When Abused Boyfriends Realize They've Been Saved

[@randomvintagefilm273]

I hate it when men rag on these guys, calling them weak because they don't fight back. No jerks, they aren't weak! They are showing restraint and don't want to go to jail. Of course he could beat her up if he wanted to!

[@nomames6030]

Yet they know that if they report it the female agresor wont really get in trouble, for example the Last case, she didnt even get probation.if it was a man 5 years in jail minimun

[@barbaraingram5291]

How can you Arrest a female she asked.. I ✋🏾 know the answer. when the female doesn't know how to keep her hands to herself.🤷🏾‍♀️

[@voidy2077]

@@barbaraingram5291 fr like what type of stupid question was that, you ma'am if i can even call you that , just tried to pretend you got DV to get the real victim in trouble

[@bobmohan9815]

I am so with u on that. Anybody, any age or race can be a victim of abuse.

[@jimfaust6342]

Exactly 💯 if we fight back - which is what they want - they can call abuse when they are actually doing the abuse. I know because I've been through it.

[@dmp608]

The cops trying to put her in the car reminds me of trying to put my cat in the carrier.

[@stephendriscoll7549]

Haha! Yes spot on! We once had a doberman who hated the rain and it was like that when we wanted him to do his thing and had to push him out of the back door!

[@ben_pettit_4264]

So true!! 😂

[@iona6286]

I relate, with this cat in my thumbnail 🤣

[@MsApril29906]

@@dmp608 or give them a bath.

[@shushimushi]

😂

[@hailla97]

I am a female survivor of DV and it's horrible to go through and it's about time men are being believed as much as women are.

[@titovalasques]

Violence or bullying are the hallmarks of an insecure person regardless of gender and should never be accepted by the victim under any circumstances. Hopefully you found yourself a better situation.

[@KDiamond666]

Me too and when I see men going through it I feel worse bc at least we can talk about it but if they do they are ostracized

[@MrFreeman0179]

Feminism is responsible for that injustice towards men.

[@socialmediamanagement1859]

​@@MrFreeman0179na dude. I can see many explanations for that feminism is definitively not one of them. Do you hate human rights? It sounds like it

[@julieharman1024]

I think women have just HAD ENOUGH, dah!

[@GeeTheeStallion]

Props to the brave boy for sticking up for himself and his dad against evil stepmother. She's a complete psycho.

[@MrsAdamPeto]

Thankfully the neighbors were also witnesses, the video doesn’t show but they were also asked. Imagine if Brittney’s whatshername defense lawyer argued it’s only a 11 yo kid who saw it. But brave child, nonetheless! :)

[@FarmerTrio725]

Yes people even men can be victims no matter what crime it is

[@tbecker97204]

These things are usually *under-reported.*

[@bulletbunnyyy]

@@tbecker97204 because of generational trauma and teaching that men can't be vulnerable or show "weakness" and that they have to be tough all the time. it's absolutely toxic and it's been destroying men's mental health forever. most suicides are men because they feel like people wouldn't listen to their problems and take them seriously.

[@nomames6030]

Not according to feminism. Also female criminals rarely get actual consequences

[@ki8990]

I watch series where they say things like "there's an increase of domestic violence against men" and I'm sat there thinking.. It's always been there, and some are slowly coming forward, bless them, but the way men are treated by society, it's very hard for them. Even the sexual offence's act 2003 (UK) basically states that a man cannot be r**ed by a woman and only *he* is the perpetrator. This has to change, it needs to change, it must.

[@GeeTheeStallion]

The fact that this even has to be said...

[@AimeeAimee444]

Thank you for bringing awareness that men are survivors of DA. Men typically don’t report they’re being abused which is a tragedy. Men should never feel ashamed of reporting being physically or emotionally abused.

[@Fee212]

Johnny Depp suing Amber Turd has changed things so much and for the better. He has gived men the courage to report abuse.

[@JerryNapper]

Although Johnny Depp did help out a lot; the issue still remains that its very difficult for men to be believed in cases of domestic abuse. I do agree this is a great thing thats happened.

[@puclopuclik4108]

​@@JerryNapperalso smartphones help a lot. People can actually record their interaction. I know you may not have always the time to start recording, but it saved so many from prosecution.

[@stickiedmin6508]

Most of these cases predate the Johnny and Amber thing.

[@Bobdrumbro]

@@puclopuclik4108 exactly smartphones helped a lot more than johnny depp

[@fayedunaway8]

Johnny and Amber recorded a lot of their conversations on the advice of their therapist which is the luckiest thing that can happen to you if you're trying to prove yourself innocent. There were so many witnesses in that case too. So many evidence. Also, Johnny is fucking wealthy. He suffered a lot for nearly a decade but he still more lucky than any of us including men and women.​@@JerryNapper

[@RaineSophiaLewis]

I absolutely hate how domestic violence against any gender isn’t taken more seriously! They will just carry on.

[@vintage1950]

Agree

[@vintage1950]

Really good documentary on BBC iPlayer, called - abused by my girlfriend. Absolutely heartbreaking.

[@prettypeggy98]

Agreed, D/V charges should never be plead out OR dropped...most of all the Severity of the charges MUST Never be downgraded. They must be taken extremely seriously for the safety of the Victims. Laws, Sentences, Judges and anyone in the decision making of these cases must be reeducated in their Seriousness. I survived (with children) and moved all the way across the Country. I am now remarried and we've been together for 25 years. I'm so very blessed 💙🙏🏻❤️

[@prettypeggy98]

@vintage... thank you. I'm going to search for it now. Blessings to you 🙏🏻

[@SamFagundes]

Yet it’s clearly taken more serious for women victims. You never see men trying to make the claim they were abused when they weren’t yet plenty of women find it okay to pull that bs. And it’s bc they know the courts and police side with women more then half the time. Don’t act like it’s the same for both lol. Weird ass mf

[@Clare_no_dramatic_nonsense_pls]

2nd case - he's not her son, he's the boyfriend's son.

[@codydody]

Thank you. I came to comment the same thing.

[@aprilbouknightmarquez6340]

The woman is a liar..

[@firefly88887]

Poor little boy, no one would be behaving like that in front on my child but guess he’s a single parent and she was sneaky enough to read all that vulnerability- take care with whoever you bring into your home especially if you have children 🙏🏼♥️

[@cogline9]

At one point she says they have kids together. I'm guessing the son is from the Dad's previous marriage/relationship. Hope they're all doing alright. I'm sure those kids have seen and been through some stuff.

[@0Happīkā0]

This guy sucks. He does this all the time and goes back and forth with his words. He's a hypeman, a sensationalist. This is about the 6th upload of his I watched. He'll say whatever he wants no matter how mixed the words are and doesn't edit it before uploading but has obvious production skills so it's clear that he does it intentionally, no different than his skewed thumbnails he uses as click bait. If you pay attention he says, her son, his son, their son, and then finally her step son. He literally said all that.😂

[@christinaball2704]

My disabled son was abused by his x worst time of mine and his life,if i ever see her again i swear i will serve time 😢

[@samanthacooke8369]

So would I trust me

[@firefly88887]

Would make you as bad as her ! God bless you and your son and may he protect you from the evil in this world- unfortunately there are so many people who see a vulnerability and enjoy the power they have over another . I hope your son finds a sweet and loving person ♥️🙏🏼

[@bowieknife71]

Eye for an eye.

[@judithshelton5655]

I am grateful you are shining a light on this. I bet a lot of men don’t report, thinking they should be able to handle it. Men need protection too. All DV victims need support and care. ❤

[@one-seventeen.rev310]

Shes not suicidal, she wants attention to and be a victim. Shes very aware of this, no need for mental institution.

[@Lil_princess962]

I'm not sure if I agree. something might actually be wrong with her.

[@Gretchengrace26]

From someone with BPD, I could say the same thing, however the feelings are REAL feelings and it’s frustrating.

[@jongeduard]

@@Gretchengrace26 I believe people often confuse BPD with NPD or ASPD. In the case of NPD and ASPD victim playing is usually fake and manipulative, which is an essential difference.

[@robertgibbs6154]

The last one, Suzanne, got off way too light. No DV charge? She PULLED HIS FRICKIN hair out, "a lot of it." If the shoe was on the other foot, HE would have gotten at least 2-3 years in prison. Equal rights = equal consequences, in my opinion.

[@Suspended777DusK]

The judge should be removed. Unacceptable.

[@anaisrosso]

@tamimiceli637it happened in Cocoa Beach, which is in Florida.

[@freedomcat]

EXACTLY!

[@Hexharlow]

This is the case for most DV cases no matter the gender.

[@AquariaIsland]

@@Hexharlow , In a lot of cases gender does matter, according to judges.

[@michelledoty7110]

Bobbi got arrested again on April 14, 2024 and is still in jail per the Polk County Iowa jail inmate list

[@steppy3736]

She should have never been let out.

[@peg530]

Thank you for the update.

[@snoochie4]

That is what is wrong with the "justice" system. A man commits battery on a no contact order, definitely getting multiple years.

[@CatalinaFOIA]

9:50 "You're talking to a child" ... yes! Absolutely talk to the child. Abusive stepmothers are beyond evil. I had one, survived however I survived by running away.

[@firefly88887]

It’s called retrospective jealousy- the children remind them of your ex partner and that they had a life before they came along- this type of jealousy is massive red flag stay well away from anyone putting down your ex or the parent of your children, stay well away from people unable to tolerate you had a life before them they are very dangerous people!

[@Cafeallday222]

Any parent that is abusive is awful.

[@heathermcclellan2604]

My children's step mother is this way. She HATES my youngest daughter because she looks like me. My oldest looks just like her dad. The step mother loves my oldest, will do anything for her and will allow their dad to do things for her. But not the little one :( it's a sad sad world. I can't wait until their dad finally sees her for who she really is.

[@Adeline9418]

Domestic abuse against anyone is serious.

[@ghostofgarycoleman5251]

Apparently. It's serious enough for a $360 fine and 4 hours community service.

[@rachelolson5488]

When my son was abused by a woman he actually was laughed at, i exposed the discrimination.

[@jarrodhall3686]

So he let his mommy do his job for him?

[@Zeus1845]

@@jarrodhall3686you’re what’s wrong with society man

[@SummerRussell-p1k]

@@jarrodhall3686are you okay upstairs like in the head

[@jarrodhall3686]

@@SummerRussell-p1k Thanks for clarifying what “upstairs” refers to. These hacky metaphors are poison for my neurodivergent brain.

[@PizzaMadeMeFat]

@@jarrodhall3686 uh you try being abused as a man and see if anyone believes you he shouldn't have to expose discrimination because there shouldn't be any discrimination there in the first place

[@lisawagner6076]

OMG!!! That first person, Bobby has KIDS!!!?? A stellar mother I am sure!!

[@TammyKincaid-gi1fu]

My thoughts exactly

[@bulletbunnyyy]

and she's making others with bpd/mental disorders look bad. i understand it can be different for everyone, but if shes just saying that to make an excuse for her behavior, it's absolutely vile and this is coming from someone with bpd. if she's willing to lie about her boyfriend hitting her first, who know's what other nonsense she's spilling out. she's got more than just bipolar going on, that's for damn sure.

[@stacieroddy8564]

She Lost custody of them 3 videos back.

[@stacieroddy8564]

​@bulletbunnyyy exactly I'm sooo over folks with just bad behavior, Personality Disorders and Behavioral Disorders and Drug Abuse as BPD. Also, going to your GP and them telling you 'Oh you are probably BD' here is a (med). Then they use it as a 'do what ever you want' and a 'get out of jail' pass.

[@gebruederflausch]

​@@bulletbunnyyyExactly! I hate it when people make it as an excuse to avoid jail time or any accountability. My sister have BD & Depression but never went that unhinged. No matter what Bobby have, she's still aware of her actions & know what's right from wrong.

[@susanh1447]

Second woman: That is not “her own son.” She is his wicked stepmother and they have no decent relationship.

[@mamacass8970]

What?!?!? she doesn’t have mental problems she knows when to switch to victim

[@ronkomro7759]

As most women do.

[@bradandroysawesomelifebrad9209]

As a man who was in a very toxic, emotionally and physically abusive relationship it was pure horror. She was a monster that took pleasure in hurting me both physically and emotionally. I had to hide the physical abuse from friends and coworkers. I never felt safe and never knew when or what I didn’t do or did do to set her off. It was an awful 18 years of abuse. I finally escaped and got away with our children. It’s been 22 years and with a new relationship and therapy I’m finally more comfortable in my own skin

[@PizzaMadeMeFat]

18 years!! Dang how did you even survive that long?

[@darkasmr4310]

That's wassup man keep it pushing 💪

[@CarolinaKinn]

Goin thru it now bro we got a 2 yr old together so that makes things difficult as you would probably know. I’m 27 yrs old and we been together for 6 yrs any advice ?

[@cassielchrist]

These women are unhinged.

[@nomames6030]

They are just strong independent feminists

[@cassielchrist]

@@nomames6030 more like feminazi.

[@bennybop5387]

They know nothing will happen.

[@EyeofDeborah]

Domestic abuse is so dangerous! It sure needs addressed.

[@brendasmith8939]

I am so happy that men who call and are being abused are finally getting help. I have been a safe place for several friends that needed a place to be.

[@arlamay2001]

Equality in all Justice. I’ve known for years that decent men end up being abused by women and then abused by the “ Justice system” good to see these officers investigating situations thoroughly.

[@shiningbind90]

Keep up the amazing work. It's annoying how this corner of KZbin is just full of AI trash these days. Stay real bro!

[@RandomBogey]

The AI garbage is out of control. It’s wild. Every video yt recommends to me ends up being AI made and it bothers me so many people in the comments apparently have no idea it’s not a real person narrating. But, for all I know, they’re AI/bots too…

[@shiningbind90]

@@RandomBogey it gets hard to tell sometimes admittedly. Even I've been fooled once or twice. But theres always one word they trip up on in a non human manner.... Gives the whole game away.

[@RandomBogey]

@@shiningbind90 For real. I went down a rabbit hole not too long ago and came across a video where the script was definitely AI generated and I’m convince the “human narrator” was even AI generated because he didn’t correct any of the obvious grammatical errors in the script and the video of him was blurry and blocky, like it was streamed from an early ‘00s webcam, and there were multiple points in the video where the guy blinked, or moved his head, and his eyes were over top of the glasses he was wearing. I don’t know if it was just an AI “attention” feature on the camera/recording software to make it appear as if he’s looking directly at the camera when he’s really looking down reading a script, but it was creepy as hell none the less…

[@B.L.Creations]

The last one wasn’t justice . She got away with all that she did . That’s not right .

[@oneriscitauca8785]

Well she had something worse than a fair sentence with these cops.

[@zoebear1992]

1st lady is nuts, she has more than BPD.. borderline personality disorder. It's scary she is a mother, with kids to take care of. I pray for her kids.

[@trinityivymoon]

All she is going to do is be locked down won't get out of the pod or nothing

[@Cafeallday222]

This is bpd behaviour. Up, down, a lot of anger/rage, no emotional regulation.

[@AbbaZabbaOlyFrn]

She, unfortunately, set her daughters up for mental instability for the rest of their lives. Given, she is their mother

[@ksaily]

I know you're not making a blanket statement, but I have BPD and I'd never want to hurt anyone like that. Like, I don't even get these thoughts. I think I have the kind of BPD that makes me self isolate and implode.

[@zoebear1992]

@@ksaily that is why I said more than just BPD. I was diagnosed when I was a teenager and eventually it grew to bipolar.

[@aarongruter]

11: 35 " how are you arresteing a female !! " shows you how theyre brain works....

[@socialmediamanagement1859]

hope you mean abusers and not women

[@ANYHOO0]

It shows you how HER brain works.

[@LifeChanges41595]

Times are turning men are calling the police over being attacked by their wives, girlfriends or ex's.

[@jacquelineaslan8403]

I’m glad to see that men are reporting their abusive girlfriends. It’s not a sign of weakness to do so and men need to be fully supported by law enforcement and the justice system!

[@bulletbunnyyy]

@@jacquelineaslan8403 i 100% agree we're all human and we bleed the same color in the end we all deserve help when we need it and good on them for being strong enough to reach out

[@judithshelton5655]

Such a good thing ❤

[@CatalinaFOIA]

As they should; men don't deserve to be hit or abused in anyway.

[@MsApril29906]

Do none of these poor guys have female relatives?! As a Gen X’er, we would have taken care of that hot mess before the police got there. Wake up!!

[@Cafeallday222]

Hahaha i love Gen X women 😂 you guys take care of everything lol

[@jarrodhall3686]

@@Cafeallday222They claim to, but I’ve never seen it. Gen X talks more 💩 than boomers

[@MsApril29906]

@@jarrodhall3686 I’m sure the only ones you see are on the internet. Get to know some of us, and you’ll see the difference. We don’t need to talk shit.

[@jarrodhall3686]

@@MsApril29906 You’re talking 💩 now…on KZbin…no one is afraid of your old 🫏

[@jarrodhall3686]

@@MsApril29906 And yet, here you are, talking 💩 on KZbin. Stop riling your old self up. No one is scared of a 50 year old woman. 👵

[@DemonZangetsu23]

I still don't get how a restraining order is gonna help prevent anything, it only helps after the fact

[@dawnelder9046]

They do not help. A woman two doors down had a restraining order against a man she dated twice. He had been in jail 3 months for attacking her and was let out. We woke up to fire trucks and police. He had murdered her and set the house on fire knowing her 18 month grandchild was also in the house. Her daughter, a nurse was at work. Less than 5 years for murder and attempted murder of the baby. This was not the first case of his attacking people. A man who went to high-school with him said he turned weird when he was 19. Had been normal up until then. These type of people need to be either in jail or in mental health hospitals. They are dangerous and keep getting worse with time, not better. And a few months does nothing to stop them.

[@jenx5870]

I have had a stalker for 11 yrs now. My ex has broken my ankle in two places and caused CRPS because of it. Restraining orders allow the police to arrest the person if they contact you, otherwise there is no protection at all. My ex has served time in jail a few times, has a court ordered no contact in addition to the R.O., has a 2 yr stayed prison sentence, and is now a multiple felon. The police can only do so much, but they can arrest the person every time they violate it. The more they do, the more jail time they get. The rest is up to us. We need to learn our local laws, and learn self defense (2 A).

[@hannakinn]

My sister has bipolar disordee and behaves like this when off her meds. She's attacked boyfriends in the past, she's damaged peoples cars, she made false calls to the police about me (thank goodness I had cell phone evidence to prove she was lying), she's stolen rental cars, she's given my name and info when questioned about damaging a public restroom..it's aweful. While off her prescribed meds she's self medicated with cocaine and alcohol.. it's tough to handle. In one incident she was hitting our then 88 year old mother in the head but mom refused to press charges, paramedics did come and take my sister to the local hospital psych ward for a whopping 3 days.

[@toxi6836]

3 days?!?!?? That’s it?!

[@jesssingleton1200]

The psych ward barely do anything. People are there a couple days and released. It's truly sad and scary

[@TameerMackeyy]

Sadly I was a victim of this kind of stuff and I was still arrested!! And got bonded out cause her rent couldn’t be paid without me and I bonded myself out and I video recorded all kinds of evidence against the woman I caught the charge from and every time she comes by my place cause I since then moved I call the cops and remain away

[@rutharsenault548]

I'm shocked they didn't pull away from the home to talk to him. She seems to try to intimidate the kid

[@BrandyWilliams24]

With the second case, the chick said he hit me in the face and when the cop looked at it it was on one side and then when he asked to see it again she turned her head and showed him the other side lol

[@KingandQueens12]

You have quickly risen to one of my favorite KZbin channels after I found your “exposing bad cops” videos last month. I’ve binged watched everything, so please keep it up, you’re doing a great job!

[@LichtAnker.]

But clickbait thumbnail. 😋

[@miss_mish]

Not good, she is still breathing. That statement is freaking gold!

[@princesspanda12012]

Thats NOT her son, thats the guys son. Good for him for protecting his daddy

[@kimhickman9210]

I’ve never ever taken my hand to my 40 years marriage husband in anger ever. I would have no right to do anything to the man I love and he has never ever hit me.

[@gailknight3128]

I bet this goes on a lot more than we think. My son in law was married and divorced before he met my daughter. He and his ex have a son together, but she will not let him see his son because the last time she punched him in the face, he called the police on her. She used to do that when they were married. But he never hit back, I said perhaps you should have! But he would never do that. If men do the 😢 get jail, but women get away with it, and it is time this changed and was taken more seriously.

[@albertocabezas282]

This is so good. The way you show us these cases is priceless. Precise, concise and without the back and forth between the police and those idiotic rambling lunatics.

[@angiecalderon2078]

I hope these men find the women the deserve.

[@haggard69420]

Damn, KZbin algorithm completely destroyed this video. Posted 10 hours ago yet there is only 1,8k views on it, despite the fact that previous videos have hundreds of thousands of views.

[@gidgemo1869]

S2: One correction - she’s the kid’s stepmom, not his mom. I’ve seen a longer video of that situation and while she’s trying to get dad kicked out of the property, HE owned the property before they started dating. She’s a real piece of work. I will never understand women abusers. While I detest male abusers, I can understand their mindset. But as a woman myself, I will never understand female abusers. They’re just nuts.

[@glendastaples8206]

That’s how victims end up dead, from abusers being able to walk away. In my opinion there should be a mandatory minimum jail sentence.

[@aprilmae1401]

I bet she didn't know the cops can talk to kids during a case/ eitness. The minute he started talk to the kids you can see how spooked she gets

[@Ashtarot77]

I love how these women start crying once they're the ones getting arrested.

[@audkarinen6875]

‘How is it working?’ ‘Not very good. She’s still breathing’

[@abetorres7009]

😂

[@joyous8248]

My gf was abused by her bf… I still remember talking to her … she did mentioned that he was controlling etc etc .. never would I of thought he would kill her … RIP Stephanie Parze .. you are missed terribly & never forgotten … ❤️🙏🏽🥺💐🙏🏽

[@KristinHall0918]

It can definitely happen and does. I spent 8 years in a relationship like this. I still have flashbacks to moments I honestly thought I was gonna die. I was young and stupid and thank God every day I made it out alive. People like that can make you think they "love you" and are normal.. Until the moment you look in their eyes and realize they are no longer there and instead a monster is staring back at you.

[@joyous8248]

@@KristinHall0918 🙏🏽❤️🌺.. keep being strong my friend

[@sapiophile545]

How can she be crazy, if she can strategize *"ASSAULT!!!"*

[@steppy3736]

There's a difference between being real world crazy and legally crazy.

[@sapiophile545]

@@steppy3736 Fair enough. I found it to be narcissism and sociopathy, imo

[@steppy3736]

@@sapiophile545 neither of which are legally crazy.

[@sapiophile545]

@@steppy3736 good points

[@jo-annbastings]

CLEARLY Bobby is VERY CONNIVING and VERY MANIPULATIVE and TOO INTELLIGENT to be considered a mental case. She will turn everybody around her crazy before she would be.

[@ariellechristine3366]

I have BPD and when people try to use that as an excuse to abuse another person it makes me so angry

[@derekwhite9622]

THANK YOU so much for actually having a human read the script! It makes the stories more believable than the A.I. video's where words are badly mispronounced. 🙂

[@Jolene492]

Happily single and I intend to stay that way way

[@Karina_Engr]

Thank you for shedding light of DV, esp. female assailants. Guys, you’re not alone. 😢

[@josephwhitty7323]

SHE HAS BEEN PULLING THIS TRICK FOR A LONG TIME

[@pattycoe7435]

I love the no no no response. Thinking that will hold off a lawful arrest

[@micheleconley5714]

They want to be the center of attention no matter! The more negative the better. Very toxic!

[@Sanlia_Julisa]

“Not very good, shes still breathing” i cackled so damn loud…🤣🤣🤣

[@stephendriscoll7549]

If a man defends himself in these cases then the law will say they are the aggressor! Men have to show restraint and the abusive women know it and use the situation to their advantage! DISBELIEVE ALL WOMEN until proof is evident! They lie like a cheap watch and invent things to accuse the man of! The authorities have got to stop assuming women are truthful!

[@commoguru]

For us men, we are damned if we do, damned if we don't. If we don't fight back we are viewed as weak but if we do fight back we are abusers.

[@Layla.H.79]

Excellent content. Excellent channel. I suscribe!

[@geraldlevan6754]

The'll just keep on abusing time and time again as long as there are no consequences.

[@1greatNorthwestmom]

I’ve been hoping you would post soon!! Thank you!

[@crankypantsmcduff]

Some people should be alone forever.

[@CatalinaFOIA]

Agreed

[@morganrodrigue5652]

Awesome job on all your videos…thankyou for all your hard work 😊❤😊

[@patriciaplayford7421]

My son had a wife like this and unfortunately he ended up up in jail , it took so long to get him out and she just continued to do this , her “ friend : unfortunately was a police officer that would turn up , the end I had him come to live with me , because this , her “ friend “ just kept it up , police officer sometimes help their lovers , Friends , , this was not in the US A . It was not until I help him , that he could get away from her , she lived in their unit , wreaked it , sold drugs, plus used them , the neighbours told me and the paramedics, but the police here don’t believe the men , just the woman . I went to court after this in the end we got some justice , but because of him being in jail, and court system , he has to live with the D V charges , it’s changed my son , his mental health issues , etc . Not the same man, a lot of women do this here , as there are no laws to really help them , women have all the rights .

[@miss_mish]

The 2nd story, ive seen it before. After she was taken away the guy broke down in tears and kept saying I can't believe it is over. It was heartbreaking to see his sadness but sheer relief at the same time.

[@lynnetrathen4587]

It’s disgusting that men don’t feel they can report domestic abuse 😢😢

[@daddydoubleds3656]

What??? 😂 the very first scene is a male running towards to police to report his “victomhood” no hesitation

[@roderickluke9346]

The saddest thing about it, when men get abused, people just laugh like it's all just a joke.

[@lynnetrathen4587]

@@roderickluke9346 not me, I have seen to much of it on here to ever think about laughing 🤦🏻‍♀️ it’s just sad for them 😢

[@judithshelton5655]

@@roderickluke9346that is wrong, they should not do that. I hope times are changing and men feel more supported in the future. ❤

[@Daz3685]

4:57 the way that cop laughs when she says f**k you 😂

[@allyyoung3586]

I love it when women try to get their boyfriends arrested and they end up getting arrested themselves for DV. I hate it when they are the aggressors and try to play the victim

[@ilovetrijets]

wishing all male victims of DV healing and justice ❤

[@ladygumshoe7402]

The one that got pepper sprayed😂😂😂😂 I loved sering her cry her eyes out😂😂😂

[@shushimushi]

It wasn't necessary action at all. That's abuse too.

[@shushimushi]

It wasn't necessary at all. She was basically on the ground, handcuffed. That's abuse too. Unprofessional and idiotic.

[@sikhanyisiwendlovu5047]

😮omg she's a monster. You done good by reporting her.

[@louisasmiles]

Second dude cried with relief when they took that woman away. You missed to is that part

[@zukanator3555]

I watched my sister abuse my brother-in-law for years to the point that me and my brother and I tried to go to our brother-in-law and beg him to put a stop to it. And of course, by the time he'd taken enough to the point that he defended himself, she had him arrested. The only thing that saved him from years in jail was my brother and I testimony. Abuse, regardless of gender is unexcusable and there is no justification for it

[@ednaatluxton4918]

It's not her son or stepson. It's her exboyfriends son. He has been trying to get her out of his home for months. His uncle,dad family own all those places around him. It's his home. His son. I seen the entire video awhile ago on the police video cam site

[@tomasarico8412]

The chick in the towel sounds just like Kamala Harris 😂😂

[@sherrimiller450]

BOY WAS THIS TRIGGERING😤A year ago my son’s wife attacked him and scratched him up and bit up his chest and arms. This is the second attack like this one(that I know of). She has hit him many times, broke things in their apartment (including expensive things I purchased fir them)and got into fights with A LOT of other people. Most times she is not provoked by them…it’s her anger issues and alcohol. This last attack happened while they were at a campfire get together in the woods. She was arrested. The police came because she had taken off into the woods…drunk and my son could not find her. He called for help(we live in Alaska…not safe…) When the police came some went looking for her while others stayed back. An officer saw bite marks peaking out from my son’s t-shirt and made him take his shirt off. They found her and took her to jail. I was hoping this would be a wake up call for her. BUT the next day while we were on the on phone arraignment and the judge was asking for her name and information….the DA said they were dropping the charges. They told MY SON to go pick up his wife from jail! He immediately called us because he was in shock and confused by what had just happened. He went and picked her up. I have not spoken to her in 16 months! They are having a rough time of it, but I have realized things will not change until THEY decide to change it! Thank you for letting me have an outlet about this. It is something we never talk about here. I spend every day waiting for something to happen again😢

[@toxi6836]

Tell your son that divorce isn’t all bad. And please do check in on him often

[@za2959]

She won't change. There's no reason for her to do so. Only your son can help himself by leaving her. She may have mental issues but it isn't your son's duty to be her punching bag. He has a duty to himself to honour himself and be just to himself.

[@SammyB7]

This is real for men! These women are lucky that these men didn’t unleash the same treatment onto them! Nothing to be ashamed of!

[@LoneWolfArtist]

Note on "I have BPD" .. Borderline Personality Disorder ... It basically defines as abusive and controling. Her psychotic break is most likely related to drug use but could simply be caused by him breaking up with her.

[@PhancyPants12]

20:26 that made me actually laugh. First genuine laugh of the day !

[@RyZeEsportsOfficial]

Goated channel love uuu bro

[@aniota1648]

Yay! You're back! ❤

[@annabambus6572]

These women have CHILDREN under their " care" !!!!!

[@barearmz2794]

HA! She's still breathing! Cracked me up.🤣🤣

[@nicolehastings4879]

I've been cheated on and didn't assault anyone

[@jamesgrigsby3971]

They all think that because they were angered by something, that its okay to physically abuse that person! Its the most blatantly obvious sign of an evil and narcissistic person, that has absolutely no emotional control or maturity!

[@samwade1009]

That is ridiculous, last story she got a plea deal? I am here to assure you if a man did what she did it would be jail time and a DV on his record forever

[@joelmcclatchey1863]

The first cop laughing at the lizard trying to choke herself with the seat belt. 😂

[@darkpisces8125]

9:22 had he evicted it wouldn’t have taken him months to get her out. All he had to do was go to the courts and fill out eviction papers. Duh.

[@d8ngdeld8ng]

2nd Footage: I saw this unfiltered from other channel and it's very heartbreaking & relief as well knowing the DV victim--man here, is a heart patient & undergone several heart by pass operations and has in fact a pacemaker, yet he is a hardworking man and continually the breadwinner of his family. Her GF was truing to kick him out from his own house. He cried after being believed by the police officers as the real DV victim. I hope he's doing well, got a PPO against her and the child/ren custody now.

[@stiantiger]

The last lady walked away with just a fine because the police fucked up and pepper sprayed her when she was in handcuffs....

[@rachaelpate6778]

It didn’t say anything about her getting off with just a fine bc she was pepper sprayed. Easy there

[@andersen6422]

I met a man who was in the psyche ward because he had been so badly abused for so long and the cops just laughed. He had vicious bite marks on his back and many scars. He knew if he fought back, or even protected himself, he would be arrested because she was so much smaller than him but was refused justice as a victim of domestic abuse. I'm glad that Johnny Depp winning his case against Amber Turd has changed the way we see abused men.

[@courtnirose516]

10:30 that's not her son. He's the boyfriends son, then her and the boyfriend have 2 kids together... girls I think. But I watched the full body cam a while back and the dad tells the officers that she's not the boys mother, just the mother of the 2 little ones inside. Now knowing that, though, isn't it more laughable that she's trying so hard to stop the cops from talking to a child that isn't even hers 😂 mind you, the officers ASKED the father if they could talk to the boy before they went and got him... the dad said absolutely!! So..... what's the problem!?? Oh, that's right.. she knew the boy was going to tell the whole truth of what he saw and whatever he said, the cops would believe over either adult!! THAT'S why she didn't want it to happen 😂😂

[@nolaalbritton5290]

It’s wild that people actually hit others….. how immature and childish. I’ve never once been tempted to lay a hand on someone

[@kimhickman9210]

As a women there are some crazy ones, I’ve seen some and heard them lie threw there teeth.

[@princessprincess1209]

“How am I getting arrested I’m a female” really says everything about her

[@rjay7019]

They should be charged the same as a man would be. 😮