When Narcissists Refuse To Help With The Kids But Will Take Credit

[@KMRAND]

They LOVE taking credit for anything that puts them in the spotlight. Won’t drive them to one single play practice but will show up on opening night and stand next to their “little star” to take all of the compliments.

[@MentalHealness]

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[@scazzasofija]

Yep, won't pay for the piano lessons or help practice, in fact they will make the activity as difficult logistically as they can, but they'll sure take the credit when they're successful.

[@AnnetteYisrael]

Big facts I have seen this with my own eyes with a narcissistic that goes with my daughter. He is ridiculous. He hasn't even bought any of his kids a pair of underwear throughout their whole life.

[@mika913]

My father is a horrible narc and my mother stayed with him and in order to stay out of prison, I walked completely away 2 weeks ago because she made her choice and she chose him every time, even when he mistreated her and my siblings and had a outside child. No longer my business.

[@colibri7-m1h]

He was jeluos on our son, had to beat him in every game, talked him down and made him cry everytime he lost against his father. Never taught him anything.

[@recoveringsoul755]

Take credit for any accomplishments by the child, who earned those DESPITE the abuse. And will also steal those children they don't love in the divorce

[@shyvonjones6881]

I went through this very same thing my ex the narc he finally tried to be a responsible parent for ones to help our son with his spelling test and he was so convinced that he help him get on the honor roll at school behind just a spelling test

[@MentalHealness]

😢

[@SMass-j7x]

Another topic: how a narc will chase the mother but ignore the kids he fathered with that mother. My ex (the father of my son) will use all his energy to chase me and make my life miserable but any time I ask him to use that same energy and father his son it’s a problem. Our son is 6 and refuses to be with him alone. He just told him “go away daddy” 🤷🏿‍♀️ that’s what you get when you don’t put any effort in

[@alexishill3342]

This is so true.😢

[@MentalHealness]

😢

[@brionahowell4056]

Very true, but on the other hand let there be something wrong “medically” with the child and the response is “oh that didn’t come from me/my side”. They take credit for the good while still looking for the bad in the child to find something wrong with your parenting even though they have opted out of being a parent (visiting the child is not helping to parent the child)…wth🤦🏾‍♀️

[@KKP20111]

Lee, can you do a video about why the narcissists feel so entitled to everything?!

[@melissajohnson1082]

That’s it Lee! I’m signing up for one of your 1:1 now. This parenting thing has triggered me this week lol

[@SMass-j7x]

😂😂 I stopped sharing pictures with my ex. He was posting them on his page acting like he was involved 😂😂 I was livid. I got my son Kion costume from Lion Guard. My ex posted the photo as if he got him ready and went trick or treating. He has never been involved with our son. I don’t have social media so I knew if I stopped sending him photos he’d have nothing to post smh.

[@pinkheartfairy]

Facts !

[@One-x2x8o]

There we go speak up now!! Ur so strong