When Black women who've protected the vulnerable become the vulnerable ones

[@StephaniePerry]

This was an INCREDIBLY good conversation. Watch it twice. 💗

[@jzs3348]

Yes it was sorry I missed it live

[@FreedomCoachTish]

Agreed! I’m watching it again too ! 😂

[@subnettingcheatsheet]

Same. She's so witty & wise

[@YogaBlissDance]

Toxic work environments create toxicity in the body, as we fight ourselves to go to the work. My two besties when I was a professor BOTH had chronic illness/poor health. They both begged me not to "quit" to keep "fighting" I said I cannot go to a job with people I dislike who dislike me...it's unhealthy. I walked away from a tenured position, but I was so worn out already (by staying at that "good job", my whole life was thrown off. Now I coach women to listen to their feminine intuition (again) and stop the masculine (pushing against our inner knowing/emotions) to just keep going...I say if you stay for the insurance, you will NEED the insurance (b/c you will get sick.) It's a weird Catch-22.

[@Pretzelgal]

There was some real truth in this session. I realize how deep the programming is within us. Working yourself to death to enrich someone else who will never see you or care about you is not life. We've been taught that not holding down a job and moving from one place to another is being a bum. Being a corporate slave is draining and soulless.

[@FreedomCoachTish]

Isn’t that the trick? Teach you to look down on one member of society so you NEVER choose to WILLINGLY become like them! 🙄

[@nelliehyder8303]

Watching for the first time. The videos are always informative. Watching from Austin, Texas. It is Tuesday, January 28th, 2025.3:25 am. Thanks for sharing and always be safe.

[@leflore101]

Coach Tish is wise, experienced, and enjoyable! Just like a smart Black Woman!

[@FreedomCoachTish]

Thank you kindly friend! 💙

[@PickyPippi]

Perfectly stated. Amen Leflore!

[@YahsLoveisEnough]

I love black women. Although I don't encourage cape wearing. Black women have some of the most nurturing healing energy in the universe. They create places like this channel and other gaslight free zones. This is life changing information. Thank you. Ms. Stephanie and Coach Tish.

[@serenitythyme219]

I love both of y'all! To see this talk feels my heart with joy.!

[@sayyidahthewriter]

Change the channel! ✊🏾

[@toshpattersoncoaching]

GAP JOB is great advice! I had a GAP JOB where I was able to decompress from my previously toxic and stressful career.

[@FreedomCoachTish]

That’s the ticket!

[@LearnSpanishwithChelseaLovely]

Another great video, Stephanie! Coach Tish provided so many great ways that we can navigate these challenging times in the U.S. personally, as well as in our careers. I heard there was mention of countries in the Caribbean that could be a good option for travel. I personally have loved traveling to the Spanish-speaking countries in the Caribbean! My experiences in these countries truly healed me and changed my life for the better, after years of experiencing anti-Black racism in the U.S. Traveling and living abroad can be so healing, and knowing Spanish and being able to communicate with the locals makes all the difference. Traveling is still a wonderful experience if you don't speak the dominant language of the country but the connection you can make with others when you speak the language is on a whole other level! If there is anyone here who needs help learning Spanish for their move abroad, my platform is specifically designed to help beginners learn Spanish from scratch! Thank you again Stephanie and Coach Tish for another great video!

[@sabrinamadison8769]

Watching on replay. Excellent conversation

[@kimsmith5797]

Work differently! That part. 😳Love Coach Tish! 💕This was a much needed conversation. Thank you Ladies!

[@bridgetteyelder77]

Watching the replay. Such good resources given in this talk.

[@kimmiesmooth971]

Coach Tish you are telling my whole present situation right now

[@teresajones9509]

Can you PLEASE do another The Job Liberation Virtual Summit for Black Women. I’m just now seeing this on your channel. Please do this summit again! 🙏🏾

[@theshy1socal]

Omg I needed this. I love the transparency!!

[@unityaboriginelove6595]

I would like to hear more about women who have 1 to 2 years until full retirement. We will lose a lot if we early retire. How do we handle a toxic environment until retirement? What about our mortgage and bills? Jobs are not easy to come by especially at this time and age. Please expound more about these issues.

[@EmpressWanderlust]

1. Change your mindset, change your world-believe in yourself. Age is just a number. 2. Downsize. 3. Create an exit plan-this will also distract your from your toxic environment which after all is temporary. 4. Scout countries that fit your budget-lots of countries are cheaper to live in than the US. Good luck!

[@sharonivy888]

I went on leave two years before my retirement. I didn’t think I was going to make it. I applied for disability and was denied so I had to go back. I sold my house and sat on the savings for a few months then went back for the last two years. Y’all need to sell those houses and let the material things go. But a cheaper home in another area or overseas.

[@amenajackson8133]

Pray and try to hold out. Take all your leave and rest as much as you can.

[@sharonivy888]

I was talking with a affluent white male getting to know him. We talked about relationships. He told me the greatest problem black women have are black men. That we are hardworking, industrialist, loyal and it want returned. Inhh go it soooo mad at him and stop talking to him. Years later, I see that he was right. Hard economic times are coming and a lot of black women have fed to no resources. A lot of us have financially invested in helping black men who just used us to come up. All of the tax return checks. Overtime pay. Working two jobs. It is time black women get a clue and start building with other like minded black women. Move in together and split the costs. Share babysitting duties. Move back in with your parents and help each other. Move in with female friends, cousins and build together. Get out of debt asap and stop following these instagram people telling you to buy this or go in this vacay. They are there to keep you in debt. Build a safe zone for yourself without the threat of male abuse. Our addiction and obsession with saving black men has always been our downfall.

[@kittykatz4001]

There are data and studies etc.: Yes, indeed, sis!

[@EtherealSolana]

Yes, people from the outside can see some of the things we just cannot see when we’re brainwashed not to see it. Our community has worked to make us permanently the mule of the earth. The majority of blk folks I saw protesting in 2020 were WOMEN. The bw who died got crickets compared to the man who the whole world all the way till Korea came out to protest. When little blk girls get graped, impregnated and killed, the community protects the abusers and not the abused… It was so disturbing to me to hear my 52 (at the time) year old mother tell me that speaking against RKelly is “taking down ANOTHER innocent BM” I was horrified and disgusted but kept my mouth shut bc bw protect their abusers ALL the time In addition, I’ve heard that when landlords see a bw who wants to rent, they are more likely to deny bc of the MAN you bring along with you. Our attachment to and obsession with them is killing us!

[@livefromtheground7274]

Nah, he is unqualified to to assess Black Woman’s issues. ONLY WE are qualified because we live it day to day. You were right in cutting him off. I get so tired of others’ assessment of us as they make it nearly impossible for melinated men to exist.

[@dominiquebt]

Love this conversation! Thank you Ladies♥️

[@GentleGlowSerenity]

Take you both. God Bless

[@a.c.n.9421]

I’m heading to Playa for 2 months 🎉

[@janeenharrison1953]

Good Coaching, Tish. Thank you! Spot on about the water! I wish you expanded on this. The past couple of months I feel my body craving the ocean. We belong near it. We crossed and survived the Middle Passage crossing it.

[@FreedomCoachTish]

Stephanie has kicked me into gear with my own channel 😂- I’ll do a video about it. What would you like to know more about when it comes to water?

[@sharonivy888]

I long for the ocean too. Trying to move to East Coast or West coach to be closer to the ocean. It relaxes me. Calms me. I feel the spirit of Mother Nature strongest when I’m in nature.

[@GentleGlowSerenity]

Thank you Both Very Good Thank you!!

[@ayannaabney9099]

Wow- from the future! Thank you

[@angeliquechappellesoars]

There’s so much in this discussion. I’m interested in discovering more about Human Design. So much of my story is on par with what the guest speaker shared about her life.

[@FreedomCoachTish]

Schedule a session- would love to chat more with you about it 💙

[@jaiyabyrd4177]

Thank God for this Channel It's honest and uplifting 👍🏾💯👍🏾💯

[@GentleGlowSerenity]

Love it lead with a give

[@kimmiesmooth971]

Coach Tish my fellow Southside Chitown sista

[@peacefulexistence]

This was great!

[@FinallyFree33-b78]

This was very eye opening. What advise do you have for a 65yr. Newly retired woman, with very little money, but is so ready to leave?

[@sharonivy888]

Golden Girls told us. Move in with other like minded women and pool resources together and look out for each other.

[@tinamaples6717]

And good day everyone!

[@Blessed-rt5ww]

I will need some coaching and I thank you guys for this helpful information ❤❤❤❤❤

[@katherineyoung8814]

Great discussion and so many gems 💎

[@a2.oasishaus]

Good morning ladies!

[@tinamaples6717]

Thank you!

[@livefromtheground7274]

6:58 😆 Stephanie! I have mastered this. 😂. I think of my Ongoing Plan and all the great things I’ve built for myself over the years and how that would end if I choked a “Mofo” out. 😆. Sorry for profanity inference. Be well.

[@tinamaples6717]

Scorpio😊!

[@jeanm7332]

Hi Stephanie, catching up on the show.

[@barbarapinchemrandle2474]

Thank you

[@marciataylor1574]

Gm Sistas, so busy listening, didnt check in.😂

[@tinamaples6717]

Luv it!

[@analoggurl]

great conversation

[@Nobleheart81]

I'm ready

[@reg3173-y2d]

I understand that CA State Disability requires a psychiatrist to send you on leave. You dont have to take the pills 😮; it is your decision. It also helps to have a licensed therapist to support need for leave. State Disability gets you 60% of your income. FMLA keeps your job for 12 wks annualy. A simple google search will give the info. Check with HR too.

[@LuxeSciTech]

Good morning ladies

[@angelaash1775]

Good morning from the future, Ladies!

[@sharonivy888]

Also get you degree overseas. It way cheaper. Rich people didn’t send their kids to college overseas because it was expensive but because it was cheaper. The things we don’t know. Transfer your license to other countries so you can expand your job opportunities. By now you should have your passport. If you don’t have it, get it!!!!

[@tinamaples6717]

That's deep

[@GentleGlowSerenity]

Look at God!❤

[@barbarapinchemrandle2474]

Hello ladies

[@livefromtheground7274]

44:01 Correction … respected then liked.

[@CandyMichelleJohnson]

Good morning

[@GentleGlowSerenity]

Hi Queen

[@csimpsontailoring5972]

good morning beautiful woc

[@GentleGlowSerenity]

Oh yea are yoga😮

[@rosearthur2332]

Build those relationships with docs and therapists, before we need them. They will need to sign FMLA documents.

[@CY_Enthusiasm]

I wanna move to Playa De Carmen, just cause it’s not too far and not too close to America. I just don’t know where to begin. I been weighing out my options of having dual citizenship for my family, cause I’m tapped out with America. Especially under Trump!

[@DiarioCasaDelGufo]

❤❤❤❤❤

[@kittykatz4001]

NTS: “Rest as resistance.” “Afro minimalism.” We quit America”

[@milamila88]

🩷❤️🧡💛💚🩵💙🤎

[@AllYay]

I'm trying to get hired as a housekeeper in a hotel so I have time and bandwidth to create.

[@DMbriggs601]

Replay

[@vannessaspence9731]

Hi Steff. Without taking your focus off what your doing, help educate black women on exodus out of this country, can you explore what it would look like if first generation immigrants born American to legal immigrants were to be deported by law? Can you entertain this serious traumatic, PTSD, thought provoking idea, that might come into law in 30 days, while still teaching us how to move abroad? I have been listening to you and your fellow speakers for almost three years. Unfortunately this threatening rumor just jilted me into action!!! Was I wrong to ask for your thoughts and opinions on this?😊

[@FervidFeline]

I don’t know if this helps, but this is unlikely to happen, at least not right away. The order is a violation to our constitution so it will have to go through a legal process, which may take years. The more legal minds look at it, the more it looks like that order was created just to create chaos. It’s very shoddily written. I’m not saying it’s not important, but if we’re triaging recent events in terms of dangerousness, this is near the bottom. Take care my friend, you are not alone ❤

[@vannessaspence9731]

@Scents4em Thank you for your thoughts. I will consider them in my own pondering. I must say, I am not at ease.

[@Gullahbae]

At least they have a home to go back to. African Americans don’t have that privilege and can potentially be negatively impacted by the reversal of birthright citizenship…

[@tandt7694]

​@@vannessaspence9731May I ask if a person in that position has the ability to get a passport for their parents country of origin?

[@vannessaspence9731]

@@tandt7694 This is why I wanted Ms. Perry to talk about this or at least entertain what it would look like. My grandmother, that has pass away, came to the US during Jimmy Carter presidency. She sent for all her children to come to the US together at one (8 children)time which was unheard of! So there's some kind of system in place but what would the rules look like twisted for 1st generation immigrants that was born in the Americas to legal immigrants that deportation will effect under the new law? I know that this may not come to fruition but we had a male black president and a female black vice president. Let's talk about this and have fun in a safe chaotic manner not because it will happen!! But because it could, it can, it will, and even though it never did , it's going to!!!

[@GentleGlowSerenity]

😂