When A Man Loves You | Cuffing Season | (Part 9 ) | Jerry Flowers

[@ilovegoddoyou7003]

Whoever reading this, I pray that God visit your home with healing, blessings and miracles. Amen.💕

[@tclouds]

Amen!

[@candib9710]

Amen

[@nancycowan185]

Amen!!

[@cantrice5994]

Thank you ! Same to you!💕

[@3arhodes]

Very sweet of you. And I hope you as well.😘

[@michellereneesmith2225]

Three types of men: 1. Self made - a loner, introvert, he treats you like a man, self-taught, don't believe in counseling. 2. Culture made - love you based how he was shaped by culture: music, tv, etc. Inconsistent. 3. Kingdom made - he understands love is sacrifice, covering, provision, Jesus dependent, and heals.

[@chrissy3684]

❤❤❤❤

[@missrese868]

I managed to marry 1&2 combined smh

[@michellerenee8070]

@@missrese868 So did I...

[@basimahknowshow]

I’ll take # 3 Alex for $200 please!

[@Courie11e]

I definitely dated a lot of SELF MADE men. Time to get prepared for my Kingdom Husband

[@mykingthoughts2224]

If a man don't know Jesus , he doesn't know how to love you

[@bettygodchosen]

Absolutely right!

[@unique_bydesign]

I have a girlfriend who is married to her husband and he was raised catholic and she is a Christian and when I tell you this man loves and adore her and is willing to sacrifice anything for her and her children that aren’t even his., but he doesn’t know who Christ is. Would he still be considered as not knowing how to love her? I have asked her questions and she loves her husband very much because of the way he treats her and loves her and her children.

[@mykingthoughts2224]

@@unique_bydesign as he should Catholics believe in Jesus Christ they read the same bible but the love of Christ endures, forgives daily , Fruits of the Spirit is evidence this type of love Never Dies, so I pray for your friend and her husband when the trials and tribulations come knocking at the marriage door but they can still love each other like Christ loves us

[@AllysseMarie]

1000% accurate

[@walkingwiththemosthighgod4507]

Real talk.

[@DanielDelgado-cf5yd]

1:32 am, 2025. What a great way to kick off the New Year, with a powerful message from a great and brilliant man of god. Preach it Jerry.

[@healinghubwithPraiseMercy]

A man loves you when: 1. He gives you his vulnerable/ flawed self. 2. He challenges you 3. He expands you 4. He helps you detox 5. He can lead you 6. He sacrifices for you 7. He covers you 8. He complements you. Rich teaching on today Pastor Jerry, blessings.

[@karabomamogale1286]

Thank you

[@korneliavarganagy8795]

It is beautiful! ❤thank you Lord!🙏🎁

[@nellyfendich8099]

I have think I

[@phyllisjackson4116]

Thank you....

[@gmsunshine531]

Thank you so much!

[@Candie4JC]

Some of my exes were not Kingdom men. Many were bruised, broken, spiritually castrated and trying to play Kingdom because they saw I wouldn’t entertain anything but Kingdom. But you can only fake Kingdom for so long. Jesus will help you discern spirits in men and will rescue you from the sons of Pharoah if you allow Him to.

[@abeekuworldchanger380]

Same with ex girlfriends. One didn't even want to read the Bible. Huge red flag.

[@chassyfayeboutte373]

🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

[@angiekyles945]

“I WILL NO LONGER LOSE ME WHILE TRYING TO HELPING THEM FIND THEMSELVES!”

[@8adassa]

🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼

[@cathrynbell3039]

This young man is God sent everything he said was so true and if more men with take off that Shield and open up the fact that they need to be taught we wouldn't have better men soldiers in the army of the Lord that was a beautiful message and I thank God for you brother amen

[@cathrynbell3039]

Excuse the word Wouldn't It should read we would have more men in the army of the Lord amen amen

[@MissVoiceOfReason]

This the one!

[@chiquitamcduffy6727]

Amen

[@sophia4christ]

"Don't confuse what's good to you, with what's good for you." Glory to God! Hallelujah! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽❤️🙏🏾❤️

[@priscillahbuyinza9814]

🔥

[@Justcallme-Janet]

powerful

[@gladnessmwasi3777]

Forgiveness does not always mean re-entry

[@ieshiaalexander7718]

Surely

[@niseylee7796]

This is true

[@Tashe54]

Yesss

[@Day-ms5tk]

Whew 🥲

[@Truck_Her_Life1]

Exactly 🎯

[@ultimate_beauty0643]

Anytime you let your feelings be your driver instead of your passenger it will confuse you What’s good to you instead of what’s for you

[@christinamedina5485]

" I don’t address shade thrown by a tree with no fruit” 😳 OOOOF. AMEN 🔥

[@sarasmith857]

🙌🙌🙌

[@carlabrooks801]

Amen🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

[@michellereneesmith2225]

Stop measuring your strength by how much pain you can tolerate.

[@ladennayoung2939]

Ladies! Don't be a quarrelsome woman. The tongue is the smallest member of the body, but can be the most deadliest part. We must learn to keep quiet when God tell us to be quiet. We have to learn how to speak life. Lord bless us to speak life in the mighty name of Jesus. Lord help us to learn how to submit ourselves to you completely while we are single. So, we can be the help mate that you designed us to be in marriage in Jesus name. AMEN and AMEN!!! Hallelujah! Thank you Lord Jesus. Amen and Amen.

[@cindyhoyt5909]

Amen!

[@beauciful]

AMEN!

[@motherantioch-pomona1610]

Amen!

[@user87953]

Aaaamen!

[@Chosen4Abundance24]

So true🙏

[@michellereneesmith2225]

Them cutting you off and/or rejecting you was an investment into your soul care.

[@AllysseMarie]

This is a great season to be single in, God is giving us fresh word left and right!! Thank you Lord for looking out for your children that are single and waiting on you Lord 🤍

[@TTFwithmissmonyeki]

Amen to that sis

[@nikkyshamz2696]

Glory to God

[@victory9086]

Hallelujah

[@SophieSerene25]

Amen!

[@yaya91909]

Sis this!

[@kg7032]

3 TYPES OF MEN 1 SELF-MADE MAN 2 CULTURE-MADE MAN 3 KINGDOM-MADE MAN

[@jspratt44]

I am a 19 y/o male and man, Pastor Flowers has been a blessing for me. I started watching him back in March and he has changed my whole prospective on a lot of things. I pray that God keeps using him and keeps blessing his family. Thanks!!!

[@jspratt44]

@Shonda Brown God bless you as well!

[@topneverstop]

Amen brother keep it up and stay in Christ

[@jspratt44]

@@topneverstop Thank you, I most definitely will!

[@allroadseducation2871]

I’m watching in 2024 and this is working on me! My GOD TONIGHT!

[@MaKaylahLetsChatPodcast]

Same sis!!

[@NatashaOranje]

Me too❤

[@kitt7531]

When a man loves you like Jesus Christ loves the church! 🙌🏽

[@nikkyshamz2696]

Dear God🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾....

[@marshaheard1482]

Yeap that part! Warning to ALL ladies, most women won't be able to handle that kind of LOVE. Because it is TRUE LOVE it runs deep, very STRONG & POWERFUL. You MUST have God within to understand it & to be able to accept it. Otherwise, you will RUN from it. #FACTS

[@michellereneesmith2225]

A kingdom man: 1. Gives you his vulnerable self: his fears, inadequacies, his flawed self. 2. He challenges you 3. He expands you 4. He helps you detox 5. He can lead you 6. He sacrifices for you 7. He covers you 8. He complements you

[@Jay21Lyn]

"Forgiveness doesn't mean re-entry". "I will not allow pain to own the pen of my story". "You have to learn to not respond to what you're not". "If you know who you are, you'll not respond to what you're not". "The secret to spiritual success is not just tied to discipline, obedience and consistency. It's also tied to our ability to discern who not to listen to".

[@ank-hara]

My Kingdom man leads me. He sacrifices for me. He is willing to be inconvenienced for my benefit. He secures me emotionally. I am able to talk to him more than to my girlfriends. 🙏🏼 Thank you Lord for your all your blessings. Amen 🙏🏼

[@jft2nd]

Here to help learn how to become a Kingdom man for my woman❤🙏🏿

[@kovyaokamenjono7224]

Amen. I dont have to respond to what am not🙏🏻

[@sarakuzminski159]

Praise God! I know my husband will do the same thing one day.

[@ladennayoung2939]

It is a blessing that you are willing to learn. I speak life over you and into your situation in the mighty name of Jesus. Amen and Amen and Amen.

[@linnette6493]

GOD bless you !

[@eldaahgabriyella4810]

God bless you and you in the process

[@margielavarias1490]

Hallelujahs and Glory to King Jesus Christ! "He can lead me" "He sacrifices for me" "He covers for me"

[@alaynasknox]

A man will always treat you out of what he loves. Wow! That’s powerful.

[@terrybrown7510]

Amen! That will help women prevent choosing/settling for pain instead of patiently waiting on a man who loves God!

[@jaybird5589]

“I don’t have to respond to shade thrown from a tree with no fruit” praise God that had me shook👏🏼👏🏼

[@candacesmith5572]

I am learning to stop going with the flow. And denying who I am, and what I stand for just to be in a relationship.

[@itsgabbieagain]

"going with the flow" should not even be in our vocabulary 😭

[@Nwakaego_]

Learned this in my last relationship and I continuously thank the Holy Spirit for getting me together to stand in the Holy word and not in this world’s compromised values/words.

[@nikkyshamz2696]

So help us Jesus.

[@TimeWithTea]

I learned a long time ago “going with the flow” is how they can string you along

[@itsgabbieagain]

@@Nwakaego_ I'm recovering from this 😩

[@terrybrown7510]

"The quality of man is directly related to the quality of his counsel!" 💯 Who's in your ear? Who is leading you? "If you allow your mind, emotions and your thought patterns to be your guide and counsel, pain is eminent!" 💯

[@tisha_timberli_thetwins]

"I WILL NO LONGER LOSE ME WHILE TRYING TO HELP THEM FIND THEMSELVES!"

[@MsDean09]

Jesus ‼️‼️‼️‼️

[@ieshiaalexander7718]

Tiki, Timberli, & The Twins ummglory

[@terrybrown7510]

"Can he lead me? If so, where!" Where will his leadership take me and my children?

[@crachal1223]

PAIN will NOT have the final say!!! I’m taking my pen back! Pain will cease writing my story.

[@ladennayoung2939]

Pretty picture. Have a blessed and prosperous day in Jesus name. Amen and Amen and Amen.

[@crachal1223]

@@ladennayoung2939 Thank you so much!!! Your picture is pretty too Queen! 👑 We are daughters of the Most High...Have a blessed day full of Favor and Love!

[@ank-hara]

That breakup was an investment in my soul care 🙌🏼🙌🏼 I will no longer lose me while/by helping them find themselves

[@terrybrown7510]

Sometimes we need the breakup to wake up, lol! I know I did and I thank God every day for the lesson it took me so long to learn!

[@ank-hara]

​@@terrybrown7510 we gained wisdom !

[@tasiaowens.]

“ You have to learn how to NOT respond to what you’re not” amen to that ! Everyone don’t deserve a response! Once you know who you truly are/ called to be you’ll understand everything don’t need a response

[@nlewis4196]

Yes! Amen!

[@Miss_Dani_DWhit]

Amen Sis!!!

[@lashaeleaf8842]

🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

[@AllysseMarie]

Okay, you’re stunning!! & yes I agree, AMEN!

[@tasiaowens.]

@@lashaeleaf8842 thanks queen ❤️

[@itshelbee]

Perfectionism is the fear of criticism, dressed up #dope

[@jenniferrivera8627]

"We ask God to heal us..but we don't let go of whats infecting us.." I felt that n what I'm dealing with. So stuck on what could have been.

[@sharenedouglas4072]

I felt that !!!!

[@nikkyshamz2696]

Hmmmm

[@lindakapezi1200]

Felt that too...

[@michellereneesmith2225]

Pain will not have my pen! Pain will not write my story. Pain will not have the final say.

[@zinniyah-priscillaisrael6617]

Kingdom man leads you to thirst and hunger after Righteousness into perpetual Kingdom Principles!

[@topneverstop]

Amen sister you got it!

[@naebutter3967]

Pain will not have the finally say, I will not allow pain to have the pen to write my story!

[@Jguill36five247]

That vulnerability part is so true! Ladies I'm tell you the truth... You will know if a man loves you if he's vulnerable with you and sacrifices for you.

[@nakiberususan2902]

Have just hit da bottom . But this message was for me am blessed throu it. Thanks da preacher , thanks God🙏🙏🙏.have learnt something

[@kaylamiller8531]

What's it mean to sacrifice for you

[@kaylamiller8531]

Or to be vulnerable

[@Justcallme-Janet]

Marriage isn't permanent 👏👏👏👏Don't loose yourself.

[@louiseottley4995]

Oh yes so true

[@nikkyshamz2696]

❗❗❗

[@lifestylewithdarci]

So true. I’ve realized so much I lost within me during the marriage. We’re getting a divorce now. I’ve never felt like such a huge weight off my shoulders! Wow. Blessed.

[@Back2Naturr]

@Reina La'Diosa wow not many people know this. Meet my twin last year and it's a process breaking generational cycles. Changing our DNA and ascending

[@encouragingthesaints]

@@lifestylewithdarci Oh my. Going through this as well. I pray all is well with you.

[@shelleyrobinson2009]

I WILL NO LONGER LOSE ME WHILE TRYING TO HELP THEM FIND THEMSELVES...

[@edwardshaffer3329]

I WILL NO LONGER LOSE ME WHILE HELPING THEM FIND THEMSELVES!!!

[@topneverstop]

So deep

[@valeriejones786]

Thank God for this powerful message it sososo true I am waiting on God to send my husband

[@ChrissyCozyCorner]

Have anointed friends!! Anointed friends breaks yokes.

[@willyblu2]

Ooooo weee! “ You can not change the world until I have first changed you.” I hear you, Lord loud and clear!

[@sheawilliams5023]

It’s 11/17/2022, and I wish that I would’ve saw these “Cuffing Season” preaching. I promised it would’ve saved me so much heartache. I know my Boaz is out there but God will definitely have to send him to me and not me listening to me.😊

[@MichellePortisAndrews]

Amen!,"I have never had the love💗 from a man yet!,"Not even from my father,"Only real love💗 from my father God ,"And that's all the love that I need! 💘

[@patricebarrett5845]

Same here you are not alone

[@cathsau1965]

You are not alone

[@motherantioch-pomona1610]

You are not alone💙

[@elyzazaza]

You are not alone

[@DrKim10]

Listen! Get some therapy if you need it...I needed it to allow me to see that it’s not because I am flawed! YOU are worth it and worthy of love. Don’t let fear make you settle for less.💕

[@michellereneesmith2225]

God is putting forth his Kingdom agenda. Our men need the love of God to lead others into His love.

[@tmg9255]

“...real men love Jesus” My soul says: Yes, yes, YESSSSS a thousand times! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽❤️

[@Mesmerizin08]

Whew! When he described the men. 🥺 God just smacked the whole truth in my face through Jerry. The first “self made” man was exactly what I had with a mix of the culture. I need a kingdom man

[@apriljordan9196]

When I say that you have run all the way through my current situation!!! The self-made man has wrecked me. I allowed it. I am ready to grow in wisdom!!!

[@Junegermaine]

I WILL NO LONGER LOOSE MYSELF WHILE HELPING THEM FIND THEMSELVES !!! 🙌🏾🥰

[@monicareyes7946]

Forgiveness does not always mean re-entry Hallelujah😇😇😇😇😇😇😇😇🙏🙏

[@s.lemonaideforall]

YEEEEEES, i always said that from wen males was a child n was told 2 SHUT up n stop actn like girls, that’s y they DON’T now how to LOVE a WOMEN, it taught them how 2 SHUT down n not 2 express emotions, PREACH♥️

[@makennafarmer9590]

Dear subtitles... CAPITALIZE the “g” in God.

[@dellaswanson9837]

Yours truly, Della😅

[@vonnevirtuous_clifton0112]

I thought I was the only one 😒

[@Nwakaego_]

EVERY TIME! Give God his respect!!!

[@davinityt.741]

GOD .

[@davinityt.741]

Thank you. Just the way I spell HIS name.

[@msaverielle]

The man is the covering.💯💯💯💯

[@OceanfireWorshipMusic]

Next do a sermon titled “When a Woman Respects you”

[@kemiaina8195]

Would love that

[@lexie02jones25]

same here

[@MissElla26]

I'm here for it 🔥

[@Blue77Blue]

from a women prospective their nothing she will not honor when she respect you!!! DONOT BE HUSK

[@Nou75]

That's real

[@gemrae709]

I will no longer lose Tarae while helping them find themselves. Amen

[@TTFwithmissmonyeki]

Pain will not have the final say of my story, in the name of Jesus!!

[@Jay21Lyn]

I forgive myself for all the times I left me behind to chase others approval. I WILL NO LONGER LOSE ME WHILE HELPING THEM FIND THEMSELVES.

[@UrDestiny2]

This was very much needed. We so need more Kingdom made men.

[@travisrogers1465]

Pain will NOT have the final saying!! Pain is NOT the pen of my story!!! ✊🏽

[@mayowright9151]

This right here changed my whole process. This word was the best thing I've heard in years!!!! I've always looked at myself as a man.. but Lord he taught me so many more things that being able to call yourself a man requires. Thank you Jesus and Lord God Almighty. Great message!

[@solo.life.travels7215]

Praise God

[@3arhodes]

I will no longer lose ashley, by helping them find themselves.

[@shydee8393]

🗣🗣 “Don’t throw a stone, that will be thrown at you, if your behind the scenes everybody knew” .........extend GRACE !!! Whew 🙌🏿💥💥

[@LovellDesir]

This is such a good series! I’m binging this and I’m on day 3 of watching this and it’s healing my mindset so much. I’m so blessed by this channel.

[@davidawood7701]

I will no longer lose ME while helping them find themselves! ❤

[@ParisIsland]

Wow!!! This is free game!!! GLORY BE to the most high God.

[@cremeshiaallen7303]

I WILL NO LONGER LOSE MESHIA WHILE HELPING A MAN FIND HIMSELF!!!!🙌🙌

[@neandramc253]

Amen 🙏

[@sac.777]

Wisdom!!!!!! Oh Blessed One, called to teach, may you fearlessly awaken and help to transform lives; break the chains of misguided knowledge and patterns of behaviors that do not serve or express the blueprint outlined for a life of joy, harmony and peace. Blessings and ☮️

[@adi444]

Wow!!!!! 3 types of men.....1(Self Made Man)2(Culture Made Man)3(Kingdom Made Man)...Good Lord! This word has single handedly changed my life and provide insight where I was at a lost and could not process on my own. Amen thank you for this Godly message. ❤️

[@bigombre3867]

As a single woman this is so good. God has been teaching me about marriage and being in a healthy marriage lately.

[@rachaelgordove8430]

Ohh my God. ...I'm so greatful I found this man. A kingdom man..I'm in tears writing this comment. Thank you Lord for answering my prayers.

[@thatGodlyRefresh]

I WILL NO LONGER LOSE RYLEIGH HELPING THEM FIND THEMSELVES! amen

[@kavonmcneal6678]

I WILL NO LONGER LOSE ME WHILE HELPING THEM! 🙏🏾‼️🙌🏾

[@ladennayoung2939]

Yes. Lord. Yes. Lord. Yes. Lord. In the mighty and matchless name of Jesus Christ of NAZARETH. AMEN. LORD WE THANK YOU FOR DELIVERING THIS BEAUTIFUL MESSAGE THROUGH YOUR HUMBLE SERVANT/VESSEL. IN THE MIGHTY AND MATCHLESS NAME OF JESUS CHRIST OF NAZARETH. THE NAME ABOVE ALL NAMES. AMEN.

[@a-tewmom6815]

Men hand out identity. Lord heal the identity crisis of men. Help him to walk in his purpose of handing out identity and be present.

[@maryglorysalala6216]

Amen

[@justbelit]

2022 and so relevant. need a series on this. too few kingdom men

[@bbbnnnccc721]

I WILL NO LONGER LOSE ME , WHILE HELPING THEM FIND THEMSELVES

[@juanyelwhite4027]

OMG!! I did not come to this page to do all of this crying. This message has truly messed me up. I mean im sitting in the parking lot of McDonalds balling. I thought about my marriage and all i could think of is my part in the marriage and what i needed to change within myself. I am divorced now and I know that marriage is covenant. Oh how I wished i would have been humble enough to understand the true reason for marriage before filing for a divorce. Im still in tears right now because this message really hit home for me. Wow!!! Thank you for this life altering message. Thank you so very much.😊

[@lisagoldsmith7435]

Amen!!!! We unknowingly hurt our kids and don’t even realize it until years later

[@Jay21Lyn]

"There's a name above every name that has chosen you". "What if we had men who did a compare and contrast with the way I love, is it how Jesus would love?". "We have to become people who would stop measuring our strength by how much we can take".

[@MyaluvsGod]

I WILL NO LONGER LOSE AMYIA WHILE HELPING THEM FIND THEMSELVES!! 💜💜💜

[@chiamaechua3331]

REAL MEN, LOVE JESUS!! still shouting God's banner in 2024☝️💛

[@monicamorales1411]

beautiful message! this inspired me to have a deep convo with my dad on how to love my mom better. thank you pastor Jerry!

[@nikkyshamz2696]

👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@arnelgordon2584]

You can tell how much somebody loves you by how willing they are to be inconvenienced, for your benefit.

[@ronmoreland7395]

Thank you for this. My journey this year has been to transform and shed my old self to reveal who God created me to be. You're message has pushed me ahead in the journey. Amen

[@tamekawashington1174]

Teach our men of the planet to love and learn in the true name of Yashua. Theres power in his name. Worship Yahweh.THERE IS POWER IN HIS NAME.

[@flowerbomb9241]

He ain’t lying ! It’s a kingdom agenda ! This has been in my spirit all week. !! Speak lord and give us direction to help build up your kingdom the way you would you have us to ❤️🙏🏾

[@JustAGrl007]

18:13 Joseph Test - Forgiveness does not always mean re-entry! 👏🏾

[@sophia4christ]

"I will no longer lose Sophia while helping them find themselves." Amen. 🙏🏾❤️🇯🇲🙏🏾

[@Jezebel066]

First time. Enjoyed the message.. My husband is divorcing me. He tells me no one could love me. I can’t imagine falling out of love & then making someone feel like they are not worthy of love from anyone. Surely someone could love me like this..

[@johnnahj343]

Kingdom Vibes Only!!! The only way a man can truly Love...he must be connected to God the true source of love ❤️

[@Delroy61]

Pain will not have the final say in my story!

[@queenrmia1816]

Blessing's Pastor, and Lady Flowers, Excuse Me This Message Was Powerful Nothing But KINGDOM, PREACH PREACHER, PREACH !!! Thank You Jesus,

[@laurenpettit6151]

I will no longer lose me while helping my parents find themselves. Amen and amen

[@Ishayah_12]

Amen

[@abeekuworldchanger380]

Amen. And friends too. Amen

[@sabrinaseamon208]

Great teacher 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 thank you Pastor 🙌🏽 Glory be to God ! Wow I appreciate this really I do … so many nuggets of wisdom 🙏

[@empresserica]

Yes Pastor Flowers! I need to hear Biblical teaching! The Truth never changes. And I was burnt out on "regular so called relationship advice." Thank you so.much for this!!!!

[@alexandraroginski2782]

He did it and put it on your heart four years ago so today I could hear it..

[@Curlss1992]

Im sending THANK YOU letters to all my Ex’s... Its time to enjoy my singleness and wait on GODS TIMING for a KINGDOM MAN 💙PRAISE THE LORD.

[@joylowderstackhouse4522]

I WILL NO LONGRR LOSE JOY WHILE HELPING THEM FIND THEMSELVES .