When One Door Closes, Another Opens | Trusting God on this Journey

[@xyngchic]

I am so glad this vid popped into my algorithm. I wish you guys the best in your new lives. Times change. People change. Life goes on. Can’t wait to follow along on your new journey.

[@smh1072]

Good luck Neiman. I’m sorry to hear you and Lauren have parted ways. However, you now have a bright future to look forward to. Concentrate on your own talents and skills. You have been a wonderful partner supporting Lauren in growing her business, but you left yourself behind. You have fans among your viewers, and we look forward to watching you grow and finding yourself. ❤️

[@ettazay5088]

I'm sorry you two are no longer together. I know what it's like to help and support others only to realize it's at the cost of realizing your own growth and path in life. I wish you both well. You are very talented and you will get through this. 🙏

[@prairiestorm5045]

I wish you well, Nieman. You’re a great young man with a bright future. I did see some warning signs of impulsivity throughout the years of your partnership; for example, the car buying/loaner vehicle escapade, buying the Air B&B, moving a lot, and buying the building/shop. As a Grandma, I worried about how and who was going to pay for all it. I was greatly disappointed to hear the recording played in this video. You’re better than that. Take the high road,son. Don’t let the past dictate your future. Follow God so closely that you bump your nose on His back! Many hugs!

[@chefboyarsneed]

Thanks very much! It’s all part of Gods Plan. Just taking it one step at a time. Thanks for watching and the support.

[@pfles1]

You were just as much a part of FFT’s social media success as Lauren was. Good luck to both of you moving forward.

[@chefboyarsneed]

teamwork makes the dream work they say 🤝🏽 Thank you very much for the well wishes and thanks for watching!

[@suzzetteRotolo]

I'm sorry to hear about you & Lauren. I thought you guys were so cute together. Good luck on your next adventure!

[@gailcullinan]

I hope that Lauren finds the right person. You should have made your own life from the start, then the relationship would work. This is good so that Lauren can grow. I have always seen Lauren as the driving force and she kindly included you on her journey.

[@chefboyarsneed]

yes, i hope she does as well. thanks for watching!

[@sheilasheppard4851]

I appreciate the comments that referenced the F word. When you have been broken, and God has changed who you are, the F word is the last one you will want to use. I do wish you the best. I was very impressed with the work that you accomplished!

[@albavalencia9766]

I don't think that she stopped you from growing, it might have been your own self doubt that stopped you from advancing in your professional life. You felt secure where you were, and it worked out for you. If you want something else, move forward, but don't make yourself a martyr for trying to help her, it was your choice, and it's also your choice to move forward. Work hard and you'll see results. Good luck.

[@chefboyarsneed]

noooo way jose! this message wasn’t intended in that way. i grew in ways i could have never imagined through this journey! loved every bit of it

[@rebeccasalhab2159]

Best of luck for your future Neiman much love 🙏

[@babineaux072284]

Maybe she isn’t the person everyone thinks. I like her and him. We weren’t there so we don’t know. There is his truth, her truth and the real truth in the middle. So I hope he finds his place in life.

[@chefboyarsneed]

it’s all good 👍 thanks for watching

[@TRoxanne55]

Just continue to trust in the Lord that he has great plans for you. I look forward to seeing what your channel will be all about. Good luck on your next journey.

[@chefboyarsneed]

Thank you, I will. he’s giving me all the confidence and power to keep moving forward. thanks for watching!

[@realsweett05]

It’s really sad to see that you two are no longer together. Please don’t let the judgment of others bring you down. None of us are perfect if we were, our name would be Jesus Christ. All we can do is wake up each day and strive to be better. We don’t know your story, nor do we need to. You’re both entitled to your privacy. May God bless you both!

[@joaniemerrill8354]

Best of luck Neiman! You are very talented and have a bright future ahead!

[@AuntieBrennie]

Thank you for taking us along for your amazingly awesome, wild ride. Best of luck and seeing the joy in the journey. B~}

[@MikeG02061]

Good luck with everything. You seem like a really good guy.

[@dorrengilbert804]

You are a strong, positive human. Things will work out and start coming to you. Stay positive.👍

[@gretchen_needs_a_dog]

You will be stronger on your own. Even though I’m sure that feels so hard on so many levels. But as someone nearly twice your age, I can say that this is the push you need. And for your sake, do not go work for the man!!! I’m 53 and working on recovery from that! You are blessed with Artistic talent and a wonderful sense of humor. Lauren did always credit you for your part, so remember that you have SO MANY options. Be strong! ❤

[@sooome9294]

When you do believe in God and what He has for you, you are on the wrong track staying where you had been. If you know what God requires of you to walk in integrity, do it. You have the gift of encouragement. I am glad to hear you want God to be the main motivator. The next six months are going to be adventurous and exciting. Congratulations, celebrate.

[@chefboyarsneed]

it was wild… after that conversation, i was obviously a little “mad”. but i heard god speak into me and say, “this was of my own doing, this is for you, and will allow you to become what it is i have purposed for you.” as soon as i heard that it was as clear as day so the transition has been smoothened a bit because of the feeling of conviction i have for the path i am on now. God knows i’m hard headed and sometime have to be kicked in the behind lol

[@justdi3347]

I wish you well Neiman, but dont put God into the MF language. God does not like a profane month. I wish you well Neiman . Put God first and the profanity will go away, or it should

[@rhondaadams4013]

"Seek ye first the kingdom of God, and his righteousness; and all these things shall be added unto you" (Matt6:33). Run hard after God! You WON'T ever regret it!! Ever!!! I'll be praying for you.

[@glory9221]

I was watching a recent video of Lauren, and I was wondering where is Neiman?? I pray you find your passion and your path. 🙏✝️❤️

[@chefboyarsneed]

you found me 😁 thanks for the prayers!

[@carrie3206]

Yes! I thought the same. Where’s Neiman? I went searching KZbin and found you here Neiman. Listened to your story. Grateful you shared this part of your life. Subscribed. ❤😊❤

[@kathrynkranjac]

I think God has given you a tremendous talent for filming , editing and creating for multiple online platforms. Why not teach that on KZbin and other social media platforms.

[@susanseifert925]

🤔🧐🤔 Please consider growing and expanding with a business editing for other large scale KZbinrs.🤔🧐🤔

[@Flippingdrawers]

I’m here for the drama 👀😂 just kidding. Good on you mate 👍

[@chefboyarsneed]

no drama here 🙅🏽‍♂️

[@xthatwhiteguyx]

Obviously I don't know either of you, but just based on the interactions between the two of you for the last 2 years or so, it was obvious you both needed this. Lauren behaved like she was a hostage. Her entire personality was completely muted; probably too afraid to call it off, for many reasons. And you deserve to be respected and appreciated, but also need the opportunity and 'kick' to pursue your own interests. Her entire personality has completely changed in her videos, for the better. I hope you manage(d) to have the same result.

[@chefboyarsneed]

Love to hear it. I think it’s all working out as it should 🤙🏽

[@Mahseeful]

We are all evolving and growing, this was in your cards

[@janetboette7013]

Have always liked your vivacious spirit and have no doubt that you can figure out your next chapter. I've thought that you both bit off more than you can handle, sorry. Yes , you definitely helped launch FFT! I wish you the best. Slow down, do one thing well for now.

[@vickyb9918]

Best of luck to you. You helped Lauren a lot and can do the same for yourself.

[@brunomclovin8413]

Best of Luck! You are young and you will figure out your next chapter soon enough.

[@debfarber8227]

Neiman, I have followed you and Lauren for a long time. I wish you well. Please take a little advice from and old Christian and watch using the "F" word if you are going to live the Christian life. Best wishes on your new path.

[@chefboyarsneed]

thank you very much for the support all throughout the years. i’ll keep growing in my relationship with my god. thanks for watching!

[@justdi3347]

Amen, I just gave him the same advice

[@xyngchic]

Side note: keep your new relationship off of the internet. The world doesn’t need to know your private business.

[@lovidas6297]

Wow, can't believe you posted that personal message from Lauren.

[@LeeLuvsBeaches]

It’s his story to tell, he can post what he wants. Why are you so bothered?

[@lovidas6297]

@@LeeLuvsBeaches I am not "bothered." That was a "low life" move, plain and simple. He is trying his best to spout some kind of high minded notions, while at the same time sharing a very personal message from Lauren. Even in this "share everything" world, that is still considered a low move.

[@LeeLuvsBeaches]

@@lovidas6297 that was “very personal”? Sounded like business to me. But again, it’s HIS STORY TO TELL if he so chooses! He’s documenting HIS JOURNEY, just as many others do…hint: autobiographies 🤷🏽‍♀️

[@nevisscot7697]

It was her dream not yours probably and thats ok .you are both very young .....you separated before so there were red flags .you probably feel inferior need your own project .good luck

[@peggyhansen4516]

Neiman, I met you at the grand opening. I instantly loved you. You give great hugs. Met you once but felt like I could meet you again and you would remember me. You may remember me I was the women who said, "put a ring on that finger". I am sorry things didn't go as planned, in life they often don't and when they don't other doors open. You do not owe anyone an explanation. I wish you both the best. You do you. I wrote this before I watched the whole video, I nearly spit my wine out when you mentioned doors, knowing what I had wrote. God works in amazing ways!

[@anneheslin9923]

Good luck the skys the limit now! ❤

[@vickihamilton3001]

Sorry but you talk alot, without actually saying alot. If you loved Lauren you would of happily stayed in the background and supported her. You want KZbin fame and don't want to be in the background? Am I right?

[@LeeLuvsBeaches]

Seems like you just might not know how to listen. I understood everything he said, clearly!

[@Nonetheless000]

He needs to grow up!

[@ettazay5088]

"You would have happily stayed in the background..." Awful advice when you have more to give. He has supported Lauren and she has him. They've come to (finally) realize they are on separate journeys. Better they each find happiness apart than stay together and be miserable.

[@tradergirl7067]

good luck. you have tons of talent.

[@VividlyRah]

Way to stay strong 5:50

[@chefboyarsneed]

mannnnn - can't make this stuff up lol

[@theropesofrenovation]

Are y'all back together yet?

[@chefboyarsneed]

We are not and won’t be getting back together. That door is officially closed.

[@theropesofrenovation]

@@chefboyarsneed I'm so sorry to hear that.

[@CalebKirkbride]

0:06: This sounded like getting called in by HR and them reading from a corporate lawyer-approved script. Ouch. I know when you separated before you stayed part of the business, so I hope whatever happened this time there's no bad blood. Fans of you both, but always had a crush on you.

[@chefboyarsneed]

no bad blood at all. thanks for watching - look forward to sharing more!

[@kathleenfreund7332]

Yes I found it very cold,

[@donnaharris5754]

So sorry you and Lauren split. You are on the right track though. Seeking God and getting yourself ready for your future mate while God is getting your future mate ready for you.

[@moira03__]

Wish you all the best 😇

[@lovidas6297]

I think you are trying to convince yourself of something. Hope you find it.

[@solangeherault7038]

Good luck

[@peggyhansen4516]

I hope you are still in Omaha!

[@chefboyarsneed]

for the moment 📍

[@birkventures2050]

More please!

[@chefboyarsneed]

on the way 💪🏽🫡

[@Shari311]

Recording Lauren without her knowledge is violating her privacy and incredibly disrespectful. Seems hypocritical from what you’ve been posting on here. Maybe you need to grow up before you start “preaching.” This is not GOD’s way.

[@chefboyarsneed]

this is certainly gods way for me.

[@happytx1860]

Best buy luck to you ❤.

[@xyngchic]

I kinda felt something was going on when the grand opening was filmed. Nieman talked a lot about how much he loved Lauren…it was over the top. Not saying he didn’t love her, but it seemed like he was pleading for things to be better.

[@357QueenBee]

That channel was a collaboration, a team. Like someone else commented, flipping furniture is not sustainable. Good luck to you

[@chefboyarsneed]

she is extremely talented! there’ll always be a place in the world for her work. thanks for the well wishes!

[@deloressunde910]

I wish you and Lauren both well. I'm sure you have been a valuable part of her success. But may I say in love that your references to God and His plan for you was good. But the the F word and MF word comes from the same mouth that gave God credit. I cannot believe that pleases God. God luck on your journey

[@crobertson17]

Literally stop. God gave us the ability to learn and use all language. Including "curse" words. It's hilarious the way humans think. You cast judgment on him for using words WE made up and gave some weird meaning too 😂

[@deloressunde910]

@@crobertson17 I cast no judgement on him. I merely stated the words God and His plan do not go together with curse words. Of course we made them up because they are not of God. Nothing funny about that. Apparently you missed the part I error with love I say.

[@crobertson17]

@@deloressunde910 who do you think gave us the intellect to the make the words in the first place? ALL words come FROM God 😉

[@deloressunde910]

Nonsense​@@crobertson17

[@deloressunde910]

To suggest that Satan does not use our language and every other aspect of our culture is movies, music and entertainment. And to suggest that God approves of all forms of language is just silly

[@rozhoffman557]

The furniture show is really lacking your personality and fun. Kinda boring without you. Wishing you lots of luck.

[@tychism3586]

You can’t talk about God and then throw out that language. I subscribed and unsubscribed just as quick.

[@chefboyarsneed]

no worries - thanks for watching 🤙🏽

[@melissapoole8580]

I think this is a great thing for you. She was not smart to forget teaching to do that business for life. it will not sustain her forever. You are better off to find your own journey for sure. No offense to her, but good luck to you on your future endeavors. Do something for YOU and that they can't just pull it away from you the way she did.

[@chefboyarsneed]

words can’t describe how proud of i am of her for taking the leap of faith. it will all get figured out and she’s a go-getter, she’ll be just fine. thank you for the well wishes, the future looks bright. stoked to share more 🤙🏽

[@LeeLuvsBeaches]

I agree, the videos were so repetitive that it became boring…removing hardware, clean w/simple green, sand w/surf prep, prime, paint, add new hardware, sell 😂 same tutorials, same styles, nothing new.

[@Debah_az]

@@LeeLuvsBeachesagree. Had to unsubscribe after only a few months.

[@julivee9505]

Neiman I hope Im wrong, but it feels like theres some sort of a substance abuse going on in the background. The way you talk, its like you think there are greater things going on than there actually are, like youre trying to be deep and inspiring but its not coming off that way. Its not genuine. Im glad youre stickingto working out, its great therapy, but maybe you need actual therapy or rehab. A can tell something changed in your behaviour, n9w, women hating isnt a great next step nor is it healthy tomthink Satan is trying to ruin things for you. Take some ACTUAL REAL responsibility, work on your mental wellbeing and figure out what will really make you happy. Best of luck.

[@chefboyarsneed]

i think this is a side you may not know about me. thanks for watching.

[@jillb7234]

Yikes! That’s some deep judgement. You don’t know what is going on in his life!

[@julivee9505]

@jillb7234 You're right I don't, but something is

[@julivee9505]

@@chefboyarsneed I wouldn't know what's going on, assumptions, but you've acted different even in your exes last videos together, different energy. I can only observe and share what vibes it gives off.

[@chefboyarsneed]

we’re all entitled to that opinion of course.

[@phyllishume5854]

You poor man...I have never heard so many me, my, I's in one video. If you live for God it is not just about you.

[@chefboyarsneed]

not a poor man, just a man on his journey. Trying more and more to live for God!

[@Mahseeful]

You are the most important to yourself. It certainly should be about "I" and loving yourself and living your dreams.

[@chefboyarsneed]

can’t love another and not love yourself first (;

[@nataliazavala3761]

Respectfully, talk less do more.

[@chefboyarsneed]

I'm on it!