When You're Not Ready to Be Found

Are you truly ready for your GOD-ordained husband, or do you just assume that you're ready? There is a process to being found, but a lot of women do not respect the process because they're trying to satisfy their "right now" way of thinking. This powerful video will not only help you to understand the wait, but it'll also clue you in to the "process."

[@cherishdeb]

"One of the reasons women find themselves unequally yoked is because they don't allow themselves the time to grow up.....learn to respect the process [of being ready to be found]." I LOVE it. I also like how you said that there should be no voids in your life, that God wants to fulfill every single need, and there should be nothing in your life that you want/need/are looking to have a man to fix for you. Daddy God has told me this before, that HE wants to be, and is truly, my Prince Charming. THIS is the kind of teaching that should constantly be fed to the church, especially to youth. Adding this to my playlist for waiting on god for a mate. :) God bless.

[@cherishdeb]

This video was a TREMENDOUS blessing, and I will listen to it OVER and OVER AGAIN. This was heavy. I love what you say at 58:00. "Never try to assume that you're ready....Allow the process to change you....Stop tryna go out and buy single books and lingerie and plan your wedding. Stop that----it's for TOMORROW. Worry about TODAY.......Do you know your identity? What is your spiritual name? The process requires that you get to know God at a deeper level. It's not about how much you minister to people." WOW. Love it!

[@anointedfireofficial]

Thanks everyone. GOD bless you. :-)

[@state7736]

Wow. When a relationship doesn't work it just agrees with GOD!

[@kathryn001]

So basically I have to be like perfect for God to send me a spouse. Despite the fact that I could be a true believer in the Lord, delight myself in the lord, and just live for him, but if I have some sort of brokeness in my heart, then I am "prolonging the wait." We are all flawed, there is not one of us who is totally perfected in Christ. I don't need to be perfect for God to send me my ordained spouse, and neither does anyone else. If that was the case, then hardly any christian would be married. Yes it is true that we must not desire a spouse more than God, that would be idolatry, but God has his way of "fixing" us, and that could be through a spouse.

[@moreinyoucoach]

Soul surfer I agree. I love the teaching but it is somewhat discouraging because the implication is that you have to be perfect to be ready for marriage. It implies that the longer you are waiting, the more immature that you are.

[@tillypokuaa7646]

Not perfect but holy(matured in Christ)

[@evereen35]

I have been listening to your messages all day!!!! And each and every one I listen to is just allowing me toblook at the women in the mirror and reevaluate my motives, my walk and all I can say is Do it God!! Transform me in places I need it and forgive me in my weak areas. I'm celibate, I'm waiting but there's strong holds that could be hindering my walk

[@PastorMik]

Another great word to Christian singles who greatly want to be married. God bless you woman of God!

[@shellyannthomas6872]

You are an Inspiration miss Buckner. Continue to do the work of the Lord

[@sisskiiwalkerr4399]

You have been a blessing to me. I thank God for you and the work that you do for him.

[@mscreativewon]

My God, what a word!

[@charlotteushela5436]

Wow Tiffany! what an amazing testimony! I recently discovered your talks and they have brought me so much peace and understanding! Thank you SO much for opening our minds to God's truth and will for our lives. He is using you in such beautiful ways, what a blessing! Thank you for listening and answering to His call of reaching out to us. May He keep guiding and strengthening you! xo

[@angelapyles7279]

WOW. The anointing on your life is LITERALLY breaking chains in my life and others. Thank you woman of God! I praise Him for you!

[@anointedfireofficial]

+Angela Pyles Thanks sis! God bless you :)

[@melissajmodeste3035]

Sis Tiffany I want to let you know listening to your videos you are helping me to grow in God I went through the same things you went through. Thank you so much may God open more doors for you.

[@walenalivingprayingdancing4215]

You're truly a prophet and a blessing for me and the WORLD! As a 36 single woman of God...who usually date to fill voids .....This word hit home! Lately God been revealing things to me in dreams....my prayer life has got GREATER....THANK you for sharing your heart and wisdom ❤

[@debrakeller9470]

Hello my sister, thank God for you!!!! This message was for me. I gained so much knowledge and will take it to heart. I can't thank you enough... God gave me this message at the right time, I just prayed for an answer regarding my own marriage and here it is!! I love you sis, I pray your continued blessing in God's ministry..

[@bathshuaeshetbnayahu2687]

I have been watching your videos and listening to your messages for HOURS now. God bless you sister, and thank you SO much! Over the last several months--actually since the beginning of this year, I have (and it appears that I still am--EVEN as I type this) been encountering and being discovered by Ishmaels--and mainly on this Google+ platform. As a result, I firmly believe that God has led me to your videos. Praise God for this! He knows me better than I know myself, and He is using you and your videos to guide me and correct me. Thanks again, and keep it up!

[@trevordonaldson7704]

Good night

[@bonezbaaaby]

Same here. HOURS.

[@shellyannthomas6872]

+bonezbaaaby same here.

[@kimora7964]

Everything u say just agrees with my heart..may Jehovah God continue to bless and keep you Tiffany x

[@user-fq7gq6zm9l]

Thank you for the unfiltered raw truth!!! I can relate to you on so many levels. We have shared experiences. Praise God for deliverance and maturation. God is good. I am now on the right track! Thank you Jesus for another chance.

[@state7736]

WOW! This message is STILL 🔥FIRE🔥‼️

[@lacyskinner976]

Yes! To everything, yes! Thank You Jesus.

[@THzoelove]

I love this so much. I've been watching videos like this for a while now. I'm 18 and I met a guy who is an evangelist. He's a real man of God actively seeks him. I'm an evangelist also and God is preparing us both. He has a nice car and income but I look right past that. I smile when he quotes scriptures and prays though haha. Please pray for us.

[@GraceBautista7]

Bless you sister , nope don't want to be in the same household with a parrot repeating what others say.. very true..God bless you..

[@minimalassembly7893]

How awesome. I usually don't comment on videos like these but this is so interesting. Your videos have been coming up in my feed even though I've been watching things on hair/beauty/wellness. Before watching this video today, I was thinking yesterday about how unpalatable certain people were who claimed to live by faith but were not showing evidence in their lives. I used to rationalize it by saying we are in a new day and age, but now it really bothers me when I notice it. I was started to feel myself get judgmental so I stopped thinking about it. Then last night I had a dream about someone saying a prayer for me then right afterwards, a secular song (Beyonce) came to my mind and I started humming along before realizing that I was directly negating what the person had just prayed for me by continuing in my meditation of worldly, rather than heavenly things. I immediately started singing a worship song I remembered from years ago, Kari Jobe's Revelation Song, "Worthy is the, Lamb who was slain, holy holy is He..." and I started elevating. I was calm but felt I could finally come to know God's full power in my life when I stopped reverting back to worldly patterns that did not feel comfortable, but were my habit. This was all in my dream yesterday. Today, your words about maturity + not being able to tolerate the same reality shows and music is spot on. It has been a gradual process for me and I say this to encourage someone out there who may be feeling the same. If you are, please don't use your new viewpoint to judge other people or get "super religious" when trying to relate to people who are not spiritual minded. Rather, use your awareness to draw closer to God and gain wisdom about where God is leading you, people He is leading you to. As she said in the video, we always think we are mature and know everything but when we look back years later, we realize we did not.

[@yvonnegilmer4972]

I truly enjoyed the word I have been married twice and have found myself In the same area as you have been. Thank God for you woman of God.

[@anointedfireofficial]

+Yvonne Gilmer God bless you sis.

[@kimwingfield4403]

This was an eye opener for me because I held on to a marriage way too long. Now I am going through a divorce after 22yrs marriage. Now I have face the reality that sbx was not who God wanted from me. I use to be mad with my sbx but I'm not anymore. I still have to go through the process. I'm glad I'm going through now before my divorce is final and not wait until it's over. This is best process for me to go through. I thank God for seeking him because this how I came across your messages. It was time for me to hear this. It's all about understanding the seasons. I know I wouldn't have been able to receive this message if God wasn't growing me up in him. Thank you so much Tiffany for allowing God wisdom to set his daughters feel from bondage of the lies of the enemy.

[@anointedfireofficial]

+Kim Funderburke Blessings to you love. Stay encouraged and know that your life is only about to get better from here.

[@juanitajordan985]

This really confirmed what happened to me. I don't think we were ever on the same level but I have a bad habit of looking at people and seeing their potential instead of their current state and so from the start I knew I was more mature than he was though he possessed an outward maturity. I believe also what happened was I got tired with my shy ex and got curious about this guy's 'confidence' only to find out that he and his mom has the Jezebel spirit. They gossip a lot so I wouldn't talk much at their house and I was deemed as disrespectful. I stated that I don't like to gossip. God also grew me up fast and made me see the hypocrisy. I found myself staying because I put a lot into this and did I mention he 'brought' me to church? God started to make me question what am I really gaining from this relationship except stress and anxiety. I used to pray and fast to find out if this relationship was pleasing to God and God was 'silent' lol He was really speaking in other ways but I was so used to God telling me with a clear voice that I wasn't hearing. I used to pray God you know I'm stubborn please make it clear as day. And He did He let my friend send me videos abt narcissism. He let my classmates start sharing posts abt narcissists in their lives. He allowed my sister to send me your video about Jezebel spirit and the list goes onnnn. And the spirit of God was just moving rapidlyyyy and I said God thank you and I left the relationship. Then God brought someone I knew during the relationship who is shy. Lol I'm telling you God's sense of humour kills me with laughter and tears. When we talked before it was about God and we would start quoting scriptures and talking specifically about the end of the world. Ofc the attract was there and we were pretending as though it didn't exist but this was a test to show me look now his shyness will make u curious which is exactly what started to happen. So I cut ties when I realised that. Now that the narc relationship ended God said to talk back to this guy. And I was confused because God had rebuked me about me being like Ephesus and I wanted to know what God wants me to do abt this guy now. I prayed and fasted since and cried out to God saying I don't want to lose my first love again or stop putting Him first. In addition I was frustrated because ofc I still like this guy and I'm treading lightly and God making both of us busy, him more than me because we both write. And it was hard at first because there wasn't much time to talk and it made me wonder all sort of things. During the praying and fasting boom I click on ur video called frustrated with the wait and then you said when a woman is in her purpose she wouldn't be nagging abt u not spending enough time with her. I pause the video and laugh so hard and long. Praise be to God. God has also shown me how every book that he wrote I have a book that is identical to it though we had not even met as yet. We both seek the Holy Spirit as we write and that's how we came to talking. We predicted covid even me based on a short story given to me via a dream and him via research led by the Holy Spirit. It is scary but also refreshing and since my rebuke God has really made me give the guy a lot of breathing space and also God has pushed me on to write other books and devotionals. I'm getting busier every day. Currently need to manage 4 fb pages. Man I just have to give God all the praise the honour and the glory.

[@katel503]

Praise God! Powerful and wise! Thank you!

[@haxiozrolle4043]

God is a great God,trust me sis I was going through but this is a word that I needed but oh Lord this flesh but God be the glory I feel hope oh Lord help my unbelief Lord help me

[@danilaroche1156]

Life changing. Well done Tiffany!

[@shaunicesnowden9750]

On point! Thank You for insight and now& understanding!you are awesome God !!

[@1218kimber]

Hi Tiffany! Enjoying your videos a lot. Wondered if you've explored the subject of Soul Ties in videos or books?

[@austinhunter6554]

this is a wonderful video

[@SimplyTrueLove]

This is an amazing video

[@crystalgrose]

Amen Sister Tiffany!

[@bonezbaaaby]

Seriously I was just thinking (after watching a bunch of your videos) well then if you get the purpose and finances etc all figured out, WHAT is the point of having a husband? Hahaha. But honestly now that I think about it, if you think of it in terms of "God made everything and everyone for His purpose. It makes sense that a husband is designed to help a wife and reflect Gods grace."

[@moreinyoucoach]

Jeweled By Jesus lol yeah I’m struggling with that concept too. What is the point of getting married if you’re really perfected in Christ. The only purpose is for God’s glory.

[@tamarawebb3829]

Whewwww, RESPECT THE PROCESS! Hahahaha, Love it!!!!

[@womanofpurpose6503]

Thanks 4 the knowledge!

[@onlookgurl24]

I love this!

[@TBeauty_]

Are there times where God will show us our husband before we even meet each other and begin courting ?

[@ms.a806]

I appreciate a lot of your message but God doesn’t choose our husbands. He gives us all free will. But if we ask him to grant us the desires of our hearts he will give us our hearts desires.

[@reneemartin4860]

"But seek ye first the kingdom of God, and his righteousness; and all these things shall be added unto you." Matthew 6:33 KJVWe miss our season because we neglect to court an individual or prospective mate all four seasons to learn if that situation is God approved or sent for our destruction. Even Satan's ministers disguise themselves as righteous individuals, but their end is according to their fruit and consequentially, we have yoked ourselves to a degenerate vine that produces grief and separation from God. Even when we are content, we are most prone to our adversaries plots... "Wherefore let him that thinketh he standeth take heed lest he fall."1 Corinthians 10:12.

[@ajax222]

Thank you

[@freetobeme8954]

Oh my god that's exactly what I was messing with my ex he could speak five languages as well. Also he had a PhD

[@FrancescaHunter5]

You need to come to Miami!!!

[@anointedfireofficial]

Thanks sis. I pray God sends me there soon :)

[@kikistewart8912]

Francesca Hunter

[@FrancescaHunter5]

Tiffany, please follow me on ig!! pray_hope_dontworry is my ig name :)