When Asians find out other kids don't get beat by their Parents

[@adiagarwal3784]

*"They beat you because they love you"* As an asian, I can confirm this is the asian parent mindset lmaoooo

[@KLewis-ih7xm]

It's the mind set of most non-white parents. I got beat minimum 3 times per day. Once before my mother goes to work and for some other reason after school and I was the top student so it wasn't the grades

[@Friend7092]

I can confirm to

[@stickmancyborg2770]

yes they think beating you is helping to shape you into a better person but its not really

[@mustafajamal5418]

agred confirmation id backed by me :>

[@b.h.6689]

I am a Brazilian and it is true here too

[@molly3057]

My family is Italian and I totally understand the thing about crying. My mom’s famous line was “Stop crying or I’ll give you something to cry about.” 💀

[@sketchiefello9002]

Then they'd do it anyways because you sniffled

[@quit.........]

At this point whites are going to be like “BUT IM NOT WHITE IM FRENCH” 🤦🏻‍♀️

[@rarart-gamesproductionbyci9353]

Yup, always meant as a warning.

[@WildSheWolf_]

... thats why they haven't seen me cry for years eheh

[@LexMouse]

They said this to us in South Africa too.

[@xoxtank]

He start to shake when the other kids talking about that stuff they get for doing nothing, I get that.

[@elisakrivas]

When I heard about that crap in high school, I just thought, "Well someone's going to grow up as a brat depending on mommy and daddy's money."

[@oceanmythjormundgandr3891]

I kinda did the same thing since I was raised in a low-income home. I would just watch and silently scream inside my head as they bought clothes during recess online and talked about their allowance from doing nothing. They didn´t even learn to use the money well.

[@kiera6326]

@@elisakrivas Nah, not always. It’s good for them to have money 🤷‍♀️ but it’s insensitive to flaunt it around kids who don’t get that sort of thing

[@elisakrivas]

@@kiera6326 you don't just give people money for free, that's not how the world works. Gifts are fine, but allowance? No. It's not good for kids to have money without either earning it or having it as a gift for a special occasion.

[@kiera6326]

@@elisakrivas I disagree. Childhood is the only time in your life that you don’t have to earn money. I understand preparation, but it’s important that they’re allowed to grow and have certain experiences. I think as long as they behave and try their best, they should be rewarded, and I think money is the best kind as they can use it however they like, and get to experience what it is they’ll later earn money for. Some kids don’t care about it, because they’ve never known what they’re missing. But that’s just my opinion.

[@jfamousmsbc]

Dam, I’m Mexican and this hit home. I laughed but teared a little, smh …

[@calebk1841]

Oh it really HITS at home i'll show my self out

[@elvenleaf5589]

Arabs do that too

[@Nowhere985]

Same but I’m African American.

[@nathalia-oj4wn]

Fr

[@user-kf6lu4dn2r]

There's a difference between abuelita's bedroom slipper across the fanny versus getting beaten black n blue with a wooden cane

[@maicemaouishi6929]

Beating and insulting your children is wrong but also over spoiling them is wrong, I'll try my best to make the balance, I want to raise my child with love and at the same time teach them responsibility and manners. DON'T HAVE KIDS IF YOU'RE NOT RESPONSIBLE ENOUGH

[@tatjana7008]

My mom did "balance thing" with my sister, and she is still spoiled and achieved less in life. She also assumes that her life must be life Hollywood movie where she has everything she wants. So its not always helps

[@miikelofficial2500]

Damn, u telling on ur sister ​@@tatjana7008

[@mark9294]

lol, well are you responsible enough? How can you tell for sure before it happens

[@nagiwagi]

"what have I done to have the right to cry and that I don't deserve to cry" yeah I felt that one

[@marykuria1136]

U and me both

[@your.secret.stalker]

Me too

[@candyqueen0064]

I'd reply with "getting a 78 in physics!!😭😭😫" or whatever caused the problem and they'd yell at me more, but at least I could keep crying

[@lucretia1362]

*takes a moment to have a brief flashback* yeeeep

[@ACEsParkJunheeWreckedMeHard]

sounds like: "Men can't cry, if they do they would be girls" 💀 - said by random female influencer

[@lushci0us247]

"THEY BEAT YOU CAUSE THEY LOVE YOU" I love that

[@OofLt]

You love that so… you beat that?.-. Wthh

[@reanimatedDboy]

It's true they beat me and the love me, Trini parents are strick as asian parents

[@crabbypocket6458]

Tbh, if that is love. I’d rather not to be loved in my life. That is just an excuse to justify their violence and nonsense.

[@igglye6805]

@@crabbypocket6458 nah, it’s discipline

[@lushci0us247]

@Sco-Cen OB2 i know it is! And I love my mother for it, but its funny to me :)

[@That_Isnt_Mr.Charizard]

“Beat you? You mean, beat you in Fortnite?” “Bro, who plays Fortnite? He’s obviously talking about Minecraft” 💀💀

[@angiiloxyt]

@Yassified ye it's a bot it's been spamming this in replies

[@hologirl4242]

@Yassified aw i love ur pfp 🥰

[@AlicornHana]

I swear they thought asian parents have these and i never thought they have any multiplayer games on their phones before💀

[@beny.6866]

@beyond your imagination dayum i got potatorolled

[@idonthaveanameyet]

Smash bros*

[@omargaming142]

Never forget the phrase “It Hurts Me More Then It Hurts You”

[@you-so-stoopid]

Omg that is so true

[@TheRedBread0]

Yes

[@litebrite8993]

These videos show me that my mom is truly the most angelic woman on the planet. I'm so lucky to have her. Growing up my mom was the adopted mother to all my misfit friends and basically anyone that came through her door. It didn't matter what your situation was, who you were, or what you had done wrong, if you needed something to eat and a warm hug, my momma always had your back. In the years since my father passed, she's been struggling to keep the light on in her heart. Videos like this remind me how amazing my mom is and how determined I am to see her light shine again. Thx for the laughs friend!! My wish for you (all) is that in your next life, you get an awesome loving mom like mine!! XD

[@elvenleaf5589]

No need to brag

[@Maya_hee]

@@elvenleaf5589 I think they can if they want to

[@shirisha7636]

Are Asians don't get love it's like child is their investment lol 😅

[@editachew55]

The absolute disdain and disbelief he had when he heard “allowance” “don’t get beaten” “do nothing” has had me cackling when I know it’s the same to me- I swear every Asian has faced at least the beating INCLUDING the chores

[@angelusmortis5352]

kzbin.info/www/bejne/hZutlp6HYtJ0nrs Found it!

[@azmodanpc]

Well, lemme check: 1. Beatings: check 2. Not speaking back or not allowed to stay silent when questioned: check 3. Chores: plenty and unskippable, check 4. Emotional damage: check

[@nishikun867]

That one time my father beat me with a cane for staying at a friend's house a little bit too late after sunset.💀💀💀

[@justjalyn9042]

@@nishikun867 ugh that sounds abusive

[@KAMISAMAKISSFAN]

ok not true dude im chinese and 1st i dont have chores to do, 2nd i never got beaten, if my mom gets mad she just shouts and just use her flip floppers 🤣to hit me like if i threw something because i was angry she would get mad and wack that hand meh- doesnt even hurt that much😂flp floppers, i also have only 2 dollars in my allowance guess i have to do chores with out telling my momia, free money :) or maybe not- so not every asian person has been beaten i have only been hit on da hand. but probably not alllllllllllllll asians

[@jorielnunezmartinez9516]

🤣🤣😂 I reacted the same way when I discovered that my friends got an allowance when they were kids.

[@TheSpacePlaceYT]

I don't get an allowance per say but I do get a lot like I have a whole music studio sooooo

[@jorielnunezmartinez9516]

@@TheSpacePlaceYT Good for you👍.

[@digimonalvatrax2738]

Waaaa I was paid when I did chores

[@Dragonpanda_egg]

Same🤣🤣🤣 Especially in school they would talk about it on the bus and I was confused

[@user-fw3vv4id5z]

I never got allowance either.. I told my parents all my friends had allowance, and they said I wasn't old enough to have money AND they had no reason to give me money anyway 😂 I had good grades and everything but "that was my duty" therefore... No money for me until I started working lol

[@youtubecommentergal4346]

*“I beat you because I love you.”* *“It hurts me more than it hurts you.”* words I heard as an African child I'm sure Asians can relate. Drop a comment and a like if you relate. 🙋🏽‍♀️

[@jihoonim409]

relate

[@_Vintie_]

Same as an african

[@marijougonzalez8437]

Same as a Hispanic

[@fatnfrail]

Jamaican, same

[@vilyar122]

Oh geez my parents said the exact same thing, WHILE HITTING ME XD

[@thatsly_jaymer]

Anytime I cry, my parents just yell at me to stop. They don’t even give me a reason 💀 Just “stop that.”

[@TheCloudHashira319]

For me they say be quiet before I give you a reason to cry

[@Jujuonthatbeat777]

same

[@vkiran3576]

My parents yell at me to stop crying so the neighbors don't hear it. I cry when I'm alone at home.

[@mark9294]

Wow, that sucks. Sorry about your lifetime of emotional baggage

[@noodlenado7827]

I remember when my class was talking about things we did over the weekend and I mentioned that I cleaned the whole house for my mom, promoting my teacher to say “that was nice” and ask if I get paid for chores, to which I responded “no” with a laugh, as though it was a silly idea. I was just stared at by her and the whole class for the next few seconds. I went to a private high school btw, so while another girl mentioned her family having a maid, I realized that getting paid for helping around was not *even* in my wildest dreams lol

[@NTJedi]

My parents had me working at the catholic school after school ended during 7th grade and 8th grade.... all the money went to reducing the cost of tuition. I never saw a dime.

[@-skzlunqtoc-2087]

I'm not an Asian, but this is way too accurate. I don't talk back or anything since that is wrong, while others around me are shocked that I don't talk back and just look at the floor and bow instead. Like lmao who does that THEY ARE YOUR PARENTS NOT YOUR FRIENDS. 😔

[@xx-hw2hr]

Because sometimes your parents can be WRONG, theyre not some god or something like that

[@zb3576]

I'm the only one in my family who doesn't talk back to their parents.

[@-skzlunqtoc-2087]

@@xx-hw2hr even if they're wrong, you can't possibly talk back or even talk shit , deep down you know they are in the wrong , they'll eventually know what they did wrong and talk it out with you. ( i get hurt a lot so when they talk it out I still feel down but what can I do they are my parents lol )

[@kseniachevenard839]

@@-skzlunqtoc-2087 How is "they are my parents" a reason for anything?

[@-skzlunqtoc-2087]

@@kseniachevenard839 idk if it's different for you but I was taught to never do anything that will make my parents unsatisfied. if it's different for you then that's a different story. but as for me I never talk back since that is considered rude or something.

[@umayanganee4645]

"stop crying or i'll give you something to cry about" famous words from my parents that is engraved in my brain💀❤

[@kyliesmith9199]

Same though! A while ago, I came to the realization how those words impact me today. I don't like to cry in front of anyone else so I hide to then cry while forcing myself to be quiet while doing so. It's u h.. a pretty fucked up thing to say to a kid 😭

[@umayanganee4645]

@@kyliesmith9199 true dat. it affects me the swme way...im never gonna do or say that if i have a kid

[@kyliesmith9199]

@@umayanganee4645 Me neither. Whenever I tell my mom I won't do what she did to me (she would slap me and then turn around to threaten to do it again) to my kids, she tells me that they won't be raised well or something along the lines of "well what are you gonna do when they're being little shits?' and tries to tell me that I will and should resort to hitting them. In conclusion, my mother is sick in the head.

[@umayanganee4645]

@@kyliesmith9199 oh god thats terrible...i mean i love my mother but if she hit me for saying i wouldnt hit my children i would have serious resentment towards her...i would actually feel like SHE herself would hit my kids if she said that.. i really hope my mom doeent do that. im glad youd never do it either

[@kyliesmith9199]

@@umayanganee4645 Yeah. I also feel like my mom would probably hit my future kids hence why I might just cut her off.

[@weridplusho]

1:55 I love how he's so shocked his accent slips out. 😂

[@michaelfreydberg4619]

Dude you are talented! Love how you can play both roles

[@toraryoung]

This is exactly what happened to one of my cousin's son. He found out his friends don't get beat up, he was shocked. This exact scenario then went on right before his eyes. He returned home and told my cousin that he would never hang out with his friends again because not only they are idiots even their parents are idiots. His friends fail in almost everything but their parents just keep spoiling them. The kid then told my cousin that if he keeps hanging out with those idiots, he would turn into an idiot too. My cousin was completely dumfounded.

[@motiurraheman8135]

He is raisen good that he understands it.

[@artemisa1523]

That's just bad parenting from both sides, my parents never hit me but I had good grades, never commit a crime and never did something too stupid, the worse thing I did in my entire teenage is to talk back a few times. Actually, I was way more well-behaved than my former classmates that got beaten by their parents. You can be a strict parent without being violent, in most cases the parents that beat their children are ignorant or just lazy.

[@ithamarlowe2629]

@@artemisa1523 If my parents didn't beat the good into me, I'd probably be in jail right now. My grades still sucked all the way until I found a career I actually liked.

[@elisakrivas]

@@artemisa1523 Exactly. As an adult, I actually suffered and got set back from the abuse I went through as a kid. I can never condone that behavior. However, I also understand, by raising my little sister as my daughter, that parenting requires guidance for your child and you can't just let your kids do whatever they want all the time. We can be strict without being abusive. The physiological effects of abuse last for life. It's not helpful at all. I was also a strait A student and graduated at the top 1% of my class. I took IB classes, above AP level and in the end it still wasn't good enough for my mom. All I wanted was love and acceptance. As an adult, I realized I never should've had to work to be loved. We work to progress ourselves to be the best we can be and we should learn self-motivation, not fear-motivation. Fear-motivation doesn't last. Love isn't earned, it's given.

[@dojinmayflower6185]

@@artemisa1523 exactly, my mom never hit me too and I always tried to be respectful to her and not to disappoint. But I did misbehave, especially in puberty I talked back quite a lot, but shouting was enough for me to shut up and even start crying because you failed her. And then I saw kids who got beaten up but didn't really correct their behaviour 🗿

[@MOI-rt5zi]

As a child whenever i got beat up by my mom, my dad would say that "SHE HITS YOU BECAUSE SHE LOVES YOU". But honestly, it's just abuse under the pretense of love. Throughout the 17 years of my life i've heard this one sentence, " Because of you, we are suffering." constantly and it still somehow manages to pierce a hole in my heart. I feel like i became a burden by being born. In the past i had tons of sui**dal thoughts cuz of this. I wanted to d*e so bad just to escape from this feeling of being a burden. My last resort to live a mentally healthy life is to leave this house which i'm gonna do next year. I'm not abandoning anybody since i was taught that i have to payback every cent they spent on me and it'll take quite a few years. I just want mental peace and privacy.

[@foxmovies4776]

Don' t pay back every cent they spent, that's just another part of abuse. they spent every cent on you because of their choice, you didn't choose to be born. Just leave.

[@izzyash775]

I’m happy you realized what you want and what would make your mental health better while pushing through that abuse,Congratulations to you!

[@andreabradley5837]

I was 49 years old when I finally got therapy. Please do it sooner. Hopefully there is a nonprofit that will cover the costs. You can maybe get help now.

[@christd5439]

As a black women, I believed in discipline without it children turn wild, beating not so much. But paying back your parents!!! that's insane, they make a choice by having you, and they should cherish their child not every one can have children. I hope you feel better when you leave, good luck.

[@uvwvwevwebueonyetenyevweug1029]

You don't need to give anything back, it was their desition ando responsability to have and raise a kid. Children do not owe nothing to their parents.

[@razw6285]

"they say they beat me because they love me" how can this get can anymore relatable 😭😭😭

[@safiyagitta9239]

I understand this line.. it’s discipline.. lol

[@razw6285]

@@safiyagitta9239 fr

[@atheanonymous5868]

@@safiyagitta9239 rip dumb bozo l

[@Killerbee4712]

2:27 Parents: Here's your new Kindle 14 for the eye protection function so you can read your textbooks faster

[@FurrySlayer05_]

as an asian, i get this- whenever i do anything to impress my parents, they just say good, or praise me for a bit then everything goes back to normal, and i have all my friends bragging about all the stuff their parents give them even when they dont do anything, and then im chilling here getting nothing for good grades, and chores

[@pannajohns5255]

I’m thankful my parents were able to teach me manners and discipline me without needing to use violence or shouting (which is the bare minimum). I live with my mom now but if she does something wrong or if she hurts me somehow, I tell her and she understands and we talk it out in a civilised manner and vice versa. That’s why we have such a close and healthy relationship. We see each other as people and have respect for each other

[@jossanmolla5264]

Finally! I totally agree with you. Reading the comments it seems that everyone think that the only way to discipline is corporal punishment 🙄 I mean, i am asian (born and raised in europe thou) but my parents almost never raised hand against me. I have a great relationship with my parents, too.

[@oceanmythjormundgandr3891]

Yeah, same here. My mom never even raised her hand. Communication is key. She made it clear where she had her expectations, and if I failed to reach that I communicated that I literally had reached my peak in for example math. Then we would work things out. She wasn´t too slack nor did she choke me with expectations. And If she has hurt my feelings, I let her know. If I hurt hers, she lets me know. If I needed to improve, she would let me know and somehow direct me to get better. I still don´t know how she did it. I have gotten shouted at for a shitty grade before though, and those few times really made me make sure I at least would try my best. If we can´t be civil in our home, how can we expect anything to be better later in life? Sure, for some it works out to hit the child that is reliant on them, but its a gamble to teach someone vournable that hitting is fine inside the home.

[@rosesfalldown_playz241]

​@@jossanmolla5264 Not True! If you don't punish the kid, the kid will never learn and if you just "talk" about it the kid will take it lightly and forgets about it.

[@metal9076]

you guys must have the most luckiest and lovable parents, having to live in fear if you did something wrong EVEN the slightest bit will result to your hands getting beat, belt to your butt, getting slapped, and getting beat to death by a pan while you have no free will to do anything cuz if you even talk to them the slightest, you become orphan.

[@rosesfalldown_playz241]

@@metal9076 Nahh bro I refuse to think that its that cruel like the way u described it

[@Queen_Valeria]

When you're half Asian and half European so you can relate both 😅

[@frog9907]

Same. Ngl tho my european dad is more asian than my Asian mum not kidding

[@Split_tails]

Eyyyyy same!

[@meow_258]

yooooooooooooooooo you get a shampoo bottle thrown at you for not getting 100/100 *AND* you get a bmw for chrismas

[@Iwachu420]

Guess Russian

[@rosesfalldown_playz241]

Im Filipino and Mexican and I know for sure that a Mexican and an asian home can relate to all this

[@carolinesmithson7712]

"if i cry they ask WHAT HAVE I DONE TO HAVE THE RIGHT TO CRY AND I DONT DESERVE TO CRY".. HOW CAN THIS BE SO ACCURATE. I'm both laughing and crying rn 🤡

[@liasubs11]

omg or if they threaten to beat u more if u cry

[@ahanonudora]

@@liasubs11Yh, it gives me flashbacks

[@liasubs11]

@@sermajore1187 yeah exactly ufff glad im past that age but i still get yelled at..

[@thememaster7]

Do many Asian parents get disowned?

[@rosesfalldown_playz241]

Im allowed to cry which I do sometimes. Then I realized that if I cry they win

[@Saki-uf6mb]

I swear, as a immigrate to the U.S Whenever my friends want to come over they’re confused why I can’t invite them. 1st I’m not allowed to have friends over till I get my own house or if it’s close family, 2nd I don’t want my friends calling the police because they think my parents are full-on ABUSING me, 3rd The house is so clean they’re eyes would be blinded, And 4th Since everyone in the house gets their own part of responsibility My mom would get mad if I wasted my cooking skills on my friends that probably won’t remember me in a few years. YEARS!

[@wheniamanightcoreanimearti5391]

1:16 in my country, if someone fails, parents marry them off(if they are girls) or make them work instead of study😅😅😅

[@Rosyhyacinth]

India

[@HampnieHambart]

I'm not Asian but it took me 21 years to realize that not everyone got hit by their parents in order to "become a good person"... That is kinda sad No allowance too cuz we were poor af

[@happyfacefries]

I feel the same. I'm white but it wasn't until I was a teenager that I found out that it's not normal to have your father throw your mom across the room like a rag doll

[@rikhmjustsomeguywithmousta4971]

Ofc middle class people,Asians,Black people are the ones who have experienced this lol

[@Kaliel213]

@@rikhmjustsomeguywithmousta4971 so the people with much money dont get beat?

[@sangredelangel]

5th grade I learned that not all dads beat up their kids. Eye opener.

[@balques1906]

@@Kaliel213 they are talking about allowance

[@Viv_So_Silly]

As an Asian I can confirm that pain is love

[@asleepgirl9300]

As a latina i can confirm too

[@ManeThingz]

@@asleepgirl9300 😂i think all of us gets beat except for the white kids

[@Wee_Voo]

As a human in general, I can also confirm that pain is love regardless of the pain.

[@thememaster7]

That means that love is bad

[@ManeThingz]

@@thememaster7 no it doesn't. The Bible defines love go look it up

[@zakksu]

As a Brazilian this is too accurate. My family believes tough love & discipline is affection Finding out other kids get allowances for doing chores or stuff around the house blew my mind more than them not getting beat up because my folks always told me I shouldn't be praised or rewarded for doing the bare minimum of keeping the house clean that's not extra or praise worthy Grades & skills are what mattered & the better I got the less scolding or punishment I had Damn it's always people of color who be raising kids thru violence while the other side spoils their kids for failing upwards 😂

[@preguicadetu]

oh nao estava esperando por isso, mas ao mesmo tempo nao me surpreendo e_e

[@clod8]

The violence does not help the kids-it’s internalized racism-and they’ll grow up to beat their spouse instead of helping them.

[@harryshorrock2118]

You Don't have to be physically and mentally abused just to be a decent person. I wasn't and I have a 96 in maths an 88 in science and nothing below 80s besides English. Furthermore, it is messed up and child abuse to hit a poor innocent youth because your too damn lazy to clean your own dishes, despite being an adult. Lastly, not everyone who isn't abused is spoilt, its called not complete cruelty.

[@clod8]

@@harryshorrock2118 Thank you!!! WTF is wrong with explaining to your kids why something is wrong and teaching them better? Hitters act like the kids already know things as if the kids are grown up.

[@someotherguy41]

It’s the same for me

[@epaeneter]

As an Asian, this is very relatable, especially the "MY PARENTS SAY THEY BEAT ME BECAUSE THEY LOVE ME" Part.

[@mimiandy1683]

I find it amazing how you can take an action (hitting/whipping) and folks will find it unacceptable if its done to other adults, but it is okay if its done to kids.

[@CineShinya]

No matter how comedic this sketch is, this topic is just so cruel. I can't relate to the way his friends brush it off, nor all the spoiling they get. Here having an allowance is not a must for kids but at least we don't take beating as the norm.

[@dishamahesh1112]

I'm Asian. But thank you so much for writing this. I hate how people in Asia normalize that. That said, I still enjoyed the video though.

[@CineShinya]

@@dishamahesh1112 I wish as time passes they won't normalize it anymore...

[@spacekettle2478]

Obviously there's a balance somewhere in the middle, and this is just showing the two bad extremes for comedic effect.

[@CoCoFantastique]

There is always a balance.... a few people had similar comments about the beating and I respect that but no one has yet to shame the gross entitlement some children are raised in. That is not a good character builder either and that behavior has its own damaging effects.

[@dishamahesh1112]

@@CoCoFantastique I agree. Spoiling children is just as bad as hitting them. I just think no one mentioned that in the comments because spoiling your children is already seen as a bad thing in Asian countries (rightfully so) but child abuse in normalized.

[@eepyru]

"My parents tell me they beat me because they love me." As a Pakistani I can confirm. I would always ask myself at night, "but then, why do I cry sm out of sadness, why do I not feel any sort of connection with my parents, why do I feel like my parents are my worst enemies if all of this really is about love?"

[@birbs6484]

"MY PARENTS BEAT ME BECAUSE THEY LOVE ME" every Asian...

[@asleepgirl9300]

Every latinoamericans

[@ahanonudora]

And African

[@maxieworld7043]

Every African

[@nerdpocalypse]

as an asian, I can't relate. they yell at me instead

[@Mood_Lee]

@@nerdpocalypse me too but I never got hit or anything except for my cousin's mother and my Aunt who hit me in the head with papers lol

[@GlitterGirlBella]

Just for reference beating your child is not abuse. Beating UP your child on the other hand is. Something that causes a little sting or a bruise is not considered abuse, but if you purposefully make the child bleed or break bones or just have an injury that takes more than a day or two to heal, it is abuse. I mean if you got a bleeding scratch from a physical punishment it's somewhere in between, but it can be judged by considering how often it happened or how big the scratch was and if the bleeding part was on purpose.

[@littlebluesy]

And that’s how I learned kids don’t get beat.

[@sapphirewyren02]

I'm like the Asian kid except the being Asian part. Seriously accurate

[@nivdauprise2804]

"If I cry they ask what I have done to have the right to cry and that I don't deserve to cry" That right there is me lol. The literal truth of Asian households.

[@maivpaj5213]

This is accurate. 😆

[@Ritamkarmakar-ok4uu]

How can this be so relatable 😃.

[@whitelotus02107]

Are you okay? Do you wanna talk?

[@Ritamkarmakar-ok4uu]

@@whitelotus02107 I'm kinda fine but I'm flabistered that in other cultures parents don't woop there ass

[@calebdung2740]

This is honestly relatable for a lot of Asian kids.

[@animeweeb_23234]

"They beat you because they love you" As an asian, I can confirm this very true

[@jessiealexander3515]

Luckily, my dad didn’t beat me. But he always yelled at me in multi-hour long verbal smackdowns, just SCREAMING. Discovered 3 years ago it gave me literal PTSD, no exaggeration…

[@oceanmythjormundgandr3891]

Getting screamed at by someone you care about and rely on can feel so horrible. Okay in moderation, but... yeah too much can lead to PTSD. Hope you get better.

[@andreabradley5837]

I went through that as well and honestly I would have rather been hit.

[@All-star_Giga_Gargantuar]

Physical damage can heal over time, but emotional damage sticks with you.

[@Maya_hee]

@@All-star_Giga_Gargantuar Physical damage and emotional damage can go hand in hand especially from someone you love

[@kyoukaaizumi]

The jealousy i felt when people said this 📈

[@sazanamijun]

frr

[@IamMoby339]

as an asian, I can confirm that tis is THE MOST RELATABLE THING ANY ASIAN COULD GO THROUGH

[@sammjaisais7135]

I'm mexican and the "You get an allowance?!" Reminded me of my childhood. Man, I remember asking my parents for allowance once and they were like: "Why? You get food from home. You don't need anything else. Why would you need that? No."

[@bhavyapal]

I am an Asian but my parents don't beat me they become angry they just raise their voice and that's enough for me . I am glad that my parents are not like other Asian parents who beat their children like almost every cousin of mine gets beaten by their parents and many of my friends too.

[@pikachuthunderbolt3919]

Dont worry Many Indians don't get beaten up either

[@gaster2246]

My parents beat me when I was a kid, now they dont beat me because they say I'm too old for it.

[@surprisedtom8382]

@@pikachuthunderbolt3919 indians are Asians. So

[@Saira124]

Actually asian parents are changing ❤

[@ericafernandez8261]

The face at 2:20 is the pain of every Asian kid 🙃🥲

[@felixir3776]

It's very hard for me to read others comments where they go that they're cool with being beaten up. But then again, I have extremely verbally abusive parents and I'm fucking still traumatized from shit I saw. Which was aftermath of my mom 'strict''s care. But if everybody's fine with scolding like that, okay. That's their lives but I'll never be able to accept the fact that beating up does good to people.

[@BahamaWynters]

So sorry for the verbal abuse. Being hit is a physical moment; the words linger. Be kind to yourself and know that people all over the world know what you got through and support your better health.

[@AaronLongin]

Bruh I'm a African and when I get beat they say it's because they 'love' me. 💀💀

[@luma4682]

I want to give a hug to the poor asian guy ywy

[@hriday26]

"You get 2400 dollars a year doing absolutely nothing"....Ya i felt that 😂💀

[@tom-qj6uw]

Actually, it is slightly more than 2600 dollars ...

[@EliteClyderX]

0:33 that's inversely proportionally accurate

[@monicab.5241]

I love your stuff. You make me laugh so hard and that has been much needed this past year. I appreciate the hell out of it! Thanks

[@Delinquentw]

asian parents and traditional brazilian parents are basically the same, but br parents don't care about the grade itself, just whether you pass or not (meaning someone will get beaten up or at least blacklisted)

[@Madam.A_6934]

His face in the end is 😂😂😂😂😂

[@athena7872]

So accurate man.. When white people are going solo trip to another country at age of 22.. we asian can't even go out with friends for more than 2 hours

[@lamorthonyfairyfriend4082]

Yeah my parents would never agree to a sleepover. (Both Chinese)

[@athena7872]

@@lamorthonyfairyfriend4082 exactly.

[@Heart1nParadise]

*I remember one time I asked my dad why does he always hit me and then talk with me if he could just talk it out with me on what I did wrong, and then he said that 'It's because I love so much that's why I beat you.' I was like 'oh why can't I hit you then.' (That was the moment I realized I fucked up, never ask your parents 'why')*

[@emerald5735]

Omg.. you are genius and brave enough to ask that question..

[@Heart1nParadise]

​@@emerald5735 *Still it took 10 year's of suffering for me to even gather the courage to say such daring words. XD*

[@emerald5735]

@@Heart1nParadise yeah I can understand that.. have a good day /night whatever country you are from . I am from India btw bye .🙂

[@Heart1nParadise]

@@emerald5735 *My nationality is American and my origin is India :D*

[@emerald5735]

@@Heart1nParadise it's nice to know that ..🙂

[@jjjakumbbs1043]

As a black kid I can confirm we also live with the mindset that our parents beat us because they love us and I'm cool with it without their method of discipline I'd be a horribly spoiled person cause I wouldn't have listened.

[@nellnong2637]

I agree but some people think that that is horrible and portray such discipline and strict parents as abusive

[@nellnong2637]

@@suziepeaches321 kids have different attitude and i believe in "are the pots beaten to break, I'm not glorifying abusiveness here but sometimes it's needed for certain types of kids

[@ithamarlowe2629]

I agree. If they never beat me I'd probably be in prison for a bunch of crimes. But fortunately I learned right from wrong early on.

[@thabangsibanda3282]

Agreed when I was a kid, I use to comeback home late, being ignorant to the dangers of the night. Then my mom start whooping me lol, I stopped coming back home late.

[@phanchloe9617]

I ve never be beaten, and yes I m rather spoiled but it doesn't mean that I m a brat, a delinquent or that I don t listen to my parents. One s authority shouldn't reside in his/her violence. When you explain somth to a child with sensible argument they generally obey

[@viveleshistoires4874]

I see many comments saying stuff like: « in retrospect, I’m glad my parents beat me because I wouldn’t have turned out good otherwise », and I’m sorry to say this but…No. That’s not how it works. Good parents SHOULD be able to raise their kids well and teach them respect without using violence. I know, if this method of education is all you’ve ever known, it can be difficult to understand that it’s far from being good. I get it, really! But let’s stop lying to ourselves: by thinking things along the lines of « well I got beat up and I turned out fine! » we’re just perpetuating a cycle of abuse and thinking it’s okay or even necessary to abuse our own children! The first step in breaking this cycle is to realise that this isn’t the way.

[@blinky415]

“the only way to make you learn is to beat you up” ~my mom

[@hibikistherapist]

Reminds me of the times as a six year old when my mom would try to beat me with a coat hanger whenever I took too long to solve a math problem. I had to lock myself in the bathroom a lot those days and they sure were one of the scariest times of my life. It's scary even thinking about it.

[@Kureemy]

Wow this reminds me of the time my mother bit me when I couldn’t solve this Math problem. At least I just get the emotional damage without the physical damage now :)

[@doodaaadooodooo]

Wew reminds me of the time my mom hung me from the fence thingy of our roof.. 4 floors high- because of a math PROBLEM- WHAT IS IT W ASIAN PARENTS AND MATH

[@陳逸文-r8e]

I can relate. This remind me of that time when my dad hit me with a coat hanger cause I refused to take the medicine for the fever. I was like about 4 or 5 years old.

[@digimonalvatrax2738]

Wow idk what to say....but I empathise they probably went thru the same stuff and thought it was normal.

[@rosesfalldown_playz241]

@@陳逸文-r8e I can relate I was sick my mom tried giving me medicine and so I ran around the couch so she couldn't catch me and I got beat with the belt that was prob the worst beatings I got

[@marieladomingo6068]

My mom used to hit me because of my grades and everything else like losing my watch or getting scratch wounds because I fell playing with my friends. I developed PTSD. By age 9, I was having chest pains and extremely fast heartbeat especially when I hear her enter the house when she got home from work. She finally stopped when I was 11 when she saw the effect it had on me. But even today, when I hear really loud voices, even happy ones, I recoil and get the same chest pains.

[@Saira124]

Sorry, Are u ok now ❤

[@jjjakumbbs1043]

And also as an African child I feel it especially since our parents would beat you then when you cry they'll ask what you're crying for and say they'll give you a reason to cry....like you already did that that's why I'm crying 🤣💀

[@sunnylaurie91]

Haitian parents do that too. When I first moved to US, it was quite the shock to see how kids talk to their parents.Growing up in Haiti, we couldn't even look our elders in the eye as it was considered rude. I struggled with that as eye contact is huge in the US.

[@phoenix3br722]

Yes!👆🏽

[@BahamaWynters]

@@sunnylaurie91 Yes, and at job interviews, too. "They didn't make a lot of eye contact." Well, after 400 years slavery, looking directly at your captives could and did get many killed. This is global. River Song. Ah, I miss you.

[@asmaanwarhussain.8099]

My guys on his way to becoming the next Steven He

[@xxkurumixx4093]

"they say they beat me because they love me" KILLED ME . . . why was that so relatable 😭😭😭 and I also NEVER get allowence

[@chewsday5760]

Flashback when I cried because I was stressed about my school, instead of comforting they gave me lecture on why it's unnecessary to cry and keep going on with the school topic 💀

[@aditigupta8512]

"They hit me because they love me" damnnn😂😂 true tho

[@PK_W255]

only some of these happen cuz my dad who isn't Asian usually protect me by convincing my mom not to beat me so lol

[@MechaSpino431]

tbh as a arab, arab kids and Asians Asians have a lot of things inCommon

[@Elvenboadicea]

These sketches are absolutely fantastic 🤣

[@fruixt_juice8561]

My parents have actually never hit me before, but the crying part is so true. My mom gets MAD when I cry.

[@agirlwithaspoon6095]

Salame! But being called weak and dumb for cry my emotions out is way more painful than an actual beating

[@kyliesmith9199]

I feel this except my mom would hit me and then would tell me that if I didn't stop, she'd give me something more to cry about which meant she was just threatening to hit me again. Nowadays, I have this suspicion that she likes it when she causes me pain in any way.. which is fueled by my belief that she is a narc since she never owns up to anything..

[@amour_jks]

My mom just told me this today morning..She said "We can't make a good child if we don't beat them" and also "We beat you because we love you" Whats up with this mindset lmao I can't even slam doors in peace

[@tom-qj6uw]

"We can't make a good child if we don't beat them" "Why don't you actually learn parenting then?" If that does not help actually give them a book about good parenting with the helpful bits underlined.

[@bavenom5786]

as an asian, I can confirm this is true

[@MultiStoryLover]

I feel this video on so many levels 😭😂😂😂

[@Pencil2.0]

The "right to cry" part was my mom all the time when I was young, the only reason I don't get beat as much as I did back then is because my family moved to Canada and learned that people don't beat their kids on daily basis :,))

[@NewFelixTwo]

That revelation was truly a kick in the stomach

[@omniboo1762]

50 dorrah will never get old

[@LittleLulubee]

I can totally relate to the friends 😂🤣 But seriously, it’s so sad that so many kids are beaten by the people who are supposed to love and protect them 💔😢 And so disturbing to see them leaving comments excusing their abusive parents!! Talk about Stockholm syndrome!! 😱

[@maxieworld7043]

Help- It's just different culture tho. It doesn't necessarily mean that the parents are abusive. It mostly comes from love

[@YoutubeModeratorsSuckMyBalls]

@@maxieworld7043 it mostly comes from poverty, but not from culture or love. You just don't realize how hardly we depend on money

[@inversedfox9471]

@@maxieworld7043 i was told to go kill myself by my parents :D so yeah it most definitely comes from love

[@maxieworld7043]

@@inversedfox9471 gosh. I hope you're ok after that

[@Traumglanz]

@@maxieworld7043 No, it exactly means they are abduzier, but you can be an abusive peace of shit and still love your kids. It's pretty hard to not love your kids. And loving your kids really is the secret ingredient that gets the job at least 75% done.

[@arceelovesyou]

THE WAY HE STARTED MOVING THE CAMREA IN THE END LOL!!!!!!!

[@whoissanpai]

1:34 as an Asian, I can definitely confirm that this is true. It is sad but that’s just how it is. Whenever my mom hits me, later on she goes on to say that she does that out of love. I got the shock of my life when I confronted my American friends about their parents hitting them and stuff and got to know that they’ve never dealt with such stuff. I genuinely thought others were treated the same way as I was by my parents. My Asian American friends related to my situation though but the American ones freaked out lol

[@catooze6510]

This is so relatable I can’t ☠️

[@melmeltheartist]

I’m south Asian and I had this same conversation. This kid from Boston was like “isn’t that child abuse?”

[@CampingforCool41]

It is.

[@kara.drawss126]

@@CampingforCool41 what is child abuse, really. Like I think physical terms are necessary sometimes.. if the kid isn’t behaving or just being very violent themself, then.. idk. Is it ever acceptable for the parent to use violence before the child though?

[@CampingforCool41]

@@kara.drawss126 No it’s not acceptable to use physical violence on a child. I’m sorry you were raised to think it’s ok. There are ways to teach kids good behavior that don’t involve any physical or mental abuse. If your child is being violent you figure out why and work through that, get a therapist whatever, you don’t fucking hit them for gods sake. The only thing that’s going to teach them is to hide shit from you better.

[@mx.n.3682]

@@CampingforCool41 except any form of discipline, whether it's beating them or sitting them down for a talk, will get kids to hide things better. And not everyone can afford/has access to a therapist.

[@CampingforCool41]

@@mx.n.3682 Not being able to afford a therapist is not an excuse for being violent towards a child. And calmly talking with your child through problems is leagues better outcome than hitting them wtf

[@mehrinbegum4828]

This is soo accurate 🤣

[@pr2_2001]

When I was young my parents said I would get a phone when I was 15 but my older brother got one when he was 9... These videos are funny and I can relate to them and they brighten up my day, thank you for entertaining us, love you!

[@Milky_Suki]

As an Hispanic Asian, I can relate SO much to this video, Because Là, when I do something bad and my mom starts yelling at me and I'm crying, she's like " You want something real to cry about?" ( But in Spanish )And then whips out the bamboo stick that people use to scratch themselves with, and then starts to hit me HARD

[@Random_hyacinth]

This is literally so true: “They beat you because they love you” and “why are you crying what have you done right, you don’t deserve to cry” those lines are so familiar.

[@galaxypotatobears3954]

This is so accurate for me (the non-beating up part-) My asian parents don't believe in giving me money for chores they say it's nessasary and you shouldn't get paid for something you have to do.

[@liasubs11]

relateable had almost the same convo with my bestie she is like "wtf i never get beaten up thats abuse" ....💀

[@Saira124]

We got beaten up, But still it is abuse. You know..

[@aminaqureshi-l8q]

omg this is soo true im asian and when i went to school people would get crazy gifts and stuff and i would just be sitting there in a corner with my one true friend

[@Mesling_]

the most fake laugh award goes to 0:40

[@isnm4936]

"They beat you because they love you" This is soo accurate, im not asian but as an Arab i can confirm that its accurate.

[@isnm4936]

@Robin Sailo no they are not

[@elvenleaf5589]

@Robin Sailo I'm from north Africa

[@DamnSatoru]

As a Hispanic I can relate to the “they beat me because they love me” honestly because if they don’t discipline like that kids be grown not knowing to do shit 💀

[@artemisa1523]

I can't relate, my parents aren't violent monsters. Not all parents in Latin America are an ignorant bunch of brutes that assault their children.

[@whitelotus02107]

No, my parents don't beat me and i respect them a lot, i have never done something rude to someone on purpose, while some people i know get beaten and still don't know shit

[@sketchiefello9002]

We didn't turn out alright, we need to start being honest about that. We only feel like we benefited from the violence committed against us because sometimes our parents would trauma-bond with us afterwards.

[@whitelotus02107]

@@sketchiefello9002 i feel strange because in the comment section of this channel almost 99% of comments are from people that are beaten by the parents, my heart is breaking please.

[@rosesfalldown_playz241]

@@whitelotus02107 Now that im a little older and can't get a beating because of some reasons I am glad my parents did beat me up. I see my friends and the way they talk to their parents and it just blows my mind so don't feel bad.

[@Sugarandalotsofspice]

I can’t have an iPhone until I’m 15💀✋ and can not date until I’m 25. I also do not get allowance because my mom says that living in her household is more of a gift. (Which it is 😌 always appreciate what you have)

[@Sugarandalotsofspice]

Oh and I can’t have many friends I can have less than 5 or 4 because my mom says its too much drama and I need to focus on my school work💀✋she’s even talking about me getting a scholarship even though its summer and I’m not even in 6th grade yet 💀✋ I’m going to 6th grade but she’s already talking about this.

[@victoria.thorne]

I agree that kids don’t need allowance, and it’s okay to not have a phone but.. you have to be joking on the dating one right? 😶 I must be missing the joke.

[@yunyun5118]

I wasn't allowed a phone until i started highschool (16). No dating only marriage 😃

[@Sugarandalotsofspice]

@@victoria.thorne nope, not a joke. I can’t have a boyfriend until 25 (even thought I would basically be an adult) and I can’t wear make up until I’m 21.

[@Sugarandalotsofspice]

@@yunyun5118 I-😧 I also can’t get married until I’m 30 or 35.. and my mom has to approve💀✋ my mom is 33 by the way which doesn’t make since

[@bigfloppa8887]

This is so true in so many ways.

[@Popunkwillneverdie]

But yeah spraying piss on the neighbors boxers while it was on a clothesline to get revenge was hilarious........ he said it was fresh 😂

[@happyfacefries]

I think it depends on how old you are and the area you live in. I just turned 30, am white, and grew up on a poverty ridden area. Everyone I knew got beat, but I remember feeling lucky because I didn't get the belt, get cigarettes put out on me, or broken limbs.

[@vanbi9430]

Broken limbs and getting cigarettes put on you???????? That must’ve been so scary I rlly hope those ppl r doing better now tho. Although if I have to be honest they’re probably not because of their childhood

[@PurplePh0enix]

My parents have been incredibly good to me. Although we sometimes disagree, I always immediately feel bad if I’ve been disrespectful in some way. Thankfully, they’re always forgiving! I used to get spanked when I was little and will get smacked on the leg or arm sometimes now if I’ve done REALLY bad. But, for the most part, we’re all pretty chill - I don’t “get in trouble” very often. Unlike these jokers in this video, I do have to work for my allowance: dishwashing, cleaning, and the such. Great work on the video btw!

[@mushroomexpress3049]

yee sometimes you need to be be smacked if ur out of line. its like snapping sense out of you. my classmate do drug and violence and only finally come to his sense after his dad find out and smack him.