When Your Ex Jumps Into A New Relationship Right After A Breakup

[@DvO82]

That feeling what you say.. you working on yourself and your ex is avoiding the work. That is so true. I didn’t thought I would experience it like that when we broke up. But with your help I start to see it more and more clearly! Thank you for the helping content ❤

[@ld921]

I just find it funny that my avoidant said they would be ok if we broke up, but less than 3 weeks after our breakup he’s on tinder looking for a replacement so that he can avoid his feelings, but let him do his thing, he will only find heartache on that thing, if he doesn’t see my value after those experiences it’s not met to be !

[@CosmicShamanC-xc9oe]

I wouldn't call this a relationship, avoidants have problems to manage another.. I learned that intimacy side is not their easy thing.. 🤔

[@CosmicShamanC-xc9oe]

If they do not care about the rebound relationship, why even going there then 🤔

[@Anna-zo7rz]

He started something with someone within a month. She's an old friend from his hometown, one of "the gang" (she lives 3 hours drive away). It all seems so stupid. Just before we broke up, I had a cancer scare (but all tests were negative), and he said he would be with me through anything. We were planning our future together, what to do with our houses, where to retire. I just can't get my mond around any of if it.

[@erikawilson3881]

If he moves on, I won’t want him anymore.

[@intoasoul]

Excellent video. Very well thought-out. I'm not sure how to address each point Alexis made because a lot is applicable to me. My life was hell from childhood and included several suicide attempts as a child. I worked on myself and turned around to help others in distress. I worked in counselling and advocacy. This woman came back into my life after 35 years. She was now the one who needed counselling even though she still has a privileged life that I never had. But because she hadn't worked on herself she drove me mad. Finally, a few weeks ago she texted saying she had started therapy. I was very relieved and pleased. But in the same text she dumped me. This video is like my secret weapon because it tells me what is likely to happen to her new relationship. There's good and bad news in the video. Yes, her relationship is probably doomed and she might try to get back with me but she doesn't deserve me. She dumped me but could not find fault in me. She couldn't blame me for anything. She left because she didn't want to work on the relationship. Like Alexis said- the endorphins don't last long. I'm not good at texting on youtube. I can never get it right.

[@intoasoul]

Limerence. Or as we used to call it- infatuation.

[@dillonshuffle]

I use to watch your videos all the time about 1.5 years ago m She jumped into a rebound within the same week. I believe they’re still together but I don’t know. But I do believe she is a narcissist, sadly

[@BossHossStudios]

They are getting married soo fast. Less than 4 months. She still reaches out to me. Tells me she loves me. We meet up and it’s romantic but then she feels guilty and goes cold. She says she loves him and will marry him and that her feelings for me will go away after she gets married. It’s killing me

[@matthewkeim]

Bro.... Detach as best as you can .. One of both of you are gonna get hurt bad... You both need to remove her from your lives...

[@BossHossStudios]

@@matthewkeim I’m having a hard time letting go of she saw me today and said she still loves me. I’m seeing someone new. Not committed yet. But she HATES it. Not sure what’s gonna happen next

[@matthewkeim]

@@BossHossStudios do you really wanna entertain that knowing that other guy might be in the picture whether she admits it or not? There's BILLIONS of women out there man. You can find one that's not deciding between two guys and only wants you...trust me man... There's someone else out there for you.. She doesn't know What she wants... You can find a woman that does know what she wants... Trust me bro the mother of my child left me for some other guy .. raising my son alone...I went through this recently... Focus on yourself make yourself a better person get in better shape. Don't focus on a woman right now... And instead of seeking out a woman one will fall into your lap.. There's almost 4 BILLION other women out there.. Don't be her backup plan and safety net...

[@themoonbleu627]

That’s what I new jump and I always date down so I make sure it’s no big deal to lose all types of subconscious things. I did check myself thing as I’m trying to heal.