When I Was Afraid of Girls

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Mattias Pilhede

Mattias Pilhede

5 жыл бұрын

Please don't stalk me.
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(I asked the girl for permission before making this video)
Music:
E's Jammy Jams - Present Day
Metal Gear Solid - Alert Theme
Kevin MacLeod - Dream Culture

Пікірлер: 7 300
@yami6256
@yami6256 4 жыл бұрын
"I'm coming to your school tomorrow." " *h a h a* , no you're *N O T* "
@wittyname3599
@wittyname3599 4 жыл бұрын
Invasion 100
@jovantosic2119
@jovantosic2119 4 жыл бұрын
I wanna like but it's at the devils number and I wanna keep it that way
@yami6256
@yami6256 4 жыл бұрын
@@jovantosic2119 thank you I love you
@jovantosic2119
@jovantosic2119 4 жыл бұрын
@@yami6256 fck, it reached 667 already. Goddammit... LoL
@no-wd5nk
@no-wd5nk 4 жыл бұрын
Its 998 now
@T-Jex
@T-Jex 5 жыл бұрын
"She's just standing there... *MENACINGLY* "
@7OwlsWithALaptop
@7OwlsWithALaptop 5 жыл бұрын
NANI?
@wolfm8097
@wolfm8097 5 жыл бұрын
“GET OUTTA THERE SPONGEBOB!!!” Haha love that quote
@DashFlashTheLife
@DashFlashTheLife 5 жыл бұрын
LOVELIVESERVE
@matiss2218
@matiss2218 5 жыл бұрын
Is that jojo reference
@kinginrags1202
@kinginrags1202 5 жыл бұрын
ゴゴゴゴ
@Heidegaff
@Heidegaff 3 жыл бұрын
So the moral is, *you were perfectly justified being afraid of girls since one was effectively stalking you, knowing where you went to school and where you lived despite never telling her.*
@ilililil490
@ilililil490 2 жыл бұрын
There is a public registry in sweden where theres information about every citizen there. Idk about minors doe.
@pop5705
@pop5705 2 жыл бұрын
@@ilililil490 They also meet because of a friend in common, she could've just asked that friend.
@animeuniverse5586
@animeuniverse5586 2 жыл бұрын
@@pop5705but still its creepy since house address is something only the person who lives in it should know.
@braziliantsar
@braziliantsar 2 жыл бұрын
@@animeuniverse5586 What?
@animeuniverse5586
@animeuniverse5586 2 жыл бұрын
@@braziliantsar idk what i was thinking while typing such a great sentence.
@crispyybaconx
@crispyybaconx Жыл бұрын
"All women are agents of the state. Any and all contact must be avoided"
@lizythewizzmeow2621
@lizythewizzmeow2621 11 күн бұрын
And we avoid you.
@crispyybaconx
@crispyybaconx 11 күн бұрын
@@lizythewizzmeow2621 !ky5
@crispyybaconx
@crispyybaconx 11 күн бұрын
@@lizythewizzmeow2621 go back to the kitchen
@crispyybaconx
@crispyybaconx 11 күн бұрын
@@lizythewizzmeow2621 ☕️
@colagesicht
@colagesicht 4 жыл бұрын
2:33 Are you winning son?
@Snas2430
@Snas2430 3 жыл бұрын
Lol
@alivesalad4064
@alivesalad4064 3 жыл бұрын
@Fons van der Linden bruh, same
@ibakedyouapie5341
@ibakedyouapie5341 3 жыл бұрын
I WAS ABOUT TO COMMENT THIS LMAOOO
@kayyola5594
@kayyola5594 3 жыл бұрын
Ooooh i get it
@descar.G
@descar.G 3 жыл бұрын
ctrl v same
@user-zi8lg5qu1h
@user-zi8lg5qu1h 3 жыл бұрын
"Some girl is asking for you" "We both know it's a lie, what are you up to dad"
@Nayhan123
@Nayhan123 3 жыл бұрын
You got likes thought I’d tell you
@hazzesanimations8212
@hazzesanimations8212 3 жыл бұрын
Lol true
@byeheaven
@byeheaven 3 жыл бұрын
1,4k likes and only 3 comments??
@Josh-pn5wg
@Josh-pn5wg 2 жыл бұрын
Best comment in this section for sure
@shinchanthebest
@shinchanthebest 2 жыл бұрын
@@byeheaven let's not reply to it- oh well did
@hazzesanimations8212
@hazzesanimations8212 3 жыл бұрын
1:32 "and she's standing there..." *"M E N A C I N G L Y"*
@jd7634
@jd7634 3 жыл бұрын
My man had a girl simping for him and his reaction was *"I don't know what to do with my hands."*
@wiseboi_1149
@wiseboi_1149 2 жыл бұрын
More like "Stan"ing
@tesculeanuandrei6744
@tesculeanuandrei6744 4 жыл бұрын
Dudes say things like: ''Girls give mixed signals and I don't get them'' Also dudes: this video
@marianv4116
@marianv4116 4 жыл бұрын
Multumim Andrei. Forta.
@MortyElMaloteehuehueheu
@MortyElMaloteehuehueheu 4 жыл бұрын
Exactly
@huye456
@huye456 4 жыл бұрын
this.. 😔
@buzzlightyear6960
@buzzlightyear6960 4 жыл бұрын
They do sometimes though.
@osamu401
@osamu401 4 жыл бұрын
Blana tesculeane
@elflux888
@elflux888 4 жыл бұрын
Girl: Oh, you're approaching me? Instead of running awa... Mattias: *runs away*
@nkyiem
@nkyiem 4 жыл бұрын
Nah its the other was around lmao
@neyney1664
@neyney1664 4 жыл бұрын
nigerundayo!
@tarpulin8179
@tarpulin8179 4 жыл бұрын
Mattias is a joestar confirmed
@hibosmo
@hibosmo 4 жыл бұрын
@@tarpulin8179 LOL
@cheez4233
@cheez4233 4 жыл бұрын
joestar secret technique
@simelstre
@simelstre 3 жыл бұрын
There was a girl who I had a crush on for my entire 8th grade year. I was lucky enough to actually become friends with her, to an extent. Friends enough that we ended up working on a poster-making project, I don’t remember exactly what it was. Together. Just the two of us. I spent almost the whole time being scared and awkward, staying at a distance from her even though we couldn’t work on the poster at the same time that way. God, I felt like such a fool. I was making myself look both awkward AND lazy because I wasn’t helping as much with the poster. I still remember that day every now and then. It’s just something that stays with you, I guess. I was also too scared to ask her to sign my yearbook at the end of the year, even though I spent the entire earlier part of the day psyching myself up for it. She went to a different high school than me, so those were my last memories with her. Even if I wanted to, I’ll never forget these things. They’re as precious to me as they are cringey and painful, I cared about that girl so much. That‘s my experience being scared of girls, I hope it means something to someone reading this.
@myftpuqtsm
@myftpuqtsm Жыл бұрын
Kinda had the same experience but i moved countries instead of high schools
@ThatLandonSmith
@ThatLandonSmith Жыл бұрын
It meant something to me.
@Shadow-ew3je
@Shadow-ew3je Жыл бұрын
awww
@-_deploy_-
@-_deploy_- 11 ай бұрын
Damn bro
@rileyowen7245
@rileyowen7245 11 ай бұрын
Bro your not alone I had similar experiences 😢 I had a crush too but never could tell her. I hated myself for being so afraid. Next time please don't be afraid to tell her
@gabrielemilani9066
@gabrielemilani9066 10 ай бұрын
"And then it stopped. It's raining now" BRO WTF I'VE ALMOST CRYED
@cyatram
@cyatram 3 жыл бұрын
That girl is definitely the antagonist of a horror movie.
@joditiarsutrisno5556
@joditiarsutrisno5556 3 жыл бұрын
You mean yandere ?
@EnDeRBeaT
@EnDeRBeaT 3 жыл бұрын
@@joditiarsutrisno5556 he means the fucking monster
@abhishekpadhye4337
@abhishekpadhye4337 3 жыл бұрын
Haha
@drakesayshi3321
@drakesayshi3321 3 жыл бұрын
Mostly because they found his school+ house wtf
@mikz4782
@mikz4782 3 жыл бұрын
@@EnDeRBeaT LMFAO
@tatago580
@tatago580 3 жыл бұрын
The real lesson: "Life is not an anime."
@joditiarsutrisno5556
@joditiarsutrisno5556 3 жыл бұрын
*me looking at Promised Neverland "Sure it is"
@surmminthcv0895
@surmminthcv0895 3 жыл бұрын
Only empty people think it is
@hussein7517
@hussein7517 3 жыл бұрын
I sure wish it was. I'm 22 and have never been with a girl and i don't think I'll ever be with one. Being in an anime could change that
@hilton_chloe.e
@hilton_chloe.e 3 жыл бұрын
@@joditiarsutrisno5556 umm ok sure ... 😤
@Michael-zg4ig
@Michael-zg4ig 3 жыл бұрын
@@hussein7517 I dont think so, with that mentality you would probably be a side character
@ZiroWatt
@ZiroWatt 2 жыл бұрын
the most unbelievable thing about this story is that not only did she consistently reach out to you, but she actually opened up to you about liking you instead of the other way around. This breaks all laws of physics
@jeremyhodge6216
@jeremyhodge6216 11 ай бұрын
I thought this was a interesting video 😁
@titandarknight2698
@titandarknight2698 10 ай бұрын
How? its normal for people to have crushes and then tell them about it.
@Mr.Goodkat
@Mr.Goodkat 10 ай бұрын
@@titandarknight2698 It's because girls are never the ones consistently reaching out and having to open up, it's always the other way around.
@_mosesb
@_mosesb 9 ай бұрын
It's believable since he said they were kids or teens 🤷, it's more innocent, less games.
@greatman5885
@greatman5885 9 ай бұрын
@@titandarknight2698 yeah it's normal when a boy confesses his love... you don't see the reverse often
@gmalecastro9976
@gmalecastro9976 3 жыл бұрын
Loved your illustrations, Matthias. They almost tell a story all their own. You should consider animating them as children’s stories (which, by the way, work excellently for adults, too). Best wishes!
@Cellulolytic
@Cellulolytic 8 ай бұрын
I read that as illusions and I thought you were saying he was like schizo or something. I'm way too sleep deprived for this
@ahmedwael3971
@ahmedwael3971 8 ай бұрын
Bro get some sleep😭 @@Cellulolytic
@raseruuu3742
@raseruuu3742 4 жыл бұрын
Me, a virgin: "I love you too, pretty stalker girl who i totally did not give my address to!"
@subscribetopewdiepie5259
@subscribetopewdiepie5259 4 жыл бұрын
Will be a waste not to
@datpoyo4900
@datpoyo4900 4 жыл бұрын
You Wont Be A Virgin If She Goes To Your Bedroom The Second Date
@gbm6882
@gbm6882 3 жыл бұрын
honestly yandere works for me, I’d die for a solicitor given time
@AnnaHans88
@AnnaHans88 3 жыл бұрын
This is why I sometimes wish I was a dude
@thalassaer4137
@thalassaer4137 3 жыл бұрын
@@AnnaHans88 Get in my van
@de132
@de132 5 жыл бұрын
I'm coming to your school tomorrow.
@markmcculfor6113
@markmcculfor6113 5 жыл бұрын
You better not buddy
@lakamokolaka
@lakamokolaka 5 жыл бұрын
@@markmcculfor6113 Why? He will take me to a cafe if I do and will run because I exist. What do I have to lose?
@NA-rz2qf
@NA-rz2qf 4 жыл бұрын
hahaha you’re kidding; right?
@anasxo1
@anasxo1 4 жыл бұрын
no god please no no
@seanseanston
@seanseanston 4 жыл бұрын
Maybe it's the alternate universe version of the classic threat... "Some of you guys aren't alright; I'm not coming to your school tomorrow."
@danielawesome36
@danielawesome36 3 жыл бұрын
The stuff they did feels low-key like an actual date.
@Shbeeve
@Shbeeve 8 ай бұрын
im actually a master at hiding it
@supertron6039
@supertron6039 3 жыл бұрын
He was around 14 when all of this happened. *_laughs in single_*
@PanzerMan332
@PanzerMan332 3 жыл бұрын
*laughs in not ever having a girlfriend in all 20 years of life*
@scoundrel7011
@scoundrel7011 3 жыл бұрын
@@PanzerMan332 Same
@nikosgreekman8812
@nikosgreekman8812 3 жыл бұрын
@@PanzerMan332All 21 years here
@gum307
@gum307 3 жыл бұрын
guys, i had no girlfriend until i was 28. and i had similar cringe moments with girls. when i decided to not give a fuck about them (not in an ignorant childish way) and enjoy my life, they started to approche ME. also please don't think you are worth less because you have no girlfriend...thats bullshit and kills your confidence
@theburgersystem126
@theburgersystem126 3 жыл бұрын
I didn’t have moments like this until I was 15/16 ish
@agnel47
@agnel47 4 жыл бұрын
I can relate. I'm 28.
@ein8539
@ein8539 4 жыл бұрын
Lol. Listen to After Hours by Velvet Underground
@mh4624
@mh4624 3 жыл бұрын
@I’m Okay Are you really okay?
@blinkcatmeowmeow8484
@blinkcatmeowmeow8484 3 жыл бұрын
M H his name says he is
@decay2__
@decay2__ 3 жыл бұрын
@@blinkcatmeowmeow8484 so he's not 28?
@blinkcatmeowmeow8484
@blinkcatmeowmeow8484 3 жыл бұрын
D. Khulu Nkabinde hes both 28 and Okay.
@samuelolwero
@samuelolwero 11 ай бұрын
“...and my dad asked me, Are you winning Son?” 2:34
@aramisortsbottcher8201
@aramisortsbottcher8201 2 жыл бұрын
Can relate. In kindergarten and primary school I had some female friends, that changed in secondary school. In the last years I even had a reputation of being a mysogenist or something as I was rude? I simply did not know how to deal with girls, the "sit as far away as possible"-scenario happened to me aswell. Then, in December 2019 I was invited to a friend and he had a girl invited aswell, we did not know each other - the first time in 5 years or so I meat a girl outside of school. It went ok and as we had the same friends we saw each other here and there. She once said we would be friends, but honestly I don't think so, I mean... if only we two are together somewhere we can talk for an hour and then there is just akward silence... not what I would call a friend. Yet she is the closest I was to a girl in a long time. So I still don't know how to handle them, but it got better. And now there is Corona - problem solved XD Also I have a female penfriend in Canada, it works. Luckily I live in Europe, so chances are I'll never see her. It is wierd, isn't it? I can write to a girl, but as soon as there is one physically present my brain is in "girl-mode" and I don't know how to behave. I'm glad I don't miss it, so I don't "suffer".
@nietlars5563
@nietlars5563 4 жыл бұрын
And my dad comes in and says... Are ya winning son?
@nicoldiaz9579
@nicoldiaz9579 3 жыл бұрын
HAHAHAHA I THOUGHT THE SAME
@millionchic18
@millionchic18 3 жыл бұрын
I want to join "I thought the same" gang
@user-in8mw9kt6l
@user-in8mw9kt6l 3 жыл бұрын
Made the likes 69
@user-su6js9po4l
@user-su6js9po4l 3 жыл бұрын
no dad i will be forever alone
@bodiller9422
@bodiller9422 3 жыл бұрын
This is what I want more than girls
@janbertguerrero6988
@janbertguerrero6988 5 жыл бұрын
Other title: "A Stalker Cured My Anxiety"
@rampantmutt9119
@rampantmutt9119 5 жыл бұрын
Get me a stalker, asap.
@thanhvinhnguyento7069
@thanhvinhnguyento7069 4 жыл бұрын
I need one too
@hime_ohime2874
@hime_ohime2874 4 жыл бұрын
Janbert Guerrero mee too
@Weirdguy6
@Weirdguy6 4 жыл бұрын
Y’all called for my help?
@justanub4697
@justanub4697 4 жыл бұрын
@@Weirdguy6 Yess
@rishik7665
@rishik7665 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks! This was really helpful. I feel comfort knowing that there are kids like me and that I can be okay someday. This definitely wasn't "cringey" mattias. I'm really grateful to you for making this video. Cheers!
@cliffworsfold1994
@cliffworsfold1994 3 жыл бұрын
WE NOT GONNA TALK ABOUT HOW SHE ROCKED UP TO BOTH HIS SCHOOL AND HIS HOUSE WITHOUT HIM TELLING HER WHERE THEY WERE?
@sulpherbratigh7936
@sulpherbratigh7936 3 жыл бұрын
Well she's a friend of his friend, perhaps she just asked the friend where he lives
@sulpherbratigh7936
@sulpherbratigh7936 3 жыл бұрын
@EZO EZ Both of them are around 14, Pedophilla is out of the question even if they switched genders, Creep stalker is possible but it would only start to seem suspicious if they stays around after being given no answer to their confession, in this case she backed off and likely never sees him again because she was hurt
@Dragiux
@Dragiux 3 жыл бұрын
If you know someone's name and last name, you can find where they live in sweden, because it's public information.
@yb0805hw
@yb0805hw 3 жыл бұрын
Well she’s not gonna kill or rape him like men do
@whatareyoudoinginmyswamp3596
@whatareyoudoinginmyswamp3596 3 жыл бұрын
@@yb0805hw Huh?
@Awesomepedia
@Awesomepedia 5 жыл бұрын
Hey Mattias I have a pamphlet for you to read about stalking
@fendelt838
@fendelt838 5 жыл бұрын
Wait is this actually going to happen
@isaacezekielthecolorblindg7343
@isaacezekielthecolorblindg7343 5 жыл бұрын
456 like and heart 2 comments
@jdawg9722
@jdawg9722 5 жыл бұрын
The Reynolds Pamphlet
@RoseOnFire
@RoseOnFire 5 жыл бұрын
@@jdawg9722 Alexander Hamilton had a torrent affair, and he wrote it down right there
@weirdguywithamouth5105
@weirdguywithamouth5105 5 жыл бұрын
Highlights!
@ScotlandFC1873
@ScotlandFC1873 Жыл бұрын
1:05 bro remembers EXACTLY what they were talking about
@user-gg8tl5yt7d
@user-gg8tl5yt7d Жыл бұрын
hahahahaha
@xephyre6955
@xephyre6955 2 жыл бұрын
I was actually never afraid of talking to girls in highschool, I treat them as normal friends. But when the whole class starts just shipping us, it makes me awkward around them. Its annoying. I just want a friend you know. Why you got to misunderstand everything.
@wilburwilliams36
@wilburwilliams36 Жыл бұрын
They're teenagers. Half the things they think about is the opposite sex.
@thatonepersonthatwritesess7157
@thatonepersonthatwritesess7157 3 жыл бұрын
“I just talked to a girl!” *Didn’t actually talk*
@ginoyesano5649
@ginoyesano5649 3 жыл бұрын
Haha, is that a My Hero Academia reference?!?
@yipp-7841
@yipp-7841 3 жыл бұрын
@@ginoyesano5649 yep
@CringeEXE
@CringeEXE 3 жыл бұрын
I love whoever wrote this comment.
@amosp9411
@amosp9411 3 жыл бұрын
MHA xD
@dystrophic
@dystrophic 5 жыл бұрын
Dude... didn't you ask her how she found your school and your house? You didn't find that creepy and weird?
@MattiasPilhede
@MattiasPilhede 5 жыл бұрын
I didn't at the time, but I think she contacted one of my friends and asked them. Even now I haven't asked her.
@OufTarek
@OufTarek 5 жыл бұрын
@@MattiasPilhede She's a hacker! *anime plot intensifies*
@nathanhollow0
@nathanhollow0 5 жыл бұрын
@@MattiasPilhede This anime is deeper than i thought
@racvv
@racvv 5 жыл бұрын
Do it and then tell us. It's a perfect OVA... kind of
@eggblade4191
@eggblade4191 5 жыл бұрын
NEED SEASON 2 ASAP!
@Prototype037
@Prototype037 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you Mattias for sharing, being from Gothenburg myself it was extra wonderful to be able to relate to the scenes. Hope you have a great time. -Leonard
@tamro9701
@tamro9701 11 ай бұрын
I let anxiety control my life, I avoided all social interactions and anything that could possibly make me uncomfortable. Now at age 23, my reward is no friends, no social skills, and worse anxiety. The path of least resistance is a path to nowhere.
@Sun-God2
@Sun-God2 10 ай бұрын
I'm going through the same situation, and I'm only 17
@tamro9701
@tamro9701 7 ай бұрын
​@@Sun-God2 I wish I could go back and fucking beg my 17 year old self to just try reaching out to people no matter how awkward and painful it feels.
@outlander3000
@outlander3000 2 ай бұрын
When I was 23 I was exactly like you, but guess what? Now I'm 40 and I'm still the same. Surprise!
@felixyoung1482
@felixyoung1482 4 жыл бұрын
Mathias anime TAGs: romantic, psicologic, yandere, comedy, slice of life.
@pairez1041
@pairez1041 3 жыл бұрын
Im coming to your home tomorrow
@fideldog1
@fideldog1 3 жыл бұрын
Pairez I’m coming to your room tomarrow
@howtyplcal350
@howtyplcal350 3 жыл бұрын
The grammar police are coming to this comment section.
@Unit-sg1wc
@Unit-sg1wc 3 жыл бұрын
It's nhentai lol
@foxsoncvj
@foxsoncvj 3 жыл бұрын
What about going to srekx
@AutismoCentral
@AutismoCentral 4 жыл бұрын
"Someone can help you the entire way but that person cannot help you stand up for yourself." -> important lesson
@-_Confessor-_
@-_Confessor-_ 3 жыл бұрын
@Chileno fds
@-_Confessor-_
@-_Confessor-_ 3 жыл бұрын
@Chileno final
@celo__4088
@celo__4088 3 жыл бұрын
@@-_Confessor-_ quanto Br aqui wtf
@hisraelbraga9245
@hisraelbraga9245 3 жыл бұрын
@@celo__4088 sim
@taseytoons7243
@taseytoons7243 3 жыл бұрын
@Chileno chill, dude
@user-ym1vo7ql8n
@user-ym1vo7ql8n Жыл бұрын
Girl was on a mission
@bgsbrokenboneafterfighting726
@bgsbrokenboneafterfighting726 2 жыл бұрын
2:45 Well I’m a girl. I saw this. I’m confused. And scared.
@pointynoodle
@pointynoodle 4 жыл бұрын
"She confessed that she actually liked me." Bro no way
@AC-mp7cx
@AC-mp7cx 3 жыл бұрын
i wish they lived happily ever after
@jersonryan9269
@jersonryan9269 3 жыл бұрын
@@AC-mp7cx 6:35
@vens1337
@vens1337 3 жыл бұрын
If a girl would look in my general direction for more than 10 seconds I'd be happy for the day.
@pointynoodle
@pointynoodle 3 жыл бұрын
@@vens1337 Trust me, you really don't. I've been in your position and you really don't want that.
@vens1337
@vens1337 3 жыл бұрын
@@pointynoodle Man, Ive rarely talked to a girl aside from a few words here and there for the past, like, 6-7 months. I want female interaction, and its not like im nervous or anything, i just dont have anything to say in the same way i do with dudes. Then again, i also rarely talk to people i dont know unless they approach me, so whatev for me.
@star-manrainbowstar336
@star-manrainbowstar336 5 жыл бұрын
Mattias: Doesn't remember literal first date Also Mattias: Remembers the price of said date I think I could be Mattias
@zipity2782
@zipity2782 4 жыл бұрын
I think he meant more of a general feel of the price, and how it was more expensive than expected.
@kingyouki5904
@kingyouki5904 4 жыл бұрын
Star-Man RainbowStar as my mother would say “Just like a man”
@koromaru6666
@koromaru6666 4 жыл бұрын
@@zipity2782 Hmmm money is to me more important than social relationships. Lol my dear money i love you!
@ReadToasts
@ReadToasts 4 жыл бұрын
Alright, you're allowed to be A Mathias, but not THE Mathias
@Jugi
@Jugi 9 ай бұрын
pretty similar to what i had, i had a crush on this girl that was and still is way out of my league. we were 13 and she kept hugging me randomly and drawing on my hands in class and i was completely oblivious to this because i thought she would never want to go out with me, but now years later, she obviously had a crush on me. for 3 years in school i wanted to ask her out but never got the courage to do so, she eventually asked me out but i was also really awkward, we met twice(she had changed schools for the last year) and it was the most awkward "dates" both of us have ever had, i was completely silent for the majority of it and even asked how she was doing at school, like grade wise, yea that's gonna get her going lol then she met someone else and we have had stuff here and there yada yada but good thing, we are now both single at 23 and going out on friday lol
@user-xh4mo7bg9r
@user-xh4mo7bg9r 8 ай бұрын
Maybe you still got a chance with her!!
@symto2494
@symto2494 8 ай бұрын
Update us bro
@tylereclement
@tylereclement Жыл бұрын
I’m glad you were able to learn lessons like this when you’re young, I never talked to people much before senior year of highschool cause I was scared, but it made me so depressed that I broke out and for the next three years after I came out of my shell, I’ve felt like I had to emotionally mature and learn lessons fast cause I was so socially behind all my college friends. Now thankfully I feel like I’m at the level of emotionally maturity that I should be in at 22 but boy was it a hard few years getting to this point
@exoticbomber137
@exoticbomber137 9 ай бұрын
What was your experience with catching up in maturity? Is there anything you did to help mentally grow?
@tylereclement
@tylereclement 9 ай бұрын
@@exoticbomber137 I fucked up a whole lot, like a whole lot more than anyone should, and I learned from my mistakes slowly. Wish I could have gone about this better but I didn’t even understand the things I was doing was wrong or anything until things blew up in my face enough
@RigbyWilde
@RigbyWilde 3 жыл бұрын
Actually I believe that girl never existed and was only his imagination. That would be a good example of fighting shyness
@lavascopersecondaccount3099
@lavascopersecondaccount3099 3 жыл бұрын
Kkkk mds Rigby
@enderwigin7976
@enderwigin7976 3 жыл бұрын
I really wish that that could happen to me..
@nayan7398
@nayan7398 3 жыл бұрын
that's what i was thinking the whole time
@Ocer.
@Ocer. 3 жыл бұрын
That's dumb
@sinoidal5683
@sinoidal5683 3 жыл бұрын
Thats the correct assumption of what happen and why this vídeo is calles shyness boy with girl when he gets a girl un love with him
@Nyangamer-nk8ri
@Nyangamer-nk8ri 5 жыл бұрын
Anime brought them together...but anime also broke them apart...
@pavelvolya5366
@pavelvolya5366 3 жыл бұрын
Who is the Anime.
@abeke5523
@abeke5523 3 жыл бұрын
God giveth, god taketh away
@duckduckbobo5208
@duckduckbobo5208 3 жыл бұрын
@@abeke5523 Therefore, anime is God
@Sudask555
@Sudask555 3 жыл бұрын
Anime only hurts you. And make you cringe when you look back
@therockcims4166
@therockcims4166 3 жыл бұрын
Anime is shit
@UltimateWaifuXD
@UltimateWaifuXD 3 жыл бұрын
Something similar to this happened to me in high school. Basically, there was this female friend of mine that asked me out several times and I said no because "she wasn't my type". 8 years later and I'm still single.
@MrManProduction
@MrManProduction 3 жыл бұрын
Bruh
@kaptainkarl7807
@kaptainkarl7807 3 жыл бұрын
@@MrManProduction bruh indeed
@animeuniverse5586
@animeuniverse5586 2 жыл бұрын
@@MrManProduction so he should have a gf whom he doesnt like ? but is in relationship just for the sake of relationship
@primo4915
@primo4915 2 жыл бұрын
You didn't have to say you are single, we can see your pfp.
@muntadar1655
@muntadar1655 2 жыл бұрын
@@primo4915 generic anime pfp joke
@elismart13
@elismart13 2 жыл бұрын
Okay dude 3:02 I would Be asking many questions... Also (horror movie soundtrack plays... At that moment)
@jagaimo3484
@jagaimo3484 3 жыл бұрын
Ok jeez we get it, you talked to a girl once stop bragging not everyone is that lucky
@icecube5415
@icecube5415 3 жыл бұрын
Lol
@uhhhi7573
@uhhhi7573 3 жыл бұрын
dude wtf??
@user-nx9te3nu4f
@user-nx9te3nu4f 3 жыл бұрын
true
@dainerduff-dings
@dainerduff-dings 3 жыл бұрын
@@uhhhi7573 Issa joke
@user-su6js9po4l
@user-su6js9po4l 3 жыл бұрын
i haven't talked to a girl in 8 months
@nadri3335
@nadri3335 3 жыл бұрын
The most infuriating love history that I ever heard.
@heyhoe168
@heyhoe168 3 жыл бұрын
You mean "never had"?
@pureconlimon4317
@pureconlimon4317 3 жыл бұрын
Ever?
@adriatical9016
@adriatical9016 3 жыл бұрын
I’m banging my head against the wall... but at the same time I would’ve probably done the same
@NilesBlackX
@NilesBlackX 3 жыл бұрын
If you like this I've got like ten of these But I didn't pick up on the signals until like literally years later, so it's even worse 🤦
@shrooman768
@shrooman768 3 жыл бұрын
your profile picture is FUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUCKIIIIIIIIIIINNNNNG amazing I FUCKING LOVE IT I L-O-V-E IT I LOVE IT
@vinitsharma5703
@vinitsharma5703 Жыл бұрын
Something similar happened to me. Me and my ex were in a relationship, and we loved each other. But due to our family feud, I had to break up with her. I still to this day remember her face when I said we should break up. Her tears still haunts me. It eats me from inside.
@Andre-ih8rv
@Andre-ih8rv Жыл бұрын
Accept my condolences, I'm sorry for you both and don't really wan't to put my two cents here but I too had unpleasant experiences with girls and want to say that by learning from mistakes we become better, it's also important to do good conclusions though 💚
@meanya4687
@meanya4687 11 ай бұрын
I used to get so nervous around boys, particularly boys I liked. You know that natural filter you have over your speech that takes all the mishmash coffee grounds pouring through your brain and filters it into a steady stream of coherent speech? Every time I was around certain boys, I was spitting straight grounds. I had no filter. I made a fool of myself every time and I'd look back on each moment wondering what had come over me. I didn't even _feel_ like myself. I had a similarly awkward situation where a boy I had liked asked me out on a date. I had to sit myself down and tell myself "He's not interested in you. Stop melting and act like you do around your friends." And just like that, I let all my feelings and anxieties for him go all at once. I was way more relaxed, I felt more like myself, and we had a perfectly lovely time. And I never had feelings for anyone ever again :)
@Dizzii_Lizzii
@Dizzii_Lizzii 9 ай бұрын
​@@randall-flagg huh?
@meanya4687
@meanya4687 8 ай бұрын
@@randall-flagg huh?
@faisal.5347
@faisal.5347 3 жыл бұрын
She did all that just for you?! She must really like you
@gabicci5210
@gabicci5210 3 жыл бұрын
Your comment specialy make me feel wierd, because I was very like that whit EVERY person as like to me, and they in the box comments are leaving me lik a huge, ridiculous stalker, except may yours and a couple more :') (I'speak spanish, sorry)
@reese8050
@reese8050 3 жыл бұрын
@@gabicci5210 Damn i didnt understood a single thing, sad
@Lucas-Nunes
@Lucas-Nunes 3 жыл бұрын
@@reese8050 I think he means that he acted just the way the girl on the video does, thus making this comment in particular make him feel weird about it. And now everyone in the comment section makes him feel weird and like a stalker too.
@Lucas-Nunes
@Lucas-Nunes 3 жыл бұрын
@@gabicci5210 Hi! Would you mind if I tried to "fix" your 5 day old comment?
@marcoslightspeed5517
@marcoslightspeed5517 3 жыл бұрын
@@Lucas-Nunes bold of you to assume its a he
@El-bq9rk
@El-bq9rk 5 жыл бұрын
It’s hilarious how guys always say that girls are “difficult to understand” But guys in their teens apparently show feelings by moving their chair very far away from you and/or running away on the first meeting!
@thedarkship8035
@thedarkship8035 5 жыл бұрын
Yeah and some guys say that maybe, we should just not make huge generalisation about large groups of people.
@benryangarcia
@benryangarcia 5 жыл бұрын
He never said he liked the girl. He was uncomfortable so he behaved uncomfortably. Logic checks out.
@DanTKD87
@DanTKD87 5 жыл бұрын
Seems like those tactics worked put pretty good lol Oh wait I saw the ending
@El-bq9rk
@El-bq9rk 5 жыл бұрын
TheDarkShip True but my comment was supposed a joke about about generalizations
@El-bq9rk
@El-bq9rk 5 жыл бұрын
Benjamin Garcia Might’ve been true with the second girl (even though he did say that they were at least friends white texting eachother before she came to his school) But with the first girl he also specifically said that bc he got nervous around girls he moved his chair far away from her making her think he’s mad at her even though he wasn’t.
@RishabhSharma10225
@RishabhSharma10225 11 ай бұрын
Damn I felt so bad for the girl lol she invested so much time and effort and even told you she liked you, which no girl really does nowadays unless you do it first. But she had to leave disappointed in the end.
@ThunderlightDominatesGames
@ThunderlightDominatesGames 9 ай бұрын
Bro she was stalking him and went to his school and house without his consent, why do you feel bad?
@maroonluckyblockgames7062
@maroonluckyblockgames7062 9 ай бұрын
“which no girl really does nowadays unless you do it first” nah man self reported 💀
@danthemankhan
@danthemankhan 9 ай бұрын
@@ThunderlightDominatesGames That doesn't make her a bad person or someone who deserves to feel disappointment. If a man did that nobody would bat an eye. It's called going after what you want.
@ThunderlightDominatesGames
@ThunderlightDominatesGames 9 ай бұрын
@@danthemankhan bro that’s the opposite, if a man did that that’s “more creepy”. And also how does stalking and tracking someone not make them a bad person? I mean the least she could’ve done is ask him before doing it.
@danthemankhan
@danthemankhan 9 ай бұрын
@@ThunderlightDominatesGames Her goal was good, therefore, it isn't bad. And if she had asked he would have panicked and blocked her, you know this.
@genelambeyjr4787
@genelambeyjr4787 Жыл бұрын
"I think that whether you're in a friendly or romantic relationship, you can't have one person whose role is to push and help the other person. That's a bad relationship." There was this cute girl with glasses that I really liked for the last seven years from the summer going into my high school year up until after graduating from college during the pandemic. Our interactions always felt really short whenever we met up. She was the one to get me out of my shell and she's gone out of her way to invite me to things in the past. In a way she brought me into her world and I did the same back. She came to my last track meet back in high school, she came to my high school graduation, she invited me to a track meet event at Bowie State University, she invited me to see her grandparents, we've gone to the movies a couple times too together. It was a long distance relationship too. She was also a year and a month older than me so she was already in her college so I was getting doubts put into my head about it not working out anyways, her seeing more people etc. When I was around her, I felt happy and I wanted to do more but our time just felt too short. When I first met her, everything felt lighthearted but I was still nervous and uncertain, but I also felt like I had courage to keep talking with her. I remember giving her a drawing I made of her before she had left for school. When she got it she told me she was very happy and she really appreciated it. That drawing took me almost a week to get through. When she invited me to see her grandparents, I felt very uncomfortable for a brief period. Meeting her grandparents was still nice but I felt so awkward there. I had questioned myself while I was there. Questioning why I was there, I don't belong here, questioning my sexuality etc. It was very scary, but she helped to relax me a bit. I remember sitting by the pool with her and just sitting and talking with her. Its gonna sound weird but I remember rubbing her feet a bit in the pool and she didn't stop me then. That day was strange to me but it meant a lot to me then. It was even more strange when her grandparents told me they heard a lot about me through her. I don't think very highly of myself at all. I see myself in a very negative point of view. I don't easily trust other people's words or actions because I think they'll just use it to hurt me later. We had reconnected again post-quarantine and everything felt nice texting and talking on the phone again. She said she wanted to go to the movies with me again but she wanted to go to one that was close to where I live. So we planned it, she came downtown and we walked to the theater from there. I was nervous then because something felt very different compared to the last couple of times we had gone to the movies together. For one, we were walking together and at this time I hadn't seen her in about two-three years so I was happy to see her again but I held back a lot because I didn't trust myself enough around her nor some of the mistakes that happened in the past. When we were walking downtown to the theater, I remember so many people just watching us walk by and it was the scariest thing I've ever experienced before. I never felt so many people staring at me when I was walking with her. We were talking a bit too but I was so nervous that I didn't say too much back to her. There was a moment where she had brushed her hand against mine but I pulled back because I didn't know what she was doing. Fast forwarding a bit, we got to the movie theater. Watched the movie, The Batman btw. Its difficult to pay attention to the movie and her sitting next me. I remember she asked me this weird question if I wanted some vaseline and just said no. She offered me gum too and I told her that I was fine. After the movie ended, we were just chilling in the lobby, sitting down at a table and we were just doing some light talking about the movie and what not. I remember asking her that day what did she think of me and she told me that I was cool, calm and quiet. Then I told her she was goofy and cute. I remember her smiling a lot and almost blushing at me. She even looked away a bit from me. I had asked her about the vaseline from earlier and wanted to know what it was for. She played dumb and said she didn't know. So I asked her if I could see it and she pulled it out of her purse. It felt really warm and dipping my finger in it made me lose my mind almost. I couldn't understand why it was so warm. Then she gave me this really seductive look, she was looking at my lips and she was biting hers. I had asked her if she was okay because she was looking at me for a while like that and she said she was fine but she wanted me to do something. It looked like she wanted me to kiss her but I didn't know it then. I just thought she was being weird. I was about to use the vaseline but then I felt there were more eyes around us. especially from these two women that were sitting a couple tables away from us. They were looking at us the whole time, smiling and laughing and it made me uncomfortable. I said the worst thing possible to this girl, this girl I spent so much time with, I told her I didn't trust her. I told her I didn't want her to talk to me. I felt incredibly uncomfortable. I had wiped off the vaseline too. Her parents came to pick her up and they offered to drive me back home but at first I refused then her mom insisted that I come with them plus it was pretty crowded that night downtown too. I agreed but I felt like trash when they drove me home. I didn't hug this girl when I got home nor did I offer to let her see my parents. What I said then was so terrible. I screwed up something so badly because I can't stand when people look at me like that. I really did like this girl a lot and I knew that she felt the same but I constantly sabotage myself because I don't think I'll ever be good enough for her or any other girl that was close to her. I did so many things wrong that day and I wished I could redo that day. That day has been playing in my head on loop for a year now and I'm only now starting to get out of it. I tried to reach back to the girl, but I haven't been able to call her and just talk thoroughly about this thing. Our texting and calls shutdown by a lot too. I did apologize to her through text but it took me so long to say something and it never felt right to text it. She did respond back and she said I didn't need to apologize and she was sorry for not taking my calls. I'm just not cut out for this stuff. I've always been ignored, ghosted, teased, hit or pushed out by the girls. That's why I don't try or even want to try with girls I'm interested in. I always felt isolated from the boys growing up too so I just never fit into anything they did. For the first time, I found a girl that accepted me and I screwed it up because I can't love myself enough to feel like this is okay. Maybe one day I'll feel like this is okay but I know I have a lot to work on. This is a very difficult lesson for me to learn too. I'm sorry for this long story but I appreciate whoever reads.
@invanorm
@invanorm Жыл бұрын
This is such a relatable story, I’ve had a number of similarly horrifically cringe things happen with the few girls who liked me in high school, so I get it. One that I really was crushing on hard for a couple years basically came right out and said she wanted to fuck me, and I just froze. I couldn’t even respond. I then just pretended she never said it. Eventually she moved on but I continued to crush on her for years. Another girl later invited herself over and we were chilling in my room watching movies and she looked at me with that look. She wanted me to kiss her. My reaction was a surge of panic and picked up a pillow and lightly covered her face. I guess I thought it might have been interpreted as playful but she clearly felt hurt and offended by it. We sat in a really uncomfortable silence for what felt like an eternity and then she left. A while later we hung out a couple more times but I couldn’t get over my insecurities. I just had no understanding of myself or them or the wider expectations of society. I grew very depressed and got involved with the rave scene and did a lot of psychedelics which I took both as an escape and as a kind of psychotherapy. In the end I just ended up more confused and prolonged my problems, which go beyond just failing at interacting with women. It’s only now that I’m in my late 20’s and, since the pandemic began, have cut out the drug use that I’ve gained more of an understanding of myself and more confidence. Learning a lot about psychology through KZbin has helped a lot tbh, along with more life experiences. I feel like I’m finally actually processing my emotions and integrating my mind with my body if that makes sense. I feel like I might actually worthy of a woman’s interest now, which is a huge step forward.
@LN_1214
@LN_1214 Жыл бұрын
Really nice story, you should send her this. There might be a chance you get hurt, but its worth doing it nontheless. At least she will understand
@jaeljones3787
@jaeljones3787 11 ай бұрын
I’m so glad I read every word of this. The sweetest story, I hope all works out though. I would also love it if you reached out to her again, sending her this message. She obviously means so much to you. You’ve been through so much and if she knew, I think she would still have her caring heart in her response. I’m so sorry that most of us girls are so hard to approach, if this girl isn’t the nice girl she was before and ghosts you for some reason. You just tell yourself that you can grow from this, you’ve learned a lot so far, there’s more to learn along the way. I honestly hope that no matter what, if you get this girl back that you hold on to her, cherish her. If not, I pray that you find the most sweet and caring girl. Because you deserve so much! You have such a sweet heart. So many girls want your heart, TRUST ME ON THAT ONE. My boyfriend and I both liked eachother as well, so awkward at first. We were also friends before we got together, made it a bit easier. As time went on, we got more comfortable. Please never give up! You got this, no matter if you want to get a girl still or not. I believe in you!😁🤗
@darklordsauron3415
@darklordsauron3415 9 ай бұрын
Nice Reddit karma. But if it isn’t fake, you are a fool. Not even because you messed up, but because your were simping around for 7 YEARS. 7 YEARS!!Whichever spineless person does that deserves what’s coming for them. Why pain yourself so unnecessarily? Are you going to simp around when the next girl comes for 8 years next? And this is coming from someone who hated themselves most their life, and is extremely shy and introverted and still recognizes folly of your actions. But seeing as how your screw up can easily be discarded(you didn’t indicate that you u genuinely tried an attempt to take back your word and move forward), and the 7 years of sitting, nothing would have come of it anyway. Your screw up on that day doesn’t indicate to me at all that any potential relation is completely over, however idling yet another year on it defiantly does. What you said that day wasn’t your screw up, it’s understandable in fact, people have said and done far worse things and resolved their issues. How you handled the situation as a whole before and after is the screw up.
@boats_r_cool
@boats_r_cool 4 жыл бұрын
*girl shows up at home uninvited, without being told where home is* Welcome inside
@nemudere
@nemudere 3 жыл бұрын
me at my crush's bday be like:
@RecycleBin0
@RecycleBin0 7 ай бұрын
*knock knock* who's there? ya blew it. you blew it and she did most of the work. blew it. blew it.
@user-nz4dr1sy5g
@user-nz4dr1sy5g 4 жыл бұрын
This could have easily ended in "it was my imagination all along"
@Crazyapple16
@Crazyapple16 3 жыл бұрын
""I was so horny and alone I imagined a girl""
@bingletoncoochiesmith.
@bingletoncoochiesmith. 3 жыл бұрын
@@Crazyapple16 😂😂😂
@Impoopinus
@Impoopinus 3 жыл бұрын
@Abdul Rahman Mohammed eyyyy
@wiseboi_1149
@wiseboi_1149 2 жыл бұрын
For most of us
@FonchoVidal
@FonchoVidal Жыл бұрын
"Then a doctor wake me up and told me 'you were in a coma, i'm afraid its been 9 years' 💀"
@RSKEDITS
@RSKEDITS 3 жыл бұрын
The shoe falling off part was totally relatable
@itzcloudy5672
@itzcloudy5672 Жыл бұрын
actually a really mature video told by a person who seemed like my big brother sharing his relationship advice with me. I really enjored!!! Thanks for sharing
@aliberkozderya3112
@aliberkozderya3112 5 жыл бұрын
A very personal and emotional video is about to end, Mattias: And I could finally say... Me: Oh he is just about to say something very profound and meaningful about life Mattias: Thank god life is not anime He does this in every video and it still catches me off guard
@jevonbatti
@jevonbatti 5 жыл бұрын
I feel ya buddy
@fallenangel9614
@fallenangel9614 5 жыл бұрын
Ali Berk ÖZDERYA chough chough this story is very close to a something that happened to me just didn’t meet her on the internet
@aliberkozderya3112
@aliberkozderya3112 5 жыл бұрын
@@fallenangel9614 how did you meet her then?
@fallenangel9614
@fallenangel9614 5 жыл бұрын
Ali Berk ÖZDERYA school
@aliberkozderya3112
@aliberkozderya3112 5 жыл бұрын
@@fallenangel9614 lol of course the school, for some reason I was expecting something very unusual. I was like scratching my head thinking "what can it possibly be if it is not the internet?". Anyway, hope it is a good memory for you. Take care
@chopin65
@chopin65 5 жыл бұрын
Your Dad has a villain mustache? Does he twirl it and make demands about paying the rent?
@thelyricguy2497
@thelyricguy2497 5 жыл бұрын
@Vladimir Lenin 😂
@chopin65
@chopin65 5 жыл бұрын
@Vladimir Lenin Oh. Okay.
@KrazyProductions
@KrazyProductions 5 жыл бұрын
it's a me WARIOOOO
@MrFram
@MrFram 4 жыл бұрын
@Vladimir Lenin What kind of parties..? **mushroom party intensifies**
@jekesan4221
@jekesan4221 3 жыл бұрын
Does he ask if his son is winning tho?
@supertroopa
@supertroopa 3 жыл бұрын
when 4:46 hit i slammed my desk and said "you let it slip you goddamn idiot!" and then i laughed for a while lmao
@shkpotter9844
@shkpotter9844 3 жыл бұрын
Now I'm laughing 🤣
@RunnJake
@RunnJake 3 жыл бұрын
While for awhile I've had extreme distaste for my ex, I'll give credit that my experience with her finally helped correctly gauge my interest in girls, along with settling the social anxiety I've always had about speaking my mind. I wasn't and still am not one for being a socially inept weirdo, but I could never get over the thought of rejection, but with my ex I knew that I kind of had it in the bag, so I said, fuck it, why not? And that's possibly the best philosophy you can have when you are debating with yourself if you should ask a person to date, or what have you, and if the possible rejection is worth it. I realize that if you are rejected, you shrug it off, and get on with life, especially if you're younger.
@user-hy3vi5wk5m
@user-hy3vi5wk5m 5 жыл бұрын
This guy draws with crayola to make 10/10 quality vids
@blueslime5855
@blueslime5855 5 жыл бұрын
Your drawing isn't better shut up
@user-hy3vi5wk5m
@user-hy3vi5wk5m 5 жыл бұрын
Whelp. I tried to be humorous...
@adamromero
@adamromero 4 жыл бұрын
@@user-hy3vi5wk5m Well I thought that was funny! 😊
@pannacottafugo2311
@pannacottafugo2311 4 жыл бұрын
@@adamromero :)
@ponponpatapon9670
@ponponpatapon9670 4 жыл бұрын
@@blueslime5855 r/woosh
@MattiasPilhede
@MattiasPilhede 5 жыл бұрын
I have hayfever and I bought a new microphone so I probably sound a bit different. Had to enunciate a bit more so I didn't sound unintelligble.
@sco9301
@sco9301 5 жыл бұрын
Hope you feel better man, rest up.
@user-uw2pe7ib2m
@user-uw2pe7ib2m 5 жыл бұрын
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@hanalanaelle1357
@hanalanaelle1357 5 жыл бұрын
it sounds great. can you share your setup(equipment and software)?
@iwillrocksomeday
@iwillrocksomeday 5 жыл бұрын
I can tell your English isn't great. I'm not teasing or ridiculing you, just trying to help. Pronounce and enunciate are two different things. Pronunciation is saying a word correctly, and enunciating is reeeally sayying itt properrlyy (really saying it properly). Hope this helps you and you don't find it offensive. I love your video and have subscribed.
@Katerspacedopwater
@Katerspacedopwater 5 жыл бұрын
You know, this story might not be great for anime, because it's much better than anime. Because it's real. Anime sucks at being real. So yes, thank God anime isn't real.
@CoolMaisa
@CoolMaisa 2 жыл бұрын
THE MESSENGER SOUND EFFECTS!!! 😍😍😍😍
@excus5762
@excus5762 Жыл бұрын
I like the “are ya winnin son?” reference, great videos man :)
@hyerikalee6688
@hyerikalee6688 3 жыл бұрын
Homer: Marge, I'm confused, is this a happy ending or a sad ending? Marge: It's an ending, that's enough.
@Nayhan123
@Nayhan123 3 жыл бұрын
You got likes thought I’d tell you
@mooganify
@mooganify 3 жыл бұрын
Oh man I can hear that
@sibro4747
@sibro4747 3 жыл бұрын
I remember that episode
@tlotro625
@tlotro625 Жыл бұрын
Eh, I mean, good experience comes from bad experiences, it's learning that makes it good.
@DiamondsRexpensive
@DiamondsRexpensive Жыл бұрын
​@@tlotro625good lessons from bad experiences. F me and my life if I was enjoying the bad experiences that taught me.
@polish_filipino
@polish_filipino 5 жыл бұрын
It's only been a minute and I already relate so much Although, she never came to my school :/
@yarie9210
@yarie9210 5 жыл бұрын
bruh, i want your pfp
@yarie9210
@yarie9210 5 жыл бұрын
pls
@luis-rv6de
@luis-rv6de 5 жыл бұрын
Azerbaijani Mexican
@goodluckmati
@goodluckmati 5 жыл бұрын
Ur really polish Filipino ? :0 that's very interesting !
@stevanthewise7240
@stevanthewise7240 5 жыл бұрын
Lol same
@FonchoVidal
@FonchoVidal Жыл бұрын
SHE'S STANDING HERE, MANACINGLY!
@MaddyBlu9724
@MaddyBlu9724 Жыл бұрын
Kind of crazy how many pubescent boys start off scared of girls and then grow out of it over time, while women more often become increasingly cautious of men and jaded about their intentions as they gain life experience.
@AJTONYX
@AJTONYX 2 ай бұрын
It seems a bit sad
@ridhoaffandi5644
@ridhoaffandi5644 5 жыл бұрын
Bad Protagonist + Manic Pixie Dreamy Girl... wait up... isn't that Evangelion?
@rampantmutt9119
@rampantmutt9119 5 жыл бұрын
I wouldn't call Asuka or Rei "manic" or "dreamy".
@wasjagrach5621
@wasjagrach5621 4 жыл бұрын
It's "Scott Pilgrim against The World" actually.
@faisaalkamara4181
@faisaalkamara4181 4 жыл бұрын
Rampant Mutt askua is definitely manic lol
@MegaDudon
@MegaDudon 4 жыл бұрын
"Get in the damn robot, Matthias!"
@acookie1410
@acookie1410 4 жыл бұрын
Ridho Affandi And your goddamn profile is her in the video AAAAHHHH
@kargovroom7701
@kargovroom7701 3 жыл бұрын
Dude same, im also afraid of girls... And boys. I have social anxiety Y'all, I appreciate the advice and sympathy, but I don't have social anxiety. I didn't know what social anxiety was when I wrote this. At the time, I thought I had social anxiety, but no, I was just really awkward.✌
@espiritodasinceridade7848
@espiritodasinceridade7848 3 жыл бұрын
Do meditation, It will help a lot
@lightsfeed9541
@lightsfeed9541 3 жыл бұрын
Yeah....It's sweating like sweating about talking to guys ...and having a full blown fever and wicked adrenaline rush for talking to girls.
@espiritodasinceridade7848
@espiritodasinceridade7848 3 жыл бұрын
@@lightsfeed9541 I understand, I was like that but I'm good now, and my life is much better.
@spooderdan9127
@spooderdan9127 3 жыл бұрын
I also have social anxiety but thats from dealing with assholes a lot. Thats why I hate people in general
@notacaml8303
@notacaml8303 3 жыл бұрын
Then don’t have social anxiety
@ese_tipo_noma
@ese_tipo_noma 11 ай бұрын
2:34 Arrrre you winning son?
@jtdogzonejdz7587
@jtdogzonejdz7587 3 жыл бұрын
"Bad story for an anime" Me as an Otaku: I would still watch it
@bobbyzeitgeist1842
@bobbyzeitgeist1842 3 жыл бұрын
I consider myself awkward around girls but holy shit this man is on another level
@xydez
@xydez Жыл бұрын
Hah, wait till you see me
@sheepy8602
@sheepy8602 Жыл бұрын
Oh, I thought this is how everyone behaves...
@kyleag86
@kyleag86 Жыл бұрын
I'm awkward around everyone regardless of gender so I'm like this to everyone lol
@ilikerocketleagueboi5777
@ilikerocketleagueboi5777 Жыл бұрын
she stalked him dumbass
@Afreshio
@Afreshio Жыл бұрын
this level of cringiness is similar to hollywood tropes. I didn't think anyone behave like this in real life to be honest!
@lori9885
@lori9885 5 жыл бұрын
Afraid of girls? Damn you almost became an anime harem protagonist.
@ew8381
@ew8381 4 жыл бұрын
Lori *mayo chiki! Intensifies*
@Lg-xt5eh
@Lg-xt5eh 4 жыл бұрын
Whats a harem
@imcool2931
@imcool2931 4 жыл бұрын
@@Lg-xt5eh oh you sweet innocent child
@Lg-xt5eh
@Lg-xt5eh 4 жыл бұрын
@@imcool2931 ok lol
@Lg-xt5eh
@Lg-xt5eh 4 жыл бұрын
@@imcool2931 Is it hent*i?
@quad7685
@quad7685 2 жыл бұрын
This is probably my favorite by Mattias
@Shizkeb
@Shizkeb Жыл бұрын
They are even scarier now
@ivanljujic4128
@ivanljujic4128 5 жыл бұрын
How on Earth did she find you?
@dooplon5083
@dooplon5083 5 жыл бұрын
@Angel Aniki They meant find their school and house. Having a common friend doesn't necessarily mean that common friend knows either pieces of info (and it's implied they didn't considering his confusion)
@hamizannaruto
@hamizannaruto 5 жыл бұрын
@@dooplon5083 Dont know how, but if i have to guess, that common friend tell her the address and everything.
@wanghajowang
@wanghajowang 5 жыл бұрын
hitta.se
@isaacezekielthecolorblindg7343
@isaacezekielthecolorblindg7343 5 жыл бұрын
王家晧 wtf
@cipher5893
@cipher5893 5 жыл бұрын
Any pictures can contain subtle clues. Landmarks, shops, school uniforms, etc. Pin down general area, then school, follow him home, boom. She worked up the courage then visites.
@lightbrand_
@lightbrand_ 3 жыл бұрын
Actually it’s creepy that she came to your school, then to your house, like I would be creeped out if that were to happen to me
@laikaperraespacial6025
@laikaperraespacial6025 3 жыл бұрын
Hahaaha ikr
@ravaloulicheyo
@ravaloulicheyo 3 жыл бұрын
yea but if shes really really cute then you would still be her friend.
@alanvx9272
@alanvx9272 3 жыл бұрын
ip grab
@tt-qq4xq
@tt-qq4xq 3 жыл бұрын
@@ravaloulicheyo still creepy
@ravaloulicheyo
@ravaloulicheyo 3 жыл бұрын
@@tt-qq4xq They are not exclusive to each other, with enough cuteness, it can overwhelm your brain that it produces enough dopamine for you to overcome the creepiness. Of course, its just an opinion of mine. More case studies are required.
@papyrustheskeleton9498
@papyrustheskeleton9498 2 жыл бұрын
man, my fear of girls developed because of a problem that i had with one that got me into hot trouble and let me tell you, you were so brave for being able to even mantain a conversation the first time you saw this girl in person. At least in my case i could've never done that with any girl appart from my own mother.
@Marex5341
@Marex5341 9 ай бұрын
I also got myself into trouble so i dont want it to happen again
@johnnyboy90528
@johnnyboy90528 11 ай бұрын
I hope she's doing ok.
@KruCorn
@KruCorn 3 жыл бұрын
"you sit far away from her and she thinks she did something wrong" Me : "OH NO-" *sudden bad memories came rushing in*
@glitterkiitty
@glitterkiitty 3 жыл бұрын
I naturally sit far away from everyone who I’m not comfortable with um-
@elmothewise3915
@elmothewise3915 3 жыл бұрын
@@glitterkiitty ok who asked
@sirarthur9698
@sirarthur9698 3 жыл бұрын
@@elmothewise3915 Me
@elmothewise3915
@elmothewise3915 3 жыл бұрын
@@sirarthur9698 link?
@Raph575
@Raph575 3 жыл бұрын
@@elmothewise3915 why be an asshole?
@callancaustic9355
@callancaustic9355 4 жыл бұрын
"Literally means fear of heights" what a scary name, thank God here in Australia we have domestic names for rides like *KAMIKAZE.* Definitely not going on that thing.
@M3I0n_Me
@M3I0n_Me 3 жыл бұрын
Oh yeah. We have kamikaze at my local fair
@callancaustic9355
@callancaustic9355 3 жыл бұрын
@@M3I0n_Me yeah its at the yearly carnival here
@ultima2399
@ultima2399 3 жыл бұрын
I'm scared shitless of heights. I've never gone on those rides
@adrih8694
@adrih8694 3 жыл бұрын
American carnival rides are a while other league. They have names like "Super Mega Assfucker Toesucker Tilt-a-Whirl".
@callancaustic9355
@callancaustic9355 3 жыл бұрын
@@adrih8694 I really want that to become a real ride name. I mean at my local carnival the names are pretty basic, with "the cha-cha" being on the not at all scary side, and "The space roller" on the end of being totally over the top in design, size, and scare factor.
@delg_vi
@delg_vi 11 ай бұрын
Great, great video. Keep up the good work!
@GeorgijTovarsen
@GeorgijTovarsen 11 ай бұрын
So this is what really happens to you if you are not ugly? Sounds cool even with all the anxiety and such. She cared enough to reach to you and made an effort to meet you, that is wild
@helloworld7818
@helloworld7818 3 жыл бұрын
Being a shy guy is really cute. Only when you're handsome.
@aydenwolfe3906
@aydenwolfe3906 3 жыл бұрын
Hm what
@salieri3425
@salieri3425 3 жыл бұрын
A Lot of things works this way
@HyProDuxy
@HyProDuxy 3 жыл бұрын
HA HA ha...
@milindsahoo4752
@milindsahoo4752 3 жыл бұрын
Hmmm, I'm shy, and not a handsome. Still enjoying my life.
@standardizedinternetcompat3653
@standardizedinternetcompat3653 3 жыл бұрын
@@milindsahoo4752 same here
@killer1gamer1
@killer1gamer1 3 жыл бұрын
"I'm coming to your school tomorrow" take that out of context for a bit
@bait5257
@bait5257 3 жыл бұрын
@Unity wtf
@swarajkanr
@swarajkanr 3 жыл бұрын
It's even weirder with context.
@StarAmbience42
@StarAmbience42 2 жыл бұрын
Good job, great narration
@chrisdude119
@chrisdude119 Жыл бұрын
what a cool story! i guess we've all been awkward around girls back then, since we are just immature teenagers, we are shy and we like girls, and its tough to talk with them, due to shame/fear! with that being said, i think that it was nice of this girl that she hanged around with you and that she helped you to solve your awkwardness and to make you be more sociable/more comfortable around girls, so sometimes a little push helps people alot. ofcourse, like you said above, "someone can help you the entire way but that person cannot help you stand up for yourself." , and its very true. yet, i feel that this kind girl that stood up to help you, could've been a good long-time friend to have, or to even have a relationship with. few people are so lucky in such cases. either way, its a good video, with nice animations, and a very funny story! bravo!
@hyunaslollipop372
@hyunaslollipop372 5 жыл бұрын
“Okay what? Just get a deodorant.” 😂😂
@datpoyo4900
@datpoyo4900 4 жыл бұрын
She Aint Taking a No
@wayneyu4870
@wayneyu4870 3 жыл бұрын
"The time I was afraid of boys... *and I am one-"*
@IAm-zo1bo
@IAm-zo1bo 3 жыл бұрын
Ah cmon we will just talk back normally
@savary5050
@savary5050 3 жыл бұрын
I'm straight so maybe I shouldn't be saying this, but a boy will always see you as just another bro and won't think anything of it unless you start acting awkward. I have always thought that this was the reason gay boys talk to girls so much, its because they don't feel awkward around them at all and they share the same attractions etc. Anyways I don't really know because I am not gay and I think it would personally be very hard to figure out if someone is gay or not just so you don't have your feelings crushed if you ask them out.
@vp3841
@vp3841 3 жыл бұрын
@@savary5050 we get that you're straight, bro. No need to repeat 3 times, bro.
@sel_ine
@sel_ine 3 жыл бұрын
Dude at least guys werent afraid of you-
@mammutbrot9230
@mammutbrot9230 3 жыл бұрын
@@vp3841 like im not gay, but i just wanna say that i am not a homosexual. Not that id know what that would be like tho cuz im not gay.
@SeriouslySeriousGrim
@SeriouslySeriousGrim Жыл бұрын
I just went through a situation like this but I was the girl in it, of course not being a stalker or anything though. It really hurt, but this helps me see it differently and understand what he may have been going through. The sentiment that you can only help someone so much and in the end they have to stand up for themselves really helped me see how continuing a relationship with that dynamic wouldn’t have been healthy in the long run.
@Dizzii_Lizzii
@Dizzii_Lizzii 9 ай бұрын
Yeah, it hurts a lot :(
@mexican_wbc9946
@mexican_wbc9946 8 ай бұрын
Yea it’s not your fault & you’re completely right. I had a situation like that with a girl & looking bck now even if I don’t think I’ll forget abt her I think it was for the best since other people can’t change you at Least not fully, you have to change yourself & if we would’ve of been something it would of probably been painful for the both of us the song “you can’t save me from myself” by sir reminds me of that situation. Thankfully the experience helped me self reflect & work on myself a lot to the point where I could see myself being in a relationship although i still got some work to do at least I’m doing the work
@mexican_wbc9946
@mexican_wbc9946 8 ай бұрын
@randall-flagg damn I always found the idea of a girl stalking me flattering
@mexican_wbc9946
@mexican_wbc9946 8 ай бұрын
@randall-flagg yea it’s definitely not a healthy thing it’s usually a red flag but I think the flattery stems from the validation those of us who are deprived of attention get from knowing other people find us interesting enough to stalk us although it usually stems from their personal problems not from how great we are, if we knew how great we are we wouldn’t have the need for someone else to think it & would probably find stalking creepy
@spikeonsteroids
@spikeonsteroids 3 жыл бұрын
I like this art style.
@forrest7186
@forrest7186 4 жыл бұрын
When I was younger, I was that one loud kid in class who was friends with everyone in class. I could easily talk to girls, I even had 2 girls a crush on me(Im actually not sure tho, I only found out from my friends). Then middle school came hit me like a fucking bus, my personality did a 180, I became that one quiet kid who doesnt talk at all. I lost a majority of my friends because I felt like a bother to them, and couldn't fit in to their group of friend. I became self consious and kept putting myself down, and thinking that everyone is looking at me, laughing at me. Soon one of the girls that liked me went to another school, the other one lost interest in me (I actually dont know), but was still good friends with them. I then all of a sudden became nervous around girls, and it was extremelly hard to make friends with them. It was literally impossible for me to make friends in class. I could only make friends next to me and what was worse was that I was in Honor classes so everyone kept to themsleves and only talked when we were grouped together on projects, and what was even worse was that the majority of those classmates is girls, so it was even more harder to try to make friends. In the end I never changed, Im still that self concious, anxiety filled, lonely person.
@Robot257onlinehue
@Robot257onlinehue 4 жыл бұрын
Same dude, same.
@Maxithicc
@Maxithicc 4 жыл бұрын
Hey, Girls And boys are both Humans who all go through what most humans go through, its ok to be anxious around girls, But you should try talking to girls the same way you talk to boys, With trust and Honesty
@uhoh5501
@uhoh5501 4 жыл бұрын
we the same person 😔
@bebetter6403
@bebetter6403 4 жыл бұрын
Aw man, I’m sorry :c I have anxiety too and I’m always self conscious and things. I believe in you though! Everyone has good qualities and stuff to offer other ppl
@forrest7186
@forrest7186 4 жыл бұрын
@@bebetter6403 Thank you, I believe in you too!
@sweatybabypowderhands843
@sweatybabypowderhands843 5 жыл бұрын
I felt kind of bad for her... but then again I realized that she found out where you went to school and where you lived and she thought it was totally normal behaviour to just show up without telling you first ... BIG RED FLAGS
@AndreasDelleske
@AndreasDelleske 4 жыл бұрын
Sweaty Baby Powder Hands well she did tell him before
@jarylaftnot8504
@jarylaftnot8504 4 жыл бұрын
He said she was his friends friend so she probably just asked the friend
@Maxithicc
@Maxithicc 4 жыл бұрын
I mean, They were still kids you know
@bebetter6403
@bebetter6403 4 жыл бұрын
BIG MISTAKE. HUGE.
@imanmokhtari5098
@imanmokhtari5098 Жыл бұрын
I dont usually comment on youtube, but this was a really good and relatable video. Good job
@lukethekuya
@lukethekuya Жыл бұрын
Still a great video to watch years later.
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