WHEN 2 BECOME 3 | HERE'S WHAT WE LEARNT

[@DrTebelloMatsela]

I am not married YET, But I enjoyed the transparency and authenticity in this video. And guys, if we are serious about breaking generational curses/cycles, it is going to take work! Marriage is such a beautiful institution of Christ and the Church, and I don't know how many times I have been frustrated with people in the church, imperfect people! But one thing the Holy Spirit taught me was these are imperfect people like you, serving a Perfect God! Same in marriage, I believe. I do not leave here discouraged, but encouraged to believe in marriage. Thank you Kev & Buli for always bringing kingdom in your space. Blessings

[@masabathamhlongo6378]

Thanks guys, Our baby is 5months, (1 year married ) we kind of had same challenges, it really was not easy, we thought of seeking counselling but somehow we found our way back, but now I know, 1st thing to do is seek counselling , get to share your feelings and expectations to someone you both trust in your marriage All the best folks!

[@siphesihletlisane4900]

"Communicate your expectations then relative to what can be 'given'/'catered for', then manage them. This will help you not suppress them."- THIS? THIS IS POWERFUL. Yes our generation sought healthy marriages/relationships/friendships in our lifetime and if we're being honest, these WILL require building and that won't always look pretty- but it always has to be healthy. Thank you for honesty family.

[@nokwethabamdluli6694]

Syabonga boMakhubo

[@lerekomolefe4323]

This is such a relatable conversation even without a child we do go through the transitions where everything just looks and feels bleak, you do not even know if it's worth it anymore, thank you sharing , took quite a lot from your conversation.

[@khanyisagura4377]

The video I needed bethuna in God's perfect timing for my life. Thank you beautiful couple. Yhuu awumhle Mama maan🥰😍

[@ntombiemhlanga6289]

Eish lendaba yeTone...🤦🏽‍♀️l always fail dismally..

[@lovisaisai187]

One thing about Buli's sit down videos, it's always a message , lots of lessons to take away, authenticity and great quality. Love u guys from Namibia 🥰🙏

[@dunisanipertuniamaluleke5306]

Wow, I learned family. Something we take it for granted. Thank you for sharing.

[@debramayisela]

I am a 26 year old, single and I am really learning a lot through you guys. Thank you for being so honest with us about the journey of marriage.

[@Nasiphi_Njomeni]

So curious Buli, u qouted such a powerful verse: wisdom builds, understanding strengthens and knowledge fills up the room. Please reapply in this seasons. Was so mindblowing when u shared it.

[@RemofilwekmNgcobo]

Walk the journey with them. And fight for that commitment. Loved this conversation bo Makhubo siyabonga bo lovers ❤

[@mbarlayndlovu9059]

Really loved the part about managing expectations and felt it can be applied to all relationships; romantic, family and platonic ones.

[@_andiswa]

This channel is so special and needed. May you continue to share with us your journey because we get to learn and better "prepare" for other parts of our lives that we are yet to walk. May God continue to bless your union. Ubusiswe umndeni wakwa Makhubo because you are also a blessing to us❤️

[@shibendala6410]

Loved this converstion wow what a Time to be Alive cheers to Building Healthy Relationships and Marriages

[@nthabisengmthimkulu3996]

Enjoyed every moment Thank you for sharing🙏🙏

[@eunicebaloyi933]

Congratulations on your 30k subbies Buli 👏👏👏👏

[@mbalienhlemthembu6373]

You look amazing Buli 🥰 What's beautiful about this video is that you're assisting people who may be going through the same thing and think there is no hope and you're equipping those who will one day go through the same. Amazing, thank you guys 🙌

[@katlimo20]

2 years later still navigating the transition of our new reality. When Kev said man not understanding the heart really hit home....thank you for this Wow really needed and appreciate this.

[@sikhosituli9816]

Wow thanks Buli nd your hubby.... i have learnt so much in this vid🤗😊😇😇😇💖💖

[@mphomoloindlovu]

What a safe space...very relatable❤New subbie😍😍😍

[@maponoanemetsing3158]

I definitely had to hear this one. Thank you Buli and your hubby. We are still going through the transition with my husband. I like the honesty

[@leraydoo1]

This was so insightful and helpful. It's crazy how most of us go through similar problems. So thank you guys for sharing your experience with us. God bless.

[@RemofilwekmNgcobo]

Core values don't shift. Thats on period..shouldnt change throughout transitions. Love that. Foundational principles

[@MissNomps]

Yoh. This indeed was a nugget. Learnt a lot from this video, thank you Sis Buli and Bhut' Kev. May God continue to bless you 🙏

[@AntonetteK1]

Wow this was so profound and much needed. Thank you both for sharing this with us. "Keep the main thing the main thing" I love that. Thanks Buli and Kev.

[@BGladnessLekgoa]

It’s my first time here and I love it in here ❤️

[@nthabisengmoselakgomo]

I needed to hear this🤗thank you ❤️

[@gugumasinga1715]

Thank you for sharing wonderful content, I’m always inspired.

[@ayandasweetness7273]

I love how real this is

[@laurentiamadzikanda]

What an amazing and inspiring conversation. Thank you guys for sharing ❤️

[@Lerato_Morailane]

I love this, especially managing the expectations part. And also not suppressing feelings. We went from 3, to 5 when the twins arrived🤣🤣.

[@norahlediga7459]

Yoooohhh spot on!! 😭🤞I love this❤️❤️I'm definitely watching it with hubs

[@boitumelomtshweni4833]

This was deep!!!! Thank you so much for sharing ❤

[@otsilesithole3111]

Loved this video, its so honest

[@boitumelomakobosheane2928]

This is going to be helpful in my relationship. Thank you so much for being honest open and transparent

[@tracyforlove]

Love it and thank you for sharing your journey… please keep them coming! I’m learning a lot 🤩😍❤️

[@tsundzukaniconstancemalule4125]

So relatable 👌👌Loved this! It served the purpose of this channel - impact! This conversation definitely made an impact, a lot to learn from it.

[@Mpoetsi_Ndimande]

We don''t have a baby yet but its never too early to learn. Thank you for sharing and being vulnerable with your challenging seasons. Am glad you guys found your groove

[@langelihled]

Thank you for being so candid. This is so realistic and healthy. I love this about your channel. ❤️

[@naiyemaipelokgang3387]

Learnt so much from this video

[@pksimom2429]

Such a beautiful conversation! Loved this so much 🥺🙏🏽! Thank you guys.

[@onceupontheaoxamubs2204]

Great conversation Buli and Kevin. We’ve learned a lot. Esi and our son are born 3days apart. We also married and can absolutely relate to alot of things you guys are saying.Much love from Namibia 🇳🇦.

[@brendarangata3391]

Thank you for the conversation 🤗🙏🏿

[@leratongomane4863]

Loved this ♥️

[@misscarol_m]

Relatable content 🤞🏾.Had to watch before my baby wakes up.. Love you two, Love this conversation..Buli i must say you look Gooood ma😍😍

[@roselineuiras8603]

It is true we are indeed impacted on this channel, I'm also ways learning something new. Thank you, Kevin and Buli.

[@mphosamanthamasiu7795]

I loved this conversation...so authentic ❤transition can be very challenging n if not dealt with can cause long term problems

[@sina4628]

Heeeeeey now I love it here 🌹🌹🌹🌹definitely loved the sharing it definitely something that makes us who had a different view of marriage get some insight _Thank you guys we love you 💞💞💞💞

[@kamogelocaroline5704]

Thank you so much for your transperancy ❤️🤗to graceful growth 🌸.

[@boitumelomakobosheane2928]

The way I love your personality hle Buli , it’s refreshing ❤️

[@mahlengimadonsela493]

Such a relatable video thank you for sharing

[@tarirompho6074]

I agree i think life in general we all wish to remain in certain seasons in our lives but i guess wat u said all seasons are necessary bad or good. I would love to be 20 or younger but im 26 and the knowledge i have now i can never go back to certain seasons in my life

[@lebohangnkambule6823]

"Start with the heart first" Thank you for this conversation❤ Road to 30K💃

[@larrisaganya]

Love the honesty in this conversation!

[@dinimuluvhu6996]

Wow Buli..I cannot thank you enough for this vlog..it's so beautiful and inspiring...May God keep you and sustain your marriage..thank you

[@mazh_babies]

great conversation.....very motivating

[@matodzi01]

“Where no counsel is, the people fall: But in the multitude of counsellors there is safety.”Proverbs‬ ‭11:14‬ ‬‬Absolutely love that you follow scripture. 🙏🏾

[@finance-talk]

This was a beautiful video. I enjoyed it

[@nicolletnyoni4371]

Very important conversation, thank you guys. Checking in with each other is very important.

[@lolwethungcawa8354]

Very insightful video, am learning a lot coz I'm expecting 🤰

[@gugumasinga1715]

Also Buli can we have a topic where we talk to mothers who gave birth to premature babies their journeys and experience.

[@Keabetswe.Sithole]

This was such a refreshing topic, thank you for your transparency...and you guys are such a good looking couple, la tshwanelana maan❤️

[@matodzi01]

Thank you for opening up. These conversations are freeing. 🙏🏾 God bless you guys.

[@zinhlendlangamandla206]

Sanibonani fam.Notification gang here💃💃💓

[@mullerajjohnny6763]

Thank you Buli, that was so helpful 😊

[@katlee_ntuli7951]

This conversation is everything! ♥️ thank you.

[@nobuhlehlubi1400]

Loved this conversation ♥️♥️♥️

[@thandotshabalala2200]

We like before we even watch Mnk😂👏🏽🙌🏽

[@dionzulu4887]

Wow thanks for sharing this helped me a lot 👍

[@snegugumbanjwa6412]

The way Kev looks at you 😍 he's so in love with you it's beautiful to see ❤

[@chanteleballo]

Loved and enjoyed you guys conversation! So many marriages fail because of lack of communication. Stay blessed and continue helping other families! 🥰I know the rewards of a free marriage where communication is key! It's a blast!

[@refilwemotsoeneng9504]

Hey @Buli...would you kindly refer the name of the therapist you guys went to ? Looking to try same

[@purposeinchrist6962]

I love this. Thank you so much❤️

[@chockbrown1]

I'm a new subscriber, and I am loving the channel ❤ 👏

[@thokongezile5259]

Buli looking so gorgeous 🔥🔥🔥

[@mrsdokotela]

We like before we even watch 😅😅

[@sikelelaplus9103]

Zulu men and a woman's tone can never be separated...

[@tovhowanimutshinyali850]

Notification gang💃💃

[@gugumasinga1715]

I love you guys so much♥️.

[@balukhoza9795]

Notification gang😍❤️🖤

[@matodzi01]

11:07 😂😂 Tone!

[@thandokuhlemashego3436]

I love u fam 🥰

[@cathrinenomfundo8569]

❤❤❤

[@thembinxitywa9754]

❤️❤️❤️

[@JabulileMathenjwa]

👌🏾

[@preciousdikgwele6377]

This ❤️❤️❤️

[@tumelogomolemo3178]

Amazing content and very relatable

[@mahlengimadonsela493]

Mani I don’t get how we expected to have the same tone… I’m guilty of being told I should fix my tone ☹️😩

[@ofentsematlala06]

Let’s go❤️

[@kukhanya737]

💚💚💚💚💚

[@eneththabane2022]

I am here

[@myriamcajuste1194]

This conversation is so needed in the black and church community 🙏👏👏

[@lulufierce01]

❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@VivianKuvare11]

This was so necessary.

[@sindysibanda1841]

♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️

[@refiloetema2240]

We don't live in Disneyland 😂 🤣 😭

[@tarirompho6074]

I wish for such a transparent partner. Im a big fan of you my RENTS😘😘😍

[@thokongezile5259]

Buli looking so gorgeous 🔥🔥🔥