Listen to this guy. back at middle school I was thought by my father to avoid fights since I was doing martial arts and he feared I could hit someone badly, and ruining my life. He was also afraid as back at primary school I got into a bad fight and it could have ended terribly, however back then I used to get into fights so much. Following his advice, I avoided confrontations, even the kids who didn't dare take on me since they knew what I did for sports and because of my physique's looks, started to pick on me, at high school someone was bullying me while I was trying being nice to him so that he stop yet he didn't, he continued to bully me and even tried to do the same to my then-friend who sent him home with two black eyes never to dare at him once ever again. Take the example what works, I'm not vouching for violence yet I've suffered in opportunities and chances at life and lost people because of this conditioning. Stand up for yourselves fellas yet do not be bullies yourselves.
@Ace_is_Lost5 ай бұрын
"Getting Beaten up after putting the best fight you could is never something to be ashamed of !" -A Random Guy
@TonySilverteeth5 ай бұрын
Kindness shouldn't be wasted. Empathy shouldn't be wasted. Don't make yourself feel like you're below the food chain or that they're above yours. That's why the Honey Badger is my Spirit Animal.
@King.Leonidas5 ай бұрын
Good one. i feel ya
@TonySilverteeth5 ай бұрын
@@King.Leonidas Thanks
@yohanesherbudisatriyanto33945 ай бұрын
Never let other ppl take your meekness for granted. I learned this in a quite harsh way. Even family members could feast on the kind side of your soul. I wish I was more rebellious when I was a kid. I didn't mean that you should always seek the repayment for your action(s), but you should absolutely must guarantee the safety of your own hand before giving it to anyone.
@leg9125 ай бұрын
I've been with a clingy, judgy, negative and probably narcissistic friend. It wasn't until I had someone other than him that I realized we were just classmates, and that our relationship wasn't normal. It was only normal because I thought so - I didn't fight back. 7 years of doubting and hating myself, adding with the isolation of the pandemic years, lead to bad prospects (as in, future). A few days ago, everything made sense. I got mad. I fought back verbally. I stood my ground. It felt good, but it also felt terrible when I realized they forgot about my existence even after we were together all these years. For that, I move on. If you don't give them a consequence for bullying you, they won't think about the consequences themselves.
@fredhercmaricaubang18835 ай бұрын
I WHOLEHEARTEDLY AGREE with ALL that you said! I know because I went through ALL that & then some! So, THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR THIS! My only hope is that my country, the Philippines, will adopt THIS when dealing with the pricks who're trying to take away parts of MY country without paying the price!
@hustler215835 ай бұрын
Brother. You are the reason I pay my internet bill for. For this Wisdom. Thank you. Keep growing 💪💪
@Hudanasheeds5 ай бұрын
Steven covey once said „i teach people how to treat me in that what i allow“ Put clear boundaries, have self respect save you the trouble and put distance if they are not respecting the boundaries
@alex-ander-135 ай бұрын
Thank you for the reminder.
@BLACK800855 ай бұрын
100% right on bullying, from my experiences i say its true only when you put up a resistance and fight you're set free. You also made a lot of points and given value on other topics because by talking about bullying you just spoke of reality and circumstances and what to do with them with example of bullies which gets the point excellently across.
@yohanesherbudisatriyanto33945 ай бұрын
Never give other ppl your meekness for granted. I learned this in a quite harsh way. Even family members could feast on the kind side of your soul. I wish I was more rebellious when I was a kid. I didn't mean that you should always seek the repayment for your action(s), but you should absolutely must guarantee the safety of your own hand before giving it to anyone.
@aakankinskywalker3845 ай бұрын
Hi there it's been a long time, nice video. Bro, there is still an issue with me and that is I still haven't been able to stop the corn stuff. I tried to do my best, but seeing myself always fall back down is disheartening. Most of the time something bad has happened to me before I watch corn like getting fewer marks or seeing my friends perform better than me at things that I am not naturally gifted in, I am not born gifted like most of my friends in college and it is disheartening.
@makingtoast5 ай бұрын
I understand but having the powerful anger that I do I just avoid all conflict. I don't have any bullies and will keep it that way but I accept that some things are out of my control. I simply can't be anybody else. The risks are too high.
@talbit5 ай бұрын
Violnce slvs everythng
@kenandrieling58855 ай бұрын
I'm not saying to be passive. But every time someone has done me wrong. God took care of it for me
@Upāsaka_115 ай бұрын
Karma's a bitch, but God helps those who help themselves.
@sledgethecuber90529 күн бұрын
Bro u delete some vids? They were good tho did u delete becuz they are like opposite of your ideas produced in the should u pressure yourself to succeed?
@Forged8829 күн бұрын
A lot of them got shadowbanned & demonetized bcuz they're not "ad friendly" apparently. Some I thought I could do better at so I'm gonna do a better upload in the future. But those that got banned for no specific reasons, I'm gonna upload them in another platform, as well as future topics that are not safe to upload here
@dominictemplario28 күн бұрын
@@Forged88Why your vídeos got ad banned ?
@joyfulgirl20095 ай бұрын
Not even spelling the word defense right. Messes it up for me. Is AI doing all these misspelling or actually people? 😅
@Forged885 ай бұрын
Learn british english
@burntoburn425 ай бұрын
Oh boy, this is some pretty bad advice.
@marshallpeters38535 ай бұрын
Like you have any bettter ones
@Upāsaka_115 ай бұрын
Standing up for yourself can have consequences, but what's worse, handling the consequences or the abuse?
@Dunge0n5 ай бұрын
Three percent of the population. Black males aged thirteen to thirty five. Sixty five percent of non-familial violent assaults nationwide.