When Your Family… Sucks!

[@frankfurlacker5219]

Your family doesn't love you, they only love what YOU CAN DO FOR THEM.

[@trishhhh3254]

Yeah :( they are more excited with your presents than your presence. They dont reach you when you dont have anything to give them. And they dont appreciate it :( they will always compare you with others. Its hard to live without a back up - you always need to double the hard work because you need to secure yourself cause no one will be there for you in times of trials... So keep going to everyone who doesnt have supportive parents. Always put yourself first

[@honantong]

Thats a company

[@winecrimesfoodandtime7119]

👏 👏 👏

[@Umut-ki1lx]

yea I agrie they hate u but they love things u do for them !

[@CHGARDE]

True

[@jacksonkiely8073]

I cut off my entire family a year ago and it was the best decision I've ever made. You make your family, you aren't given one.

[@kellycushing2904]

This is what I finally need to do at 40 years old. I unfortunately spent the first 40 years of my life hoping my family would eventually change or come around but they never have. They are sick as ever.

[@danieldiaconu8094]

@@kellycushing2904 same thing .I am 40 ears old too and i said enough. No more tension,disrespect ,shouting and i feel so good about my self.

[@JK-vy8vh]

@@kellycushing2904 same my mom threatened suicide again just because she can’t get her way. I wish she would.

[@tjbohmier46]

@@JK-vy8vh that's really immature of you. Seek professional help ASAP.

[@JK-vy8vh]

@@tjbohmier46 get f**ked man it’s how I felt in the moment you don’t know the circumstance. My mother is messed up, said terrible things about my younger bro who died at 23. Stfu man you don’t know what goes on in peoples lives.

[@BenDover-wk1bs]

My family secretly can't stand each other. And never really have, we just fake it.

[@lukehart7225]

Sounds like my family brother, we all ACT kind to each other we’re as I’m kind no matter what, like what coach says

[@vvvvel]

If you don't act like it you set yourself up for a target.

[@starzintheskyz4477]

Same here

[@lazarusblackwell6988]

SAME HERE.

[@TheLeslieMichelle]

I had an issue with my folks, the best way I handled them was by leaving them alone. I didn't need a bunch of people telling me how much of a loser I was when I wasn't. I'm better off now.

[@fromgenesistorevelationswa4531]

Leslie, I'm going through the same thing here..my family has turned their backs on me and my 13 year old son...we have nobody. I wish we could leave but I don't know where to go...

[@lukehart1500]

@@sumerbc7409 What I don’t understand is that, I feel my parents, family were somewhat loving towards me growing up, so why do I feel dysfunctional as I’ve gotten older. My family didn’t physically abuse me, but there unmotivated, and weak.. maybe that’s a small reason

[@vvvvel]

Family stinks in a nutshell.

[@AshleighWheatley]

WOW 😳 dude 😎

[@robertfrate9738]

Hi Corey, I came from a very abusive family and childhood, I left my family in 87 in my early thirties and haven't seen or spoke to them since, and I don't miss them! It doesn't take blood to make a family it takes a heart, we all know that, ty so much for your help, regards, Bob frate

[@Indigo_newness]

Well done for wanting better I'm the same even moved countries ...wishing you all the best and only good people in you life 😁👍

[@phillyfan-182]

I'm 23 and still in college and I won't graduate until December 2017 and I just hate my family. I don't connect with them and I get less than no support from them. My dad has dissed me for years and all of a sudden he's interested in what I'm doing and it's too little too late. Once I go back to college in a couple weeks I'm gonna be laser focused on school and keep applying for internships and spend more time with friends. Friends are more important than family. Me personally I don't like wasting my time with people that don't support me.

[@chynnasjrnl]

Omg both of y'all situations define mine as well! Sad to say my family isn't always going to be here. Not everyone has the luxury of a loving family that is supportive and act like they got some sense.But please don't give up and don't let them discourage you. This is your life not theirs.Be Blessed!

[@jacksprat2290]

phillyfan182 friends are worthless too. Trust me. Make your own family.

[@sohoyankee66]

I feel you, my friend. I'm 51 years old and I walked away from my family years ago. My parents, siblings, even grandparents were/are nasty mean spirited people who take pleasure in tearing each other down. My father checked out when I was 7 and tried coming back when I made something of myself. You're right, too little, too late. Get your degree, get a good job and most of all, get away from those people and stay away. They are poison. They will stunt your mental and professional growth. They will try and take you down calling you a snob, two faced, uppity etc. merely because you're bettering yourself. Trust me. Been there, done that.

[@Ralph1826]

Be careful with those words because u might regret it. But also give them a chance

[@angelina-ht6vi]

phillyfan182 hey just wondering how are you doing now?

[@cprime4097]

My family is the kind that will smile to your face while stabbing you in the back. Im the family scapegoat/trash can. My family may help you but there is always a price--abuse. Not worth it.

[@malas.7276]

My family didn't even helped me when i needed them the most..

[@rippinaroundeverywhere9249]

Same here

[@franchi8601]

You described my family to a tee. Psychological abuse, verbal abuse, emotional abuse is discouragement to control a person. And then the parents complain why their children are not successful in life

[@justlloyd7881]

Ah yes, the price-abuse. I know this all too well. "Bow before me due to the favour I just did for you". Jesus Christ 😑😑 I can't wait to separate myself from these people...

[@ariadanzig434]

My M word stole all my savings after years of physical abuse,had the back o my hands burnt by her.i mean hot knives&she made me watch her heat the knife till cherry red👍

[@susannahdean584]

My mother is similar...she even threw a fit when I DID move out. There is no way to make these people happy.

[@liam5674]

Same here :/

[@SST4SSG]

Same here! Heard the "You can't make it on your own" nonsense. Have not been back since 2005!!

[@jeffogola9726]

Thanks for the great advice coach. Sometimes walking away is only option when dealing with bad family members.

[@jbenn9877]

Jeff Ogola Amen!

[@ianmugodo935]

are you kenyan by any chance? read my comment above you?

[@lower_than_furries9727]

It is true, sadly. As much as I tried to "fix everything" in my family, I ended up getting away from them and came to accept that some people really is beyond help, I was so fed up. It was one of the best decision I made in my life.

[@lilac624]

I hope I can break away from my abuser......

[@DragoHGaming]

@@lilac624 i also have abuser too, my dad

[@chuckyobsession1822]

I just cut ties with my emotionally,verbally, abusive / racist father today. I'm just waiting to move into my new apartment this Thursday. Then I'm going to cut ties with my controlling / toxic mother next. I already cut ties with my older sister a few years ago. I'm sure after I cut ties with my mother as well. I will be a much HAPPIER person & feel so much better as a person as well. Great advice for anyone else who is in the same situation. Great advice in this video. : 3

[@775.-]

Tsundere Zarbon same situation but its about money dude.. i cant move out because no money

[@knightsolaire811]

hey i am in a very similar situation to you, wondering how did things turn out for you are you happier and also what age did you move out at?

[@TrungPham-lu4yg]

I wish I can move out too

[@malas.7276]

They never loved me or supported me. This haunts me everyday.

[@TrungPham-lu4yg]

Be calm and focus on what you're doing man, God will have his way

[@brahmabkitty03]

This almost brought me to tears bc I've felt like this. Family members who loved me like my father, grandparents, Aunts and Uncles died and I'm left with a lot of mean spirited family members. They are not supportive of me and they've made me feel alone. I'm working through it though. I think they're jealous bc I'm positive, happy with my life and they're not happy with their's. I wish them the best but I'm moving forward. I don't like it that others are going through this too but we'll be okay. God bless.

[@iBOXRIVER]

Time to cut them off for good.

[@paulbarnes755]

iBOXRIVER Well said!

[@lyfsux2]

Hi Tanyale, I'm right with you. My sister and father passed away 3 years to back in Feb of this year. Now all my brothers are fighting with each other. Two brothers don't talk to my younger and now I'm having a hard time getting to my younger brother as well. My older doesn't talk to the two brothers that don't get along with younger brother. So as you my dear I can't stand it. I am at the point of telling all them to look for their own place. It's a long story. Hope you keep your chin up. Pray a lot, it does help calm the nerves down. They're only going to drive you insane. Live your own life, make a new family of your own and start your new life from there. Hope this helps.

[@mzhotniz86]

My family leaves me out of EVERYTHING

[@_KingofKingss]

Nobody understands what you’re saying until they go through it themselves. But it’s so true

[@chevken1831]

Family is literally a JOKE.

[@paulwright4092]

My family doesn't get along either . Best to make a way for unconditional love in your personal life . Find those people

[@redbeardkarim1761]

Sorry to hear about your mothers' last words - keep up the good work!

[@macioluko9484]

Wow! How strong is the Coach? 6 years later he’s still going strong.

[@soioioioioioio34]

sounds like a crazy lady

[@emchung7099]

Friends are way better than family

[@ketevani6437]

It's because you choose friends but you don't choose family

[@Scriabin_fan]

100 percent

[@franchi8601]

Not all friends are trusting and encouraging, some friends are jealous of other's success

[@TrungPham-lu4yg]

I agree, I know my friends more than knowing what is my sister's name

[@iamandi2011]

Yes they are better then family's because family's are just controling what we do right????

[@BD-to6md]

I have lived the first part of my life with a very sick and, at times, vicious family. I had to divorce them when I was in my mid twenties. At fifty four, I can attest to this: It was the right thing to do. It took a while to really sever ties, but it was the only solution. I'm a committed Christian, and I understand there are some people you must not be near. It's a matter of your wellbeing and sanity. Although we're to imitate Christ and love others, we're not to let them destroy and abuse us. We're to love our enemies, but not help them with their evil against us.

[@insanegamer4532]

"We're to love our enemies" dude are you stupid 😂😂

[@JohnSmith-ks5xw]

Thank you.

[@velipyr]

"i brought you into this world!" i know thats why im fucking pissed.

[@Excsta]

Nafin C I couldn't agree with you more.

[@asseater_9370]

My mother’s favorite phrase. To which she always followed with “and I can take you out!”

[@blankearth5840]

Your family is supposed to love you unconditionally. If they don’t, it’s not your fault. It’s because they don’t love themselves unconditionally. If they will only love and support you if it benefits them, walk away and move forward. Seek friends and supportive people that will love you without strings attached

[@JardineFlower]

@blankearth5840 Idk why, but your comment just really hit me hard! It is about unconditional love, isn't it? Thank you!

[@GuitarMatt]

​@@JardineFlower"Unconditional love" is a DISNEY fantasy, by the way! Stop watching Nickelodeon!! I grew and that's a fantasy (by the way for a lot of people who are above average in a lot of ways). When the rubber doesn't meet the road, listen to Corey here. Here I am back at this video 4 years later wishing I had listened to him. . I'm going to make that final tweak I have to make because this guy has the RIGHT advice here

[@JardineFlower]

@@blankearth5840 thank you ❤️

[@8656737s]

Thank you this is true I've been cutting myself off from my family slowly. They make me feel horrible!

[@muhammadhaiqal8925]

🙆🏻‍♂️

[@bluediamondrose8605]

You're a real life coach. Thank you for everything you do. Walking away from a toxic distant family is the right thing to do. I've done it for years. It's never been better.

[@IK-ei3nu]

I grew up in an emotionally distant, neglectful, abusive household. My mom was murdered at 16, so I went on to live with grandparents... By living with them, I understood why my mother was mentally unstable and narcissistic. I feel for her and Im glad finally I have realized all this so I can break the mold. However, I am deeply saddened by the lack of support they have towards me. I’m the only woman out of 6 grandchildren, and I’ve always been treated differently. I’ve had some problems understanding if this is due to machismo in Mexican culture or misogyny in my family, or maybe just being the eldest. But I’ve always been treated differently than men - not in a protective way, but in a disgustingly judgmental and cruel manner... unless they need money or a ride from me... Truth of the matter is, I’ve always been the black sheep. I have accomplished a couple of nice things like an associates in business, a certificate in phlebotomy, I’m a certified pharmacy technician, and I am now working in healthcare administration as a supervisor. But my family still views me like trash, even in spite of how much I’ve grown as a person in a positive way... I’ve always had to live with judgement and dismissal. My brother and cousin got DUIs TWICE & they were bailed out right away. When I had a mental health crisis, I was in an inpatient long term services clinic. I didn’t get a visit or a call from family other than my boyfriend. No one asked when I was out if I was okay or offered a hug at least. It crushed my soul that no matter how much I give of me, I am just used and disposed like a used tissue paper... but I walked out today. Because I’ve tried giving them many chances to love me the way I love them, and they couldn’t meet me halfway. I had to break the mold of victim mentality, settling for less, and being a negative thinker. I can’t wait to get my shit together stable enough as to where I can go back to school for my bachelors and eventually leave the city. But shit, I am now 27 and my childhood still hurts deeply. I sometimes drown and pray to god to give me strength and resilience to make it thru, because at times it feels like I’ll relapse in depression but I continue fighting. Man, all I ever wanted was my aunt or grandma to give me a hug at least. For some reason they are just constantly trying to pull me down and crush me like if I were their competition. I think I’ve offended them by not deciding to settle.

[@johnq4520]

Loving yourself is the best way to go.

[@gjimenez155]

I feel you on this one! I have sisters who are mean and are manipulating my mother to see things through their eyes & alienating me. I’m close to 40 my sisters are 37 & 33 but they act like the mean girls “oh we like each other, not you or you’re included but not you” type of thing which is childish to this point. I told them they are segregating within a family circle. I’m not talking to my sisters nor mother because according to them I should be more mature & put up with all their BS. They get mad when I call them out & say I have a strong attitude. Which I admit I do with them because I resist to be treated unfairly. Nobody is nice when they feel threatened. If I don’t stand for myself who will??? My sister currently did not invite me to her daughter’s bday because she didn’t want my energy there. All my family witnessed to this and have to stay quiet. I just recently heard a saying of MLK he, “in the end, we will remember not the words of our enemies, but the silence of our friends!” I’m very disappointed at my family. All I want to do even if it hursts me, is stay away from them.

[@pucie_boi]

I married into a Mexican family 6 years ago and they still talk shit about me even though all the shit they talk is fake news they created out of thin air. I've never seen anything like it in my life, but this is completely normal Mexican culture it took me awhile to get used to. I'm also much more successful and educated than every single one of them (I have a masters degree in software engineering and make $170k in San Antonio TX). My philosophy... I keep my distance except for the mandatory family events, and I ignore all the crazy shit they have to say about me... the crazier it is... the more I laugh about how crazy they are

[@coveragegames1954]

My family is super negative and it's really starting to get to me... Sadly I'm not financially available to leave the house as yet so I have nothing to do but just sit their and hear negative lies all day... Lovely isn't it?

[@TrungPham-lu4yg]

Don't worry man, just keep focusing on what you're doing and God will do what he has to do

[@SharlenesJourney]

🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾 any update I’m going through the same at 25 😔😔 my family is holding me back I need help badly

[@moonlightstargem1006]

This is the worst time to live a life like this because they are talking on youtube and people are saying no companies are hiring people. Like they are deliberately choosing to not hire people! No stranger is nice to me and i got sexually harassed just yesterday and i’m afraid to go outside & i’m afraid to be in the open part of my house. I have to lock myself in my room & avoid my own family because they are so insensitive & fucking evil

[@j.rebekah8605]

Make your room your sanctuary! People will tell you just move out but we all aren't able to do that! Good luck.

[@summerjoy8138]

On point. I'm dealing with narrcissist. I need to watch this everyday .to remind me to block and delete them out my life.

[@ericresterio8046]

my family never support me on what I want to do

[@jimmyle3757]

Eric Resterio same

[@myyoutube7277]

Same

[@gabibraun441]

Eric Resterio ik how that feels

[@ketevani6437]

Same

[@youtuberfan364]

Same

[@pandaxxgamming2761]

i taught i was the only one in this bs. thank so much for this . needed it

[@Africangyal]

You're not the only one. I suffer through this every day

[@pandaxxgamming2761]

Kaki same uh you have like a email or something maybe we can talk to no feel alone

[@sunflowercherries7330]

All my life no matter where I work my mother will start telling me to get a better job about a week later. Right now she's trying to get me to pick a low paying job when I'm gunning for a $18 an hour one. I just quit taking her and my family's calls. I'm sick of that shit. I'm almost 25 and they treat me like I'm a moron and can't make a choice when in reality I know what I want and they are the one's screwing around wasting money and time.

[@Madman-sc1zl]

I swear when I'm 18 I'm leaving for good I'm not coming back for holidays or nothing

[@youtuberfan364]

Madman730 0 same

[@syedmammar1]

Lots of respect for you. Dealing with a psychotic mom myself, for the longest time. Best video so far.

[@beronicamendez7678]

my familly hates me and treat me like im nothing

[@railfangraham4182]

jacob mendez same 😦😭😢

[@pjacob2010]

jacob mendez don't be around them period.Its tough to do,fuck their opinions. it's best for your personal growth,success and wellbeing.

[@sohoyankee66]

Don't believe them. Their the one who has a problem relating to other people around them. Please please don't believe them. They're the ones with the issues. Not you. Do everything to get away from them as soon as possible. Go to school, join the military; do something. You are something and you know that you are. That's why you here be here trying to figure it all out. Just know when you have your family, what not to do.

[@Ralph1826]

Welcome to the club. But at least your not alone friend

[@jimmyle3757]

jacob mendez same

[@Gravitywalker20]

I turned 39 today, and I finally broke off all contact from my toxic family over a year ago. Best decision of my life! Peace, quiet, and freedom now! I am in full control. My "father" is a pot smoking covert narcissist. "Mother" is an alcoholic borderline. They've been divorced for almost 25 years because of adultery, and kept that a secret from me all that time. Both have rotten attitude problems. Have no respect for my boundaries. Have locked me and my two younger siblings into outgrown childhood roles. Yet, it's one giant scooby-doo mystery as to why I no longer speak to them after all the years of their abuse. I see now why the mental health industry is alive and well.

[@areuarealman7269]

Gen x is a trip but I see uwere raised by the losers I went too school with so I can't say shit ...no kids though I dodged many bullets it gets better but only in little bitty pieces .

[@rosiegonzalez7746]

My family has guilted me into staying in the home for a few years now. I was always told you don't turn your back from blood but damn, every individual has to look out for themselves. Thank you for this message.

[@TrungPham-lu4yg]

It doesn't take blood to create a family, it takes heart

[@infinisourced]

"Blood" is used as manipulation. Let that go. Abuse is abuse. What kind of human are they? They have nothing to do with your destiny from here on out.

[@LuisSanchez-cq5gl]

I’m 19 my family is overly protective and I know most ppl say is only bc they love me, but just imagine trying to go out and see the world only to be told you can’t bc it’s not safe. Imagine seeing all ur friends have fun but can’t join bc it’s not safe. How do u expect me to be greatful when my life is slipping away life is not just meant to spent all working or at school but my family only wants me to do that.

[@dana_shayy]

I don't hate my family...i just want freedom😞👏

[@mariamalnuaimi7419]

Dana Donigan exactly!! I want freedom.. I want to live my life like normal people 💔 I want to meet my friends and have fun with them 😭💔 I don't understand why they avoid that

[@dana_shayy]

maryoom .m Rightt..theyre too over protective😂

[@jimmyle3757]

Dana Donigan u are sexy I agree with what you said

[@sunshines4555]

Well mine made me hate them.

[@felipediogenes9152]

i want freedom as well

[@danielbudik2694]

I hate my family so much, being around them makes me so miserable and angry. I want to move out so badly and never see them again

[@phillyfan-182]

I needed to hear this!!!! My family is less than supportive of me. I am the middle child in my family and everybody put my younger brother on a pedastal and raised it sky high. I'm a 21 year old man and I'm gonna graduate community college next month and transfer to a 4 year school. The most support I get from anyone in my family is my mom! My dad is a douchebag, my older brother is okay. It's obvious that it's time for new friends in my life. After getting rid of all the toxic friends outta my life, I've cleared up lots of room in my life for new friends to come in and manifest. So I'm in a similar situation like this guy is in. Over the years my dad and my younger brother have undermineded my achievements over the years. Here are some of the shitty things that my dad has said to me "the less you say the better" "nobody wants to hear you talk" "you say a whole lot by saying very little", etc... i plan on getting a job this summer to make some money, to pay for a car and other things. My mom is neurotic and paranoid too!!! I've got it figured out at this point.

[@phillyfan-182]

+karla lastra better now since I'm at a 4 year school and living on campus. Even when I come home every now and then I still have issues with my family. They damaged me psychologically giving me this fucked up model of the world where people are gonna be assholes to me. Family isn't that important to me and I don't say that lightly. Plus my mom is tired of me saying how family is not that important. I'm like whatever

[@phillyfan-182]

thanks karla, i don't talk to my dad and younger brother and it has created this aura of awkwardness, uncertainty and anxiety in my household. I can't have a conversation with anybody in my family and it doesn't go anywhere. Especially when we go out to dinner and I see other people being jocular and jovial with each other and I can't be that way with my family

[@flowgo5299]

my parents were both narcissistic, they literally destroyed my brother and I was alcoholic because of them. I have been sober for decades and I am 50 and I still do not talk to my father. I mean I do see him, I do talk to him at family occasions, things like pass the salt please. I think now as he is a old man, he has some guilt, but not enough in my opinion. My mother is still neurotic, but at least she has moments she can SEEM kind. But my family is fucked up and I will be trying to recover from the first horrible 18 years of my life with them and my narcissistic family and siblings. I was the scapegoat obviously. they are idiotic

[@cabaas7956]

My family is probably the worst. Just now my Brother was punching me non stop for no reason. My mom came over stopped him and told me off. FOR NO REASON!!!

[@briannasantos2249]

The.First .Gamer me too 😒

[@hollywoodharriet13]

You're the scapegoat. It's easier for her to tell you off than the bully brother who would be harder to deal with.

[@xoagames3010]

My brother threatened to punch me in the face yesterday and my mom doesn’t know. It’s not like she would care anyway. She hates me :D

[@chibi1353]

Even if my mom knows that the brother is at fault,she'll take out anger on me

[@VeronicaDynamite]

This was eye- opening for me! I'm currently sitting in a hotel room now because of a huge STUPID argument my horrible, fucking miserable mother created off of a text! I've been my mom's personal emotional punching bag all my life and it stops NOW. THANK GOD I have a great job (that she's envious of because she can't understand why I make WAY more than her... because I'm fucking SMART, damn it! lol). And you just confirmed what I was going to do in the first place: Walk away from fucktard family and NEVER look back. I come from a place where there are generations of abuse and despair and I refuse to continue the cycle. I have the resources to figure it out and damn it that is my goal! I'm not trying to be an angry, miserable woman like my mother. THANK you for this video. I'm confirmed in my decision. Salute to you, sir!

[@D.Anderson]

VeronicaDynamite my parents passed Mom 08 Dad 12. I went thru a separation divorce my family couldnt wait to see me go thru. I lived in a hotel for 11 months accepted a better job got a home a new car lost 22lbs but most of all cutting family&friends off was the best thing I ever did! cut off all contact.

[@Africangyal]

What do you suggest for a person going through it who doesn't have the resources?

[@nelanbenjamin529]

VeronicaDynamite chill dont hate your mother, but dont deal with her crap.

[@kcidd12]

to the guy that emailed corey: dude pleeeeease watch the video about corey wayne how to get a job...i just got my new job 4 weeks ago and it''s in my field of study... i promise you that his video will help you..can't wait to write my thank you letter to corey to tell him how much I've learned just by watching his videos and reading his book.. but I'm waiting because there is sooooo much to talk about.

[@jonathanwade3882]

My family always worries about me cutting them off and choosing my gf and her family over the, but sooner they’ll finally figure out why. It takes them years to 😒

[@philxavi9193]

THE COACH IS THE MAN

[@annalaura74158]

I'm so frustrated. My family sucks. I feel so bad because I can't stand being around them. Due to the pandemic, I'm stuck at my parents' place and it sucks! I'm so miserable. I can't find a job. I want to move out and I haven't been able to do it. I'm so emotionally damaged. I need help.

[@rippinaroundeverywhere9249]

Me to

[@mr.orange2179]

How about family that would leave you stranded out in the street? Or family that tries to use you? The only good family member that I have is my mother.....

[@siekogeorge]

Thank you coach. Your videos have inspired me to do so much with my life. I’ll never stop watching your videos and re-reading your books.

[@cuddles7254]

I have my own family. My wife and two kids. I love them and life is great with them. My problem is with my sisters and brothers and mom and dad. I don't know exactly how to describe it, only that I know for a fact that each one of these people in my extended family likes to create problems to cause pain or manufacture a situation. My mother is a key player. She sows the problems. Kind of like a triangulation. My sister, even though she is aware of this will go along with my mom, will gang up on me and not care. while when my mom tries to manipulate me to gang up on her I just avoid them all. I'm at a point where I don't wan t to deal with them.

[@sohoyankee66]

I walked away from a similar situation years ago. It was one thing having to endure it, but I sure as hell wasn't going to expose my kids to that nonsense.

[@rainbowbutterfly8664]

My family sucks they always make everything about themselfs and bringing me down in the prosses.

[@soioioioioioio34]

Sounds like you have a boomer infestation

[@paulwright4092]

My family is absolute throw away material . I don't mind cutting contact with them entirely

[@Megan6772]

Corey Wayne, you seem like such a naturally happy, well adjusted man. I was shocked to hear about your mom. Good on you for rising above with such a positive attitude and look at all the good work you're doing. Big hug to you 💓

[@maramadawson6917]

God you have validated my whole situation. With laughs even. Thank you! Feeling so much better. I like your strong sense of self. It is contagious!

[@robiness5344]

My mom is a narc that smeared my name throughout the family now no one talks to me…BLOCKED FOREVER!

[@rachaelmahoney9980]

I can relate so much to this video! I’m leaving behind every person who doesn’t treat me right and speaks negatively!

[@rippinaroundeverywhere9249]

Same here, done and moving on..

[@ohskunt1]

if you see demons and spirits it doesn't mean your nuts... it means your gifted to be spiritual

[@FM-by1bg]

jimmy chungah Ha ha, that's the first! Oh man thank you for saying that. I laughed and cried at he same time. I have been called crazy all my life and everything I do is fucked up.

[@queenbarbee902]

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[@queenbarbee902]

Yeah and he doesn't even talk about what happened to his poor mother and why does she end up being bipolar schizophrenic or whatever? And what did he do to help her or even attempt to help her IDK and my question is did he break the cycle is he also doing what she used to do and just hiding it or what does he have a family

[@alexisbellydance]

Thank you. I needed this video.

[@shxxbi]

I want to be successful so that i can move away from these people

[@melaniecerrone388]

Try reading "Dealing with Difficult People" by Ken Pierce. Understanding yourself and Understanding other people will help most people. Most relationships suck due to a lack of understanding and too much assumption about the other person.

[@larryspeaks]

I love this man. I felt his love and self respect. He is the real deal. Thank you

[@goldpyramidsfoodtravelvlog7984]

Watching your videos over the years has helped me find happiness 🙂

[@johndara8619]

Thank you so much for this video. Finding love within my self has been the hardest obstacle but I do manage myself accordingly. Holidays are the worst but I do focus on the good and great. Again much love

[@cloudie8314]

I made sure to do shit different w my children. I talk to them, I listen to them and I don't judge them. I respect their views and I make them feel welcomed in their own home💞

[@緑-k8d]

"just fucking get a job" is literally the best piece of advice i've ever heard 😂

[@JardineFlower]

I literally go out of my way to show love and compassion to my family, and they treat me like the black sheep. Even when my mom died, my sisters didn't include me with preparations. I'm on a spiritual quest for enlightenment and am in recovery for many years. IDK why it's so important to me, but it is. I have taken on the responsibility for caring for my 90 year old dad (my choice) and I get no thanks whatsoever. I've had it.

[@joanneng9145]

Thank you for taking care of your dad. Be happy 😊

[@rippinaroundeverywhere9249]

Same exact situation...

[@allheartandsong]

I'm in the same boat. I am so sorry you deal with this. You definitely don't deserve it so find people who do deserve your compassion and kindness.

[@dorfriedman9115]

Thank you so much for a this shot of sanity I am very a like the guy that wrote the email

[@jasmineneven9432]

So true. We don’t choose our family but we can choose our freedom

[@Greenfield5150]

My family are all losers. I left them years ago other than the mandatory holidays. Now my Mom is getting older and needs my help because she'd made poor decisions her whole life. But according to them my mom and other family members I'm a piece of shit because I have a decent home, new vehicles and a 10 year old Porsche. I catch myself defending it. But I shouldn't have to. I just try to stay away as much as I can. BTW they have no idea how hard I've worked to just to have a couple nice things. They always tell me that I am "lucky." I assure you after a couple failed marriages luck has had nothing to do with it.

[@IK-ei3nu]

John Greenfield thanks for sharing, gives me some hope for the future.

[@natckwan]

John Greenfield What do they mean by “luck” did they think that a house, car, and income randomly appeared in front of you one day. That takes time, money, and effort rather than sitting on their asses all day complaining and thinking that will change anything. How delusional.

[@TrungPham-lu4yg]

Smart people don't hang out with stupid losers because losers have their own language that only they can understand

[@shadowtitan4633]

My family is the worst they are worst than a criminal but my friends help me out and I decided to leave and that is one of the most relieving moment of my life so if you have a great family treasure it cause many people don't have that kind of family.

[@thebosstikas2484]

ShadowTitan my are worst

[@starzintheskyz4477]

I think its really sad when the only time a family member says they're proud of you is only when someone makes money. It shows that love isn't based on character. The love is only based around the financial aspect of a person. That is also called a superficial narcissistic superiority way of thinking. That's not what real love is.

[@UBERSTRIKE1]

My family blames me for everything. From kids cussing to being "the asshole." I rarely spend time with any of my family, but they love to point their fingers at me. I have a mother that moved herself in to my house and now I am absolutely stuck. I cant leave family hurting, but this shit is killing me. You can imagine how my life is going with my mother living with me and my family hating me (which i barely know any of them). This is getting to the point of ending it all and just leaving it all to charity.

[@Mopores_agency]

Agent541 KZbin the simple answer is that they're jealous. Keep your head up!

[@jimmyle3757]

Agent541 KZbin same

[@jimmyle3757]

M A yea I can't cause my dad I have to make alot of money

[@pamesws]

Hello coach, I'm 18 years old and my family sucks. My parents bully me since I was little, they always say that I was adopted and that they find me in the trash (know that is hard to believe it, maybe they treat me like that because my mom was a teenage mom). And my sisters always make fun of me because I try to kill myself once. I'm tired, because they don't like my friends and they always criticize them when they're in my house. I just can't. I hate my family.

[@mahmoudasd4207]

Hi don't listen to them . if you live with your family do not share anything with them . do not share your thinking ,idea,dream or even anything in your day . just hi mom . nice breakfast and good night . and do not make a conversation with her i she is angry with you give her a big :) and live your life find a passion . new friends . wake up every day with hope and go away from every thing and person how makes you sad . hope this will help

[@omaralawneh9722]

Pamela Romo same here

[@pjacob2010]

Pamela Romo Get out of the house and move out on your own if you haven't already you will feel much better.Dont hang out with ppl that don't support you,why be around that and don't let people make you feel guilty.

[@sohoyankee66]

Get out of the house as soon as possible. You can't change those people. Go away to school, join the military, do something. Just get away from them.

[@crosscountryrunner8241]

Can’t wait to just move out and leave this shitshow behind, can’t stand all of this emotional abuse any more

[@Omega13_channel]

Corey, that is terrible what happened to you. No one deserves that abuse, especially from his own family. I had a similar experience with a family member. I completely cut all ties for six years. During these six years I rebuilt the life that she had a big hand in destroying, and I rose above it and became very successful. Then I was told that she was dying and she wanted to see me. I struggled for weeks whether I should go. I decided to see her and we reconciled for the most part. She never apologized for what she did, though. But I took the high road. So I guess what I'm saying is that you did the right thing for yourself and you rid yourself of a toxic environment. Sometimes that's what has to be done to save your own life. Kudos to you for rising above it all.

[@TIMEPASS-lw9xd]

My family my relatives sucks

[@danielletripkoff4199]

So do mine and I cut contact with alot of them.

[@TrungPham-lu4yg]

Remember you may be born in the wrong family but you can choose to die with the right one. Create a new family for yourself and be happy with them

[@Jashuapro1]

Thanks for this video, Coach Corey. I've learned there's nothing I can do to garner support from my parents. No matter how high I go, they want me to go farther. I am now so disinterested in their opinions of me, and I keep my distance for as long as I can. It's sad, because I am an only child and they are in their 70's and will soon need my help. I don't get the pride/spite/Narc behavior. I am at my "best " when I stay away. They only make me fight harder.

[@cum8410]

I hate my family

[@bobbyjohnson4002]

:(:(:(

[@rachelkeyte1002]

It seems like I’m never ever good enough for my family. Thanks very much for the video.

[@bigcam34woods92]

Parents always try to live vicariously through their kids. Even the best parents will to some extent transpose on their kids

[@lukehart1500]

What I don’t understand, is that.. I feel my parents were loving but as I’ve gotten older, l feel like my family was disfinctional, l feel insecure, have low self-esteem, I’m shy.. so maybe there’s something I’m missing

[@ArchieMakuwa]

This is really legit... When you're going through this crappy way of life you'll assume you're alone. It's good to see all of you and the changes you're about to make in your lives. He's to focusing on US and distancing ourselves from all these negative family members.

[@gastreet3348]

Omg you just helped me...I am a changed person now. I can see myself doing better in the future...my family made me feel like its been me when I knew its them, they don't want to be helped. Im moving on.Thank You!!!

[@YoDudeFluff]

My family only gets together when someone dies, the worst thing my mother ever said to me was that “ I should of had a abortion like the doctor said “. Gave me up to the system she could deal with the disabilities I had.

[@christopherarmstrong2710]

Sorry to hear about your mom Corey...that's sad and unfortunate. Thanks for sharing your story.

[@soioioioioioio34]

I guess but its normal in America. American woman hate their sons

[@DJRick313rd]

Coach, thanks for sharing. The problem with getting any job is, the workplace is also dysfunctional, and other people are constantly dumping their problems on you. Not to mention, the money may never be enough to meet the rent pay. I lived with roommates for 4 years, and it was horribly dysfunctional. Anyway, the bottom-line is, the job pay has to be lucrative enough, otherwise you'll end up back on the street (and that is the worst place to be). My advice is focus on jobs that offer a livable salary, and pursue a business of your liking.

[@DJRick313rd]

+Rick Ford To add to this, the easiest type of job to get into is Sales that offer a doable base salary, and most don't require a college degree. Jobs like restaurant, factories, delivery, are very toxic, and they amount to quiet desperation. Sales offer at least a room for growth, and it will help you laugh the negatives off.

[@bluepacman13]

@@DJRick313rd The system is set up this way on purpose, the system doesn't want people to be independent and free, but locked into an endless labor cycle that won't make ends meet, or barely just scrap by WITH another income involved. Talking California ofcourse..

[@gracemama1987]

I am so sorry to hear that how your mom treated you and your brother... mother should be loving and nurturing.

[@lostjunglist8704]

Dude your fucking awesome! I fucking love the way you explain shit. I totally get everything your saying. Thanks for the video, it helps me see what I need to see. I have a really shitty family, I'm adopted and I've always been an outcast. I try not to let their bullshit get to me but sometimes I can't help it. They get the best of me. I'm working on trying to fight for my existence and actually be happy with who I am in this world. I loved the curse words...That was what got my attention and I watched the whole thing! I'm a subscriber now! You rock!

[@stellasplendida7857]

Wow. So glad I found this. I left home at 17. The family members that were positive people in my life passed away. My grandparents, great aunties & uncles. My sister too. I tried for so long to be friends with my mother. My mother is very critical of me, my life, the way I look etc. My father is very distant and makes excuses for her. I finally broke off communication 6 years ago, I'm 47. My mother has made it impossible for me to have any other relationships with any other family members via lies and gossip. So everyone in my family thinks I am some freeloading bitch that looks for men to take care of me. The truth is, I have been very poor and even homeless a couple of times. She also tells people that I have had plastic surgery and that I am anorexic. I cannot afford either of these habits. I am very happy to have found my husband 6 years ago. It was the inventive for me to cut her off.

[@essencewilliams3308]

Thank you your words and advice are about to save my life.💖🤞💖👌

[@Kerrviii]

Essence Williams same 💜

[@HeatherEgan-mc1ed]

My family stole my coin collection that I saved up for 17 years. After that I was told that "Sorry life sucks". I thank you for putting out this video. My family was going to bring my full books of coins when they moved. So I got a call in June saying that my collection was sold. Yeahhhh. So the police put down the value of $500,000. I hope they can one day find peace with this.❤

[@denisegaskin7641]

That is how my family is and they won’t let me have any fun when I want to and that’s why I’m moving out in July!

[@MrVman202]

me and this guy must be brothers cause I have a mom who acts the same way. I'm soon to be 22 and she didn't tell me no harsh death words. I know us guys who watched this video. we want t to be alpha males and just live a happy successful lives and our journey will be tough as fuck BUT our character will be alpha and we will have an awesome girlfriend and job we love. I'm in a similar situation where I have to leave my family who is holding me back. but I have to embark this hard tough journey cause in the end it will pay off. I'm currently seeking a part time job. I must be sincerely happy with my life and live my dreams. HAVE TO. wish all the others A SUCCESSFUL HAPPY LIFESTYLE. this journey will be hard but we HAVE TO DO IT!

[@keepspace578]

Thanks, Corey. What do you do about parents and other family members who never contact you unless someone dies? Yet they expect you to celebrate birthdays and holidays with them. They never respected my boundaries growing up. If they say something disrespectful, they never apologize. How can I get over this?

[@suzannedawson4120]

Holy crap! That’s awful! I really hate hearing stuff like this about parents. Although my parents weren’t perfect I when I hear stuff like this, I’m incredibly grateful! Whoa! You too Corey! That sucks!

[@Acapellachick27]

💚 my heart goes out to you, you are very strong and have successfully gotten out of the vicious circle, it's stopped at you, best of wishes your way

[@user-ho8tl9wj7k]

My family always wished me bad luck in life, they didn't want to see my success.. they waste my time so much. I acted always tolerant to them, because it's my family.. but after a while I realised that it isn't worth to spend my time on them. I decided to work on myself and spend my time with people who has a positive, realistic, mindset.

[@muhammaddarwish1531]

i had a terrible family before i came to canada,it was a nightmare.I thought it would never get even worse, but i was wrong.The current family i live with is another is terror that tore me apart.i still remember the promise they gave me,"Chang,this is ur home from now""we will love you and care for you.You dont have to run from ur live anymore" It took me hard to finally see the promise is empty.

[@veronicablanco3752]

im sorry you went through that, you and the person who wrote the email to you. you are very strong....❤

[@soioioioioioio34]

Family and this country is garbage in general

[@fazenitro5510]

Thank you for being an inspiration in my life and helping me make the right choices for my future :)

[@Indigo_newness]

My whole family sux haven't seen my father and brother in 20 years haven't spoken to my other brother in over 5 years and my mother and stepfather are awful to me I've only experienced kindness from my friends and strangers...I do have my own family though great husband and 2 amazing kids so I'm blessed

[@theelfchannel]

The only time people try to act like they care about this world is when they market themselves. You need to peep that and surface ❤

[@tnaf4950]

if ur slightly above average.. all people around u.. ur job.. ur friends.. even ur family.. will begin to loathe u...

[@soioioioioioio34]

Oh yeah and if your parents are boomers be prepared to have your whole life destroyed by them while thanking them and treating them like the god's they are . Praise thine parents above all god's 🎉

[@albertfuentes9791]

Rip to your mother Thank you so much for the video I hope you and family and loveds ones are okay Ane happy

[@wendycordova8318]

I’ve experienced that same kind of abuse!! Thanks for sharing it’s very helpful

[@ericresterio8046]

I can't because I'm only 14 .. I'm not worth anything to my family .

[@myyoutube7277]

Eric Resterio same I'm 15

[@conormcnagger4703]

I was worth nothing to my family my whole life, I'm 28 now and just realized it a year ago. You make your own family, you aren't given a family. Stay in school and try to stay away from your family as much as possible. The main thing is stay in school and go to college so you don't need to depend on anyone.

[@TrungPham-lu4yg]

Same, man but try to study hard and be successful. If you can do that, you can move out and enjoy life and put the non-important things like your family out of your heads.

[@victoriac.attorneyatlaw]

My foo is the opposite, they are all co-dependent on their adult children. I cut the contact with head narc 6 years ago. She was abusive from the time I could walk --left at 15, became a lawyer later on, even then she still insulted me and never gave me any validation. No contact. I also have alcoholism in my family. It's wretched.