What Would a Chinese Girl Do If She Catches Her Guy Cheating? - Intermediate Chinese

What are Chinese girls' opinions regarding cheating and being cheated on? Eileen hit the streets of Guangzhou to find out!
Questions asked:
1. What percentage of women cheat and why?
2. Emotional and physical cheating, which one is worse?
3. What’s considered cheating? Does going to prostitutes count?
4. If your partner cheated, what would you do?
5. If there were kids, would you stay in the marriage for their sake?
6.Would you beat the mistress?
7. Would you cheat in the future?
8. If your best friend cheated, what would you do?
9. Who faces greater social pressure due to cheating: men or women?
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[@asashoryuLapisphilosophorum]

better dont cheat........

[@reverseoblationrun]

"Men nvr sacrifice?" We gv money, loss money, she bcome rich

[@reverseoblationrun]

Female act like perv female who objectify male anatomy w her senses, play men sperm then act sweetly somehow nvr exist.

[@reverseoblationrun]

Asian female who love to objectified stranger male anatomy do numerous

[@liyongcheng6634]

恶心的话题来蹭流量的你们最坏

[@ericlu8089]

That older lady is the kind of person who just gets respect from the young adult crowd without expecting it.

[@middy774]

I could have listened for hours

[@jeffjohnson5053]

HA HA HA HA All these women makes me laugh so hard!!

[@biker944]

Cool

[@DarkKnghtZ]

That older lady is spot on in most of what she said. Shes got a realistic outlook on life and doesnt live in fairy land like some of the others who were interviewed.

[@mmmmmmmmmmm10]

Because she has a failed marriage so of course she has that outlook. I'd she's not divorced her husband and her don't like each other anymore at all.

[@jeffjohnson5053]

HA HA HA HA All these women makes me laugh so hard!!

[@luismvg11]

I agree with them. Cheating is terrible it doesn't matter the gender, just have a conversation or breakup. Don't be a garbage human being.

[@ferchulanderful]

man and woman are different, when man cheat, he only want sex, when woman cheat, she not only want sex, thats the difference, one man can pregnant hundred womans, a woman only can get pregnant one time for one men.

[@jaaptendijk7192]

It's not equal though, because men and women aren't equal. Men are biologically polygamous and women are biologically monogamous for preservation of the human race. And men have plenty of gender roles to fulfill and sexual exclusivity doesn't weigh as high on the priority list as it does for women.

[@aspiknf]

I agree wtih Imvg.

[@wiosna4]

@@jaaptendijk7192 sounds like fear of missing out which is greed

[@netnomad47]

@jaap ten dijk That doesn't mean you can just sleep around. If you want multiple women then marry those you want (who are willing) and provide for them all, including all the children you'll be having. Instead of pumping and dumping hoes and contributing to the moral collapse of society and fatherless children that grow up to be criminals.

[@calvinli9801]

I met a lot of (asian) women like these who say they will dump their boyfriend if they caught them cheating. But if their boyfriend is ridiculously handsome (Kpop standard), they would be total simps and forgive them endlessly. I've seen it happen way too many times.

[@robert9016]

I love this channel so much, not only is it a great resource for hearing how people speak in China but I also learn so much about social conventions from the questions you ask!!

[@jeffjohnson5053]

HA HA HA HA All these women makes me laugh so hard!!

[@notyoaveragesouthernmama5734]

That Dongbei woman is spitting straight facts!! Love her!

[@derekeano]

Eileen is such a good natural listener! Love her work!

[@nikaswords17]

the well-dressed elderly lady has very good and pretty realistic views on relationships and society, I wish I could listen to her more over a cup of tea :) also I want her advice, she's so elegant and graceful. She's a woman who gains respect from others easily, holds her head high and probably has many insightful stories to share ♥️

[@hbkowarhring9650]

Thanks for adding subtitles, It's so heart warming to listen Chinese language. I love it. ❤ This video is amazing hahahah

[@garywang4359]

I find it mildly amusing that despite almost all interviewees would concede that women now also cheat at a high rate, some even as high as 60% but none of them would ever cheat under any circumstance, ever. Also, despite seemingly rather negative views on cheating, many won’t hesitate in trying to helping their friend in covering up the act of cheating

[@iimmortalldreams]

For whatever reason the average person's idea of friendship is unquestioned loyalty with zero criticism. Those of us who want our friend to be better by giving them the truth and those who can accept that are a minority.

[@hyrenapth5583]

yes... convenience and politics plays a stronger role than morality. Morality usually alienate desire and instinct, both are a force of nature. Also, cheating is not a crime, it is different than covering up a murder. The path of peace and least effort is to just cover up your friend as either police or the cheated partner wont do anything against you despite your help.

[@mcb4067]

@@hyrenapth5583 China is a country where convivence is the most important value.

[@JaswantSingh-ym9zo]

Which goes to show that one has to take these interviews with a pinch of salt. If a woman believes 60% are cheating, chances are she and her friends are in that 60%.. And the truth is, they also think they can cheat but their partners shouldn't. They just never use the word "swingers" which in reality is what they are

[@madterps]

Modern 304s are everywhere so men got to be careful.

[@Azazel226]

Thanks for marking dialects or accents when they come up. It's a small thing, but it really adds flavor and context for non-native/non-mandarin speakers.

[@addielmartinez9120]

Thank you Eileen for this interview, this is very interesting and fun topic!!!

[@karogod]

I love street interviews! Thank you so much. It must be very time consumig. I would love to hear more street inerviews about current social problems, trending topics, lifestyle.

[@Jordan18561]

Thanks for the great content, Eileen!

[@benjamin3832]

Excellent video as always, great content and a lot of new vocabulary; Thanks a lot

[@stevendiep6053]

love the street interviews, please do more of these!

[@uluvmefaceit]

Great video as always, you never miss a beat

[@zandar3785]

Eileen老师，谢谢啊。你的视频都很有意思，还有很多有意思的意见。因为我每天看你的视频，我中文越来越好。

[@signupisannoying]

Very interesting topic and great subtitle for learning! Liked and subscribed. This is my new favorite chanel. Will watch everything. Thank you very much!!

[@freeman3467]

Thank you for this video! I really liked this.

[@tiihore]

哇，非常有意思的！So great to finally see people without masks on too - 更容易明白他们的说话哈哈！

[@colddiesel]

The older ladies talked a lot of sense. The young and very pretty lady who was cheated on twice in one year seemed rather naive, and perhaps the kind of woman cheating men prey upon.I hope she has better luck in future. If 30% of women cheat, at least one of the interviewees is a cheater, but that question was not asked!

[@bats9218]

another thing to note is how willingly the previous generations said the truth about cheating. there have been many cases where infidelity has only been found in the current generation's investigation of their family tree, which meant their ancestors weren't honest about cheating. everyone likes to think it's the current generation where sexuality is most expressed, and cheating has become the norm, etc, but in reality such practices have always existed for thousands of years. The difference is honesty

[@hdj81Vlimited]

they know they are probable not the child from the 2 parents, but from 2 different persons....... if 30% cheat.....

[@JohnBould]

谢谢Eileen, 这是非常有趣的视频。叫好儿！

[@StratosFair]

Now that's an interesting video topic ! Saving it for later :)

[@Angela-ty4ic]

super interesting video!!

[@williamdunn1000]

谢谢老师，做的非常好。我笑得不少 :)

[@DimitriMoreira]

"if you emotionally cheats just don't let me know" LOL 😆 Ma'am, if someone one emotionally cheats, there's no way back. It's already over.

[@lucapointcom]

希望 she sees this bro

[@dakotaxu4792]

Wow!!! Didn’t see it coming! When was this video made?! I’m going to study this one after I finish ‘Englishman Get’s His Green card’ which is another masterpiece from Mandarin Corner. SO MANY NEW WORDS……… !!! Excited 😊

[@ainaalberti3647]

that was a nice one!

[@user-ih6hj9pv3l]

great video!

[@TheGretaoto]

哇真厉害哦。谢谢您们！都问题真好哦，最近学习的很多哦。

[@jameslim3850]

There are many cases where the guy does everything for his wife, caring and spending a lot of attention towards her, but in the end she still CHEATS. so its an individual problem.

[@xiaoanchine]

The old lady really has a cool style ! I love her expressions, never heard such before... 对不？😁 Very enlightining video, you explored the topic deeply such as emotional vs physical cheating, who is taking the biggest blame, men or women... Please next video "What would a chinese guy do if he catches her girlfriend cheating?" 我很好奇😋！

[@neverlookbackson]

Self-control is something u learn to deal with in these types of situations based on the circumstances it could be way worst then just cheating considering what humans are capable of. Your own safety and health should be priorities over succumbing violence that lead to a further mess and an arrest warrant

[@rikibo861]

Nice work.

[@MotherNatureArmy]

love the video it makes me want to learn the language

[@rjkore5229]

Thank-you for interviewing the girl couple... love seeing diversity!!❤❤💪💪

[@siriosstar4789]

" Because there are too many scumbags " LOL 😂

[@milamila7145]

老师好！谢谢您的视频！ 一看到了通知就快去看！

[@daweitao2668]

Those are some depressing stats. Thanks for the interviews

[@sportshungers]

谢谢您老师 ！

[@Erik_Escriche]

谢谢！！！ 真的很有意思！

[@user-ks9fq2yp3o]

My faith in finding fidelity is dwindling fast.

[@williamrelue]

Holy shit ol aunty is spitting facts. She’s so well spoken and clever. Her mind is very sharp!

[@aciuschristophores7789]

This was BRILLIANT, I LOVED the amazing aunty at 6:00 hahahahahah

[@ranjeetpaswan5293]

So nice

[@kaydkaydkayd]

12:33 the sitting month comment took me out but shes so real for saying it

[@junssame]

i like this chennel thank uuuuu❤

[@4comment0nly76]

does the social pressure on women who cheat come from other women mainly, or society at large, or men?

[@user-zx2dc7jl1j]

这个视频真的很有意思，特别是那位东北阿姨，我觉得不仅她的东北腔有魔力，还有她的一些话和其他人不太一样，感觉我学到了什么。

[@mmmmmmmmmmm10]

12:15 and this is where the truth comes out. As long as the woman is taken care of financially so she doesn't have to work a day in her life, she will accept cheating as normal and it won't bother her. This here is the truest statement on this video. PS. I'm not red pill, I'm married with kids, and this is correct.

[@TheMancYank]

I’ve been married for 17 years. I told my Wife before we got married if I ever cheat on you never ever talk to me again. It’s over. The same to you. On the flip side men want sex way way way more than woman. It’s a fact. If your lady is not giving it up then it’s a problem. At least don’t shame him for looking at porn if you’re not putting out.

[@vijaymisra1833]

We missed the Men's reaction to these questions. It will be interesting to thing what do they think about it.

[@grainovsand3229]

太好啦，谢谢

[@MrDdz]

24:07 the girl on the left, such a dashing smile. I'm in love. Oops, I'm already married. That's emotionally cheating...

[@kaydkaydkayd]

21:14 this dramatic ass story ??? id kill to know the rest of it omg

[@jobslolo7387]

ahah that old lady shredding emperor babies personalities. i love it. roasted them so hard i laughed.

[@Jan-qf1nm]

非常有意思的视频！下次访问男人吧 :) 我对男女回答的差别很感兴趣 :D

[@user-yj7zn9vb1n]

看别人打拳确实挺有意思

[@sunrises5774]

She/he will not find out...first step of cheating....it's immoral...if u don't like ur partner...just simply breakup... don't chew out someone life and trust....truth will come out eventually....stay loyal or get break up..

[@teach-learn4078]

Interesting how articulate these people are, compared to interviews we see in English. Although, Eileen asks good questions that draw people out.

[@mcb4067]

Yes. i felt they were a lot more articulate than interviews you find in the west. so many chengyu were used and some very funny descriptive sentences. 都是綠帽子，都不分深淺的吧 “ 哈哈哈哈。but to me these topics show a poverty of values in China atm due to China's rapid development. 小三's, affairs due to living in different cities, how much money a woman could accept to give a blind eye, women being over-burdened.

[@laurencelebeustclair6844]

some people are dead straight and cheating would never enter their mind they are respectable people not like some who fall by the wayside

[@Keaixiaoen0919]

Listen I get wanting to stick with your friends but i dont know....yikes I have respect for those girls who would call out their friend that. The ones that would cover it up just seem like they would probably cheat, but wouldn't admit on camera.

[@spencer7404]

What does it have to do with whether she is Chinese or not?

[@laurencelebeustclair6844]

my question is would a Chinese woman cheat on her husband or boyfriend if he was a very good honest chap and correct thoughts ?

[@thomaslindvall7256]

The girl at 21:48 is spot on. The guy is to blame, not the mistress...

[@MikhailGoncharov-tl4cr]

I like to listen live speech of diffrent people/ thatk you

[@bboymart]

Dongbei accent is the best 还是东北话听起来最爽 呵呵

[@norbertmehring8662]

Cheating is always bad.

[@Inkbydaniel]

You should never marry a woman you can not devote your life to. People are jumping together too fast. Slow down and get to know him first.

[@best8840]

good

[@JMiles-kk7kl]

Forgive and move on

[@prestokrs1]

It didn't increase that much. They just felt they could be more honest.

[@jeremyxu8155]

中國女人通常有以下兩個解决方案: (1) 一刀兩斷; (2) 一刀兩斷 [The Chinese girl normally has the following two methods to deal with their cheating partner: (1) Cut it off once for all; (2) Cut it off once for all].

[@brooklynslider]

我觉得如果你要理解为什么人出轨你需要考虑一下结婚的压力。很多人结婚了太早了因为压力。其实他们不准备好了还是结婚一个不爱的人。 If you want to understand why people cheat you needed to consider the pressure to marry. Many people marry too young because of pressure or marry someone they dont love.

[@oscaka0073]

Note that perhaps the betrayed party (assuming they didn't cheat as well) , were also pressured into marriage and married young but chose not to cheat. What you're saying is simply an excuse that show the cheaters' flaws in their characters. GOOD people don't cheat !

[@emcgough]

Waiting for your next video when you ask the men these same questions

[@awzsdrcfgybhjimklp]

If I was a dictator of a country, I would make cheating punishable by up to a year in prison depending on how long the relationship was for and the emotional and financial impact it had.

[@stefanfreimuth7864]

Thank you for this impression out of the real life! I guess it's quite similar nowadays, no matter which country^^ There is always a bunch of good intentions and moral values, but in the end 30% still cheat^^ One of the reasons might also be, that it is hard to control emotions, especially coming up in the moment. It's also a different part of the brain giving in to temptation, not the rational one.

[@hanafidudy]

谢谢

[@Glaozed]

古诗云：“劝君莫借风流债，借得快时还得快；家中自有还债人，你想赖时她不赖。” 报应在下一代，是一代比一代人多的根本。

[@vihodanyet]

Wow the old lady is very very wise… she knew the psychology behind mothers boys cheating because they tend to be timid but also have high self esteem from their mothers love so they are likely to cheat as revenge on their partner. Also she has a perspective of understanding on emotional cheating because she is wise enough to know that humans crave love and affection and if they don’t receive respect and love in their relationship they will look elsewhere

[@feli1351]

I have never cheated on a woman but, I have been cheated on by my all of my exgirlfriends, I have a hard time trusting women, plus, I am a loyal guy and my woman has to be loyal 😢😅😊

[@vinniegillotti9347]

I’m glad to see that most would not tolerate cheating because these women need to know their worth and their value in a relationship and with out 100% trust and 100% communication. Honestly there is no relationship, plain and simple

[@clarissajp5603]

有很多中国男生在我国家工作，他们已经结婚了。他们的老婆是在中国，可是在印尼还有女友。也常常去按摩店。我不是想说中国男生是不好，可是这个是我自己的经验， 我用我眼睛看着。

[@MichaelGroenendijk]

Lots of words huh?! When she discovered cheating she get heavy emotional and want to kick ass. Solved!

[@MrRomanrin]

14:00 So sad that that girl had 2 cheaters! :( she looks so cute and nice :(

[@orvos1459]

Like a porcelain doll

[@yushakakarot150]

That says more about the girl than about the men, she herself clearly is a slut. That is because she keeps on chasing after handsome scumbag playboys who have like ten other girls chasing after him. She refuses to go after the boring guy even if he won't cheat on her. Studies have shown that women chase after the top 5% of the male population while men are far less picky. So when you have a dozen women chasing after one guy ofcourse he will pump n dump all of them.

[@jinsugarmjhopeking9908]

​@@yushakakarot150wtf

[@oscarl.3563]

Awful statistics, but that's how contemporary people live.

[@JaswantSingh-ym9zo]

Anyone who will help cover up their cheating friends don't believe in loyalty to one person. As they say, Birds of a feather......

[@mizzum478]

I think emotional cheating can be more difficult to overcome but I can forgive that because emotional cheating can creep on you. You become friends, you share stuff, you start to trust them and share more than your partner, and this may all happen before you even realize or accept you developed feelings for them. Physical - you KNOW what you are doing, you still choose to proceed to cheat.

[@themask4536]

肉體不出軌就好 精神出軌就表示他厭煩妳了 . 小姐 精神決定行為 . 精神不在了 他的吸引力就在別人身上了 這位小姐的未來 阿彌陀佛

[@karinaburgess3989]

Ok the girls at 12:04 i ship it she wasnt even listening to the question cuz she was distracted hahaahhah

[@Chanharp]

Well, world just goes to shit everywhere.

[@Busara001]

Same problems globally.

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[@Baby16982]

Guys who wanted to go to Guangdong to find a girlfriend after the video 🤡🤡🤡

[@simonchen5250]

me

[@xuerui]

The women are just asking for respect though.

[@Gloriosus]

I like Miss Aries ' opinions most. Shame I am too old...

[@malakatan3235]

It is sad Asian become more westernized, just remember dating/relationship men & women in west now screwed, don't follow their footsteps

[@vitocorleone8323]

​​​​@@malakatan3235 You think it was better before? I read a book by an American born in Fujian named John Caldwell into a missionary family. He learned Fujianese before he learned English. Fascinating book about life in China a hundred years ago and it was no picnic for women then either. Baby girls were left outside to die and would be eaten by animals at night just like in places like Pakistan where girls would be left out in the sun to die. At least Chinese women have rights today. Caldwell's book is called The China Coast family and you can still find it online.

[@roligue]

You're allowing ads on your videos now😢

[@virginiaperez-baez2445]

every women there are wise

[@dannylo5875]

I see a catfight with cats breaking out.

[@reeb3687]

girl with the short black hair really did a self report