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[@cbodley4676]

Are you guys going to do a tribute video for Kevin Samuels?

[@AbaNPreach]

No. R.I.P.

[@encrypto_3607]

@@AbaNPreach :(

[@melissaleoncreolenola]

@@AbaNPreach I love you guys... I can't believe this guy ask that

[@MaxxwellPalone]

@@melissaleoncreolenola it was a reasonable question, with a reasonable answer

[@banecreeper1449]

what happened to him though ?

[@DicksonMaimouth]

“I want a guy to respect me for my mind, not my looks.” “He’s not what I expected him to look like. Pass.”

[@RasenRendanX]

This. Literally this.

[@noblegalifreyan4551]

Rules for thee not for me.

[@azo5000]

She needs some flip flops with her name on them with how hypocritical that was.

[@goodbye6676]

@B W then you can't expect someone to see past your looks if you can't

[@champ1159]

@@noblegalifreyan4551 thee

[@jinpharn]

I agree with what Aba said at the end, sometimes just saying no is better than dancing around the question

[@jayjaqwan9163]

Word up.

[@RasenRendanX]

Um um um um um um um

[@marlom7882]

It *is* always better

[@MuscularMontel]

I'm not interested in dating you >>>> I'm not dating at the moment

[@pit3bull360]

Always appreciate when women flat out rejects me with a no . Even though it sucks I respect the forwardness since not all ladies can do that .

[@bronxishomenomatterwhereig3149]

Sexual attraction is the line that separates platonic and romantic relationships. So anyone out here fronting talking about looks don't matter need to just stop the cap once and for all.

[@FlamingVaIIey]

I do believe it is the case, however I also think the circumstances for what brings sexual attraction can be more complex. For example, the exes I've kept in contact with as friends I was sexually attracted to at some point, we were great friends before the romantic relationship and that led to sexual attraction also increasing as a factor however when the relationship came to be and time passed I realized our personalities didn't really match well in a romantic relationship and so we agreed to go back to being friends. Since then I haven't been sexually attracted to them. So to me it really speaks loudly that every factor of a person is important when you want a relationship with them, both physical and intelectual attraction. Otherwise if you only act on lust you are basically just responding to your most primal urge to mate and reproduce, not the more elaborate construct of a relationship which we have come to build in our current society.

[@bronxishomenomatterwhereig3149]

@@FlamingVaIIey oh yeah I'm talking just attraction on a primal level. Also are you a man or woman? Because for us men. 9/10 times. Starting off as friends is just putting yourself in the friendzone.

[@FlamingVaIIey]

@@bronxishomenomatterwhereig3149 I'm a guy, I just don't go about chasing romantic relationships really. I enjoy making friends that are cool to hang around with and if they show interests then I usually reciprocate since I already enjoy their company to begin with. As you said tho physical attraction does play an important part so I am not just gonna reciprocate those feelings every time.

[@rationalcynic8416]

Agreed. An individuals personality and values are two very important aspects of attraction. But I would be lying if I said I wouldn't have to find the person attractive to be romantically involved with them. Sometimes, we may not find someone physically attractive at first, but I have found that our initial perceptions of an individuals physical attractiveness can improve or decline the longer we know them. I was assigned to work on a biology project in high school with the supposed "hottest" guy in school. Needless to say, the guy had the personality of a church waifer and the more I got to know him, the less I found him physically attractive.

[@2313rafa]

@@rationalcynic8416 fuck yes!! I be telling people this! Personality increases someone's physical attraction, at least to oneself. Small details, like someone's lips, hair, nose structure, smiles, the way they dress, or the way their eyes look in several directions becomes extremely heightened and evolves to attraction. The things that once went unnoticed are now in focus. It's actually a wonderful process!

[@MrSirFluffy]

Weird thing is that Codi ain't an bad looking dude, genuinely seems like a chill guy and looks decently handsome.

[@octopus4925]

Yeah like wtf, I would totally date him, I'd pick him over pretty much any other guy there.

[@oanamunteanu4744]

Yes, he is very cute 😍☺️🙈 I would date him but he is too Young for me😅

[@notbob6922]

​@Oana Munteanu you're never too old ;)

[@mikahs7944]

😂😂 date him then

[@Vampirita447]

Do you think that because you find him handsome, everyone will?

[@2345ronaldinho]

You can't blame someone for rejecting another based on their looks. What IS reprehensible is being hypocritical or lying about the importance of looks. Just stop virtue signalling and stop lying.

[@roderickclerk5904]

Who hurt u

[@clamchoder1386]

@@roderickclerk5904 why does challenging the hipocrocy of women make you a simp or it means you been hurt? Projecting much

[@silent_oh2577]

@@roderickclerk5904 you tried

[@teratoma.]

@@roderickclerk5904 i hope she sees this bro

[@360.Tapestry]

seems like if they got to know each other organically on a campus or in a neighborhood over a span of time, he could really win her over

[@MikeLitirous]

She saw him and thought “Oh DEFINITELY not” 😭. Physical attraction is vital above all else for most nowadays so blind dates aren’t all that practical

[@ihatebtskoreanmusicsucks8645]

yeah it comes to a point that you are better off alone.

[@SuperMurray2009]

But but but....LOOKS DON'T MATTER!!!

[@davewright7833]

rip Kevin Samuels 🙏🏼

[@panickysociety97]

yeah and people saying it doesn't are lying to themselves

[@noblegalifreyan4551]

Women cry about beauty standards but will hold beauty standards for men and not find it wrong

[@codysessions8896]

That was me in the video and this was a few years back on Jubilee. Jisu was approachable and respectful. Was a good experience to be apart of and had a lot of fun.

[@mertholomy8414]

That’s good

[@christianalexander6364]

You seem like a cool guy, hope you're doing well👍

[@PandaPower511]

Did you guys end up going on a date? Did you guys end up keepin in touch ?

[@NikhilShahi]

You did good. Did you go out on that date or did she ghost you?

[@rjgn4054]

dude i just saw you recent fight on your channel you're a monster what the heck that was rapid strikes

[@benj1b]

This is basically the whole premise of catfish. You can fall in love with someone if you think they're attractive, but as soon as you find out they're not. All that connection goes out the window. Which is the interesting thing about these dating sites now where you can filter everyone based on looks then decide later if you like their personality. People need to quit pretending looks and appearance doesn't matter. Now judging someone based on that is fucked up, but for a relationship, it's the foundation

[@bombomos]

Well catfish also has the lying element. If someone has lied to you about thier appearance for so long. What else have they lied about

[@stevenswitzer5154]

You missed the fact that no self-respecting person is going to move forward with a liar. You are under suspicion as a catfish

[@MikoDnst]

"People need to quit pretending that looks and appearance don't matter" Only women pretend that looks and appearance don't matter, and they do it to not look shallow and to keep their ability to gaslight society that they are 'deep evolved individuals', unlike men who are just horny dogs

[@ThatGirlfromBarbados]

Cody seems like a cool guy, hope that gym venture was successful.

[@RasenRendanX]

He's gonna kill it. You can tell he's driven

[@sid2daknee]

He was one of my muay thai instructors. Taught me a lot about fighting. Yes, he's very driven.

[@nihilistdurden5559]

Bruh he failed bigtime. He now works in some Starbucks copy called CelestialDollars. I'm sorry but that's the truth. I know him personally. On the bright side, he's the manager at the Cafe so he earns well

[@WoolTecMc]

@@RasenRendanX Reality is not that simple lol. Don't buy too much in to the entrepeneur selfhelp guru fantasy world. Sometimes things don't go the way you expect regardless of how much effort you put in. That's life Edit: Doesn't mean that you shouldn't follow your passion, on the contrary. But having unrealistic expectations can be really detrimental, when you enevitably face failures of difering severity

[@Go8997]

@@nihilistdurden5559 for real?

[@KOJOREADSANDPLAYSSPORTS]

I think this proves how looks matter and personality isn't everything.

[@thegamewin100]

Well duh of course looks matter personality just helps a little bit looks help a lot more just get fit you should be fine out there

[@dw3134]

Looks get you through the door, but personality will make or break relationships.

[@josephkim3542]

Blind dates r stupid cause it is MANDATORY that u are attracted to ur wife/husband. Anyone who says otherwise is delusional... Or 12

[@torymann4174]

Well its a proven facts ladies prefer fake ass bustas over real mofos apparently even well before i was even first thought about concieved...

[@angrybellsprout]

Not like dude was even ugly.

[@hado.uken_]

Our guy passed the "personality test" that women go on and on about to not sound shallow. Only to reject him almost instantly on sight. Moral of the story, looks are the baseline, everything else is a bonus.

[@BrokensoulRider]

tbh... i'd take him in a heartbeat. but I have low standards when it comes to looks because I know I'm no catch myself. XD

[@thatdude123]

@@BrokensoulRider Factssssssss!!!!

[@same.7939]

Preach!

[@l0veasia333]

@@BrokensoulRider same I know I'm a 6/10 but i feel good in my 6/10 and would never look for a 8 or 9/10

[@EmperorDxD]

@@BrokensoulRider really he looks like a cartoon why do you look down on yourself so much woman can actually do alot to become more attractive unlike men one is working out your face actually chnage and your body aswell but if your happy good for you

[@Mayfloweralways]

I do think that people don’t have to be models, but you do have to be attractive to someone for things to start. And everyone has their certain check boxes, but they’re all different. I might be attracted to someone, but another person might say “no way.” What isn’t for someone, is for someone else. But I think that attraction has to be there- that goes for men an women. It’s an almost primal thing that can’t be ignored.

[@GutsmanLoL]

It IS a primal thing that can't be ignored. The problem isn't that she chose looks over personality. The problem that most people have with this situation is that she (and many other women/people) present themselves as being above that, or that they're looking for personality, or that looks don't matter at all/ "im way deeper than that" etc etc. just be upfront and honest and stop trying to virtue signal and lie and pretend you're someone you're not.

[@nouua6513]

Couldn’t agree with you more on this one

[@hellno6617]

@@GutsmanLoL you first go for looks and stay for personality, someone could be a 10 and have a personality of a fish. At the same time even if you may like someone’s personality if you’re not at least a little bit physically attracted to them it won’t work.

[@redcobra1246]

"I don't like cocky guys" Chooses cocky guy "So sweet that he opened up" Chooses the other guy "I want a guy to respect me for who I am, not my looks" Says no based on looks. And this is why we men don't believe what women say or their advice when it comes to dating.

[@pathetic2399]

In truth, a lot of women dont know what they want lol

[@TheWunder]

hi incel

[@Ddx629]

@The One Hi white knight

[@Ddx629]

@The One I didn't realize that incel is defined as someone points out that a lot of women do one thing and say another when it comes to dating. But hey, keep feigning ignorance.

[@evoltaocao5078]

lol women, at best, don't know what they want since they don't have to. men really need to stop chasing and providing. women will only learn things and understand if they have to.

[@FloAfree]

Aba and Preach fake arguments are always hilarious. The vibes are the shit here. I love what yall do.

[@adio8824]

Some how you find a way to bring em up. You niggas are there advertising agencies.

[@AxxLAfriku]

You dislike the stuff that gets uploaded by my fingers clicking upload? Are you just a h8er boi? I say see you l8er, boi. Don't watch the stuff that gets uploaded by my fingers clicking upload anymore. Your dislikes are damaging my good good GOOD reputation. I am a superstar, dear flo

[@FloAfree]

@@AxxLAfriku who are you and why u in my thread trollin fam? Whatever tho, its the internet and while i have no idea what youre talkin about, u entitled to ur opinion and whatever ur comment is sayin😩

[@JustSomeRandomBurger]

@@FloAfree classic axxl he's been doing this for years lol

[@FloAfree]

@@JustSomeRandomBurger people like that need to get a life outside of the internet lol

[@alwayzhope4ever]

Being assertive is far more kind and much more likely to be appreciated than the whole “it’s not you, it’s me” act.

[@PrincessPowerUp]

ACT totally. but remember being 11yrs old and being told that this is how a lady is supposed to act. So, its more like re-education

[@jamesmcdougal2]

It's not me, it's you still works

[@alwayzhope4ever]

@@PrincessPowerUp for sure!

[@J0eMega]

I think the ladder is just a way to say “I’m rejecting you because you’re not my type, not because I find you ugly”.

[@coltonsmith3270]

@@J0eMega latter*, not "ladder".

[@milton7763]

Definitely the funniest part was that nerd describing himself as “uuuuuhmm I’m a sex symbol” Laughin’ my ass off

[@harrambou9468]

Her face and Preach’s reaction 😂😂

[@BlackDiamond2718]

If you are into the pervert then yes he is.

[@rmmm6725]

I don’t blame people for rejecting based on physical attraction. Don’t make excuses about it, fellas move on if it happens to you. Sticking around trying to “talk her into it” is pathetic and plays into woman’s narcissistic behavior

[@jhb1493]

This. The only power women have over you, is the power YOU GIVE THEM.

[@MastaOfMonkeyDisasta]

Ding ding ding, bingo, you give her an invitation and she rejects it, reject her immediately in return and never look back.

[@sixk8333]

Goes for both gender

[@sixk8333]

@@jhb1493 why yall be overanalyzing women like their test subjects

[@Zeus17x]

@@sixk8333 as a man you can’t just go into dating all willy-nilly and expect to succeed is all.

[@badguytalks6655]

“He had to learn boxing to beat up his foster parents” I swear I fvkn died 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@AstralxFayt]

I’m fucking crying 🤣🤣

[@black_swanN]

Had me double check if i heard what I've heard 😂

[@mokadelic4037]

Physical appearence is what is gonna make you laid, personality and character is what is gonna make the person stick around. Both are one side of the same coin.

[@noblegalifreyan4551]

No one will be with you if you start off ugly. Some are playing life like dark souls.

[@angrybellsprout]

Kinda hard to have them stick around when they never show up in the first place.

[@thatbasedfeliscatus577]

@@angrybellsprout hope you find happiness bro

[@Aliyaaaa]

Absolutely agree

[@drkhizzy7995]

@@noblegalifreyan4551 LOOL Gold!

[@TheMuseSway]

You're right, I learned this the hard way, me trying to say no tactfully has resulted in the guy thinking I still like him enough for him to think maybe later, down the road he may still have a chance in reality it's just no. At times, I have found just being callously blunt saves time and effort when I got zero attraction to a person. I hate the feeling of coming off like a bitch but.

[@JohnnyV.W]

That's so much better! I have a friend in that position... I don't have the heart to tell him that she is not attracted to him(i'll also get hate)... You know the classic trope "I'm not really ready for a relationship right now"

[@noblegalifreyan4551]

I'm glad you know how to weed out ugly people from the gene pool. Get em girl. Don't settle live your best life.

[@catiel8978]

Truth is brutal, but better than sweet lies.

[@elijahgavin6706]

@@JohnnyV.W there’s a difference between being blunt and going out of your way to emotionally wound someone. Being blunt is what a lot of guys, oblivious or otherwise, NEED from the women they’re pursuing who aren’t reciprocating their interest.

[@JohnnyV.W]

@@elijahgavin6706 Which is exactly the point in 'friendzoned' guys, is it not?

[@lch7876]

Also Cody had a Kanye moment, and said some deep ish. He said "I'm confident in myself, but i'm not confident that someone will pick me." In othe words people always say be confident and theyll like you. No if someone doesnt find you attractive no matter how confident you are they wont be attracted to you physically. Just move on.

[@benten1453]

Confidence can work If u have time to grow on the person (work, school, share the same friend group or hobbies) but in this case u have no shot because this is purely physical, for all the person knows it could be a fake persona.

[@missylarsson3517]

Confidence is being comfortable with yourself no matter if others find you attractive or not. Confident people are not scared to let their personality show and they don’t act all anxious for others to like them. Many people find confidence attractive but at the end of the day it’s not a guarantee of success. Just like taking a shower is not a guarantee but it definitely helps your chances.

[@suprovo5117]

Blackpill

[@mikeoxlong3676]

@@missylarsson3517 Yeah but I got aspergers so I'm basically incapable of that.

[@anarki777]

@@isaura-22 Lol confidence is the biggest lie of them all. Of course you're going to feel confident if you're attractive, and lack confidence if you're not. xD Correlation doesn't equal causation, but people are just really resistant to the idea that looks are 90% of dating outcomes, so people refuse to see the truth.

[@derekwhite1870]

Imagine winning and you still lost. Dude beats out all the other guys and still gets rejected. I think he dodged a bullet with this one. Nothing wrong with rejection just be honest with yourself and what you want

[@PrincessArielAngel]

tbh she seems nice and a great catch it's simply she wasn't attracted to him. From a woman's perspective if he had more bigger muscles and muscle definition (pecs abs and arms), longer hair (like a man bun or markiplier long n wavy), and full facial hair that probably would make him more attractive to her and other women like her (like me)

[@lundoren5240]

@@PrincessArielAngel she was on her phone the whole time. She was uninterested 😭

[@blessingike7004]

How did he dodge a bullet. there is nothing inherently wrong with her. She just didn’t find him attractive

[@stevetheiii477]

@@lundoren5240 she was taking notes of the conversation or making a reference of the guy shes talking to because she can't see them

[@micah459]

She wasn't mean though. He just wasn't her type just like how some women aren't a man's type. Let's be real though, only like two of the guys there I could see people thinking they're physically attractive and they were even average looking. They did her dirty tbh

[@enjolireyes643]

All I can do is go look up all those bangers! Thank you Aba and Preach for keeping Sonique and Daniel Bedingfield alive!

[@allp84]

Dont forget Indeep with Last Night a DJ saved my life :)

[@katarhall3047]

That shit will always be fire. Moment that drops dare to show me one person that doesn't fucking get on the floor and no fucks given.

[@Bufekana]

love those songs🤘😤👍❤️

[@jessicamompoint1849]

It made me remember listening to 103.5 KTU late at night.

[@someblaqguy]

@@allp84 GTA vice city 🕺

[@kennethjacobs3716]

DJ had it up until the "provide for my wife and kids part". She was like, "Aww" but young ladies that haven't finished experiencing that "thrill" of their early 20s don't want to hear that sh**! She got a sense of excitement with Cody and chose him. This is how most women mess up and then when they are in their 30s they want to find a DJ. DJ gone by then.

[@LegendNinja41]

facts.

[@guerreroazul2484]

*OUCH!*

[@armellebiampamba4257]

This is exactly why I have chosen not to date for thrills. Imma find my DJ and keep him

[@ihatebtskoreanmusicsucks8645]

basically whore themselves.

[@JMBBrasil]

Harsh truth

[@ryang8040]

I can confirm the voice thing is real. Women do love deep sonorous voices.

[@frankiejones7858]

Yup 😈

[@M1ManOwaR]

As someone with a voice that ranges from moderate to do deep, I can confirm that women definitely get enraptured by my voice.

[@milili27]

Mmmhmm…nice and deep with a bit of husk. 🤤

[@commondirtbagz7130]

@@M1ManOwaR something about the word enraptured makes me feel unsafe…

[@gigabites809]

@@M1ManOwaR Imma be honest, I don't believe u...

[@Mr.man712]

Damn the physical look barrier be real. Poor Cody, be with someone who wanna be with you!

[@CaveMaan1]

Dude's not even bad looking

[@itriggerpeople4433]

@@CaveMaan1 brother?

[@madeforreasonsunknown914]

He didn’t even look bad tbh... I thought he was average at least

[@joz1376]

@@CaveMaan1 I think he said "brother?" because you both have similar profile pictures

[@vito413]

@@CaveMaan1 yall have the same PFP that's why not because of sus

[@dragotamas7613]

Hey Preach!! My wife and I were at your show this past weekend at LaSalle. You did an excellent job, your stand up was quality. Thank you for the good times!

[@lilbladeknight]

Lasalle mtl? They had a show?

[@dragotamas7613]

@@lilbladeknight yes, Mike Ward was the headliner. Preach did a 20min set right before.

[@imsimpingforcurry9733]

Cap

[@imsimpingforcurry9733]

Capppppp

[@dragotamas7613]

@@imsimpingforcurry9733 Hi hater, how can I help you ?

[@thepoint1197]

As sweet and as down to earth the girl appeared, after hearing all she wanted to know about them, she went for the physical appearance at the end. They know how to Sound/Act mature BUT a thousand light year away from being one.

[@hellno6617]

How is wanting to be attracted to your partner immature? Guys choose based on looks too, now the thing that makes you stay or leave is the personality, but you don’t see a girl at a party and be like “she looks like she may have a good personality I’ll go ask her on a date” no, you at first find her attractive which is the reason why you approach her.

[@minciNashu]

@@hellno6617 that's not what he's saying. Attractions matters. Just don't virtue signal that it doesn't.

[@thepoint1197]

@Hell No Kindly watch the video AGAIN. Study how the date develops (in sequence...without losing your train of thought) and what made her choose him at the end. AND ultimately what changed her mind AFTER the reveal. I won't have used the word "Mature" if she wasn't 'Acting' like one for the camera. Based on the reason she provided for not wanting to go on a date(after all that useless exchange of dialogues), she should have Just listed her physically attractive type from the very beginning. THEN I won't have used the word "Mature".

[@MikoDnst]

​@@hellno6617 if she didn't want to look immature, maybe then she shouldn't lie that personality matters a lot to her, and then rejecting men based on looks. The problem is her lies, not her preferences

[@travisjohnson3319]

I don't think that has anything to do with maturity it's just human nature everyone can pretend to deny it but at the end of the day......

[@maddengawd5773]

“And now that you’ve opened up to me I’m going to choose the other guy” HAHAHAHAHAHAH SO TRUE 😂😂😂

[@250TenoWipes]

The other guy wont marry u and u will end up like the Single mothers Kevin Samuels roasted

[@sammy2954]

@@250TenoWipes Yep deffo going to happen now.

[@Gay.Muhammad]

@@250TenoWipes he died

[@dovahbravo]

Aba is on point with the LOTR. My household wasn’t allowed Harry Potter but Gandalf going off on the Nazgûl was mandatory. 😂

[@JoeMama-mg5dk]

Gandalf, who dies and comes back stronger than ever (Godlike) is allowed lmao

[@Ozbeta44]

Literally 😂😂

[@AurorXZ]

Same! Raised Christian here-and Narnia somehow passed the strict magic test in my fundamentalist group also lol. || _Edit: Yes, Narnia was deeply Christian, and more overtly so than LotR. I've since read _*_literally all_*_ of C.S. Lewis and Tolkien, but it still surprises me how selective groups can be with rigid, _*_essentialist_*_ bans (magic = evil; evil = avoid at all costs). Hell, we couldn't even watch Disney with the briefest of magic._

[@ptolemeeselenion1542]

My Congolese mother equally does h4tes any piece of fiction that centers about magical practitioning protagonists, mystical superpowered martial artists and monster slayers as main characters and protaginists to the point we were forbidden to watch and read TV series and films like "Buffy The Monster Slayer" and "Supernatural" (Blade being the only notable exception when you were at age because, well... go figure. You already know. Black superman deleting wh*te Illuminati-like demons + mother's love-h4tred crush on Wesley Snipes) , Dragon Ball, some material from the X-Men and DCAU JL (least, up until she discovered pre-antiBLM Hugh Jackman... 🙄) , Sailor Moon, "The Craft" and so on and forth. Although her censorship againgt SM and DB didn't last long. The only exceptions to the rule were Sakura Cardcaptor, Charmed, any material of fiction from Sabrina the Witch, Harry Potter, LOTR, any Arthurian Legend based piece of fiction (aside from the Australian TV show "Guinevere Jones") , Spiderman, the Fantastic Four and the Witches of Warvely Place because: 1 - the magical protagonists and main characters of SC, Charmed, Sabrina, HP, and LOTR weren't championing sorcery nor choose to become witches or sorcerers: their story arc is fundamentally humanistic and genuine in nature instead of propagandistic (like TV shows and films like "The Craft" has been accused to do folliwing the height of the so-called "Satanic Paranoia" in USA. Of course, Canada sheepily followed, moreso Quebec...) and echoes to principles and virtues that any hunan who aspires to a decent life can relates to, while some of their use of the grey and dark arts are often but harmless pranks or naive attempts from kids and young people to fix things around them, for thereafter being always chasisted by the voice of reason anytime. Sakura was simply foolish and naive enough as a 10-yrs old girl to open a dusty centuries-old grimory book from her father's library and accidentally break free a millennia of her secret supernatural heritage to the entire world to at last use the powers and responsabilities she inherited to fix things back and being a heroic figure. Harry Potter is basically a King Arthur or Christ-like infant martyr who never choose to be a wizard and always fought for what is good. The Haliwell Sisters were borderline edgy much like the overall TV show and its appeal to the tweens and teenage girls, but nevertheless use their magic to fight dark wizards, demons and thugs alongside angels and benevolent beings. LOTR has too many similarities with African mythologies and the Bible and the overall story about an underdog being so kindhearted and insignificant his very existence may save the earth echoes to a lot of modern views. So Gandalf did not really offended my mother although she spoke about him defiantly-- least until I told her that Gandalf, Saruman and the other Istaris were in fact demigods or angels under human disguise, hence their magical powers: she still profoundly hates Galadriel, though (she calls her a "djinni") . Spiderman is a Good Samaritan who happens to have totemic powers and a great scientific knowledge-- neither of those bothers my mother. The Fantastic Four are scientists before to be superpowered beings. Sabrina as well as the main protagonists of Warvely Place have pretty much a lot of common in a sense that they are just kids who happens to be born with abilities, but their use is often but harmless pranks and silly attempts at relying too much on magic to fix things and help people, et cetera ; And 2 - Arthurian legends are the GOATs. Although she had a period of religion-induced, borderline 4ntis3miti€ defiance toward the superhero genre for a while, likely under the influence of her silly WoJ "friends". She attempted to oblige us as grown adults from not watching CW's The Flash, Marvel's Agents of S.H.I.E.L.D. and X-Men films (again) , back to the mid-2010s, but we just dismissed her wants. She adores Thor movies and has no grudge toward Loki and his wicked acts if magic, but she stopped watching Luke Cage after this Jamaican thug in season 2 blew magical powder on Luke's face. Go figure. 🙄

[@Ash_Wen-li]

@@AurorXZ Narnia is basically a Christian allegory

[@Jon-nn3br]

She was not even remotely excited 🤣 Is this a re-upload? Feel like I've seen this before

[@taridean]

3:10 Aba calling UK Garage, House Music 😱. Proceeding to beatbox & dance to it straight after...Gold 😂. Some of us definitely remember the whole UK Garage era with Sticky, Wookie, Artful Dodger, So Solid Crew, Sweet Female Attitude, Ms Dynamite (before she went Pop), MJ Cole just to name a few.

[@rodneysmith603]

Whats the song that they were talking about?

[@taridean]

@@rodneysmith603 song is "Gotta Get Thru This" by Daniel Bedingfield.

[@InDeathWeLove]

Bein indirect isn't being kind it's just being a coward because you are afraid of how either the other person is going to react or how it's going to make you look.

[@jalinjohnson8221]

Word

[@DANIsuperstar2002]

True but also it’s how a lot of girls are taught to act. It’s what “nice girls” do. Other wise your a b. I’m still deprogramming this in myself.

[@InDeathWeLove]

@@DANIsuperstar2002 It seems in most cases it is one of two extremes. Either you get the oh there is nothing wrong with you it's me and you're so nice or something like that which just makes it impossible to tell what is wrong or you get the total denigration where they feel the need to make you feel like a failure for even trying. It seems rare to get a respectable, but clear no. The last one seems to be a distant third in how often I experience it or see others experience it.

[@DANIsuperstar2002]

@@InDeathWeLove Yeah, there are definitely girls that make a point to reject people in the rudest way possible. Maybe because they feel “how dare someone below my league hit on me”. I’m definitely the first type you mentioned. But just as a side note when girls say “you’re great it’s me that’s the problem”, don’t think too much into it. Maybe they’re lying and saying that because they’re not interested in you but there could also be something wrong with them and they are at least self aware to realize it. I know that’s true in my case. Just because someone seems ok on the outside they might be an insecure depressed mess on the inside.

[@danielhogan6255]

so theres no such thing as tact?

[@earnieboy54]

Reminds me of a convo that I had with a friend not too long ago. I told her to speak her mind and be honest. It doesn’t make sense for her to complain about guys wasting her time, when she wastes her own time by not even being up front with her feelings. If you like someone, cool. If you don’t, that’s cool too. That’s less time with someone you know won’t go anywhere and more time you have to yourself and meeting the right person.

[@josephinenelan4204]

Yeah, it's amazing girls want something and get mad the guy they are seeing isn't on the same page. I've asked people before "Well did you talk about it with him?" ... "Well, um, no, not really".

[@donaldbowler4514]

@@josephinenelan4204 usually those type of people are never honest about anything. Not just in romantic relationships, but platonic ones as well.

[@ishidacoolp]

That's a positive way to look at things.

[@kallisarthur9798]

Aba once again you can’t convince me you and Preach aren’t best friends. The chemistry be IMMACULATE 😂. Y’all be making our day

[@habijjj]

They are but they're in the mind set of being business partners.

[@Imanioa]

@@habijjj then why wouldn't they at least admit they're friends, like not even best friends cmon

[@nicoplease8275]

@@Imanioa because your not supposed to mix business with friendship 🤣🤣 but really you can be super tight with a coworker then when you leave work never see/call/ text or hangout with them

[@black101velvet]

@@nicoplease8275 exactly, it's like work friends, you tight during work times, but you don't hang our outside work.

[@PuffPuff279]

@@Imanioa It doesn't matter If they don't admit they are friends, this is blatantly obvious. Those that don't think so are in denial. They've made mention of meeting each others parents in older videos for example and hinted at hanging out with each other outside of work in other videos. Go through their videos (and I promise you'll find evidence of this).

[@Level3Lifestyle]

This title hit a little to hard. Due to multiple reasons i was selectively mute as a child and my vocal cords never really developed properly; meeting people and making friends in general SUCKS because its hard to hold proper conversation

[@nathanw9770]

Being boring in the early 2000s I'm in this awkward position where I know all the songs you guys were referring to but I don't know who made them lmao (I used to hear these types of songs on the radio in the car or at other kids birthday parties).

[@majudelro]

Everyone cares about looks this ain’t the Middle Ages where most people looked wrecked. (This a joke) but on a serious note, when Cody said “can I see her?” I thought that was so cute and I even let out an “aaaaw” and then she hits him with the head tilt it broke my heart. Cody best of luck 🙏🏽

[@trueblueclue]

Nowadays people cover their bodies in ink, are massively overweight and can't even hold a conversation. Middle Ages bitches are way better by almost every metric.

[@yelloe]

Many people in the middle ages probably looked way better than many people today. It really depends on the individuals.

[@majudelro]

@@yelloe hahaha touché touché

[@ladyraven3418]

I knew she wouldn't be attracted to him, and was better off picking DJ. If she doesn't want Cody, then I bet there are ladies watching this that will gladly take him.

[@merr5593]

Not everyone care about looks, people like her unable to look deeper into a person and appreciate their qualities. Looks are only secondary as they make the initial attraction much easier but going on a 3 hour long date with a below average guy with great personality, chemistry and qualities- you will get automatically attracted to their body if you appreciate who they are as a person. Looks are only important to people who are unable to look deeper into a person and have genuine connection with them based on their qualities.

[@BobbyFuu]

Aba has had a lot of “pause moments “ lately. Hilarious

[@BobbyFuu]

Facts they speeding up tho. An Preach aint letting them slip. It’s pure comedy.

[@yog-sherkoth1782]

@@BobbyFuu even better when preach was questioning the whole pause thing and now uses it's more than ABA

[@BobbyFuu]

@@yog-sherkoth1782 big facts bro.

[@strikers820]

This just shows that looks are primary and personality is secondary, which is no problem. There has to be some attraction on an appearance level otherwise it probably won’t work out.

[@leanna3625]

The voice thing is so real for me. I once met up with a man for a first date who was more attractive and charming than I was expecting, but his voice was so high that some primal part of my brain rejected him instantly. To be fair, it's rare that men have a voice high enough to be a problem for me, but when they do, it's an instant deal breaker.

[@cityboychad]

Yep. I don't have a high pitched voice but since I am Black, there is an expectation on how I "should" sound. It has cost me opportunities with girls.

[@roycereeves5456]

@@cityboychad fuck those shallow ass women man. Most of these woman who play the looks game will get karma for that shit when they are 30 looking like a whole ass train hit them

[@noblegalifreyan4551]

Because low testosterone means low sex drive and this you found him to inferior. Good on you for weeding out that from the gene pool

[@PrincessArielAngel]

sameee haha like if you sound more feminine than me then friends is all we can be lol 😂

[@TheWunder]

I sound like an anime girl but girls still want me

[@Jade_Almond]

I would’ve definitely wanted to go out with Cody after the reveal and I probably would’ve chosen him too. I agree with what Aba said at the end.

[@Jade_Almond]

@Texsun! He's really not. I thought he was attractive.

[@jerrym1218]

Every woman has different taste. One girl found me hot and sexy and another one said that I was ugly and needed to fix my face and body.

[@zkart8038]

Yeah first time a contestant is left with the two best looking dudes. And after she says she wants to be loved for her and not for looks, still reject him based on looks. She was average at best.

[@onemillionpercent]

same here

[@VampyBlood17]

Right? He’s actually really cute!!

[@ricjonson5435]

I'm only 21 but knowing and still regularly listening to all of the songs that aba and preach reference in these videos makes me feel old af

[@Eddybo22]

🤣🤣🤣

[@philcanselmo9436]

Yea meanwhile people our age think a song made in 2017 is old lmao

[@davewright7833]

Same here 21 going on 22 lol...

[@coltonsmith3270]

@@davewright7833 yeah we know how age works dude...

[@davewright7833]

@@coltonsmith3270 you ok?

[@corbingrieves4505]

Currently seeing someone I met on the weekend. And tbh, without learning more about dating (I've had a 3 year relationship and a few one years after that) from other people like Aba & Preach and a few others I'd probably rush into this by being with them alla time and wanting to be in a committed relationship asap. But nah, we're taking our time and just seeing and getting to know eachother when free. Thanks for y'all's help. I appreciate the guidance.

[@SuperMurray2009]

I will never subject myself to a speed dating event as a guy. It's just begging for heartache.

[@sportyjALTf5]

wym "like KSI"? like you would just be trolling?

[@adrianchatman5734]

Same here. Speed dating is just wasting your time and getting embarrassed. Why bother?

[@MastaOfMonkeyDisasta]

Speed dating isn't for men, its for women to try and flip through as many men to find the 666 lottery ticket.

[@nightfighter7452]

I might do it out of boredom

[@SuperMurray2009]

@@sportyjALTf5 Exactly. If I'm on a speed dating event then I'm definitely going just to troll.

[@manny5259]

🤣 "They have no idea what they're doing but they're talking" had me on the floor!!!!

[@_IsrealPerez]

Fr! 💀

[@lpk6372]

Hey the biggest step is getting people to talk to other people.

[@Megelos]

this is the perfect example of how people care more about appearance than personality.

[@zebnemma]

Well you gotta have atleast some sexual attraction or else it can't turn into romance so looks are important. And personality is important too. I can't date men that are too thin or too much gym bro since I'm kinda into more chubby men, like my brain would not allow me cuz there's just zero attraction and I can't change that. It is what it is. I like a cuddly bear, not a hard abs + six pack no non no.

[@basharalbutseggs8056]

@@zebnemma agreed, I have to feel sexual attraction but if someone is hot with a shit personality i don’t want them either

[@Poufkimashoula1]

Even though he doesn't look like what I would expect, I'd still date him based on the conversation we had. He's intriguing as f**k and seems real. Dude built himself up from the ground through all his hurdles and still came out with this level of charisma?! She's nuts if she can't see his worth. He's a keeper (romantic or not).

[@DJKidd301]

Yeah he doesn't look like what she wants

[@dawd21]

Shaking your hands around and having the voice tone of a geek is not charisma.

[@GutsmanLoL]

@@dawd21 i really hope your profile picture isn't really you.

[@dawd21]

@@GutsmanLoL no,its a youtuber

[@The-Owl-Bard]

I feel bad for the guy. Odds are she may just end up ghosting him before that date. I wish she just kept it honest and said she wasn't physically attracted to him and let him move on.

[@MrFlyingKitty]

Also they're about the same league, she's not that much more attractive than him... So why go on a blind date if you've got a type? That means you're up to any type. What happened is that the man she conjured in her mind was not that man she saw here.

[@The-Owl-Bard]

@@MrFlyingKitty A lot of folks go on these types of YT shows so they get more clicks on Social Media. She probably got a TON of dudes hitting her up because she's more present online now.

[@demonfox51321]

@@MrFlyingKitty you are right she ain't that attractive like pokiman to be honest I would have pass as well 🤣

[@MrFlyingKitty]

@@demonfox51321 I'm not saying she's not attractive, she is. I'm saying they're about the same level. I consider pokimane to be a bit more attractive though.

[@Bobe_Kyrant.42]

@@demonfox51321 shes way more attractive than pokimane. This girl has a natural face without make up and she looks that good. Pokimane without make up looks like dogshit

[@Rsoto9185]

This was freaking hilarious... that Daniel Bedingfield bit had me crying 😂😂😂

[@deeisall4091]

I replayed it sooo many times 🤣🤣 that shit was 🔥🔥 I forgot about that song!

[@Eye_am_Blessed]

I performed to Daniel Bedingfield "Gotta get thru this" in high school 😂😂 This brought back so many memories my goodness! 💜 Thank you for the throwback. *types in song to listen to it**🤘🏼🤘🏼

[@LilyOfTheTower]

I love Aba's dance when he puts his arms up and swivels his head. It genuinely lifts my spirits.

[@mills8]

Completely agree with the voice thing, Preach’s voice when we gets deep like in the documentary is just 😍😍👌

[@callunya]

So they build an interest in emotional/social/intellectual ways through the chats and then physical appearance kills it all. I get it. Not mad either. What’s weird is sometimes you don’t find a personal physically attractive and then as you get to know them, and if you fall for them romantically, then you can develop a sense of physical attraction. It’s kinda wild. Unless someone is downright revolting it may be worth it to give someone a try if you click on other levels. Although, I’ll say it can take years of knowing someone before you feel attracted to them. Honestly, just best if you find someone who ticks both physical and emotional attraction for ya I suppose.

[@merr5593]

Just the comment I was looking for. Thats basic biology, you sit with an unattractive person for a couple dates and if you are capable of appreciating their inner attributes and the mutual chemistry(most modern American women aren’t) then you will find them physically attractive. I disagree that it take years for that. Just a couple of hours of vibing and getting to know each other. I believe if you are unattractive you will have a hard time getting that initial attraction BUT if you work on your self then you can attract ladies with who are as a person. Thats a more egalitarian look at dating and how It should be. But sadly in America,mainly because of dating apps, women are going more and more shallow and the dating market is only benefiting to women and the top 10% men. Sexlessness ratio(men to women) has gone from 2.5 to 4 in the last last decade. This is not good for a society but most people don’t realise how a majority of women having impossible standards affect the society in the wrong run. People just check it off as a “everyone have preferences”.

[@Lachronix]

@@merr5593 yes!!! Holy shit!! Both you comment and op sun things up perfectly.

[@Vastspartan]

Problem is she was full of shit. She stated looks didn't matter and at the very end she based it on looks.

[@lokitob]

It's "punch your hole with this dick." And I'm laughing myself to death. Another great video, guys!

[@Ergorexestu]

It’s funny how people only appreciate your struggle and your grind once you’ve made it to the winners circle. Cody’s story of abuse and becoming an entrepreneur is sexually exciting to her bc it sounds dangerous and cool. But if he was still struggling to get it together would his story be so endearing? Get yourself a “day one chick” that will ride it out with you in the sunny and the rainy days

[@artisticagi]

Not really sure that’s a good idea. Most people who struggle just bring you down with them so it’s like you have a 10% chance the struggler you picked will be able to make it through and not just become worse.

[@sandygonsalves4646]

tbh, I found it kind of immature of her to find his backstory of going through foster care "attractive", because he is "more mature" because of it. It's almost belittling in a way.

[@Ergorexestu]

@@sandygonsalves4646 💯

[@Ergorexestu]

@@sandygonsalves4646 it’s like just a form of entertainment for her

[@mosyed4352]

@@sandygonsalves4646 Wait what do you mean? How’s it belittling, legitimate question.

[@ekayn1606]

She probably expected him to look really fit because he's a boxer. But most people don't realize in boxing they want you as lean as possible. So he probably is a skinny and shredded so he can fight shorter people.

[@poopbutt6241]

Not heavyweights

[@ekayn1606]

@@poopbutt6241 okay most boxers*

[@rsbiz1125]

Aba and Preach with the old school bangers! Thanks for taking me back!!

[@moonutella5581]

Right?!

[@asmbeats5369]

@@triple777seven Patreon ffs

[@younggooni14]

"DANIEL BEDINGFIELD'S A FUCKING CLASSIC! A STAPLE!!"

[@AnonVocals]

You guys are such a vibe!! I still love and listen to UK garage music today. Shout out to all the UK garage lovers out there!!

[@marcthibodeau9466]

When you got that smokey deep bass on the phone, you get them call backs way faster

[@jaybee8862]

True... talking on the phone was probably the biggest reason I snagged my wife... she thought I always had a bedroom voice going lol... she told me straight up she thought I was a perv cuz of that lmao

[@lilliebobson3146]

To me, physical attraction comes first and gets you through the door. Who you are as a person keeps you there. I expect the same when others want to date me.

[@noblegalifreyan4551]

You can't get in if you're ugly to begin with. Some people are playing life like Dark Souls. You will never let them in if you find them ugly no matter how good of a person they are.

[@merr5593]

It should be “physical attraction makes it easier for you get in” having it as an requirement is shallow to begin with. When you get to know the other person, you to build a connection and appreciation for each others qualities you will get attracted to them physically no matter how ugly they are. Thats how biology works. You rejecting a guy who with 10/10 energy,charisma, personality,character, goals and attributes just because he is not your “type” tells me that you care only about his looks, the person he is from inside is just a bonus.

[@iBloodxHunter]

So that's why Chadwick gets in and out so much.

[@hellno6617]

@@merr5593 a person can have a 10/10 personality but if you’re not physically attracted to them you simply aren’t, and it’s not going to work. You live in a fantasy world.

[@merr5593]

@@hellno6617 No ones talking about attraction with fat/obese people where sexual attraction is next to impossible. But you can be attracted to below average looking people If they “vibe” with you then you both can form an emotional connection.

[@KevinSkye1]

2:46 was better than the twitch poggers face. The zoom in was editing gold.

[@UnknownNev]

I have seen a few of these types (blind date) of reactions from you guys. When it comes to the reveal in the event that the lady doesn’t find the person they chose as a good pick on reveal, I have yet to see the selection of choice respond with an accepting demeanor and understanding. Social cues when someone isn’t feeling you is clear, Cody should see that she wasn’t happy about it. If someone isn’t interested in going out with you, don’t. Dreams, goals, aspirations, challenges, hobbies, and beliefs behind the curtain were received and reflected with interest and no hesitation. If you don’t look the part, all that goes by the wayside.

[@deasyastarr]

I love when Aba and Preach argue. It escalates so quickly 🤣🤣

[@AutumnOnFire]

Crazy how you can do everything right and still miss. Makes you realize two things: just not take it to heart or give a shit too often, and focus on your own goals.

[@PrincessArielAngel]

also make sure you look good: full muscle toned, definition etc medium to long length hair and lots of facial hair etc

[@satuisaburda8969]

Not all girls like facial hair, but they like the aspect/illusion of a strong jaw

[@jerrym1218]

Naw, there are guys out there that look like crap and get dirty after working their asses off at their jobs, and still manage to pull hot girls from anywhere in the city. Looks don’t matter, what you say and do does.

[@coltonsmith3270]

@@PrincessArielAngel facial hair is itchy and long hair looks feminine. take that garbage elsewhere.

[@coltonsmith3270]

@@jerrym1218 you're naive. you must be a woman.

[@Gruy]

I love how the video starts off with jubilee off the rip, then a sudden cut to remind you this is a aba and preach vid and it just gets so much better😂😂

[@Ender7j]

The dudes seem to accept the faceless rejection pretty well. I doubt a panel full of women would have been so gracious.

[@Rob.N.]

Feels bad man. Cody seems to be a cool and stand up guy. Hope that gym venture works out.

[@CrummyVCR]

lol, it never happened, and his number was blocked.

[@mzu5677]

At first I thought, "how rude. She is on the phone while speed dating." Then realised she was taking notes...

[@Cpt_MacTavish]

Same

[@Jurnalist_]

2:05 we're not friends we just work together. LMAO okay.

[@huh5950]

0:48 Yall unlocked some memories bro, my father used to sing this song, Buffalo Soldier and Zombie by Fela Kuti all the time throughout my childhood 😊😂

[@xeno52003]

Man i remember staying up late till 2am listening to the radio trying to record "i gotta get thru this" on a casset tape. Nostalgia

[@thatbasedfeliscatus577]

I feel you bro🤣

[@fowfromttv]

16:43 “kindness is not actual kindness”… would you please make a video or explain on comment section. sounds very interesting and curious to understand this quote so maybe i can add it to my arsenal to reasonably better myself

[@coltonsmith3270]

they explain it in the video...

[@dinnahenna4163]

The thing with deep voices is that it comes across masculine, as them having more testosterone and we associate it with strength etc

[@ChechiDLR]

WOW, you guys are always taking me back to my childhood, when I was bearly learning about English music. Idk how you guys remember all these songs that I totally forgot about, I had to look up what u were talking about and man...you guys took me way back, I miss that music so much! THANK YOU!

[@YayaSweetie]

Whenever Preach says, "What did you just say?". 😭😂 Damn, I felt that rejection though, that hurt. Often when you spend time with someone and you really get to know them their personality makes them more attractive. I mean, even vice versa, if someone is super attractive but super douchey, instantly less attractive to me. At least give him the time though.

[@Gabster1990]

Cody isn't bad looking and I know he will find someone who is into him.

[@ragejinraver]

Unfortunately too many basic looking females . Think there too good now

[@jayyy1677]

She’s his looks match they’re both plain looking

[@zubairkhan-wb5sy]

They are similar in levels of attractiveness tbh. Unfortunately hypergamy for young girls especially is quite prevalent.

[@Gabster1990]

She is young and has a lot of learning to do. I know plenty of women who are with men who are below average looking.

[@ragejinraver]

@@Gabster1990 I'm sorry but the whole young thing doesn't work anymore she knows exactly what she's doing . She's not a child she's a grown woman now and she needs to take responsibility for her actions

[@mompvti2408]

This is putting their good "personality" to the test without the physical appearance. I love it😉

[@ingridc0ld]

I gotta see what a guy looks like. I need to be physically attracted to the guy otherwise it's not happening.

[@PrincessArielAngel]

same tbh lol

[@chico9805]

I appreciate your honesty, wish more women were up front with it, but we all know that's not happening.

[@bubbajr19]

That's fine and totally agreeable Some women just need to look for what attracts them and not bother with dating games like this.

[@Jonmad17]

I hate it when women try to gaslight guys into thinking that they're less "shallow" about looks than men are. When it comes to casual sex, women care at least as much if not more than men do about looks.

[@jerrym1218]

Look like Brad Pitt Keanu Reeves or Ryan Reynolds Check ✅

[@peteranesu8870]

Seeing all these guys compete for a chick and watching them come up with silly romantic lines reminds me of MATHEMATICS, I feel a summation of CRINGE, PITTY, JOY and I would never do this SH!T emotions.

[@adrianchatman5734]

Amen! This is literally: How to simp 101.

[@yahweh2819]

Lmaooooo

[@demonizedhuman941]

They get paid for this. That's why they even show up.

[@98zei]

​@@demonizedhuman941 simping with their time

[@richardtaylor9760]

Think this is the earliest I’ve been to one of y’all’s uploads. Love the content guys, been watching for a few years now and can say y’all definitely have impacted me in some positive ways. Keep up the great work

[@theomen4379]

they both had so much energy in this one its too good

[@tanyapearson8319]

I think that he has a wicked personable personality. When you're young you're stupid and just value what you learn to value when you are older. You guys are freaking hilarious. I love it when you guys are cracking up.

[@patriotcanuck6485]

I'm Irish and thats how I see Irish people as well.🤣😂🤣

[@danielhogan6255]

jackeen.

[@patriotcanuck6485]

@@danielhogan6255 😆

[@Mooshanmut]

Are you real Irish or American that claims they’re irish

[@patriotcanuck6485]

@@Mooshanmut don't be stupid

[@patriotcanuck6485]

@@Mooshanmut why does a joke make you so butt hurt, little guy?

[@lakewood145]

Cody, if you see this, don't worry. As you get older, focus on growing your beard. It doesn't even have to be a full-blown beard. Even a beard cut to a few mm will be perfect (no unconnected patches). You already have the right body build for your age, and no doubt you will be even better. I promise you when you get that beard, you'll see love in their eyes.

[@syfiliskerino1998]

That's not going to be the main element. For example, I've experienced balding at 15. Stats indicate that girls 19-25 accept bald men as attractive at rates of 14%, whereas women 35 and up at 45%. It is just not going to work if one is "blessed" with certain features, it's going to be hard work and you'll have to settle.

[@coltonsmith3270]

a beard is your only advice? thats pretty terrible. for one they're itchy, and if he should ever decide to shave it, the woman would just lose all interest.

[@youmeanblackamericanculture]

@@coltonsmith3270 the beard is good advise and also stop smiling so much

[@TheDoctornaut]

One does not simply grow a full beard

[@lakewood145]

@@coltonsmith3270 Your brain must have shut down after my 3rd sentence. Firstly, I clearly said, it doesn't have to be a full-blown beard. Meaning, you trim it to a few mm (mm=millimeter, maybe you didn't know that). So the only way a trimmed beard can be itchy is if you don't bathe at all. Secondly, my comment was only meant for him to start considering to work on one of the features that increases one's attractiveness in women's eyes. I never said a beard is all he needs.

[@CrisM779]

Saying "no" is the honest thing to do, but that would mean owning up to choosing looks over personality.

[@concamon1364]

"I like that he opened up to me .... So instead I choose Cody" Lesson: Ya hear that fellas? Never be transparent with women ever

[@shmazpootaz4331]

It def depends on the woman, but for the majority of women this advice applies

[@leoglasmeyer2853]

she did the whole "super hot mysterious edgy man who was scarred by foster care and is now emotionally unavaliable but very attractive" thing in her head and then was like "damn DJ was better in every aspect but i thought cody would be hot, fucked up".

[@WoolTecMc]

Yea lets base our relations on facedes and lies. That sounds healthy

[@syfiliskerino1998]

Women want to hear about vulnerabilities men conquered, not the ones they still have.

[@sirsurnamethefirstofhisnam7986]

@@syfiliskerino1998 lol no they don’t they don’t want to hear about a man who’s ever been vulnerable about anything in his life 😂😂

[@user-to5si4sv4n]

She thought he was black lol

[@GB-vw6kr]

LMAOO

[@knowyourworth_88]

Lmao I’m at 4:10 rollin and now I’m reminded WHY IM SO INTO YALL !!! Y’all critiquing each other critiquing the music critiquing others is just great I love it! Y’all keep it up I’m here for it! always having valid points and I’m always laughing and learning something new so yes keep it up!!!yall are the shit! And if I say yall one more time lol

[@Himawariyoung]

My parents tried to stop me from reading Harry Potter too but they eventually gave in when they saw obsessed I was with it and bought me the entire series. Yay. Til this day…I am a HP geek.

[@cr7jm3]

This video just proves that unfortunately looks do matter. People can preach about personality all day everyday, but this was like the opposite of a public interaction or dating app where you talk to the person first and then see them. She was all for Cody until she saw him

[@lpk6372]

And? looks matter what you look like matter, what color, what nationality, what sex you are matter... Women are just like you in many ways... The moment you don't realize this is the moment you have failed.

[@throwacnt7603]

Here's the underlying "secret" on what you just said that people don't want to admit: Looks are generally a good way to judge someone's personality before you meet them. Not always, but frequent enough that the brain can make a quick judgement. For example men with higher facial width-to-height ratio (fWHR) tend to be, on average, more aggressive and assertive and risk taking, therefore they are overrepresented as CEOs. Why do you think women pick them? Because their physical features often correlate with personality and their place in the world. It's kinda f'ed up because well, no one picks their appearance and your odds are mostly chosen at birth and early childhood.

[@syfiliskerino1998]

@@lpk6372 50% of our DNA is shared with bananas; cell reproduction, RNA formation, etc. Women and men fundamentally differ in levels that make us extremely different.

[@syfiliskerino1998]

@@throwacnt7603 Those connections are made because they are generally correct; the features are in coorelation with the behavior, women want a certain behavior.

[@lpk6372]

@@syfiliskerino1998 ah your one of those people

[@FountainOfYoot]

Oof that was a little rough. I will say, for discussion sake, that the show Naked Attraction is the polar opposite of this. And majority of the episodes I've seen, they still end up disappointed because of personality issues. Dating is tough 😅

[@jerrym1218]

Especially when all people in the world just want their own space at times. Humans just don’t know what they want sometimes my friend.

[@azo5000]

If I ever met this girl, I would give her some flip flops with her name on it as a present. It would be an accurate representation of her personality.

[@_IsrealPerez]

🤣🤣🤣

[@minuit6305]

Underneath the sole too so she steps on it everytime she walks.

[@Eddybo22]

🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@robinthrush9672]

And you will know from then on the most important question; does she wear thongs?

[@Aliyaaaa]

That's stupid she was honest and didn't play games. She doesn't have to like his looks and it does play a big part

[@Dr3Mc3Ninja]

4:15 "I've been described as a s3x symbol, and that symbol, is a question mark." How Aba didn't immediately recognise the name Sonique... shame!

[@akeem3127]

Speaking of not letting him have harry potter books, my grandma thought Yu-Gi-Oh cards where demonic so I had to throw out my 60+ cards that I had bought to play with my friends

[@Arbiter710]

💀😂

[@gouachedirge5787]

You had “threw out”

[@akeem3127]

@@gouachedirge5787 thanks for pointing it out

[@appllypressure]

This happened to me man

[@julianm1842]

my grandma threw out my Yugioh deck. I stopped playing ever since. limited edition divine beasts are all gone. EMOTIONAL DAMAGE!

[@TheDeven1000]

She’s like “I didn’t know he was gonna be white…so…”

[@anarki_in5680]

White people are the most swiped on race in any dating app, check the statistics. It’s just that he didn’t fit the college jock look/white male model look that most Asian girls go for when it comes to white dudes.

[@noimnotakpoppfpsheacy2526]

Do you mean her not being into white guys is her excuse? Because him being white was definitely not his issue 😹

[@TheIceYvetal]

Exactly

[@coltonsmith3270]

@@noimnotakpoppfpsheacy2526 maybe not to you, but for her it very well could have been.

[@wowhowbizarre8176]

Bro I swear Aba and Preach have been going completely off the rails in these reaction videos to the point where I forget what they reacting to and I’m 100% here for it.😂😂😂 (Side note RIP Ivan)

[@adelinebultot7595]

Wait what? What happened to Ivan?

[@marlom7882]

It’s just like regular conversations. Just yesterday I was talking to a friend about how I think it was bs that in the httyd trilogy/franchise that toothless achieved alpha mode to protect his best friend and make up for being mind controlled and killing his father but then leaves for the light fury. Then it suddenly turned into how’d they leave the homies to go get some dick

[@SatanbutspelledBroderick]

@@marlom7882 bro wtf r u talking about

[@marlom7882]

@@SatanbutspelledBroderick about how conversations can take an unexpected turn. I just had it in the first sentence. That was my thesis

[@SacredTree754]

@@marlom7882 :'(

[@huh5950]

7:02 THIS TRANSITION WAS 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥