When Your U.K. Visa Expires... Dealing with Anxiety, Job Rejections + Planning For The Inevitable

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Chidera Peters

Chidera Peters

Күн бұрын

Hey, fam! so good to see you here. In this video, I share in detail what my experience was like dealing with a visa expiry and having to go back to Nigeria. I talk about the challenges, dealing with job rejections and things I did to help me transition to life in Nigeria after my UK student visa expired. Hopefully, this encourages someone.
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TIME STAMPS
0:00 Introduction
3:04 19th March 2021
7:31 Dealing with job rejections
9:14 Financial plan
10:48 Job plan and networking
11:41 Community
12:48 Personal branding and visibility
13:57 Prayers and guidance
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@Jaay2022
@Jaay2022 5 ай бұрын
First here ❤ I remember vividly
@ChideraPeters
@ChideraPeters 5 ай бұрын
Hiiiii! Welcome 🤗♥️♥️
@taiwoolugbile
@taiwoolugbile 5 ай бұрын
This brings back so many memories for me. I was in the US for 9 years and had to leave to Nigeria within 60-150 days after I lost my job on a work permit. And I was not going to marry for the papers. So I summoned all the faith and trust I had in God, and I can tell you that everything worked out perfectly. I got married to my primary school classmate, traveled to Canada for my Masters, finished and got a manager job in a government organization. Now waiting for my PR process to be completed by God’s grace.
@LearnWithJay-Reis
@LearnWithJay-Reis 4 ай бұрын
Men your story is deep oo
@theocobby5807
@theocobby5807 4 ай бұрын
Very touching😢, God is always at work 🙇‍♂️
@chibuzorhenryochu9967
@chibuzorhenryochu9967 5 ай бұрын
This was me in Spring of last year. Been applying for sponsorship jobs since 2021 January that I moved in as a student and every time UNFORTUNATELY 😢! My visa was to expire 31 May 2023 and as at 10th of May 2023, I didn’t know my left from my right. To even worsen it I had an academic setback that disqualified me from applying for the PSW which was the only option left. I became depressed 😔! Developed eating disorders ,put on a lot of weight and everyone who saw me thought I was healthy and doing alright without knowing what was going on with me. But on the 27th of same month, Chai 😢 God! I got a call from one of the numerous interviews I had in the past and that call changed my story! Now I’m relaxed in my good Skilled Worker job with long term stability. Worked on my shape and eating disorder and now back to my normal old self again. Abroad life especially when you are single no be joke ohhh. It’s always ONLY YOU,YOUR GOD and your Struggles . Chidera was right! IT DOES GET BETTER WITH TIME! Never stop believing! ❤❤
@Value357
@Value357 5 ай бұрын
I tap into this grace
@healtharena48
@healtharena48 5 ай бұрын
See grace at work... I tap into this for my family!!!
@Mojolaoluwa123
@Mojolaoluwa123 5 ай бұрын
Hiiii Chidera, I must first say that I am so happy and super proud of you. I remember I followed your journey back then and I just can’t imagine how you were able to pull through that season, you have always been an inspiration and I know GOD is set to do a lot through you. Thank you so much for sharing this video and for being a blessing to so many people out there.❤️
@Prissy-vn8fk
@Prissy-vn8fk 5 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for sharing your experience with us. What a timely video. I'm very happy for you sister. Your name came through for you - Chidere indeed. Congratulations once more.
@dichaine
@dichaine 5 ай бұрын
Sending everyone going through this phase strength! 🤗 Like CP said, you will get through it.. Don’t wait until time is about to run out to pivot.. Apply violently try not to internalize the unfortunately!! No gree!!!!!!
@oshanesmith8847
@oshanesmith8847 4 ай бұрын
OMG, just looking at u now and then... I remember that video as watched it and many others. It's such blessing to see your progress and to see how God has kept u through it all... Keep the videos coming, love the story!!! ❤❤❤
@shalomojo4969
@shalomojo4969 5 ай бұрын
You are one of the realest persons I have known… The video came at the nick of time. Thanks a million for sharing your experience with us and encouraging us.❤
@ChideraPeters
@ChideraPeters 5 ай бұрын
Aww you’re welcome Shalom ♥️
@kvnnichiwa
@kvnnichiwa 5 ай бұрын
What a video of sheer honesty, you’re amazing!
@ChideraPeters
@ChideraPeters 5 ай бұрын
Thank you so much!
@Ericasmom
@Ericasmom 5 ай бұрын
Chidera, I understand the stress you have to go through it to really understand, I've been there God came through 🙏
@user-ef1mw4qe4t
@user-ef1mw4qe4t 5 ай бұрын
Thanks Dera, This video was timely! Can you please make a video on how to transition from what you study in school to a new field like what you did..❤
@freespirit3972
@freespirit3972 5 ай бұрын
It's been a long time coming, I remember that video vividly. Cheers to progress. 🥰
@ChideraPeters
@ChideraPeters 5 ай бұрын
Yesss cheers 🥂
@victoreleanya4375
@victoreleanya4375 8 күн бұрын
Thanks for sharing this. Currently experiencing this. It’s not been easy
@AliceArsenio675
@AliceArsenio675 5 ай бұрын
One of the best video in this channel ❤
@chinejoe4009
@chinejoe4009 5 ай бұрын
Thank you dear. Nice and encouraging content
@user-ry6lm1bb3l
@user-ry6lm1bb3l 5 ай бұрын
Thank you soo much Chidera you’ve been really helpful from day one .
@ChideraPeters
@ChideraPeters 5 ай бұрын
You are so welcome
@onyi__
@onyi__ 5 ай бұрын
God is amazing- your life is a testimony ❤️
@akiomoulu5899
@akiomoulu5899 5 ай бұрын
Thanks for sharing,this is very inspiring ❤
@FavourBabajamu
@FavourBabajamu 5 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for sharing your experience 🥹. God bless you
@ChideraPeters
@ChideraPeters 5 ай бұрын
You are so welcome
@nene_amacx
@nene_amacx 5 ай бұрын
Thanks for putting this out. Just thank you.
@ChideraPeters
@ChideraPeters 5 ай бұрын
My pleasure!
@bukolajanet8748
@bukolajanet8748 5 ай бұрын
I watched your videos then, i was in Nigeria and they really encouraged me
@ChideraPeters
@ChideraPeters 5 ай бұрын
Oh thank you
@obiomaeduvie
@obiomaeduvie 5 ай бұрын
You are amazing, honestly. It is well
@ChideraPeters
@ChideraPeters 5 ай бұрын
Yes it is well ✨✨
@jumokebabatope
@jumokebabatope 5 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing ❤
@mumu_6494
@mumu_6494 5 ай бұрын
God bless you and keep your family, this is so on time 😭
@ChideraPeters
@ChideraPeters 5 ай бұрын
Awww Amen and you’re welcome
@enohagofure
@enohagofure 5 ай бұрын
Thanks for sharing ❤
@gladyssakyiama3951
@gladyssakyiama3951 5 ай бұрын
Very encouraging.thanx Chi. Can you also please make a video on how you started your KZbin channel,how to monetize your KZbin and the ups and downs involved. Thank you
@LearnWithJay-Reis
@LearnWithJay-Reis 4 ай бұрын
Just buy a camera stand and a ring light and start doing videos don't waste time search and asking questions . JUST DO IT .
@bbylimbs4199
@bbylimbs4199 5 ай бұрын
Well said!
@onyi__
@onyi__ 5 ай бұрын
You should do a clothing haul😍your top looks really good on youu
@ChideraPeters
@ChideraPeters 5 ай бұрын
Aww thank you so much
@n-silverose6244
@n-silverose6244 5 ай бұрын
My dearooo is really discouraging at the end of the day na unfortunately but God pass them
@ChideraPeters
@ChideraPeters 5 ай бұрын
Yes just stay hopeful, it’ll all work out eventually
@xploredi3343
@xploredi3343 5 ай бұрын
Man!!! Life is not that serious ooo. If you are going back to Nigeria because your visa is expired, don’t break down. Let God be God!! I know it is easier said than done.. Cheer up and come up with plan B. I always say this, it mustn’t be the UK. If not for anything, the UK is living on past glory. Core brits are leaving and we Africans are crying because of what??? A stay! Phewwww
@chideralindy3737
@chideralindy3737 5 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for sharing this. Which community do you suggest or where can one find communities for jobs and career development
@Believer-ui2hx
@Believer-ui2hx 5 ай бұрын
This video is so timely, the process is tiring.
@judithekhagbai2543
@judithekhagbai2543 5 ай бұрын
This is me right now… God if not for me, for the sake of my kids do it for me 😢, my mental health has been deteriorating, with the constant unfortunately emails from job rejections. It is well. .
@ChideraPeters
@ChideraPeters 5 ай бұрын
I’m so sorry you’re going through this at the moment. I pray it gets lighter ✨
@judithekhagbai2543
@judithekhagbai2543 5 ай бұрын
@@ChideraPeters Amen 🙏, thank you.
@gbemispace9253
@gbemispace9253 5 ай бұрын
THANK YOU
@0j0chenemi
@0j0chenemi 5 ай бұрын
Thank you so much 🙏 where can i see communities to join
@diplomatdiplomat2800
@diplomatdiplomat2800 5 ай бұрын
Thanks for this encouragement. It looks like there's an issue with the other hand. Did you have an accident?
@ijeoj
@ijeoj 5 ай бұрын
She’s holding a mic. She has no issues with her hand. 😊
@chideragmarizu
@chideragmarizu 4 ай бұрын
When i was applying for the care worker role, i applied to over 400 jobs, a couple weee successful but I got my share of eejections that got me massively depressed. It was so tiring
@olamideoyeyemi9888
@olamideoyeyemi9888 5 ай бұрын
I like to ask this question please, at what time did you know you could come back to UK on his visa? 2. How did you feel when you knew and was it that time you put your all in the relationship? Thank you
@victorianwaneshi8895
@victorianwaneshi8895 5 ай бұрын
My love
@EmmanuelDom
@EmmanuelDom 5 ай бұрын
This was my life Jan 30th 2024where my leave to remain expired as a student. And I couldn’t apply for a PSW. My mental health was at -100. Go back to Nigeria? When I came here for greener pastures? Where do I start from when I get to Nigeria? That’s why I believe when you are in the uk, you need to be up to date with information and immigration advice.
@chibuzorhenryochu9967
@chibuzorhenryochu9967 5 ай бұрын
So did you become overstayer? How did you pull through?
@EmmanuelDom
@EmmanuelDom 5 ай бұрын
@@chibuzorhenryochu9967 applied for another type of visa
@hellenschannel9535
@hellenschannel9535 5 ай бұрын
​@EmmanuelDom What type of visa? Can you share please?
@emilojuomotola6361
@emilojuomotola6361 5 ай бұрын
​@@EmmanuelDomplease,what type of visa abeg share with us🙏🏿
@GbengaMalomo
@GbengaMalomo 5 ай бұрын
What type of visa can one apply for apart from psw
@afiaappiah9275
@afiaappiah9275 3 ай бұрын
Sis😭 I am in this season
@RUYINAETENGsMEDICDIARY
@RUYINAETENGsMEDICDIARY 5 ай бұрын
Almost 100 rejections? That will crush anyone's mental health!
@ChideraPeters
@ChideraPeters 5 ай бұрын
Yes and many international students actually experience worse 😰
@gistwithJemima
@gistwithJemima 5 ай бұрын
😢
@ifadablessingomouyi4077
@ifadablessingomouyi4077 5 ай бұрын
I experience nothing less than 15 rejections weekly. I am very optimistic it will get better
@RUYINAETENGsMEDICDIARY
@RUYINAETENGsMEDICDIARY 5 ай бұрын
@@ifadablessingomouyi4077 so sorry to know this. I've experienced same and it can have a dent on self esteem/mental health. I wish you all the best🙏
@estysheg5667
@estysheg5667 5 ай бұрын
I remember your journey..I was in naija then but I've been in uk now since 2022. The journey has not been easy but it gets better with time. I also love the fact that your hubby didn't reveal his status to you then..guess he wants to be sure of you
@ChideraPeters
@ChideraPeters 5 ай бұрын
lol yeah something like that. I guess he wanted to be sure I was in the relationship for real 😂 or maybe it just didn’t come up
@dupeshomorin7606
@dupeshomorin7606 5 ай бұрын
It's not easy
@Chinwe_
@Chinwe_ 5 ай бұрын
Please what is the name of the community you joined online when you went back to Nigeria
@Chi_Som
@Chi_Som 7 күн бұрын
Dropping a comment just to get notified if she answers
@tokeskitchen3830
@tokeskitchen3830 5 ай бұрын
Omg
@graciakinyanjui6937
@graciakinyanjui6937 5 ай бұрын
is post study visa still available..
@chichiduruamata5343
@chichiduruamata5343 5 ай бұрын
Yes, but they are looking at reviewing it to 1yr not sure though
@amandajones6557
@amandajones6557 5 ай бұрын
I really want to join a community. Help a Sister.
@user-yn1cz5sf8j
@user-yn1cz5sf8j 5 ай бұрын
Is it better to go back to Nigeria or rather just work illegally ?? Which one is better
@victoredwards3959
@victoredwards3959 5 ай бұрын
@user-yn1cz5sf8j . Staying in Uk as an illegal immigrant is not a good idea. Go back to Nigeria and find an alternative country to go to, if Nigeria is not for you . But remember as you get older, the more difficult it gets.
@starlizgold7339
@starlizgold7339 Ай бұрын
Trying to follow the story, but how were you dating a man for 4 months that you didnt know his settlement or visa status...hmmmm
@chiomaanaeze2535
@chiomaanaeze2535 5 ай бұрын
Thank you @chidera_peters for this video. This is the phase I am in and exactly how I am feeling. Job rejection depression is real😢
@ChideraPeters
@ChideraPeters 5 ай бұрын
Sending you BIG hugs 🤗
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