WHAT SHOULD BE THE MAXIMUM AGE GAP BETWEEN COUPLES?

[@rashidalyles1428]

We have a 18 year age gap and we are married and very happy and committed to each other. 45 years old and 27 years old ❤❤!!!

[@Chyfavour-k2d]

My suggestion is that the will of God remains the very best... Age is just a number

[@blessedabrahams]

Only wise people think this way.

[@stanleywiz-eu4pp]

You're right

[@chimereze]

God bless you❤

[@CharlenePierre710]

Singularity. 🌞💖

[@uncleanis45]

And jailcell is just a room...

[@patrickdavid8331]

I wish I knew Apostle Emmanuel Iren early....Love you sir...

[@londonlavish8345]

Apostle Iren is extremely wise, this kind of wisdom is only of God. Bless you Sir

[@dadakophy5638]

Age is just a number, if ur partner brings out the best in you. Marry n stay together

[@chiz_wil]

Submit, submit, who like suffer? As far as the man has proven his efficiency, most of us want to be baby girls for life. Na suffer dey cause gra gra.

[@harry-ucheukala5501]

Lol. U haf scattered the small table wen we dey manage oo

[@ubongambrose4066]

But submission to your man is not dependent on his efficiency/money, or do you only serve and worship God when there is materials gains? Serving God can actually bring suffering/tribulations because of the very Word of God you have received.

[@ogundipeaanuoluwapo-zj6dq]

😂😂😂

[@garbabenjamin8499]

​@@ubongambrose4066 You are blessed 🙌. God increase your wisdom

[@praise-tehilam3167]

I honestly believe it depends largely or above all on the mind of God concerning that union. Purpose knows no age limit, recently watched a very beautiful testimony on a couple where the lady is older than the man 4 years and how God was so involved in the journey.

[@isaacakindipe]

Most likely they didn't share the challenges associated with the marriage. It's safer when it's not more than 2years or preferably 3.

[@bettytheladygod7899]

God bless you ❤

[@bettytheladygod7899]

Your first line is exactly the mind of God 🙏🙌... anything else is human wisdom

[@michaelkabaya1384]

I'm 42 and she is 23 and we are happily married for 2 years❤

[@Sm04.277]

You are predator

[@Sm04.277]

Its pred

[@julesbatind6633]

Child abuse

[@Big_Bimms]

😮

[@Rumbu_P]

Those saying it's pred Would you rather he not marry her & be doing 'marriagely' things with her?

[@Saved.by.Jesus.]

Know God in prayer and fasting and reading the bible completely every year. The man most first be encouraged to know God because the man is head of the household. God deals with family through the man. You should encourage your husband or husband to be to know God every day. In prayer and fasting. Encourage the reading of the scriptures. Food is not everything. Build yourself up in prayer and reading the scriptures together. The Devil came to Adam and Eve but they were not prepared. You must build your spouse up. Heaven is real and hell is realm.

[@VivianRoyChi]

This is beautiful I’m blessed❤️ Age doesn’t matter just be exposed mentally and matured as well

[@TheBishopJoe001]

Thank you for sharing. This has helped shaped my view on some fee things today. It’s always a different ball game in the outside world. With this messaging, I’m a better with decisions

[@princessdamiii6585]

I love eeetttt 😍🔥 Patiently waiting

[@hiddenbeauty2828]

It depends. If the younger person in the relationship is under the age of twenty-five, an age gap of three to five years is a lot for them to handle. The reason being is that they tend to lack the life experiences and knowledge of the world that someone twenty-five and up has. Also, your frontal lube isn’t fully developed until age twenty five. For this reason, I think it is best for them to date within their age range. There are exceptions, but generally, I think age gaps do matter in certain situations and life stages.

[@Chigozirim111]

Stop misleading people.Allow them to hear from God directly.Perfect will of GOD has nothing to do with age oo! Kingdom marriages has nothing to do with your maximum or minimum age gap.In kingdom marriages, GOD brings two compatible believers”not unbelievers “ together to fulfill HIS purpose on this earth,to show forth his glory, to procreate Godly seeds,etc.Don’t forget,GOD’S ways are not ours,HIS thoughts are not our thoughts,the way HE numbers things is different from the way we does.(2 Peter 3:8),How old was Sarah when she gave birth to Isaac,and what was the age gap btw Abraham and Sarah?Leave flesh and do GOD’S perfect will.GOD has uncomfortable ways of doing things,allow people to have one in one encounter with ABBA,and do whatever HE bids them biko. The way HE meets or talks to you will not actually be thesame thing with another of HIS creature,everyone has his/her own purpose.Don’t idolize some certain fleshy precepts or ideas in the heart of people,leaving them to a state of confusion.Let them draw close to GOD and hear GOD themselves.thank you and GOD bless you🙏🏻

[@AliciaErastus1]

He is 44 iam 27 married for 5yrs

[@terresanenzhelele2239]

My husband is 18 years older than me

[@OlawamideSamuel]

Sir I am 72 and my partner is 19 and we are happily married 😂😂😂

[@FX_Motivationz]

Pastor iren is Mee 😂😂 Max age for me to marry a lady older than me is 3 years. ...lol.

[@kelechiokorie7899]

I can't even marry a girl who is a year older than me 😂😂

[@jacksonripper-mp8dr]

​@@kelechiokorie7899I think people like you like 10 year old teenage girls

[@DoyinVoice]

@@kelechiokorie7899that's because of your ego and you want to feel lord over here. wake up it's 2024

[@chabalamusonda6714]

Good Response....Thank you Sir☺️

[@lawdbilly]

I’m 30 she’s 40 and we are just fine

[@Giftedarena]

Yap. Age is a number but some don't understand

[@anthea_grace]

This is so helpful and very true 💯

[@redaharriswalker7718]

There is no U.S .Constitunal Law or Bibical Law against marrying a Younger Man only Other Peoples Opinions ...an that Dont matter to Me what other people think or feel Again No Biblical Law over age 18 !!!

[@Globella-z6u]

For me, my husband should be at least 8yrs older Max 15yrs

[@joshchinwendu]

Do you mind sharing your reasons for choosing this age gap?

[@hiddenbeauty2828]

Why so?

[@CharlenePierre710]

Me, I only asked for twins.

[@SarahOnuora-pt9om]

Be calming down jor It's too much Which one is 8 years

[@kabioye]

The age gap between me and my wife is 9 years ans we are living happily with children.

[@erdoosolomon4101]

Thank you soo much pastor Iren

[@ChibuikemEgwu]

What If she is older but I'm not really thinking of marriage but we have talked about it and I came to a resolve that I don't want to keep her waiting age is not on her side and we may not be for each other

[@TcAngel1]

You played her, you never loved her. Simple! Cos whats this age card you men like to play?? When you date a woman older than you, what were you expecting except stability?? You wanted to enjoy and play life because you are not ready for marriage, why didn't you tell her that from the onset?

[@tynishasimmons8078]

I’m 34 he’s 21 ❤

[@adomgrace4554]

Thank You for sharing.. watching from🇬🇭🇬🇭🔥

[@laurettamekoma3183]

This was so good, thank you sir and ma’am.

[@jacobs.engineering]

Is it okay for a 25 year old guy to date a 19 year old lady??

[@hsmim-tech.education4086]

Sure

[@skriii8299]

yes

[@joymwendwa6959]

I don't think it's wrong. But what has God said? What are y'all's levels of understanding and readiness for long term goals like marriage, children etc?

[@tbryan50]

Yeah

[@JumokeMoyin]

And hearing from God as well, God must validate the relationship.

[@terhemengabriel9491]

"Age is just a number". When someone is not in love with you, they bring up the issue of age gap. Women in particular when they don't see a high survival chances with you and there is a significant age gap , they pick it up as an excuse. In this country, a waelthy man named Razaq Okoya at 59 married Folashade Okoya at 21. He was already another woman's husband, an age gap of 38 years and Folashade didn’t care. They are already 25 years in marriage with 4 children meaning the man is now 84 years and she is 46 years old. People should stop playing with others in issue of age difference especially woman.There is no discussion of age difference in the bible. How old was Boaz when he married Ruth and was he already another woman's husband ? That's my point Sir/Ma'am.

[@TcAngel1]

@@terhemengabriel9491 Simple!! Its so disheartening listening to even families play age card, thereby loosing a suitable daughter in law. Its no longer health, or ethnic bias, or madness that runs in the family or even osu caste system but now age is now the card they play, all to stop a marriage because they feel they can! Its so sad to see when two lovely people can't be together because of age. I'm pained for real 🥺🥺

[@ydkshantel]

What if we’re the same age?? Like getting married 25:25?

[@Oh_la415]

Exactly my question what if the are the same age?

[@sundaydavid3494]

Wow beautiful messages

[@_iamdynamic_]

Waiting patiently for this one ☺️

[@oyindamoladaramola1760]

It's been up on PL's channel since, this was just posted as an excerpt. Check Laju Iren here on KZbin, the tittle is MARRYING YOUNG.

[@brightajari857]

More Grace❤Sir❤🙏🙏🙏.

[@foyinlolasworld6072]

Thank you for sharing 😊

[@steveirungujermaine-r9b]

it is not about age it is about maturity and destiny

[@adebesinsamuel5524]

Thanks so much Sir. This helped greatly

[@HealingLight01]

Thank you sir

[@PeacefulNdaba]

Interesting Topic🙌

[@favourxx]

tbh I think 3 years older than me or one year younger is my limit

[@adeogoekunjesu8337]

Thanks sir 🙏

[@RuthAjala-e9b]

Pls is it right for a lady to marry a guy she's older than?

[@brightkwena6713]

that example is what im facing shes 27 and im 22 but im fine with it but scared she'll settle and might not be able to wait till i have a say for myself

[@floraambrose4542]

I waited for my husband, and he didn't turn his back on me. He stood against the majority just to marry me. One in love can make dangerous sacrifices to make it work.

[@mercyjames7260]

Wow!! ​@@floraambrose4542

[@SuccessEnyadike]

Am 21 can I get marry to a 50 old year man

[@Sm04.277]

I am 17 he is 21 ❤❤

[@PamelaBugadam]

You’re underage my dear… there’s a problem somewhere

[@Sm04.277]

@@PamelaBugadam there is not ❤️❤️ in my country its totally acceptable

[@Web3girly]

@@Sm04.277lmao. Is your country age of consent 17??

[@Sm04.277]

@@Web3girly its 14

[@chisomchukwuazi6571]

Is it wrong for a 28 year old to date a 20 year old lady?

[@beatricederossi1601]

It isn't

[@joymwendwa6959]

I don't think it's wrong. But what has God said? What are y'all's levels of understanding and readiness for long term goals like marriage, children etc?

[@isaacakindipe]

Except you want to be her sugar daddy. If she's 24/25 and you're 33. That can still work cause she would have been exposed and more mature to make a marital decision.

[@AisosaBlessing-d8s]

noo I don't agree with you on that,age is just a number​@@isaacakindipe

[@yashuamuthakakimani]

Joy ulielewa hii story vizuri sana😅

[@RJSRdg]

I think it should be borne in mind that the older you get, the age gap becomes proportionately less. When I was 25, there was a 20 year old student at my church who I got on well with. But at that time, I thought a five year age gap was too big. But now I'm in my late 40s, I'd be comfortable with a 10-15 year age gap, and if I was in my 50s, I'd be comfortable with a 20 year gap.

[@ronniedenis3844]

Me am searching for a wife who should be 10yrs younger than me

[@Chigozirim111]

Flesh,God’s will be done,not yours bro/sis

[@jesseetim4682]

Can I marry a lady who is older than me for more than 3yrs

[@Komsmkas]

It's possible, but there are a number of things that you need to critically and prayerful consider

[@metugenjole2898]

​@@Komsmkas like what if I may ask?

[@OgochukwuEkenebe]

Yes dear

[@ronniedenis3844]

​@Komsmkas like which things?

[@CharlenePierre710]

Yes. Legal. When suspect , they already enter in case, so.

[@Reres_space1]

Im 19 he's 29 a lot??

[@atukpamishael281]

10yrs isn't bad. Abraham was 10yrs older than Sarah

[@Ggjkil235]

Is 1 age gap ok?

[@Oyzatt]

No. If you’re 30, your options is 20 - 24 maximum. There should always be 7 to 6 years gap difference between both of you. Because of many reasons. A man is his early 30s can easily provide for a woman is her early 20s it becomes much difficult when the woman is older.

[@Engr.ElishaOkara-bf3qu]

Nice

[@Ebenezersamuel2]

Sir, i am a pastor and Am 20 years, and the lady i am currently dating is 21 years old (one year older than me).. But, what i prayed for in a wife, i actually saw it in her.. We are patiently waiting, for the right time so we could get married

[@Tchibazz-TV]

So long you saw what you desire,it's fine I will say

[@opeyemiajayi-moses7470]

Yinmu, be deceiving yourself😂😂😂

[@obidavid6541]

I pray it works out , there no longer many good girls out there

[@hiddenbeauty2828]

I pray it works out. This seems like a perfectly age appropriate situation.

[@princesseunice160]

Dating at 21? How long do u intend to date without sin getting involved?? I really think u should keep relationship aside and focus on other aspect of your life. Grow other dimensions before thinking of marriage and settling. You vare still very young to be carrying the weight of relationship oo

[@drjesuselshaddai9537]

8 yrs. You must be born in the same generation to view things with the same eye.

[@madamshay749]

If thats the case, wouldn’t it be 10yrs?

[@CharlenePierre710]

Some men don't want alignment. Then, they observ this later.

[@SISTERSCREED]

❤❤

[@favourndakara]

👌🙌

[@phoebe_toria4337]

❤️

[@LynellStluce]

Abraham was 10 yrs older than Sarah,this is a inspiration.The number 10 is God's limit.The husband has to be 10 yrs older than his wife.This Biblical.God gave us His word,to be lamp unto our feet and a light unto our path.

[@bukunmiososanya8323]

Scripturally, is it wrong for a lady to be older than the man in a relationship? Even if it is a year difference

[@gracewambui5431]

There's no scripture reference to the age gap... That's a preference.. my thinking

[@chineduchijiokeuzoma6013]

No, there is no reference in scripture. The question here is will she submit and respect him if he is younger than her? Bible rules must take its place.

[@leonie9733]

I feel there already is a reference in scripture..Eve was made out of Adam. So, Adam was older

[@christ_inspire_daily]

@@leonie9733 That's description not prescription in scripture. Jesus didn't marry, Paul didn't marry, does that mean it is a sin? Some things in scripture are for learning and knowledge and not direct application. Mind you, Adam and Eve were created as adults so in a sense they didn't even have an age.

[@brymoreemmanuelbraimoh7767]

@@leonie9733 nice one there, but I think that if Eve was made ‘out of Adam’, not ‘by Adam’, then they are the same age. But it seems Eve turned out to be a better thinker than Adam.

[@Ruby_Armstrong]

🥂🍿😎

[@SOA_3T]

Thanks so much sir

[@JamesOnukoko]

❤❤

[@DCreativeStellz]

Thank you sir