Where To Meet Upper Class Filipina Women

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[@DrDlane]

Do they have black tie events like we have in the US? I would think these could be great places as well. I'm just not sure how one would get on the invite list.

[@davidhall3747]

I never had a problem attracting the hottest women in the city. It doesn’t matter if she is rich or poor. It doesn’t matter what country I’m in.

[@dovoso5685]

Hi Reekay, great video. Personally - I would certainly attend university classes, art galleries and museums, I love such activities.

[@wasabikun]

The best way to find and observe upper class Filipinas is to have lunch or dinner at one of the higher-end restaurants in any mall, or at the 5-star hotel buffets. Besides the large tables with entire extended families sitting there (usually a celebration), it's very common to find young women with fine clothes and accessories, good make-up, usually talking in Taglish (mix of English and Tagalog). That those women will be single and ready to give a random foreigner, especially if not-so-young anymore, the time of the day, that is a bit less likely.

[@robertonavarro7713]

Most upper class Filipino women are usually graduates of exclusive and expensive colleges for girls in Manila and suburbs. These rich ladies usually hang around high end malls like Greenbelt 5 or Rockwell mall and would probably be employees or officers of any one of the top 500 Philippine corporations. . Naturally, they are usually courted by guys belonging to affluent families also, usually seen driving Mercedes and BMW cars.. It might be hard for a foreigner to court an upper class lady because among the social and academic elites in the capital city, a girl seen with any foreigner is often judged as either a lower class province girl or one in the escort service business.

[@silentwatcher1455]

You said it all true. I dated those girls from expensive or exclusive schools from the beginning up to getting married. One thing, its hard to meet these kind I of women just like you said and reasons. I have seen an upper class woman who turned down many men because of social status differences. Then personality comes next,then compatibility. I came to know her thru my wife who was her classmate.

[@gerdbeutler3728]

Be prepared, that upper class Filipinas are really different. Some have never seen a kitchen from the inside or never experienced riding with Jeepneys or public transpo.

[@robertonavarro7713]

@@gerdbeutler3728 Some of these rich young ladies have not even been to Divisoria or to the Quiapo Central Market riding public jeepneys or tricycles.

[@Lifebeyondthesea]

it is not that filipinos prefer filipinos. it is that the opportunity to be with a foreigner is very rare on a percentage basis. PH has a population of roughly 120 million. figure half of those are female. (60 million) and of those, perhaps 50% are between the ages of 18 through 40. (30 million) and of those, let's say half are still Single. (15 million). meanwhile, american men going to the PH only amounted to 835,000 for year 2023. make it 1-million when adding those from UK, Canada & Australia. the vast majority of visitors to the PH come from south korea, japan and china.. however they come primarily for vacation, english schooling or business... not for a relationship or to stay. this means that for every 15 single filipinas there is only ONE foreigner available. the other 14 will marry a filipino. yet, at the same time, i can tell you that over the last 12 years i've lived here... if a filipina is given the chance to date a foreigner she jumps on the opportunity. it is VERY rare a filipina turns down a foreigner to instead be with a lower-earning, fidelity-challenged filipino man. so... the vast majority of filipinas will marry a filipino. but only because they don't have an equal shot at being with a foreigner.

[@skyisdlimit6125]

@@Lifebeyondthesea you'll be surprised but many of this social elite Filipina usually hangs out with their kind just like other countries hence they are less exposed to foreigners in general. Also, as a foreigner you have to be young enough and quiet good looking with good family background as well as a higher quality job that will be enticing not just for them but their family. If it's a serious relationship you're looking for then you have to impress not just the girl but mainly the family. Most of the time they will want a high quality men to marry their daughter to begin with. Being a foreigner doesn't make you high quality.

[@TMclovio]

Lower class filipina ask money for rice, load, phones tuition etc,, upper class filipina asks for Louis Vuitton purses, trips, expensive meals, clothes etc.

[@nigelalexander100]

Thats true hey.Cant help but think a girl from a poor background fits me better. She will realize to behave with me or else traded in quickly.

[@ninjaone8337]

Before you find for an upper class pilipinas ask your self first if you are also an upper class foreigner to be fair 😅

[@LOHwestcoast]

Amen

[@dovoso5685]

555 well, here is the thing - I am mid-upper class education wise, but not financially, this is why I stay home, lol.

[@dovoso5685]

It all depends on your classification criteria , money means a lot, but its not the only thing

[@GSXSF-250]

The upper-class Filipina is a different type of snub.

[@AnthonyCataldo-b2q]

I am a retired university professor. University events is an excellent recommendation.

[@blessedtraveler537]

Join associations like the Rotary Club, environmental groups, art, or sports clubs.

[@rolandmueller7218]

I took my Filipina girlfriend to a couple of jazz clubs in Makati. It’s my favorite kind of music and she likes it as well. They were more expensive places with cover charges. I saw some upper class Filipinas there. If you like jazz music you may try one of those clubs. One club was Tago Jazz Cafe.

[@TheWallReports]

I love jazz. However I am more of the smooth jazz person. I also enjoy classical music. Are there any classical events or venues in the Philippines?

[@blessedtraveler537]

@@TheWallReports Try the Cultural Center of the Philippines or Metropolitan Theater

[@TheWallReports]

@@blessedtraveler537 Thanks! Much appreciated...

[@darrellq6954]

@@TheWallReports Kenny G is so 1990s sir

[@TheOFWProjectWorld]

Finding those certain types of Filipinas doesn't need searches or investigation to meet such class or type but being one of those types and class will give you enough opportunities to meet them. So if you're in that level or class then you won't even search but they're around you everytime.

[@burtonknows9201]

LOL! Works in the USA too. Over the years, I've taken my laptop to do work and met a few ladies who workstudy at these places.

[@clarity2115]

Location is key, I met my wife who's a lawler here on an online dating app. Just know most of these upperscale Filipinas would prefer a Filipino man over a foreigner anyday, unless you have good height, looks & earn lots of money.

[@jamesjavellana5]

Coffee shops, pilates & yoga classes, chances are high there.

[@cerielvanarneman9399]

Filipino women are beautiful they have beautiful soft clean skin and beautiful hair I like Filipino women

[@mrdayyumyum3712]

the more upper class the more it is going to cost you. high maintenance.

[@Lifebeyondthesea]

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[@Lifebeyondthesea]

80%?? where is the online reference you can share with us to back that up? or... does it only exist in your head. share the link that convinced you this is true.

[@astralclub5964]

How much would this cost me?

[@Lifebeyondthesea]

if you meet them in a coffee bistro.. about $5 usd for some coffee. maybe a bit more for some pastry.

[@Basta11]

The main appeal of dating/marrying an older foreigner for a Filipina is to move up in society. Philippines is a very classist in that way. These upper class Filipinas are not looking to date to move up in society, they are already there. Basically, they see you as an equal, not impressed by your money, passport, or skin color. Your appeal would have to be something else - good looks, personality, charm, compatibility, dancing skills, or what.

[@Samk-hg5sk]

How many upper class well educated young women are looking for an older foreigner. ?.

[@tryscience]

How many do you need? I'm only looking for one. ❤

[@36handy]

If you keep in good shape, present well, and have a bit of money you would be amazed. Remember some societies in Asian view older single women as ‘left overs’.

[@truthtalkinternational]

Few to none.

[@troyelam8978]

@@36handy this is true. Also, even a woman of financial means in the Philippines still generally makes a lot less than us. For instance, let’s say you’re dating a Filipina doctor. Her income might be 160,000 pesos per month. That is a woman of means in the Philippines, and will afford her the high social status, class, sophistication, good health and hygiene, style, etc. that you’re looking for. However, if you make 300,000 pesos per month in retirement income, which is only $5400, you will still seem like a super financial catch to her. She isn’t just judging how much more money you make than her, she also has to judge how much more money you make than the other men available to her.

[@JN-R21]

Almost 0%

[@homebrandrules]

salient points. MABUHAI

[@krischris1160]

Does anyone know where I can buy a wife? I'm sure that's not possible in tourist areas.

[@Lifebeyondthesea]

it's called, human-trafficking and it is illegal.

[@martymaranan7191]

Ballroom Dancing is the best.. Salsa places

[@kimchristiansen2370]

I have never met a woman who turned me down. it doesnt matter if they are rich or poor. its all about self confidence kindness alot of laughter listening to them make them feel relaxed in your presence....It has nothing to do with income or how classy you look or which car you drive....Most rich girls want romance sincerety & all the above. as they surround themselve with playboy guys from their social class or school they lose interrests in such guys........They want to be respected as women. !!

[@oahuguy3918]

The question you have to ask yourself is "What kind of man do I need to become/or be to attract such a Filipia?" Money is always important, but you have to work on your physical self as well. And if you don't take care of your hygiene, forget it... even men will run the other way.

[@Lifebeyondthesea]

absolutely. 100% correct. upper-class filipinas do NOT want some scruffy, disheveled expat that is going to embarrass her in public. a man has to have his act together if he plans on dating a 'top-shelf' filipina. more on that here.. kzbin.info/www/bejne/fIbFmqBpd56FsJo

[@darrellq6954]

@bsansone1974 but loose the gut and shower daily

[@jannarkiewicz633]

I met a Filipina attorney 5 years my junior on a flight in the U.S.

[@truthtalkinternational]

Airfare could get expensive 😉

[@No_BS_policy]

As a Filipino, I'd say it's a tough competition up there, mates. Like top 1% of Filipinas being courted by top 1% of Filipinos. They're like in an exclusive chamber so detached from the rest of us. For one good reason: to ensure continuity of their family status. No Filipino business man would want her beautiful daughter to be married to a man outside of their class. It's that simple.

[@cudberryflavoredcupcake2673]

you can say that again!

[@andrewcarlson2178]

So the status of having a mixed race child doesn't apply here ? That's only province girls ?

[@kennethstrait1352]

Reekay you have outdone yourself;thanks

[@JN-R21]

You're talking about the elite class. The video is about middle to upper class filipinas

[@pcrealty]

The best way to find a sincere relationship is through introductions or family connections. Age gap relationships tend to be temporary.

[@williamblaker2628]

Another note about higher class Filipinas is that it's considerably less likely that she'll be ok with a large age gap in her choice of mate. Where it's pretty common for a province girl to be fine with a foreigner 25+ years her senior; a filipina of good financial means probably wouldn't entertain a man more than about 10 years her senior.

[@carlosnorris352]

Still tough to find a higher class young kid? Locals are… let’s not get into details. And young foreigners are backpackers that can barely afford a bus ride. She might need to stay in a very small group of people and hope to find a decent one. Sorry, a kid of career politicians to be more precise.

[@raulranola4388]

My wife is 19yrs younger than me... I'm 39 and she was 20 when we got married 21 yrs ago. She finished her degree in BS Math while being a wife to me and a mother to our 3children. Fyi we're both local Filipino. I'm retired seafarer now while she's still teaching in public high school.

[@silentwatcher1455]

You are very lucky to get a college degree holder.

[@spicyd6213]

@@raulranola4388 Just curious, did you retire from the US Navy? I served with lots of Filipinos when I was in.

[@jqtaylor]

Agree. Not just the age gap but they'll also be more aware of your income..

[@RichGreatsuccess]

Reekay finding high class fillipna is not easy. they are usually looking for rich men. very very very rare you can find such situation that a high class filipina marry foreigner. usually they are after Chinese business men or filipina business men. the other also looking for some one to pay for their expenses.

[@happysolitudetv]

I only watched because of the beautifully-rendered AI images. They really do look like real people I know!

[@Lifebeyondthesea]

several have looked like previous g/f's over the years. just by random chance.

[@johnklahn7720]

thankfully, i have the money side covered (my ex wife was a stay-at-home mom). so i am just looking for a woman who is a rock solid partner in all other areas - and intelligent and interesting conversation. i don't need an upper class anything. good for me, i suppose.

[@mikem3789]

It should be noted, most women want to marry up. A woman of ‘means’, will expect a man of ‘substantial means’. Especially if she is an attractive 20-30 yr old and you are a 50-60 yr old. They are way past their ‘high school romance’ phase, where money isn’t as important.

[@troyelam8978]

OK, but you still have the exchange rate in your favor. Even a woman of means in the Philippines is going to see an American man with a $6000 a month retirement income as a catch.

[@TheWallReports]

💯Agreed...

[@danielmatthews1522]

@@troyelam8978 Pretty sure the official salary of the President in the Phils is just north of $6,000 USD equivalent..

[@eloboa5355]

You're contradicting yourself.

[@steveharris7116]

@@troyelam8978 that puts you in the top 1% income wise, whereas in America you are just middle/ upper middle class

[@riccomueller7687]

Yes uper class is good for an Business Men like me

[@dasein9980]

Upper class cafes, the mall stores like forever 21, ballroom dancing, art galleries, music festivals, courses at local college,

[@SFSraptor]

Why would anyone want to meet an upper-class Filipina? That's like going out looking for a Western woman. 😅😂

[@travels129]

Best stick to a simple nice filipina she will care more. Two classes in Philippines rich or poor or a professional type to a sales girl still big difference in salary

[@Lifebeyondthesea]

character is so much more important than financial status, imo.

[@travels129]

@@Lifebeyondthesea well that's wat I meant thats y i said a simple caring filipina is best

[@BluBlade-k7b]

Upper class ? I can't afford a low class chic .

[@BlackieNuff]

Damn, that slideshow was amazing... some of those women were REALLY cute, others were downright gorgeous, and all had rockin bods... The West has truly fallen, considering what's over here.

[@Lifebeyondthesea]

all the images in the vids, i create with AI. but in the PH.. i'd say about 6% are a 7 thru a 10. with maybe 1% being a 10. but, they are very approachable. and yes.., women have really "let themselves go" in usa. fast-food, booze, tattoos, it's a freak show now. it's nice to just walk around in the PH where only about 14% of the women are overweight. vast majority are slender. even an 'average' filipina with a slender figure can be attractive.

[@johnpenn74]

Totally agree. The most loving girl i ever dated was a restaurant waitress who was from hong kong.

[@LeoniloCatelo-ee2mh]

If you need a high end Filipina at less you are good looking handsome and of course millionaire

[@silasketgaskets8709]

damn, an american medical doctor i know invited to pi to lecture at medical schools and share knowledge said there was a queue of hi-so women inviting him out.

[@user-om6sj6hh5z]

Very good advise

[@tedjohnson4451]

I'm a Blue Collar Public Servant near Retirement, about 300 days from the Philippines... I'll look for Game Stores, Book Stores, Restaurants near Hospitals & Universities... More interested in Staff than Students.

[@Lifebeyondthesea]

yes. go where the woman you are looking for would spend her time, and you'll find her there. :)

[@badboylimmy]

How about Pilates classes, expensive gyms, tennis courts, and top tier salons

[@Lifebeyondthesea]

all very good locations.

[@gecko2000405]

It nice to find somebody well educated. Kind of goes against the Law 11 of the 48 Laws of Power says, you need to learn to keep people dependent on you.

[@drewgrows7765]

A girl with culture is preferred. But the disposal income needed to date a girl from money will be considerably more than the typical girl.

[@RotaryTeamVincent]

Maybe but definitely worth it. I dated and married a dentist who is proud to pay her own way. She doesn't want to be dependant on me.

[@silentwatcher1455]

Very true.

[@DavidLMT.Rocks.]

The word upper class means more $$$$$$ This is realistically a lifestyle. Which means expectations. Which means if you aren't bringing it, $ there will be little to no interest in you as a person...

[@AbstractDread.]

It sounded creepy keeping tabs and being universities just for girls but the longer the video went the more i caught the point. Smart idea, its out of the box.

[@silentwatcher1455]

You can never get to know upper class female in easy places. Why? Most of them are busy with their careers and being an achiever. If you are looking for instant and easy to get, forget them.

[@LeoniloCatelo-ee2mh]

Filipina below poverty need a foreigner to save her daily needs

[@Lifebeyondthesea]

not necessarily. many work OFW to provide for their family. or get a degree for a better job. or start a business. there are very few foreigners compared to over 50-million filipinas.

[@ermarios4281]

Tjis is my best advice for all the foreign guys out there who likes to have a pinay gf, no need to think where is the best place tonhave a coffee etc bec there are many good resto and coffee shops out htere and let them choose. Just remember that most pinays love to be the one who is in charge so expect a 50/50 in decisiin making or she will be the one most of the time who will decide in impt. things in the future just in case u will end up with one who is highly educated and xame from a good family.

[@mediocreman2]

I am not as worried about exceeding their income. What am I concerned about is the quality of the personality, and in my experience richer women tend to be more difficult, especially since they don't need you as much. But that's a tradeoff for someone that has nicer teeth, better fashion, better educated, cleaner, more cultured, etc.

[@troyelam8978]

The richer women don’t need the man as much, but aren’t there levels to this? You don’t necessarily have to date a politicians daughter to get a woman of means. A woman making the income of the average Filipino doctor is plenty rich enough to have good hygiene, fashion, Class, sophistication, etc., while still making considerably less than you do with your retirement income. you will still seem like a high value man to her, due to the exchange rate

[@silentwatcher1455]

Still they require somebody of the same social status as them. You may look like older version of Tom Cruise but if you don't have cash and business, you will never make it.

[@yipmabaruya1148]

Good night from PAPUA NEW GUINEA. I enjoyed watching your content

[@terenceinasia1216]

Having lived and owned businesses in Vietnam, Thailand, Cambodia and, for one year, Manila... They are all special in there own way. However the Philippines had, by a significant margin, the most unattractive women of the four counties. I lived in the "high-end neighborhoods, shopped at the best malls etc.. and i was always surprised by the level of obesity, and in general the lack of attractive women. Personally, in all four country's, universities are always the best place to meet positive, pretty women...

[@bevannow6994]

I’m 71, educated, healthy, in good shape, eat well, easy going, enjoy sophisticated smart conversation and adventure. I really think a Filipina in her 50s, even 60s, could be the best match for me. She’s past raising kids, has significant life experience, much more acquired wisdom, possibly has her own money, and would likely be a lot more interesting companion. How come you and most (if not all) of you KZbinrs never even mention this older cohort? That would be a series that would interest me. Having a long term relationship with a woman who is 30 to 40 younger is likely to include significant complications. Let’s hear about these wiser, more sophisticated 10:14 ladies.

[@Lifebeyondthesea]

i did 3 videos on this subject, you can view them here... kzbin.info/www/bejne/h2XYf3d9rs-WbJI and, kzbin.info/www/bejne/oHunp5yPZZxkZqs and, kzbin.info/www/bejne/gGi7h2SCjqd3nsk

[@etfremd]

Yeah Reekay has covered that and it’s part of his recommendations…

[@jeremymeyer5552]

The reason for this is many people are 30s and 40s. Some are in their 50s and 60s. Surviving in this country might require a strong immune system and catlike reflexes crossing the street. So I agree a 50 something year old woman would be a good companion for a 71 year old.

[@Anthony__420]

Yes. I’m 64 and only talk to Lola’s. Youngest I’ll go is mid 40s😊

[@paulruano1903]

1. Average age in philippines are aprox 24yrs old. 2. Life expectancy is actually very low in philippines. 60-70 think). Probably dye to difficult life, horrible "cuisines" (unhealthy), etc. Lack of security, lack of food safety, lack of toxity safety, etc, etc. 3. Most seniors in philippines are computer/internet illiterate. Just compare to how 70yr old westerners was 20 yrs ago. Thats about the lvl that 50yrs old are in the philippines. So average age is 24yr or so. And life expectancy is only between 60-70yr old. So WHERE are you expecting to find many 50yr old candidates?. Ofc they exist. So maybe look for the "mothers" around familyfoodvendors etc? Or check dating 4. Most SENIORS do NOT have built up any "wealth". If they had money, then they usually invested that into their children... to send them to school. So the children can support the parents when they get old!!. Cycle of life in the old world. So you will hardly find a senior with a lot of wealth. Even the house/home is traditionally supposed to be passed on to the child (who took care of them at old age). So do not expect them to have disposable wealth. They are very resourcefull though. But budgetting and building disposable wealth is not their strength.

[@denismelvin222]

Hi Reekay, thank you for another great video! Kind regards!

[@jimmyamico4713]

This is the video that I’ve been looking for. This is the type of woman that I would like to meet well to do very well educated doesn’t have any children doesn’t want any children and doesn’t ask me for money, and that is very honest the downside to these places is, you’re gonna deal with a lot of materialistic women, but it’s very easy to spot materialistic women…. what do you think? What is your opinion?

[@Lifebeyondthesea]

it's a good way to go, and it is available. however, women of this calibre want not just a man who can be faithful.. but a man she can be proud of. a man who carries himself well in her circle of society. if he's rude, loud or a slob.. he doesn't stand a chance with this kind of woman. but if he is interesting, polite, even-tempered and clear about what he is doing in life.. it's game-on. :)

[@fishonaquabid]

For those of you that think smart, successful women are not interested in expat men, let me share an encounter in Dumaguete this past August. I was playing chess with a female college graduate. After about a week of playing chess together, she asked me why expats did not ask college graduates out on dates. That changed my perspective on the dating scene.

[@stevedavenport1202]

College graduate does not mean upper class. Most college grads are scraping by

[@36handy]

Great and simple information. Thanks much R.

[@jqtaylor]

Beautiful, beautiful women.. I can watch your videos with the sound off and just enjoy the array of beauties..

[@bigboner23]

AI 😂

[@jesustorralba2360]

There is no upper class or lower class when it comes to loyalty and respect. They either respect you or they don't. That's for them to know and for you to find out. The one thing I noticed about marriage, everyone loses interest with one another eventually so I think I'd rather focus on my grind and the Most High and try to live within his commandments as best I can. I'm sure I cannot go wrong with that relationship.

[@ChrisPerkins-i7h]

Amen thank you Always look for a person who is more clever than yourself if possible

[@wendylafortune9627]

You truly got my respect and I am 110% agree with you. Find a Filipina who loves and respects you as a man, also being loyal to you; no matter what Provence or city she is from, is the highest rank Filipina you can ever have.

[@DrDlane]

So, if I want to meet a doctor I need to get injured so I put myself in the hospital to be around doctors? Or if I want to meet a lawyer, I need to get into trouble? I'm not sure how else to meet some of these upper class professional women. The coffee shops are a good idea though hit and miss. Any way you go it's a numbers game I guess. Just like everything else. Good overview. Thanks.

[@truthtalkinternational]

Each of the demographic mentioned have preferred places to congregate. Finding out where they take their lunch break is a good way to start. 👍

[@troyelam8978]

Well, if you want to meet a doctor or lawyer, you would frequent the upscale coffee shops and bistros near the hospitals and law offices. You might also want to join an upscale gym. Yes, it might run you $60 a month, but you will have premium facilities, and you will know just about every girl in that place is doing well for herself or comes from a good family.

[@yb2112]

These Filipina babes are bonkers... 1 in 100 like this in the Philippines?

[@Lifebeyondthesea]

all the images in the vids, i create with AI for illustrative purposes. i often try to pattern the AI model after the person discussed. in the PH.. i'd say about 6% are a 7 thru a 10. with maybe 1% being a 10. but, they are very approachable.

[@turningpointaustralia9531]

What will the chances of finding higher class with degree in her early 50's to live in Australia

[@Lifebeyondthesea]

i really couldn't give you odds on that. but you could use a dating site and see if those qualifications come up in a specialized search. bit.ly/christian-filipina-dating

[@ivanguban7143]

I play and teach classical music, but I don’t think I could live my life as a gigolo.

[@tryscience]

Nobody is suggesting you do anything improper.

[@MrZola1234]

Good info sir!!!

[@Lifebeyondthesea]

Glad it was helpful!

[@gobfranklin6759]

great content. thank you as always.

[@harveyh3696]

For the algorithm.

[@mikelee7972]

I guess there goes the saying my good friend once told me..........He said........If you ever get married MAKE sure she has more money than you!!! LOL. Still a good rule of thumb.. Good video Whats wrong with finding a nice SUGAR MAMA.......555 happy new years to everyone!!!

[@leadingauctions8440]

Are the ones in the more expensive cafes and expensive clothes store not likely to be other foreigners' wives?

[@Lifebeyondthesea]

not all women are the same, some don't want a foreigner. but of those that do who are 'upper class'... they want a man that is appealing to them. (not scruffy expats with rude behaviors.)

[@leadingauctions8440]

@@Lifebeyondthesea I strive to be a gentleman, and dress well. However, I still chose a traditonal humble province girl. I simply never have spent time in the cities. I hear there are a lot of foreign milionaors such as from China that marry Filipinas to do buisness there. Such as owning the malls. I assumed many of the richer Filipinas who hang at the places you described may be married tot those, hence risky to hit on them?

[@Lifebeyondthesea]

i dated several wealthy filipinas, and another in vietnam. in the end, a humble filipina with a good heart is the one that won me over. we've been married 2 years now. :)

[@leadingauctions8440]

@@Lifebeyondthesea An excellent choice. Peace is far better. So, are the single rich ones there akin to Westernized women? I hear in the cities they are beginning to be as bad as our women.

[@Saidakine]

I work with several Filipinas who are MDs at a Hospital , their dialect and how they handle themselves is very Western at work In contrast the regular work staff who are from Ilocano speaking areas, they have not really embraced Western Culture. They speak Ilocano at work and don’t speak English unless they have too. Their behavior is less professional. I went out with a Filipina MD from a wealthy family in Cebu. It was very simular to going out with an American until she wanted me to try out Balut. ( dead baby duck still in the shell )

[@carlgunn8855]

Who are the girls in these pictures?

[@napoleonmdusa8877]

A lot of great ideas for finding an upper class Filipina woman--I'll have to consider this when I get to the Philippines (BGC area). I also like the Thai Tea cafes--that sound like a place I'd enjoy spending time at trying different Thai teas.

[@Lifebeyondthesea]

Go for it!

[@noneNone-mw1px]

upper middle class need super high class pocket and bank account if you are looing such a girl. if you really mean upper class . because those girls are looking also for upper class men financially and social statistically

[@silentwatcher1455]

You said is right.

[@pplcajason]

So basically all the same stuff as one would expect in the west.

[@RONALD......]

My exwife is college educated, so I'll never date below that...

[@tdgdbs1]

You are missing out; most college girls are indoctrinated by feminazies.

[@gim6109]

You need to invest money to find upper class pinay and i will tell you they are not cheap and not very easy to get. Upper class women sometimes cant even see you😅and dont forget to consider also the wannabe upper class becareful

[@boethius1812]

I just need a woman who isn't a baby factory that blindly believes in Jesus.

[@paulruano1903]

Then maybe just stay in atheist west, where family is not important. Plenty of such women in the west. Abundance.

[@stevedavenport1202]

Most Filipinas are religious, but not Jesus freaks.

[@Lifebeyondthesea]

even 'jesus freaks' can be religious. big difference between being religious and being spiritual.

[@boethius1812]

The women of the atheist West are not nurturing and the nurturing women of The Phillipines are usually religious and unintelligent. Intelligence is important to me and The Phillipines is anti-intellectual and religious. Filipina Pea is an outlier because she is so smart in a dumb country.

[@craighendrickson2512]

Bo's is awesome, great breakfast and the one in Robinsons at Butuan City has a very pretty worker, I definitely wanted to talk to her.

[@johncarlson6472]

Be careful guys. Here in the States, divorce among college educated women is 90%. I think it would be rational to assume any woman around the globe with a College Degree is going to "raise the bar" for her prospective boyfriend(s) and/or husband(s). Myself, I'd be fine with a high school educated traditional filipina who's delighted to just have a roof over their head, food on the table and a little extra income to enjoy life, not an upper-class or colege-educated woman who, right out of the gate, is expecting higher-end living and expendatures lavished on them.

[@troyelam8978]

There are pluses and minuses. A girl from a lesser background will be easier to please monetarily, but she also might have less appreciation for what you do for her. Throughout life I’ve noticed poorer people or people in need aren’t as appreciative as you think they would be, which boggles the mind, but I’m sure you’ve noticed it too. I’ve also noticed that poor people can be amazingly spoiled, which also boggles the mind, but remains true. Sometimes women with money, have a greater appreciation for what it took to make that money, and act more thankful than a girl who has never had anything. Just keep that in mind. Also, women of a higher echelon are generally more educated, worldly wise, and offer far better conversation, helpful ideas, and are just more enjoyable to interact with than someone who has trouble engaging in deep conversation.

[@mauibuilder1239]

@@troyelam8978 yeah, poor women are happy if you buy them a bag of rice....I kind of like that. I remember traveling to Cuba and women would get down for a roll of paper towels.

[@timhnc75]

There are lots of great filipina that are not upper class ..high society ..i prefer normal filipina some of the best women are province women!

[@AdrianRamirez-fc8wu]

I definitely want to find my wife. I appreciate your support and helpful information

[@Lifebeyondthesea]

Glad to help

[@carloko08]

great, dude, excellents advices to find a good pinay girl ;)

[@Lifebeyondthesea]

Thanks! 😃

[@pcolamojoe8840]

Do Philippinas like to workout? I like a fit taller woman who wouldn't be opposed to playing a sport or going on adventures.

[@Lifebeyondthesea]

not 'all', but many filipinas do like to work out. many attend zumba classes on the boardwalk in Dumaguete, as well as zumba at the malls on a weekly basis. and yes, there are lots of gyms in the PH and that is where you will find the filipinas who are into fitness. ayala mall has a gym that lots of filipinas go to. as for tall filipinas.. i've dated three of them, so they do exist. one was a model in cebu, she was 5'10" in flat sandals. the other two were 5'9" and 5'8". they are a rarety, but i still see them every now and then.

[@Lifebeyondthesea]

@ncsludgefactory5445 you've obviously never been to the PH and are just guessing. i've lived here since 2012 and dated several tall filipinas from 5'8" to 5'10".

[@paulruano1903]

​@@Lifebeyondthesea5"10 (177cm) that is an extreme rarity in Philippines. Average height is 4ft 10 or so if i remember for females. Or somewhere between 4 10 and 4 12. But i have noticed that some ethnicity mixes in the philippines are much higher and different than others. The philippines are not 1 "harmonic ethnicity". Its so diversed. And can clearly see different native ethnic groups look different in different areas. And then add to the exterior genepools of spamish, asians (chinese, indonesia, etc), arabic, and a lot of other ethnisity groups mixed into in various degrees through history in different areas of philippines. But it looks more "uniformed" nowdays, because ppl internally in philippines got both forcefully moved during the spanish and usa conquest of philippines. And also a lot of voluntarly migrations internally. And then modern days a lot move to the bigger cities for university education. Like Cebu, Manila, etc. So it becomes more mixed. Anyway, 177cm is NOT normal though;) But definitly exists. If youve dated many 177cm, then it almost sounds like that is your preferences do you get drawn to those "unnatural" taller girls. And thats perfectly fine. We all have our preferences:) Ps, i only called "unnatural" because its a big deviation from the philippine acerage height for females. Beyond that, they are females. (Unless they are ladyboys or something... but ill ignore those types).

[@nigelalexander100]

Smaller the better for me

[@SteveF-c3j]

Why does everyone lije filipinas over other asian women? Educate me please. What are advantages of marrying filipina vs thai etc?

[@Lifebeyondthesea]

one advantage is that filipinas have a working knowledge of english. that is not the case with japan, thailand, cambodia or vietnam. filipinas also have a catholic history, more traditional family values. about 40% of vietnamese women are catholic. but much of asia is buddhist or agnostic. these factors make filipinas desirable for westerners who don't speak other languages and are looking for a woman with traditional values.

[@vindiesel5466]

They aint no girl like a Filipina imo, they the best

[@vichua1052]

An upper class Filipina will marry a lower class foreigners. Colonial mentality in this former colony of Spain, Japan and the US.

[@paulruano1903]

Yes.... BUT.... she may also BELIEVE that most westerners are more well off. Jokes on her when she realizes that your socalled western richness is peanuts in highcost west, and your western income dissapears when you move to philippines. And then the joke becomes on you... because of the turmoil such a upperclass woman will result in your life. Only upperclass woman which maybe ok would be if is from RICH family +the family provides for her;). AND she values good values etc. AND her family and you get along well (to avoid risk of her family cutting of her "income" that she has gotten accustomed to). But that is almost impossible to find.

[@Bumblebeee88]

Sweet Sweet girl ❤❤❤

[@fitnessbodz]

He's describing women who are usually unattractive. Looks 8, 9 & 10 (without makeup). Natural

[@Lifebeyondthesea]

no. the wealthy filipina i was with for 2 years.. she was 32 and an 8.5 in looks. petite and a great character. yet very down to earth.

[@jeffsharpton1421]

No one is saying who the model is on this video. Is she available?

[@Lifebeyondthesea]

all the images for the vids are generated by AI. :)

[@jeffsharpton1421]

She’s beautiful

[@paulruano1903]

In 30 yrs time you can probably order such wives from the internet. (AI wives). Which will be very similar to a human. But probably cost as much as a house. In 50 yrs the technology would have gotten perfected, and a lot cheaper. So within 2 generations it will start to get normalized to have AI wives.

[@xenod1066]

I would prefer someone in-between. Maybe a bit more sophisticated than most girls from the province, but not too 'upper crust" or "leisure class." nor trying too hard to take over the world. Somebody who's had to work but can also be care free and easy going, but also intelligent, somewhat educated, and intellectually curious, and open minded.. Likes to party some, but not too much. Would prefer over 30 and under 45 and doesn't have or want kids, or they're grown. Lol. Is this a unicorn? Am I asking for too much?

[@Lifebeyondthesea]

you can absolutely find filipinas like that. i've met many that fit your criteria. the issue for me was that they either had kids or wanted kids.

[@MrMediterrano]

IMHO When traveling, the focus should be on seeing places and doing things and not on chasing women because your time is limited, there are many things to see and to do. If you feel the need, just hire a freelancer every now and then. They are everywhere. I have traveled so many countries and never witnessed that desirable women who have all the options among their local men, instead chose to be with tourists, that just never happens. So just accept the fact that as a tourist u cannot have it all and don’t waste your time with doing things which you should be doing at home (ie trying to find a desirable girl who is girlfriend- or wife-material) and instead use your time efficiently to get the most of the country you are visiting. And also, desirable women (beautiful, young, educated, working, financially independent) are not only much less likely to be interested in tourists, they are also much less likely to accept a big age gap. As a foreigner, u will most likely never get a desirable woman unless u yourself are desirable AND live permanently in the same or in a nearby city.

[@oo7moses]

8:46 When you see it, you'll shit brix.

[@benjilacombe7478]

Yes...a nursing school near my favorite boba tea store would be sweet, I can offer to buy my future Pinay nursing student a boba.... Another good question and answer.

[@troyelam8978]

I think medical profession jobs are a red flag! Many of us want a professional, educated woman, but I do not necessarily want a woman with a profession that is going to cause her to long to go to America! Filipinas in the medical professions are fully aware of how drastically their income increases in the United States. If you start dating a nurse, pharmacist, doctor, etc., her bugging you to bring her to the United States will never end.

[@sukantakumarmohanty-hk6tg]

Hello dear nani people were many around 200 candidates for one hiw please you are yes you may like India or not don't know ❤❤

[@Lifebeyondthesea]

ok.

[@Alander8]

Thanks Reekay for some pretty good advice 😃

[@dlandis8146]

Fred Murphy was a lonely Sacramento CA bachelor who was corresponding with a young lady in the Philippines. Fred ended up flying over to meet the woman. One day after they met, they went out for dinner in a fine restaurant in Makati, Manila. Fred was enamored with this young lady and they toasted their new friendship with a fine French wine. Fred started to feel a bit woozy but felt it was part of jet lag. Three days later, Fred wakes up in a panic. He is in a bathtub filled with ice. He has a throbbing headache and back ache and has no idea where he is. He leans outy of the bathtub and finds a note from his girl friend. He reads it - it ways" My Auntie Tita thanks you - we had your kidney removed and sold it so she could buy a house in the Provinces,' Fred winces and then looks at his left hand. He looks at his index finger and finds it has been amputated at the knuckle. He finds another note from his girlfriend's cousin "Boom Boom". He is a chef at a fine restaurant in Damaguete. He reads - thank you Fred for donating your knuckle - Western fingers make my sisig even more delicious. Right next to the note is a dish with sample with what looks like fingernails from his left hand Fred is in a panic. He has no idea what to do. Fred decides to check his bank account and see if he has been scammed Wow - I have been cleaned out - there's no money left - how will I get home. Poor Fred!

[@Lifebeyondthesea]

someone's been watching too much netflix.

[@superbirden57]

😂😂😂 That's an old one! 😁

[@dlandis8146]

@@Lifebeyondthesea It's an urban legend - but I heard about an unfortunate incident in China where the guy never made it back -(

[@richardrockie5475]

I’m worth about 1.3 million U.S. where do I go. I’m single and 63. Brown hair, blue eyes and slightly over weight. Where do I go ?

[@Lifebeyondthesea]

depends on what you're looking for... but i'd suggest a few weeks in singapore and/or vietnam. very interesting places, but not for everybody. money definitely helps with singapore. for dating, no place beats the philippines for language and friendliness to foreigners.

[@vindiesel5466]

Join a gym mate! Get in shape to attract a pretty girl

[@brent4770]

If she has good money she will not want someone over 10 years her age I bet!

[@Lifebeyondthesea]

you'd be surprised. my filipina g/f (3 years together) was 14 years younger than me. rich enough to give me a mercedes. owned 10 homes in cebu.

[@silentwatcher1455]

Not easy to meet upperclassmen women. If you wish to meet them instantly then forget them. It takes time. These women are usually financially secured and not after your money. Be ready to match them in educational attainment. Its embarrassing for these women to have just a college graduate boyfriend when they have master degree. Avoid difference in social status and educational attainment. When dating, be ready to spend.