Why Age Is Critical In Dating (PART ONE) - The Benjamin Zulu Show

[@julzlebi3305]

Zulu really genuinely cares about youths. The pain in his voice regardless of his laughter tells it all.

[@kikikiki3216]

Absolutely

[@youngvisionary4747]

This is so true when i turned 25 its like i got sober in my thoughts and behavior,i have tried to explain this to my male friends they don't get it!

[@Blessed56863]

Almost reaching there and I can attest to this,it's like your eyes get opened a fresh

[@faithmwende3937]

Zulu your energy shows pure love to us🥺♥️we love you too. I'm turning 23 soon and strictly following your teachings 🥰👌

[@BG-gt1xy]

This is amazing. No unnecessary laughing. It shows you listen to your fans. Well done 👏

[@tinachristine4573]

I think they were using laughing to reduce the harshness of what they were saying.

[@richauntie316]

The laughing was getting unnecessary ,I hope they keep it professional and a bit of humour

[@MercyLNgendo]

I met my husband when I was 22. Our marriage lasted 10yrs. Looking back, I realize why and how I got so attached to him. Thank you for helping me understand better.

[@LivingPurposeful360]

Awww... Benjamin Zulu! This is purpose you are living and fulfilling. May your life be a worthy course. Much Love!

[@felistermukina1444]

I once dated a university man, got dumped immediately he finished and had a job, little dd he know he had taught me a big lesson, i decided to focus, right now my life is wow thanks to God, this guy keeps on begging for forgiveness,,

[@melynoluoch3714]

Block that man

[@hellenmutisya8177]

@@melynoluoch3714 immediately

[@fredrickkoech8396]

Block him everywhere

[@durbansaladyinaccra2173]

You can forgive but dont take him back cos you and him are no longer in the same place mentally, financially and socially.

[@Mwanzitelvin]

I'm 20 and this has been quite valuable I'll focus on my life and learning dating till later

[@jackeymutheu5]

You are soooo lucky..do your Best 💪💪💪

[@catherinemukethe7598]

I wish we had a president who thinks like you....you are a spiritual father to many...God bless you and bramwell

[@wanyinavybes421]

I feel your frustration Zulu, we are poor because of inverted priorities. In a society where Akuku Danger still is a celeb and mentor, we ought to be smacked into an awakening 😂😂.

[@alfridahabuga8296]

Absolutely true the problem is not government it's individual

[@divinekuria6393]

Everytime I listen to you am inspired... I understand why passion burns in you, this is Purpose and for our sake you were sent on earth... Thanks for going before us and availing knowledge for our shaping... You've saved destinies and we celebrate your purpose on earth, being a pre 25 am Helped... Blessings!!! Regards Mr. Benjamin Sir

[@sarahsmrdal7094]

Single life is better than miserable marriages. We only life once 💃💃💃

[@lydianjiriri]

Thank God for such a voice in our generation.

[@annesam3671]

This so powerful, the youth should listen and learn. May God continue impacting our youth through you Mr Zulu.

[@lydiaokoth6300]

From the beginning of the video to the end its all wisdom Am very attentive!

[@mashadiplomat]

Wow. Zulu, you always reminds me of Myles Munroe. I have been following you both for along time. May you continue serving your gift in our generation as we discover our hidden potential.

[@emmahwanjaria6192]

I am always eager to listen to Mr Benjamin Zulu he always pour so much wisdom for free. I've learnt a lot I really appreciate his work. God bless him. He should think of writing a book it will sell so quickly.

[@devloyola3411]

I love this episode ♥️ You will think it speaks more dating at a certain age but really it's about the value of youth, dreams, and fulfilling one's destiny! Thank you for this 🤗 Not everyone is born to be a wife/mother/husband/father but everyone is born with a purpose/calling! Powerful speech from Mr.Benjamin and Mr.Bramwel.

[@EnHl3]

Thank You Benjamin Zulu you are touching lives... Love from South Africa 🇿🇦

[@sanyubereta332]

Wow I can relate with you Zulu, lot's of love from Uganda

[@siniaeduardo5871]

Uauuuu...Mr Zulu we are learning a lot. Thanks... From Mozambique.

[@josphinenimile430]

Thank you so much Benjamin! God bless you for this wonderful speech, am greatful that through you am motivated

[@phoebemukhwana3058]

Am listening, Zulu always on point 👌👌

[@stayhealthywithdot9969]

How i wish everyone joining campus could hear this🤔

[@emmahwanjaria6192]

I wish I can like many times

[@hellenwanjiku167]

Very true Benjamin has really helped our young people..hope they can listen to him.

[@sanyubereta332]

Your right,I wish I had this as early as possible but never the less we learn

[@la_julz]

Even after 26 in Namibia, it’s a gamble

[@florenceojowa7706]

What you say makes a lot of sense. Keep educating us. Thanks for reminding us that like the muscles, the mind needs to be exercised.

[@monicahmuhuri7833]

Pre 25..blisfully detached from reality...half asleep😂😂😂

[@stillirise6086]

Unfortunately all this information does not make sense to a pre-25 .....may God help our youth.

[@maskedtitan7126]

It does. They are not stupid, just that their brain hasn't matured

[@henriessemwanga3821]

Surely no addition on this topic much love frm uganda

[@idahwangari4086]

Reality...i am so afraid to have kids before i have a better life

[@claudiaadirah7171]

Me too...am 26...am not even interested in dating..it feels arkward at Times...I get you

[@annastaciakyalo417]

A very nice motivation and Advise..Thank you very much Mr Zulu.

[@lynnfavor6058]

Benjamiin. Good bless you. You a always opening our minds. Those with ears to hearken.

[@lilianander3873]

Mr. Zulu you are a good mentor you speaks the real fact.

[@PhiloLutta]

Zulu..you are talking valid points especially for those varsity students..coming from poor backgrounds..and when they arrive at uni..they loose focus..forget the poverty and become reckless with life..others getting pregnant in first year..

[@saradan3272]

Your advises are always top you're really ablessing to many

[@ruthmutinda6522]

perfect advice B.zulu always inspiring sending this to my son a young adult..

[@bkamelodies33]

Very accurate and articulate.

[@ruthgitau1285]

I wish i would have known this things before,but anyway it's not too late to still learn

[@berylgloria1291]

True

[@virginiahnjoroge4543]

Am addicted to your wisdom Zulu ✨

[@AvenueAdvancedSystems]

Literally Life Saving Information

[@martinmurimi4236]

Benjamin Zulu you are a genius on societal matters.I am your student in silence😂

[@ritamichael5155]

Great advice Benjamin

[@iankipchirchir4944]

Thank you Benjamin for am 20 now listening to your words let me find myself now

[@alfridahabuga8296]

If we don't change our ways we'll remain poor,

[@jovicjovita9458]

This is my favourite video from Benjamin am 22 and i needed to hear this much have watched it more than once and i wish i got to know this earlier

[@durbansaladyinaccra2173]

Mathematics was a gym for the brain in school....indeed it was. 😂😂😂

[@liliannasengo7369]

Let reality be told very right zulu

[@romanawaleghwa947]

Always on point my mentor

[@sharonmartins3273]

Always your fan. How I pray to be this wise.

[@possumkeys]

You can go grocery shopping without money just to look at the commodities. Window shopping is a thing. LOL

[@Cypfit]

Thanks Benjamin for this

[@florenceojowa7706]

Women don't change. Girls become Women. I love that

[@tino6229]

Just the topic l needed, thank you Benjamin. Great show as always. I find l am struggling to date someone my age, l find men mature slowly.

[@virginiahnjoroge4543]

We make our tomorrow by the way we do today,profound speech 💬

[@isupport2025]

A good advice man

[@gloriatoo22]

Wah...Benjamin for president

[@juliansakwa3594]

Very educative

[@chatscraftsb641]

Yagiira ‘aayiiiii!!!!’ 😂😂😂

[@janiferkerubo3552]

We are poor bcoz of inverted priorities!! Cheii🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️ thanks Benjamin 😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@mphomakekemba4695]

the truth in this 😢

[@connicube2513]

Wow Benjamin that’s so true I can testify to that😅

[@tabithakahoi8880]

Thanks zulu

[@romanawaleghwa947]

Women don't change they are girls become women 👌👌

[@njuhigum100]

Is it okay and possible to work on the issue of hanging kindly please? Regards 🙏🏾

[@joansangut5408]

Please 🙏

[@jesintahwanjiku2412]

😂😂😂😂😂 Benjamin did you just say he doesn't have underwear and is eating coffee and ugali

[@kevokeface8744]

You have help me alot

[@corrinebunyakha1498]

I just met this three guys when I was thinking of settling, 26 year old was mature but I considered age, 30 was the most immature man I have ever talked to in my life,and 34 was mature but complicated. So is age really a matter?

[@bunny8352]

Someone can be 30 with a mature brain but refuse to use their brain, what he is trying to say is, wait till you are mature enough biologically and mentally before you enter a relationship

[@lydiaokoth6300]

Thank you Benjamin,

[@jeps.e4305]

I didn't have the future in mathematics ☺️ I am in that list

[@Rees-Howells]

Thank you sir

[@paulineakomba9777]

It's hard not to laugh especially men graduating

[@isaiahmwenya]

🙏🏾

[@johnsonforka8115]

Sir my care is that my girl is 20 and the main reason why am interested to her us because she told me she is still a virgin and am planning to married her is a good decision sir for am 30

[@misslubisia9497]

wueeh! don't be fooled😂

[@chrissynjeri3694]

🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

[@jackieapple6178]

Thanks Benjamin I have been with my man for 8years and he has been constantly cheating for all those years Till he told me its just a weakness of his ,and I thought I would live with it but my heart couldn't take it anymore . Now we separated but he is now contacting me again and begging to get back that he has changed I feel he is just lying in order to get me back ,please give me some advise Thanks

[@makaveli5254]

If you be following Benjamin well,you wouldn't need to ask,you'll understand that that's his true character, he'll never change

[@evamurichu]

@@makaveli5254well said😄

[@irennyende2927]

@@makaveli5254 correct

[@durbansaladyinaccra2173]

It is only Christ that can change him BUT he has to decide that he wants to change and give his life to Christ. Other than that, get ready for another disappointment if you go back to him. Start thinking of the wellbeing of your soul and know that emotional stress can start affecting your physical health badly.

[@rozyndeto]

Why exes come back? To see if you are still stupid. (BJ's words) Watch that video

[@ruthagneta2560]

Such an Educative topic, Nzulu I learn alot from you , Since the time I started following you Sir This one will really make a turn around of someone's live

[@DaveOndiekAaron85]

Wise_Man ❤️

[@PhiloLutta]

You need to speak in schools and universities..!!!

[@wisdomlife]

Following...

[@prudencemosa6083]

Pleasefu detatchex to reality