When You Love a Woman - Guy sings to His Bride (Journey cover)

Instrumentation by David Castagna: At 44 years of age and a hopeless romantic, I'd given up hope that I would meet the right girl, fall in love, and get married. God brought her to me just in time. I'd always wanted to sing to my wife on my wedding day. That day, I had a cold, my throat was sore, and I was nervous, but I'm happy I got to sing to her anyway. I hope this stirs up hope in your heart as you watch and listen. I tweaked the words a bit to fit the occasion. Don't give up.
Don't stop believing ! Please go easy on me. Thanks.

[@Joesfosterdogs]

Dude...the BALLS it takes to cover a Steve Perry ballad at your freakin' wedding is as studly as it gets! I got tears as well...and I never cry! As impressive as it gets here. Easily one of the hardest gigs ever! lol This could have really gone wrong fast...you had a 1000 things on your mind, preparing for a wedding is the most stressful event, and you reach down into your pocket and pull this off! Someone was smiling after this wedding! Hope you guys are very well...you set a standard here bro.

[@fantasynerd8]

That's super kind of you to say Jeff Porcaro Groove. When it comes to Perry, the best any of us can hope for is not to make a complete mess of it. We are doing very well, thank you. Almost 2 years in. She's my sweetie pie.

[@shannoninalaska]

I know, right? I was just cringing the whole time he was singing, and thinking he is going to go off key or his voice is going to crack any minute now. I was almost relieved when he finished singing. That sounds like a hard song to sing.

[@pandaninja2261]

That's true love the impossible happens

[@jaredroberts578]

Majestic. I hope you and that woman are doing amazing. Thank you for this testament to truth love.

[@infra4803]

DUUUUUUDE! I CAN'T for the live of me, CAN'T sing for my wife without MAJOR malfunction. I can sing for church, karaoke, in front of friends, and for church fundraisers, but for my wife I choke, cry, forget lyrics, whatever. You brought tears to my eyes. Most amazing song for the most amazing moment. Congratulations, a few years late. Please keep singing. What a great range and control you have. I saw what you did with the words "My search IS (indeed) over".

[@fantasynerd8]

Jose Vitteri, that's a very thoughtful compliment. Thank you. I was wondering if anyone noticed that I tinkered with the lyrics just a bit. Keep singing brother and sing to your wife anyway... tears and mistakes and everything. That shows you have heart and that you love her.

[@bluegreen1548]

You're a brave guy....I've been watching Steve Perry videos for at least an hour. I'll be completely honest. When I saw your video, I clicked to get a giggle...but instead of getting a giggle, I got a surprise! You pulled it off!! That was very sweet; and your sincerity showed too! I wish you both the best!

[@fantasynerd8]

Thank you bluegreen! The best you can do when covering Steve Perry is to not make a mess of it. No one can sing like that guy. I appreciate your kind words very much.

[@Joesfosterdogs]

EXACTLY...doing the same here and then WOW...Mr Huge Balls covers Perry's best ballad at his WEDDING! Come on...this is sick. AMAZING performance...

[@Sasukerobinson7383]

As a super big of journey fan I can say awesome job

[@fantasynerd8]

Thank you Sasuke! Really kind of you to say.

[@Sasukerobinson7383]

your so welcome and congratulations and may god bless you

[@fantasynerd8]

God bless you too!

[@Sasukerobinson7383]

Thank you

[@TryingSO]

I could have not get through this song if that was me, I would have cried and choked after “it’s enough to make you cry”…. Bravo for him

[@werquantum]

I felt the same at that exact point.

[@davidbrownell698]

Just...WOW! Who's the more fortunate one? A guy with a voice like this? Or, the wife who gets to hear him sing to her? Bravo dude.👍🏼👏👏👏👏 I envy and admire you on many levels.

[@chrisbaez4053]

Knocked it out of the park son, I salute you for honoring you new wife.....two big thumbs up

[@fantasynerd8]

Thank you Chris Baez! That's kind of you to say. She's a godly woman and I'm grateful for her.

[@GVCRSA]

Dude. You are brilliant.

[@fantasynerd8]

ha ha..thank you. Just happy to get the chance to sing to my wife

[@JoeyT1]

Amazing job! To take on a Grammy Nominated Song like this and make it so beautiful is a testament to your love for your bride. Again, well done!! All the best to a life filled with love. Don't stop your singing to her and Don't Stop Believin'!

[@fantasynerd8]

Wow! That's really kind of you to say Joseph. Thank you. I still sing to her all the time. She's my beauty.

[@VArailfan89]

@@fantasynerd8 I used to sing to my girlfriend all the time back when we dated. But that was 10 years ago. Dated for 5 months. Hopefully if I find someone else, I can sing to her too. Hope y'all are doing well and that was an awesome performance!

[@fantasynerd8]

@@VArailfan89 thank you! We're doing well, thanks. Hope you find someone to sing to one day.

[@VArailfan89]

@@fantasynerd8 Glad to hear that! And that's the plan!

[@MuntedAvocado]

it takes a lit to bring a person like me to tears but you got me in the first 46 seconds. This is one of the two songs that my dad frequently plays to my mum to show how much he loves her and I will say there are few people that I believe can actually pull this song off and I will say you have an amazing voice well done and I hope that you have a happy marriage in all the years to come

[@fantasynerd8]

Thank you Sophie! I appreciate the encouragement. Your Dad sounds like a sweet guy.

[@hirawstra8edge137]

Respect dude for taking on steve perry been a journey fan for more years than I can remember & I say AWESOME JOB DUDE !!!!!!! X

[@fantasynerd8]

Thanks a lot! I appreciate the kind words.

[@amandafitzpatrick5386]

Wow recently came to love this song, what a voice 😍

[@kristofferlee5011]

Still watching you, really you have a very good voice

[@fantasynerd8]

Really kind of you Kristoffer Lee. My hope is to produce some original content in the not too distant future. Keep watching.

[@jaceek2030]

Beautiful beautiful job! I've been married 34+ years to the most amazing man, husband, dad, and recently grampy. Six years ago he was diagnosed with MS and he had a stroke 2 years ago. Rather than tear us apart, it's only made us stronger. These bands of gold we wear still shine. I wish for you and your bride many many years of love and happiness.

[@fantasynerd8]

Thank you Jacee K!

[@michaeloffie8204]

Wow, this is my favorite Journey love ballad. To sing this song in the shower takes some big cojones, but to sing it in public and to your bride shows your true feelings for her. You Killed it! When you changed some of the words it made the song better and I am shocked that there were no tears dripping down your face. I am so glad you found that special lady that inspired you to sing like this. I hope that SP will some day find the lady of his life and sing to her like you did. Thank you and I pray if you have some little ones they will hear Daddy sing this to their Mommy again. Well Done Sir !

[@fantasynerd8]

I really appreciate the kind words. Thank you. I wasn't sure anything was gonna come out that day. The venue was freezing the night before and I caught a sore throat. God is very good and kind. Even though I wasn't 100% it was passable. No dry eyes in the place. My girl was worth the wait. There's only one Steve Perry. Poor guy lost the love of his life but she got him singing again. Thanks again for the encouragement. God bless you.

[@glo3139]

Very IMPRESSIVE!!!! On the most wonderful and stressful day of your life, as well, to pull this off is just INCREDIBLE!!! Great Job Guy!!!!! 👏👏👏

[@siddharthagarwal9848]

Greetings from India. Good things come to those who wait. You are an inspiration to us. Fellow Journey Fan.

[@fantasynerd8]

Thank you Siddharth Agarwal! It's great to hear from you in India!

[@dee-deerichman9181]

I'm bawling my eyes out Steve,that was so beautiful, simply incredible - my late husband sang to me all the time and I miss him so much - he died of heart disease at 48 years old 6 years ago and I'm 49 now and I pray I could find love again- you just gave me a little hope! Congratulations to you both

[@fantasynerd8]

That's kind of you to say. I'm sorry to hear about such a profound loss in your life. Don't give up hope. God is good.

[@kelinmemphis]

GOD DAM THAT'S BEAUTIFUL! AND THE GUESTS WILL NEVER FORGET IT!

[@fantasynerd8]

KEL in MEMPHIS Thank you very much

[@kelinmemphis]

Jeffro KEEP ON LOVING BROTHER! Not enough of it in the world today.

[@nappylala]

Awwww, You aced it. I'm tearing up as l write.😭😊 This was lovely and moving . Thanks for sharing .

[@fantasynerd8]

Thank you nappylala! I'm happy you enjoyed it. That was a good day...the first of many!

[@drcldiao2]

pretty good. Sounded great. Love that song.

[@fantasynerd8]

I appreciate that Clyde Diao. Thank you

[@welllivedlife-desireeg2804]

My sweet boyfriend just dedicated this song to me and somehow I stumbled onto this version. So beautiful. Brought tears to my eyes.💕

[@BrandonWilliams-zk2ml]

That was very touching I loved there's this girl i like that I want to sing this song too you have helped me to not be scared to sing it thank you

[@fantasynerd8]

Brandon Williams thanks so much! Go for it! Sing to her with all your heart. I hope you sweep her off her feet.

[@BrandonWilliams-zk2ml]

Jeffro thank you and I will

[@BrandonWilliams-zk2ml]

Jeffro you should do a cover of faithfully by journey

[@fantasynerd8]

Brandon Williams one of these days I will.

[@BrandonWilliams-zk2ml]

@@fantasynerd8 just wanted to give you an update I was finally able to get the girl of my dreams

[@lalmuansangachhakchhuak2132]

So beautiful and heart touching,brings tears to my eyes..

[@iphonizer]

Respect for this beautiful Version of one of my favourite songs Journey Songs ever!!!

[@huangkee6004]

Be happy in love forever, Jeff, you deserve it. Even I can feel the love in your voice.

[@fantasynerd8]

Thank you Huang Kee! I don't deserve God's goodness but I am so grateful. I appreciate your kind words.

[@proudhawkeye]

Great Job, a big congrats to you and your bride!! God Bless you both.

[@fantasynerd8]

Thanks very much! I appreciate the props. God bless you as well.

[@marlinmr7]

Totally awesome performance on this dude! To say myself and many others are impressed is an extrereme understatement! No doubt you do truly love your bride! Congratulations and "never stop believing".... :-)

[@fantasynerd8]

I appreciate your kind words MarlinMR7. I do love her more every day. She's a treasure. One of these days, I may have to start a channel and produce some content. Thanks for the encouragement!

[@Rosalina-vixen]

Amazing job!! Every woman's dream!!

[@fantasynerd8]

I appreciate that. Thank you.

[@indycustommade3568]

Singing at your wedding is pretty brave. Singing at your wedding and doing a Steve Perry song is next level. You even made the song sound good. Nice voice. I hope you guys are still married. Congrats.

[@pianoman5205]

Every time I see this video, I go get my journey shirt and watch this video for 15 minutes

[@fantasynerd8]

Wow! That's so cool. Thank you so much Piano Man. I'm happy you enjoy it.

[@alekgarcia2888]

Great voice & good job to do it on your wedding day. I thinking believe in love again

[@fantasynerd8]

Alek Garcia thank you very much! I appreciate it

[@ecomshopping6294]

sing like a pro

[@caloyquiano6389]

Good things comes to those who wait. Congrats to both of you...

[@johnywilliamcondecaceres3812]

Great voice & good job to do it on your wedding day, Blessings.

[@kalaphonic]

Nice you sing this song to Her,such a lovely song in a especial day. Besy wishes both!

[@fantasynerd8]

Thank you kalaphonic!

[@sarahcampbell8819]

If my boyfriend sang this song to me I wouldn't be able to hold myself together. Journey is the most AMAZING band EVER !!!! I cannot believe she was able to hold her composure together.

[@fantasynerd8]

Thank you. It was a lifelong dream to sing to my wife. She's a shy girl and worth the wait.

[@craigmckenzie5466]

Waited 44 years...well hey had to make your voice sounded right for this day.....cuz that was perfect!! Awesome and touching!

[@fantasynerd8]

I really appreciate that Craig McKenzie. She was worth the wait.

[@bakitbaq]

Still watching over and over again...wonderful voice

[@fantasynerd8]

Thank you. I appreciate that.

[@projectmm819]

This is my favorite song in Journey! ️I am very good, I envy the bride 💖

[@fantasynerd8]

Thank you!

[@chriscaltsoudas6430]

I got into journey about 6 months ago and discovered how incredible Steve Perry is. Stumbling upon this was such a brilliant surprise. You did an incredible job. I really hope the both of you are still going strong - and also for me to find that kind of love one day lol. Beautiful job sir.

[@fantasynerd8]

@@chriscaltsoudas6430 that's very kind of you to say. Steve Perry is The voice. I did have a sore throat the day we got married but even on my best day I don't think I could come close to Perry. My wife and I are still going strong almost 9 years together now. God is good. I pray you find the same kind of love one day.

[@tomfoster4091]

That was the most awesome thing I have ever seen anyone do!

[@fantasynerd8]

I appreciate your kind words Tom Foster. I waited a very long time to sing to my wife. She was worth the wait.

[@carlstevensumaoang5903]

wow ,,, sir you are really good ,,, 👍 and congratulations

[@fantasynerd8]

Thank you for the kind words. It's encouraging.

[@isaaccristan3647]

Very good job I am a musician and you did great.. this is mine and my woman’s song. Even better when he grabs the band of gold

[@fantasynerd8]

Thank you Isaac Cristan! I appreciate that.

[@JustJoshinAround]

Jeff, I just rewatched this again......and it still turns me into the same sniffling, teary-eyed mess that it did on that day. Dang it...

[@fantasynerd8]

Thanks Josh! It was fun getting the chance to sing to her.

[@tarsb7911]

Am seriously crying. I hope you two found happiness with each other and a love that's new every day. mine didn't work out. But hey, shit happens😭

[@fantasynerd8]

Thank you! That means a lot! We are quite happy. God has been generous and merciful. I hope you find love and happiness again.

[@lizgonzales1389]

OMG, WHAT A SWEETHEART! HE IS! And doing a super job, he is! " WHAT LOVE CAN DO "

[@thasty100]

Very well done! Here’s to a long and loving life together. 💕

[@fantasynerd8]

thank you very much. I really appreciate that!

[@dallas7677]

nice its nice for someone to be singing this old music thats so much better than the music of now days and your good at it

[@fantasynerd8]

Thank you! That's very kind of you

[@eyeofefil]

It's so beautiful that I'm in tears of joy

[@elizabethcampos5851]

Felicidades!! Que bonito detalle, para ese día tan especial, que bonita voz.

[@fantasynerd8]

Gracias!

[@billtalbert6165]

Wow man you got heart soul and class and a great voice.

[@fantasynerd8]

Thank you Bill! Very generous of you to say. I love to sing to this girl.

[@samerashah6025]

OMG I'll be crying so bad❤😢

[@jessepalmer3165]

Good on you sir for taking on such a powerful and meaning song I love how you changed it up to fit your wife in it!

[@fantasynerd8]

ha ha! you caught that! Thanks Jesse Palmer! I'm happy you enjoyed it.

[@suzannestivason2933]

I LOVE THIS HOW WONDERFUL

[@richienegron3270]

I'm 48 years old and i dont think i was able to love again. IT's Like a giant hole in my chest

[@fantasynerd8]

Don't lose heart. I had given up hope when I met my wife. God is kind.

[@shotgunroofer2927]

My favorite song ever!! Big Pimping bro , to sing that to your bride! Loved it,not as much as im sure she did. Sweet

[@fantasynerd8]

You're very kind! Thanks a lot.

[@cos103headquarters]

congraturations! まさに結婚式で歌うのにふさわしい歌ですね。

[@kaicanyonellis]

Man if y'alls marriage can be half as magnificent as that vocal, y'all are gonna be LEGENDARY

[@fantasynerd8]

Thanks Kai Ellis! We're almost 2 years in and it's pretty magnificent.

[@aliciaacosta1750]

So lovely! Hey girl you're lucky. Congrats!

[@fantasynerd8]

She agrees...I feel blessed to have her as my wife. thank you

[@MinnesotaWildRock15]

Don't think it's possible to hate on a guy like this, good for you buddy congrats, hell of a voice

[@fantasynerd8]

Thank you! I appreciate that

[@srieker62]

Dude!! You did a great job. I was going to have this played at the wedding I would've had. But I let her slip away from me. I just cried when I saw this, made me wanna try AGAIN. But it will never happen. I picture the two of us and imagine that is me singing to her.

[@fantasynerd8]

srieker62, My wife and I loved your comment. Listen...don't lose heart. I know how deeply you can love someone and then lose them and it feels like you will never find someone else that will make you love her like that other girl but it can happen. Let your heart heal so when that girl comes along you'll have a whole and happy heart to give her. I wish you the best.

[@jtoland2333]

This Perry fan just melted like an ice sculpture in Phoenix. I know your bride had to love it!

[@fantasynerd8]

Thanks Jen Jen. That's a really funny reaction. My wife and I are very happy. God is good to us.

[@stillanonymous.8770]

Ooohhhh maaannnn!!!!!!!!!!!!! Duuuudddeeee!!!!! You rock!

[@trexmex67]

Wow...great job. Thanks for making this video!

[@fantasynerd8]

Thank you!

[@cliffterhune2556]

Props, man.....insanely cool. To step into that territory, on one of the most important days of your life is a big-time move. From a guy who sings these songs, like you do, I wish you a lifetime of love and happiness, brother.

[@fantasynerd8]

Really appreciate that cliff terhune! It was a very good day. Keep singing man! I wish you the same brother! a lifetime of love and happiness!

[@charlygmz3071]

Well this is my first time i write here in a coment.... its Great Men!!! You have a great voice But you have a big hearth

[@fantasynerd8]

Thank you

[@billgavinmusic7182]

Had doubts when I came to this.... Wow nicely done

[@sanglunnguite4888]

so thoughtful

[@dannyle_chu]

That's great dude! Giving me ideas for my significant other. Congratulations man

[@fantasynerd8]

That's kind of you to say! Thank you Danny Le! Good luck to ya!

[@1976oswald]

that was very brave, i wish i could have that power voice, but i guess i'm just a guitar player :) anyway Congrats. !!! keep spreading that love vibe ....

[@fantasynerd8]

Thank you Oswald Montoya! I admire guitar players. I don't have the patience to learn. I appreciate your kind words.

[@larrynapier5003]

Oswald Montoya Me 2 just a guitarist

[@dee-deerichman9181]

@@larrynapier5003 Don't say JUST- that's a big deal and it takes a talented,patient person to learn then play 🎸

[@larrynapier5003]

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[@melchorilano5485]

What a voice, amazing!

[@majalcalen1]

Wow the wife must be thrilled, he can sing, congratulations to you both!!!

[@fantasynerd8]

We appreciate that. Thank you so much

[@tommysf-4phantom754]

I'm a long time Steve Perry fan and man you did a great job. awesome!!!

[@fantasynerd8]

I appreciate that Tommy's P-4 Drone! I love Perry too. He's the best.

[@silverlining1706]

Unreal! Really well done buddy!

[@fantasynerd8]

Thank you Silver Lining!

[@villain_bros8061]

You did it great sir,I hope can sing this song to my wife

[@williamjamesayers7719]

This was a sweet and beautiful surprise for your new bride. Sir, you did a great job. Peace and love from Rhode Island. PS - please keep each other safe in this current time.

[@mariatmp]

I loved... very beautiful!!! ;ove love love

[@fantasynerd8]

Thank you! I appreciate that.

[@user_AM615]

That was an OUTSTANDING performance! Well done!

[@fantasynerd8]

Thank you so much. I really appreciate it.

[@ossmovieedicaodevideos5766]

arrebentou a boca do balão brother, mandou super bem!! queria eu ter a sua voz para cantar mesmo resfriado e com todas as complicações que você teve nesse dia, mas mesmo assim mandou super bem mesmo... Deus abençoe essa união!!! atenciosamente Ozeias Silva / Rio de Janeiro / Brasil. abraçossss...

[@fantasynerd8]

That's really kind of you to say. Thank you

[@gilbertentee8789]

Great !!!!! Happy marriage

[@edwinmoux8216]

Wow this made me cry. God bless your marriage.

[@fantasynerd8]

thank you so much. I truly appreciate that

[@mkbaharris]

got to work, searched on this awesome song, saw this, played it, loved it, brought tears to my eyes! hope you are having the happiest times! bravo!!

[@fantasynerd8]

Thank you. I'm glad you enjoyed our song. We're very happy still and falling more in love all the time.

[@mgamer327]

holy shit! THIS GUYS A KEEEPERR!!! I loved this so much! TY for sharing this vid!

[@lolivictorio4347]

I am a STEVE PERRY FAN FOR YEARS! Man, you rocked this! You are a KEEPER!!! congratulations!

[@fantasynerd8]

That's kind of you to say. Steve Perry is The Voice. The rest of us just do our best.

[@lolivictorio4347]

@@fantasynerd8 Yes indeed! He is the voice! but one must appreciate your beautiful rendition especially on this special day! Stay safe my friend!

[@fantasynerd8]

@@lolivictorio4347 thank you! I appreciate that.

[@erickruiz-hl5vs]

If only the lord blessed me with a voice like your brotha👊🏻👊🏻… you can sing to your queen anytime ❤️❤️👌

[@michaelmixon2479]

Beautiful!!!

[@fantasynerd8]

Thank you

[@toodiesel]

Beast performance and massive props to the monster pianist that included Schon’s solo

[@fantasynerd8]

Thank you! David Castagna was the pianist. His channel is dgcmusi.

[@summer18ca]

wow so lovely.

[@fantasynerd8]

I appreciate that. Thank you

[@johnkrupnik8717]

He did a pretty good damn job it's singing that song God bless you bro

[@SantiagoTM1]

Dude, in Sports Terms or analogies, this is how I'd described your singing performance: "U hit it out of the Ball Park, & into the SF Bay!" "Nothing but Net, & 1!", "58 yard Field Goal, shifting winds, splitting the Up-Rights, NOTHING BUT NET!"

[@fantasynerd8]

Ha ha. That's really kind of you to say. I appreciate it. I felt like it was passable considering nerves and a sore throat. It came from the heart. Thanks again.

[@cuchito313]

Man! I got goosebumps and tears, that was heartfelt...

[@fantasynerd8]

Thank you cuchito313! Glad you enjoyed it.

[@donaldwelsh1883]

Jeffro, my hats off to you for pulling that off at your wedding and sounding pretty damn good in the process. I always thought that this song flew under the radar with the other great songs by journey. Great choice and best of luck to you two.

[@fantasynerd8]

Thanks so much Donald Welsh! Really happy I got to sing to her that day.

[@bradcrawford1998]

Wow, stumbled across this amazing heartfelt video. About made me cry. I love the tune from Journey, VERY much so this was really cool to see in the moment. SO BEAUTIFUL. Wish could have seen the Brides face, the ONLY blemish. Still an A, great job.

[@lorettasanchez1790]

So BEAUTIFUL 😍

[@samtheman123]

3:11 guitar falls from sky and he starts shredding amazingly

[@fantasynerd8]

SamTheMan SamTheMan, you're hilarious. You gave us a good laugh. Thank you

[@sh1tbirddogsh1t71]

Wtf.!!!I cried??!!!😍😍

[@bettycyrana2314]

Beautiful

[@fantasynerd8]

Thank you

[@chazcramp]

love it

[@spratly2212]

Dude that dam so sweet.i wish all could sing😊

[@fantasynerd8]

Thanks so much. That's really kind of you.

[@thudor1]

Amazing how true love can release the multiplatinum rock star trapped in you for years!