WHEN ONE FILIPINA ISN'T ENOUGH - Polygamy and Harems in the Philippines

[@TheFilipinaPea]

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[@hondosolomon]

FP, I have always kept a harem in the Philippines. I’d love to have an interview with you soon!

[@schoemannh]

TWO or more mothers-in-law? Noooo thank you.

[@hayseedfarmboy]

great show P , loved the new ending sketch

[@southerneruk]

One headache is enough, who would want more headache

[@DavidSmith-em3me]

I would like to have fun with 4 or asian woman for one mouth becoues yr are so damn fine yr look so good yummy

[@gaven5479]

Polygamy: A young man's dream and an older man's nightmare

[@cryptofan6255]

No shit, I don't even want one now!

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Hahahahaha Well said (because it’s true) 😂

[@josemeza7128]

Here's my two cents in this matter, it's actually a way to reduce cheating and divorce or abandonment of the first wife and children besides there are more women than man in this world

[@spudgn]

When modern women share one guy to five or more gfs, ie. they all chase that 3%. If a group of ladies choose one guy, it works for them. He can skip and go to Thailand or Cambodia. The ladies have a protector and provider of wanted skills. They choose.

[@gaven5479]

@@spudgn Polygamy can work but an ideas viability is only one dimension of a proper analysis. We also have to question the morality of the idea. Polygamous societies are usually violent and dysfunctional, which is part of why the middle-east is hell

[@mv4463]

I like the fact that you asked multiple types of people.. local & foreign

[@TheFilipinaPea]

I spent three days asking anyone who would talk 😂👍

[@leonardgaines7910]

You have great screen present. The sweetness voice and the most expressive eyes.

[@fireisle]

I know some folks in a poly relationship. 1 man and 3 women, all have been friends for a long time and capable of their own support. It seems to work for them. The women have their days of the week with the man and the women enjoy each other's comfort as well. I don't think I could do what they do, but it works for them. Of course there isn't any marriage involved, there also doesn't seem to be any real conflict. I've seen traditional relationships with more conflict.

[@destroyermaker]

I can't imagine they're terribly emotionally invested

[@a68dart340]

I have been in a stable poly relationship for 37 years.

[@leavinforadream]

I really LOVE your "Interview" videos and this one was VERY GOOD. There were a wide variety of responses and I liked how you would "flip" the questions and even that got an even wider range of responses. I agree with the one gentleman, just having one woman at times can be more than enough for me to handle. I have always just had one partner in my relationships and always remained faithful to my partner. I would NEVER EVER cheat on my FOREVER LOVE, Cap'n Pea....!!

[@gregscherf9385]

I'm a poly guy from the US poly, when done right, is a beautiful thing. You have people to support you, a large family to help every one grow, less financial stress, And all the attention you could ever want

[@theancientsam]

Have you met your girlfriends boyfriend yet? Sorry if this does not apply but when guys tell me they are poly it usually just means they don't sleep with their girlfriend, she cheats, and the guy gets no girls but total freedom to try

[@adamguerrero5293]

Stop projecting Mitchell 🙄😂🤣

[@kevinwaters1370]

Less financial stress as long as you are not the only one bringing in the money 🤣

[@destroyermaker]

@@adamguerrero5293 Classic Mitchell

[@ospididious]

While I'm not actually interested in doing anything in the Philippines, and especially not interested in polygamy starting a harem, this video series has been an interesting look into certain aspects of your culture. Keep it up!

[@johnstreckfuss3068]

Happy Sunday, Houston Astros WIN The World Series! Keep putting up the high quality content that so many of us have grown to love!

[@Moe-os4qr]

@Thefilipinapea Thank goodness my wife is opened to this. She is Filipina/ Japanese. Most people don't understand the benefits of this. We see generational wealth, and the "List" goes on. Most people new to the idea, they think its about "LUST". That's not the key. You have to prepare your mindset, have life-goals, and a strategy on how to manage everything. I had to recreate myself for this lifestyle. The problem is "FINDING Filipina who are interested".

[@Rangerrick65]

I had a Vietnamize friend who's neighbor in Viet Nam had two wives. When she asked what her neighbor thought about it, the lady said there was more shared work so it was easier

[@frkzoid]

That's a good reason as any.

[@paxhumana2015]

I do not want to become a polygamist, particularly, a polygynist, to fulfill an ego, particularly a male ego, a lust for power, a lust for control, to fulfill a personal agenda, to go for some narcissistic wish fulfillment, for some sexual power fantasy, some false alpha male b u l l s h i t, some political bent, some religious cult idea, for sex toys, or for some cheap labor, but, rather, because I want to mutually survive with people that I truly care about so that we can help build one another up in our lives, as well as help build a better world together, and to also lead by example for how the rest of the world is to live, and not merely in a sexual sort of way in our lives.

[@st4r444]

Mize? It's Vietnamese u yt ppl

[@magicmarcell]

I just dont get how millions of people with a long history of failed relationships always swear this type of relationship is destined to fail

[@markdsm-5157]

not necessarily, people don't say harems fail. Cause it doesn't happen anymore and it's just sexist in a modern society to suggest it. polyamory where there are multiple men and women, almost 100% chance of disaster.

[@acod24]

@ChristBearerFlameHeart they base it on religion but they don’t actually read the Bible which never condemns polygyny.

[@tonyjuarez546]

Jesus Christ endorsed polygamy, who are we to argue. I’m planning on moving to the Philippines after retiring and having 2 live in girlfriends. I will find a way to

[@stevef5812]

Fact

[@aronzimas5660]

@@tonyjuarez546 Sad. Where is your wife?

[@stormhawk31]

This just popped up in my feed. Loved the video. I had my own experience with a Filipina back around 2002 - 2003. It was intense, but she was young, silly, and unfaithful, so I had to end it. Strangely, she STILL calls me from time to time to try to get back with me. I'm not sure I understand why. Anyway, subscribed!

[@TheFilipinaPea]

I’m so glad you found me, StormHawk! Thanks for giving me a chance 👍😊

[@afrotrooptv]

@@TheFilipinaPea Girl, you sick.....lol

[@cesaraugustus9064]

Very well made video on an interesting topic. Two thumbs up 👍🏾👍🏾

[@KhaledQatea]

I'm a practicing Muslim and I'm telling you based on personal experience that Polygamy is not for everyone, it is hard to manage and maintain, requires a very resourceful husband, a very forgiving wife and a major reason to be in such marriage ... nevertheless for our Pinay sisters I see it very difficult because of cultural stigma and uprising values ... Filipinas are very jealous in general, so it will be very emotionally challenging for Filipinas to be into a polygamous marriage with any man either foreigner or pinony ... congrats on another very successful video my dear Pea

[@kennethsimkins6319]

One family to support is plenty enough.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

👍👍👍

[@zaetv_]

Factual!

[@nemelendez]

@Red Beard's Racing maybe for him it is but for you it’s not.

[@alrent2992]

To each their own. Who cares what others think.

[@derektowner9286]

R​@@nemelendez

[@stevenbaer9061]

I definitely have to book a flight tomorrow!!! Keep up the amazing work Pea

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Hahahahaha

[@martypoll]

One question you kept asking I feel the need to push back on. Love vs financial gain. They are not mutually exclusive. A relationship/marriage depends on many factors. A spouse can be in it for love and economic security and companionship and a family and shared values and physical attraction, companionship, and more.

[@First_StateX]

Outside of always great content.....you never cease to crack me up!

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Excellent 👍😆❤️

[@keinlieb3818]

I have family members that practice polygamy with having more than 1 wife. With more than 1 wife, I think it can work only because I've seen it work. With having more than 1 husband, they would definitely have to get DNA tests to figure out who the father actually is. You're definitely correct though, jealousy is a real thing with polygamy. I've seen it with my family members that practice.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Where does your family live? Is it legal there, or a law that’s not enforced?

[@keinlieb3818]

@@TheFilipinaPea it's not legal so they aren't legally married except to one woman, they just live as married people would having more than 1 wife.

[@PulseX10N]

I believe in polygamy and I want to try. Thank you for the video. I didn't know, it seems to be more common and accepted as I thought.

[@Collusion10]

I found my absolute beauty, but I can’t lie, there’s always many that spin my head in every city and province. Self control is a must

[@michaelorfanos7416]

You're a man still

[@starshinersgroup]

If you haven't already read it (and if you can find a copy there), a book by Don Milton called "Prince of Sumba: Husband to Many Wives" is about an American missionary who, even though married, enters into a polygamous relationship with seven young Filipina women. Worth a read, regardless of your feelings on the issue.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Thanks for the recommendation, Starshiner 👍😊

[@warpeace8891]

Love your work Pea. Please don't cut off my jib, you have a great sense of humour and fun. Thanks for sharing.

[@redgold8406]

I love this channel ❣️ please continue don't change beautiful honesty is 🗝️

[@DrDlane]

One good woman is more than enough for me. But i just want a quiet, peaceful, happy life. I don't need unnecessary drama. One woman working with me towards the same goals and dreams.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Quiet peaceful life? Even just one Filipina may destroy that 😂

[@harrycarson2119]

AMEN 🙏 THAT IS WHAT GOD WANTS FROM ALL OF HIS CHILDREN! US 🙏

[@harrycarson2119]

@@TheFilipinaPea IM HOPING TO MARRY A PHILIPINA WOMAN 🙏❤️

[@DrDlane]

@@TheFilipinaPea but the odds are better there than here. I'm all for putting the odds in my favor.

[@xleowhitefang2135]

@@harrycarson2119 you might want to reread that Bible again. He doesn't state that in the slightest.

[@ronfindley2874]

Good evening Pea. 3rd dose of vitamin Pea this week, and it does the spirit good! Now, Let's get that algorithm going!

[@TheFilipinaPea]

That’s a lot of vitamin P (but never enough) 😂

[@anthonydunn5150]

Hello Pea , when I was a young man in the navy I was exposed to that on one of my two months stays in your country. All I can say is that every one, the three of us were well fed and happy.

[@Veronika7777]

You are amazing, so funny and creative! I love this channel. Thank You, Pea!!! 💜 OMG, I'm still smiling. 🥰

[@leighdonald3112]

I REALLY like your KZbins, Pea, they are interesting (not for me - but they are fascinating to learn about), You must have a very open mind to ask the questions you do, and I rather like it, I don't mean it's interesting for me actually but it's fascinating to see YOUR style of interviewing. But DOG how do you keep your own opinions out of it?

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Thanks Leigh! I learned to keep my opinions out of it because every time I revealed what I thought, 50% of the viewers were angry with me 😂😂😂

[@jamesbowie6925]

I can imagine that 4 wives might be fun in the beginning for some men, but I can’t imagine having 4 mother in laws or 4 families to look after😊

[@MarkIrwin02]

That's an aspect I never thought about. Makes very good point. Even if the relationship works out. The multiple mother and father inlaws alone probably not make it worth it. I've found that dealing with a displeasing inlaw is far worse then dealing with an unhappy spouse.

[@josemeza7128]

@@MarkIrwin02 unless you find a set of twins, who choose one man, no in-laws

[@fredcarr3550]

Perhaps you can bring a mother-in-law or two into the relationship if they seem fresh enough, then you would only have to look after 2 families😄. I don't have that kind of courage or stamina but if you can, go for it.

[@jamesmartie2683]

I'm fortunate to have the inlaws

[@kevinwarburton2938]

Well you don't have to deal with all four sets ...only with that of the Senior/Matriarch wife. Who says ya have look after wives pre marriage families? That's the job of her fathers, uncles, brothers. Once a woman is married she no longer belongs to her father's household or to his responsibility. If he dies the father's brother or eldest son becomes responsible for mother, unmarried sisters, younger siblings (depending on system).

[@chrisdavisunofficial]

It seems like an odd coincidence that this came out after David Bond did his harem quest in the Philippines. Pea, you should comment on his videos. Thanks for the great content as always.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

I’m afraid I don’t know who that is 🥺

[@Paul-yk7ds]

​@@TheFilipinaPea He's an American dating coach/guru who makes KZbin videos for men, including about dating in other countries. He was trying to put together a harem for himself in Manila. (Not marriages, just dating.) I didn't keep up with the video series, so I'm not sure of his current progress.

[@satoristeve]

@@Paul-yk7ds I don’t know about this guy in particular, but from what I’ve seen a number of those “dating coaches” are garbage humans. Hopefully this guy is different, but I’d approach with some skepticism.

[@chadanderson4121]

@@TheFilipinaPea Easy to look him up on KZbin. But perfect timing for your video. If you want to watch his videos on this subject, you must use a VPN as some of his videos on his harem quest don't show in Philippines. For some reason your video didn't get blocked here also(thougt it had something to do with key words). Interesting enough he didn't have as much success in Philippines as he did in Cali, Columbia. He feels not as many bi-sexual women in this culture as that's one of his requirements. This would be an interesting subject for you to explore.

[@Galahad54]

@@chadanderson4121 For most people in the Philippines, the choices are heterosexual or homosexual. Most of the females I met in the Philippines think homosexual is no big deal, just not their thing. Flipside, I guaranteed Mr. Coach was approaching it in a sub-optimal way. Any man with decent (average or better) emotional intelligence and empathy can have women swarming over him in the Philippines.

[@AndrejOdessit]

Not everyone realizes, more wives means more mothers-in-law! 🤣

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Ohhhhhh noooooo! (marry sisters) 😂

[@stormhawk31]

@@TheFilipinaPea Hmmmm....🤔

[@nemelendez]

Oh noooooo 😱😱😱😱😱

[@thebigmann81]

Hahaha 😂😂😂

[@danawelch5593]

And what's the mother in-laws look like? The possibilities are endless

[@williamhoward8604]

Great video. I cannot say a statement that supports all sides of the participants in this scenario because in all fairness, it is the woman who is most blindsided, disregarded, and forced to witness the Betrayal. The feelings of betrayal is not good grounds for a harmonious future. Men have to tell his woman from the beginning that he's interested into supporting other women's" patreon" (lol)

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Hahahahaha “Patreon” 😂😂

[@libertatumautmori4506]

Something I'm experiencing and have learned, studied, and researched is that households with 1 man and multiple, 4 to 5, women are very stable and emotionally healthy households. The only time that there's ever an issue with these households is when there's selfishness, narcissism, and or jealousy. And these traits are not inherent as these traits occur when the society people are raised in creates such traits because of the folkways, taboos, and norms regarding relationships. Overwhelmingly these traits have come from religious indoctrination and delusion.

[@kmorris180]

Years ago I had a friend who had six wives. They got along and were the best of friends. Each had their own space and a good deal of respect for each other. They all shared in everything and that seemed to only strengthen the bond. It worked for them. While I'm not opposed to someone having that sort of thing as it's none of my business. I don't think I would want it. I can't imagine being married to more than one Filipina. The tempo factor alone would be too much. Beside the fact that when I'm in a relationship I don't even check out another girl because for me, that would be like I was disloyal to the girl. So there's that.

[@gben82]

*tampo

[@Matt-zp1jn]

*Tampo + *Tampo + *Tampo + *Tampo + *Tampo + *Tampo + (The friend who had SIX wives.) 6 x Tampo = Tampo tsunami ! Lol😂

[@oittisallen4057]

Well she can play Tampo all she wants. Because you have other wives you can cling to.

[@miahdavis8331]

I feel same way about checking out other girls and feeling disloyal. Also 1 Filipina would be enough for me. the one I have now is a handful

[@DTreatz]

you sound castrated my guy.

[@dawster1949]

A surprising range of views with your interviewees! I’m sure a lot of guys fantasise about having a variety of women available to them, but the reality is a little more tricky 🤔 I’m with the older guy you interviewed who was more concerned about keeping just one woman happy! That’s a challenge with rewards I’m more than satisfied with! 😂😅

[@TheFilipinaPea]

I was surprised too, Dawster 😳🥺😂

[@semi5alpha]

You can bro if you want to..

[@johnfoster3895]

I was brought up that my heart is huge in friendship and caring, but ONLY big enough for one woman. She is the one and only woman that I will stand in front of to protect, and walk beside me through life. Many friends of mine, that were Navy, had multiple girl friends and I could never understand how they kept all of these women straight in their mind. For me - one woman is plenty and will get every bit of caring and love I have.

[@micmac_billyjack]

Thanks for making your videos highly interesting and entertaining from beginning to end, Philippino Pea !!

[@Davirdcarrol]

Flipina pea you never seems to amazed me with you excellent vedios your blog's are very interesting to watch if I am having a bad day I watch your blog's stay safe be blessed and god bless

[@biggabar7048]

It's nothing wrong with having multiple wives just make sure you be able to financially and physically take care of them .

[@henriknaavala287]

As long everybody is happy 🥰

[@bernardlock2728]

Ok. I have read at least 90% of the comments and "none" of them are wrong (except a couple odd ones). Here is my point. It all depends on the maturity level of the individuals who are in the consenting relationship. Mutual respect is needed on all sides. Women and men for the "most" part have one major common thing for each. The majority of men wants to be emotionally cared for mentally and sexually (which actually changes with age). The majority of women wants to be emotional cared for mentally (here is the common between men and women), security and personal welfare for her and children (most important for women). Unfortunately, sex is not as import to women as to men.

[@richardbrackeen5852]

Great video thank you for sharing 😊

[@gregpippin9950]

I AM LOVING THIS CHANNEL !!!!!

[@Rbhawk3rd]

As long as the women aren't petty and understand it's a team effort, it can work. Have a big house for space when the mood swings happen. I had a three's company situation in the past. It worked great until one passed from cancer.

[@vince1012]

My great grandfather had 2 wives (this was over 100 yrs ago-he was the "Soysauce King" of Southern China). He sent at least 2 sons (one was my grandpa) overseas to study and to start businesses. They never divorced. In some ways, if the man is good, there's more stability than nowadays with average marriage lasting less than 7 years with a 55% divorce rate!

[@omara9205]

My GF keeps thinking I will take another girlfriend/wife because I'm Muslim. I tried to explain to her that every woman in a Muslim marriage must be treated equally. Each must have their own assets, not shared with the others. Plainly, I told her, she packs enough Loca loca and Tambo for one relationship. I don't need twice that.

[@PS-ej2xn]

What nonsense. Millions of Muslim men keep a harem of wives. If you don't want to do that right now that is your issue.

[@kevinwarburton2938]

Except Muslim men don't have GF ...no sex before marriage or dating so stop pretending, hypocrite coz ya know hypocrites will taste hellfire.

[@jamesthewelshevangelist]

Girlfriend is haram

[@CBobbya]

Your knowledge of American movies is so fascinating, cherry 2000, great movie

[@davidfisher5140]

Great topic! I've had these conversations with several Filipinas. It takes a very special, secure & mature lady to be able to share a man. Key issues are the understanding of possession, delineation of responsibilities, jealousy, cooperation vs competition viewpoints, outsider interference, judgements of extended family & the legal issues mostly prompted by catholocism. The man must be open & honest at all times, but must also be very careful to discourage rivalries vs encouraging them. I know of ONE woman w two partners. Her situation is special. She loves her legal husband whom she has grandchildren with, but he can't meet her needs. So long as her side lover stays in his lane & causes no interference, the situation works. She's a wonderful woman whom I kniw well. I fully suuport her family decisions (yes, her husband & kids all know).

[@STR123able]

It really depends on the partners (more than just the traditional two). I can see where a man has feelings (emotional and sexual) for another who is not his wife, but the same is true of her. If everyone is okay with it, why not? But serious problems can still arise. Be prepared!

[@morganadays3530]

I think the ideal mating strategy for most men is to have one main girl, and a bunch of women on the side. And of course, it has to be a one-way open relationship on the man’s end. No man is going to share his woman.

[@exnihilo415]

Cuckolds do.

[@armando3182]

This is completely unrelated but I do value your input. I will travel to the Philippines around February and enjoy learning local languages. However, in the Philippines, there are many languages depending on the region. I plan on visiting multiple islands so I can't choose by region. Which language would you recommend learning?

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Honestly, if you’re traveling around a lot, I wouldn’t bother - I’d stick with English 👍😊

[@fredcarr3550]

Amazing and thanks for this new information on the diversity of the Filipino society and its mores. I am impressed by the open-mindedness of some of these young people and in particular, by the views of the woman in the denim jacket (sharing the same bed) along with that of the last one in the video, who would wish to screen the other woman. On the other hand, it's sad if done for economic reasons only.

[@ML1.0]

Great video and interviews

[@gorioecho9789]

couple decades ago we had an apartment in Bonifacio where as several alternative couples/throuples (bi-girls) came and went over about a 12 year time period, and we felt it worked out fairly well for the most part - you'd occasionally have someone with a personality that became territorial to an individual but those didn't seem to last long and would move along over time - we saw it as a 'communal' of shared expenses ...'ourself' we picked up the annual cost of the apartment and electric... we were working abroad (middle-east) on 30/30's and spending our every other month off (and times between contracts) at 'The Fort' - the same two girls this started with were there in the end as well (after twelve years) although there was about a three year period where they split and we had a different house- ah, we'll call her a 'female patriarch', before their return ...at times it was sorta the afterparty safe-space for those of the same 'mindset' (bi-girls) {to be honest we don't think these relationships would work with traditional hetero concepts among the girls, sure favorites exist but everyone has to be into everyone for it to really work} - we had always let the girls create their own rules and hierarchies as long as there were no other guys in the space ('our rule', lol) ...it was our homestead of "extra rice" lol - when we returned to the States for good, we paid for one last year of rental but wasn't there. ahh, the stories we could tell, and the wisdom accumulated over time relative to what worked (and what didn't) in these environments - personally we think your situation would work well (province family with kids), if the girls got along 'and were into each other', lol - over time, they'd have special issues due to the special situation, but come on, what relationship doesn't go through its times of issues that have to be walked through and sorted out / that's life we wen't back to The Fort for three weeks a few years ago (Sept, 2019), but couldn't find anyone from the past, parties were easy to find, nothing had really changed, while 'everything' had changed, lol

[@bloodoftheunicorns2621]

One man with multiple women is how our hunter gatherer ancestors lived. Our instincts, desires & fears are genetic memories passed down by the survivors. Men died in greater number so their were always more women to go around then men. The instinct/desire to form a harem is the result of that situation.

[@samw.616]

Makes plenty of sense to me for the sake of wanting multiple children and wanting a larger family. Id support at minimum 2 families and when I'm gone I'd be sure to set up both for success after i pass.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

To each his own 👍👍😊

[@Rick-ls6zo]

The Apollo 13 skit reminded me of when fist class lounge was closed in Manila. Woman said I could file a complaint and someone would "get back to me".

[@ash31311]

Great video about Utah.

[@rocketranger1000]

To broaden the question , Pea, I wonder how many Filipina/ Expat relationships are based on love?

[@robertcarter9535]

I think this is one of those things that a lot of guys fantasize about but in reality it’s not as good as the fantasy…

[@blondiekowalski8803]

Single motherhood and polygamy are related, and if data on this existed, you'd find that for 300 single mom filipinas there's probably a hundred fathers. Openly having several wives is just the visible tip of the iceberg, and I'm betting that it's actually more prevalent than anyone thinks.

[@DTreatz]

It's both unironically male _and_ female biology to be polygynous.

[@domgia9248]

Time-share polygamy

[@TheAKD56]

How do you explain America then ?

[@Jeff250lbc]

Polygamy is not impregnating multiple women it is a “committed” relationship with two or more women . Un married mothers can not be considered polygamy .

[@dubaicanary2016]

The blonde chick at 4.00 is super cool and has a great attitude so a big SHOUT OUT to her !! What is her name ? Great interviews Pea - well done.

[@gobfranklin6759]

good topic. very thought provoking. If everyone knows about it and the guy (woman) can support multiple women (men) then is that up to them?? Never thought about it till now.

[@quann06]

I know someone in an open marriage. I told her it sounds like a disaster. Being married to two people sounds even worst. Jealousy, money, and even betrayal in favor of one wife can ruin things. Stay away as far as possible from that is my solution.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

How is she doing so far? Yes, it probably won’t end well 🥺

[@Ed19601]

I always had the feeling that if someone wants an open marriage, maybe they should not get married

[@bryanscruggs7566]

I always laugh at open relationships. The women is usually with some Beta male she's not attracted to and views as a wallet. If a woman is okay with you fucking other women it usually means she'd rather fuck another man. If it's one thing I've learned about women it's that they're very jealous.

[@daryltaylor8977]

The situations are completely different. Open marriage means multiple different partners outside of the marriage. But polygamy is everyone involved, everybody is in the same house, and there's communication between all.

[@kevinwarburton2938]

Open Marriage is not same as formalized polygamy. OM is "legalised "cheating" PM is Fidelity to each wife eg no mistresses, girlfriends, one night stands, prostitutes outside the home.

[@IAMWORLDBULLYCOMPOUNDGLOBAL]

POLYGYNY IS NOT FOR EVERYONE. NEITHER IS MARRIAGE.

[@classicdamo6042]

I don't mind having 2 or 3 wives. I was In a relationship that I ended because she wasn't sexual enough for me. But I did love and care about her. I ended the relationship and felt like I abandoned her. Then I started a new relationship. But I can love both just the same.

[@nomilinair1]

Really love the short videos at the end!!!!!

[@kiwiboy538]

Excellent content once again ms pea,only need one like u

[@hiddentruth1982]

one is enough for me. trying to remember more than 1 anniversary or birthday is hard enough lol. I can give you some insight in to this topic. I have never done it myself but I did live in a lifestyle that allowed for it depending on the people involved. I can say that for most people it will end up with one or more people being very made and probably leaving the relationship. I can't speak for Muslims as I have no experience with it. It's not for me to tell someone else how to live.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

I agree, HT - I won’t judge others, but it’s not for me 😊👍

[@Mcclain-he9mv]

I’m poly because of how I have learned about the nature of women from where I’ve grown up. Get a man, trap him. Restrict the sex. Take halve. This is the nature of about 90% of the women I’ve met. And they all claim to have been different. When I turned into a chad, it became instantly aware that monogamous relationships only benefited the woman. And 100% of the couples always said it was hard. When I changed to poly, life just got easier and sex less controlled against me. As well as keeping the woman abreast of the idea that she is replaceable keeps her from trying to turn me into a weaker version of myself.

[@gkimunge]

Well articulated..its funny how a man with many options is duped to buy some expensive ring, go down on his knees and "beg" for a hand in marriage..then when she's settled in, the one thing that he thought he would get in abudance and frequency is gradually cut off while she fiercely still expectects monogamy, loyalty and financial support...the man of today is soo emasculated..

[@peteredwards49]

I've become poly too, and move on if sex is restricted, although not married to them. I use companies and trusts to make it more difficult for them to take half.

[@paxhumana2015]

Feminism and chauvinism/masculinism are BOTH cancerous tumors for society, as well as all forms of racism and LGBTQ+ ideologies as well, period, full stop. Lose the egos and learn to love the ACTUAL opposite gender, humankind.

[@alrent2992]

​@peteredwards49 is exactly a great point. 👍

[@Q_QQ_Q]

@@peteredwards49 best way

[@jasond9401]

Hell yeah I want more hahaha! Even if it didn't work out it would be so much fun to try

[@trivia2]

I’m polygyny and my current spouse and I tend to share… we also date solo as well. We both watch you.

[@xavierkoolat6926]

Great video !!! Very interesting answers. AND, . . . really liked your pirate's accent. Truly good.😄🥰😍😇And, THEN, your final comment, " . . . sunken chest." I howled out loud with a sudden, single burst of one huge laugh!😂😍😄😊💓👌✌🤟

[@StanHasselback]

The girl with the white top and the short hair has one of the best smiles I've ever seen. I also love how Filipinos say the word Disaster it somehow has an extra syllable in it 🤣. Multiple girlfriends maybe multiple wives never.

[@Niftynorm1]

What a way to start the weekend, polygamous Pea. Fortunately in most US states this weekend we gain an hour due to Daylight Savings Time ending (an outdated idea that most people hate) so we can rest up and contemplate the weighty questions posed by the Pea. Take care.

[@todd7756]

very out dated

[@satoristeve]

I’ve been in a monogamous relationship for several years. I was also once in an open relationship for several years. I’ve know several other couples over the years who’ve had varying styles and degrees of consensually multiamorous relationships. Here’s what I’ve learned: 1. As far as relationships go, they both have advantages and disadvantages. You’re essentially trading one set of issues for another. Which style of relationship you “should” have may depend on which set of issues you’re more comfortable dealing with. 2. Poly relationships aren’t for everyone. Monogamous relationships aren’t for everyone either. (See also: the divorce rate in the US.) Some can be happy in either style. For people who can learn and be honest with themselves about this, they’ll likely be happier and more successful in relationships for it. 3. Most people have no idea the degree to which sociocultural indoctrination plays into their personal opinions about relationships styles. If they knew, they might be less judgmental (and this does go both ways). 4. Most relationships fail. We all keep trying and failing until eventually we don’t.

[@satoristeve]

@@EnigmazGuide You should check your math.

[@michaelorfanos7416]

Your woke dude, get your dick back

[@jasonbrazil4532]

Nailed it, on 3, every one suffering from there can only be one. When high value men are stacking them like poker chips. And they don't mind.

[@JohnDoe-cf8jz]

Great vid. I'm all for polygamy, but only if they all agree and if the responsibilities are taken seriously.

[@tonymars1093]

Great topic Pea and great ending to your episode. You are great at interviews and also are very creative. You put a lot of work into your production and it shows. The pirate skit was great! lol Congrats on growing your channel.

[@HYTMUAE]

I'm a Muslim,, came to the Philippines in 2015 .. got married to Filipina in manila ... we had issues because "she and her family" think I own a bank lol ... anyway ... I run away to Cebu .. I met a nice girl and we got married in 2020 (we are very very happy) .. no one questioned me when I had my 2nd certificate?!!

[@ekanata]

Tell me more

[@johngatliff7648]

I once worked with a Pinoy, who said he had 3 wives but on 3 different islands. Hahahah

[@Superabundentlife]

I think it would be very difficult to find the time to have a plural relationship and satisfy the emotional needs of the parties involved. There are those who can financially afford it, they may even have the organizational skills to make it work. But, I seriously doubt anyone, male or female, has the ability to properly emotionally support more than one family. support

[@davidfisher5140]

In successful plural clans, thevladies give emotional support to one another, like loving sisters.

[@MessianicHebrew]

Pea this was another beautiful video from you, your nation, and your culture, and I would like to offer the fairly new term that is often used for informal relations of this kind, are refered too as Polyamory, (Poly = Many, and Amory = Loves) and I find the concept beautiful. Often times consisting of many folks whom may derive from broken homes and lives, whom are able to find love, acceptance, solice, and security in the company of there Polyamorous family

[@jbferrer3]

YOU ARE THE ONLY FILIPINA I NEED!!!

[@johnclark8637]

With the way the laws are, I wouldn't even want one wife lol

[@BeefaloBart]

I think it's all personal choice and find it hard to believe that the topic of marriage is still a legal matter. In todays world most people are to immature to deal properly with a relationship.

[@retsofbob]

I have studied, and contemplated this topic over the period of my 56 years of adulthood. My conclusions on the topic remain in flux. I’ve seen times when the idea of two or three wives appeared feasible,and almost desirable. Then something would snap🎉 me back into reality. e.g. sobering up. I was married for 27 years. Now I have been single for about 10 years. I neither enjoy, nor dislike either of those two more than the other. However, I suspect , I have just enough patience and tolerance, along with foolhardiness to try it one more time with one more woman. I know I do not have the stamina nor the sadism to even look at another woman.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

At least you’ve considered the subject seriously 👍❤️😊

[@ShaolinShadowStroke]

It all depends on the maturity and long-sightedness of the parties involved. If people go into it like Kev, Vee, and Svetlana on "Shameless," then it's doomed to failure. No relationship based primarily on lust is going to succeed. But if there is a genuine desire to build a relationship and a family along with mutual affection, then it can work. Building means working out finances, deciding how the children are going to be raised (and which parties are going to take part in that process), and working out things as basic as what happens if two of the parties are arguing (does the third party take a side, stay on the sidelines, etc.). Cultures in the East make it work because they have a code either built into their societies or religions to manage these sorts of things. Nothing's stopping us in the West from coming up with rules of engagement, even if it isn't based on tradition. But that's important in any relationship. The reason so many two-person relationships fail and why the divorce rate is so high is that almost nobody lays out any rules at the beginning. People just jump into the relationship and hope everything works out. But that's insane, because on your first day of school, you're given a set of rules and are told what is expected of you, and on your first day on the job, you're given rules to follow and are told what your job duties are supposed to be. Everyone's rules and expectations should be on the table BEFORE they walk down the aisle.

[@shawnlee3997]

Thailand??

[@feijaodo]

I've decided recently that this is the type of family I would like. Of course I first need to be able to afford it. Outside of that I worry about not being able to find women who genuinely want this type of family. Outside of those brainwashed level religious women, I'm not sure how many would see this as a great family structure. I seen an article about a gentleman in Thailand who had about eight wives and they weren't rich and they seem very happy, there was really no reason for the women to be there except that they liked him. Of course, things are easily hidden in these short form articles. I don't know @the Filipina pea I'd be mighty interested to see some of these families interviewed, I need details 🧐

[@KutWrite]

"sadism?" Maybe you meant "masochism?"

[@MrEliasdl]

It makes sense and should not be outlawed as long as it comes with responsibility to provide and accountability by the man for his children

[@mattgarbarini4847]

You're amazing. You should have a TV show.

[@guyandre4946]

Thank you for another entertaining, funny and educational video Pea. And good luck to them if they can manage it! 😃 However, only one loving caring faithful relationship is quite enough for me! One unique beautiful smiling Filipina is my only vision of paradise! Maybe one day I’ll be blessed? Hopefully before my sale by date expires 😂😘

[@sonnygmony]

The keys are honest communication (from everyone), reasonable expectations, and sufficient money. Same as monogamous relationships, but more required on every point. Most people can't pull it off.

[@markmcdougal1199]

My wife is bi, and we have lived with a third (she was also bi) before. It turned out to be really good. It was indeed more complicated, lots of communication and caring about the others feelings are needed, lots to work out. But when it works, it really is beautiful - the synergy of love, (my favorite part, although the sex was fantastic also :) ), three minds working together to solve problems, if one is away or sick, the other two have each other for support, the girls have a built -in best friend to talk girl talk, go shopping with (thank goodness, I hate going shopping with a girl :) ). Surprisingly, another facet I really loved was showing my middle finger to the "established norms" and people who think they need to tell others who to love, and how one should be in a relationship. (If you're reading this, and are one of these judgemental idiots, "I faart in your general direction!!" :) Antway, we all slept together in the same (very big :) ) bed, but each of us also had our own room for some occasional alone time too, this was important. Not to mention, three incomes instead of two makes for a more efficient, better lifestyle, and less worry about one getting laid off and resulting problems. That's really nice. I think everyone should at least try it (Polyamory) . The things you need to learn to make it work, communication, working together, being cognizant of each other's feelings, etc., are valuable lessons, and applicable to a two person relationship , too. By the wany, as terms are important- Polyamory is loving more than one person. Polygamy is marriage to more than one person. Polygyny specifically refers to a man who has multiple wives. Polyandry refers to a woman who has multiple husbands. Being "poly" simply refers to not being constricted to the typically accepted two person relationship. Thanks, Ms. Pea, for shining some light on this often hidden, but more common than you might think subject. You're wonderful , as always.

[@kenkneram4819]

I'm 49 years old and currently trying to build a harem. I've done the math and in the current economy a polyamorous relationship makes a lot of sense. The real challenge is finding women who are willing to enter into such a relationship and share their man. Though I've been pleasantly surprised that the positive receptions that I've gotten from the women I've talked to about it. Far more receptive than I had originally expected.

[@markmcdougal1199]

@@kenkneram4819 Well, to be honest, I draw the line at two wives. For me, the most important part of being in a relationship is learning about my girls, being there for them, making sure they are healthy, safe, happy, and fulfilled. Taking care of them is a full time job. I put a lot of effort into them, and into our relationship. It means everything to me. I've found that I'm not capable of giving that level of love, attention and care to more than two women at the same time.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Well thanks for that very interesting input and viewpoint 👍😊

[@markmcdougal1199]

@@TheFilipinaPea You're welcome, Ms. Pea. :)

[@karlpierce3035]

@@markmcdougal1199 Mark, knowing what is correct makes you an intelligent man. Knowing what is right from wrong doesn't mean you are judging a person but judging bad behavior is a good thing.

[@TS-eg8dm]

Hahaha the end of video was funny, you're so creative

[@RageKroc888]

Great vid as always Pea! That girl at 3:23 is way too cute too, her laugh had me chuckling!

[@paparayg]

What many people are not aware of is that the Christian Bible fully supports polygyny with many examples of this marriage practice. If it was OK with God during biblical times, it's OK for today!

[@solidbanjobanjo9367]

The Old Testament yes, however the New Testament does not support polygamy

[@JoseNDoria]

It possibly could work if you were raised in that type of culture that it was openly accepted. But from American standpoint, I don't really ever see it honestly working. There are polyamorous relationships over here, and people openly talk about it. But the actual success of it is hit or miss realistically. Some people just did it for the sake of benefits and partners, while others only did it as a means of satisfying themselves. I really don't see how that would work in a Filipino / Western relationship. Very often the people that I was with, and especially my current partner have been very territorial. My fiancee gets very jealous knowing that my best friend over here is a girl, despite the fact that she is 7 years my senior and a lesbian. So with traditional Filipino values, and Western ideology, I don't really think it can work if it was a Westerner and a Filipina unless he had a bunch of money and they were doing it for the sake of benefits. I remember my Fiancee's best friend and her boyfriend were trying something. Then it later turns out that he was just cheating on her.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Just plain old cheating, huh? Wow 🥺😂

[@JoseNDoria]

@@TheFilipinaPea indeed

[@michaelharper7350]

When I was in my late 20s/early 30s, I would have been capablabe of a poly-relationship. Yet, when I grew older and in love with my wife deeper, then it was not compatible with my Catholic faith nor my feelings with my wife. If we'd been in a postion before children and faith, it could-would have been possible. I think of William Moulton Marstonm his wife Elizabeth Holloway Marston, and their polyamorous life partner, Olive Byrne, All three the creator(s) to the comic character Wonder Woman. She was the amalgamation of Elizabeth and Olive. He dies at the age 54. After his death, Elizabeth and Olive continued to live together until Olive's death in 1990, aged 86; Elizabeth died in 1993, aged 100. Marston had two children each with both and women, who each adopted the other's children to unify their throuple replationship even stronger. Marston is hearld as the inventor of the lie dectector polygraph machine and the 1928 DISC (dominance, inducement, submission, and compliance. traits in people) emotional and behavioral theory. As for sexy time, it's starts with the strongest sexual organ - the mind.

[@asjka67]

Hello Pea, very funny video. For me, polygamy is the art of creating multiple copies of problems and demands. Having one and only woman, succeeding in a beautiful long-term relationship is already enough difficult. Thank you for this great video. Always a pleasure to see and learn

[@kevinwarburton2938]

"One & only woman" ...that itself creates problems over 50% of monagamy marriages divorce and woman initiates 80% of time. Affairs, prostitutes endemic.

[@timothypatterson1924]

Hey Filipina Pea!! I have just discovered your channel today, and binged-watched your videos. You are very beautiful! And I love your content. I hope I can find someone as beautiful as you. BTW, how are Filipino men? I know women very well, but how are the men? Are they kind, or good? Do Filipina women prefer foreigners to Filipino men?

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Hi Timothy! Thanks for finding me ❤️ As for other Filipinas, I can’t speak for all, but most of the ones I talk to would be very happy with a foreigner 👍 kzbin.info/www/bejne/b5SugHR6oMtmfaM

[@timothypatterson1924]

@@TheFilipinaPea Thank you for the kind comment! I'm 27. So I think I have time to find the one! Subscribed:)