typical man...wanting to fix the situation, not really hearing the issue. Typical woman...not fully expressing, but thinking the other should know. Couples, young and old, should listen to the two of you. Thanks for sharing!

[@sabinarowlison9565]

Communication is the key to a relationship / marriage. So glad that you both are so open and can talk about this.

[@redeemedrootsfarm6453]

Love that y’all are high school sweethearts! My husband and I are HS sweethearts and have been married almost 18 years.

[@YTKion]

My husband and I are high school sweethearts as well . We've been together 25 years this April💕

[@lynnb1226]

High school sweethearts here too! 30 years married in May!

[@francineclave2207]

Best show on TV OR KZbin! 27 minutes went by in a flash!

[@jojoba35]

don't worry about the time Justin. listening to y'alls history is fascinating

[@mudslynger2109]

The 2 other channels that I watch I discovered through yours: The Hollars and Sow the Land - Are they not both high school sweethearts as well?! Your family dynamic is just lovely and healthy and as a couple, it is inspiring to see how you two volley respect and humor; as well you both seem so gracious. Thank you so much for sharing.

[@gingerkirby8208]

My favorite part of this video is where you tell how your parents clearly did not get along, yet never spoke a negative word about the other to you kids. My adoration of Boots lives on.

[@salliebeard1899]

Awesome 👍 😁❣️ I totally understand the years before the marriage. We have 7 yrs between dating/ marriage. And heading to a total of 50 yrs together, on 10-15-20....... Same high school, he graduated the year I started....met at my neighbors house...

[@debbiemarler8722]

A great accomplishment! We're at 38... He lived next door since we were 8&9 so we really knew each others. Our parents despised each other

[@salliebeard1899]

@@debbiemarler8722 keep going strong.....

[@Jared-Brubaker]

I’m liking this series!

[@1958constance]

What made me smile most during this video, was when you both said you were in church when you met. I am enjoying hearing about your journey.

[@julieb7068]

Oh my goodness! I love these videos and you all even more.... “we were always the weird ones,... swimming counter culture”. YOU ARE MY PEOPLE!!!!!🙋🏼‍♀️❤️😊😍

[@dianehammer7559]

These videos are so fun. You guys crack me up!

[@maryseifert4750]

I am so enjoying this 5 part series...lol...you guys are a hoot 😁 Love getting to know your back story. Standing here in my kitchen, with my ear piece in and my phone standing in the windowsill, doing dishes, feeling as if I'm enjoying a good visit with my lovely friends. Hope you are all enjoying your well deserved vacation and that your Christmas will be filled God's amazing love and His deep abiding Peace.

[@laurieboykenriley5874]

OMG WE SHARE THE SAME DATE!!!I WAS 16 GOING ON 17 WHEN I MET MY HUSBAND. JAN 23, 1996. WE WAITED 18YRS BEFORE WE WAS WED. Now we never really fight. And when we do its really short lived. He is my best friend. You all got it right!!

[@tuckersmoak6632]

I am so absolutely envious of you two. You two are inspiring.

[@charlesebrown7808]

COMMUNICATION is the key to a marriage. God helps even more.

[@Pickle-Rick365]

I just want to say how great-full I am for you guys, and Thank you from the bottom of my heart. I pray that God guides and protects your family for generations to come.

[@LifeofChet]

Really enjoying this series, enjoy your vacation!

[@melissataulbee2048]

Hearing your story is amazing. I can see a lot of Justin in Jona. Work ethic is something you just to don't see in young kiddos today.

[@lisagraham1525]

Started watching 6months ago. Love learning from all you do. Have you ever gone to a functional Dr? My brother lives un VA. His wife also has an autoimmune disease and thyroid problems. For years she just never felt right. As a nurse, I know when we do Labs on patients we group everybody's results into certain values that everyone is suppose to fit in. The problem with that is everybody's metabolisms are different. Functional doctors individualized for each patient. I have to say I've honestly have to say I never heard of one until my sister-in-law told me about it. She's never felt better. Just wanted to share that with you in case you ever have problems. You look healthy and beautiful. The kindness and compassion you share warms my heart.

[@JoJeck]

Wow this is very interesting, you two have followed a very contorted path to get to where you are now and this is only the first two instalments. Looking forward to the rest of your story.

[@ShelterMountainFarm]

Y'all, I laughed through this whole thing. So happy to call you friends.

[@kimberlyduncan215]

Communication ~ Good point about men struggling with listening. Pastor Lew told my husband and I when we visited with him before our wedding, "First, never go to bed mad at one another. Talk it through even if it takes til the sun comes up. Second, Husbands remember to listen, and Wives, remember to listen. Three, Hold onto one another, even in the hardest of times. Never let go!" My Mom told me once, when I was upset at my husband for not listening to me, she said "Men want to fix it, Woman want to talk about it" Truth bomb!!

[@fredachase5193]

You two are an awesome “crazy”!!!!

[@maryjemisonMaryjay1936]

Freda Chase yes they are 😂

[@mamaadventures81]

This is a wonderful story! Why are ppl disliking it.? Love watching and listening to your story,

[@allanbonnieguffey5634]

You are great at communicating with each other. Looking forward to tomorrow's talk.

[@sandracunningham2689]

I would love to see some photos that go with the stories. These are good video and it is nice getting to know you . Hope you get some time with Uncle Pete.

[@epicgamers4589]

First to the videos every day I love them keep them coming

[@pemachoden5624]

That's the sweetest story I ever heard. I love the part where you say , 'we were always against the current'.

[@madeline1342]

you guys got together the year i was born, you have the sweetest relationship never stop being the way you are, i enjoy your content thank you so much 😊

[@debbiemaas5019]

Y’all are just too cute together. I love how y’all work together love you both

[@atozrecovery518]

Me and my wife got married in high school. I was 15 she was 16. Still married and I'm 47 and shes 48 with 5 kids and 6 grandchildren.

[@debbiemarler8722]

Love this! My husband and I have been married 38 years. Learning to fight fair with the "l feel" this way.... Well if we had it to do over again the first 15 years of our own insecurities would have been smoother! I wasn't good at expressing my needs and he was baffled a lot cause I sulked. We raised 3 wonderful children, all grown and living on our property or less than 2 miles with 5 grandsons.... Love your story

[@andreafye7322]

Love you guys! Beautiful family!

[@EdisnFox]

I Love it. Details about your history of meeting each other for the first time at church, learning the good & evil, caring & listening, talking about things you want in life while praying & hearing from God. Love this peaceful Vlog about What We Fight About.

[@demonrathunter]

You are Married and evolved together. That is how I explain how my wife and I have been happily married for what will be 30 years. GOD Bless you and your family !

[@karenr67]

My husband, Larry and i have been 55 yrs. I was 18 and he was 19 and we only dated 8 months. So it does work.

[@karenr67]

Married 55 yrs

[@Vention1MGTOW]

It works less than 50% of the time, and that's the first marriage. Too dangerous for me!

[@Spiceandicesights]

Oh yeah the fun continue. I glad I waited to binge on the 4 stories back to back. Working the wait. Thanks!

[@MKCarol-ms7lg]

Communicating directly and fully without offending. One big problem for humankind. You guys are an awesome couple. It shows in your children.

[@marcushenderson4866]

Thank you for another amazing video!!

[@karenm5681]

I like the fact that you're different and go against the flow. "I like you both a lottle. That's like a little, except a lot."

[@TheMacs1]

High schools sweethearts here at 16 as well Meeting at a church event. Blessed and 5 kids, homeschoolin and farming. Love your story and humility! Love seeing your crazy in love about each other!

[@emilyshow9407]

I can not express my respect for you and rebecca.Sharing all you do,love,and created has enriched Many lives.Love ,from Pennsylvania

[@sharoncochran8508]

I love hearing you talk about praying and being active in your church. A foundation of faith leads to a successful life. Thank you for sharing your personal story!

[@findingthepuddles9610]

Love your story. We met in 89 and married in 97, still together 30 years. Relationships like this are amazing because of the closeness. Love your channel and your family.

[@lisalapoint7022]

Hi Becky. I had a similar experience with blood work. I was diagnosed Hypothyroid after the birth of my first child. And I went to an endocrinologist, who prescribed the typical dose of the typical synthetic medication...but I suffered for a couple years because my condition was not inside their paradigm. I didn't fit. And I also did not have a good internet resource. However, I was lucky to encounter a couple good nurses, who (on the sly) gave me great advice. I actually changed my own blood orders (they were on paper then) to finally get some answers. The best thing that happened was a nurse telling me about Armour Thyroid. And every doctor tried to stop me or talk me out of it. Also, years ago I started eating as much pastured, organic food as I could find or afford, and giving up grains and sugar. I am glad to see you two as great role models for healthy living.

[@scuzzbecuzz]

What an endearing tale!!! Thanks, watching this makes me miss my beloved wife who passed away in 2016.

[@cindynorris2750]

I love you two your relationship sounds so much like my hubby's and mine he was 17 and I was 14 when we got married we were also best friends growing up.we married 42 yrs ago and had 3 wonderful kids and we're still going strong. I love watching your videos.

[@debbiemarler8722]

16&17, head over heels in love... June 19,1981... Right in the beginning of the recession.... Hard years, glorious years and all the in between.

[@khaskin18]

I was also 14, he was 17! Met in '97, first baby in 2003, married in 2005 lol. Second and last baby in 2007. We like to do things out of order! LMBO! Cheers!

[@debbiemarler8722]

Congratulations!

[@epbassin5834]

I’m so glad I “refound” your channel❤️

[@stephaniedavis7033]

Totally love the share, yes - all men try to solve the problem for their mate, instead of just listening - which we are terrible at directly asking...and growing together is key, blessings always!

[@scrabb100]

LOVE LOVE LOVE IT! love ya guys from New Zealand ❤

[@PokerHillFarm]

Oh, no....I want to know about the "I thought we were dating"....Laughing so hard- ya'll are a hoot.

[@karenm5681]

Yes, seems like there could be a fun story behind that.

[@DanielRizza]

These stories are cool to hear.

[@jamieg.1392]

Justin, I hope you've had time to watch this video.It is so special the way Rebekah looks at you. And that smile. In all of your vlogs, I see her smile.But I only see this smile and her eyes light when she looks at you.This is exactly how I look at my husband.Twenty two years tomorrow and it seems like I married him yesterday. What we fight about? Nothing! We've had one argument 21 1/2 yrs ago. God bless and be safe.

[@TRuth.T]

They are sweet together :) I was best friends with my husband since I was 9. We have been together 45 yrs...

[@jamieg.1392]

@@TRuth.T Your life has been blessed.Congratulations on 45 years.That is amazing. My grandmother told all of us grandchildren, when you find the person you want to be with for the rest of your life...demand respect, only then will love follow. God bless you and your family.Have a Merry Christmas!

[@garysilver718]

You guys are taking me to far back. I’m 80yrs. old and my wife and I have been married for 52 yrs. and we had our own business. How time flys.

[@siege919]

Justin: shy, can't make friends Also Justin: talks to over half a million "friends" via video daily

[@mlm7598]

I am so enjoying this vlog as I do all of yours. We are married 53 years and were also high school sweethearts and I am glad to see the proof in the pudding that nothing much has changed....LOL You two are so genuinely cute and loving of each other. Even the old memories of "iffy" jealous moments looked like the memories hint a cord....so that means you all did care then and care now still. God bless and keep on doing what you are doing......You're so refreshing! Love this channel!

[@elisalsdb]

OMG! I was diagnosed with hyperthyroidism at 17, too! But mine evolved in about a month, lost 20kg in 15 days. Am 24 now and just got off the meds :D Feels like life is under control at last (as much as it can be, lol). They found out it was auto immune three years after I got sick, and then about three more to balance my system. It's cool to find other ppl who've been through something similar... Hope we can give hope to teens out there going through chronic illnesses, you guys will get better and learn to balance your needs and feel better. Love to you guys S2

[@keetrandling4530]

Justin, you said something there when you pointed out that not listening thoroughly enough is "a lot of guys' problem". I've heard that in talks on marriage at our congregation, as well as from the guy who wrote that book "Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus". And, Rebecca, "not speaking my needs" is a good point too! As young as y'all are, your good upbringing and your thoughtfulness, wisdom, and maturity are evident.

[@JesLovsu2]

We...my hubby and I have been married for 47 years. Started dating when I was 15 and half...he was 18 and half. We dated for 3 and half years and engaged for almost a year. So we grew up together also. Have 5 adult children and 11 grandchildren and one great grandchild! Born and live in northern California! We are city folks who would enjoy some country living! We are DIYers! Great stories. Thanks for sharing! Really enjoying the videos!

[@donnajakubos4249]

Loved this, we dated for two years but knew each for ten years. Married at 17(me), almost 18, he was 19. Totally agree about growing together. It's been 54 years and firmly think it's a 💯 💯 percent on both partners. It just gets better and better. Appreciate you both 💗

[@angelacartmel7577]

I absolutely love you two and your expanding family . I’m a true believer of fate and Karma and you have proved that in this video , fate that you met and Karma that life as got you to where you are now - along with hard work obviously . So glad I found you while in lockdown in the Uk last year and now you are my coffee video every single day before work - which is at home still as we are back in lockdown . I’ve taken tips for my vegetables and am happily growing my own , but most of all I just love following your family and can’t wait to meet Snowball. So basically thank you x

[@annibridgett9334]

Wow love hearing about you history. Just lovely.. very lucky that you found each other so young.🌺🤗👍🏻

[@tnwhitley]

Thank you for sharing your lives with us. You’ve got such a wonderful family.

[@frizzykk]

My husband of 50 years and I met at age 11 and were a couple since age 12. We worked out all those dumb issues by the time we were married age 19 and 20. Service in first two of marriage gone a lot didn’t help in some ways but made us appreciate each other. We are opposites and so different. But those differences have helped us. It’s ok to be different. But like you we grew up together. We learned how to work our differences out. We argue but never have had a huge blow out fight. Listening is key. One being an extrovert and one being an introvert was hard Is hard but loving the other person and caring more about them than yourself works for us. Appreciate you sharing your story.

[@jchny00]

I see so much stress in both of you sharing this. Wrinkles in your foreheads. I want to tell you both don't stress, we adore you both very much, please keep sharing.

[@angeltj6828]

Lovely stories . God bless your family.

[@HydeandSeekFamily]

And I actually found your channel googling videos on Laura Ingalls Wilder for my homeschool co-OP class that I teach. I found your video on her farm and I fell in love with you. We have 30 chickens. We aren't really homesteaders but I'm so fascinated!

[@Bex-rg8pj]

This perspective of your divorced family is very close to home. I’m older than you but can relate❤️

[@knitvids]

Luvin these vlogs and hoping you are having a great vacation.

[@twistedpost1066]

I enjoy all your videos. This video really made me think about my wife & Marriage. I dated my wife for 5 years. We fought over the most ridiculous things and i wondered everyday whether we would make it.. Thank God we did. Now we are definitely best friends and I am the luckiest man on the planet.

[@laurasimpson7211]

I love these stories! Thank you for sharing!

[@susanmorris9790]

I love the fact that you are Christians. Before I knew that I could tell. Bless you and your family. It’s so refreshing to see a good and wholesome relationship that defers to one another. Thank you!

[@joanneclayton3777]

You guys are amazing. I loved your story about meeting. So cute! I watch your channel everyday. Your kids are equally amazing. Such a credit to you both. Love from England x

[@flyingpigpreserve8562]

So cool to learn more about you all. Very interesting. Your Great people. God Bless and Peace Be With You All ☮️🙏 ❣️

[@paulrice1918]

I watch your videos and assume I know you two but after realizing the vlogs are only a snipit of your whole life I am so much more impressed with you two and I believe it is both of you being so open. I have been married for over 52 years and still cannot keep my mouth shut till she is done talking so I can figure out if it is just talk or asking for help. I also have realized that the two most important words in Marriage are " Yes Dear".

[@vickylynn5536]

I love this story. My brother is 47 years old and he married his kindergarten sweetheart. They have 2 boys that are over 20 and a cute lil boy that is 3. They are still going strong!

[@TheWickerShireProject]

Super sweet story. Who knew... thanks for sharing.

[@margaretbedwell58]

Very nice story guys. I think being friends first is the real key. Congratulations to you both. Have a Blessed day.

[@hearthandheritage]

Cannot wait for the next video as I am from Honduras! Now in Jersey but all my family is still in Honduras

[@pinkythechihuahua3156]

Excellent vlog! 😳 My (second) husband and I met on AOL in '97. We've been together ever since. We were way into adulthood at that point. Hubby is now 79 and I'm 63. Becky, I have had health struggles since I was in my very early 20s. Its always something, and I became disabled partially due to harsh treatment working for Wal Mart in the early 90s. I also have 4 kids, like you, 3 sons and one daughter. My daughter is about to bless me with my 11th grandbaby, a girl. I'm looking forward to your next vlog.

[@karenmerhalski9406]

My husband and I were HS sweethearts and this December we will be celebrating our 50th Wedding Anniversary. You two are soooo much like us! Love, Love your videos!

[@sandyoklahomatransient8557]

The two of you compliment one another. Being best friends before a marriage really makes the marriage.

[@theladyinblack3]

It is so fun to hear your story! Thanks for sharing with us! 💜💜

[@serling3520]

Love this episode. Such great guidance.

[@jenniferhuff2547]

I love getting to know you two. Not everyone grows up the same way. You both brought different aspects into the unity of your marriage and family. Have a wonderful family vacation.

[@meganmoreno5160]

I am also liking this series. I hope your family time is an awesome adventure

[@kellygreen8255]

Y’all are THE BEST! Thank you so much for answering my questions! You both are business geniuses! Running your own business while in college?!?! Blows my mind. What Ingenuity! Love this getting to know you better series. Thank you!

[@essserleem3254]

What a wonderful journey. Waiting for the next part eagerly

[@margaretpervier8357]

This is so much fun! I love starter stories. 😊❤️

[@hoppas77]

Love this series! Please do more in the future. I would love to know the history of your house, land, and Boots/family farming !

[@detectivedee3717]

This I so sweet you guys are so inspiring every day I think of my own homestead styled home that I am planning right here in Barbados with my son I have subscribed to this channel quite some time ago and I am always inspired. Keep at it RHODES you guys are great.

[@loriann2296]

Love this series! My husband and I started dating in high school too, got married after 5 years too, and have always said if we could do it all over we would’ve gotten married as soon as we turned 18 ❤️. We love watching you guys so much!

[@dianecharles881]

This was so awesome ! I Remember taking my son his high school graduation to look at UNCA , we thought it was beautiful , because we always loved the mountains. He changes his mind because NCState was so much closer to home in Eastern NC . He studied abroad after graduation there in Japan , and yes he ended up loving the mountains in Japan and has been there with his wife and new baby for 10 years now !j

[@agonz1438]

What a great couple! I love you guys! Loved coming home from work and enjoying my evening listening. Thank you

[@alinapatricia8639]

Counter culture - that right there pulls me all in. :-) Found you via another homestead couple - Ben & Meg. I enjoy watching you all. You all are very inspiring. I'm working on stabilizing my finances to be able to do what you're all doing. Maybe I'll move to North Carolina. I like Texas, Indiana, & South Carolina also. We shall see.

[@Princesshelyne]

I love this wonderful story. I am definitely hooked! More please✨

[@territn8871]

I enjoy this series! Thank you for taking time to walk us down memory lane!😊