Where have I been?

[@xanderraymondcharles]

Love you bro

[@NobotyBoi]

@@xanderraymondcharles looooooooser

[@NobotyBoi]

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[@robertstone9325]

​@@NobotyBoino likes ya bot

[@kenny.m.olsen95]

Just left my wife after 7 years of marriage due to abuse. Been rough as well. Thanks for your update bro.

[@GoFindAsafeSpace]

3 years ago, my wife of 13 years left me and it absolutely devastated me. I turned into a vicious alcoholic and gave up on life. I know exactly what you're going through. It gets better, brother. One chapter in life needs to come to an end for the next chapter to begin. It's great to see a vid from you again 🤙👊🤘

[@xanderjones6239]

We're here for you dude. Glad to see you're back.

[@S745]

Fuck Cleans 🖤 Be strong, bro. Breaking up after a long relationship is never easy. Do what makes you happy, this is the meaning of life. Greetings from Russia.

[@bjstein4242]

Always loved the honest content.. don't ever go to dark places.. always seek the LIGHT.. glad to see you back..

[@COSMICSLOPX]

Life Happens. Both of you will be just fine, do what you love and be happy!

[@TheGalilee416]

I went through divorce 6 years ago & it's incredibly stressful in ways I never knew existed. Be patient with yourself, you will rebuild and get through it. If I made it, anyone can. I look forward to the live streams of creating music when you get settled into this new chapter. Head up - you got this 🤘

[@Metalbass10000]

Hang in there! It's difficult, but life continues. Stay close to the people who love you and care about you. Keep doing the things that bring you happiness and joy.

[@CZ88888r]

Sorry to hear what you're going through man. Glad you decided to stick around, I would definitely miss the brutal riffs!

[@DigherSoundPassion]

I'm glad to see you back! A hug man, be happy and do what feels good

[@torturesofthedamned]

I appreciate your transparency. Glad you’re getting back to it.

[@DogeDelecto]

Been subbed since 2011-2012, whenever i bought my 11rack and schecter and was researching the AIR plugin suite. Arnold...for the last 7-9 years now, I have seen you go from a young healthy-looking man to...well...age hasn't been kind to either of us, i suppose. I can tell you from personal experience, even when you are 6'3" and sub 200 lbs, you can still wind up with stage-3 hypertension and end up on 3 different pills just to keep your BP under 130/90. A sedentary lifestyle will KILL you, AND it will do it faster when your physical and mental health is out of wack. Eventually, it will affect your mental health, and then affect your interpersonal relationships in ways you may not anticipate or notice. The older we get, the harder it is going to be to remedy damage done, socially, mentally and physically. I can only speculate on the details of your struggles that lead up to your divorce, but it seems obvious to me that you have been struggling HARD with mental-wellness since at least 2018-2019. I see it in your eyes more than anywhere else....but, dude, it is showing up everywhere else, from your tone of voice to the expressions you make in your thumbnails. Eventually, a messy mind will make for a messy body and soul. PLEASE, at least talk to your DR about managing your physical health. I genuinely hope you make it through this, and come out of it stronger than ever.

[@southerncross936]

glad to hear from ya again.thank you for choosing to continue doing the KZbin thing.2k25 on we march!stay strong brother!

[@musicsurfandrats]

Wise decision, you'll always find yourself again in the things that you love. We'll be here when you are ready, so will be music and guitars. Stay strong!

[@danielcole2769]

Thanks for always keeping it real, Arnold. You’re a brave man of integrity to share this with the world.

[@davidrosenberg6235]

Glad to see you're back. I really like your Chanel, the banter and humor.

[@camdero3294]

Glad to see you’ve gotten through it man. And I’m glad that you two can still be civil throughout this whole ordeal…as a young man who dealt with his parents divorce at a young age. It’s definitely hard. I wish I could say they were civil but regardless, im glad you’re moving forward and doing better for yourself now. Happy for ya man. Congrats on the promo too!

[@RequiemDead]

From one divorced bro to another, I got your back! Been a long time fan and follower on the socials, and really appreciate all that you have accomplished!

[@thatsameenergy]

We love you dude! You take care yourself and know we'll be here for you went you're ready to come back full speed.

[@braintoggle33]

Hang in there! It unfortunate as it is, it sounds like you two are take the high road in handling as best as possible. It's not easy but a brutal battle just makes things so much harder. Much love from Massachusetts! Looking forward to more content

[@rockstarbmf9595]

Man, I knew by the different room, and the way the video started before you even said it.. I was like, he got a divorce... I'm so sorry man! I lost my way, once upon a time and it was when my ex left.. Caught me off guard, wasn't what I wanted, started using a drug as a coping mechanism, and if there's anything I can tell you from overcoming that time in my life it's, "To heal it, ya gotta feel it!" It's time to hit the gym, get a new haircut, grow in your passions, and focus on whatever is best for your peace of mind!!! Another great peace of advice, or just a saying in general that is TRUE, is when you LOOK GOOD, you FEEL GOOD! When you say **** this and start working out, then you start seeing your entire body change! It releases endorphins that help with depression BIG TIME too!! Your confidence goes through the roof, you make new friends, meet tons of new women. It's a whole new level of focus and peace to fall in love with when you reinvent yourself!! For me personally, when I went through it all, that's when I found God! I give any and all credit to him for pulling me out of that time in my life and he showed me how real he truly is. I'm forever grateful for that! Anyway, I live in Houston and go to Austin all the time! There's absolutely no shortage of fine ass women in that town lol! 😂 Wishing you all the peace of mind in the world brochacho! Find your way back to you, and the rest of your life will blossom again!

[@Joey.Darkwoods-Studio]

Went through that about 9 years ago... It wasn't easy but gets better. Keeping busy helps a whole lot. Be good and safe dude! 2025 will be great.

[@natejessee]

You can't change the past, which is one of the hardest pills to swallow. Once you accept and swallow it, you may suddenly realize the future is all you have and it's yours to make. I feel that you have understood this and are now making the future you. Good luck friend and keep doing what brings you and others joy and satisfaction.

[@gimmenames9039]

Welcome back & and your music and playing gave so much strength to so many people in the world. It's life giving life & hope as much comes back!!

[@mooferoo]

I always liked your channel and you Arnold. Look after yourself, and I wish you well in whatever you want to do next.

[@Zeroxatide]

Wishing you all the best my man

[@AnthonyDiFiglioOfficial]

You’ve inspired me to do gear reviews for years. I wish you all the best and look forward to seeing your new content! You got my support Arnold! 🙏

[@benpotter4905]

I’ve been through a divorce also man. It really sucked. Took me about two years to get to the point where I wouldn’t think about it as much. Keep pushing man!!! Also, please seek some therapy!! That has helped me wonders.

[@dougleydorite]

Glad you’re keeping the channel. Seeing the live recording play through’s back in the day was always impressive to me

[@chris1641]

Sorry things are not going well, it seems to be getting better. Thank you for keeping the Chanel going, my best wishes to your new journey bro. It takes a lot to overcome these obstacles and emotions, seems like you did an amazing job at soul searching. Keep up the excellent work. 🤘🏻🤘🏻

[@bob8895]

Love you Arnold. Wish you all the best, keep being you!

[@Desaje]

Glad to see you’re back!

[@Krankaos1986]

Glad to hear you both are civil and are in a better head space bro. Divorce is never easy regardless of the situation. Looking forward to the new content my friend.

[@Djdross]

Been through this, keep your head up, it will get better.

[@vincentzombi3916]

Much love to you brother!! Stay strong 🤘🏻🎃🤘🏻

[@breevwhyman2985]

Arnold I really hope that you're doing as good as you can and I know that these things do happen to people and their impossible for anybody else to understand. ....what can I say Arnold ?,me never having been married.... I am lost the words .....over my life Arnold at {55 now} ...I have met a few people who've gone through the mill and they were like 38 and it was a 10 year ending ......and I do remember their new behavior.... Arnold the way I remember them was that from a practical angle their lifestyle seemed to be quite...... improved... good bless you Arnold

[@TheOtherJohnBrowne]

Stoked that you're back. I missed your videos. I'm sorry for the hardships you've been going through

[@Evolji228]

Sorry to hear about the divorce, but thank you so much that you find some time and energy to bring it here. Love your content. I hope everything will be fine!

[@thomasgirardin7641]

Welcome back, can't wait to see you get back on track because I deeply love what you've been producing on your channel. All the best for what's coming for you

[@ScreaminT81]

Sorry to hear about the split man. You’ll be ok. Cheers 🤘🏻💜

[@hebguy420]

Glad to see you moving forward in a positive direction and still enjoying making content. Welcome back

[@andrewwheelerguitar]

So glad to see you. Very happy you didn’t end your online presence. It’s really hard to restructure. You got this!

[@bigmike9527]

I've been through it with kids and it's tough,stay focused and stay strong for yourself and everyone that surrounds you and glad to hear that y'all are being civil about everything because that is the most important thing in this situation bro 🤘🤘. Greetings from south Alabama

[@dustnr8564]

Dude, so sorry to hear what's been going on. Hopefully the new year starts well and fresh for you!

[@sasanghafarian2719]

Stay strong bro, dark day will always be in our life and the will always pass

[@xplanet2112]

Sorry to hear about the break up dude, things happen for a reason and it's good you're both getting on with your lives. Take it easy dude and look forward to the new work, peace man!

[@the_hessian__]

just glad to have you back in my music-life again my guy

[@phasetripper9567]

Damn dude wish you the best. Hopefully we’ll see more sick ass riffs soon

[@michaelmitchell5909]

One thing about playing guitar, no one can ever take that from us....keep jamming dude

[@fretnot1]

Good to see you back. You do fill an important role on social media. Hang in there. Better days to come.

[@kaynesantor8136]

Bro, I have a lot to say about this. But, I'm sure you've heard it all. So all I'm gonna say is this- music will never let you down, and all your friends here on the interwebs became your friends through the music. No one cared about your personal life the first time they clicked on your review. Shit happens. We move. Music will keep everyone together. Much love. I hope peace finds you soon.

[@kamikaze1213]

We have all been there. It’s not easy and I’m sorry Bro. I can promise you it gets better. Takes time but it does.

[@wesleywhite9782]

Stay strong bro. Can't wait for new content

[@warnerww83]

Ah man I’m sorry to hear about your recent life changes but hope it opens the door for new growth. New starts are always stressful, but our communities always seem to help pull us through. I’m looking forward to enjoying your new efforts and no bullshit style of content.

[@Synic42]

Good luck on going through this dark period and take all the time you need. Taking care of yourself is the most important thing you can do right now.

[@jo1ch195]

Sending you a big hug bro! You are amazing and a great guy!

[@derekmalunow8962]

I wish the best for you, doggie

[@Ibenhead16]

Good luck to you bro, looking forward to the new stuff.

[@timothymckane6362]

I hope you will be back to your old self in doing what you love in making unbiased guitar and gear reviews while promoting bands (once a year) that you really enjoy. I also enjoy watching them as well! Take all the time you need to focus on yourself.

[@Jermthemusician]

I've been there before myself, divorce is a rough process regardless of how "clean" and "unmessy" we try to make it. I'm finally making steps forward 6 years later. Glad to see things are looking up for you as well my dude 🤘🏻

[@TheGeeJ]

Jesus Christ, man ... that is a blow not a lot of people can take. Im glad to see you standing, brother. Im in Pflugerville, if you ever need people to help moving, drop a comment anywhere on my channel ... I would gladly become your bro and help you out. Jah bless from a metalhead nearby

[@ericpalkovich]

Hey Arnold. I've been in this situation (obviously, every divorce/separation is unique in its own regard) and I'm here for you if you ever want to talk, vent, whatever. Thinking of you and sending positive vibes your way.

[@BabaGhanoushMusic]

Stay strong bro, good to see you back.

[@rainxsupreme]

Prioritize that mental health man. 2024 was a shit year for me as well, but glad to see you’re doing well and getting back into it. Keep it pushing

[@docsworld1369]

Thank you for the update. After 2 divorces I am now with the perfect partner. We met in 2015 and married in 2018. This version of my life is better than I could have ever imagined. No one has the same experience, but we can all learn from new circumstances. Be great and you will do great!! 🤘🏻

[@CrissLiew]

Glad to see you back buddy. We're always here for you.

[@GregoryCroney]

Wish you all the best brother

[@longshanks8255]

Awesome glad you’re back! Obviously things were going on in your life. It happens.

[@guitarguru2000]

Stay Strong Arnold! its good to get this off your chest. Cannot wait to see/hear what you have planned!

[@zachroseman4765]

Keep going bro! Good to see you back

[@JacekF-z]

Sorry for your experience brother. But my life after divorce is now much better than before, it took a while though. Keep up with the PMA and get through it!

[@xMIRAKx]

Happy to see you're back.

[@JamesCF1985]

Stay strong chief!

[@dime85sg]

Sorry u went thru this, just remember u r not alone

[@zloboslav_]

Take care man, do whatever feels right and don't worry, we ain't going anywhere. :)

[@SloppyJoes_ShredShack]

Divorces suck man. Mine destroyed me. I hope you're feeling better brother. It's good to have you back.

[@joshrexroad8421]

Wish you the best going forward

[@shanewalton8888]

All the power to you, bro. My parents divorced when I was 14 and my Dad never really recovered. Let us know how we can help.

[@jakechiasson6786]

Glad to see you're doing better man.

[@lbonvillain-wm4ds]

best of luck bro. always liked your content

[@amhockeyclub9405]

Life happens, keep your head up, and keeping doing what makes you happy.

[@ClarkGuitar]

Music comes from your voice as well brother. I feel like it's going to take a long time for you. Unfortunately you guys were together forever half of your lives, ...so that's tough. Stay strong! I've always looked forward to your videos 🥞🥞🥞🥞

[@gregbrooks7850]

Frequency’s help man, start listening to em!!!

[@thereal8ball975]

sorry to hear this mate! Keep rockin

[@chosenone2964]

The Best is yet to come !!

[@romaxakaragodin4475]

Брат, я так и понял, что это развод... стою сам на краю. Держись родной!!! Музыка всех нас спасёт!!!

[@timedevourer6138]

Welcome back ❤

[@freeman1810]

Dude you are far too valuable to stop. You will move past this. Best wishes brody

[@2free2snakes]

I don't have any concrete advice but I understand

[@beautague9163]

Good luck man!!

[@PuttinOnTheRiffs]

Good luck man. We aren’t going anywhere. Get that head right it’s priority #1

[@LeeJoRo]

hope you're doing well - we'll be here when you're ready to upload again

[@MetalGuitarGuy]

Been missing your content, bro. Hang in there. Looking forward to new videos! 🤘🏻😎🤘🏻

[@powersv2]

Your fellow darklords are here. Jam some Frozen Soul , Creeping Death, or new Nile album. 🌞

[@ultimatemetalguitartones]

Glad you are back man

[@jesseparrish9198]

Sounds like you've been through it man. Sorry to hear about your divorce. You are free now to start a new beginning. Stay up man. Don't get down on yourself.

[@muskwa18]

I left my gf of 1 year and 4 months to this day 7 months ago.. Every day was her accusing me of seeing other women. I'd go to sleep at night and wake up to her going through my phone. I'd get slapped and mocked. I'm in a much better place with someone who has helped me since I've opened up. I'm grateful for my new partner.

[@somn]

I left my ex wife after being with her since high school. 20 some years but I couldn’t be in an abusive relationship anymore. It has changed me for the worse. It was difficult but now it’s a different life. I hope your journey is better.

[@Alof83]

Sorry to hear about your divorce man. Good luck on getting going on your new start and moving on!