When I Work on Me How is That Affecting My Specific Person?

[@MsRoneria]

It took 3 months for me but I'm glad it took that long because it just gave me more time to love on myself😍 so when my specific person showed up he felt the love all around me, and now i can't even get rid of him😂😂...This stuff WORKS!!

[@marjd.c7553]

@roneria hopson, wow! Such an inspiration! Congrats to both of you😍😘😍😘😍😘

[@MsRoneria]

marj d.c ur welcome my story is #19 if you wanna hear my story

[@marjd.c7553]

Roneria hopson wow!!!! Is it #19?!? Omg!!!! For real?! Wah! Lemme check and listen!!! omg omg???! Congratulations!!!!! 😍😘😍😘😍😘😍😘Yay!!! Needed this positivity!! Can you tell us what you did and how long?

[@MsRoneria]

marj d.c I did a few things but the "I am loved" statement works wonders✨

[@marjd.c7553]

Roneria hopson yay!! Thank you! I hope I can follow you and the others' footsteps in manifesting back their loved one😍😘

[@NN-hc2mn]

It starts with you , not him . I've discovered that

[@stephaniepaul1967]

Very true ... .thank you Agnes this helps alot ❤️❤️

[@elinorbinich]

I was just having these creepy obsessive thoughts today...and felt upset somehow. Then I opened KZbin and this exactly video was on the 1st recommended list. It’s like Universe warning me: listen to Agnes carefully, and stop all those unhealthy thoughts! Love yourself first! Thank you Agnes for the video!

[@deborahmasci6212]

I have no words to explain how wonderful this woman is. I was just asking these questions yesterday to my friend. An then this video appeared to me and... Everything is clear now. I will never say this enough Agnes, thank you! Your words are so amazing.

[@ghadaj.mohammed6455]

So much desperation in that question all of that is due to lack of self love...when you love yourself you chase no one you become the prize ,the priority and everything you’re now giving to them catch yourself every time you fall into that trap ..and go back loving who you are❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@PositivelyPam]

"I'm telling you, you're SCREWED." LMAO Agnes! So true!

[@mommasboys3pa]

This video confirmed everything for me thank u! I've been watching l.o.a videos for a few weeks and recently came upon yours...main reason i was watching was to be more positive amd get someone's love back...ive been doing the affirmations and prayer and realized a couple days ago when i decided it was ok to eat by myself at a restaurant (something i NEVER do) that i was happy and life was good! At that moment people are texting me and blowing me up,some asking me out and i knew it was because i was finally happy with myself and people felt that...next day (yesterday) he texts me and all though i was happy about it,he wasnt my main focus anymore...just watched this video and it made soooo much sense!!! Literally made my day...thank u!

[@danhaynes3210]

Loved this Agnes! A couple of additional things I thought about while you were talking. I think a lot of the process happens on a subconscious level between the sender and the receiver...If you're in a needy place, then you also send that vibe out to the universe, which then creates more needy situations, whereas sending love and I am loved brings back more affirmative scenarios to back that feeling up. It also broadcasts this frequency outwards from you.Also I think by focusing on loving yourself, that other person sees or thinks of you in your new thought form, which then draws them to you because you're more attractive in that state.I think the specific person probably picks up the energy you send subconsciously, and then that leads to a thought about the person who sent it. Theorizing here a bit, but I think sometimes the reason why this fails is because our energy of desperation is picked up on by the specific person and subconsciously it keeps them away. Maybe.

[@paulkeinrath3252]

Dan Haynes this is what I think to

[@charliegrei7830]

I think we sometines feel like if we take the focus off them, we will lose them. But if ive learned anything from your channel is that we have to love ourselves. It just feels so hard. Thank you for this video, this has been me too. Just gonna self love me. Any suggestions?

[@andeeanko7079]

Besides Agnes' self-love videos, take yourself on dates! Do the things you love! Cuddle up in bed with chocolate and a movie every night if you want to! Study things you've always been interested in! Buy yourself treats!

[@charliegrei7830]

Andee Anko thank you so much, i am trying i can see my happy ending but then doubt sets in and i get upset. I went out last night and had the time of my life but at one point i got sad and started feeling like i was nothing, feeling so unwanted. I keep telling myself i love myself just not sure if i believe it, but im determined, i need to be healthy.

[@andeeanko7079]

My mantra I repeat over and over when I feel down or just whenever I think of it is, "I am loved, I am wanted, I am secure, I am first best." Do this especially when you wake up and before you go to sleep. Agnes' videos are fantastic. Self-love is the basis for manifesting everything that is good (not just your special person).

[@charliegrei7830]

Andee Anko thank you so so much, im going to so it and concentrate on me for now. Thank you for helping me!

[@DblockK.Ford720]

@@andeeanko7079 I love this comment 💯

[@BrandiEckert]

❤️~❤️~❤️ WHEN I TRULY LOVEME, ONLY THEN, SO TOO CAN HE. ❤️~❤️~❤️ But if you are doing it SO THAT HE WILL, then you aren't TRULY LOVING YOURSELF. It seems to me that it goes: #1 - LET THEM GO #2 - LOVE YOURSELF UNTIL NOTHING ELSE MATTERS #3 - THEN, you won't have to go back...he or better will be lining up and vying for the time you simply want to spend with yourself. LETTING GO... TRULY LETTING GO, IS JUST AS KEY AS LOVING YOURSELF, in my humble, often wrong opinion. 😊

[@inspiredby-sx7wy]

I think this is true. But i think letting go means sth like stop being in despair for him

[@jenniferangela9562]

this is just golden Agnes. so true. every words you said just hit me perfectly.

[@AgnesVivarelli]

Jennifer Angela nice 👍

[@ttantoon]

This video is a wake up call for me, it made me realize that I spend too much time thinking about that person, asking myself "Why isn't it happening" and being inpatient. I hope I can change and love myself more, this is what I have been lacking for long long time of my life...

[@yoshitamaurya5623]

💜

[@cherryonthetop3187]

Your videos are a source of inspiration for many of us...kindly keep them coming....ty ❤

[@AgnesVivarelli]

will do - thanks for your kind words

[@laurenbreazeale4261]

Thank you, Agnes. I think this will serve as a great reminder for many of us to realign ourselves if we get off track with obsessive thinking. It definitely seems to be a skill. :D

[@AgnesVivarelli]

lori it is a skill, just reminding ourselves and remembering it is half the work

[@1sava]

Hi Agnes, how have you been?! I've missed your videos so much! I know it's only been 6 days ago since you last posted, but I am absolutely obsessed with your channel! Thank you for your work and I hope you're doing fantastic! Much love and big hugs!

[@AgnesVivarelli]

Sava my pleasure 😇

[@grrrohmy665]

This makes so much sense, the truth is i’m very scared. i’m scared that by focussing on myself and not my specific person i will lose them 😔 that’s my biggest fear. before i found your chanel i’ve done sm wrong, i’ve been in a state of longing and sadness for like 6 months and have just obsessively been doing meditations to attract them back with the intention of them coming back right away, and then when i wake up and they arent back i just sob and keep trying. now i’m learning that i need to love myself and i’m determined to do so, i’m just scared that i have already pushed them away or by focussing on myself i will be pushing them away more

[@tinamonic]

Hey Agnes! Martina here, lol! Thank you sooo sooo much for this! I will still continue to do self love meditations and affirmations first before I do the specific person ones. I have to get myself to believe and stop thinking negative. Thank you so much for this and also your personal help! I forgot to say that I bought Kamals book Love Yourself like Your Life Depends on It. Thanks!

[@kadijahdesiree]

tinamonic can i email you? I saw that you had attracted your specific person and it’s seemed very similar to mine but I’m having an issue w letting go and focusing on me. I’d love to hear some tips from you:)

[@lwilson331]

Perfect timing! Every week your messages are like an onion for me - peeling back my understanding of my issues a layer at a time ... there is always something that makes me sit up and go Ah Ha! Blessings and Love to you for all that you do to help us - Grateful and Thankful for you -

[@SweetLilGabi]

I am so happy to have stumbled upon your channel....self love has been something I have always struggled with...and I see now how I have influenced my relationships and losing love because of what I project. It's time to heal....thank you!

[@iamdistincta5401]

I absolutely love the explanation. I thought too, it was about them, that energy was acting on them, now I understand!

[@Amy-mb5vj]

Perfect timing

[@AgnesVivarelli]

hahahaha nice!

[@nickic8759]

Works every time...without fail. It’s all about you! Agnes will guide you right xxx

[@beverlygreene18]

Self love is everything 💕💕🦋🦋

[@Summer-tk8yk]

I feel love within and I feel I have unlimited power inside me. Thank you. :)

[@Salsoci]

“It’s creepy” haha you sound so adorable but you are right. Love is about freedom ❤️

[@olimpiaaaaaaaa]

This is Paramount. Focus on me And God And really knowing Meeting Me . So relaxing to surrender Agnes Thanks a 10000000 likes. 💚💚🐎💚🐎💚 for this rebirth

[@SimranKaur-hi6ge]

I am so happy right now...to have received this video notification.. had been thinking today... Haven't heard from Agnes in a while.. 😜😜 and this pop's up 😂😂😍😍 So so happpieee 💃💃 Tyyy Agnes 😘😘😘

[@AgnesVivarelli]

hahahahaha cute, was with family last week so no privacy to video

[@SimranKaur-hi6ge]

Agnes Vivarelli Ohh .... But good to see you back here again 💃💃💃 And can I plz request you to make some more self love meditation videos ...I have used others' as well... But yours resonate the best with me ..so 😛😛

[@JohnM...]

I think it's not so much the Universe that needs time, but that the energy you send is not self loving and is needy, and your SP picks up on that. Temporarily letting go to work on YOURSELF, your goals and your beliefs, cuts that strangling suffocating energy the SP feels and allows them to breath freely. TIME is what allows them, if they have even the smallest feelings for you, to miss you. Time makes them wonder about how you are doing, and they ask your friends about you...

[@Romina-mx5dj]

I felt so good for weeks and the last couple of days doubts and overthinking is creeping in to the point I feel like giving up. And I feel like I want to cry but it‘s not my emotions. I don‘t know what‘s going on.

[@westcoastorbust2462]

This is crazy. I just had a knowing about this today and you confirm it. Wow! I’m excited about becoming better. In the meantime I’ll see him in my lucid dreams. Love him so.

[@apoorv648]

❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️She deals with deep and simple questions!!

[@subhraaroy]

Needed to hear this, Agnes. ♥♥ Thank you so much for being who you are to us.

[@AgnesVivarelli]

love to you

[@user-lm7wj5tn9u]

This is a good video and message. I know when I focus on myself, I feel better, I radiate, you raise your vibration and that's what attracts a person to you.

[@trishataylor2837]

Thank you for this vid Agnes. What really hit me was when you referred to "being like child trying to get love from an adult.". That was always me! As a child I never got the love i deserved. I always had to fight for every thing I wanted. Always helping others to get what either They needed or wanted. I am so grateful for your vids teaching us with clear explanations on how to love ourselves first in order to have a healthy relationship with someone we love. God richly bless you 😇

[@bellydanza85]

Brilliant video, Agnes.

[@asm393]

Wonderfully you explained Agnes.. You are my inspiration... after watching all your videos continuously from 2 months I am literally working on my self.. 2 years of break up I tried many things as you remember previously I mentioned in your comments tarot reading chasing begging I disrespected my self and I front of my SP family. Now I am focusing too much on my self doing hoponopono inner child healing sending love vibration to my self doing self love... now I am feeling bad on myself how much disrespected my self infront of these like Sp and his family... Slowly my mind is taking him off the pedestal... Can you tell pls reply me that is this normal feeling like how much disrespected my self also cried for hurting my self and tolerated there nasty behavior.. Is it good sign for self love ??? I also speak to universe in mediation that I am really sorry for my self literally let my self down forgive me many things I speak now

[@AgnesVivarelli]

Self compassion and understanding is a beautiful heartfelt thing 🙏🏼

[@dimsummo]

You are a gift to all of us! Thank you so much!

[@SMaze-yr8er]

I’m so glad this video popped up today. I was feeling impatient and frustrated and kind of obsessing, which was a backslide after I’ve been doing really well for weeks. Thank you Agnes!! ☺️

[@shannonr5122]

I think you just nailed it on the head as to why I can’t or haven’t been able to just let this go and let it happen with my specific person you just said how we are like children sometimes trying to get an adults attention and I think mine stems from trying to get my fathers attention my whole life and I think I need to heal that first and then hopefully the universe will send my specific person back to me

[@misssunshine537]

Even after meditations I come to this video in my free time to remind myself my worth. Working on myself becomes even better when you make it so clear ★

[@Vanswan1]

“ they are not your oxygen tank “ ha Lolol! Love it 😂😆

[@fioni2728]

So true 👍 This is all coming from lack of self love & it is sad... first ME & then others... it us who makes god from others ... whereas we are the only god of our reality. Period.

[@stephenschlachter829]

Thank you so much this helps me tremendously. 👍

[@maya-tealjackson1014]

I love this perfect video the Universe gave me at the right time! I've been binge watching your self love videos! I'm addicted! When I feel weird or sad I go straight to that and it works instantly! Thank you for what you do for us! :) I LOVE YOUUUU

[@lorenwildflower4864]

Haha didn’t hold back in this video. Love it

[@rb757]

I love love this video thank you Agnes

[@tatyanasurenyan-krech6372]

So you just have confidence that you put your desire into the universe and let the universe bring it to you.

[@designcomune6200]

Love u

[@caitlinmoon1720]

Right up my alley 🙌🙌🙌

[@gregallder7996]

GREAT video and question- I watched it several times because I was doing the same thing as Allie- thank u

[@SrtaBGoode]

Thanks for your videos Agnes. Lots of love xxxx

[@tatyanasurenyan-krech6372]

This is a good youtube! I was so preoccupied with trying to get a phone call that I forgot that I was taking and not sending love. So, I have changed paths now.

[@arianna_m6269]

Amazing Agnes!

[@AgnesVivarelli]

lub to you

[@krizziaudtohan2154]

Thank you for this video. I always watch this when I don't feel good. It reminds me of who I AM. Thanks Agnes.

[@NN-hc2mn]

Self love first

[@noopurk6251]

Thank you Agnes..i was thinking about the same thing!!😘😘😘😘

[@AgnesVivarelli]

yeah? cool

[@lovepeacejoyivewonbig7469]

Such a great video. Thanks Agnes !!! ❤️🦋

[@aparna716]

Thank you Agnes!! You really are an inspiration Love you😙😙

[@charliegrei7830]

I know how to manifest, i manifested my sp, this go round and i manifested other ppl, how do i get the doubt about manifesting him out of my head? Its hard to be positive and attract when he wont talk to me?

[@manikchandanamali9024]

Thank you dear.....❤❤❤

[@madhusmitamishra3318]

I have a question Agnes, is this true for every goal? Like if I do self love my manifestations would appear faster in the physical world ?

[@marlenaeva3813]

yes, i think so

[@RA-tw4lx]

Beautifully said

[@viviancassel6025]

Thank you! I just got to this point in my manifestation.

[@npjm.99]

Omg this is just what i needed to hear right now 💖

[@ibelieveinkarma4309]

Wonderful, Thank you so much

[@goddess_gia6]

Thank you great video.

[@queenoffortune6937]

Hi. Agnes. It was great to see you in live today😎. But not get the chance to talk to you but it was a great feeling of being with you.😍. Better luck next time. One question that I wanted ask in the session which i couldn't able to so I'm asking you here.. hope you will answer... Everyday when I get up in the morning even if i completely not wake up i feel the pain of his absence though i sleep with a very happy mood and with a good thought that from tomorrow my day's are going to be happy days. But in the morning i wake up with the painting heart with lost feeling. Why this is happening to me please reply. I really requesting you. Thank you and lots of love.

[@shannonr5122]

singing bird Devika Guha I get the same thing even after 7 months

[@curiousaquarius]

How to believe more I am having the same question and this video arrive .. how long it time ?

[@hendrxxboi174]

Thank you

[@kristikg7431]

Then when are you supposed to take action on it? How do you know when you are ready?

[@npjm.99]

i do want it by Dec 31st !!!

[@ugnulanila]

Hello Agnes ,i have /still am ,listen to you for a few months ,and i love the work u do on us,today i asked a man that is good in astrology and kind of let me down ,i mean he told me what he thought about my specific one ,that he will never get married that he is afraid of marriage ,that i m wasting my time with him ,and i was like" but u dont know him the way i do" should i follow my dream ,and my heart ,or ...cuz i just dont know ,im pretty down after this conversation with this guy...lol gotta stop negative thoughts !Any advice from you is very welcomed! Thank you for being here!

[@GoldbergandPartners]

Great video

[@juhikashyap6093]

You are amazing❣️

[@FrenshPerfume]

Bless you 🙏🏼🌹

[@perkycurlyfries]

How can we get out of that crazy state and focus on ourselves?

[@jyotsanas.1138]

How to go about manifesting many things at a time ?

[@lindacundiff4613]

Im still waiting but im still getting bad dreams off and on but very few good dreams is that a good thing that its not all bad dreams like it was before? Also I do still have battles of days im still mad about things he done. Also having this issue in job and need of new car.

[@iamdistincta5401]

Humm, stop being in people's head. Wow ♥️

[@Fun-vu8ff]

Is it ok to combine a couple of affirmations and say them everyday as much as possible? Is this effective for manifestation?

[@nidhimeshram4498]

if at all he said that he has taken a decision of leaving n will see if it happens back or not of both which he says he is responsible be it right or wrong decision and might go meet third party... will my manifestation work or this self love exersise work?

[@Basundhara1111]

Hi Agnes, How long I can do manifestation routinely, its been 2 weeks M doing for my specific loved one back, should start let go mediation now?

[@debangshighosh7531]

I have a question, does doing all these bring back my specific person?? Should I not contact him?? Should I not take any action to show my love to him??

[@npjm.99]

No dont try to contact him. Work on you and sending good vibes out to him after you have attained the good positive vibes in yourself first.

[@judorican973]

Focus on yourself self love ❤️ ppl

[@melissafernandes8405]

Hi Agnes. Today I was told by my boss that my contract wouldn't be renewed (budgetary issues). My bf is also moving out and we are breaking up at the end of the month (He says he isn't ready for a relationship). So from next month I will have no job and no relationship. I feel like my world is coming crashing down around me. How can I manifest a job and prevent this break up?

[@dontrellkeys]

Any updates?

[@charliegrei7830]

Im still trying to live in my end result but i find my self feeling very throwed away and unloved. Is it ok if i write down how im feeling like you talked about in one of your 6 attracting your person lessons. This has been going on for days. In trying to detach and self love but that feeling keeps coming up. Im pushing bc i just want to feel better. I really feel isolated and left out. Any suggestions?

[@twilightzone18]

Charlie Grei hi!! Dont push the feeling away. Feel it, journal about it, dont dwell on it and I swear to you the bad feeling with dissolve inmediatly. I recommend books by Patrick Avery, he teaches this method and totally worked for me. Love to you!! It will all work out.

[@charliegrei7830]

twilightzone18 thank you so much, im going to do that tonight, thank you so much for the hope. Its tough trying to live as if everything is ok with my sp when you feel like that but your right I'm gonna journal it. I really needed your advice thank you so much again love to you too!!!

[@sabinastyleau]

Practice the ho'oponopono meditation. I had the same issues and struggles for months. Practicing this meditation released most of my resistance. I highly recommend it!

[@charliegrei7830]

sabinastyle.au thank you i will try it. Thank you for helping me

[@Allma_h]

Love ❤️

[@tacobelle69]

Haha if people had the kind of awareness where someone sends them a mental message and they receive it that way no one would send any type of mental message or influence because it would be like sending a text. You might as well just send them a text at that point. 😂

[@bn-vn1he]

Hi agnes I hav a question. When i imagine and visualize abt my ex its very easy for me to actually visuliaze myself spending time wit him. But its almost impossible for me to feel as if its really happening..so my vibration will not match. What can i do?

[@AgnesVivarelli]

do self love and the above you mentioned needs practice

[@bn-vn1he]

Agnes Vivarelli so without feeling the actual visualization i cannot manifest what i want? Cz i hav been doin tis for 1.5 yrs nw

[@nataliea5570]

b n maybe hire a manifesting coach to help you ask Agnes to teach you etc have you tried manifesting small things. It’s hard but keep on going. Iam trying to manifest my ex back.

[@bn-vn1he]

Natalie A thanks for ur reply dea.. ya i wanted a coach but unfortunately i cant afford the fee.😔 so m trying a lot to get ma ex back...smtimes he txts me but doesnt want the relationship back...so i feel i manifested those msgs n all...but jus waiting for him to get married to me..

[@bn-vn1he]

I really hope u get ur ex back too darling.. incase u hav any gud tips do let me knw

[@happythoughts3630]

Do you guys know if LOA works even in the worst case scenario? After being together for ten years and having my specific person break up with, has made me feel all kinds of emotions. I am trying to get over the breakup and live in the end but my mind keeps saying that I'm being dumb for thinking this way since he broke it off with me. A looot has happened in our relationship. I know that he is very disappointed and hurt by me but I also believe that this is supposed to just be a break! I know that deep down inside we are meant to be together. Yet, I still have doubt about LOA because of the time we've been together. Does the amount of time one was together for play a role in LOA? I want there to be hope for us

[@dmitri539]

Janina Bracht No matter how bad things turned out during the "break," things will always turn out for the best. The law of Attraction works! Have faith in it. Don't worry about the time or how you disappointed him. Focus on yourself right now, love yourself and feel happy. Smile 😊 cause all will be well.

[@Rovie-gn9mc]

Hopefully so.

[@salonikachauhan7735]

Video starts at 7:00

[@thejenigrace]

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