What were we taught about intimacy?

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[@s.stevens4520]

19 kids means you’re permanently pregnant or in postpartum phases….For decades!! So you’re never your baseline self. I’ve had 2 kids back to back and that was 4 years of my life essentially. I can’t even begin to imagine the state of someone’s pelvic floor after 19 kids!!!

[@saintamerican6105]

Women are healthier after children if they dont eat a standard american diet

[@011001011101001]

​@@saintamerican6105 this has nothing to do with the health of your pelvic floor. Many of these women that have so many babies likely have uterine prolapse and bladder/bowel issues because our bodies are not intended to be pregnant all the time. Pregnancy is so much harder on the body than people realize

[@chelsead6054]

His family isn't Amish,(or Morman, or Catholic, lol) but my husband is the third of seven children. I once calculated it out, that my poor mother-in-law was either lactating or pregnant for eleven years through with the first 5! Then they had a short break before the last two. Sometimes nursing while pregnant. I've never asked her about that pelvic floor situation though.😅

[@caseytarnasky5224]

We bought an Amish home in the middle of a swartzentruber community. We have great relationships with them and everything you say is spot on from what we've have learned from them. So interesting to hear all of this on your side. I'm in awe of you. To leave the Amish, especially as a woman, has to be so extremely difficult. You are amazing!

[@BodilessVoice]

Amazing, she is!

[@harringt100]

Why would being a woman make it harder?

[@lizzieenswellness]

That is so awesome! Thank you :)

[@Emilaria]

I can't imagine growing up without my family and friends telling each other I love you or giving hugs.

[@reneemcgowan5684]

I didn't grow up Amish, but my family never told me that they loved me. I did get hugs once in a great while, and we did have a lot of fun together, and I sort of intrinsically knew that they loved me, but they never said the words until I was nearly an adult. It was nice to hear the words then, but it felt a little late. Now as a parent to three boys, I tell them I love them every day! And, they've gotten plenty of hugs growing up!

[@dragonite87]

My mum has a lot of personal trauma as a result of her mum never showing she cared about her. We're white Anglo Australian. And my grandmother was probably just really old school like that, because back in the day, people were just... emotionally repressed.

[@alexisoshea1692]

Right?! I tell my kid I love her and hug her like 10 times a day, and my family members always said “I love you” any time we said goodbye (just in case) or did something we were proud of

[@missjo2036]

Well if you were to grow up with parents not saying it then you really wouldn't know any different

[@personincognito3989]

​@reneemcgowan56 I also grew up in a home where there was no love or affection given to me. When my mom finally said that in my thirties, it felt very awkward.

[@researchotaku]

Still better than what (according to my mother) my great-grandmother told my grandmother on her wedding day (in late 1940s Ireland): "Mind yourself." That. Was. It.

[@ludmilamaiolini6811]

What is that even supposed to mean? 😅

[@fromspace7]

What does that even mean??

[@lizzieenswellness]

haha

[@grumpyoldlady_rants]

My paternal grandmother knew nothing about having a period. When she started menstruating, she panicked and thought she was going to bleed to death.

[@Masquaradethewriter]

​@grumpyoldlady_rants my paternal grandmother too. She thought her daddy chopped with the ax.

[@BodilessVoice]

The lack of hugs, lack of the phrase "I love you," is shocking. I am so, so sorry! Now, I can really understand why you left.

[@BlackSeranna]

I don’t think so. For Germans, hugs aren’t everything. I love you isn’t everything. But being used by men - that’s a different thing. She says she didn’t want to become a baby making machine. I understand this completely. I never wanted that life either.

[@UntotesSchaf]

While it's true that we Germans don't show so much private stuff and physical expressions in public, I wouldn't say that hugs are less important. At least not between your own walls.

[@britpoppansy]

I have a lot of respect that such a young teenage girl like you knew what she wanted and didn't want and she made her choice. Knowing almost nothing of the outside English world. She just decided to take that leap of Faith! And look at you now!

[@lizzieenswellness]

😊 thank you

[@considerthebirds]

You’re always so balanced and sweet about the culture and your family when explaining your experiences. I am with you, it couldn’t be for me either. I have 4 kids but I tell them I love them multiple times a day and hug them all the time too, if I had 10 or 19 it would be so hard to give them each the attention I feel led to. And I’m sure you know it but it always is worth hearing that you are worthy of hugs and “I love you’s”!

[@lizzieenswellness]

Thank you !

[@mary-car]

@@lizzieenswellness I agree. I tell my husband ILY multiple times a day. Same with sons. You are such a sweet and well rounded person so some of that may be from your upbringing but so strong and brave to say “I don’t want to live that way” Our Heavenly Father sees you and you are WONDERFUL. I also appreciate that you don’t “bash” your Amish roots but explain them very “matter of a factly”

[@mibli2935]

I hope the subject of this video allows me to ask the following questions: 1. If Swartzentruber Amish today put such a high value of many kids in the family - how do they treat women that are naturally infertile? 2. If a woman does not want kids - is it a shameful confession that the bride-to-be makes to her family prior to start the dating season or the Amish society allows a room for such position? 3. Is it possible for both young man and young woman to agree in advance that they just don't want kids?

[@rodeleon2875]

not amish but my mother was PA dutch and my dad had been church of the brethern. no affection, no hugs, no i love you's, none of it the whole time i was growing up. i made sure to not be that way with my kids.

[@reneemcgowan5684]

Very relatable! My grandfather was Pennsylvania Dutch, and so my father didn't grow up in an affectionate family, and therefore didn't really show very much affection for us as well. I am very different with my boys!

[@personincognito3989]

It's so strange that some religious communities do this because the Bible talks about natural affection. So it's truly a game what the bible says. Us pentecostals are the opposite. What's of love and lots of hugs.

[@kray3883]

All the pins in the dresses begin to make sense...

[@moongoddess1978]

Yeah, that sounds like German-American culture with an extra religious element to it. My Italian and Spanish friends were so affectionate and expressive. I liked it, but I also had to adjust to it. It was so new to me to be so emotionally expressive. Thanks for sharing!

[@saintamerican6105]

sounds wicked and I guarantee most of those expressive families had daughters pregnant before marriage!

[@AandM8]

@@saintamerican6105lmao. You must be quite sheltered.

[@dixielandfarm]

I just read a lot of the comments and wanted to offer a different perspective, and this is also probably related to geography and timeline. Born in the 70s, grew up in the 80s in the New York metro area; we were shown a film in fifth grade (mostly about puberty) and had a full semester sex ed class in eighth grade included topics about birth control, std, biology, etc. Also had full talks with my parents. I am a male, but this was the experience for any of the females I knew as well. Things got more repressed again as we went on into the 90s and onwards (in some regards).

[@hannahk1306]

This sounds similar to what we got in the UK in the 00s to 10s, except we had many sessions on top of generic science classes from year 4 (age 8-9) up until year 11 (age 15-16). We were never segregated and it was part of the national curriculum, so I know everyone would have been taught similar things. As part of her job, my friend teaches sexual health in a college (mostly ages 16-18). However, I'm not sure if this is just something her college does or if it's a government requirement now.

[@YasuTaniina]

I would literally die. I have really terrible pregnancies. I found out I have a chronic illness because the symptoms became intolerable during my pregnancies and I still have PTSD from the last one. I could totally do labor again, but I can't do another pregnancy. I love my kiddos very much, and I'd love to have a 4th, but I'm not about to sign up to be bedridden another 9 months. And it's wild to me that anyone could think that completely not talking about it could be healthy. I believe intimacy should be within a committed martial relationship, but withholding the knowledge just sets them up to either getting into a situation where instinct takes over or just plain being taken advantage of. And it should be introduced young. My dad was a leader of a congregation when I was a teenager, and the kids were facing things in school at so young, after he was asked to speak to the 10-12 year olds on chastity, it was so well received the parents asked him to talk to the 8-10 year olds too, because they were facing the same issues. There's such thing as an age appropriate sex education talk

[@JigglyPuff_JesusChristLovesYou]

I agree! Sex is between a husband and wife, but children need to know the facts! It can be very dangerous for a child to be uneducated, as he/she could easily be sexually abused.

[@davidthompson9191]

That is good advice to keep your clothes on. But I can see some explanation of why would be an important detail to include. Also affection and love is important to children and family.

[@hannahk1306]

It's rubbish advice, no matter your viewpoints on sex and relationships! It gives you absolutely no information or even proper "rules" to follow. Also, you can have sex or do other things without removing any clothes or even underwear, depending on the design. For example, split drawers used to be very popular under dresses to make it easier to go to the toilet without having to remove anything at all.

[@ddtex4954]

No I love you's, hugs, kisses--not even from moms, dads, grandparents? 😢 That sounds so miserable to me.

[@vp.vii4]

They live like people lived centuries ago. And that time express your emotions were not a basic thing

[@BlackSeranna]

Remember that they are descendants of Germans. I am a descendant of Germans, so we never got hugged, but sometimes I would get a peck on the cheek from my Mom if I had to go away for a long time. Sometimes there would be a hug too. You don’t really know what you’re missing when you are growing up. To this day I really don’t hug people. My kids got hugs but they feel so awkward and forced on my end. For them, it seems to come more naturally, and that’s okay to me.

[@personincognito3989]

To me it's like a form of abuse. No natural affection.

[@Magdalena-ow7gy]

I cannot Even Imagine not being affectionate with my children....Lots and Lots of huggiez and sugars😘😘🥰🥰🥰

[@lizzieenswellness]

same :)

[@Magdalene777]

I think it's amazing you were able to change your life so dramatically and become an independent person. That's not easy to do when you come from such a restrictive background.

[@alexisoshea1692]

You look so beautiful here, Lizzy. Just glowy and healthy and stylish… thanks for sharing about your life and Amish culture with us

[@arfriedman4577]

Im american and our dad never said i love you until much later in life. Our dad played with us and taught us things.

[@magiclarry7688]

Thank you for being open and honest about your lifestyle and sharing it with us who have no idea but may have questions. I think it might close the gap and make people like me more accepting of Amish as well as others who believe differently. I think you are providing an excellent service to mankind for sharing.

[@findyourpassion8722]

You are so sweet and beautiful and I like listening to your stories and life experiences. It’s amazing that you were able to recognize in such young age that life without emotions and affections is not for you.

[@RichSobocinski]

Keep your clothes on LOL. I grew up in a "typical" American suburban family. When I was getting ready to go out on my first date my dad came in my room to check if i was ready (he was going to drop me off). The only thing he told me was "Keep it in your pants." I wasn't really sure what it was I was keeping in my pants, but I told him "Ok."

[@hannahk1306]

The whole concept of "the talk" is so alien to me! Most basic sex ed is rolled up into our standard science curriculum in the UK and the rest is covered by ad-hoc SRE (Sex and Relationships Education) lessons at various ages, which also include things like puberty.

[@user-uk1tl4ct9y]

i totally understand how not receiving any kind of physical affection really bothered your and made it so you felt like you couldn't stay. It's a tough situation to be in. Obligatory "I'm not Amish, but..." my parents are the perfect northern german stereotype: talk very little, no physical affection, a bit rough, etc. After moving out and finding my own tribe I've had more hugs from friends, or even strangers at a concert or pride than I've had from them. It's upsetting to think about, so i usually try not to, especially since i feel like in society we don't really talk about intimacy outside of romantic relationships

[@BlackSeranna]

Really religious people don’t talk about sex. But if you grow up on a farm, you can figure it out (the big belly) because of farm animals. It’s not clear exactly how it works, but we knew when certain behaviors between animals happen, then what follows is babies.

[@eeddsdsd]

For guys it becomes very obvious, even if no one say anything.

[@cathylee799]

Your videos are always interesting but another reason this was interesting to me is that although we weren't Amish, we were dysfunctional catholics, I also had no hugs affection I love yous or sex ed. It really led to my demise in quite a few ways. You always seem healthy and happy. ❤

[@pkmcnett5649]

You were around farm animals, so something might have given a small reproduction clue. Still not enough, though.

[@nimuek3107]

This was my thought

[@sianmilne4879]

I might be remembering this wrong but on another channel (Cults to Consciousness), another Amish person said that they had come to the conclusion that people must breed like animals, having helped with the horses, and their parents straight up lied and said it was different!

[@lizzieenswellness]

we knew things but proper education was not there

[@t.n.1116]

That is how I learned about sex. The animals mated and they had babies. My mom tried to give me the talk multiple times by saying "you know how the chickens mate?" And I would flat out refuse to hear more. I didn't want to know from my mom. I stole a baby book from her and read it and that's how I learned

[@stylishranchgirl]

@@victordee2287you really shouldn’t repeat yourself over and over.

[@katemiller5990]

You didn’t get hugs or kisses or “I love you”??? 🥺🥺🥺 Man that must have been hard. I hope you’re getting all the love now 😊

[@marywambold2257]

I love watching your videos ❤. I have a question for you. What happens if you struggle with fertility issues and a couple who is married does not or cannot have children? Are they looked down upon in any way or do they believe that it is God’s way and his plan?

[@lizzieenswellness]

Tough one. I need to do a video on this.

[@Masquaradethewriter]

I know in the communities near me, adoption is common.

[@ezra4374]

That’s wild! 🤯

[@DavidLaFerney]

I wasn’t Amish, but my parents (or school) didn’t really tell me anything either.

[@Marinasliving]

Girl, I’m not Amish but I grew up with similar believers as you! And I’m from Ukraine! 😊

[@hollyhendershotsmith1679]

I can't imagine raising my children without telling and showing affection. I tell them i love them 1000x a day and hug and kiss them. It also makes even my 16 month old happy when she sees her dad and i being loving and affectionate with each other. Curious as to why they are like this? Is it religious or more cultural 🤔

[@vp.vii4]

Back than showing the emotions were not a basic thing. And they live like people lived centuries ago

[@mygoodlife204]

What do you expect from people who have celery as a centre piece at their weddings😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@t.n.1116]

It's cultural. Christianity if practiced correctly is a very loving religion 😊

[@hollyhendershotsmith1679]

@@mygoodlife204 😂😂

[@mariegro09]

It is a cultural thing. I'm from Northern Europe and my parents have never told me that they love me. I have no doubt they do but it is not really necessary for them to state it all the time. Why would they do that?

[@reddog6415]

Good advice

[@alanmckinnon6791]

19 children???? I can't comprehend

[@ktrayan1]

Did they kiss their babies/toddlers? I can’t physically stop myself from kissing and hugging my kids.

[@dennisdevore1648]

Your courage, Lizzie, is "over the top." I applaud you in your choice!!! Keep on telling your story! Perhaps you should be an educator in the Amish community. I pray God opens doors for you to do just that!

[@melb2734]

It's harder to find things out without the internet. Not amish. My dad wasn't the first to adopt new technology at home so no computer until 1999 when I was 19.

[@francescamonacelli1510]

Thank you for this very interesting video. I was also not taught at home but I knew how it goes p, more or less, through ,y friends. Then also watching movies gives you an idea. Now it is all more open and available everywhere. Even too much sometimes. Just one question: didn’t you notice that you mum was heavy and had a bump on her stomach? How comes you didn’t see that?

[@personincognito3989]

Super interesting, so how did you finally learn about it

[@chrisanderson9157]

Best advice ever, "Keep your clothes on."

[@tcm087]

Is it really what the other twin wanted or was she too afraid to take the leap-of the unknown? I would think leaving such a community would be easier with a sister. Obviously not. I find that interesting. Also terrifying it doesn’t sound like there’s any discussion of possible diseases. Really don’t understand why any woman would choose to remain in such a culture. It sounds like there are no incentives to stay. No education. No affection. Just duty. That’s not living to me. We humans find so many ways to make ourselves miserable on this planet. 🌎

[@alkittie8]

Wow, this makes us Catholics look liberal. We don't use birth control, but we are highly educated on our cycles, so I've been able to plan out my five kids with no accidents. I'm planning on teaching my four girls on their cycles as well. How did you treat PMS and PMDD? It's so important to understand your body!

[@AnnafromHungarylvNW]

Isn't that birth control though?

[@megan166]

​@AnnafromHungarylvNW The Catholic Church only cares about the kind of birth control that can interrupt God's will, aka anything unnatural. Tracking your natural cycles and even practicing abstinence are ways that you can naturally keep from being pregnant, but the assumption is that without the intervention of the pills, a woman would be impregnated from semen implanted during fertile periods. It couldn't happen without the aid of a drug, so it isn't part of God's design but man's. The human body was divinely designed, and therefore, the rules it naturally operates under count as part of God's will.

[@songsthatarecatchy]

​@@AnnafromHungarylvNWsure is.

[@songsthatarecatchy]

Five kids. Fk why don't you have ten more. 😂

[@tommyt8998]

You can't possibly believe Catholics don't use birth control! The clerics preach such things, but most Catholics hardly take them seriously

[@dragonite87]

This is probably more or less what it was like in the 19th century. Different times.

[@davep6977]

BTW- really like your "series"

[@mediocreman2]

Congratulations to your sister! Sounds like she's living close with God

[@joed-9940]

Im a hillbilly from ky 53 years old thats kinda what my dad said he said keep it in your pants 😂

[@joeysfather2723]

“Baby making machine” 😂

[@308dad8]

I can’t imagine life without hugs or verbal expressions of affection from parents and children or your spouse. What a dry flavorless life it must be.

[@brendareynolds7249]

Hi Lizzie! Just came across your videos. Thank you so much for sharing. Just wondered, did you marry after you left and if so, are you still married?

[@brunobandiera2062]

I'm assuming this was a rural community, did kids not get a sort of an inkling of what went on just from observing the arm animals ?

[@lydiasargent1322]

How was neurodiversity or disability handled in your community? Like children or adults with ADHD, autism, delays, speech delays, physical disabilities?

[@vtwinflyer4215]

If I could give you a real hug I would, so this virtual one will have to do 🤗

[@sarahe7515]

There is probably a video about this and probably not so common but how would they react to a pregnancy outside of wedlock?

[@wyatt12358]

WATCHED THE FARM ANIMALS.

[@NimbusNotebook]

Very impressive to have 10 kids - or 19 kids, so much work for the woman's body, I doubt that they had the chance to recover from pregnancy and giving birth in between. Your body will be broken at 40. 😮

[@maryashleyvance3173]

To be fair, it’s hard to get pregnant with your clothes on. So that’s very practical advice.

[@stonetemple108]

Very close to inconceivable to me, that there's a young woman, your age, your twin, who has already churned out 10 children. Math dictates that she has spent the last 12 or so years of her life being pregnant. Truly highlights what you mean when you say "Baby making machine".

[@slouberiee]

Well, I don't want to be improper, but even when you keep your clothes on, you can still do ehm... especially if you wear skirt and probably bloomers...

[@Jerry-kg3te]

Lol I have a hard time thinking!!!! You are a beautiful woman 😍😍😍

[@deanhockenberry9268]

Beats my mother saying, “don’t go using your fishing pole without a license”.

[@breitfart5285]

So how did you learn about hugs? Are small children cuddled?

[@Congiary]

I'd love to know how you realized affection was something that you were missing, and I'd ESPECIALLY love to know the kinds of things that Amish teens find worthy of gossip.

[@sarahmonte1069]

Are there ever accidental teen pregnancies? If so, what is the protocol?

[@6548ww]

You are very beautiful 🥰

[@mindihunt1930]

What were you told about menstruation? Did you have any warning it was going to happen, and did you know what it was/ its relation to reproduction?

[@vanpenguin22]

How common in that culture are wedding night conceptions?

[@oldasyouromens]

Humans, to be humans, need touch. Children don't grow up right without the affection of their parents. That child's mind is cooking - hugging and kissing and play and all the touch that happens with kids teaches them how to regulate their nerves and hormones in their brain when they feel different things.

[@MadameSarah]

So what are the younger kids being told when they ask where babies come from/how they are created??

[@melb2734]

Not Amish but my mom told me when I was little that babies come from Heaven and they prayed for me. When I was older, she finally had to explain more. 😂

[@lizzieenswellness]

we got told one time that they come from the dollar store lol

[@BusyBrainyBody]

19 kids 😮😳😲

[@AandM8]

Genuine question. You said there were no hugs or I love yous. But like, how does a mom, holding their newborn or infant, not just eat their cheeks 😅 as a mom, I have such an urge to bury my face in my baby’s cheeks and pretend to eat his toes and give him all the love. Most people have that urge with babies. How do these mom’s resist?? Maybe they don’t and at a certain age they just stop giving that love and affection? I can’t imagine it.

[@liannapfister8255]

Ok but _how do you not notice your mother being pregnant?_ I was reading a book set decades ago & couldn’t wrap my head around it. Do you just…never see your mother? Is it normal to never see your mother? It’s pretty rare for there to be no bump.

[@colleenmarin8907]

No one should be forced to breed

[@insulaarachnid]

I would think that living a rural life around livestock would mean there was some idea about reproduction.

[@dougalexander7204]

I was brought up in the first Baptist bar and grill. Could roll a cigarette in the back of a pick-up truck going down the road at 14.

[@ebl36]

What happens to unmarried pregnant women? Do the Amish have a lot of shotgun weddings as a result? (And if so, does everyone know it’s a shotgun wedding) or are the women shunned so badly that they leave the community?

[@bearswartz2907]

I know 20 years ago when I lived there, the Amish had their own abortion clinic in Gap, PA. That was how the Amish in Lancaster County handled it. Girls getting pregnant before marriage was unheard of, or at least never spoken of.

[@randaldavid7685]

10 kids and counting. Based on your age, and the fact that she is your twin, she's good for another 10 or 12

[@LisaApril]

I really wonder when you go to visit your mother how do you dress? What do you guys talk about do you let her know the businesses you have? Do you show her how you're thriving in the modern world or do you go to visit her in your old Amish dress? No disrespect to you I'm just very curious on how you approach your mother when you visit her. Love your channel❤

[@mardigrasqueenofthesouth8847]

jeez growing up around farm animals I figured it out lol

[@kelsiewilson]

Ten kids huh? I think your sister figured things out. 😊

[@Scl45689]

What about your period? Do girls learn about getting their periods?

[@niagara6015]

There is a video on that topic that was uploaded yesterday.

[@Braddurs]

Nineteen children?!

[@dennisdevore1648]

Also, you do not look old enough to have ten children. Your twin sister must be quite an amazing mother!

[@thisplaceisazoo]

You are a gem! I'm so glad you got free of that controlling, unloving lifestyle. Jesus came that we might have life, not man made rules and regulations.

[@cesarcesar5129]

Doesn’t seem too far off from non Amish communities.

[@dennisdevore1648]

Ok, Lizzie, question: are you married to your son's father? Why or why not? You have shown them both in your vids, tho minimally. No doubt you are proud of them, so why not expand on that fact?

[@AHS1984]

A man told me one time if you’re having sex and you leave your socks on, you’re not completely naked 🤣🤣

[@paulabroadway1697]

So children didn't see how things happen with farm animals? Most all families I know who raise animals have children who understand how the conception and birth of new baby animals happen, even at a rather young age. 🤔

[@lshulman58]

How can a kid not know that their mother is going to have a baby? Don't you see your mom's belly getting fat? At what point in age do you begin to make the connection between "mom is getting fat, I hear a new baby crying, now mom is thin again" and "oh, getting fat = going to have a baby"? I get that you would not know HOW the mom gets pregnant but to not realize at some point, over a nine month time span, that "oh, mom is going to have another baby"? Does the mom wear bulky clothing to hide the pregnancy?

[@scottschultz2001]

Well keep your clothes on might mot work because they could just flip their dress ip i dont think they wear underwear

[@Shan-ShanH]

If you guys only brushed your teeth and bathed once a week, I’m surprised there WAS any intimacy!🤢

[@quinoasongs2507]

so there was no touching anything once a kid no longer needed to be held? Oh right, there were spankings but no hugs. The only touching was to grab you for the woodshed? Oh yes, that's right, only "the strap" was used. Gotta find a Canadian Amish KZbinr to answer the next questions.

[@hammerbro2125]

Did she say she was Amish? Wouldn't it be Mennonite? 🤔🤔

[@Anagrams458]

Amish. Even conservative Mennonites are less harsh.

[@hammerbro2125]

@@Anagrams458 Doesn't make any sense to me ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

[@domading2759]

Be fruitful and multiply...it is commanded

[@lizzieenswellness]

lol

[@herlastvoyage]

That command was issued twice in the Bible: right after creation and right after the flood. At both of these times there were very few people on earth. We have eight billion now. It needs to be kept in context.

[@domading2759]

You seem to have really moved away from biblical teachings and fundamentals.. I can understand not wanting to be Amish anymore but the truth in the word of God doesn't change just because your not whipping a horse to church anymore..

[@OldFart2023]

10 kids....is that what she wanted or is that what her husband told her she wants?

[@markflick1641]

Never told I love you buy her parents ? Sad

[@michellelyman7092]

you surely saw farm animals procreate though right?

[@kelsiewilson]

Lots of things can happen with your clothes still on. Lol😮

[@saintamerican6105]

I love how your parents kept your minds pure but i might probably tell my children that - God gave us a child, and now mommy is pregnant!

[@saintamerican6105]

And im super affectionate so i will continue hugging my children all throughout their lives and i will stop kissing them on the forehead NEVER either ❤️

[@barbaradavis4919]

Ohhh Sad to not be hugged and told you're loved 10+ kids? doesnt your god love abstinence, too?