When Things Go Right in Adoption, with Francine Apy

In this episode of The Adoption Roadmap, Rebecca Gruenspan speaks with Francine Apy, the founder of SoulFilling, as she shares her heartfelt journey of creating a business that resonates deeply within the adoption community. Inspired by the concept of ‘soul filling,’ Francine’s company aims to bring comfort and connection to those touched by adoption. She opens up about her personal adoption experience, the unique qualities of each of her three adopted children, and many of the lessons she learned along the way. This conversation explores the evolving language and norms surrounding open adoption as well as Francine’s mission to normalize the discussion around adoption, amplify positive stories, and reduce the stigma often associated with it. In addition, Francine discusses her work as an author, sharing her mother’s life story and creating a children’s book that helps explain adoption.
Important Links mentioned in Today's Episode:
www.soulfillin...
⁠C.A.S.E. - adoptionsuppor...
⁠@francinapy IG⁠
Briannas Brave Day at School by Francine Apy⁠ - www.amazon.com...
Dominicas Story: A Life of Courage, Hope, and Love (Francine's Mother's Story)⁠ - www.amazon.com...
RG Adoption- www.rgadoption...
Chapters
02:02 Starting SoulFilling and the Power of Faith
09:24 Adopting Three Children and Their Unique Journeys
19:13 The Role of Prayer and Letting Go of Control
25:28 Managing Stress through Mindset and Meditation
30:13 Navigating Language and Nuances in Adoption
32:11 The Spectrum of Openness in Adoption Relationships
33:07 Adoption as a Normal Part of Family
37:23 Open Communication and Accountability
39:15 Amplifying Stories of Adoption
43:13 The Importance of Therapy for Adoptees
49:15 Making Adoption Conversations Mainstream
52:45 Sharing Adoption Stories
59:07 Soul Filling and Positive Reactions
01:01:22 Being Open to the Miracle
01:03:55 Moving Beyond Stagnation
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