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When a Lady Hugged Me...FUNNY Sh. Said Rageah...
Part of Lecture entitled: "Reminder for the Youth"
Presented by: Sh. Said Rageah
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Sheikh Saeed Rageah:
Sheikh Saeed Rageah was born in Somalia, raised in Saudi Arabia and in the late 80s found his way to North America. He is married and has four daughters and two sons. He enjoys spending quality time with his family.
He holds a B.A in Islamic studies as well as a Masters in Shari'ah from the Institute of Islamic and Arabic Sciences in Fairfax, Virginia. Over the years, he has held several posts including founder of Masjid Huda in Montreal, Masjid Aya in Maryland, Muslim Youth magazine and the Aqsa Association.
After serving as an imam in Maryland and Calgary, Sheikh Saeed recently moved to Toronto with his family and is currently serving as an Imam at Abu Huraira Islamic Center. He teaches and travels for Al-Maghrib Institute and he also holds the post of Chairman for the Journey of Faith conference.
His other associations include:
• Founder of Oasis magazine
• Founder 'IQ' (Quranic institute). Now it has branches in USA and Canada
• MBA (Muslim Basketball Association)
• Co-founder and the chairman of Journey of Faith Conference -annual conference in Eastern Canada
• Co-Founder of Power of One conference -annual conference in Western Canada
• Founder of Leadership camp for Muslim youth - Fourth year in Western Canada and second in Eastern Canada
• The Director of Ummah Times magazine
• Counselor at University of Calgary
• Muslim Chaplain of University of Calgary and Southern Alberta institute of Technology (SAIT)
• Founder of MSL of Calgary
• Youth Hot line
• Founder of Orphans Matter
• Founder of Muslim Student Loan Foundation
Studied Under:
• Sh. Abdul Aziz Alfowzan
• Sh. Yusuf Ashubaily
• Sh.Salah AsSawi
• Sh.AnNamla
• Sh.AlKulaib
• Sh.Fahad Alhamoud
• Sh.Rashid Aladwani
• Sh. AlKhudair
• Sh.AsSa'b
• Sh.Fahad AlAmir and others...
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[@AlkhayrTV1]

The reason Muslim men did not shake hands with women is because they honor and respect you as a woman and a person who has a right to her dignity, her individual and breathing space, and her self-respect. Also, their hands are not their own but a trust given to them by Allah for touching only those females who are given to them in trust by virtue of either a blood bond like a sister, mother, or child or in the sacred bond of marriage as a wife.

[@10010x0x0x01101XX0X1]

shaking a woman's hand doesn't take away her dignity, and saying that it does, purely on the basis that she is a woman, is sexist

[@c.morganfree1970]

Shrugs Haru Muslim women can't shake men's hands either so does that make them even?

[@roberthills629]

Ban radical, From another gringo here, u need to stop listening to Fox News and garbage 700 club Robertson shyt, Shows the level of your ignorance.

[@baldeh4]

No it’s because it’s a command of Allah

[@haze1811]

@@baldeh4 that's the main reason, but the reasons that the brother gave r also true..

[@Fjerid]

My left ear enjoyed this speech mashallah.

[@chaosss]

+Fjerid haha i know what you did there.

[@MegaSilverDiamond]

yep because some how the left earphone was more active than the other one

[@OmairKamran]

lol

[@FahimAhmed-xj9lq]

lol same here

[@MuhammadDanishMakhdoom]

mine too lol

[@muhammady9821]

"No! He doesn't shake hands...he HUGS!" 😂😂😂

[@SQK659]

+Muhammad L One of the funniest parts XD

[@muhammady9821]

Yes, definitely :D

[@khantk2732]

ha ha ha ha ha :D

[@LegoladGank]

wow! I have never had a woman hug me besides my mother and sisters! ...and of course my grandma! I will be married hopefully in a couple of years as I am still trying to complete my education. But one day...one day I will be blessed with a wife inshallah! :D

[@kandarabi927]

Were you imprisoned at birth? You mean not even your high school female friends gave you a hug?

[@LegoladGank]

Kanda Rabi Our schools are separated. Boy section, girl section. I was home schooled so even if I did go it'd be the same. I do not want to hug a girl that is not my sister, mom, aunt, grandma, daughter, or wife. I know myself. Had I hugged a girl I would have done stuff with her. The same goes for a girl... had she hugged a man, she'd probably have the same feelings. It is scientifically proven.

[@kandarabi927]

And what is wrong with doing something with a girl

[@LegoladGank]

Kanda Rabi I don't know about your faith, but I'm pretty sure it is common for most people to separate boys and girls once they reach a certain age to prevent things you and I both know are bound to happen outside of wedlock.

[@LegoladGank]

Kanda Rabi I do not refer to muslim women as simply that which you just said. I shall not marry for any reason other than to fulfill my duties as a muslim.

[@manlykramo]

People who aren't Muslims ,will not understand what the imam here is talking about. Before you make judgments and start calling us names , I suggest you do research on what Islam is really all about. May God guide you all to the truth!

[@talhatariqyuluqatdis]

Ameen

[@pendragon303]

Its so disgusting how some people are insulting this him for not shaking or hugging the women back. I swear by allah Muslim men respect and give rights to Muslim women more than Christian men do.

[@halaambe]

anisa MeLoveExoinfinite why do we always compare with other religions or 1000 year old traditions? aren't we more knowledgeable than those people now? don't we have better answers?

[@pendragon303]

Oh god.....religion is religion regardless how old. I believe in one God and if you have a problem with that please let me save you some time....I do not care what you have to say.

[@pendragon303]

Looooooooooooool bye .

[@Deaxon1]

God will guide her to the true religion. Don't push her away. Idiot.

[@mandeq7328]

The Meezy ur moo idiot hw can abuse our sheikh....

[@adnab3305]

Who’s here 2019 and still can’t stop laughing 😂 just let her finished 🤣🤣

[@naasirmacruuf1224]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@muskansiddikee2171]

2021 😂😂😂

[@FreeP4l3stine]

2024🤣😭

[@ayyylmao101]

I was holding in my laughter but I lost it when he said "Nah, man... that lady attacked me!" 😂 Mashallah, dude.

[@rudijones8833]

My favorite part was when he told his wife and said she was in the mafia. Lol

[@kimah9855]

Rudi J Same to me🤣🤣🤣

[@talhatariqyuluqatdis]

Yes. Thats the part I came back to see XD

[@vv5r]

Yet no one asked why he did it? Real Muslim men are the most loyal to their wives.

[@julio14335]

With all the negetive comments been posted on this video, no one has the IQ or courage to ask why Islam forbids hugging or shaking hands with the opposites gender. Brother Meredith Grey is right- If you want to insults Islam at least get your insults right.

[@cabdirshidosman9649]

the small road leads you to the big road.

[@triggerwoman8884]

Julio Kosters they understand it but they don't want to accept the idea of it... may Allah bless you....#muslimafromphilippiesworkinginkuwait

[@linaabojaradehart]

Come on... in all honestly to all these people who are bashing Islam here. Haven't you felt something for someone after touching their hands? This might lead to attraction which might lead to a billion other stuff. Just imagine how many cheating husbands started their adultery from a handshake or a hug.

[@rohaizadwahid4113]

Odd how many non-Muslims actually tuned into this. Maybe its a good thing. Two points to the non-Muslim 1) If you hate to be criticized for doing things which Muslims frown upon, then don't be a hypocrite and turn around and insult Muslim beliefs. 2) It does not matter how low you sink to come out with offensive comments just for the sake of venting or being offensive, Muslims will continue to do what we do, so save your time and do something else.

[@rohaizadwahid4113]

I appreciate your conciliatory comments. Unfortunately I still maintain there are those who seize on every opportunity to troll Islamic content. That said, most of them are unable to distinguish cultural from religious practices. The more ignorant, the more caustic the comments.

[@yasmine5105]

You're so right. This isn't the format and it's really sad and ridiculous!! It is almost incredible how some people will come out the box with pure B.S. This is a simple little event that happened and he was sharing it with or people. Then you have negatives that comment in an ugly ways. Then they spit they're ugly serpent fluids out of their nasty mouths!

[@lynackhilou4865]

Rohaizad Wahid nice profile pic I love fallout too

[@AbdisalamFarah391]

Those of you who are criticizing this Sheikh, have to know that you are judging him according to your morals and religious and cultural background. His behavior comes from his religious background. Do you expect all the people to behave as they do in your own country and religion? You have to understand people don't have the same cultures and religions. Just choose your own way of life; and let him choose his way of life. To explain why it is like that in Islam is to minimize flirtation of not related opposite genders. In the West those who work together end up having affairs after a while (not all, but many); because of being too close to each other. That is why you have programs like CHEATERS in many parts of the world. Some of you would find a way to insult this man if he had encouraged men and said go hug every woman. Some of you would have said he is S*xually frustrated Muslim. In short don't criticize what you don't know about!

[@Original-Viking]

+Abdisalam Somali The real question is why are you living in the UK

[@AbdisalamFarah391]

Brutus I don't live in UK, moron. I say moron because only morons assume things. I live in Africa. If you come to Africa, you don't change and become an African, so stop this Western stupidity that says everybody else has to assimilate.

[@Original-Viking]

Abdisalam Somali I assume nothing, drooling moron. It is you who wrote Lives in Leicester, UK on Google+

[@zahraahmed6496]

Abdisalam Farah, very good answer.May Allah protects you.

[@AmiraHaque]

Haven't laughed like this in a long time. alhamdulilah!

[@kandarabi927]

It wasn't that funny

[@nathanialb9115]

@@kandarabi927 was pretty funny

[@Mohammad5025]

People have got to understand that it is coming from a religious point of view before leaving negative comments get the FACTS first then make your judgment it is so easy to critasize nowadays but so lazy to find the truth.

[@jakejason416]

My wife is an Italian....Mafia I died Wallahi Lmao 😂😂😫😩😤😖😭

[@mybigbellybutton1552]

inshallah your experience in the grave will go well. May i ask how you posted this from the grave?

[@unknowngirl7326]

+Mybig Bellybutton lol you're funny 😂😂

[@azlmcl198]

hhhhhhhhh u're another funny guy

[@H34db34ng]

Isn't the point of saying wallahi that you're speaking the truth? Well I'm pretty sure you didn't die, cause it was an obvious joke ... but anyways

[@azlmcl198]

H34db34ng kkkkk

[@nitacruise]

That was funny😂😂and he is sweet to,,,awww

[@GDAbir]

were you the one by any chance? :P

[@BeholderGuard]

loooooooooooooooooooooooool so funny :P Jazak Allahu Kheir for sharing this funny story :P

[@midzyblinkonce7716]

I'm not even a Muslim and I find this hilarious! lol

[@user-rz8lm2po8o]

Never fails to make me laugh. May Allah protect you sheikh

[@maliksaabsays]

What is with all these people spreading hate on videos by muslim speakers? Are you feeling insecure in your own faith (or faithlessness) that you have to attack faith of others? Nobody is forcing you to watch these videos, or comment on them.

[@maryammanzoor8286]

The reason Muslim men did not shake hands with women is because they honor and respect you as a woman and a person who has a right to her dignity, her individual and breathing space, and her self-respect. Also, their hands are not their own but a trust given to them by Allah for touching only those females who are given to them in trust by virtue of either a blood bond like a sister, mother, or child or in the sacred bond of marriage as a wife. How can they afford to consider the offenses that will be imagined by you or others when the concern that occupies them is the pleasure of Allah? Why should they transgress the bounds of Allah to please any human being? I was told not to touch anything that was mine by only my parents who raised me, but they (Muslim men) are told not to touch any non-mehram(anyone not blood related) by Allah, their Creator. Why should they be put to shame for listening to their Creator instead of the customs of your culture which change according to times?

[@JeinabouLamaranaBah]

Jazakhallahu'Khair!!!

[@4playboy99]

The reason Muslim men did not shake hands with women is because they honor and respect you as a woman and a person who has a right to her dignity, her individual and breathing space, and her self-respect. Also, their hands are not their own but a trust given to them by Allah for touching only those females who are given to them in trust by virtue of either a blood bond like a sister, mother, or child or in the sacred bond of marriage as a wife.

[@CabdifataaxCardiologist]

Alx I am in same ethnicity with this sheikh we are both Somali from Somalia 🇸🇴

[@anass7714]

is this sheikh from somalia ?

[@skipper3256]

young Talent Yeah he do.

[@hemmaa574]

young Talent Yes he is from there.

[@wardoonacademy]

+Soma 045 ,yes so i am.

[@anass7714]

masha Allah

[@asmahaanelyas7899]

Bar ama Baro yeah

[@zaidaslam4653]

MashAllah great video and I wanted to say all the muslim viewers that any nonmulsim that replys something negative about islam or about our Nabi (S.A.W) or Allah please correct them or make dua for them and inshaAllah then they will relize that there doimg no harm to us but only to themselves and to demonstrate this - its as if they are spitting at the moon the spit goes up and only comes back on themselves -JazakAllah Khair

[@Theliondessert5]

KKKA funny 😂😂 He is a Somali masha allah

[@azlmcl198]

specialy somalilander

[@Theliondessert5]

yeah bro somaliland ha noolato

[@azlmcl198]

jigar AJ aamin bro alla ina barakeynaya

[@uniteislamicempire5540]

jigar AJ you just said he somali whats imwith the sudde and why do you want to divide us we are similar

[@thestealth2448]

Yes I believe he’s habar yonis🙃

[@asmauyusuf451]

I was in a state of shock😂😂😂. May Allah make us steadfast in the dean

[@yasmine5105]

This is a form for funny story and thats all, let's keep it that way. Those of us in the world who just want to preach Pure negative - bull hatred simply take it elsewhere but this really isnt the form for it.

[@dammee]

Too tooo funny sheikh Said LOL, May Allah preserve you!

[@AnimeVideoEditor]

Mashallah the commenct section is full of ignorance. Women in our time are meat. We don´t touch them because we have respect to her as an individual.

[@sw33n3ybill]

MashAllah the same thing happened for Me, I was athiest, and then I learned to control My ego, and accepted, that I did not know if there indeed was a God or not, and so then I considered Myself agnostic, and then I began reading the Quran, and now I am a believer, MashAllah Brother

[@bahjosheikh1330]

Sheekh I think you enjoyd the way you telling the story

[@nimcosheekh1002]

No! he doesn't shake hands....... he hugs 😂

[@MrQaswara]

"Just let her finish" lol!!

[@muhammadt3490]

Some people comment bad things about how we (Muslims) Don't shake hands. How would you like it if others insult your way, your costum , or religion, or your thoughts? Treat others with kindness as you would like to be treated.

[@yomnaabou-ismail2730]

Once I was drowning (literally) and I was in my cousin who btw couldn't swim and she was just using me as her floatie and we were screaming until some guy gave us a hand and we were gonna die so I held it, is that ok?

[@adamyare9554]

thats ok. kind of like doctor injecting u. but remember if u are in a condition of being able to be touched by anyone, let it be a woman instead of a man and if there is no woman around like your situation then its ok for a man to give a hand

[@yomnaabou-ismail2730]

adam yare thabks

[@Muhammad-The-Rapist]

+Yomna Abou-ismail I'm sorry sister, but it's not ok. You must amputate your right hand, it's the only way Allah can know that it is not repeated. It may sound strict, but that's how it must be.

[@ahnafzarif945]

+Yomna Abou-ismail ignore the replie before me. These sort of Muslims make others hate our religion.

[@yomnaabou-ismail2730]

Ahnaf Zarif do you mean the muhseneen? I think he's just trying to make me stay on the safe side but yeah, it does seem a little strict:)

[@zimmerinhere]

Assalamu Alaikum It was narrated that Ma’qil ibn Yassaar said: The the Messenger of Allaah (p) said: “For one of you to be stabbed in the head with an iron needle is better for him than that he should touch a woman who is not permissible for him.” Narrated by al-Tabaraani in al-Kabeer, 486. Shaykh al-Albaani said in Saheeh al-Jaami’, 5045, that this hadeeth is saheeh. Check the facts before you jump to conclusions... SubahaanALLAH, May ALLAH Azzawajal guide the "KZbin Ulema"

[@sweetal-abdelly7978]

he is beutifull voice so he's speech..mashallah

[@haze1811]

Ma sha Allah!!! May Allah S.W.T bless you!!

[@sakiyo3299]

So funny!!

[@kandarabi927]

Not really

[@sakiyo3299]

Ya only one part

[@kandarabi927]

You only think the sheikh is funny because he is Somali. You are racist lol.

[@sakiyo3299]

Oh wow

[@areejibrahim9277]

no, he realy is funny

[@aysenuraksu5969]

Not shaking hands isn't a sign of disgust or distaste for the opposite gender. On the contrary, it's an important part of keeping a professional and respectable relationship with the opposite sex.

[@stephaniekolam9105]

It's nice that he presented the topic in a funny manner through story but it shouldn't prevent you from questioning what he's saying. This is why so many muslims twist the message thinking women are inferior to men. You cannot shake hands with a woman? for what? If you are the one who is afraid of temptation through a shake hand, you should control your thoughts before your actions. And then he says his wife got jealous. For what? A strong woman should not feel the need to get jealous over a hug. I'm sorry but this is ridiculous. Did you hear about India's tv presenter Gauhr Khan being slapped my a man in the crowd named Akil Malik? He was teasing and heckling her from the crowd and when she protested he got up on stage and slapped her later defending himself saying her outfit was too revealing. She was wearing a long dress that was body fitting and he found himself having bad thoughts. Even if he didn't slap her, he still had those thoughts. Thats HIS problem, not hers. So he needs to change the way he thinks and realize his thoughts are inappropriate. Islam shouldnt be a way of controlling women because men cannot change the way they think.

[@halimaomar189]

It is not abt temptation, is abt the do's and the don'ts of the religion. As every religion has some obligations. so as islam.

[@stephaniekolam9105]

Halima Omer It is about temptation Halima, that is why a handshake with a woman is a "don't". Why else would it be a don't? You need to know why there are obligations in Islam. Not giving handshakes to a female is not protecting a woman, it is just reflecting through a simple thing how the culture finds women to be a weakness of men and are a threat to the point where they cant even give a handshake.

[@stephaniekolam9105]

***** I have to agree with Mr. Salah, you just seem like an internet troll. Your opinions are your own but you don't really speak logically. You dont really contribute much to a meaningful conversation, sorry.

[@idrisa4017]

I see what you're saying but if there is no physical action, it decreases temptation. Also regarding the guy who slapped his wife, the Quran states that light disciplinary action may be used in EXTREME cases only where it is the only way to better the situation. If it won't better it, then it should be avoided all together. What this guy did is just straight up abuse and will be judged on the day of judgement. I know what you're thinking is that violence of any sort shouldnt be allowed, and i agree. But even these "extreme" cases will practically never happen and unfortunately many muslim men abuse their power. I am a 20 year old muslim BTW if it helps you in conjuring a response

[@Inxective]

steph George Hi steph, I would just like to clarify that this rule goes both ways. Saying men can't shake hands with women, whilst not saying that women aren't allowed to shake hands with men leaves out an important point that both men and women are not allowed to touch each other unless they are related or married. Since it is known women also have sexual desires towards men, especially in today's age this is much more vocal. In addition to your argument of "Men should control their desires, it is not the women fault" Well yes you are right, again this goes two ways for women, women need to control their desires towards men. However this argument is the same as saying that "I shouldn't lock the door of my house, or install a burglar system since it's the thieves fault, he should not be a thief he should control his desires to steal or get a job, its not my fault". This way you will surely be robbed. Yes we teach people to not steal, just as in Islam we teach men to lower their gaze and hold their desires from women, but the simple fact of the matter is that people will still steal and people will still show these desires. Therefore it is better and safer for a women and a man to cover themselves up and not touch each other as a sign of respect such those feelings and touches don't lead to anything else. Which science proves all it takes is a girl to touch your leg or a man touch your hip for sexual temptations to triple even quadruple. In addition to this there is no reason nor need for a women to show her goods, so other men can stare at her? Enjoy her? Now she's being objectified, the fact of the matter is that this happens whether it's the man's fault or not, therefore we teach women in Islam this fact of life and tell them it is better if they cover themselves so that they are dignified and respected and not objectified. Hope that clarified for you.

[@bilalhasan7781]

Mashhalah may allah take you and all the muslims to jannah Ameen

[@sireofdarkness]

Ok let me ask you this. If a woman puts her hand before me, waiting for me to shake hands with her and i said no, do you really think she will be ok with it? If i tell her no i dont shake hands with females because its haram in islam, dont you think she will get embarrassed and hate me and islam for that? ... I mean ... she is putting her hand out to shake mine out of respect and i deny her that. Do you really think saying no at that moment would bring more good than harm to both of us? Wallahi i dont think that hadith is meant for people in this generation cause it all depends on your Niyya (intention) if your intention contains lust then the hadith applies to you but if it doesnt like most of the people today then i dont think the hadith applies. What do you think?

[@queenie9666]

yeah she'll be ok N may be she'll get embraced, but can you imagine Allah's anger that you deny his order for poor humans no matter how people will react to you, what's matter is how you can satisfy Allah.

[@yasminahmed2272]

i did it a couple of times when a guy try to shake me but in good manner you can tell me.

[@sireofdarkness]

Sorry for not responding in a long time but ... here is my response. Once, my sister (who was about 19 at the time) met my father's friend so she put her hand out to shake hands but he denied. After they finished and she went home, she told me how that made her feel and how embarrassed and upset she was. I personally had a similar experience. When i came back from travel accompanied by my mother, we met the neighbor, she was a 40-50 year old woman (i was 17 at that time). My mother greeted her and shook her hand so i went to do the same. The woman was startled and was not pleased at all ... at the moment i didnt know how to react cause this was the first time i was exposed to this personally. I felt the exact way my sister felt which is not a good feeling. Despite the fact that i know she meant all good, i still felt as if she didnt want to shake hands with me because i was some kind of nagis or unclean. Id rather take the middle ground. I wont actively get out of my way to shake a woman' hand but if she put her hand out i would not reject it. Because i know how it feels. A girl in a university i was studying in knew i usually dont shake hands with girls but she accidentally put her hand out out of impulse (i know it was accidental because she quickly retracted it). I didnt want to enforce the same idea (i had about my neighbor) that she would have on me.

[@SardineCanSuccess]

+sireofdarkness Is the act excessive? Yes, it is meant to be.

[@Theliondessert5]

sır Allah protecting islam He chose u enter but you have to save your self what Will you say the day Of judgment think about that May Allah protect u

[@ismaelfarah9721]

Say, "O disbelievers, I do not worship that which you worship, nor do you worship the One whom I worship. And neither I am going to worship that which you have worshipped, nor will you worship the One whom I worship. For you is your faith, and for me, my faith." Surah al Kafirun

[@killme5489]

guys, he was a virgin

[@quranisthepeaceofheart3907]

It was narrated that Ma’qil ibn Yassaar said: the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “For one of you to be stabbed in the head with an iron needle is better for him than that he should touch a woman who is not permissible for him.” Narrated by al-Tabaraani in al-Kabeer, 486. Shaykh al-Albaani said in Saheeh al-Jaami’, 5045, that this hadeeth is saheeh.

[@Josef21373]

Full blown sexual hypocrisy at its finest.

[@fayez_06]

How is it hypocrisy if women also can’t touch non mahram men?

[@promejannat763]

The amount of hate in the comment sections are unbelievable. Calm yourselves, some of you people need to learn to respect each other. Honestly if you don't like the video then why watch it?..that makes no sense.

[@islamfrvideos]

Salamu 3ahleykoum, this cheikh may be funny, but he's got very very weird manners and style of speech, like: a bit too "cool" for a cheikh...Muslims are not christians, we must absolutely watch the way wa talk and the words we use by selecting only the most beautiful. I don't think that talking about a woman's butt is classy

[@AmazonFindsSpecial]

You are right! I do not think the way he handled the situation is permissible in Islam. Allah knows the best!

[@sadiajannat7010]

There is nothing wrong with the style of one's speech, its how they are and a part of their personality.

[@abdihakimmohamed1114]

@@AmazonFindsSpecial would you please specifically tell us his deviations I don't really see anything wrong with his speech

[@AmazonFindsSpecial]

@@abdihakimmohamed1114 I meant him letting the lady finish hugging is something I do not feel comfortable with. He could just abruptly tell the lady to stop hugging him.... but again maybe he was shocked. Allahu Alam. If I were in his place, I would handle the situation differently.

[@fanwan4265]

I had the honour of seeing him twice alhaldulilah

[@AwestaKhalid]

Ridiculous things like this are why I'm no longer a Muslim.

[@ahamdalam9653]

AwestaKhalid But if those who remain steadfast on this, will be happy that they done it rather than saying i cant be bothered. The Quran can be proven to be from God, so if we accept it and bear it with patience, our reward will be great.

[@AwestaKhalid]

***** i can't understand what you're saying

[@AwestaKhalid]

***** your grammar and word usage is bad.

[@vikki12307]

***** Alhamdulilah! you made perfect sense, and that is happening now. Even the messenger said it will happen and its sign of the end of days, when non-Muslims will take the truth while the born Muslims reject it. We are taking their place and they are now lost.

[@vikki12307]

AwestaKhalid He made perfect sense and his grammar and use of wording is fine. Your reading skills seem to be flawed.

[@zarshyg]

my new colleague, a guy who is gay, is super friendly. he sees me and he opened his arms, came to me, and cheek to cheek with me. i was surprised too!!!

[@jayfigures2082]

What kind of God would create people to not hug and shake hands with other people. Sorry what a stupid tradition.

[@halloweeen248]

In islam you can hug your wife as long as you want... you can shake her hand :) or any other parts of her body. :))) you can hug your family uncles aunts ... these are not enough for a human ??? Or want more.. ??? This is a religion. If we believe we accept these rules... i am a muslim .. a woman.. and i dont want to shake or touch men. Only women friends my family .. and i am glad and happy... i dont need to hug other men.. it is not a tradition.. it is religion ..

[@eggstravagent3801]

Why would thre be a girls and boys restroom? Excactly.

[@jayfigures2082]

+Fik Shun So you're comparing shaking hands with a woman to going to the bathroom with them. What kind of pervert are you?

[@jayfigures2082]

+achraf haroun Sorry man but maybe your pathetic ass can't handle the touch of a woman without creaming your pants but most of us men in the free world can.

[@eggstravagent3801]

Jay Figures im not a pevert white boy trump supporter. -_-

[@aishakiin4427]

'oh it's okay .... come here hunny!😂😂😂wallahi very funny mashallah thank you brother

[@abdiu13]

my left ear enjoyed this :)

[@Em183]

No I've worked for nearly 10 years at different offices and no one flirted with each other. Majority of people don't do this, don't be ignorant.

[@AbuAaliyaFarooqi]

Great work bro! Mashallah good reply!

[@BeholderGuard]

Who is still watching this in 2022?

[@kasimmalik9806]

199 people have never been hugged by their own MOTHER, let alone a random woman.

[@fightermma]

Yes your right. If one is in a situation like that you have to stop the person or tell them to get off you.

[@514krazak]

We also have a full month of fasting which is one of the best ways to break our worldly desires. All of these acts have been put in place to help us reach spiritual perfection.

[@Jeffreyhatesyoutube]

Most Islam critics don't understand Islam even if they've read a book or two. And those who seek understanding embrace Islam. There are no such thing as bad manners in Islam, so we are to not disrespect the critics even if they hurt us. The fastest growing religion (1.6 billion), western women are running to Islam, TRUTH will always prevail. My we have sincerity in our hearts and find the truth before death overcomes us

[@areejkhan3803]

People saying its sexist of men to not touch women, know that men don't touch women in islam cos women are honored as a queen in Islam. Just like Queen Elizabeth don't go shaking hands of anyone, our women don't do that too. So it's all about respect homans 👐

[@malikialgeriankabyleswag4200]

No its not its perverted because you cant stop yourself imagining Zina if you touch a woman. It is 100% halal to touch and hug women who are not Mahram, the prophet AS had non mahram women doing his hair, Umar bn Khatab shook womens hands.. And no you dont respect women you are afraid of them because you're weird.

[@hellogoodbye8264]

THE DUDE WAS CLEARLY ENJOYING THE HUG.

[@rahbid121]

The same thing happened to me,The interviewer offered his hand and i was shocked n thought if i dont do it i might not get the job, but than i realised this is my Jihaad, its a minor thing just for a moment, so i refused politely, he went red n nervous but understood n guess what? i got the job and the girl who shook hands didnt get the job, the Mercy of Allah. Alhamdulillah.

[@samirahsamir6930]

😂😂😂😂 this Video made my day wallahi

[@dyousaf4862]

Look at his expression I can’t stop laughing 😂

[@mariharris144]

Well said i swear ppl will never stop hating

[@kyokostan666]

i never offer women or them offer me to shake my hand or salaam me with my hand like a handshake and it’s just men in general i try to avoid handshake in general and maintain my personal space and boundaries

[@SonaayMohamed]

Because he probaby didn't think he'd be hugged... Most people would take what he said as "he probably doesnt hug either"

[@514krazak]

Therefore, I would not be forced to sin. Of course, it also will give the highest reward to those who tell the truth and die doing so. So, in one hand you will be rewarded very highly for sticking to the truth, and on the other hand you will not sin if you do not tell the truth to save your life. The verse is Chap 16 verse 100:

[@R1Y0999]

Just let her finish 😂😂

[@shahrulaqil5711]

I ALSO KNOW THAT BECAUSE I READ THE DESCRIPTION LIKE U !

[@nadifaboss1155]

I love this story thank u shiekh said for your intersting speeches.MAY ALLAH reward you. inshallah

[@marcosmutti6089]

Ma Shaa Allah.. You are so FUNNY lol... (Y)

[@SatchmoSings]

Paying taxes does not make you immune from prosecution for being a law-breaker.

[@moneeb23returns]

That goes to other people as well. People if you got questions about Muslims or their religion, ask a scholar because they have more knowledge than we do and it will give you a better answer and explanation

[@MsColdCanada]

You don't see how the reaction of the wife, preparing to leave the house to assault another woman who she knows nothing about over a misunderstanding, can be called angry and messed up? I think that threatening to physically assault someone who did nothing violent to you is indeed angry and messed up. What is wrong with it is threatening violence to someone who was not violent. Repaying kindness with violence is wrong. That's my viewpoint and I stand by it.

[@009rezu]

hahahaha its so funny :)) MashAllah we have been enjoying your lectures to much for two days in Stockholm,Sweden.

[@514krazak]

I'm sorry MrTrott2hot, I made a slight mistake about not telling the truth when it comes to your life. Here is the ruling when it comes to not telling the truth (Taqiyah): 1) Taqiyah is done for safety reasons. For example, a person fears that he might be killed or harmed, if he does not observe Taqiyah. In this case, it is obligatory to observe Taqiyah.

[@Alexicu2006]

so, he is so happy...

[@dot23X]

The imprecation against hugging the opposite sex is unnecessary; clearly the main issues here are how to deal with men's sexuality and objectifying mind set; if men treated women as sisters, which one is encouraged to do in Islam, then hugging should prove no obstacle.

[@MrsRahma456]

Made my day tbh!!

[@DaOriginalHamdinho]

Funniest thing I heard today. "She's as thin as my miswaak" ahahaha

[@Rrollfox]

its allowed to shake hand hug kiss mum sister grandma and all he close relatives that you are not supposed to marry , any potential wife is not be touched until you are married with her , women are protected

[@romaanmusa9153]

one of the biggest standards I had to live with and its so sad today Muslim women have lowered the standard completely and they are hugging and touching opposite gender and this made many women who live by this standard to be judged by others and to be harassed by men who are both muslims and non Muslims but Iam proud Allah is with for me and for those amazing women.

[@thrillspeak2861]

The men do it too and yes I know, #notallmen but at the same #notallwomen. And if you're someone still in the struggle of following the religion, like trying your best to learn but not wearing the hijab yet, you're literally called a whore by 'Muslim' men. And far too many of them, both men and women, are bound by their hypocrisies to see that wrongs right in front of them. I agree with you, just that it would've been a bit nicer to say many Muslims and not just target the sisters. Sorry if I have offended you.

[@SeekerofTruths]

Tackling the real issues of the ummah right here.

[@edgespear101]

I doubt it is because they are afraid of women, and different cultures have different ideas, it may be rude to refuse to shake hands in your culture but in a different one it's not an arrogant thing...it's just something different ...embrace diversity friend

[@514krazak]

When Yunus (A.S) preached to his people and they wouldn't listen he finally left them. He performed his duty to preach, but because we was expected to have higher patience Allah (SWT) made the whale swallow him and then he asked for forgiveness as well, but not because he sinned, but because he did not want to have his status with Allah (SWT) to be degraded. I think you mentioned at the end which is that they commit mistakes.

[@TheAverageGamer_CJ]

to teach deen he is doing but he still is a human and making others happy is nature

[@JTHBS]

but i agree with you in one point "be careful what you take as truth" never follow those who claim to have found the truth but trust those who are tying to find it. :)

[@hassans.gahnug4501]

This is excellent message from Sh. Saed Rage

[@abumuthannaa]

The way i get out of shaking hands with women is to simply say "Im sorry, I don't shake hands with women for Religious reasons." They normally feel slightly offended to which i follow up and say "We believe that only your Husband has the right to touch you" I can't count the number of times that the woman felt so special and empowered when you say that. Very rarely have i had to explain more. Especially in today's society when women are portrayed as pieces of meat and not people.

[@AbooSaif94]

@henhelm There were two men who came abroad and were both Muslims. They both had job interviews not knowing the the one who is going to interview them is a women. So when they both saw her, they were both shocked. One said I'm leaving and told her to get me a man to interview him. The other said to his friend, "We're in the West now, just stay my friend." So as the week went by, Allah protected the one who feared Allah and got him the job whilst the other didn't. Always fear Allah!

[@aamirturkeyfans]

where is hypocrisy in that. I also think that he didn't have to give this much detail. But this doesn't make him a hypocrite

[@abu.dawuud]

The Prophet Muhammad Never had any illicit sex, He didn't Kill any body, He didn't rap, and never had sex with children, those are all misconceptions about him he was actually a very kind and gentle man And was famous for his generosity, truthfulness, kindness and humility. Although he was the leader of the state he hardly had food to fill his stomach, He even cared about the animals in an era where the people used to Barry their daughters alive and guided us Muslims not to over burden them.