WHAT WOMEN WISH MEN KNEW | South African Youtube Couple

[@ThandazaMK]

I honestly love the way you guys communicate. You bring such a different energy to Black Love ....Christian Love on YT.

[@TheMakhs]

Thank you so much for the affirmation ❤️🙏🏾

[@hlalewisdomthoabala1639]

Seconded 💛

[@senelisontsele1046]

I really wish this was on Mzansi Screens...alot of marriages could be enhanced or saved. Im new here but im really happy to be part of the family

[@TheMakhs]

This is such a great compliment. Thank you. We are really trusting that the message will reach people who need to hear it, at the right time❤️🙌🏾

[@zandilembatha1297]

I a totally agree with you. I have seen some of the programs on TV covering such topics. However, it hasn't been as true as The Makhs..

[@elizabethletsoso2558]

@@CbosEasyRecipes7 Totally agree too 💯

[@peshig7329]

The moment when Loreto said 'No I dont wanna live without you..forget it'. Wow!!!! Thats deep love

[@nomsa06]

No truer comment has been posted.

[@tokolohomokale354]

As black men we have a lot of unlearning to do and equally a lot of learning to do regarding our perception of marriage and relationships. I really love and appreciate you guys. This is beautiful ❤️

[@TheMakhs]

As women we are so grateful for men who have a teachable spirit! That goes a looong way. Thank you so much for the feedback. We appreciate it so much❤️

[@keneilwemosetlhi3444]

One of the most honest statements... I felt this ❤️💕

[@pascollcampbell7580]

You guys teaching me a lot!!!!! I’ve got to respond to this caption..Looking back, I’ve failed some what..... Money alone is not the answer.....I like this forum!!!!!

[@pusetsomoshapo]

Just a 17 year old taking notes❤️❤️❤️I love you guys😍😊

[@TheMakhs]

Oh wow! This is so precious! ❤️❤️.

[@bitzgracia8834]

🤘

[@adeltaupshur1403]

You guys are amazing. I have been married for30 years and I am learning so much from this conversation.

[@lindiwetsope919]

Recently started watching you guys and I can't stop! Lovely, wholesome, honest, and exemplary. Really enjoying your content. Thank you for sharing yourselves!

[@Bravva_01]

Omg! The part where she defined romance as having dinner cooked and the house clean, topped it for me mehn... I cant forget that too

[@mulaloratsiku6533]

Yes that's romans. I never thought I could gain weight but lockdown level 5 2020 proved me wrong. Hubby was cooking nice romantic lunches every single day for me and the kids. I gained so much in a short period of time and my daughter also gained a lot and she only 9 but wearing 14/15. But I am happy because we didn't gain through stress but by being spoiled. 🤣🤣

[@sophyledwaba3696]

I relate so much when you say a "clean house and a cooked meal after a long day at work is absolute romance".

[@olwethuntwana2514]

I really love the honesty in your conversations❤️❤️❤️

[@TheMakhs]

❤️❤️❤️

[@terciamnisi7130]

Im so in-love with this chanel .I feel all couples should have this talks it makes it so much easier. transparency, communication and love becomes easier.

[@madampraises4450]

The honesty that comes with this channel!! I Stan!! 🙌❤️

[@TheMakhs]

Aaaah thank you so much! ❤️❤️🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@gkhumalo5343]

I recently got out of a vat n sit situation and on my side, Lerato articulated my "grievances" with so much precision. I find comfort in knowing that there are other men that are from Mars, just like me. Keep going, this is solid.

[@tjaritjehange1435]

This was hardest of all the clips, with that being said. I totally agree with both side point of view. Truly we can’t live without each other, still we must learn to understand each other. I’m an artist and I believe that it’s hard to be understood 😂. Keep up good work and we learn as we go!

[@MsDori]

I discovered this channel yesterday and I'm hooked. 🌻

[@Dimakatsomonaheng]

Ausi Phetolo is so elegant and well spoken. I love how you guys communicate with each other. Love the channel.

[@victoriazhanje5048]

Your strength is u listen to each other and u learn from each other 😍

[@thobelankwali1185]

Love the backround sound, honestly makes it much more nicer, no echo etc.. The content hayke, too good.. To 10K

[@LM-he7eb]

I do think we as women want things done OUR way. And we’ve convinced OURSELVES that our way is the right way. And it’s not.

[@veedunge8133]

you guys have such calm spirits...i could watch you all day...i simply just love you. keep being you...

[@markuskiefer4625]

Thank you for the subtitles 🤣🙏 Thato has been translating for me 🤣

[@TheMakhs]

We got you Markus!!🤣🤣. How awesome is Thato!?🤗🤗❤️❤️. Thank you both for watching🤗🤗

[@jennybrown1570]

That was intense, I went through so much emotions listening...it was triggering. Thank you once again for the installment.

[@TheMakhs]

Thank you so much for watching❤️❤️

[@Samantha-bc2uu]

My gosh, the consistency! I love it!

[@TheMakhs]

💃🏿💃🏿🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾❤️❤️

[@vusumzingceke6518]

You are so blessed to have such a wonderful wife. Because I know how uncomfortable communication is, this is the only way she will get the best out of you. She is doing a great job

[@peterntamu9723]

What you do is a kingdom thing. A pray that one day you will have a series on mzanzi TV and have couples call to comment./ seek counsel. This is bigger than you could imagine. Launch into the deep for a great catch. This is one of the most transformative session for me. This is life long learning.

[@Mano-k7c]

The energy in this channel though🙇🏾‍♂️🙇🏾‍♂️

[@frankieclo9841]

New subbie here!!! Love the convo! You guys are beautiful!!!

[@wewemhlaba7593]

My heart when I get a notification😍My couple

[@TheMakhs]

Aaaah!! Thank you so much Wewe . We don’t take for granted that you keep coming back❤️🤗

[@wewemhlaba7593]

@@TheMakhs I love you guys one day I want to come back and watch with my husband(well still praying for one☺) such inspirational content

[@célissa7494]

I don't speak nor understand your native language but please, never stop inserting it in your videos. It's something else, my goodness, I'm in love with it!

[@thembangwenya7563]

I have no words but i love where this drove to! You guys tapped into profound relationships challenges. Thank you, my perspective is blessed.

[@TheMakhs]

Thank you so much for watching🤗❤️

[@oyefusisalome2125]

Awwww, I’m learning ahead of time and I’m grateful for this. “Communication is 🔑 “

[@normadlamini2797]

This channel makes me fall for my man everyday.

[@zikomokaliwo4977]

If only it were possible to like your videos a million times, I would take a day off just to like your videos...You two are amazing.i love the healthy communication..May the Lord bless your family

[@olwethuntwana2514]

They don’t want to burden us and they don’t want to put so much stress on us. Thank you guys for sharing.

[@natzg]

Number 1 for me!!! I can't get enough of your content. Absolutely love your realness and your transparency.

[@refiloepeu961]

Therapy and coaching should be a staple in ALL relationships, and also as n individual

[@keneilwemmushi4692]

I share the same sentiment with Pheto on romance and I also agree with the both of you on the fact that romance means different things to different people thats why it"s important to get to know your partner "date out of the bedroom" over time. On a different note I think behavioral & neuro- psychology be part of courtship as it plays a vital role in understanding some of the basic/general differences between men and women like men are visual beings while women are emotional beings, and that most women are system thinkers (pedantic) while most men are concerned with the bigger picture because of neurological reasons!

[@itumelenglegodi978]

How you spoke about the honesty part neh is a whole new revelation 🙌👌....this is beautiful 🤍

[@TheMakhs]

Aaah thank you so much for watching❤️❤️🤗🤗

[@pelagiamatlala647]

Consistency and honesty are key in any relationship. Thank you for breaking it down so we better understand one another. Love u guys💖

[@TheMakhs]

Thank you so much for watching! We appreciate your constant love and support❤️❤️😘😘

[@mabatoo]

This was a courageous conversation. I think you guys are a funnel so that God can talk to his people. I am a fan of your work. This is marriage, the happy marriage is exactly this uncomfortable conversation. 🤩

[@RatoM.Official]

I'm returning to this video for the 2nd time cause I had a fallout with my boyfriend. The thing of retreating when facing problems, plus the consistency one 😌. I was convinced that I'm ending the relationship but I know he's a gentleman & has never given me reasons to doubt him.

[@reoshadi9186]

Oh my gosh, first video of you guys and your love language and communication... yum, dear future love... God bless your union and family. Thank you for this.

[@Miss_Phendu]

I immediately download, even when I end up watching it later. I cannot afford to miss these conversations, thank you Fam❤

[@kgotsoseleke1393]

Much love. normally if a video goes over 15 minutes I lose interest, but with you guys its different. in fact the longer it takes I know some good nugget will be coming my way. In telling your story, you combine wisdom and laughter. You even tackle both your weaknesses with grace. Just the gestures alone from 34:04 communicated your point perfectly ( even muted it there, and still got you perfectly). Great communicator.

[@TheAdedolapo.]

I love how you both know each other and communicate so well. There's a lot to learn from this conversation

[@auspiciouafanafana505]

Thanks a lot guys, I just started watching your videos last week, I am learning a lot, you guys are very realistic

[@mphov3508]

Lerato you said we should let you know how you did... Here's my perspective - It sounded like you were politely defending and giving reasons why you can't change, which mostly seemed to revolve around what Phetola must do or change in order for you to change, rather than you acknowledging and looking within yourself on how you can change on the 5 issues that Phetola raised. But I really found your explanations enlightening, there are different perspectives on a matter. That's my point of view.

[@keaolebogakgotlaebonywe6754]

um here for the vulnerable conversations!soo good!!I can relate with y'all in so many levels.thank you for the consistency and authenticity

[@TheMakhs]

Thank you so much for your kind words! We appreciate you so much❤️❤️

[@khutso_kekana]

Subscribed today and already on my third video. You guys are a vibe. Appreciate you

[@TheMakhs]

Wabona wena Khutso!🙌🏾🙌🏾 . Thank you so much🙌🏾🤗

[@allisonnelson700]

Me too

[@kristieantoine6859]

Just got here. And I had no choice but to continue watching...I love that y'all keep God first in everything! So beautiful..Black love

[@abundantlyambroise]

New subscriber! ❤️ I greatly appreciate the examples and the transparency that you both bring to the table. It really helps me to identify with myself.

[@thebtalk4391]

I think as men we have been taught about purpose, vision and plans and we grow up thinking we need to have a plan or a solution for everything. Should a time come that you don’t know it’s really a difficult place to be in because women look to you for direction. Thank you for bringing this to life. We don’t always have the answers.

[@TheMakhs]

🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@marthaabei2077]

Wow, your husband is very smarth and very intelligent the way his speak . He is very honest to deffentiate his personal opinion from general opinions. So beautiful the way you address each other. God is really the head of your marriage. Love you guys.

[@tellitstraight]

this was so tense 😂 but it was interesting to hear the guys point of view. I love vulnerability from a guy, I like to make him feel like he can trust me while I encourage him.

[@caroribs3834]

Lol I died when Lerato looked at his 6 pack.I love you the Makhs. Aus Pheto you are the best.

[@StitchedandStyledbyZo]

Such a treat ❤️ Thank you for your authenticity. Thank you for schooling and grounding us through sharing your experiences so generously... Much appreciated 💕💕

[@TheMakhs]

Thank you so much for journeying with us. We appreciate you so much❤️

[@esthermoabi5082]

1st time commenting, but hey Phetola is me, i am her🥰

[@RefilweMekgoe18]

I see the channel is growing yippie. 💃💃 Anyway, I share the same sentiments with you Phetola from no.1 to 5, I swear these men were cut from the same cloth. I always say the same thing to my husband, to a point where I annoy myself, so so draining. As for opening up, we've come a long a way, I see a lot of improvement. Communication is really the key

[@nosizodlamini7127]

Guys where have you been??I only discovered you last week,I've been hooked ever since.Love,love you. Pheto an extra ordinare virtous woman,Lerato a leader with a great vision and wisdom.You guys rock!!Believers keeping it real ❤❤👑👑

[@keneilwemmushi4692]

Your content is deep, very insightful!

[@VhugalaHaweM]

MY WEEKLY PILL

[@TheMakhs]

Aaaah!!! This is so special❤️❤️. Thank you🙏🏾

[@patrickkeabetse3282]

YOOOO Phetola is beautiful, the proportion of her heard is everything, Mr Lee you are blessed your wife is quality , her aura and authenticity set her apart, she is indeed pulchritude

[@ingavika9383]

I am also a lover of the little things YHO! Just bring me back my favorite chocolate and I’m a gone girl. On a serious note - the conversations you guys are having are transformational! You’ve created such a beautiful, vulnerable and necessary space for love ❤️ you two have made a little less scared of marriage & hopeful!!! I can see two willing humans can make it work. Qhubekani! Continue!

[@TheMakhs]

IT’s THE LITTLE THINGS!!! ❤️❤️❤️ Thank you for your kind words and affirmation. We aspire to inspire the possibility of good marriages in 2020...

[@leratonkatswang9306]

Mr Makhs is on point, my boyfriend has been saying this to me but he explained it beautifully and more clearly. Thank you

[@TheMakhs]

As women, we are taking notes🙏🏾🙏🏾❤️❤️

[@mrspboledi]

“Is it me”😂 I’m so much like Phetola 🙈

[@sarauganda6728]

l just love the way u open up ur lives mostly when u reference to ur own lives. love u family

[@cazembedwyer4147]

I LOVE the part about wanting to be "perceived" that is so huge. It's like you don't want a mind reader, you just want awareness

[@desireepetersen2824]

I have 3 boys and a husband and I grew up with a brother as a sibling...the information is very helpful and informative

[@KamogeloB]

The way i love your jingle

[@TheMakhs]

The way we love you!❤️❤️

[@KamogeloB]

@@TheMakhs ke le rata self. I can so relate to your content. Keep it coming guys me I’m here for all of it

[@brigettebond6088]

Wow u guys are amazing the way u both communicate with each. There's a look lot I'm learning that I can also use in my marriage. One love ❤️💗💖

[@anelamagwaza5297]

I have really enjoyed this episode 😊. Thank you.

[@mphoseshibe]

Today I'm not first but atleast I'm part of the notification squad 🥳🥳🥳🥳🥰🥰🥰🥰💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽

[@TheMakhs]

Gang gang!! We appreciate you so much❤️❤️

[@baboloki]

Binge watching...love the content! So insightful

[@VhugalaHaweM]

When you can't stop watching because you got a shout out ! whooooooop!!!!!!!!!!!💃💃💃💃💛

[@TheMakhs]

💃🏿💃🏿💃🏿💃🏿💃🏿💃🏿we see you !!🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾❤️❤️

[@siamisangsia6840]

"Eh la re gafisa maan" that hit home 🏡

[@wandilekwanda541]

Notification gang

[@TheMakhs]

Gang gang!!❤️

[@celomanaba4414]

You guys are amazing! You've become my faves!

[@TheMakhs]

Yaaaay!!🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾 Thank you so much❤️❤️

[@allisonnelson700]

Am not a man but am like him when am going through a situation i retreat myself because i have to understand what am feeling for myself and understand it in order for me to even talk about it and when i do that i normally find a solution in the process then i talk about it . I really just think everyone handle problems different some people have to talk about it some don't .

[@lenahsoi966]

Lovely and honest conversation. God bless your marriage

[@ingavika9383]

“Not when we’ve gotten it wrong, but when we getting it right” !!!!!!!

[@TheMakhs]

🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

[@desireepetersen2824]

You guys are so cool and real..love listening to you..and there's always a smile cause I can relate😍

[@nthatilemathe91]

Kushushu apha yoh!!! But I guess uncomfortable conversations are exactly what we need

[@malebomash918]

“Life is but a dream”🎤🎤🎤🎤🎤 😂😂 aggg for me is the consistency and the authenticity y’all are so real man And fun...we really do appreciate your installments 🤗🤗🤗🌸😊😊🙏🙏

[@TheMakhs]

Aaah Malebo!! Thank you so much for your kinds words! We really appreciate you❤️

[@happymuller841]

5 months later si la📍I wisdom e la!👌love love love, you two!❤

[@Daya1828]

good plug for kirk franklin's rebirth album. I am also in the middle of fasting for a better meditation and prayer life on this very subject of receivership!

[@thulibotha769]

Whoop whoop consistency is on another level...love love you family ❤

[@TheMakhs]

🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾❤️❤️❤️. We love you!!

[@nellyphiri6001]

I love the content that you bring to your challenge❤️ It's really helpful ✨

[@charlesiaheard2639]

DEFINITELY CONSISTENCY AND HONESTY ARE BIG TO US!!!!

[@poetic_ayra]

💖💖💖I'm so in love with you guys. So this is the second video of you guys that I've watched and I'm learning so much more than the topic of the installment. Watching you is learning about communication everytime. You full of energy! You're so real! You have so much wisdom! May God continue to bless your marriage and with so much wisdom.

[@nozibuzematwa8689]

"motho akasebe spontenous mo life" that line just killed me😅😂😂 ao bathong mummy... Hotla loka mahn😄❤️

[@vickyratshefola7395]

Wow!!! "Being honest with yourself to the point where you allow yourself to be vulnerable to your partner" by Lerato 😍 ...so Profound

[@TheMakhs]

❤️❤️🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@cindyrella2620]

Number 4!!! 🔥🔥🔥

[@lebomuchmoney7886]

I love watching you guys. God bless this marriage 😍

[@teresiasyowai5156]

Learning a lot from you guys..God bless you!

[@siyamtolo6733]

Sho Lerato brought so much perspective hey. This is gonna help so many of us, esp me because I'm Pheto through and through🤣🤣🤣

[@TheMakhs]

Lerato is wise beyond his years❤️ You and Pheto🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@faithlivingwithSam]

Hey Siya funny when l saw this channel l thought of you❤

[@tandiswandungane4969]

This I need to share with my husband. I see me in your wife's behaviour . Everything I definatly feel the same. Maybe we share the same personality traits. I love you guys ❤❤❤

[@sarauganda6728]

great work family. thxs 4 ur sacrifice. watching fro oman but from uganda

[@likhonasibutha4691]

Guys my first time here , but let me tell you you were talking to me OMG thank you guys .

[@yolandafolotsi9998]

Love number 5, Pheto👌

[@zanelemadiba178]

Not me watching this after breaking up with someone who retreats when they’re processing 🙈 I’m really late on this channel but I’m here now and I’m binge watching everything 🤣

[@RatoM.Official]

I was about to break up because of that but I'm calmed down now 😂

[@zanelemadiba178]

@@RatoM.Official I’m glad the message reached you in time 🙌🏿🤣

[@thejourneywithtshire1664]

So, on point number 2 neh - I kinda agree le Abuti Lerato. My boyfriend always complains that I always focus on the small "unimportant" stuff and I'm CRAY! LOL!!!! Yoh!! WOW... I really really thank God for this...ka nnete... I'm grateful to God for you guys.. the timing is perfect for me especially where I'm at in my life and in my relationship... KEA LE LEBOGA THATA!!! LOVE YOU GUYS!!!!

[@TheMakhs]

🤣🤣🤣! We are not CRAY, they just don’t get us🤣🤣

[@thatorabatseta7578]

Learning so much from you two. Shuuuuu! Modimo a le lote 🌿

[@TheMakhs]

Re leboha hle 🥺❤️