Neither! I've always tried to have the family eat together. Therefore, when dinner is served, we all sit and say a prayer as a family and eat together.
@OpenFyre2 ай бұрын
Right, but who gets the first plate is the question here.
@menajeneva19925 ай бұрын
The hubby! Hardworking, loving, provider of not just finances but love and support. He get the first plate! It’s an honor to serve him because he serves our family in so many ways. He’s selfless! Love my guy! He’s such a blessing!
@Fairly_girl_xx_xx4 ай бұрын
Oh you can just eat together like a family
@annvalentine-pryce75725 ай бұрын
I grew up seeing my father getting served first and my mum dished his meal in separate vessels, meat, rice, ground provision, etc. My father was the provider for our household. I did the same with my husband.
@Envlo5 ай бұрын
Husband first. Thats how you teach the children to respect him too. My dad always got his plate out for him. After a certain age he kids were left to make our own plates but my mom always made my dad’s plate to this day. They’ve been married 45+ years. The kids aren’t going to die if they wait 3 minutes
@BitcoinTo12K5 ай бұрын
Perfect example
@crissyw6933 ай бұрын
Same in my household.
@tinasoblessed63505 ай бұрын
You always feed the head of the house first! In my house I fixed all the plates, then served everyone, no one ate, until I sat down and we Prayed together, then ate together! 🙏🏽🥰👍🏼❤️
@TERRIANNSKITCHEN5 ай бұрын
Love that!
@BitcoinTo12K5 ай бұрын
A man that provides and takes care of his family should always be served first.
@islandgirllove91145 ай бұрын
Said who???😮
@mamamoonie5 ай бұрын
Ok but the mother put in the labor and care taking so she's working too! Kids first since they can't fend for themselves and didn't ask to be here.
@banterbeards89675 ай бұрын
@@islandgirllove9114said every woman that ever actually had a happy man at home.
@BitcoinTo12K5 ай бұрын
@@mamamooniewas your mom a single parent?
@Feelsbylex5 ай бұрын
@@islandgirllove9114A man is suppose to provide and take care of his family, what would be the purpose in marrying him if he didn’t. All plates should me made at the same time, and given at the same time
@LashondaGuichardBenjamin5 ай бұрын
My husband is the provider but HE insists the children are served first. when he cook he serves the children then me.
@M.oonchild_20 күн бұрын
REAL MAN
@JaySantana25 ай бұрын
I like to plate up the children’s food so it has a chance to cool but I give the first plate to my husband as the eldest/head of household
@OpenFyre2 ай бұрын
Oh that makes sense.
@gildajames32085 ай бұрын
Children gets served first!
@Kay-Dean5 ай бұрын
Children must get served first but alot women has their spouse as top priority instead of the children
@jacquirobinson11075 ай бұрын
My children always
@janettemarshall-dowdy86825 ай бұрын
Children get their food first!!
@user-nb4pc6rx8b5 ай бұрын
Husband first he loves and provides for the family. 🤴
@darettablack37945 ай бұрын
Children, get them, settled and comfortable, and then the adults can enjoy their meal😊…. Love your videos…..🍃🌷🍃
@chicachica34815 ай бұрын
I cook..when they are hungry they serve themselves❤
@islandgirllove91145 ай бұрын
I serve them TOGETHER..That thing about king first i don't know who came up with it...
@doreenlouis83405 ай бұрын
Husband first
@naphiesacox5 ай бұрын
Children
@ourexcellentlife79445 ай бұрын
Husband first.
@tlove52885 ай бұрын
The provider. Always care for your relationship first because if that gets fractured the kids suffer.
@rosyrosy48124 ай бұрын
And if the woman provides too because we're in 2024 and not 1850. Then what?
@ruthfrancois89725 ай бұрын
Whoever's around and ready to eat some times hubby isn't home at meal time but whenever he is we all sit at the table together so there's not reala first plate it all gets dished out at once. Who do you serve first?
@MsHonesty6275 ай бұрын
I agree
@ivyleaguestyles5 ай бұрын
Everyone will eat at once or children first ❤
@ACjuliet5 ай бұрын
I dish my children's first, then my husband and me last. Then we eat together. That's how my gran did it.
@TERRIANNSKITCHEN4 ай бұрын
The best way especially when the kids are young!
@kaktusdesiberie71965 ай бұрын
Husband first, unless the youngest kids are STARVING 😏 and are annoying so I serve them before calling my husband so they calmed down when he comes and we can eat like (almost) civilized people 😅
@star-ys2xu5 ай бұрын
She is very beautiful and cooks well .
@TAYTAY1431435 ай бұрын
My husband would look at me crazy if our kids didn’t eat first. We both work hard to provide, we both cook meals. Kids eat first.
@Jakeyoi95babey5 ай бұрын
I serve my kids then the Mrs and me
@paulasmith47925 ай бұрын
The children of course
@joannanorton97644 ай бұрын
My husband always gets the first plate. No question about it.
@idkwuzgoinon5 ай бұрын
Children, always.
@alene65795 ай бұрын
I serve my child first.
@PoetriiseStanzafyah4 ай бұрын
Nice to see women serving their husbands first, I see a lot of comments on other videos praising the serving of kids first but I don’t think it teaches respect for elders and the head of the home ..it’s a small act but it has a big meaning ❤
@dsainte39145 ай бұрын
Children first! ❤️
@HeyitsBri_5 ай бұрын
Spouse gets first plate
@Rain-nw2vk5 ай бұрын
Kids first they more important 😊
@mattieford16745 ай бұрын
My kids first.
@charlesmcmillion9685 ай бұрын
In our house, you said it on the table it’s a free-for-all
@shinkitchen40715 ай бұрын
My mom shares the food so that everyone can get their plate at the same time. If my dad isn’t home she puts his plate in the microwave.
@ProPlan234 ай бұрын
I fix all plates and serve my hubby first.
@LoveAfterPookie5 ай бұрын
Serve them together ❤️
@islandgirllove91145 ай бұрын
That's what I do and everyone is happy❤
@SuzetteCrnich-op5sz5 ай бұрын
I think you serve you children first
@heathertaylor2825 ай бұрын
The children first
@aishalove5135 ай бұрын
Your husband should always be served first, that only applies to provider husband s
@TERRIANNSKITCHEN5 ай бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🤣
@so88155 ай бұрын
Children then husband! But let’s be honest, my husband’s plate probably comes out 30 secs after our kids, so it really isn’t a big deal.
@StephWrites5 ай бұрын
Children get served first in our house. Next is the parent who didn’t cook, and the cook last. That’s been a mutual agreement since they were born.
@kenyawalker94825 ай бұрын
You're supposed to serve your king first.
@islandgirllove91145 ай бұрын
Said who?🤔
@kenyawalker94825 ай бұрын
@@islandgirllove9114 do what you want.
@laverasloveables96985 ай бұрын
Husband first, when my hubs cooks he always serves me first.
@stephanievidaurri6385 ай бұрын
My kids
@jamiedupris99205 ай бұрын
Husband if he’s home
@Nessa_Va4 ай бұрын
Kids so the food cools down a bit then my husband and I serve myself last
@TheAntisocialSocialitePodcast5 ай бұрын
I believe if you're all in the same house at meal time, The man should be served first.
@roxyroxieroxann5 ай бұрын
Spouse is first in everything!
@TMYPiscesSunandMoonRising55485 ай бұрын
Whatever works for your marriage and family. As the adults, you all make that decision and that's that. It is not rocket science for real.
@jullianbrown86845 ай бұрын
Everyone cause I share all the food one time and carry to the table
@RheRheSmily5 ай бұрын
Plait everyone's food at once. They came all come and get the food I cooked.
@nicolelomax63254 ай бұрын
My man would want me to feed our Son First.
@MissLittleBitEW5 ай бұрын
My daughter eats at a different time. She eats first
@josephcindy3155 ай бұрын
More often children first😊
@stephanieheka99665 күн бұрын
We eat together but the children's is dished up first. In our culture it's kids, ladies and men last.
@Joannarmills5 ай бұрын
Me.... I eat first!
@Magnificent865 ай бұрын
Husband
@carolrichardson70155 ай бұрын
My Children
@JudybaptisteАй бұрын
Children always the children first
@a.m.42165 ай бұрын
My children first, my spouse can make his own plate, especially since I cooked the meal.
@caseyjackson35805 ай бұрын
💯
@Saint_Judah5 ай бұрын
Oh my goodness
@a.m.42165 ай бұрын
@Saint_Judah my husband wants it that way and so do I, his wife and his children make their plate first!
@kamilfrancis7375 ай бұрын
My kids first
@Iwishyoudevinegr8ness2 ай бұрын
traditionally in THIS order : HUSBAND (PROVIDER) OUR CHILD(REN) and then myself ...different times now different customs....LET'S EAT YA'LL LOL!!! BLESS THE FOOD!!!
@kahlerlay-reynolds51935 ай бұрын
My husband gets served first.
@EnglishRepublican485 ай бұрын
Poulet au dombres?😃
@daniellec28375 ай бұрын
What are you making? Recipe??
@Arandomwoman5 ай бұрын
The man should be helping you serve your children first then you and him.
@safi.45375 ай бұрын
We eat together, so all is 1st. Most Moms, wives are always start eating last😂😅
@user-dd5kf2br4x5 ай бұрын
Children first
@LVESFOURHIM4 ай бұрын
We feed the kids first cuz we dish many plates at a time,we have 13 grandkids 😅😅
@vickycompton95784 ай бұрын
My partner ❤
@bonkersallday5 ай бұрын
I make everyone's plate at the same time Put the leftovers in Tupperware and then eat too. I cook enough so it never matters who eats 1st Sometimes someone isn't ready to eat so it just gets wrapped up and stored for them
@jeffreyclark13732 ай бұрын
Me as the man of the house we all eat together But i make the 2 kids plates 1st the wife after them my plate last my reason is ... if there is a little bit of food I want my kids to have enough cause its our responsibility to make sure they're good im the 1(the man) that will deal with not having enough food to eat
@AidaKidane-kp2dg5 ай бұрын
Spouse
@jamaica5752 ай бұрын
We’re eating together…
@thermant84525 ай бұрын
Chirren
@Alex-xz8wz5 ай бұрын
My dog would always get served first 😂🤣🤣💯💯
@888KingsDaughter5 ай бұрын
Husband 1st.Your Husband came before your kids Biblical protocol.