When Your Body Burns for Sex, the Bible Says . . .

[@Elim-meister]

Really good practical advice. I liked how you balance out 'resist the bad' with 'pursue the good'. "Avoid sexual sin but pursue marriage".

[@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger]

God bless! So glad this was helpful to you!

[@CrownedJulz]

This is right on time! I've been praying to the Lord and renouncing masterbation and declaring my body is His and will be saved for my wife when we marry. It's not easy as a single out here, but I'm so glad we're here to remind and empower each other! Thanks bro!

[@davidm4566]

Sleep is so important. Whether it's resisting alcohol, drugs, sex, adultery, WHATEVER you're fighting, go to bed earlier and keep your mind rested. We are so much weaker and vulnerable when tired.

[@nahom144]

2am and this is the advice I needed lol

[@stevefernando94]

If you get married and the sexual craving disappears then the craving in first place was demonic. Because no matter how much sex you have within marriage satan gains nothing from it and may withdraw. Fasting is a great way to get rid of pride and lust. Fasting crucifies the flesh. I fasted (skipped just one meal) and my craving for desires of the flesh did not appear that day which led me to realise that those strong carnal desires may not be natural but could be a product of satanic forces

[@gdust6579]

i cant thumbs up cause i disagree, when i wear my self out with work, activities, exercise etc, and fasting/eating minimally in a day, i am so tired how can i even think of s**

[@richardcaulker1017]

How is that possible? Tiredness is the second most common excuse, after headaches, for avoiding sex. The sex drive is highest when the body is fully rested.

[@davidm4566]

@@richardcaulker1017 It's not about an excuse to avoid sex from your spouse, it's keeping your mind strong to avoid temptations if you're trying to abstain.

[@hsmfan071]

Getting married helps hugely with this issue. I waited until marriage and it was worth it but not easy. Of course you should get married because you love your soulmate and to love and serve God together. 😊

[@hsmfan071]

@@bekahleah574 That’s awesome! God bless! 😊

[@Lion-1214]

I wanted to get married but almost all the women I tried talking to don't love me in a romantic way.

[@hsmfan071]

@@Lion-1214 I’m sorry to hear that. Hopefully you’ll find your dream woman soon! Keep hanging in there! ☺️

[@trav7424]

Spot on. I was married for 10 years. I’ve struggled with sexual temptation as long as I can remember. Literally. But like Mark said. Once you believe you can control yourself you will with Gods help. I get tempted like anyone else but I usually get through it extremely fast now. I sometimes go months without being tempted at all. And I live and work in a college town filled with younger and older women who dress…. differently than most places let’s just say. I won’t lie. I miss being married. And sex is a part of that. But for the most part if you learn to control yourself singleness can be a wonderful season.

[@NobleWolf33]

It’s hard huh? You got this your flesh submits to you! You are a very strong man ! Keep it up

[@karamellfunnyla]

Thank you for your testimony. May God always lead your path and bless you.

[@DD-pv2jl]

It’s sad that so many Married Christians have so little compassion for their Single Bothers & Sisters. Try being a 61 year old guy that has been serving God for over 35 years & praying for a spouse all that time, & still nothing.

[@nathansabula6355]

If someone really only cared about wanting a spouse. They should know that God sometimes doesn’t want people to be married but will give you other companions such as friends or stuff like thst

[@cellslave]

@@nathansabula6355 Sooooooooo ......."companions and friends" will help relieve sexual desires how?

[@onkei_dnb3592]

Other than 1 Corinthians 7 and being able to serve God without concerns for your spouse, it can be a difficult road to walk. I agree married Christians need to be compassionate about this. God bless you for your service, brother. If you don't receive this side of heaven, I pray God blesses you then.

[@6stringsMark]

@@nathansabula6355 well, I was married and let me tell you something, sex as we are taught as christians, is not so great, you haven’t lost anything! Believe me...it’s another form of certain pleasure, but, sex is not the greatest pleasure experience on earth. Sorry guys, ohhh Santa Claus doesn’t exist, and sex is not the supreme thing on earth, it’s “interesting” but believe me, p*rn and the world wants us to believe that sex is awesome but...it is not. I’m so sorry. So, if that’s your reason to get married, you are choosing the worst reason for that.

[@anastasiaz7784]

@@6stringsMark sex is very pleasurable and based on your not so great personal experience does not mean that it is not great for others.

[@lauracina8205]

I was just discussing these struggles yesterday with a friend, and then I receive an email for this video/article. Wow praise God! Such a timely word! 🙏🏻

[@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger]

So glad it was helpful Laura!

[@marcusmac-a-tacc6825]

Me Too This is Weird

[@stevefernando94]

If you get married and the sexual craving disappears then the craving in first place was demonic. Because no matter how much sex you have within marriage satan gains nothing from it and may withdraw. Fasting is a great way to get rid of pride and lust. Fasting crucifies the flesh. I fasted (skipped just one meal) and my craving for desires of the flesh did not appear that day which led me to realise that those strong carnal desires may not be natural but could be a product of satanic forces

[@johnnyschell639]

Me too that was the first video this morning pop up when I opened KZbin

[@emmanuelunyema1471]

@@marcusmac-a-tacc6825 why is it weird😑

[@Nbrolfiwriting]

We have to hide his word in our hearts and glorify him with our bodies.

[@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger]

so true! Psalm 119:9!

[@jessicamerced9116]

Amen ❤ It's been a month since I've defiled my body, a year since it's been with another person. I feel my walk with Jesus is stronger 🙏 Praise God for He is good.

[@Nbrolfiwriting]

@@jessicamerced9116 amen sister! Trust in him!

[@skryvazena6548]

I don't understand what God does with your timing, Sir, but it's unbelievable right. I've never had any serious relationships including during my early 40s and have struggled with a desire that simmers within me. It's not easy when circumstances around you through media and entertainment keep pushing this more and more each season. Thank you for your video.

[@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger]

So glad this was timely! All glory to God!

[@NoGutsNoGlory-s7x]

I was thinking the same thing GOD always leads me to one of his videos at the perfect time 😂😂

[@billybrister1805]

That's all evil trying to make you give in and turn away from Jesus. Keep pushing sister and may God bless you with a straight path of light towards the armor you seek.

[@BriW444]

Fr tho because when I saw this on my page I was like wow 🤣

[@stevefernando94]

If you get married and the sexual craving disappears then the craving in first place was demonic. Because no matter how much sex you have within marriage satan gains nothing from it and may withdraw. Fasting is a great way to get rid of pride and lust. Fasting crucifies the flesh. I fasted (skipped just one meal) and my craving for desires of the flesh did not appear that day which led me to realise that those strong carnal desires may not be natural but could be a product of satanic forces

[@emmanuelledaavila8321]

This is beautiful. The battle is not yours but the Lord's. Be cheerful beloved for he has already overcome the world

[@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger]

John 15:5!

[@courtneykirk478]

This is a serious fight for me, Mr. Mark. I deal with this often being a single lady. I truly appreciate your biblical teachings. Keep talking to us. Thank you, Mr. Mark.

[@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger]

So glad this was helpful Courtney!

[@slaugh77ify]

Me too. Being single is hard but do able

[@tylertyler6418]

You’re not alone sister. Even when married I still struggle with this! Keep in the word and you’ll find God will provide peace in this issue! When I’m in the word daily, the Lord gives me the power to resist temptation, but I become much weaker the longer I’m away from Gods word!

[@stevefernando94]

If you get married and the sexual craving disappears then the craving in first place was demonic. Because no matter how much sex you have within marriage satan gains nothing from it and may withdraw. Fasting is a great way to get rid of pride and lust. Fasting crucifies the flesh. I fasted (skipped just one meal) and my craving for desires of the flesh did not appear that day which led me to realise that those strong carnal desires may not be natural but could be a product of satanic forces

[@davidc3529]

It’s a battle!!

[@Mindsetolympics]

Even in marriage the wait/self discipline doesn’t stop!!! Thank you & thank God!!

[@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger]

Yes, self-control by the Spirit is always needed! God bless!

[@klickingkayasmr7585]

Oh wow!! How so??

[@bornagainalex2250]

At least, when you’re married and want to feel urges, you can do with someone (husband). When you’re single and you want to, it is sin. Married people have it easier.

[@psalmsoffire9074]

This is so true! For those wondering how so? You can't just have sex with your spouse whenever you want, if it's true love, their consent, and ability will determine whether or not it's the right time. Times of exhaustion, sadness, menstrual bleeding, prayer, and fasting are a few examples of times when sex, even in marriage, is not appropriate. We all need the Holy Spirit, which bares the fruit of self-control, both in singleness and marriage.

[@athonyhiggins3117]

Not too much dicipline.in the bedroom. don't forget to enjoy and have a great sex life

[@nickoD509]

I have urges for my wife still after being married for 31 yrs. And yes, 31 years.

[@SuperShandy777]

I just end up CRYING constantly

[@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger]

God bless as you depend on the Lord for strength

[@gaelicxienna]

Why?

[@Soil_TheCaterpillar]

@@gaelicxienna it becomes frustrating. It literally hurts physically, emotionally, mentally, and most importantly spiritually. I believe it hurts more when (for whatever reason) a married couple can not come into a healthy schedule or agreement concerning the topic.

[@erikarobinson3557]

Me too

[@RobertGroves2525]

Same 😒

[@reginayfavors]

This is such a timely message. I was just praying about this very issue. I love the fact that you said that the feeling comes in waves and does not last forever. If we can get past that immediately feeling, we can overcome. Jesus paid the price for that feeling. We just need to believe and trust the Lord. Thank you for the message.

[@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger]

So glad it was timely! Amen, Jesus paid the price!

[@Corey_Preston]

Hey man just came across your video in my recommended section. I remember watching your videos like 4 or 5 years ago it must’ve been before I was born again. I just wanted to say thank you for helping me along my journey to knowing Jesus. You really helped me repent of a lot of things and planted a strong seed. I pray the same happens for all those watching. God bless you.

[@jasminewalters1937]

Sometimes, I wish we could just flip off our sexual desires . However, I know that God has a purpose for everything.

[@Girlintheewild]

Hey Jasmine God can literally do that in your life. I went from having a strong sense of sexual lust in my life to now being saved & filled with God’s spirit with two years of sexual purity. The longest I ever went on my own was about a year without sex without God. Before then I couldn’t last 30 days. However, God has truly graced my life in 2020 & 2021. If He did it for me, He can definitely do it for you! Hard times may pop up due to our external world but his grace & love covers all. I hope this helps!

[@drakeclifton5625]

Amen, that's a good point.

[@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger]

Amen, God has a purpose :)

[@sarahk6996]

🙋🏽‍♀️

[@stevefernando94]

If you get married and the sexual craving disappears then the craving in the first place was demonic. Because no matter how much sex you have within marriage satan gains nothing from it and may withdraw. Fasting is a great way to get rid of pride and lust. Fasting crucifies the flesh. I fasted (skipped just one meal) and my craving for desires of the flesh did not appear that day which led me to realise that those strong carnal desires may not be natural but could be a product of satanic forces

[@themasterspiece5669]

We need more wisdom and practical/spiritual biblical based stuff like this talked about in church. This was awesome! Thanks. God bless!

[@davidesparza2303]

yo! Praise the Lord, I woke up today feeling so eager & tempted for my sexual desires. I literally humbled myself & prayed for self control & minutes later your video popped up & yes I do find the contexts of this video to be helpful. Saving it my watch later playlist 👍

[@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger]

so glad this was helpful! God bless David!

[@stevefernando94]

If you get married and the sexual craving disappears then the craving in first place was demonic. Because no matter how much sex you have within marriage satan gains nothing from it and may withdraw. Fasting is a great way to get rid of pride and lust. Fasting crucifies the flesh. I fasted (skipped just one meal) and my craving for desires of the flesh did not appear that day which led me to realise that those strong carnal desires may not be natural but could be a product of satanic forces

[@isabelcorreaparker]

Independently of these situations, I believe what is more complicated is to find people who are lovable. The more I realize this, the more I understand how miraculous God's love for humans is. Friendship with people of the same or opposite sex is wonderful but in today's toxic world so many also misinterpret it. :(

[@thenahum3603]

Just seems really tough when you’re single at 25 but people younger are married and able to do those things care free … or even aren’t married … it’s tough man …

[@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger]

this may help: applygodsword.com/4-tips-if-you-feel-sad-after-another-friend-gets-married-while-you-are-still-single/

[@Ender-Corbin]

Can relate man. I'm in my mid 30's and it's been rough, but I know that one day it will be as long as I keep my eyes on Him.

[@KKH92]

So true. Oh boy

[@brett5636]

Try being 52 and never married and not only that but never even in the ballpark.

[@Livelearnapply]

I was just thinking about this and this popped up … Thank you God.. always on time🙏🙏🙏🙏

[@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger]

So glad this was timely for you!

[@DONTG3TMADCUZI]

Absolutely, it helps and you'll even feel more energetic and in control of your life when you learn to push aside such urges. Doesn't mean they're not there however.

[@p0ggles]

Thank you for this reminder. This literally has helped me battle the strongest of temptations! Great work brotha!

[@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger]

So glad to hear that! Stay in the word, the Lord will lead you!

[@stevefernando94]

If you get married and the sexual craving disappears then the craving in first place was demonic. Because no matter how much sex you have within marriage satan gains nothing from it and may withdraw. Fasting is a great way to get rid of pride and lust. Fasting crucifies the flesh. I fasted (skipped just one meal) and my craving for desires of the flesh did not appear that day which led me to realise that those strong carnal desires may not be natural but could be a product of satanic forces

[@Brian6587]

Really love this video Mark! I struggled with Pornography for a long time since I was young. I've started fighting it earnestly over the past two years. These tips are invaluable. I believe at its core lust becomes idolatry as we desire that person or experience more than God. God bless you Mark and may God strengthen all those who struggle. Never give up hope that God will give us the ultimate victory as we place our trust and set our eyes upon Him.

[@zackmoore1351]

It's clear that God speaks through you because even if I haven't watched or searched your vids in forever you always pop up with a message that is so timely. It seems to even go against the algorithm

[@Shawn6751]

That's the devil at work and he constantly work overtime.

[@victoriamarrero1902]

Wow this video was so timely it's insane. All glory to God. God bless you Mark!❤

[@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger]

So glad it was timely! And amen, all glory to God!

[@Jayarod2332]

Step 2 hits hard, I feel I am currently building the sanctification stage in my life, as I feel God is really putting me through the test to grow in maturity within God. This includes truly letting God take the wheel which has been the hardest to do, without me realizing it. I know and pray for God's will to work through my actions trust and through those around which will lead into everything else to come by will of God. God bless, thank you so much Mark! 🙏

[@mimiarzu9740]

Thank you so much for teaching us how to manage sexual cravings as Christians. Confession is something that I found helps but I have learned to use wisdom in who I am confessing my cravings to because a lot of Christians can be judgmental and have made me feel like I am crazy or dirty for craving sex even when I explain that I am not acting on it. Your ideas are very practical and let me know that I am not the only single Christian that experiences sexual cravings

[@Matthew-sl4rs]

Amen! I would also add that people may need to play around with how often they workout. I've heard a counselor say that some people get more urges if they workout. So, if you feel urges the day after, it might be good to set up your workout plan so you can do consecutive days without overworking a muscle group. That could look like an upper-lower or push-pull-legs plan. I can definitely say from my experience that staying consistent with it is key to keeping urges in check. So, yes! Working out is a great addition to the foundational spiritual and mental categories.

[@skaterman8180]

You are truly a blessing Mark. Thank you for your ministry.

[@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger]

So glad this was helpful Jeff! God bless!

[@MrSereeus]

I struggle a lot with lust, this video came out on perfect timing as i was just asking god these past few days what to do with all this tempation i have.

[@Jpotts9161]

Great biblical points! I also am not immune to this struggle unfortunately however I would respectfully like to add, in my own experience that YES this is a flesh battle, this struggle could also be tied to demonic oppression. The spirit of lust, the spirit of perversion, etc - I think in some cases, deliverance is needed and could be helpful in getting free if it feels like the flesh is out of control. Even getting married won't fix some of these sexual issues when you feel like your flesh is burning so hot for sex. Just another angle to look at this! God Bless you!

[@dianagentile7636]

Jamie…ABSOLUTELY THE TRUTH‼️💯💯💯 EVIL SPELLS…SO VERY SAD 😔 LORD HELP THOSE WITH EVIL SEXUAL SPELLS ON THEM 🙏🏽 STAY BLESSED ALWAYS 🙏🏽🙏🏼🙏🏽❤️❤️❤️‼️‼️‼️

[@dawnaleecarey7224]

Amen, sister, true word!

[@PatrickMenesesYTOfficial4945]

Remove the filters, kinks and fantasies you will see sex for what truly it is. Nothing but for procreation purposes.

[@DP-fg3dv]

@@PatrickMenesesYTOfficial4945 That is an unbiblical position. God designed sex for procreation in marriage, yes, but also to be used as an expression of love. Read an interpretation of Song of Song. And read 1 Corinthians 7:5. Sex in marriage is a great gift, but like everything, Satan has corrupted it.

[@DP-fg3dv]

Jamie - "Burning hot" can be part of the attraction process. Otherwise, why do we burn hot for ONLY a specific person? Discernment is required.

[@lightbringer2714]

THANK YOU! This has been my daily struggle 😧 You hit most things the Spirit has been teaching me for this circumstance

[@vincebarrios7374]

Brother I like what you say about offense and defense. Yes, the Lord certainly defends us but there are times when He wants us to bust a move and demonstrate our faith. Brother you're a blessing.

[@the13hwarrior]

Thank you, Mark! you're right on time as always. I just prayed to God today concerning this. I feel this way so much I have recently lost all desire to do anything but be in God's presence. There is so much temptation in Social media, movies, books, websites, images around your city, I lose hope and fail Isiah 26:3 "You will keep in perfect peace him whose mind is steadfast, because he trusts in you. Trust in the LORD forever, for the LORD, the LORD, is the Rock eternal."

[@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger]

So glad this was timely! Psalm 119:9!

[@clarissanatalie1273]

Thank you for sharing. We need to pray more and train ourself to avoid it. Nothing is impossible, we can overcome it . God bless us abundantly.

[@Sunshine-lt6rp]

Thank you brother for talking about this topic because there a lot of pastors who don't talk about it.

[@carlachaffin6936]

Sometimes I've struggled with this but for a different reason. I was married and waited to have sex until then. I've been divorced for 10 years, I divorced my husband because he cheated on me multiple times. In my hurt, I began to sin. Now I'm in a new relationship, and we both have agreed to take things slowly and not focus so much on our desires but on building a friendship and a solid foundation for marriage.

[@SunFuzzyOne]

This is similar to my experience. I've been divorced now for 13 years...

[@athonyhiggins3117]

Really pleased that you are taking it slowly we are doing the same it the right way to go god bless you both💓

[@athonyhiggins3117]

Hi that's great , much better to take it slowly. The lord bless you both what a day that Will be when we see Jesus💓

[@almaokeyo3690]

Amen 🙏🏽 ,Remember to put God first

[@rockabillly88]

I hope he is a God fearing man. God is the marriage successor.

[@tylertyler6418]

Even when married this struggle doesn’t always go away! Sometimes your partner isn’t about to help you out with this issue. This is great practical biblical advice for singles and married couples! Something that helps me is daily time with Gods word. I’d advise all people to try and read Gods word daily, even if it’s just for a few minutes! It will help!

[@Arguvandal]

This. I'm married but have never struggled as hard when I was single. This because my wife sadly has a *very* low libido. As a pretty high libido man, I feel like I'm trapped. I can't cheat on her, but I also have no other biblically correct way to alleviate this desire for sex. It's driving me literally insane. I'm afraid that down the road, it will lead me to cheat on her....

[@Shawn6751]

@@Arguvandal Hopefully that doesn't happen to me.

[@Arguvandal]

@@Shawn6751 I hope so to, I wish you strength brother

[@Soil_TheCaterpillar]

@@Arguvandal Hormonal issues. Research plant based remedies. Maca root and slippery elm have helped both me and my husband in the past.

[@Linkin-qb7fy]

@@Arguvandal sorry to hear that sex.os a huge part of marriage

[@jenniferv9450]

Thank you Mark for using the Word of God (literally 🙏) and addressing a subject that is very real. 😳 Wow…while under the fire, we tend to forget that God indeed did give us instructions for this. I can relate to what you mentioned about exercise; that works for me and I have started again knowing that it makes me feel much better. Also keeping distracted; not staying in that mind frame for long, like you said “knowing that those intense feelings will not last,” is so important to building resilience and keeping our relationship with God as priority 🙌. May God bless you Mark; many people, including myself, appreciate you spreading the Gospel to us with encouragement for our trials and successes in Jesus’ Holy name🙂

[@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger]

God bless you too Jennifer!

[@12Messenger]

Thank you. Very hard as a young college dude seeing 100s of girls who are physically attractive to stay pure in mind...especially when the weather gets warm smh

[@12Messenger]

Mind starts wondering that leads me to think of porn

[@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger]

Psalm 119:9!

[@loryannejanice720]

Woooww! This video couldnt fall at a much better time! God is so gracious.. the fight is raging in our flesh but our Father takes care of us

[@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger]

So glad it was timely, all glory to God!

[@jessicamerced9116]

I needed this, I'm a single mother and I crave companionship with a man, I want a husband but I want God to choose him for me. Needless to say, my body desires to be held and touched. This usually begins a fantasy of being held by a man. I have been hugging my baby daughters more often and this helps with feeling lonely. Lord Jesus, fulfill my heart till the time is right. I need to be patient on the Lord 💖

[@axoneba144]

Thank you Lord...u always help those sinners when we pray. I was suffering from this sexual sin.

[@Froluvangel]

I've learned that it's starts in the mind. If you can cast down all imagination the flesh will follow. Blessings family.🙏💓

[@Shawn6751]

Bingo and it's extremely hard in a long distance relationship which I fall from time to time.

[@afflatus444]

I have Been burning up recently especially today. I’m aching down there! 😩😩😩

[@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger]

Romans 5-8 is always helpful to read!

[@richardbarry04553]

Being divorced for over three years now after being with my wife for 15 years, while being born again for the last two years this has been an unbelievably difficult challenge. I am extremely lonely and depressed and I really have no hope of getting back together with my ex-wife or finding a new wife. She divorced me and I wanted to stay together. 46 years old now and going through a terrible struggle. I keep praying to God to help me.

[@tawanda3333]

Hope you are doing well brother Richard

[@Drivenda1ly]

​@@tawanda3333 me too, I hope so

[@beatricewamboi4316]

Me too

[@YEDIDYAH-p2i]

I know what mean I am going trough terrible struggle. And probably most Christians knows. Keep winning! And always pray!

[@aromamangaoang8792]

A powerful encouragement ❣️ A heaven sent video!

[@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger]

So glad it was useful!

[@jjjellyjen33]

This message came right on time. I needed to hear those encouraging words. thanks so much for posting. God BLESS

[@kiannachara3972]

it's not easy, especially when you see others who are married and getting married, some even far younger than me! it seems unfair

[@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger]

Yes, that can be hard to see happen when you really want to be married too. Focus on what actions God is leading you to take. He will guide you! this also may help: applygodsword.com/4-tips-if-you-feel-sad-after-another-friend-gets-married-while-you-are-still-single/

[@chidinmaorie7700]

Even when u get married u still need the same discipline/self control

[@kiannachara3972]

@@chidinmaorie7700 that's true, i guess you'll obviously have a desire for your spouse, but the difference is you don't have to wait so soo long to be relieved or satisfied

[@tammyewert1712]

@@kiannachara3972 This is not always true. Many people are married to someone who pushes them away a lot. Then you are put into a position where you must struggle like a single person without the hope of not being lonely some day.

[@kiannachara3972]

@@tammyewert1712 oh ok, that's sad

[@tanyarodriguez157]

This came at the right time, once again. This is amazing! Glory be to GOD! God bless, Brother Mark!!! 🙏🙏🙏🙏

[@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger]

So glad to hear this! Amen, all glory to God!

[@faithakampurira3146]

Finally someone who understands me.

[@2WarVet]

These videos keep finding me, with absolute relevance to my life. Thank you.

[@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger]

So glad they are relevant!

[@relodinge]

What a great struggle! Only GOD, with His SPIRIT, we can conquer!! Sad when I have failed HIM!

[@yvonnecalingasan2159]

Thank you. It's hard this time to be pure in mind honestly. Ever since my heart desire is to get married.

[@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger]

God bless as you seek the Lord!

[@graceamphlett493]

Thank you for exploring this topic and offering solutions, hardly anyone else does or helps.

[@guillermo3947]

I struggle a lot. I know the Lord won’t allow me to be tempted more than I can resist, but I can’t and must not give in. I would like to get married someday.

[@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger]

Romans 5-8 is always helpful!

[@richardlincourt2519]

Never diminish GOD’s Power and seek HIS guidance. Clarity found in the Holy Spirit is priceless and worth defending for. YAHWEH blesses

[@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger]

Jesus reigns!

[@DD-pv2jl]

Funny how CMP’s (aka Clueless Married People), especially those who married young (ex. under the age of 40) seem to think that singles are single because we are not “prepared” or have not “taken action”. I’m far more prepared than most CMP’s I know, & have been taking action for decades. Part of the problem is that married people in the church don’t want to get involved in “messy’ or difficult topics with a demographic that they consider to be second class citizens. Most marrieds simply tell singles over & over again to “just wait” on God. I am not discounting waiting on God, but often times the people telling us that got married in their 20’s ...so they obviously didn’t take the advice that they are now offering. A married person telling a single that lives in a physical / biological body while here on Earth that sex is “no big deal” (...yes I’ve been told that!) is similar to a well fed person telling a starving person that food is “no big deal”. Sad fact is that older singles are really not wanted by the married people in the church.

[@1970Mom]

You can't equate food to sex. A person will not die from not having sex. All this preoccupation with sex is strictly that of an overactive mind.

[@cherithcampbell1157]

I totally agree 💯. The older I get, the harder it is..

[@muggin]

Definitely feel that "second class" Christian status especially now, no longer being a "young" man at 34. A "little while" is a cosmic joke as someone who is still waiting for marriage.

[@lindsey5365]

Almost 34 and still waiting for marriage. My 20s were easier as my 30s approached hormones got worse….It would have been helpful to have someone who waited for marriage as well to give advice. Getting my mind off masturbation is a challenge, but it has been 2 months……Everyone I know had sex before marriage. It really messes with your mind, but the urges slowed down, I try to distract myself with other things….. and basically looking forward to my wedding night.

[@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger]

Romans 5-8 is always helpful!

[@jinothomas6841]

Me too

[@Linkin-qb7fy]

Yeah you may want to try and just get married it must suck being non active all the way to mid 30s. I believe in Jesus but sex is something that Is major and I don't believe the whole God bring the right one. We have to also do our part because at this rate you may be 40 yrs old in same predicament

[@michael.manasian]

I was glad to find and watch this video because it has given me crucial insights into how to resist sexual temptations I am currently undergoing. I have been through a breakup almost a year ago, but the consequences are up to this point torturing me both with regards to mental and spiritual health. The relationship was sinful, but I did not recognise that at the time and therefore was not able to bring my girlfriend who was also born in a Christian family, and myself to repentance and believing in Jesus Christ. And because we both were immature, I guess she would have not agreed with my suggestion to become true believers, which would imply complete absence of intimacy before our marriage. The circumstances were highly inappropriate. Since I am trying to quit masturbation, it comes to a point where I am having sexual fantasies with her. Flashbacks, thoughts of her having sex with someone else burn me from the inside (thus comparing sexual cravings to burning fire is truly pertinent). And usually, these fantasies occupy my mind when I am weakened - in the morning and at night, when I am left alone with my thoughts and there is nothing else to focus on. Sometimes I do not succeed to resist and it brings significant damage to my relationship with God. 1) I acknowledge that she is a daughter of God and not a sexual object, and she is going to have a husband. 2) Furthermore, I am also going to have a wife, and I even tried to protect myself from future engagements in this activity by imagining that everything I am doing would be revealed to my bride. But, whatever imaginative technique I apply, it happens to be ineffective because I simply cannot control my body.

[@jeffharvill6391]

Thank you, and praise God! Good advice. Remembering that eventually the temptation will subside. I had forgotten about that.

[@Mehrijanethrcorpmom]

Thank you! You are truly helping me! I feel like I’m trying to stop an addiction and going clean for the first time… yesterday was a very hard day for me….but I fought my temptation!! It’s been almost 7 months and I’m mentally not there … but I’m pushing and I’m not giving up! I don’t react to my thoughts but I don’t like thinking them…please pray for me..

[@emmanuelunyema1471]

Wow i just stoped watching porn a few days ago, and i thank God he answerd my prayers by showing me this video, praize be to God

[@austinroberts6229]

Are you still free from porn?

[@jennifere1205]

This channel continues to deliver!

[@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger]

So glad you are enjoying the channel!

[@MrLesonfireforGod]

This was good advice. Interestingly, what you said about Justification and Sanctification applies to other Commandments people may struggle with.

[@ethan-sq6zv]

I have a girlfriend I hope we get married in the next few years cuz idk how she really feels about marrying in college but I hope it works. My main temptation lately is lusting after her 😔😢. It’s gonna be a real test to trust God and do these things that you said in this video 😥. Please help God.

[@billyisapoop]

I pray that you may work on the bigger picture God has placed the purpose in your life and glorify Him through your gifts in life as well. Cheer on 💪🏼🔥cause it’ll help you shift your desire to a healthy one which is for the kingdom of Heaven. In that way, your marriage can be a lot more wonderful in God’s eyes than in men’s eyes

[@athonyhiggins3117]

Hi give your self boundaries it really helps

[@hectorestrada4744]

The problem with our western christian society is that it tries to uphold the customs of those who are NOT with God. Dating is an absurd idea. And of the world. Go ahead give me an example of dating in the bible. Ill wait. The correct thing has always been marriage from the beginning. But our society and world is so messed up that most people have a hard time just imagining how that would work. Does she even want to marry? Whats more important your relationship with her or school? Thats up to you guys. Just think about it. In the time that you wait to marry all your doing is waiting for situations that bring discord into the relationship to arise. And since your not married its easier to break it off...its your life. This is of course is hindsight from my experience, God bless you.

[@yontine]

As being single, I can’t get over the sexual urges even without the visuals.

[@marvinjohnson8724]

I'm the same way, I know what you saying my sister

[@theatomicskeleton]

It's a burden 'cause all you want to do is serve but your caught in this vicious cycle of sin that gives you no rest. If I'm caught in sin how can I expect God's blessing and provisions? How can I be true to the one I love by not covering her sins? God save us!

[@stevefernando94]

If you get married and the sexual craving disappears then the craving in first place was demonic. Because no matter how much sex you have within marriage satan gains nothing from it and may withdraw. Fasting is a great way to get rid of pride and lust. Fasting crucifies the flesh. I fasted (skipped just one meal) and my craving for desires of the flesh did not appear that day which led me to realise that those strong carnal desires may not be natural but could be a product of satanic forces

[@theatomicskeleton]

@@stevefernando94 I do agree with you in regards to fasting and coming together in marriage. But if you crucify the flesh and are no longer bothered and stop the next day and so forth and remain in purity then it is not a demon but the sinful nature of the Old Adam. But if you are enslaved and compelled to sin after having crucified the flesh then you can best be assured that it is a demon and you cannot crucify a demon *you have to expel it.* Demons harass, torment, enslave and compel and when they enslave and compel the two become an addiction and then you become lost in sin and feel powerless. Christians cannot be possessed but they can be "demonized" (Tormented). We have to realize that *we are dealing with a person* not in the human sense but in the spiritual. And these "people" (demons) affect your attitude, thinking and emotions.

[@C.O.SBurpees]

Same

[@PurgeLoki]

It also says if your loosed from a wife, do not seek one. Difficult indeed. I'm 24 and hate myself for some of the sexual immoralites I've done. I fear I've burned with passion. I pray the Lord will forgive me. Love you all, all glory to Christ Jesus.

[@richardbarry04553]

I’m 46 years old and my wife divorced me over three years ago. I made the terrible mistake of getting married as an unbeliever to another lost unbeliever. Then she divorced me and left me after we had moved across the country to be close to her family and now I have no friends or family except my two young kids I get to see sometimes. Glory to God I was saved a year after the divorce. The Bible forbids me from getting married again because it would be considered adultery. So I have no real hope in ever being with anyone again for the rest of my life unless my ex-wife is saved and we can somehow reconcile even though she is seeing a new man now and going on trips with him and all sorts of things. Or if she were to die God forbid - then I could get remarried. I hate being alone and this loneliness and depression are destroying me.

[@bodeezy78]

Amen brother I needed this word thanks for letting God use u

[@FernGray]

Great video thank you for these tools

[@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger]

Glad you like them!

[@dienaicolisse4387]

Muito obrigado Mark, você é uma benção. Que Deus abençoe você e sua familia e continue sendo usado por Jesus.

[@hayatorpg3896]

Spicy topic today

[@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger]

It's crazy how much the Bible talks about this. It's easy to shy away from it but the Bible doesn't!

[@jessyjonas4988]

Daydream about night things In the middle of the afternoon God’s grace is sufficient Tap into it Thanks Mark

[@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger]

Amen, by grace alone!

[@JesseChasteen]

Titus 2:11-12

[@jessyjonas4988]

@@JesseChasteen 😩

[@JesseChasteen]

@@jessyjonas4988 why the sad face

[@jessyjonas4988]

@@JesseChasteen “ and those who are Christ’s have crucified the flesh with its passions and desires.” Galatians 5:24 The effects of crucifixion

[@Livelearnapply]

Best channel ever. Thank you

[@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger]

So glad you are enjoying the content! God bless!

[@jewishbride5010]

I bind my godly-ordained spouse to control one's sexual desires untill marrying me like I bind my own sexual desires untill marrying my god-ordained spouse, binding myself not to be unequally yoked with and have any common share with anyone not controlling one's sexual desires untill marrying me, in accordance with this word and 1 corinthians 7:9, 1 corinthians 9:27, 2 corinthians 6:14-18 in the name and blood of Jesus Christ, amen and hallelujah!

[@2000jbcarvalho]

Thank you brother, for such biblical truth and instruction. God bless you all, amen! 🙏

[@AWarriorForChrist]

This was so profound!!!! Thank you brother

[@phalynwilliams4119]

Thank you for this message. I am going to go on a long walk today.

[@IAmJazzionCathcart]

Bro, this is SOLID!

[@TheUsurperGuy1]

I'm stuck between having hope that God is going to reveal my Kingdom Spouse soon and accepting the fact that I'll be single until Jesus comes back or I die. :/

[@tammyewert1712]

Things can change very quickly and out of nowhere

[@gregmann5687]

That was really good Mark, thank you

[@Angelalex242]

There is a 'never ' involved here, for those who are not and will never be called to marriage. It just isn't for everyone. Never can be a hard thing to bear.

[@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger]

1 Corinthians 7 is helpful to study

[@Tamerahoney]

This is so needed Thankyou Jesus for leading me here

[@kareli1143]

Thanks Mark! ALWAYS on time!!

[@HB-rn9jk]

By far your best sermon yet. Good job! Very helpful…

[@simiaji5090]

Just watched this, it is my first video watching you and it popped up on my timeline out of know where this is too timely. I have subscribed I look forward to more videos from you. All praise to the most high, God bless you and your family and loved ones.

[@Peaka01]

Praise God for the timing of this video.

[@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger]

Amen, all glory to God!

[@princesssikilo4025]

Thanks dear for posting this GOD BLESS YOU

[@marvinjohnson8724]

I'm a work in progress, I'm not perfect.but I do pray

[@username-password]

Thank you Mark, I will try my best to apply these to my struggle. Also, this one reminded me of some of your older videos, so I appreciated that

[@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger]

So glad this was useful to you!

[@brijjitgundy3081]

Just a tip. I shut it down. Dont get near it. When you start to crave direct your focus and thoughts. Any gluttony, Pride or fear tips?

[@BD90..]

I think that occupying your time and energy into productive activities that help you live AA better life like learning and excercise occupy your mind and don't have you bored, lonely, lustful and so on. It still cross your mind but you are more resistant to sin.

[@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger]

Romans 12:21 :)

[@josephhalecki3669]

Being..65. Years .old .single .is..no. Walk. In. The .park. I. Struggle. With. Lust. I. Cry. Out. to. God. and..ask. him. to. Deliver Me. being..a. Virgin. Isn't. Easy. Pray .for. Me. God. Bless.

[@iPostiPodiEatiYuri]

Please pray for this man

[@anniesok868]

I pray the Lord blesses you with a companion for honoring him your entire life.

[@rekiyaE]

Is this for real? Are you being serious or you're just trolling? 🤥

[@jeskahaley9616]

Fasting is my one and only way that seems to curb it and help it go away.

[@drakeclifton5625]

Yeah, im planning on fasting about this whole thing..I hope you are getting victory sister, Jesus bless.

[@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger]

God bless as you rely on the Lord!

[@carpenter315]

I should definitely get married... Every day.

[@eddieteddie5559]

Thanks so much, Mark! This came at the right time.

[@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger]

You're so welcome! All glory to God!

[@mishat.6092]

I am kindly adding to your already helpful video that fasting and praying is a really strong shield against sexual sin, too. ✝🙏🏻

[@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger]

Thanks for sharing Misha!

[@GodsPrincess323]

Brother every time you post a video It's been soooo timely for me omgness 😇

[@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger]

I'm so glad it's timely for you! All glory to God!