Who Is Beomhan? And What Is Happening To Him?

[@namjoonie936]

The idol life is 100% not for him

[@MidoriBel]

I don't think it's for anyone, but that doesn't allow "fans" to make shit up and treating them like shit

[@Hihellohalo]

@@MidoriBelyeah but there’s about millions kpop fans so someone can be completely normal and someone could think that it’s ok to deliver death threats…it’s humans nature so you need to be mentally stable and strong af to be idol. Beomhan is kinda sensitive for this job but I think he could be a great tiktoker cuz he’s funny.

[@verycoolright7801]

Shouldnt be for anyone

[@swervyisonline]

He’ll do his own thing thankfully so the he can be allowed to act human.

[@Pinky-o3h]

The Idol life can be for anyone is just most of you guys a fucking insane. Over the top dramatically sensitive. That goes for American and Korean fan. Toxicity benefits from each other. K-pop fans benefit from K-pop companies because both of y’all are equally toxic. The victims here are usually the idols. And you and your comment and 900 people liking it prove it.

[@JiaPia3]

Because of the KZbin note, I was afraid the man had unalived himself. KZbin really needs to calm down.

[@foxylady1692]

same... omg.

[@---HaileyakaAkua]

Same

[@beabear7750]

Fr 😅

[@hakujiu]

what youtube note? please tell me i'm so lost there

[@foxylady1692]

@@hakujiu the "note" means the title of the KZbin video... In these videos, they always give a super dramatic title that makes you think someone ended their own life. In reality, you get an unfortunate story of someone, Beomhan, who left the US and moved to Korea like many others to become an Idol trainee, only he's very alone in all of this. It doesn't seem like he's got any support from he's company or anyone else for that matter which later also terminated his contract due (mostly) because of his excessive talk about his poor mental health and getting treatment... This action is actually followed by many Entertainment companies, just like most Korean Entertainment companies, unfortunately...

[@Sugas_Girr]

Social media isn't doing this kid any favors... He needs a long break from being online, for his own good.

[@soulare]

He needs to do OF ❤

[@cranburrey]

@@soulare What...

[@Pearnarrative]

He seems to always test the water and apologize. Being online is hard when you take strangers' words to heart.

[@Squidlees]

He literally reminds me of Gabbie Hannah when she had her manic breakdown. Hopefully he finds peace and tools to work on reactions and absorption to online insanity. The internet isn’t real.

[@malu8710]

People are way too comfortable sending death threats and bullying people online. As for him, he needs to take a break from social media and I hope he gets the help he needs

[@catherinethecatlike]

I really frickin hate when people make up crap and lies that can completely destroy someone’s entire career, livelihood, and mental health. Why the heck do people make up SA stories?? What in the world do they gain? They’re harming everyone, including themselves because people know when someone is BSing. And it’s extremely disrespectful to actual SA survivors and it’s something no one should joke about. Something is really going wrong with Beomhan, I’ve never seen him this disgruntled and aggressive and with his mental health issues it wouldn’t surprise me if he is currently in a manic state. My uncle has manic depression and it always gets way worse in the fall and winter. He’s such a smart, gentle, loving and kind person who would give you the shirt off his back, but when he gets manic he becomes extremely angry and hostile and scary. I hope Beomhan can get the help he needs and I hope he has a strong support system to help him and be there for him.

[@Catglittercrafts]

As someone with bipolar disorder I feel this. He needs support.

[@jjongssaengstyle]

as a friend of someone who has gone through a situation where someone had made up a whole story about how she supposedly SAed someone, any type of lying just pisses me off now.

[@snowyjas]

my first time hearing about this guy but honestly it seems like everything was kinda blown out of proportion. seems like a dude who just cracked bad jokes but didnt mean harm.

[@markleesbruisedknee]

exactly!!! but ofc tiktok and twitter users like to do this to ppl all the damn time

[@jessicaglass]

He doesn’t mean any harm. He’s a really sweet guy. He loved talking to his fans. But a person can only take so much hate before they explode in a verbal sense. There are some things I may not agree with him. But he is very sweet. I do think he may have somethings going on in his mind. When it comes to debuting at some point then that gets lost and not being able to do his own dream and what he wants. That can be a lot on a person. Is this an excise no. But he is human we have all had an out burst at some point. I just hope he’s okay

[@christinawalker6356]

I dont think his comments were that bad, it seems like he was just being sarcastic. but if people get upset they get upset, and if you respect those people's opinion then just apologize. I feel like his response of taking his apology back, going on live and saying slurs, etc was in really poor taste. if you want people to respect you as a professional I think you should act like one

[@moo777]

What slurs? ​@@christinawalker6356

[@Whoswhos12]

Yeah seems to me another liam payne situation before his Gf claims. Ppl just hate him bc he is "weird" and lacks charisma so they try to misunderstand his words

[@whitneymouse]

I’m so sad to hear this because Beomhan was always so cheerful

[@daraxiong19]

He needs therapy, a crisis manager, a PR team, and to stay off social media for a good minute. People are constantly trying to cancel him, spread misinformation, and misinterpret his words and he keeps adding fuel to the fire.

[@Cherine_Beaumont]

Bruh the SA story sounded so fake even from the start😂 It sounds like a messed up fanfic

[@gigibali]

OMG why are people so comfortable lying about SA?!! Do these randoms get paid for trying to ruin idol's career and life?

[@ashleyshim2078]

IKRR

[@ricardodias524]

That's because of the feminist way of thinking that the "victim" is always right and that the word of the "victim" is more important then they obtain proof that the crime really happens. This wave of false accusations exists thanks to feminism

[@babyk7094]

It’s so crazy how they want him to be held accountable and point out the things he said and done, while at the same time calling him the R word and telling him to take his own life. I believe everyone has said something they shouldn’t have, but being in the spotlight will definitely garner more conversation and more hatred. Humans are a sad yet interesting species

[@buberrycrunch]

Yea. it sad. Like you have these fans going after him but not actually criminals in the kpop industry. It's a shame.

[@0912sooli]

The problem is that therapy will not help unless you yourself don't want to get better...he seems to rely on therapist to solve his problems but he has to get off internet and actually put work in his healing

[@nicolebelm]

I genuinely feel for this guy. I hope things get better for him

[@0912sooli]

He is American, so his views and the way he grew up is already so different from S.Korea and it is a huge cultural differences already....and mentally he is definetly is not ready to deal with what kpop really is like

[@mnurfajri4999]

True

[@BaddieWithCats]

There are popular kpop idols who are also American, born and raised in the US. So him being American isn't the big deal here

[@lordtette]

even worse. you're admitting that he'd understand what has been going on with the U.S election . Can't use culture as a shield when he's def seen how such comments would be taken. He was doing a Kanye with walking around and ranting to a phone

[@JiaPia3]

I hate KZbin. This was done tastefully and with caution for triggers. Why demonetize this? It’s fine. As a fan, I’ll say this video is awesome!❤

[@gumihoi]

Aww ❤️ you are so nice ☺️ It hasn’t been demonetised as of yet, or at least for me, it doesn’t show; I am going to see tomorrow. But prob. Less people are going to get it recommended.

[@annamann8659]

@@gumihoi it got recommended to me, and I had never heard of your channel before

[@F1ash1ight]

@@gumihoi i got this recommended too! thank you for sharing this topic with us

[@adrianhalstead2912]

I think the reason it was warned is because beomhan is experiencing some pretty severe mental health issues

[@anoerk]

I got this video in my recommendations too! ​@gumihoi

[@MalivoreKai]

I feel like he's a good guy that's just lost and tries all the bad ways to get out of the mental hole he's in. I hope he feels better soon as I know first hand how bad it can get.

[@ccccccc4546]

People that know him in real life have been saying that he's actually not a good person though. The goofy persona is fake.

[@buberrycrunch]

​@@ccccccc4546I have never seen anyone say that. I have seen people post about him and say he's the sweetest and funniest person ever. If those people are talking about the "mean" side those are jokes. That's a way he talks to his fans and how his fans talk to him. Like there was literally a video of a girl saying if she could get a hug, he said no and she said "I would burn your house down" and he immediately got up. It's how we fans are. We're all joking and he doesn't mind. He even jokes with us. But yeah, I have never seen anyone say he's a bad person or rude.

[@amirazahirah9717]

Tbh he just need to go off social media for awhile, he shouldn't talk about personal stuff in details to his fans, it's not good for anyone

[@phenomenal_1354]

Im so glad to see Boehman standing up for himself. This young man has been through much and received very little help. He needed to be surrounded by people who love him and have his best interests at heart. Instead he was surrounded by buzzards literally picking at his flesh trying to tear him apart. I support anyone who has been bullied and finally stands up for themselves. Dont get mad at him for responding to hate with anger, get mad at the haters for pushing him that far!

[@Carnival_crab970]

The lies about SA really pisses me off, what type of woman lies about shit that people have to suffer with, end up taking their life from, feel horrible every single day because of it, that is disgusting and I wish nothing but the worse for that woman.

[@emperioszyrandios7667]

Disgusting. He was just so annoyed and defeated and lost as to what is actually happening. Give him a break.

[@rosierosie4248]

He seems like one of my ex friends who would voice out their true feelings/thoughts and when it's not taken in great light he would back track and say he's just joking or he didn't mean it.

[@OkamiandZelda]

need someone to really expose the kpop industry. something dark is going on there.

[@AnAdultKpopFan]

Calling someone "crazy" when they are clearly struggling with their mental health doesn't help with the current stigma surrounding mental health. Shame on you.

[@Ilikeflowers22]

He definitely needs to take a social media break. This isn't good for him.

[@ichi_san]

Sure he may have slipped up but i dont think his actions merit such an extreme storm of hate. sending him my wishes

[@jjongssaengstyle]

watching this video made me sick to the stomach. beomhan deserves a break and i understand him. i also tend to voice out my feelings and when its not taken by others lightly, i take it back and say i was joking. my friend has also been involved in big SA accusations. i am absolutely pissed. i can totally understand where he's coming from, if i were him i would also absolutely lose my mind and talk back. people really think if they say things like that, they can get away with it just because he's "weak" or because he's an ex-trainee.

[@dittocloud720]

Honestly I thought the trump response was hilarious 😂😂😂

[@chikis7674]

Me tooo 😂

[@Denji.99]

But buuuut women 😭 it was funny but wokes take everything out of context to feel like victims and be "special"

[@lordtette]

has he picked you yet? 😄

[@AngelinaA1824]

Great video, well explained.❤

[@gumihoi]

Thank you so much ❤️

[@AngelinaA1824]

@gumihoi you are welcome 💝❣️

[@chcc3934]

this was so painful to watch... this is a perfect example of someone who loves performing but clearly is not a good fit to be under public scrutiny. I think Beomhan should stop social media for a while but I guess he is not able to do it because of his job and his personality. The worst thing about the video though is just how terrifying are fans and followers, even making false accusations of committing crimes. Why would anyone do that? And he is not even a huge celebrity. I thought this stuff happened only in Korea but this people are all americans, right?

[@FallingForChwe]

Hear me out: he really needs a break from social media & idol world.

[@pandora3503]

Social media has affected folks' mental state sooooo freaking badly

[@jaesguitar]

honestly i would crash out too if i was him

[@forevera5241]

Maybe the entertainment industry isn't the right place for him, at least not right now. Far be it for me to tell people what career they should pursue, but this doesn't seem a safe stable place for him, you don't need to have any emotional or mental instability to be ripped apart by this industry.

[@silent_cry3435]

Okay... So, as a female, I don't think his shopping joke was offensive. He used humor to cope, big deal. my grandma died and my sister started making jokes. My friend's grandpa died and she laughed while joking. Both were devastated, but they used humor to cope with it to avoid feelings of depression. It's a normal thing. He apologized, and people continued bringing it up. He did not actually retract his apology, he continued to say he stands with women, he was tired. He has always had mental health issues, and he reached his breaking point. I have too, and I lost one of the most important people in my life as a result. He should be held accountable, but he needs love and support in addition to therapy. He apologized again and said he will see a professional. He apologized for repeating a slur used against him. He isn't a bad person, he just couldn't take it anymore, and that's okay. He is taking responsibility and we should support him through it so he doesn't do anything else he will regret

[@namjoonie936]

No one is reading all this just to know why you think a grown man is allowed to make fun of American women losing rights due to this election with the jokes he made. He is corny and uneducated in politics and how heated this American election was particularly for women. He fumbled HARD .

[@yogiye2501]

Its just liberals being sensitive and crazy like all the time

[@JiaPia3]

This video is age restricted. Just thought you’d want to know.

[@gumihoi]

I know :/ they send me an email. I tried to cencor words but made a mistake for not cencoring self ////- harm. But oh well

[@Boredeos]

Y'all are pushing him to the edge, like if i was him i would 100% without a doubt lose braincells and snap too.

[@Whos_anna..164]

He was just doing WAY too much. Not only was it too soon for him to be saying that as a man, but making comments like this is soo unprofessional. Of course all the hate he's getting is seriously sickening since he's obviously going through mental stuff. But trying to excuse what him and act like it wasn't that big is crazy

[@buberrycrunch]

I love Beomhan and have been a fan of him since well the beginning. I want nothing but the best for him. But if I'm being honest, I don't think the idol life is for him. Hes going the things and people will hate on him for no reason. He would talk about serious things on tiktok (which I like, especially, since I've been through that) but he would get hate for it. Like some "fans" would say, "I wish idols could talk about serious things and let us know etc" but when someone actually does. It's a problem. He released his debut but he had to apologize for it. Why?? Because it wasn't good enough? He literally worked on everything himself. Like I know a lot of groups/artists who did everything themselves or had a low budget, but people still like theirs? He would post videos of him dancing and people who hate on him? Like who cares, if he can dance or not. But anyway. I honestly think he needs to take a break and step away from social media for a while. Just until HE'S better. Because I worry for him a lot. Like I love him so so much. I love watching his funny videos. Love seeing him dance or show his smile. But I don't want him to be fake happy for us. Like I feel like some of the people upset aren't even fans. They just see someone joking or see videos taken out of context and immediately jump on the hate train. It sucks. It's happened to idols before. I just wish the best for him. But I am sad/happy his fanmeeting (for 16th & 17th) we're cancelled. Because 1. You'll never know who'll show up. 2. I didn't have the money, and really wanted to see him. 3. He needs a break to work on himself. I do hope some fans, friends, or his mind tell him. Hey. About stepping away from social media and working on yourself for a while. Practice. Work on your music. Try to get better at something. But I will always support Beommie.

[@cody4867]

coming from someone who is not informed about these types of things, this was very easy to learn about. well done on the video, im a new subscriber 😊

[@gumihoi]

Glad you enjoyed it! And thank you so much ❤️

[@igotpushed_]

The silver lining is...he has a gf maybe his supportive mom, team and gf help him recover from whatever he is dealing with... it's clearly projection of the past he's seen

[@brennathecatlover4360]

When did he say he has a gf?

[@namjoonie936]

Isn’t he an idol he’s not aloud to date

[@igotpushed_]

@@namjoonie936 haha sarcasm... kinda ironic ik but let's just not stoop just as low if not lower by picking faults at people who are clearly in need of help

[@namjoonie936]

@@igotpushed_ ???? The guy needs help yet dosnt and is a grown adult… yes it’s hard to get help but that’s not on me I’m a stranger, it’s on him to go get it and quit this idol dream

[@Hot_cheeto_puffs]

This man needs time away from social media he is going through alot yes he did apologize for the stuff he had said and maybe the kpop life isnt for him but he needs a break and yall are saying this stuff abt him and hes pushing himself sometimes he needs a break

[@Skyress0212]

10:55 I feel this is fanfiction

[@Cherine_Beaumont]

SAMEEEE it sounds like every messed up fanfic ever

[@lealeasun2580]

From the moment that alleged SA story started, I was like “…this sounds like a gross fan fiction” People honestly astound me

[@ElectraTechna55]

As someone one who also struggles with mental health issues he absolutely needs a long hiatus to work on himself. I didn't find anything wrong with how he did (Minus the crashing out video at night, but tbf ive done the same). Social media and keeping up your reputation/image while spiraling makes you fall harder.

[@MiJones-em6br]

let's be real now, if an idol dates, let them. They're your idol because you admire their looks and talent, right? Everyone can be a bit delulu at times as if their idol is supposed to be for them and the fans only. I'm not saying being delulu is a bad thing, I'm saying that you're selfish for wanting more out of your idol. You're supposed to be inspired and comforted by them through their character and music etcetera and have an awesome role model to look up to. But hating on someone just because they have a lover makes you look insecure, obsessive, controlling and self-entitled. Whether they're dating or not, they made that decision for themselves because maybe it makes them happy like the way their attitude and music made you feel inspired and happy too. Instead of slandering them because they're dating someone, we should be supportive or at least respect them. We should all really humble ourselves... If you really admire your idol, you'd want them to be happy, that means some sort of freedom. I understand that having a relationship can hinder a celebrity's fandom and career, I'm just trying to point out the toxic fans. If their fans weren't controlling and toxic, then all the better, it wouldn't change much unless the fans felt entitled to their idols attention only. Many fans are toxic because jealousy gets the best of them. Jealousy is natural but becoming possessive and abusive is ugly, it's like one season they're boasting about how much they admire this particular idol and then once news about their dating life or even a tiny dating scandal shows up, they flip out... It's disappointing... If your idol starts dating and you feel abandoned, GG's for you... You should get a reality check! FYI I LOVE BEOMHAN AND GROWING AND LEARNING TOGETHER I REALLY WISH ALL THE BEST FOR HIM AND HIS HEALTH ALSO I FAILED MY EXAM :c BUT I GET TWO MORE CHANCES! its important to never give up but it's also important to know when it's time to change and move on Be your own kind of beautiful 😇

[@BobaTeaGirl25]

i feel bad for him and hope he takes time away and it gets better for him....these people online are way too comfortable with being bullies and sending threats to others. He had a right to be upset but he needs to manage how he goes about things better as an idol in training.

[@chetzu961]

He needs help

[@abby_m.dn.ght30]

I was part of the lives this time around. Ik what he said, but honestly I said RIP to women too. (as a women) But in a literal and a jokingly way. It was a lighthearted joke and i don't see y he "deserved death threats". He didn't do anything really morally bad. Yet there's these F'n STOOOPID PPLE WHO MAKE UP STORIES ABT SA???? THATS MESSED UP. And y is everyone turning on him as if he actually committed SA??? I think we need a fandom cleansing. And the one who called home the r slur? OMG LIKE Y R U BEING SO RUDE??? ITS NOT GOOD TO CALL ANYONE THAT. They want him to be accountable, yet they just keep cursing him out. Even with all the comments of support its still so overwhelming to see all of that. I hope he's doing ok

[@zhaoru]

I'm feeling deja vu

[@zabawkidobrawki7270]

wow he uses the word "like" a lot

[@Evanescence29]

Why are people so onto him?? Literally nitpicking Every little thing he does or says, even if it was just fake or said in a joking way. Come on, give this guy a break! No wonder he got fed up with yall and started insulting people. His reaction is understandable. I hope people would have more empathy towards him and also not told him to such a high standard. after all he is human, he is a young, kind, cheerful guy in general, and has his own issues just like everybody else.

[@cristianeribeiro589]

He needs to uninstall all apps from his phone and seek mental health help. I say this as someone who has been through some of these problems.

[@swervyisonline]

Lol valid reaction ngl its not weird or shocking guys u are all overreacting if u think he is having a mental breakdown or something

[@R_S747]

Whatevers going on hev should probably get off the internet for a bit

[@BobJackJillZorroKoshekZuko]

even if he wasn't an idol, going live and taking about sensitive topics and airing his issues out to his fans during hours of his work, the company had the right to fire him for it. it's a breach of trust, and he went about it in a wrong way. what he should have done is tell his company about his mental state and all his issues, so he can consult professionals and do the appropriate steps into trying to get better, because he is an idol, and he has an image to uphold, by airing it out to his fans without the company's knowledge or approval, it could seriously affect everyone's livelihoods, not just his own. it's a selfish mistake, he's not doing it for his betterment, he's doing it to gather sympathy and hope people will be nicer to him, and i know people criticize him a lot, especially they think him to be a brat who refuse to learn the korean language because he doesn't like to study and thinks that he's being punished for it by the company. he said this all to his fans too, trying to garner sympathy like his fans is his mom. it's sad to see but its also very unprofessional. if he wants to stream, then be a streamer and stop being an idol.

[@livskmj]

I LOVE THAT MY THREAD IS DOING ITS ROUNDS ON KZbin 😭😭

[@JosiesCloset]

Tea, get that exposure!

[@syedahossain9733]

Omg he's a mess...being an idol can't be for everyone and especially not for people who are sensitive to criticism and make light comments on controversial topics...personally I see a lot of red flags. He should know how much influence he has and offending and making narrow minded comments just for clout or attention isn't gonna make him gain loyal supporters and the way he cussed on live....yea he should take a break and think things out....he should share his talent and know how to speak like a public figure. With this kind of mannerism that he has at present, he's not gonna last long anywhere, profession wise.

[@wendymariespeener5865]

Crazy Netizens are as bad as the woke culture. Leave the man alone he isnt saying anything no one else would say.

[@triplerstudios6108]

Hope he’ll take a break, his mental health Monday’s are for him and he needs to take what he tells us needs to be taken for himself

[@ed3nlee]

In my opinion, he has to understand that the “idol life” requires him to take all the negative things people say about him and swallow it. Also means you can’t just say whatever you want to say as that’s not how it works, as even livestreams are scripted ffs. If you can’t take the hate, don’t be an idol. When you’re at that level of fame people will hate you, they will analyze every little thing about you and what you do. He doesn’t suit fame and social media, clearly, and I think he needs to log off of everything. It’s not working and he’s only going to get more hurt, as he’s already spiralling. Him going on that instagram livestream rampage, no wonder he didn’t debut in Korea. If you can’t keep your emotions in check or keep your mouth in check, you’re done for. I understand what I’m saying is harsh but it’s the truth. He’s struggling and we are helping him find solutions to that problem. I hope he gets better but he has to make a choice even if it’s hard to come to terms with.

[@joeychen7306]

He just wasn't ready to be an idol, let alone be put on a pedestal where each and every action he performed, every word he said, every thing he does is being continuously judged by literally anyone. He didn't have the necessary support and/or training required to handle all those tough situations and because of that, he kept making mistakes after mistakes. I hope he becomes better spiritually, mentally and as an artist with given time. He's still way too young to face all the darkness that is our society.

[@OhMawD]

Thanks for your video with proper timeline, evidence and unbiased opinions ❤. As someone who used to be a fan (I stopped following him way before the recent incident), I think people were just waiting for him to make a mistake to have a perfect excuse to publicly hate and bash him. I DO believe that what he did was so so wrong in many levels, as he took a very serious topic as women losing rights as a mere joke with sexist tints, and he should be rightfully held accountable. But telling him to end his life, inventing serious rumors and calling him very harmful slurs is not the right way. I'm no longer supporting him nor I think he should come back to his social media usual schedule, but he should seek professional help and stay away from the socmed for his own wellbeing.

[@wea9898]

This guy is not cut out to be a public figure in any way, I'm sure he's going through stuff but relying on your fans (who most are probably minors) to talk you into eating? This is crossing way too many lines, these people shouldn't be responsible for his well being, he's a grown man and fans shouldn't be subjected to this sort of thing, especially young fans. It feels like when he says these things in his mind it's somehow okay if he makes it a joke in the end, but it isn't, he needs help, not an Instagram live

[@wea9898]

Also his comments about the election and saying "rip to all women" is incredibly insensitive when many women will be suffering and even dying as a result of stricter ab*rti*n laws. Yes, even as a joke. And no, it doesn't matter that "others joke about it too", just because others do something, it doesn't excuse him doing the same nor makes it any better. Does he deserve death threats over it? Absolutely not, but was the apology needed and are people still allowed to be upset over what he said EVEN after the apology (plus him taking it back too..?) also yes!!

[@starrm780]

Beomhan actually had an earlier fan meet at Kork kpop store in St. Louis. It was postponed, probably right before the contract termination. It eventually happened and its still up on their instagram

[@MarielleCamba]

I think his thoughts about Idol dating is cheating on their fans speaks how he views his fans, he acts like he is in a relationship with his viewers always explaining and trying to satisfy his viewers

[@Inmyveinz]

He needs cancelling, help and professional support. Not only is he a danger to himself, but also young fans following him. He is so crying out for help so god I hooe someone intervenes before its too late.

[@soulare]

He needs to be cancelled ❤

[@Denji.99]

Cancel culture is never a solution

[@itsfoster7785]

What does he need to be cancelled for? Treating him like he did something wrong for having mental health problems makes you part of the problem. Good thing is that it seems me and you agree that just because you can post things online doesn't mean you need to.

[@Inmyveinz]

@itsfoster7785 for his safety and the young fans he could influence. It's not have so calm ya tit's. I have anxiety and depression so not talking from a bad place. Maybe you need to educate yourself.

[@RusyDena98]

He needs time off from social media and all. He needs the most help from his family.

[@Pinky-o3h]

To be honest, this is supposed to toxicity a K-pop. It reveals that American fans can be equally or more toxic than Korean ones. Toxicity benefits from each other. K-pop companies in K-pop fans benefit from the toxic environment that they make. And this is seen and shown. Most of the time a lot of K-pop fans wanted isolated yourself from this but you can’t. Because you are the toxicity, you made it happen. And his story is the best example of it even though he doesn’t have a company. The toxicity is real.

[@Maji-1509]

17:27 I know this is supposed to be a serious topic but when he quoted the Kanye West and Taylor Swift interaction it just made me chuckle a bit

[@katerinaAzevedo]

Seriously the dude needs a time out. Take the phone away.

[@PurringStar]

It's unfortunate how serious people are taking what he said.. they just cherry-pick at him and other idols/celebs, sending them hate comments and you can see how its making his and other celebs mental health deteriorate. It must have been frustrating going through all this alone and feeling anxious

[@namjoonie936]

Cherry pick? After watching this 30 minute video no one was ever cherry picking this dude needs to quit tryna be an idol and get off the internet and get therapy

[@yogiye2501]

@@namjoonie936u are the only one who thinks like this in the comments. Really brainwashed, you are commenting under all comments lol

[@namjoonie936]

@@yogiye2501 yeah because everyone is acting like he isn’t a grown man who literally oversteps constantly?? He literally showed sh off to fans like that’s genuinely weird

[@namjoonie936]

@@yogiye2501 it takes me seconds to reply lol and I. Don’t mind the conversation around it

[@yogiye2501]

@ its not weird, when u are in bad mental state u want people to hear you out and tell u its alright everything is going to get better. Otherwise u are just alone. I thought u liberals are inclusive and supportive lol

[@alvii2601]

yall done pushed this man pass his limits🤦🏾‍♀️

[@Nick--Spears0]

"and and um -and uh yeah- and oh um" a nightmare sonnet.

[@swervyisonline]

U all are not ready for the outside world if u think this behavior is outrageous. Good luck out there 😂

[@sientense]

Poor guy, these idiots bullied him for shitposting, aka the same thing people fell in love with his content. I hope he'll get a break and stay with people he loves.

[@dipperdawn]

Nothing he said even needed an apology. He said his own opinions that not everyone agreed with and cracked a joke that we should treat ourselves to try to get our minds off of the election. Which is, in fact, exactly what me and the other women in my life did. This guy is just a dude with no media training, but I don't understand why the public doesn't want more freedom for celebrities. I wish media training wasn't so overbearing, but every time a company doesn't have their celebrities on the tightest leashes, people panic at everything they say or do. Free these people, honestly. I hate to sound so right-wing, but why are their literal right to freedom of speech essentially taken away in their contracts.

[@sakura_pop]

i don't think all the harsh hate is warranted at him, i don't think he meant any harm, but i do think he needs a hiatus to heal and come back 100x stronger

[@LilacLover14]

But the question we all need to ask ourselves is why would a KPOP idol mention about the U.S presidential election...

[@Denji.99]

Because he's a us citizen ....

[@LilacLover14]

@ i actually didn’t know that but i thought this guy was at least aware of the controversy he was treading towards to

[@Denji.99]

@ naah those kind of people always acted extra sensitive and want to feel like victims, I don't blame him for not knowing how crazy they are

[@LilacLover14]

@@Denji.99 wait who r the victims 🤔

[@dacmermaid]

Well, he’s a US citizen who’s old enough to not only vote but have informed opinions about it… so…

[@semirah9345]

His live about the election was obviously him just being sarcastic on what everyone was saying after trump became President. It’s like these “fans” make a big deal of him having normal humor. He isn’t a idol rn let him be a regular guy that uses social media for fun. I hope he gets the help he needs these fans doing too much he always apologizing for nothing

[@burntsolis3942]

Not defending him or anything, but isn't it weird that these serious allegations always come up when an idol/ trainee ends their contract with a company? The timing is just fishy, why would someone hold something for so long, then come out as a victim so much later?

[@heaven3218]

I mean this in the nicest way possible but he’s on the spectrum, social media doesn’t know how to deal with people like him, I feel bad for him cause I know he thinks he’s doing nothing wrong, they can’t read social cues like “normal” people can

[@shecancareless222]

Jae tha last one that should be speaking Lol

[@pixelmafiaxbl]

Fans or ‘netizens’ that get into these parasocial relationships with influencers/idols are hella weird and he was so real for revoking his apology and telling them all to shut the F up. That’s where it should have ended. From what I’ve seen, he receives a lot of love but gets easily distracted by the hate, and those constant reactions and apologies just emboldens those losers to keep hating because they love the attention. He needs to just focus all his attention on the people showing him love, and act like the rest don’t exist because realistically, they have no power so long as he doesn’t acknowledge them.

[@raquelalanis5718]

Everything escalated too quickly... He was just making things worse and worse 💀

[@Iamsylvie.30]

Him saying idols shouldn't date is the biggest pick me thing I've ever heard lol

[@LizBizEEEE]

Depending on the company, he could’ve been under a dating ban. A lot of companies have them and though after some time with the company it may get lifted, there’s always some drama that goes on when grown adults want to start dating. It could’ve just been pushed onto him. I personally think dating bans are dumb but in K-pop culture fans are supposed to be able to see themselves dating the idol. They’re supposed to be boyfriend girlfriend material and them dating breaks the illusion. I heard it’s tougher with jpop too

[@zXNateDoggXz]

The way people been talkin bout him i at least thought he was gonna be actually talented😂

[@markleesbruisedknee]

ppl hating on him and calling him sexist for making a joke that even women themselves made is so stupid grow up fr

[@brennathecatlover4360]

Have people been on Twitter or watched family guy/ South Park they make jokes like that all the time and no one gives af but beomhan does it and suddenly it’s ww3. He’s really not wrong rip us and if I had people coming at my ass 24/7 I’d say screw being nice and lash out too. Like if u don’t like him just block why do people still go on accounts they don’t like

[@namjoonie936]

It’s the context… he was literally addressing the American election and what he said made light of the fact women in America will be losing more rights due to this election. Even people outside of kpop where reacting to the video

[@wadiputhere]

​@namjoonie936 So?? Why is it a problem when he does it? To me it came off as a "Things will be okay someday so distract yourself from whats currently happening" way

[@namjoonie936]

@ he couldn’t read a room even if he tried

[@brennathecatlover4360]

@@namjoonie936 those same people bitching at him I’m sure have made similar jokes or laughed at similar jokes. And they’re mad at him cuz he’s done being nice after they harass him on his posts and lives 24/7 like I don’t understand this fandom

[@princkleminckle1159]

1:13 Bruh. I think its best to date whoever you want regardless of your status as an idol. STOP FEEDING THE FANS' PARASOCIALISM. If they are your real fans, they shouldve supported you anyway. "i cant believe you're cheating on me!!' "I don't even know you" "But i'm one of your fans..!" ".. I dont even know you."

[@curbstop]

He’s the most American Kpop idol 😂😂 I think half the people getting mad are overly sensitive IM CRYING He is a Kiiii

[@ruddiko]

The nerve of this guy after having one of the worst debuts ever in kpop history

[@Denji.99]

I'm sure you'd have an even worse one if you did a debut relax

[@jeaninejames9249]

What medicine is the chick with the pink hair on?

[@Denji.99]

We all know what "medicine" she's on

[@lilprincess.]

I honestly feel like people should respect him I don’t care if he is a celebrity or if his a man and disrespected women I don’t care if he did this or that The fact that these people start attacking him without knowing in real life is disgusting and not only that they expect him to act all nice and sweet when they insult him? How does that make sense?? You think that Jennie or wonyoung would start acting nice to you as a fan after all the hate they get? No of course not it’s like a bully if your bully starts bullying you out of nowhere and then after like 3 days they come to you and they start acting nice they expect you to be sweet with them but you won’t be sweet because honestly they disrespected you and made you feel low That’s what’s happening with this dude people say he tried to r*pe a girl which wasn’t true because he showed the evidence then a fan said that he crashed her car with a rental car and ran away Well I guess that was solved Then they got mad because he was putting opinions because of Donald trump and also making fun of women?? I am a women and whatever the fuck people say about us I don’t really give a shit I mean if they make fun of women then let them hasn’t men make fun of women for years?? Damn y’all are seriously sensitive He genuinely seems like a nice funny guy But just because he tried all these days to cope with haters and to not pay attention to them and be nice as possible to even go as far as to apologize Doesn’t mean that he will let hate comments slide keep in mind his a men and I don’t know what his personality is But I have a brother and his personality is chill but if you actually make him mad he won’t hold back no matter what people say to him And beomhan looked chill he looks like a guy who can be chill and all fun and games but if you push his limits you will regret it So if he starts acting all mad and defensive come back to this video and still ask why he is acting like that People first of all fans don’t know how to respect their fav celebs his a human too And also calling words that shouldn’t even be called to a stranger that you don’t even know is messed up All I wanna say is y’all better stay away from internet literally technology is frying your brains 😂

[@iya6222]

Not his fan but can anyone take anything from him that will make him online? He needs to be out of social media and stop doing lives specially that he knows that hates are being thrown at him.

[@mizzzlicia1832]

This guy seems unstable

[@itsfoster7785]

I wish people could say things constructive like "I hope he can get help." Comments like these stigmatize mental illness.

[@mizzzlicia1832]

@@itsfoster7785 not sure the mentally ill care about comments telling them to get help. They most likely are already in the spin of a spiral, and there is nothing I can do

[@Nick--Spears0]

... Being mentally unwell is being UNSTABLE. I wish people would stop walking on eggshells about words being used correctly. OP is RIGHT. He's a ticking time bombm

[@marcelarose644]

I feel like social media took away his chances of maturing. Hopefully he takes some time off and comes back stronger and smarter 🫶🏻

[@minasrr_my]

4:52 HE DID NAWT. ONG HE DIDNT. WHAT

[@catherinethecatlike]

Yeah, during a live stream a year ago

[@namjoonie936]

It’s SOOO inappropriate, crossed so many lines

[@wadiputhere]

With that logic then no one who does sh should ne allowed to wear shiet sleeves and show their scars

[@namjoonie936]

@@wadiputhere sign…. Do you genuinely need someone to tell you why what he did was so wrong 💀💀

[@luvrere5962]

@@namjoonie936 whooo cares. its scars. its not that deep. you need to get off the internet asap if you are worried about seeing healed scars! yall are making it seems like its a sin for people who have healed scars to be ashamed. stop shaming people who have been through things. grow up.

[@claudhenry3375]

I have to say that i'm not surprised 😅 He looks like the Jay type (streams expecting to say the most outrageous things on camera without backlash because he doesn't have the same freedom as an idol). Glad i'm not a fan...

[@Denji.99]

Yeah glad you're not a fan

[@itsfoster7785]

This was very prejudice of you. Also, what in the video led you to say this? Did we watch the same thing because I saw nothing wrong.

[@lordtette]

Beomham cares to much about the parasocial relationship with his fans, exactly why his fan didn't care about car damage. The video of him legging it is funny🤣 The dude at the end defending him...a man not finding a sexist joke harmful isn't shocking. I guess that's why he can only focus on the debut as being the problem. "his signing voice isn't bad?"🙂‍↔️ Fans are wrong for being albeist to him and the false sa accusations ? Holy hell. but I hope he sees the same anger he has against albeist comments is the same anger people had over the rip to women "joke"

[@chocoflan22]

did this video get deletd?

[@LizBizEEEE]

There were age restrictions added and it was demonetized so it was probably down at one point

[@hwafoto]

he reminds me of eaj of jae ex day6

[@marissabones]

I feel bad for him