What Would a Chinese Guy Do If He Catches His Girl Cheating? - Intermediate Chinese

What are Chinese guys' opinions regarding cheating and being cheated on? Eileen hit the streets of Ningbo find out!
Questions asked:
1.Why is Chinese cheating increasing?
2.What’s considered cheating?
3.Emotional and physical cheating, which one is worse?
4.If your partner cheated, what would you do?
5.If there were kids, would you stay in the marriage for their sake?
6.What would you do if you felt unhappy in your marriage?
7.Do you have friends who cheated?
8.Who’s more likely to cheat? Men or women?
9.If you caught your best friend’s partner cheating, what would you do?
10.Who faces greater social pressure due to cheating: men or women?
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[@joesantos3569]

您很厉害老师！。。您的视频非常有用的。谢谢您。

[@billyjuarez1579]

I would donate by bizum

[@PlutoTheGod]

I love how their REAL opinions about cheating only come out when they ask what happens if they themselves were cheated on, about half of them were very sympathetic about it until that was asked!

[@ClawDragoon]

I love the diversity of accents, diversity of oppinions. Great work Eileen!

[@user-cs1ft8fp5q]

First guy's pronunciation was so standard! Wish he was a teacher or KZbinr or something so I could shadow him.

[@yashmczikes5065]

absolutely love these street interviews

[@jennyjou]

I hope we all understand that there is no reason for cheating We can break up and move on

[@chrystels.1]

我真的不明白出轨的观念。如果你在关系上不满意的话那就分手呗。我可以理解你会爱上别的人所以那你应该做一个决定不是劈腿。我不推荐为了孩子忍住一个不幸福的婚姻。而且不幸福的夫妻是给孩子什么样的爱情标准呢？我没有婚姻答案但是已经结婚快三十年了。最后我想说的是：这个西方的open relationship就是炒作的。结婚之后很少见。

[@MandarinCorner2]

*Questions Asked:* 1.Why is Chinese cheating increasing? 2.What’s considered cheating? 3.Emotional and physical cheating, which one is worse? 4.If your partner cheated, what would you do? 5.If there were kids, would you stay in the marriage for their sake? 6.What would you do if you felt unhappy in your marriage? 7.Do you have friends who cheated? 8.Who’s more likely to cheat? Men or women? 9.If you caught your best friend’s partner cheating, what would you do? 10.Who faces greater social pressure due to cheating: men or women? *Learn real spoken Mandarin by listening to long conversations accompanied by full Hanzi, Pinyin, and English translations.*

[@quincy189]

8 and 10 woman

[@MissLizaYangonMyanmar]

Been following Eileen for years both on and off as .a paid subscriber. For me she has the best compelling comprehensible input around. You can learn everything here I feel just in these extremely interesting interviews. I lived nearly 7 years in Mainland China and they will give outsiders a true insight into how the real life is there. I still need help to access as my Chinese is still on the low side of intermediate. Learning Chinese is an emotional journey as it is so difficult there are times when you have just had enough! But I always come back as I know so much and I can't let it all just go to waste.

[@loussis8584]

I am positively surprised by the answers of the men (and young men) in this video! I found them all pretty open minded and respectful towards women in their speech! That’s refreshing to hear the points of view of « common » people in the streets, it makes you realize people are much more intelligent and wise than what the discourses on internet suggest (like hateful comments including misogyny or racism or else that we can find on every social media...) Thank you Eileen for your great work!! The subjects you pick are always so interesting! 🙏👍👍👍

[@Arcessitor]

What do you mean? Shouldn't everyone's reaction to cheating be overtly negative? Why would you be respectful to cheaters?

[@bryantgeorge4552]

we gotta get a Chinese Andrew Tate to put these men in place

[@loussis8584]

@Arcessitor No I don’t think the reaction to cheating should always be overly negative.

[@rokko_hates_japan]

@@loussis8584 why? you must have zero self-respect to have any acceptance of cheating.

[@fatisummer9106]

@@loussis8584 It's called "cheating" nothing about the word is positive let alone the action

[@magdolnavida2717]

The first guy was my favourite! ❤ I haven't read the comments ( just afterward and saw that others also mentioned him) but during the whole video I felt that he was speaking so clearly that if he hadn't spoken that fast, I could have understood him...was sooo nice to listen to him 😊 he really needs to teach speaking Mandarin somewhere! How can it be that someone in the street can speak so clearly?no accent...no mixing zh,sh,ch to z,s,c...Really beautiful...how did he do it? Thank you Eileen for your hard work! I really enjoy you vids, and although they are not my level, I do hope it can be helpful in some way for me...😊

[@xn1182]

Sounds like Siri of Chinese

[@mattl3023]

Listen on .75 speed.

[@youtuveunvideo]

It's interesting how the seemingly gay couple starts to talk about how China would not develop like the West because China... Well, China... And the interviewer immediately steps in and brings up Confucianism, to avoid some kind of more problematic political statements. I can't imagine how stressful it must be to live in an authoritarian country...

[@magdolnavida2717]

@@youtuveunvideo how is it related to my comment? Anyway, I don't agree with you...I do not think it's stressful to live in China... Just love China!😊

[@user-cs1ft8fp5q]

@@magdolnavida2717 you can love China and be able to understand it’s bad areas too. It’s definitely more stressful to not have freedom of speech and never be able to truly speak your mind if it goes against the government

[@dustedpinstripes]

Thank you Eileen! I love your content and I can't thank you enough ❤

[@ILTOMBA]

Great one again Eileen, keep them going!

[@KyurinDiary]

Very interesting one!!! 🎉 Thanks for the interview

[@goldreverre]

Some Chinese people think westerners are more "open" 开放 about marriage and relationships... It's actually not true. The vast majority are not so different from China. 开放关系 或者开放结婚 are a very small minority.

[@rokko_hates_japan]

it's the young idiots who are glued to ridiculous shows and social media that think being "open" is cool. anybody remotely mature or with half a brain realizes how retarded being "open" is.

[@PlutoTheGod]

I think in terms of sexual depravity Americans are probably more open, but in the real relationship aspect people in America are even less forgiving of cheating than they sound to be

[@zack2804]

@@PlutoTheGod The big difference is that in Chinese society, I imagine that cheating would be extremely looked down upon by society, even if it's increasing. Whereas in America, the reaction to being cheated on is more like "Oh well, shit happens".

[@silvervixen007]

Yeah I agree

[@RyabaaHD]

我认为出轨与开放没有关系

[@GenjiehInChina]

that one guy who said he wasn't born yet is so funny XD

[@lycan2494]

cringe pfp speed is a clown

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What Would a Chinese Girl Do If She Catches Her Guy Cheating? kzbin.info/www/bejne/a6myY6aFZ8uqnrM

[@gorkemmmmmt]

2:20 Eileen: 那你觉得有提升吗，就相比二十年前？ The kid: 二十年前我也没有出生，我也不好说 haha

[@iZenZation]

Very interesting, thank you!

[@kavinxavier4552]

Thank you Eileen!!

[@teresinharoberts6421]

Great video!

[@karimedinburgh]

Impresionante video amigo, haces videos tan maravillosos, gracias por compartir, que tengas un buen día, ¡mucho me gusta!

[@sallychen6864]

谢谢你！ 真棒👍

[@nguyenhoan9264]

我已经看了你所有的视频，谢谢你的频道

[@lelanieopo1920]

Very interesting video.

[@merveillemashinde39]

Nice one

[@user-ht3so9bi3f]

Is there anyway you could upload the subtitles to your video that are not hardcoded into the video. I use a software called "Migaku" to capture sections of videos on youtube for later review in Anki, but I can only capture the clip if the subtitle options are enabled. Thank you so much for producing these interesting videos! : )

[@aldrinpaulcarreon9983]

I dont think they may do that bec they offer paid subscriptions that includes the transcript of all of their videos. 😅

[@colombianaenchina]

Living in China my perseption was totally different before watching this interview , thanks so much please keep going, i want to learn more about CHINA and Chinese people

[@Erik_Escriche]

我真感谢！你的视频很好。

[@ranjeetpaswan5293]

Nice video

[@okmoonshapedlimb1505]

Thank u ❤ :)

[@lonelyoldfathomelessbum]

谢谢您

[@iseeflowers]

Oh wow, you interviewed some older guys. Interesting to get the opinions of different age ranges.

[@jalexsilva8162]

A lot of times in this vídeo, some people say some words that are a bit different from the Pinyin, and also they often don't say the proper tones. I wonder if in Chinese we have to be so strict with pronunciation

[@Purpleeyesify]

In China. Mandarin is the official language that makes Chinese from different origins being able to communicate and understand government policies. People most people speak dialect with others from the same region. So most people have accent when speaking Mandarin. For Mandarin learners, I think that it’s better to be strict with properly pronunciation, that makes it easy for Chinese to understand you even though they do have accent.

[@alexandreperez5170]

Feels reassuring to hear the guy in jean jacket. Sould be in a radio station or a podcast.

[@Erik_Escriche]

第一个说话的男人真棒👌🔥🔥

[@winsuto]

这些面试很有意思！觉得穿wassuphouse衬衫的男生很有道理

[@sakurakou2009]

Cheating is cheating, doesnt matter if it emotional or physical the moment they start having thoughts of cheating it already betrayal

[@hy02.02]

2:05 他的普通话真的和录音里一样

[@taffyandbeanz]

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[@manchu-qu9mw]

Physical or emotional, very painful to accept. If no children, leave her. If there is a child, make her get some money from her lover to fund the children living expense and tell her to continue the illicit relationship. This will hurt her.

[@joesantos3569]

您好Eleen老师！。。。。我要跟您聊天儿。请开始直播在 HelloTalk 上（Hello Talk 是一个语言学习App)。我要问您几个问题关于我的中文。。。感谢您。

[@doctor_cats]

bruh no , openness or polygamy is nasty , std is not fun . US is not a good standard gauge of successful relationship.

[@ThePrototypler]

agreed. Men should grow some balls. If she cheats shes for the streets. I hold myself to the same standard.

[@user-wm9sj8ce1c]

出轨只有一次和无数次，我个人很保守，所以不结婚还是最好了。

[@neisanland2503]

if i get cheated on, no violence necessary. i would just say ok " pack your stuff and leave, bye "

[@equityjustice2695]

The guy at 15:05 is hilarious 😂. I agree 👍 with him

[@johnomirth]

How can I share this with a friend in China who doesn't have access to KZbin?

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[@johnomirth]

@@MandarinCorner2 Thanks!

[@sakurakou2009]

They use vpn so many of them still have access to youtube

[@rajivmunjal9850]

How to get its pdf

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[@GlobalMindSync]

28:40 this guy is legendary

[@TheModicaLiszt]

25:16 These guys are really interesting!

[@granjerojose]

8:15, watch this girl blink really fast when they talk about emotional cheating 😆

[@masupildula]

11:58 小黑子，你这＂因该＂让我产生很大的怀疑啊啊啊呵呵😂

[@kims.s.9292]

This video was made in taiwanese streets?

[@GlobalMindSync]

If I had kids and she cheated then the kids shouldn’t be around bad influence like that so I’d get the hell up out of there with my kids

[@archniki_]

29:39 веселые ребята

[@user-pk6nk3ce9s]

原来这么多老哥觉得精神出轨更严重？恶意揣测一下，会不会这些带入一下自己或者身边的朋友，觉得嫖娼这种纯肉体出轨不太严重，甚至还用“我精神没出轨，不算什么”来作为开脱的借口。

[@haivhmoob9133]

I watched on 28 May 2023

[@madterps]

采访两个同志讲男女关系干什么? 而且那么多镜头?

[@clarissajp5603]

第一个大哥声音很好听😢

[@kavinxavier4552]

很标准

[@coolstay85]

也很gay

[@brokenburrito]

@@coolstay85hahahahaha 我也这么想

[@tien7742]

These are just kids still growing up..Therefore, cheating is part of exploring their worlds..I don't think they know what they really wanted for themselves yet..These cheating are more like puppy love types..However, if you ask the same questions to older groups of Individual's with careers, the answers will surely be different..

[@InternetMadnez]

"If she cheats, she is for the street (food)!"

[@ainaalberti3647]

看到的真是“纪录片”吗？😏

[@cauwenberghsroeland8607]

What he would do ? ...na ling yi ge....

[@tangdavid4284]

OK I tell u! I saw many case like this, The guy beat his gf or wife t'ill cops. Knock the doors of they house! Some case are terrible Murder it

[@jalexsilva8162]

eemoushonal demAdjee

[@GlobalMindSync]

Social Progress fss

[@GlobalMindSync]

27:00 simp foook

[@awomansstory.2019]

出轨的妻子 is not a good character. Bad person.

[@mattl3023]

The guy promoting the 'open relationships' is truly sad to listen to. He thinks that being faithful and exclusive to your husband or wife is 'moral and ethical bondage'. What's he in bondage to? His own filthy lusts! He calls them 'human needs'. If fidelity to your husband or wife is 'bondage', then I gladly chose it. The Day of Judgement will reveal whose bondage was best. See Romans chapter 1.

[@Daryakie]

I agree as a woman!

[@Mickey-bo6cv]

Just because 'open relationships' doesn't work for you, doesn't mean it doesn't work for others. The whole idea of The Day of Judgement is nonsense, anyway. Not everyone is Christian to begin with.

[@mattl3023]

@Mickey-bo6cv You should go and learn about how ATP works in the human body. Trillions of tiny motors working inside your own body spinning at 1000s of rpms to give you energy for everything that takes place within you. That system didn't come about by chance and if you were thinking straight, you would know it. DNA didn't come about by chance. The idea that it did is laughable and scientifically unsustainable. Everything within you was designed by the Designer and created by the Creator. He has spoken to us in the Bible and He is speaking to you now. As convinced as you are of your own position, please consider mine so that on Judgement Day, you will be the beloved child of the Judge and won't come into Judgement.

[@FindOSUBeatmapsHere]

14:48 another SIMP 😂

[@huykim4663]

18:56 the same dude went on the devil mode 😂

[@toastedmarshmellow704]

Woah, the would be homicidal man is a living red flag. 🚫

[@sega_sistarz]

Ffr disturbing

[@GlobalMindSync]

People’s spiritual world advances so they cheat lmao wyd

[@ssjn2831]

Death sentence to the gf and mistress

[@johncoppola8105]

What should a Chinese woman do when she catches her husband or partner cheating on her is the better question.

[@iurivanastacio3081]

She already made that one.

[@sakurakou2009]

They usually go for the mistress and beat her rather then the cheating man

[@TheFiestyhick]

Just my opinion here, i wish you didn't do videos on these negative subjects like partners cheating etc. For me, when I learn languages, i like to watch/listen to more pleasant topics. If i want to learn about these unpleasant topics, i will use my free will to seek them out, but on a learning channel, I think it's best to have more pleasant subjects. Let people look into dark stuff themselves once they are fluent or if they have a personal interest. Your channel is so good. I hope you can humbly take my suggestions and see my point. I want to see you SUCCEED and I believe that'll happen with more fun, pleasant topics.

[@elisabeth73]

Agree.

[@joana.6520]

Just don't watch the video. The title clearly states what it's about.

[@TheFiestyhick]

@@joana.6520 your reply is an oversimplified idea. Do you realize that she only puts out like ONE video every 2-4 weeks? So, if she puts out back to back negative topics, people have to go 3-6 weeks without seeing new material. The core solution is to put out pleasant, creative, uplifting, fun, inspiring material. That also lifts up people moods, not the dark stuff, like contemplating your partner fucking other people.

[@poopbutt6241]

You’re very soft

[@tld7661]

Keep crying