Is Writing Fan Fiction CHEATING?

[@delicrux]

I agree with aba i had a girl write a 100page... Fan fic about me and she gave it to me with no context. I thought it was just a book until i realized it was about me. Was creepy as hell especially when you realize what they think you are like...

[@AbaNPreach]

Its just a fantasy.

[@xxrieanrinei4922]

@@AbaNPreach oh nah

[@Swagonslayuh]

It is weird to commit those private thoughts to paper or to media. Is it not strange for school shooters and terrorists to write their manifestos? While an extreme example I think the logic follows.

[@delicrux]

@@Swagonslayuh but she took it a extra level

[@Spork2]

We began to walk down the street, stuffing out hotdogs in our faces and holding our cotton candy. We then walked underneath a street lamp and WILD7 turned to me. “Mi amor, is everything alright?” “Yes it’s just… It’s so difficult for me to eat this cotton candy with both of my hands occupied.” WILD7’s hair then flew with the pattern of the wind as he stroked his hair in a wavy motion. “Don’t worry my sweet, I’ll feed you!” A rough breeze of air flew by as I locked eyes with WILD7. He proceeded to take his cotton candy and reach it towards my precious lips. The smell of the candy smelled sweet, just as sweet as this moment with them. I took one careful bite and felt energized by the amazing flavor and the way it melted in my mouth.

[@jordankuiper805]

Quick, everyone start writing fan fiction of Aba and Preach and send it to them. Don’t flood them with hate, drown them in naughty fanfics.

[@ericapaquette9624]

Lol Preach would shake his head and delete it...Aba might freak out and never come back 🤣🤣

[@dominnique2773]

Already started🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@ericapaquette9624]

@@dominnique2773 nooooo we're gonna lose Aba!!! 😂😂😂

[@ady6837]

Haaaaaaaha!!! That would be great😀

[@NBGMOdi]

bro if we really doing this or wha? cuz i'll do it if yall fr ion wanna be the only one to actually send 1 tho cuz then ill be one of those

[@MIKh500]

Aba: Writing fan fictions about your idol is weird Entire KPop community: *nervous sweating

[@light5891]

They're cringy af and need to get a life. I saw it once and had to wash my eyes three times.

[@crazysmall.artist]

As a picky kpop fan, don't drag me into this-

[@ihateanimebutonlywhenitiso7227]

They are also mostly like 13

[@chey6073]

I still remember reading NSFW headcanons about certain idols 🥵 Thank god I snapped out of it. Idols aren’t your play thing, they are people who deserve respect. Objectification is so normalized in the industry, especially by the companies themselves.

[@itsthevelvet1461]

Nigga don't drag me into this, a lot of us can't stand that shit

[@alyssaw3412]

Everyone's talking about how the chick was so into fanfics but COMPLETELY skipped over the fact that she TEXTED HIS MOM.... AS HIM! If that isn't crossing a line and super weird, idk what is. She was really trying to expose his mom and involve her unwittingly in a private conversation put out to the public. She's got a few screws loose.

[@camkraw893]

Oh she wanted to think of something explosive enough to fight him with, and something to cancel the embarrassment she be feeling when he read those fanfics. The fact that's what she came up with as an idea is insane. She was almost disappointed and mad when the mom did nothing but praise/support them lmfao

[@anitadarling4592]

Forget the fanfics, obvi that wasn’t written during the time she got with him, but yeah that is a low for sure, this is why many of my folks have trust issues when communicating on the phone or more so texting.

[@katiejohnson9948]

Yeahhh.. I think reading fanfics is the least of his concerns. Bet they aren’t together anymore.

[@katiejohnson9948]

@@anitadarling4592 it seems like she didn’t even write them, she just took screenshots of them on her phone so she could easily go back to it.

[@bugsmoney1264]

Just wanna clarify, I don't think she wrote 50 fanfics, I think she just has them saved or clicked on them to read.

[@ShelbieMua]

Yeah I don’t recall her ever saying she wrote it. Otherwise that’s a crap ton of books

[@Zoievan23]

I feel like it’s different to read it vs write it

[@pointnemo72]

Yeah, no way she wrote that many. If she did, she's a pro smut writer. But let's ask the guy if he's watched p0rn. Guarantee he does. So, same thing. I don't see why everyone is freaking out about it

[@kevina.2269]

@@pointnemo72 does he write porn tho ?

[@letmepickmynameidiot4832]

@@kevina.2269 Someone does write porn and act in it so I don't see why you would be surprised someone write this kind of porn and doesn't even act on it. Porn doesn't fall from the sky.

[@kamehameha969]

Y'all are definitely right about how obsessing over a celebrity crush to that level is almost exclusively allowed by women, any man doing the same thing would instantly be labeled a creep. It reminds me of when I went to an Asap Rocky concert with my ex and countless women including her friends threw their bras on stage, which made me imagine how that would translate if men did the same at a Rihanna concert lol

[@noquartergiven1332]

Lmao you're right. I'm test this theory. Next concert I'm at I'm throwing my drawls onstage

[@radrose4864]

I mean, that’s true. But women and men are not the same. 🤷‍♀️ and still to these days people find it less creepy to be approached and propositioned by women. We are viewed as less threatening, bc to a large extent, we ARE. If men really hate it we can have a discussion about it, but I don’t think the same standards should apply to men and women across the board. For example its not expected or even desirable for women to fight on the front lines.

[@kamehameha969]

@@radrose4864 You do make a great point, we're not the same and women are on a larger scale viewed to be less threatening which results in women being able to express lust towards (most) men without making them feel uncomfortable. But I think it becomes a problem when people in relationships express their lust towards a celebrity to the extent of throwing bras/writing sex novels about them, not because it's threatening to the celebrity but because it's inconsiderate towards their partner. Women will often even when in a relationship keep expressing their lust towards a celeb and when the boyfriend shows dissatisfaction brush it aside as irrational jealousy.

[@Ash_Wen-li]

@@radrose4864 The problem is that women that actually are threatening aren't taken seriously enough and guys could lose their jobs for asking out a coworker in a non-creepy way

[@EdgarHernandez-uu4iw]

@@radrose4864 women are viewed to be less threatening? Yet they commit crimes at the same rate as men yet men are 6x likely to be tried and imprisoned for their crimes where as women get away scotch free

[@olivedraws9594]

I had a girl write a fanfic about me... but I barely was her friend and the whole fanfiction was her point of view AS ME. The main character was me with Shawn Mendes and it had lots of personal information about me in it (not to mention the name of the character and physical description). It was so creepy, it was like she wanted to be me, I wasn't even popular or anything either.. it was so out of no where.

[@milespatterson3594]

thats a little scary actually

[@yxumi]

That's weird asf

[@sync_mxlly5610]

OMG.

[@jeremykiahsobyk102]

The two bros looked at each other, and an unacknowledged but undeniable spark leapt between them. It wasn't sexual, not exactly, but charged and pointed by the nature of the question. The silence stretched, and their eyes locked as each tried to figure out the thoughts of the other while gathering his own. A smile twitched at the edge of the taller one's mouth, imperceptible to most, but a beacon of intent in the observant eyes of his opposite. What was said next surprised them both. "LALALALALALALALALA..."

[@opinionatortv6457]

Bro.

[@dudebroguyman]

That's a nice drabble you put together. It made me laugh quite a bit. Kudos to you!

[@SageVaughn]

Masterpiece

[@DominicanaChika]

💀💀💀💀💀

[@Farhan_049]

I died a little reading this but have to paise your writing skills. 👍🏻 You must be a Pro at these things.

[@TwiggyAlienorCameron]

Writing erotic fanfics about a specific real person you don't know is a lot like being really into one specific pornstar or camgirl. The sexual fantasy isn't the odd part; the parasocial obsession is.

[@ra6153]

Yess that’s what people are missing it

[@dxshawn532]

Yes, its a strawman to just say "Its about the sexual aspect" no its not.

[@newstation795]

Thank you

[@JessyJansen]

this is the first thing that came to my mind

[@radrose4864]

Smart insight

[@jiggyjuvi]

as a woman, I always found fanfiction about real ppl REALLY weird lolll like i defs had my lil anime fanfiction phase back in the day but i feel like it's different when it comes to real ppl and y'all are sooo right about it being v different for men.

[@Sravan.Allopi]

Just imagine discovering your boyfriends notes page and seeing something like that, you'd be weirded tf out right? lmao

[@pathetic2399]

@@Sravan.Allopi especially if it’s about a woman you know

[@SteaksAndBourbon]

Harry the type guy to get a mani-pedi twice a week, rough hands my ass.

[@marlom7882]

Wasn’t he the guy who wore the dress? I knew girls were into femboys

[@radrose4864]

Hahahaha true though

[@KP-us5pq]

Omg that’s what I was thinking 😂 he has a nail polish line! Dude does not have rough hands!

[@GeeHood666]

My first thought when I heard that lmao

[@Veronee64]

i’m dead

[@dullaiiv4824]

I love how Aba and Preach don’t always agree on the same thing. It’s refreshing to see two sides of the topics they talk about.

[@tazsaalim8710]

69 likes, nice 😏

[@mastshke]

Its more so preach bringing up psuedo intellectual shit that makes no sense.

[@xHannibal]

If two people always agree, one of them is unnecessary

[@mastshke]

@@xHannibal yeah but the disagreement is forced.

[@FatesxofxthexDead]

@@mastshke no, you just overly analyze ish and then have a mental conversation with yourself justifying how you feel. Nah, you doing too much slow yourself

[@TJhandford524]

I agree with Preach. “…That’s the whole point of fantasizing about someone.” The point being, it’s a healthier way to purge these feelings than other mediums. If I’m angry with someone, and I write a song about it, surely that’s a better medium than physically acting that anger out on them. In the same way, if I lust for someone, and I write a fan fiction about it… you get the point! We all have fantasies, the difference is in how we act upon them.

[@gouvyfam]

I don't know about "healthier way to purge... feelings" but it's certainly an interesting way to practice one's creative writing skills

[@dxshawn532]

@@gouvyfam Lmao apparently this guy thinks writing like 50 stories obsessing over having sex with a celebrity is "Healthy expression". I wonder what he thinks is unhealthy expression.

[@dxshawn532]

Or, you know, just keep it in your mind?

[@TJhandford524]

@@dxshawn532 an unhealthy way would be to be Fleece Johnson and take it by force. “Healthy” may not have been the right word to describe what I meant. But hopefully you get the point. Reading a fan fiction is more vanilla than watching a deepfake pr0n of your favorite celebrity. Again, everyone has fantasies, it’s all in how you act on them. You may be able to keep it in your head; others may not be as fortunate.

[@titusfortunus2916]

Listen, i agree thinking about fucking someone is better than cheating. And i agree writing a song is better than beatin a dude senseless. But lets not pretend that, in that same analogy, writing a song about how you hate a dude and how stupid he is and how you're writing this song so that you dont beat his ass... thats still bad. Still very bad. Carving in the history of media and time about what a piece of shit someone is is not as good as just therapy and working on it on your own. Hurting them less doesnt mean youre not. Writing out and publishing how bad you wanna fuck someone other than your significant other and want to feel them play with your body and you want them to call you princess and make you beg for it... That isnt as bad as cheating. Thats still not good.

[@startedfromathread2539]

As a person that writes fanfiction. Anything involving real people is weird, and if they're doing sexual things it's even weirder to me.

[@foggyfrogy]

Same. That's why I always found the kpop hardcore fandom weird...

[@mememachine5244]

@@foggyfrogy IDK how anyone can date someone that literally idolises another member of the opposite sex. Just wouldn't sit right with me.

[@VixxKong2]

I don't get why it's weird. As if people weren't idolizing Brad Pitt and others before. The only difference is that fanfictions are more popular now than before the 2000s. But it's not like many people don't fantasize about celebrities 🤷‍♀️

[@undead4456]

@@VixxKong2 just because people did it in the past doesn’t make it ok to do it now. It’s still weird af.

[@foggyfrogy]

@@VixxKong2 the moment you write down how you wanna do something physical with a real person and publish it for everyone to read, it's when it becomes very much problematic imo if they fictional you can go wild as you like but real people?! 😩

[@PunkMartyr]

The sound of rain and thunder outside was broken by the pitter-patter of feet approaching the front door. Preach adjusted his reading glasses and looked up from his hentai comic, confused as he wasn’t expecting company. *BANG* *BANG* The door knocker sounded like a medieval battering ram assaulting a castle gate. “I’m coming i’m coming” Preach exasperated, quickly putting on his Sherlock Holmes inspired corduroy slippers and robe, setting the graphic.. very graphic novel down. Annoyed at the late hour and feeling good about having earlier beat the beta out of two custom Fresh and Fit punching bags he threw the door wide open. He instantly regretted his decision as the night was without moonlight and pitch black. A tall figure stood at the door rain coming off his yellow WuTang raincoat. “I have it!” Aba exclaimed excitedly as he forced his way past Preach. He approached the coffee table in the center of the living room and set down an ominous cedar box with ancient engravings on top.

[@TheBlackPumps]

I’m leaving a comment so I can get an update on the story. 😂

[@karencooper_vo]

Love this! 😂

[@marinthegoedschalk7245]

it's the beating the beta out of f &f for me🤣

[@championboy4782]

Solid work actually, I like the ye olde description types. Very reminiscent of the original Arthur Conan Doyle. Good job.

[@ashleyhohos]

Bro this is great. I only have problems if it becomes self-insert, or like character/reader

[@sylviagrace2651]

Longtime fanfic writer here, our community is split. Those who know using real people in stories is wrong and weird and those who disregard a real person's feelings and current relationships to project their gross fantasies on them. It's a real problem and many celebrities come out and say they're uncomfortable with it. It's one thing if a celeb or KZbinr asks for it for the meme or content but most think it's weird and are uncomfortable with it.

[@YouKnowMeDuh]

Agreed.

[@Solitaire427]

A black women letting you grab her hair is equivalent to a white girl being choked in a pickup truck and drug threw the mud.. freaking hilarious 😂

[@theezenriarinze9203]

Drug threw the mud???

[@gregbeck8686]

In the rain😂😂

[@Alecexo]

Drug through the mud is crazy 😭😭😭

[@Solitaire427]

@@gregbeck8686 yeah let’s not forget the rain.. hilarious

[@marlom7882]

Well I mean yea didn’t you see Twitter after Chris Rock made that GI Jane joke? As we know: black women’s hair are *very important to them*

[@J0eMega]

There is 100% going to be an Aba and Preach fan fiction after this video. I’m calling it now.

[@pluto5814]

headed to wattpad right now

[@sweetcinnamonpnchkin]

Wattpad’s gonna explode

[@G.Bfit.93]

Right above you in the comments 🤣

[@naeco1602]

Hahahaha

[@rmglover3191]

There's a brief one in the comments section, written by a "Jeremy" currently standing at 1.2K likes.

[@ATHF346]

I see fan fictions like porn ngl, it’s still engaging in fantasy the difference is it’s in a written format - like an erotic novel

[@Nexuish]

So, let me make sure I understand this. If a straight guy is into fictional media with sexy girls, that’s not okay and blah blah blah male gaze blah blah objectification of women blah… but sex fanfiction about a real guy that basically objectifies him into a sex object is immune from scrutiny? Man… society be confusing sometimes.

[@lordtbootyclappn1621]

Society is sexist fam, it ain't right but people will find weird ways to justify why its acceptable. Best you can do is stop giving a shit about public opinions.

[@hiidupiidu3292]

i didnt understand it either but apparently it is okay because they are celebrities..these fanfiction writers justify it by saying that celebs know that they are going to be objectified so it is okay. There's a lot of fanfiction out there about female celebs too and it doesn't help that a lot of these celebrities promote this culture by making jokes and never outright denouncing it..if the victims don't care themselves, tf can we do about it.

[@tainii-san5879]

That's the new standard. In the past it was the norm for men to fantasize about women in media, it was frowned upon for women to express their sexuality without being shamed. Now it's kind of the reverse, however not quite. Men might get annoyed but I doubt any man whose not overly religious would feel much shame, nor should they. Same goes for women, most of them make either gay smut or self-inserts with fictional character. But what should be highlighted is that *a good portion of fanfics are not smut* .

[@summerrose8110]

@@lordtbootyclappn1621 Well said.

[@marlom7882]

Society really is confusing man. That’s why I thought it’s best for me to live a hermit lifestyle and stay away from people

[@sunkun983]

The girl didn't write the fanfics she saved a bunch other people wrote in a y/n format

[@yoyo9winner]

Regardless it’s weird to have it

[@arf6899]

@@yoyo9winner nah, maybe she saved it to read later. It normal to read Fics actually.

[@mjtopping4179]

Saved for the wank bank 😂

[@letmepickmynameidiot4832]

@@yoyo9winner Why? It's porn. Anyone who watches or saves porn is weird?

[@arf6899]

@Andrei Georgescu I mean depends on the tipe of fanfics, but I disagree, there's weird people everywhere and sometimes I read them when Canon is shit, it's not weird they are like alectronic books

[@Demonofthedesi]

The two men got into a hot tub, they were cordial. They had a conversation and they slowly moved away from each other until they sat from the opposite of each other. They were not gay.

[@thrrax]

As a guy who used to write "fan fiction" on demand for women, yeah, I can tell you it's the stories they're interested in.

[@stoutsprout4297]

How much would they pay for a story?

[@Sp33dGames]

@@stoutsprout4297 imagine paying someone for this..like...use your imagination 😂

[@victorious0001]

I imagine there is an element of surprise involved with someone else creating it.

[@kiarayasmilet7318]

As a Kinky Erotic Writer myself I 100% agree with this statement.

[@stoutsprout4297]

@@Sp33dGames Imagine paying for Onlyfans lol if there's a fetish then there's people paying for it in a medium of their choice

[@_Marco_Antonio]

Wattpad: Aba & Preach & You *Mature content ahead* Epilogue: The wooden floor creaked constantly. It kept an unstoppable beat. A rhythm. A rhythm of laugh. A rhythm of happiness. A rhythm of passion.

[@rool5712]

😂

[@aidenmeislitzer7774]

Shhhh don’t give the writers ideas 😂😂

[@opinionatortv6457]

Haram

[@Ellie60091]

Sir you are a poet

[@theezenriarinze9203]

Lmao 😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@sul391]

I think there is a lot of dehumanizing that comes with celebrity culture, so to some people writing/reading a fanfic about a celeb they don't know might be the same as writing/reading about a fictional character. Also fanfiction is meant to be just that, fiction. Some women have super kinky fantasies, doesn't mean they want to act on them in real life.

[@dfpguitar]

If you want something in a fantasy you want it IRL. The reason you don't do it is lack of opportunity, repercussions etc

[@JenocidalTendencies]

Even as an avid fan fiction writer/roleplayer I’ve always found fan fiction written about real people to be highly disturbing. Even if it’s just fantasy it strikes me as oddly pathological. I suppose the same could be said about writing fan fiction about your favorite character but…the character is just that; a character, an object of fiction that expressly exists to convey and explore an idea through narrative. It cannot be harmed by your objectification where a real person can be.

[@joncooke158]

What about with a degree of separation? Like you aren't writing a fanfiction about B.Cuberbatch but about Cumberbatch's Sherlock character. Is that better?

[@Doofenshmirtz1088]

"Highly disturbing" lmao

[@VixxKong2]

Don't you picture the actor when you write your Marvel fanfictions or whatever? How is it so much different than just outright making a Tom Holland fanfic?

[@goofy4018]

I think a celebrity you don't know might as well be a fictional character. If you know the person it gets odd. Tryna keep it fiction

[@Lady_de_Lis]

@@joncooke158 It at least gives readers an out. If the author is more concerned with the actor, that doesn't necessarily mean that the readers have to be. So Spiderman for example. If I read fanfics about him, I personally tend to picture the spiderman from the PS4 game. I just think his overall design is my favorite out of the more "cinematic" Spiderman depictions. However, a lot of writers will add info to their stories saying "Tobey McGuire Spiderman" or "Andrew Garfield Spiderman" etc. I don't have to view the character that way just because the author does. So it might be a tad creepy for the author, but the readers can get away without that extra creepiness factor. Not to mention, some actors have practically defined some characters. For example, almost nobody can imagine Harry Potter looking like anybody except Daniel Radcliffe. So there's not much you can do to avoid picturing Daniel in your mind when you are reading any Harry Potter fanfiction.

[@elyeliza8287]

i actually went to Wattpad to check if there's something on Aba and Preach as soon as they mentioned fan fiction :)) didn't expect Aba to actually know the site. I read a lot of fanfic but it's on shows that got cancelled and i love how creative some fandoms are in continuing the story. But i found some veeeeery disturbing ones that have at least a million reads each chapter that are based on real people AND about sex between MINORS TT wtf is wrong with some people... at least the rules are more strict now but it's still crazy...

[@enterthekyuubi]

Pretty sure someone out there has made a fanfic about Aba and Preach in a romantic relationship. It's the internet afterall. lol.

[@mohamedelkayal8871]

Rule34

[@rileycarrolan2923]

Source?

[@SageVaughn]

Are YOU that someone by chance? 🤔

[@MrPePeLePuo]

got it on my hard drive rn no cap

[@aaronsmith7909]

@@MrPePeLePuo send me that shit brotha, I need a wank

[@AMS846]

I’m 40 and I’ve been into manga & anime since the early 90s. People thought it was very geeky for a long time but I think now, it’s become more of a common denominator between many like minded people and is seen as a sort of passion (like people who are into art). @Aba&Preach, I always enjoy your thought provoking discussions. Keep it up

[@elchucapablas]

Nah it still weird bro. You weird

[@100navat]

@@elchucapablas cap

[@mrdan523]

@alvin rivera. Your either 30+ or still in high school/middle school or you’re just out of touch. At University literally everyone likes anime. I see the frat dudes rocking Attack on titan shirts and bringing their girlfriends to see the newest anime movies in theaters.

[@elchucapablas]

@@100navat no 🧢

[@elchucapablas]

@@mrdan523 I am not 30 nor I am in high school or middle school. I think what’s happening is that we all have different definitions of anime. I know some people who consider Goku anime. I grew up playing outside not really watching that much TV or glued to a tablet. I have watched some real anime series tho. Initial D is my shit but I doubt people know about it because it’s so niche

[@InDeathWeLove]

I'm mighty tempted to look up aba & preach fan fiction, because I'm sure it exists and part of me wants to laugh, but then another part of me is very scared.

[@Apocalythpe]

I agree with Preach, that writing down sex fantasy, is where writers make their money

[@mrbonjangle]

Pretty sure that is fifty shades of grey.

[@Tickerchicken]

I mean it does if your a woman

[@candycane1744]

@@mrbonjangle well it is a fic of twilight

[@PhilRockwell]

Writer's better not get attacked like comedians.

[@pathetic2399]

Writing sex fantasy isn’t weird, which Aba pointed out. it’s writing sex fantasy with real people thats creepy and weird.

[@Mr.man712]

I feel like fan fiction is to women as porn is to men. Imagination vs visual experience, I kinda just see roleplaying as a waste of time personally but to each is own.

[@summerrose8110]

Fan fiction is cringe, explains Riverdale.

[@atlas4837]

Why do you think that 50 shades book was so popular? They eat that up

[@theezenriarinze9203]

Yes, there's actually studies supporting such. 50 shades of grey and twilight are such on mass scale

[@The_Real_Black_Jesus]

@@theezenriarinze9203 there is just an overt societal rule at this point lol

[@Cyber-Rain]

First sentence is the truth.

[@svkbw1921]

My approach to fanfiction and short story writing was to explore interesting concepts in my favorite fandoms. I've never been into writing lemons (smut/erotica) or about relationships. I wouldn't mind a partner being into it, but having an expansive gallery of erotica focused on a singular, real life person, would probably be a bit unnerving.

[@briyanna8262]

writing/reading erotic fanfiction is the same to me as watching porn. it's just in written form and you visualize it in your head instead of watching it with your eyes. some people are okay with their partners watching porn, and some aren't. find the relationship that fits you.

[@berrymckockiner5883]

It depends though because I've had girls ask me for a y/n smut about us two. So in the future, if she keep reading that while being in a relationship, that would be cheating on her bf

[@JR-wf5kg]

Being obssessed with a particular person while constantly fantasizing about them and watching porn are not the same thing. It's just weird if someone is obsessed with a specific person and worships them at least for me.

[@briyanna8262]

@@berrymckockiner5883 I get that and its creepy that she asked you that. Lol

[@briyanna8262]

@@JR-wf5kg the obsession part, yes, isn't good and actually creepy Not healthy.

[@chillerkiller112]

U purposely missed like 56543553 points

[@azrael4894]

Fun fact: there is a romance movie named "After", that is based on a book series of the same name that was adapted from a Harry Styles Fan Fiction by the same author

[@My_Master_Waves]

That book is awful. Women liking "after" books proves that they don't know what they want.

[@TinyToonStar]

And Fifty Shades of Gray was developed from a Twilight fanfic

[@sixk8333]

@@My_Master_Waves mostly a bunch of little girls or creepy grown women since the author wrote that book when she was an adult and the guy she was writing about was like still a minor

[@dxshawn532]

@@sixk8333 Sht like tht only flies from those lonely house wife types. Nobody bats an eye. Lets not forget the borderline pedophilia fantasy depicted in twilight.

[@TheNightxSky]

there was also a movie made from that book 'after'

[@LambdaPsi]

3:42 = Preach was on point. For example i have some resentful fantasies about someone that i hate, and those thought is about causing violence and not act upon it, it's nothing. If i do the inverse now it's different, because the violence is done nad you acted on those fantasies. We are all human. Aba is able of strange fantasies and has the power to do so .

[@vanessagil3527]

From a creative perspective, writing about a person who exists is easier than creating a completely fictional character. Fan fiction is like beginner writing.

[@austenpoppy558]

Fanfiction about fictional characters can be really inventive; rewriting is a part of the creative process.

[@BAEHELPFUNY]

stfu bitch we know what ya doin' wit' 'em fingers

[@YouKnowMeDuh]

@@austenpoppy558 Indeed. Lots of room for variety when it's fictional characters.

[@foxisune]

I could go on and on about how fanfiction isn’t cheating and it’s not weird. But I can see how writing about real people in really grotesque ways is weird. I always say no when someone asks

[@dark3rthanshadows]

lavish sex with real people is wierd let's be honest. writting fan fiction isn't but straight up writting about having sex multiple times while obssession over some person you know it's wierd.

[@paulogaspar8295]

Fanfics are exactly like watching porn or being a sub of a onlyfans. If you watch sometimes just to get it off that's ok. If you have dozens saved of a specific person while dating that is super weird. Like it would be weird if a dude saved dozens of videos of a specific pornstar.

[@alterego6719]

@@paulogaspar8295 see personally i do have a partner that i love to death and i read fanfiction for fun sometimes. I don’t read them because I’m imagining myself with someone else, I forget who the person the fanfiction is even about after I’ve started reading and also I am only reading for the content. If i want to give a face to the man in the fanfiction it’ll be my own boyfriend. It’s almost as if I’m imagining me and my boyfriend in various, fun, otherworldly situations. It’s 100% me reading for the story and thinking about my boyfriend. And also these are not real life fanfictions, but historical, thriller, etc, stuff that we can’t just act out irl.

[@danad3838]

She's not even writing it tho, shes just reading them. Like its literally the same as watching porn except no one is actually getting affected, and I BET that guy does watch porn.

[@7thesage853]

I appreciate the fact that they’re not always on the same page and that they can respect the fact they have differing opinions on certain topics

[@FreakSamT]

I am with Preach in this one. You can't control someone's thought . Writing is putting thought on paper. But this is the way to discuss with someone. Can't agree with everything

[@SalemArc]

This is far funnier because my coworker writes fanfiction about Harry Styles and has a half naked poster of him in her apartment.

[@jatmo6991]

Odd you know that about her.

[@SalemArc]

@@jatmo6991 only because she brags about it and her obsession with him.

[@warrenpatrick5128]

That's weird

[@worstbehaviorstories]

What’s the deal with Harry Styles? He has a whole trilogy of movies that are on Netflix that is based off of fan fiction about him? Shit is wild.

[@gamehardy]

Damn do you Work at my job 43 yr old nice as any person could be but Jesus she was so proudly showing her tattoo and her room was decked out.

[@rolling_heavy]

"I'll let you grab my hair." - I nearly choked on my food. Reminds me of a lesson I learned duringmy first experience dating a black woman. I thought I would give it a go and reach for that hair when we were doing out thing. NOPE, was not a good idea at all. We still had fun that evening, but there was anger in it for sure after that. I am just grateful that I lived to enjoy another day.

[@love6ic202]

I think those are books she bought & what I found weirder about their dynamic is that he just spent his whole section reading out loud novels to the whole world lmao

[@ImChopSuey]

What's creepy about the girls fantasy is that it's like an obsession for person to the point of putting them on a pedestal a lot of these fan girls think these guys are perfect and can do no wrong and develop a one sided emotional connection with the guy they think they know so well but don't actually know anything about

[@hookah9954]

Facts, it’s weird

[@alessandrap4733]

But guys won't, just never

[@CharlesChristinaWH]

@@hookah9954 as a guy who went through an ex like that not only did she have me on a pedestal she expected me to stay in a happy mood even if she legitimately upset me It's a very dangerous type of thought process It's like they're typecasting the type of men they want to date

[@RellOkay]

@@CharlesChristinaWH Went thru the exact same thing. You’re basically not allowed to be an actual human.

[@HadassaMoon144]

But she's writing about a celebrity that she will NEVER have. So who cares??

[@T..C..M]

The first guy is stuck in 1991, the hair, the earring 😂

[@aliwk1094]

"Omg there's a fanfic of aba? That'd SO creepy" - Googles out of curiosity - "aba and preach are 2 black men" throws phone HOWLING

[@plumpydayz]

Fanfiction is definitley more female centred. I'd say about 90% of it is written by girls and women. Fanfiction isn't always romantic or erotic, it can also feature genres like fantasy, action, adventure and horror. There are tonnes of fanfics on anime, video games and comics too. I would say that erotic novels are equivalant to por nogr aphy for men. Women are emotional and men are visiual. I always did find fanfiction of real people and celebrities to be a bit disturbing though.

[@camalex7782]

*definitely But yes but it's not just fanfic it's generally romantic YA novels too if men generally want to feel yuh know ya know they're not reading

[@plumpydayz]

@PJ Rivera oh absolutely, there is tonnes of smut XD you could try maybe archive of our own, I find that site is very diverse and usually written by people who can write really well. Wattpad is undoubtedly mostly teenage girls. Some of the stuff is very cringe but we all have to start somewhere I suppose.

[@lampsenpai4325]

Yeah that’s why when I saw the title I was like of course not since I was thinking about like character a in x universe fan fiction or crossovers but then they pulled out the erotic harry styles

[@boopyournose5698]

I believe fanfictions can be the same as actors being in movies. Only the aesthetic is the same. If people can distinguish it as fiction and not draw parallels with reality, it's all good. Of course there are fanfictions that are just too much, but then the problem is the author. However, with the right writer, any plot can be interesting.

[@blyss.x]

Women are visual too. I've never read fanfiction. I think it all depends on the person

[@KarrieDreammind5]

I actually think women writing/reading stories about sex is the equivalent to men watching p0rn or looking at half-naked insta models online and jerking off to them. Men's sexual fantasies are visually stimulated by looking at pictures/video. Women's are stimulated by imagining entire scenarios and placing themselves in them. So if a woman in a relationship is obsessing over another dude - celebrity or not - and fantasising & reliving her fantasies through stories.... I would say that would be the same as when a man in a relationship is obsessing over women, looking at their sexual pictures online or watching p0rn or any other sexual content. In both cases the person does it to 'virtually' satisfy their own sexual desires and it both cases the other partner has equal grounds to be jealous and upset if they find out. Just my two cents.

[@jordankuiper805]

Aba and Preach Fanfiction. Preach walked up the stairs to Aba’s abode. His face was calm, but his fingers dug into his helmet that he carried under one arm. Perspiration dotted his brow as his thoughts spun in his head. He could feel his insides squirm with uncertainty as each step brought him closer. He opened the door and stood at threshold. Sucking in a deep breath he moved in. The familiar creek of their special room told him that Aba was there, and he was anxious, perhaps as anxious as him. He couldn’t believe that they were both going through with this. It had started out as a joke, but now they were here. He had hoped to find the door closed, but he saw Aba there with wet dripping lips as he downed Blue Chew. This was important he guessed that neither of them wanted a misfire. “You ready?” Aba asked. Preach simply nodded his head. His body would speak for him. They came next to another, turned to the camera. “Welcome to Aba and Preach Only Fans!” Submit your own post.

[@Mikaelamofu]

LMAOOO I’m crying omggg 😭😭

[@YouKnowMeDuh]

LAUGHED SO HARD MY HEAD HURTS STOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOP 💀 This is so stereotypically fanfiction 🤣

[@jordankuiper805]

@@YouKnowMeDuh We need to get Aba and Preach to live act this.

[@jordankuiper805]

@@Mikaelamofu We need Aba and Preach to actually act this out.

[@kiley679]

Fan fiction has ruined some people's view of the fandom they are a part of. Jensen Ackles was very uncomfortable with fans writing fanfic making him in a homosexual relationship with another character. It started being brought up in conventions and made him uncomfortable and people even asked him to sign awkward, fan made photos of him and the other guy.

[@amarrevolver4452]

That's very creepy ngl, i understand why he was uncomfortable and those people should to.. wanna do that sht? Keep it private..

[@labrat2306]

I agree with Aba, it's not that someone is fantasizing that's bizarre. When someone is in a relationship and they are willing to invest time and effort into materializing their fantasies with other people, then they were never in a relationship.

[@nomadwomack]

I use to read sonic fan fictions when I was younger. It's not just for women or nerds and they aren't always romantic or dirty. Think of it like an alternate storyline fan made Manga in novel/short story form.

[@robertoybarra3086]

….

[@GeminautVA]

Nah man, sorry. Fanfic is primarily for hornytoads.

[@adrianchatman5734]

Yeah I used to read SW fanfics all the time. Yeah some were dirty but the most I read were just action adventures. But yeah the dirty stuff is out there.

[@mirikaye5606]

I'm sorry, I KNOW I don't know much about this but I have GOT to be misunderstanding you... are you reading erotic stories about Sonic the Hedgehog? 😳

[@dakashoes4702]

You don't mean sexual sonic fan fics do you?

[@FrankTheMonk]

I've been writing these 'fanfics' for a long time but with people, and very often the person I end up writing with is a married woman or a girl dating someone who they love but can't quite get all of their fantasies out with (or so they say). Some people genuinely see it as a hobby and a form of writing and exercising the mind while others desperately use it to satisfy certain cravings without actually throwing their life away for it, which can be therapeutical. Personally though, as a guy that's been doing this for many years, I wouldn't be comfortable if my girl engaging in those sort of writings WITH people often. Without is fine, because it's just writing and just wanting to write something provoking for and by yourself is fine, but ERP/Collaborative Fanfic writing is often done these days between two or more people through online forums, Discord servers and websites (look up F-List) and someone who spends a lot of time in those spaces is doing so because they are either missing or running away from something. Aka, if you're dating someone who spends a lot of time "writing fanfics", you should probably look into re-considering or improving your intimate time spent with them.

[@championboy4782]

Pretty solid advice my mans

[@kenji2342]

Good advice

[@paulogaspar8295]

it's like a girl having a boyfriend that is obcessed with porn because she doesn't satisfy him. It's not very healthy. But it's not always the other person's fault. Some people that watch too much porn or read too many fanfics have weird impossible expectations and that's their problem.

[@FrankTheMonk]

@@paulogaspar8295 That's absolutely true! There's nothing wrong with either of those things but when people go in too deep or spend too much time it can indeed lead to unreasonable expectations.

[@blackmagician7645]

6:38 🤣Start hearing those propeller lift offs in the seat!

[@luyandazakwe7474]

Shout out to aba and preach for keeping it real all the time

[@milav4047]

Never read or wrote any of it, but seeing Aba so uncomfortable really makes me wanna give it a go 🤣🤣🤣

[@franklingoodwin]

Do it 😂

[@milav4047]

Never have I ever read or written fan fiction Until now….. ( and it shows) Inspired by this video and sexy Aba There you were Aba , shoulders up as I have never seen the rest of you , grinning at me trough the slit of your sexy Kenny hoodie , devilish twinkle in your eyes…. I reach for your face tenderly , almost hesitantly but full of anticipation of that first contact, of that magical electric spark ….as I am just about to touch that gorgeous space between your beard and the rest of untouchable areas - you slap my hand and say in your sexy , couple octaves higher, voice : “ what do you think you doing??? Get your hands away from me!!!!” That sent the current of pure desire right into my belly, my knees weekend…. My whole body pulls right in front of you like a magnet suspended just a few inches of its opposite, and that space hurt from enormous resistance to the distance. So close yet so painfully separate. You grabbed my arms in panic and they instantly turned red cos my skin reacts to any touch in last couple years. They also wobbled beautifully as we both watched them in slow motion like motion . We looked at each other and burst into laughter! Realizing in that moment that you want to come closer and check out what tf is going on , you grab the edge of the KZbin video and cross over ! You Aba, in full …. Pants and all …. You push me slightly but decisively on to the sofa behind me and sit at the other end of it, just far enough to be safe. You ask me what is a white middle aged woman doing in a fantasy like this …. I answer: “ I’ve seen you around, you sexy motherf… “ and imedeatly after:” I am highly uncomfortable when I like someone so even in my own fan-fiction I have to make fun of my self about it. “ You laugh. We proceed to have a long ass conversation. You wished you recorded it cos it was gooood. But that would be evidence, and creepy. The end … or is it ? Ps. Joke aside, writing this really felt creepy 🤣🤣🤣

[@milav4047]

@@franklingoodwin did it 🤣🤣🤣

[@franklingoodwin]

@@milav4047 😂

[@shannonb4011]

I feel like there two levels of Fanfiction: the reality obsession side about real people & the fantasy side about fictional universes which often adds or deviates from Canon but is influenced by the original narrative

[@JGburneraccount]

idk if my gf was writing fan fics about a celebrity i would be weirded out, that being said I chose someone who wouldnt do that. Also, she loves your vids keep it up my fellow Canucks

[@DivineMultiForce]

🍁🇨🇦

[@TheKatarinaGiselle]

I mean, fanfics are definitely weird, but if it contributes to getting her wet than it shouldn’t bother you at all 😂

[@deeznuts3145]

That you know of.

[@bbbbbbb51]

It's a red flag for sure

[@roboturtle1429]

canuckles

[@duncancrowley3171]

If I was stuck in an elevator with Alexis Texas, and I let it slip that I was a big fan, she wouldn't be surprised at all; I'm sure she gets it a lot. But if I then said "I've written fan fiction about you" that's another level of strange and she's gonna have a finger on that mace ready to spray.

[@Tential1]

None of us have heard of this Alexis Texas person....

[@jerynturner4626]

@@Tential1 welp, now you do :)

[@dxshawn532]

@@Tential1 Lying pos

[@PotatoAimNr1]

6:55 When Preach says, I don't want to hear that shit, he meant that literally.

[@amandawingz658]

Writing it down is not the same thing as acting upon it. As someone who is an overthinker- I can not turn my brain off- it helps me to get the thoughts out of my head. I won't stop thinking of something entirely but the volume lessens. It clarifies things and also gives you possibility to see things from different perspectives once it's on paper.

[@Sravan.Allopi]

yeah but do you write about getting tongue punched by Harry Styles while being in a relationship with someone else and also when HS has no idea who you are? The context is like chalk and cheese here. I journal my thoughts down too but never have I written down something so graphic in sexual detail about someone I've never met before especially when I've been with someone else.

[@omsval1485]

If your women is writing fantasies about being with a celebrity or even if she has a celebrity crush, that’s not your woman, she belongs to the celebrity… and that’s real

[@xdandychiggins]

facts

[@Northanteus]

It all begins in the mind, so if she is cheating in her mind, she is cheating. They need to find someone who respects their own self enough to respect the one they're with right now.

[@BabyGirlTiny]

You sound dumb

[@libertyprime1614]

Having these fantasies and writing them down isn't wierd, sharing them with person who you are not intimate with is.

[@1specified]

On fanfiction, what I think is weird is telling the subject about it. If writing it is your way of expressing it and getting it out there I have no problem with it. Even if you publicise that on a website I don't think that's a bad way of expressing your hypersexuality and as long as you can recognise that those thoughts are purely fictional and not real, I think that's fine. What I don't like is when it's projected. I especially don't like when they write fanfiction about two men and insist that that is how it should be. That's beyond fantasy and gets into the world of obsession and I also think it's quite awful how it's usually straight girls writing about fake gay relationships.

[@SkylerGW]

Preach: "If you get what you didn't think you got, you done deserved it" Aba: 🤔🤷‍♂️🤙

[@SkylerGW]

13:10

[@mdel310]

I agree with Preach on this one, It's only weird if you actually act out your thoughts or fantasies. Everybody gets the thought to punch their boss in the face from time to time but they don't act upon it. That's just how the human mind works.

[@bofasofa9399]

Greeting my Neegus and Neeguses, we are the chosen few who are early enough to enjoy this message first. Never forget what I already forgot I was about to say, or else you will never remember it at all.

[@EvieEnchanted]

That girl flawlessly dodged the trouble bullet by masking a potential issue with an even bigger issue, This man's totally gunna put a ring on it

[@brwnsuga.mangos]

When y’all brought up the hair pulling, all I could do was laugh and smile at the facts! 😂😂😂

[@AnimaVox_]

I've always thought fanfiction about real-world people was weird at best and outright disturbing at worst. I read fanfiction for entertainment, not for gratification-so if I see someone doing this, I avoid that writer. I just find it distasteful and cringe-worthy. I can't imagine having a SO do that, it'd likely be the end of that relationship for me.

[@kaimobley5324]

I don't think Fan fiction is creepy if your single. If your in a relationship or even a marriage and the Fan Fic isn't about your partner then yeah that's creepy. However what you put in the Fan Fic also matters if your single. I went to school with a girl named Anastasia and she had a book full of fantasies about a certain boy in school she liked...welp her book got took and passed around the school (thankfully not to me) and it had very creepy stuff in it. The girl was so distraught about everyone knowing her fantasies she said she was gonna blow up the school. Word got around that she was gonna do that so eventually the cops showed up at her house and she indeed had a bomb but not fully made. She had to be escorted everywhere including the bathroom by the cops. Eventually she moved away.

[@xdandychiggins]

i can chime in a little on the fan fic aspect. the people who write and read these are just practicing a form of escapism, it‘a just a way of leaving your own reality for a while and finding comfort in a dream world. it ties into the larger concept of parasocial relationships and often times it often speaks to a person’s loneliness. no one who has a healthy family and social life has enough time to write this stuff about people they don’t know.

[@mememachine5244]

The geezers literally in a relationship...

[@radrose4864]

Respectfully disagree. When I was in middle school and high school a TON of girls from apparently normal healthy happy families wrote fanfiction. It’s just fantasy, people! It’s supposed to be fun, and a creative outlet, and a way for young (mostly) women to explore their sexuality in a safe way and find community around shared hobbies online. With, I might add, no victims compared to the porn industry.

[@smb.]

@@radrose4864 not to mention the long ass or regular hiatus most fanfic writers take (regardless of genre or fan base) cuz they have lives 😂and often don’t come back. Which is both sad and understandable but mostly sad if u rlllllly liked their stories or writing. But oh well 🤷🏽

[@radrose4864]

@@smb. yeah you KNOW you’ve found a winner when that 250k slow burn fixit canon divergence fic is COMPLETED, BABY! It takes such effort and dedication to make it to the finish line. Lots of these writers are grown adults who have to balance their work and family lives too. It’s an impressive juggling act

[@smb.]

@@radrose4864 Yasssss and don’t forget the “crack” pairings/shippings Lmao 💀. I’m a sucker for death the kid x maka (if u watch soul eater lol) And I was just about to add that cuz before the pandemic and other times tbh, some of the writers I followed would announce their leaving cuz of a new baby, kids going back to school, themselves going back to uni,etc. so Yh, life happens but god bless those who come back to finish 😩😭

[@Jellzterzz]

13:07 and aba tryna decipher 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@johnderr32]

I like how you can both be on opposing sides and yet still hold a conversation and come to a resolve.... Respect!

[@dudebroguyman]

I've read a lot of fanfiction in my day, but the ones where you're writing about real people has never been my thing. I wouldn't call it cheating though. Fiction is fiction. It's like.. it's not cheating when he/she has a dream where you cheat on them. It's not cheating if you write a story about that sorta thing. Though I can get why someone you're dating might be bothered by it. I personally don't have any celebrities I look at that way but I get it. Just my opinion there

[@txta786]

Naw. She thinking bout cheating, she probably gonna cheat

[@dudebroguyman]

@@txta786 I agree

[@EdgarHernandez-uu4iw]

Bruh if girls get mad when their boy likes another girls tweets than men have the right to get mad when their women make fan fics like this

[@dudebroguyman]

@@EdgarHernandez-uu4iw It's not a healthy mindset to take into a relationship, I think. Generally speaking, I agree because I know what point you're making.

[@Digger-Nick]

@@dudebroguyman I knew 2 girls from high school who would constantly be the first to "like" these 2 other dude's photos on Instagram. Like literally every photo and they would constantly be one of the first. Well eventually both girls broke up with their current boyfriends and both ended up with the dudes they were liking on Instagram. What they did wasn't "cheating" in the traditional sense (call it micro cheating), but there is definitely underlying intent when you obsess over other people while you're in a relationship.

[@trulam12able]

Preach, totally gonna write some fan fiction and post it here for you.

[@deborahbreeden4394]

I was 63 years old before I heard Dave Chappelle tell a joke about his balls. I never thought about Dave Chappelle's balls even once before I heard that joke. About once a week now, in a passing moment... balls

[@Sp33dGames]

F

[@opinionatortv6457]

Bruh, imagine trying to take a dump and then, BOOM! Dave Chappelle's balls

[@edmundojosezuazuachapa1612]

Ayo 💀📸

[@mirikaye5606]

I'm not sure how this pertains to this subject but this is HILARIOUS none the less! 😂🤣

[@kelliwhite2625]

😆🤣😆🤣⚰

[@devintaylor2051]

Like Aba said a celebrity crush is one thing…. you writing erotic novels about that person is sus especially if you’re already in a relationship.

[@TheKatarinaGiselle]

Lol how is a fantasy sus..literally everybody has them. They just like to express it in different ways. I personally love both porn and erotica, but I think fanfics are weird and I would never want to read them..but I dont kink shame others for what gets them off! 😂 humans are all disgusting horny meatbags with dirty thoughts, nobody is the exception to that 🤣

[@marlom7882]

And that chick novels upon *novels* about it

[@radrose4864]

Why? If your wife wrote romance novels and made bank of them, would you still object? Like I’m pretty sure 50 shades of gray is a One Direction fanfic , which means based on real people.

[@kaimobley5324]

I don't think Fan fiction is creepy if your single. If your in a relationship or even a marriage and the Fan Fic isn't about your partner then yeah that's creepy. However what you put in the Fan Fic also matters if your single. I went to school with a girl named Anastasia and she had a book full of fantasies about a certain boy in school she liked...welp her book got took and passed around the school (thankfully not to me) and it had very creepy stuff in it. The girl was so distraught about everyone knowing her fantasies she said she was gonna blow up the school. Word got around that she was gonna do that so eventually the cops showed up at her house and she indeed had a bomb but not fully made. She had to be escorted everywhere including the bathroom by the cops. Eventually she moved away.

[@kaimobley5324]

@@radrose4864 there's a difference between your partner writing a romance novel about 2 fictional characters or even 1 fictional character but it's completely different if one of the characters is your partner and the other Character is someone else irl, celebrity or not

[@robertparks6115]

10:49 the look of panic then shame

[@chewbacca3269]

I like how you guys centered the golden play button so that when you pause it's right where it should be

[@simonesanaa5331]

Let’s be honest the Harry Styles fanfic is running rampant and is starting to get disturbing. Like it’s a loooot. Fanfic is fine some go overboard.

[@camalex7782]

Its been like that since 2010 , its so normalised there's a whole euphoria backstory on it

[@wololoman3314]

As someone who reads fanfiction, writing someone IRL is weird. Especially when they put themselves (SI- Self insert) in a fic and being OP and having a power trip, harem of anime waifu and befriending the MC. I've seen a lot of these fic and it's 9/10 cringy.

[@maggot1111666]

Damn you guys gotta make a stand up bit comparing shitting noises to fan fics. That whole convo had me dying

[@mrbonjangle]

I think, and I might be wrong, but I’ve heard that fifty shades of Grey is a fan fiction about Twilight (or it started out like that). Now I know it’s different cause it’s fan fiction about a fantasy, but it still shows that writing it down and sharing it might end up making you some bank.

[@bubbahubba8218]

It did start out as a twilight fan fiction. It’s literally twilight except the vampires were replaced with sex addicts. I read it in high school and I couldn’t get past the 2nd novel because it was so poorly written. But sex makes money

[@stilesk9201]

How they be in a whole relationship and fantasizing about another man/women

[@dennyduane]

Poetry is usually about something or someone but not necessarily pointed out that it's about a person.

[@razororder9493]

i read romantic fanfics only of fictional characters, its like reading a romance book. Sometimes it has smut, the lewd ones are like porn to woman the fluff is just cute. The ones about actual people are weird af to me tho

[@charitychapman3181]

Exactly!

[@cosmicgrim7963]

I'd view fanfic as porn, which there isn't a problem with that. The problem starts when it's multiple fics about a real person. A woman mentioned something similar to this under another comment, "watching porn is okay, because it's just fantasy, but when you start to edit videos of the actress/actor's face onto other videos it's different."

[@natpearson5819]

@@cosmicgrim7963 yup I agree with you 100%

[@DarkAnewbyss]

Writing is my passion. Whenever I have writers block I tend to write Naruto fanfics in order to get back into the groove of writing. I haven't had to write one in a while but don't lump all fanfics in with the crazy fanfics. You can get good feedback for your writing. People leave reviews and you can even see the stats of views and people who like it. That said I do agree writing a fanfic for a fictional character is vastly different than writing one about an actual person.

[@ivybelle5044]

It's irritating to watch people who do not have a year in yet talk about how perfect their relationship is😒😒😒like you have literally been through nothing and seen nothing smdh

[@MrSmith-sm3yz]

Chile! The honeymoon phase is meant to be perfect!

[@shadyc7044]

Here's the thing. Writing a fanfic about some celebrity, chances are, that girl isn't going to *get a chance* to act upon it. However... if she DID meet him, wouldn't you assume that she would? I mean, she's lustful enough to write out her fanfic. Change this *slightly* into... she writes a fanfic about the boyfriend's best friend, or something. Someone in arm's reach of her. I think, now, we all consider that cheating, or at the very least, a near-promise of cheating if an opportunity rises. So I think we have our answer. It may not be cheating, *yet,* but it's like a mark of potential. High potential, even.

[@weary7441]

100% agree with you

[@Farhan_049]

Thank you so much! You worded out my thoughts when I couldn't. And it's way too easy nowadays for women. It's just a fact - the sexual marketplace value of women is far higher than men.

[@VixxKong2]

Even if she didn't write fanfics she could decide to act

[@Redrash12]

Heres my opinion: its a completely pointless argument to theorize about whether its cheating or not, because ultimately its going to come down to your partner’s level of respect and loyalty to you, which is something that is completely out of your control

[@kaimobley5324]

I don't think Fan fiction is creepy if your single. If your in a relationship or even a marriage and the Fan Fic isn't about your partner then yeah that's creepy. However what you put in the Fan Fic also matters if your single. I went to school with a girl named Anastasia and she had a book full of fantasies about a certain boy in school she liked...welp her book got took and passed around the school (thankfully not to me) and it had very creepy stuff in it. The girl was so distraught about everyone knowing her fantasies she said she was gonna blow up the school. Word got around that she was gonna do that so eventually the cops showed up at her house and she indeed had a bomb but not fully made. She had to be escorted everywhere including the bathroom by the cops. Eventually she moved away.

[@Kirbybaby]

fanfiction was a great outlet when I was 15. I dont know I feel like it is something you grow out of along with obsessing over celebrities. I still admire artists but to obsess and write novels on the imaginary version of a real person (and in sexual situations) would be a little creepy after a certain age.

[@lysandracaspez578]

THIS! I grew out of it a month ago and I’m eighteen😭You should not be doing this in a serious relationship! ESPECIALLY OF A REAL PERSON? You either grow out of it or it becomes something gross

[@aelh123]

Lmao if some one tells me about how they fantasize about me I would just RUN AWAY 🏃‍♀️ that’s so uncomfortable 🥴

[@The_Real_Black_Jesus]

I've dealt with it, it can be creepy at times, but I ain't asking for the number lol.

[@xdandychiggins]

what if it’s a partner

[@aelh123]

@@xdandychiggins lmao my husband can tell me stuff all day lol but a stranger or some one crushing on you … naaaahhhhhh

[@ashharkausar413]

One of those things you just keep to yourself and lock it away in your mind.

[@smoothsoulbrotha]

At least you'd know you're attractive.....? .......yeah you're right. RUN!

[@J.P_INC.]

If you fantasize about another person when in a relationship is a sign you are not satisfied with the person you are with because to fantasize takes a nice amount of thought and focus and if you are focused on someone else other than your partner,then deep down you feel that you could do better or the other person isn't special enough to be fantasized about or gives you what no fantasy can give you. People who feel they are lacking something in their relationship will fantasize about a better form of relationship that chances are don't involve the person they are with. Just my perspective

[@cyborgchimpy]

hm. I dont necessarily agree. you forget we are mammals. when it comes down to it, sex is a means to re-produce.

[@Alecexo]

@@cyborgchimpy what does that have to do with what he said though

[@noneyabusiness7998]

Exactly and looking at a woman with a thickness that can save life's is cheating

[@imanigordon6803]

@@Alecexo I agree in a sense but everyone has a celeb crush even celebs.

[@imanigordon6803]

@@Alecexo it’s like saying watching porn in a relationship is saying you don’t like your girlfriend

[@FYGUnkleUrple]

This honestly just reminded me of Patrice O Neal in The Elephant Room talking about how if you gave a woman the opportunity to cheat with a celebrity with no repercussions whatsoever she would still say no while all you would have to ask a dude is "So uh, you see that girl behind the dumpster?" This man is probably doing the trademark Patrice wheeze in the afterlife lmao.

[@Teresia12]

I'd be so pissed if my man was writting shite about a girl I'd be gone!! My husband had an epic mustache and was a fantastic kisser. Then once he shaved off his mustache and our teen daughters and I were shocked. I yelled at them for laughing. He had no upper lip and for 20+ years I had no clue. So guys don't shave that off. You don't know what will happen. Lol

[@eletralad]

Huh

[@vickerfinal]

Most men use porn instead, while women love fan fictions and shit like that. Now will you leave him for beating his meat to porn? If not, then you're all over the place.

[@Farhan_049]

I once had to do it for a play during college week. That month was pure EMOTIONAL DAMAGE! I was the 12 year old face with the voice of a 40 year old.

[@talia8493]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@joyandpeacefullaughter5307]

That black girl seemed more excited about the relationship than the guy, lol.

[@themarathoncontinues4211]

It happens tbh

[@arriston83]

13:21 She's about to open Pandora's box. I hope this goes well for her.

[@chowrites6179]

Honestly, the discussion about fanfics was more interesting than whatever else happened. IMO fanfics are weird and I get why some write them, what I don't like/get are the fics about specific, real people its too much. Wanna do about fanfics about Gandalf or Sonic is weird but whatever.

[@arf6899]

I read Fics when writers botch their series and want to read a better ending/character development xd

[@chowrites6179]

@@arf6899 Ironically, despite my distaste for fanfics one of my earliest works was a fanfic because the story ended abrumptly and was missing a lot of content that the author wanted to include but the studio wouldnt let him. So that fanfic went from a continuation to my own entirely different story lol

[@adilmahomedsalim6609]

Preach should have responded to aba saying "what if they told you the fanfiction about you" with "That would be acting upon it"

[@Exconfinedtroll.]

aba right on this one. preach even said it, theres levels to it. a thought in you head is the low side, physically acting out your fantasy is the high side. but there are levels, writing it down is a step up from just being in your head, thats there now for other people to see. just like dating someone just because they look similar to who you fantasize about is another level up. its also different is you were like writing in a journal or something that only youll see, fan fiction is usually made public for like minded individuals to...enjoy.

[@HonorViego]

As soon as she started texting his mom about the ring I said outloud ' OH NOOOO PLEASEE NOO' I CAN'T MANN

[@Pssst.ByTheWay]

As a mom id not take kindly to the deception But also know that girls desperately require this validation of knowing how other people feel about them combined with a non-confrontational overt manipulative socially low risk interaction strategy I can see how this came into being And still think it’s f.ed up And not yo mention ghe damaged trust with the son