Why are many MEN angry with WODEMAYA? Did He say anything wrong?😰

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[@newdawn1091]

When you have a woman that loves you, you should spoil and treasure her.

[@africanqueenmo]

Tell that to a narcissist sociopath

[@Canadianlove]

When you love a man too much he will take you for granted

[@bradleepitt7409]

Spoil her and treasure her? Nonsense.

[@newdawn1091]

@@bradleepitt7409 okay

[@GodsChild-1331]

​@@CanadianloveTruth... I couldn't have said that any better!!

[@mikega1252]

Miss Trudy’s hair looks gorgeous. I like that she keeps it natural.

[@Undercover1107]

FACTS 👍

[@housseninacro9038]

Marriage is an investment, wedding is not.Wode,you spit wisdom!

[@angelaescoffery7728]

He might be thinking that it's okay to teach her how to vlog. That's a helpful information but at the end of the day you're looking a woman to be your wife You have to treat her right. Showing her how to vlog to make money is not showing her that you want her you you want her to be important in your life. That shows you're cheap you don't want to spend your money so you want her to make her own money to spend. Man like that he's not too attractive so he needs to do what he needs to do to get a good looking woman like that.

[@goldgirl8771]

Agree with him

[@africanqueenmo]

Stingy men's association

[@teerich]

@@africanqueenmo😂😂😂

[@jagenaught]

@@angelaescoffery7728 You spewed garbage there and there are plenty of good looking women but not good wives. He advised her. To claim he wants to spend her money is a claim with not substance.

[@joybeybeeluv4234]

Go Maya! I love hearing a man that respects women and believes in empowering his wife and not controlling her! Beautiful 😊

[@angelaescoffery7728]

That woman is going to meet a good man and leave him.He is too cheap sorry

[@conni2081]

It is good to assist a woman to be independent and to be empowered. Sometimes if you talk too much, you may loose the wisdom behind the intentions. I think he means well for Trudy but he will also need the wisdom in elevating her woman in public. Let the world know you found a treasure as much as she also found a treasure.

[@aaronik4092]

You said nothing wrong Wode Maya Garvey. Its the right message. Lets empower our women

[@naturalempress8564]

Overall, the idea is: “Give a man a fish, you feed him for a day-teach him how to fish and he will eat for a lifetime”💯

[@angelaescoffery7728]

I agree but for him is teaching so she make her own money.Thisvway he thinks he doesn't have to give his wife no money.Thats a cheap man.He isn't attractive so he needs to do better because when she makes her own money she doesn't need them anymore. She see that he's not willing to treat her as if she's a good woman or a good wife so why stay around. Somebody else out there would treat her better and she will gone in a minute.

[@africanqueenmo]

Trudy should go take care of her father in Kenya he is much more deserving

[@Shaddyraddy92]

Wode Maya saw potential in Trudy. Taught her the game. Invested in her. Now she's an icon. Success!!!🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

[@globalcitizen1138]

It's the woman who chooses her mate and not the other way around.

[@feonasmith9226]

I don't see anything wrong with empowering women, I agree with what he said

[@angelaescoffery7728]

Is nothing wrong with showing someone how to be a vlogger All of a sudden the world has a million and one vlogger. It's not nothing you're doing that so great anybody could do it once you put the time in and effort. The problem that we have with him he's not to attractive he's not too tall a nice looking woman like that that's talking to him He needs to show that she's worth it. Show her how to make her own money is great but also you can't hang around and think she's going to hang around with you not spending a dime on her You're too cheap.

[@ceerox3974]

Watched the interview with the Powells also and Miss Trudy had the same look in her eyes here... She doesn't look happy. I am glad you have empowered her, she sings your praises and is very respectful towards you. However Wode, you don't speak like you adore your wife. You don't speak lovingly. A wife is to be treasured.

[@tintswalomabasa565]

I share the same sentiment

[@roselinealice8869]

Same sentiments too why is she not happy yet they are newly wed there's a conspicuous disconnect btwn them my 15yrs old son said something that i will keep quiet about for now, though

[@Gabrielle0241]

Yes he's not in love with her , he said it himself he's there because of what she does for him. I don't think he finds her physically attractive it's very obvious

[@blackcoraltv6787]

Thought i was the only one that noticed....the spark is gone from her eyes. Maya is an arrogant person, must be hard to live with him

[@astraltraveler1]

Agreed. I've never heard him sound so arrogant before. But he is a village boy as he says. His ideals of marriage may be misconstrued compared to elsewhere. Regardless, he did help Trudy get a step up in life. But for many cultures, wives are regarded as servants for men. Perhaps it's an unfortunate side of Africa. But Miss Trudy is very smart. The wheels in her head are churning and she's internalizing and comprehending everything. But she's a good wife. And staying silent. I on the other hand could not, and therefore am happily single. Relationships are about sacrifice and compromise. Perhaps I'm selfish in that regard. Either way, I'm self-sufficient and need no man. Imo, Miss Trudy could easily marry someone worth 10 times what Wode Maya is.

[@AkotTV1]

I dont mind making my own money but please, I love it when my man spends money on me eeeiiisshhh Wode, go easy he he 😅

[@DiOnlyweh]

Thumbnail; I'm not angry with Wodemaya at all 😂 much respect to your husband 👍🏽 Beautiful wife Wodemaya! Much respect to both 🙌🏽

[@readoutloudrol5755]

Empowering women is just an excuse to be cheap. Women in this day and age are empowered and even the breadwinners in their homes.

[@Jay_N_A]

As a woman & a mother, I can attest that mothers who stay home & raise their children produce healthier intellectual children than mothers who work outside of the home. Hence, if a man requires a woman to neglect her children to chase money that man will probably never be a good husband or father. Essentially, I think men should give women the option to be a caregiver or a working class woman, if and only if she has children or plan to have children with her husband.

[@finalelement1]

🎯

[@Kaelicious221]

Nahh did he just say as a Ghanaian I don’t like to spend my money on a woman, a woman u want to know lol but guess what? Maya, some of us we have Ghanaian partners and they spend money on us so do not speak for all the Ghanaian men speak for urself smh that statement was very bad n ridiculous

[@Olcool]

He is speaking for himself. did he say we, or us. That whole story is about him. leave him alone. he said his truth. enjoy your men's money and its a fact that he is Ghananian.

[@pitime4764]

Saying that he does not want to spend his money on a woman is very triggering....He emphasizes this too much. When a man loves and values a woman and even chooses her as a wife his soul purpose is to PROVIDE. for & PROTECT her. ....At thus stage of your relationship he should not be saying this....Trudy is the prize and he should be proud to say he worked hard for her. Honestly, he sounds like he is doing you a favor....He says strange things like, He did not marry you because he was head over heels in love but because you were good with money and progressive. When the Powells interviewed him he said this. Man what are you saying? You made her propose to you too??? It's the totality of all the stuff you have said. It does not look good.

[@Da-hellFreesHorseSlaves]

Exactly. Why marry a man who won't provide when you can find a man who will? Strange.

[@amnestytv9468]

That's him. If you like spending money on your girlfriend, continue to not come and teach someone who is loved by each other how to use his money. And listen to the interview carefully, he said "he likes investing in her, things that matter " not unnecessary things....mteeeeeeww!!!

[@pitime4764]

Did you read the caption of the video? It was a question left for people to share their opinion. I am sure there are many perspectives and they should all be acknowledged so that they can form their own conclusion, and I gave mine. I like them both individually and as a couple but that does not mean I have to agree with every single thing they say or do. They make a great team.

[@kwekswilliams6884]

Massa massa take your opinion and use it in your relationship. If ot works or doesn't its yours to deal with. Leave them alone with your unsolicited opinion

[@Da-hellFreesHorseSlaves]

​@@amnestytv9468he didn't address what matters to her because he's arrogant.

[@bajanvacationer8409]

Very intelligent man. Empower your woman to help herself, instead of depending on you as a man... But a lot of men would not support this idea, because to him resources are a control tool. Sadly

[@ifeifesi]

Yes, you are right about men using money to control women. It's no coincidence that in Nigerian culture, the women that suffer the most DV & unaliving at the hands of their husbands are women who are educated and earning good salaries or more than their spouses.

[@angelaescoffery7728]

Power your woman so she can take her money when she fine a new man because you are cheap..

[@angelaescoffery7728]

Not so intelligent man because if a man that thinks he's trying to look a woman or he's trying to wife a woman and don't want to spend a dime on her out of his own pocket that woman is not going to stay around for long. That woman is looking for the next man that could do something for her he's not an attractive man he's not a tall man he's a vlogger like a lot of vlogger okay it's not a big prestige job it's something that people are doing to make money. That's all he's showing her to do You want her to hang around you knowing that you're short and not to attractive You got to spend money brother.

[@ernestwitherspoon3344]

She was willing to listen and be coachable, equal success.! Lots of women don't wanna listen period!!

[@africanqueenmo]

She's his doormat

[@user-ul6do9nc5o]

​@@africanqueenmoShe doesn't look happy at what he's saying

[@africanqueenmo]

@@user-ul6do9nc5o as a woman I can say she's biting her lip and swallowing it. There are two businesses at stake here hers and his. Money first before happiness U guess!

[@jackiedelvalle]

​@@user-ul6do9nc5oThat's just her resting face when she's not smiling.

[@user-ul6do9nc5o]

@@jackiedelvalle ....the eyes are a window to the soul. Let me take this opportunity to tell Wode Maya that a woman is a flower that needs tending to.....he shouldn't neglect to water it for it to glow from the inside out. Every woman loves to be loved up regardless of what they say. It is how God made them. That is why the Bible tells husbands to live their wives. Remember to keep her overwhelmed with love and ever smiling. Now that you know she's got your back in the case of a rainy day, now is your turn to please her too. What does she want in her husband? Be that man for her. That is what fulfilment looks like, where each partner is getting loved the way they like.

[@SammyJ96]

5:05 " I'm not selling my daughter," profound. She comes from a good home,and it shows. Most of whom in this comment section with their negative comments ,obviously didn't have a REAL father figure in their lives. So, they're running these streets with their jezebel spirit!!

[@PoSHEmediaglobal]

She said it; Ghanaian men don’t want to spend on a woman. A pity I support women bringing value to a relationship though but for men to not even want to spend on a date to get to know a lady is something

[@niiamartey72dzeagu-fw4ts]

Yes is good you pity your fake rich life, but you cant fake Wodes true success!. No African knows how to acquire success,career n finance more than a Ghanain, but we prefer going steady n low key as Woide has proven to the world.

[@PoSHEmediaglobal]

@@niiamartey72dzeagu-fw4ts who be u? Did I say am a Gambian. Mtchw

[@angelaescoffery7728]

For a guy who is not too attractive I think he should do better than that. If a man show you that he's not going to spend money on you in any formal way while he's trying to wipe you up that gives you a good hint that that woman is not going to stay around too long. Because he's not smart he's not showing her how to make money and as well take care of her He wants her to learn to make money to take care of herself. Why would she need him after a while once she knows what to do and how to make money she's gone He's not too attractive he's not too tall.

[@angelaescoffery7728]

@@niiamartey72dzeagu-fw4ts The man is like a vlogger like the rest of us that's out there vlogging doesn't take too much of a brain to be a vlogger. You just have to put the time and effort into it That's why everybody and their mother is a vlogger even the dumbest person that's up in the country in the hills is a vlogger.

[@lornaduncan5273]

When I thought i couldn't love you both anymore, I get this video. Outside of my wedding dress, my wedding cost my hubby and I $1000s, 38 years ago next September. Keep being true to each other and share everything, the good, bad and the ugly. BTW Ode, your laughter is infectious as Ms.Trudy is beautiful 😊 God bless you always.

[@wodemayavlogs785]

Amen! Thank you so much for the love and support. it really means a lot to us!

[@lornaduncan5273]

Ur most welcome 🙏🏾 🤗 ☺️

[@muchit3629]

Wode Maya - You are absolutely on point. However as a man I have to concede most of us especially us Africans we tend to want to weaponize money and resources as a way to control a woman. So you have to have a lot of confidence and trust in your woman to really empower her to be independent. Men get scared that when a woman does not need your financial help then she may do as she pleases to your detriment but without trust a relationship cannot thrive. I say your approach is great and if your woman was to abuse it then just move on. Otherwise, hey like you, I would rather she brings in some money herself rather than asking for money for everything.

[@Robinson9608]

Well said, the world is evolving, women must also contribute to the relationship

[@africanqueenmo]

This is how men get depressed

[@archileanbrown7549]

Such a wise young man. He is secure in him. If love, trust respect and sincerity is in the relationship it will flourish

[@africanqueenmo]

@@archileanbrown7549 there is no respect for her. Just tolerance

[@angelaescoffery7728]

Don't worry she will leave soon.If she as her own money what is he bring to the table He isn't a very good looking man so he needs to do more for her..Vlogging is that he brings to the table not enough for a woman..sorry

[@Silverbackugx]

Thank you Wode Maya..🙏🏾. You give me hope that Africa is evolving beyond those outdated poverty producing rituals. The fake cap of African men providing this and that needs to stop. Most African women actually work and many are the bread winners. 90+ percent of African men are under employed, temporarily employed, or unemployed all together. This is the age of information so stop the cap.

[@berthekabwe871]

You only see things on a surface level and do not understand the complexity of African culture fully. You are looking from an American lens. First of all, African women cannot be the only "breadwinners". If you see an African woman working in the markets, selling things or running a business, please understand that an African man is also working!!! In Africa, there are certain jobs or businesses that are ran by women NOT men. Infact, any domestic type of business are reserved for women. Hence, if you go to any market, majority of people selling things are women. Any types of business that is NOT domestic related is ran by men. You will never see an African woman selling metals or wood. Moreso, majority of companies prefer to hire men over women. In most African families, the parents will prioritize their sons over daughters to get an education. No matter the background of the family, rich or poor, the parents will always work hard to insure their sons are educated or employed over their daughters, it's the reason African men tend to be more educated than African women, because African women are NOT given the same opportunities as men. In an African setting, an uneducated African man is worthless and brings no value to society, hence the reason an educated and well to do African woman would NEVER marry such man. Finally, the reason an introduction takes place before marriage, is because the woman parents wants to ensure the man will be able to take care of his family financially before giving their blessings. No African man can just sit at home and do nothing. Such man will be stripped of his dignity, respect, insulted and ridiculed by family and friends. I know this because I have seen it happen in my own family.

[@teddydavis2339]

Wodamaya is such a road model. I love this guy. I'm so proud that he is African. Look at how Ms. Trudy is looking at him. When she is not happy, she doesn't fake it. I have a lot of respect for her as well.

[@A.Walker.]

*role model, you meant?

[@africanqueenmo]

Good luck to you if this is your role model

[@dinhos2000]

Why not express way model 😂😂...And you still edited your comment and couldn't get it right

[@thisenthat]

The look from this young Kenyan girl tells how much she’s laughing at him inside. Such a lousy guy who’s stingy can not survive long

[@deerobb2299]

See, Wode took care of his wife from the onset👍 He paid it forward 🤲 and earned his keep in his beautiful wife 🤵‍♂️💞👰 Wode makes so much futuristic sense ... God forbid anything should happen to him, Ms Trudy would have already had a lively lively-hood/career 🕵‍♀️ 💰 💵 Capable of taking care of their household 🏘 including future children.

[@readoutloudrol5755]

Trudy Tom care of herself from the onset darling . She paid for her flight to Ethiopia where they met, she paid for her flight to Singapore and everywhere else. The wedding was also dirt cheap which I like but I doubt he consulted her on that. Wode Maya seems cheap, he light have money and be doing the Lords work but it seems like he has been neglecting his responsibilities .

[@user-ul6do9nc5o]

​@@readoutloudrol5755And she's okay with that, I'd call it desperate.

[@africanqueenmo]

@@readoutloudrol5755 fact. Pathetic husband poor Trudy

[@SammyJ96]

7:01 As a woman, I absolutely love this philosophy of yours Maya! I mean, with that approach, you ONLY get stronger!

[@user-pb6fr4jr1k]

NO MATTER HOW RICH A WOMAN IS, EVERY WOMAN WANTS TO BE LAVISHED ON BY THE HUSBAND. EVEN THE INDEPENDENT WOMAN, WODEMAYA SHOULD CHANGE ON THIS. AM HOPING THAT ITS NOT TRUDY WHO PAID FOR HIS FATHER'S PLANE TICKET. SO WODE MAYA IS NOT SPENDING ON TRUDY... THIS IS WORRISOME

[@maembe8562]

I agree

[@teerich]

Doesn’t sound good at all…

[@muluchristine]

Wodemaya is very stingy,, he presented a car gift to the wife and later the wife said they both saved for the car I doubt he spends any money on the wife

[@user-pb6fr4jr1k]

@@muluchristine I feel like she might be suffering in silence

[@chidinque]

But thats what she likes. She says she prefare to care for herself thats why she's working and cant be dependent on her man. Babara tne builder language. Now she's looking at him say exactly what she said

[@maggienjeru6342]

It seems like when this couple break up the gal will never regret of loosing her man because he never spend money on her 😢😢😢but god forbid

[@CosmasOcan]

It's really good to invest in your wife who adds value into your life in every day living and knows the meaning of being a wife play your role smartly as Aman my Ghanaian brother

[@Am_Manasa]

Very great interview

[@howardjessica7704]

Wode Maya is A Good man and a confident Alpha male. That both intimidates and impresses other men. Much respect goes out to this brave and amazing man whom others should not be angry at, instead they should follow the successful example he has set. He is a great man in the making. ❤ from 🇯🇲.

[@africanqueenmo]

Wide Maya is just another Kevin Samuels I feel sorry for any woman in his path except his mother

[@gracetennant4982]

Love that Wode Maya. " Empower Women".❤🙏

[@africanqueenmo]

Let him get himself a husband instead

[@gracetennant4982]

@@africanqueenmo that's not nice. What's wrong with us women being empowered.

[@africanqueenmo]

@@gracetennant4982 what he needs is a provider not a helper

[@SherrieBumbray]

​@africanqueenmo God is his provider. Wode provides for Trudy, and they are help mates to one another.

[@africanqueenmo]

@@SherrieBumbray he said it himself. She provides for herself he does not spend money on women. Not even his wife stop sanitizing truth. He is with her because she is not a financial burden. I advise her not to have any kids with him

[@Da-hellFreesHorseSlaves]

What do you mean you don't want to spend money on a woman? You mean your wife. This is weirdness to me.

[@DiBrown2024]

I thought that was weird too. How can he not spend money on his wife?

[@wodemayavlogs785]

Kindly watch the full video, you'll understand the context😂

[@springbackTV]

Thats a real man 😅🎉

[@Healthymama79]

Quite weird

[@Da-hellFreesHorseSlaves]

@@Healthymama79 Miss Trudy looks miserable most of the time, but this guy thinks he is spitting wisdom. Women already have power and don't need men to empower them, only for them to respect their place as an equal partner in a marriage, rather than a subordinate.

[@karensimmons1107]

Commenting from Jamaica 🇯🇲 mr Wode Maya, if men and women found something wrong 🤔 with what you said 🤔 about teaching women to be independent. Something is really wrong with their thoughts 🤔 are mindset period ❤❤❤

[@readoutloudrol5755]

She didn't need to be taught to be independent...she was already doing that. WM seems to be taking credit for all the hard work Trudy puts in.

[@SammyJ96]

0:56👏👏👏👏 I'm truly liking you more and more Mrs Maya ! Initially I thought you were selfish,and perhaps in it for your own benefits( you know, the REAL Maya brothers and sisters out here are protective of him. 😁😁😁). But you've proved me wrong. I wish you both God's continued blessings,protection and guidance. You're a wise young lady Trudy,please don't get carried away by the silly comments out there.

[@kemi1486]

Marriage is a partnership. Once we become adults, we are each legally responsible for ourselves. Having a partner to share love and the responsibilities with is icing on the cake for those who desire marriage. Anything can happen to the husband or wife like sudden illness that stop him/her from working so women should absolutely be empowered!

[@Da-hellFreesHorseSlaves]

So he considered Trudy powerless only because she made less money than him om KZbin? KZbin can be gone tomorrow. Weird world.

[@SammyJ96]

8:27👏👏👏👏👏 AUTHENTICITY. That's what I saw in you when I first subscribed to your channel over five years ago.

[@user-ul6do9nc5o]

After listening to this video, i can understand why the wife was stuck in Miami, FL the other day with all her credit cards maxed out. She caters for her needs and her husband is stingy and she's okay with it. I gues been called Wode Maya's wife is enough for her. But she doesn't look happy at his in sensitivity. If I were her, I'd be making my exit plan. He's just not that into her. She's just there as a doormat for him.

[@RadBunny2269]

She’d said cards, nog credit cards. And she didn’t say they maxed out but that the banks froze any activity due to suspected fraud. She’s a Kenyan, like me. There’s ZERO credit card culture so I’m certain it was debit cards and she likely never notified the bank for her travel itinerary. So they will freeze it for suspected fraud. She can be a bit ignorant like that on small things then complain like others are wrong.

[@user-ul6do9nc5o]

@@RadBunny2269 The bottom line is that her husband's doesn't treat her like his queen. 👑

[@nazieyprasse3701]

​@@RadBunny2269 and why didn't she call the Husband to help her pay direct, or someone can't transfer money from another country 😢

[@RadBunny2269]

@@nazieyprasse3701 None of us can answer that one. What I know is that the moment Ana Friedan bank flags your debit card for overseas fraud, you have to show up in-person to explain before they let you use them again. I suppose someone could have bought her a pre-paid card to use even from overseas…

[@JijjysMaison]

She was stuck there to make the video more exciting more interesting for viewers. Pull in viewers. Like an adventure. Unfortunately she forgot pple will come for her as an already married woman or not single- with her man who should be coming to her rescue.

[@Joyful-gu5bj]

Great conversation and I totally agree with Maya. Unpower your woman.

[@mtndrone]

This is so true. Men have to empower their women. A family is way bigger and wealthier by combining their force and knowledge together 🔥❤️💪🏾

[@user-my1gi6gw7v]

He spoke like my Husband and he’s a man of Wisdom. My husband don’t see the need to spend unnecessary money. And my husband thought me a lot of things and I don’t regret it cause sometimes us as women we spend so much and don’t thing about the next day. Yes some men stingy but some is not being stingy is just teaching you smtg

[@Caribbeanlivinginnamibia]

He didn’t say anything wrong. He is wise and calculated. Big Up Yourself Man.

[@chinweokwuasimonye8871]

Yeah I agree too I get where your coming from If people are upset Maybe it was how it was presented and how it was said Its good for men to empower their woman but each to their own Whatever works There's no rule book to life We are all experiencing So we all just have to find whatever works for us Marriage is a partnership Its good for both to uplift one another My beloved aunt was lucky to marry her husband that did very well for himself and he provided for her but didn't empower her to do for herself Well she felt it when he past away and it was very hard on her Some men (not all) can use their wealth as a form of control to oppress While other men that constantly provide It can put stress and strain on some men which can also put stress and strain on the relationship because relationship is a partnership So what effect one will effect the other I feel it good to empower each other to support one another Just in case because we never knows what might happen Reasons why love is important because if the wealth disappear Will the love still be there? 🤨

[@VanNyaimbo]

People do not understand what Maya is saying. Imagine if your partner dies and he is the sole provider, what next? Bigs up WodeMaya, we are proud of you and Miss Trudy

[@Ms.QueenIFRA]

Love It! Partners, Teamwork , She is a true helpmate! Empowered from God and Her Husband! He is wise to be so young! Awesome words of Wisdom 👏🏽👏🏽🙌🏽🙏🏽

[@hillieduvalier]

Exactly.. while a prenup (when you have money as a male) is not a bad idea, empower the lady to make her own money ... and a mutual underatanding , no need to be fighting over money

[@HoneyBunches100]

Why does a man make money if only to keep it to himself. That was not God’s purpose for manhood. He was created to be a Provider to a wife and their children together while the wife was responsible for creating a safe, clean, comfortable home ensuring the family receives its nutrition through several daily meals and the children have the physical support they need to develop into smart, confident humans through taking their children to after school activities, helping them with homework etc. A woman’s role is enough work without adding a full-time job to the mix. Men must stop looking at women as overworked worker mules. We are tired of being overworked and expected to be the financial provider as well as everything else the woman handles daily . Just something to think about. ❤

[@hillieduvalier]

@@HoneyBunches100 true.. in a perfect world,but the world isnt perfect, and alot of men are borderline or full blown narcissists, who use their money to keep women " in their place" to tolerate and put up with his bs.. Too many stories to mention., so i would support women getting their own bread, it can also be a back up just in case he fall flat financially too, if she can do well enough to hire in the day to day running to "take the load off " that woud be excellent..

[@allanluis3696]

@@HoneyBunches100 woman having to work is something woman FOUGHT for in the west. Men already know they have to spend money on women. Even with a prenup a man will still have to pay a woman. A prenup is used to protect assets accumulated BEFORE marriage or in excess of what is agreed upon in the relationship.

[@ralphwhitaker8761]

Do many are even listening to that man, he is so young, with so much wisdom

[@africanqueenmo]

If that's wisdom I wonder what foolishness might be to you

[@ralphwhitaker8761]

​@@africanqueenmo if you know better and can say better, tell us what exactly are you doing great, tell us about your achievement, and if you know so much, why don't you teach us something that can contribute to success and positive? So let's hear it

[@sheagocosmetics]

Why does he speak about his wife with such reckless disregard? She always looks sad, like she is forcing herself to smile. He just seems…let me shut my Nigerian mouth before…

[@africanqueenmo]

I'd never encourage my daughter to marry a Ghanan. A Nigerian brother is who Trudy should have married.

[@sheagocosmetics]

Yes. He does not show proper respect. I think what got me is when he said in their wedding video that they married on the day of her mother’s death. I had to rewind it because I did not believe what I was hearing. My goodness, the woman was mourning her mother. She looked frazzled at her own wedding. She was sad. What kind of person would do such a thing? I don’t know Wode. I should not judge someone I don’t know; but the things he says to her are almost like he wants her to have a low self esteem. Like he is always putting her in her place in a passive aggressive way. Making her grovel. I remember Trudy before marriage. She was so pretty, bright and vibrant. She has lost the spark in her eyes. Perhaps I am wrong and I pray that I am. God help these young people.

[@angelaescoffery7728]

You said it .great statement

[@africanqueenmo]

@@sheagocosmetics he seems like a sociopath because on her wedding day he made her visit her mothers grave and lay flowers. Trudy cried throughout during the wedding reception that was btw paid for by Kenyans. Not Wode Maya. It was a very bad sign even Trudys dad cried. This is not a match made in heaven. Trudy is a shadow of herself since getting married to that annoying mean immature boy from Ghana.

[@anonnona6433]

​@@africanqueenmo😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@zaneletap1727]

Very intelligent young people, am so proud of you Maya and Trudy, watching you from South Africa

[@afronewsworldwide]

Very good advice for the current generation who base their relationship on money only.

[@whz366]

Obviously you did not listen to the entire video or you did not understand what Wode Maya said for you to have made this comment.

[@afronewsworldwide]

@@whz366 shut up... You making noise in the classroom...

[@whz366]

@@afronewsworldwide once again you show your low intelligence level, not understanding one iota what Wode Maya said in this video.

[@ayiekoue6017]

Wode,I'm happy for you that you found a woman who is not a materialistic person.

[@Redeemedbygrace-op7vn]

One problem is a big percentage of you will think you know this couple's life based on few minutes of video and most of you commenting negatively might be single or with broken relationships thus comparing yours to theirs, that's wrong... Pple grow and learn with each other gradually but watch part two for a better perspective

[@EllaSuitableGist]

The King and the Queen ❤❤

[@KenRobert1]

Bless you Wode Maya and Miss Trudy and thank you for all you both do.

[@gesurareyuaat-zl1wd]

Greatness!

[@A.Walker.]

God made us women to be a "help meet" (partnership) to our men, not simply a 'help me eat'.😊🙏🏽♥️

[@wodemayavlogs785]

Absolutely!!

[@kofihe]

​@@wodemayavlogs785Kobby pray and get closer to Jesus Christ of Nazareth. I pray He steers your marriage. I see some suggesting negative vibes to your dear wife. Marriage is for life and we would account to God some day. May the Spirit of God guide you to keep loving Trudy according to His word.

[@Vallenane]

I like this a lot and Trudy mentioned great tips which have motivated us who create content 🎉

[@relaxationsoundsambience2724]

Wisdom, for the ages. Thanks Wode Maya:) God bless you:)

[@user-jk6rt1fl8e]

You are so true a little women depend on on their men very well spoken in empower your woman I like that👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽

[@lyndaslocs]

Miss Trudy, your hair is so beautiful!

[@blessedblessed1267]

Trudy has suffered from the hands of this selfish Man.No romance,no respect, no money, no love for her.She is always sad and lonely. 😮

[@RadBunny2269]

I don’t know about the rest you list there but i think we can say she definitely comes across as lonely-ish in her videos nowadays more than before the marriage.

[@brofutv1853]

Whatever you nasty people sow, you'll reap. Evil people seeking to sow seeds of discord between a couple. They're evil and they cannot help themselves out of it. Wretch-worthy spoilers.

[@Redeemedbygrace-op7vn]

I suspect you are single...

[@RadBunny2269]

@@Redeemedbygrace-op7vn 😂😂😂😂. Absolutely opposite of that.

[@marshaniedawns1361]

​@@brofutv1853😢

[@edmariebrown918]

Love you my brother.Big up

[@lorainethompson8573]

I agree with you Wode Maya empower your woman.

[@fargakoigip6029]

Am 56 yrs old male and am not married yet ... I don't find anything faulty on your conversation ... if there is anyone offended from this interview then is bound to a relationship failure...if anyone take this advice as an offence I can put my money on him living unhappy life

[@africanqueenmo]

Keep being single

[@AccidentalCarnivore-ul3kg]

@fargakoigip6029 - Your mindset is why you are still single at 56. Keep being single. 🤦🏾

[@Kiriza22]

You are right, but you just have to Tell your partner openly and politely!

[@CalphyHub]

​@@Kiriza22yeah

[@fargakoigip6029]

@@Kiriza22 I am not getting you

[@Tephiffany]

Yes, men should empower their women!

[@Blackisciple]

But would women do the same back it seems that in the black world women should have all the privileges why men do not get a damn thing and to me that's unbalanced and incorrect

[@rosam674]

@@Blackisciple You sound like a man who should focus on yourself first and not be out there looking for women. You are not ready for a relationship. When you are ready, come back and watch this video again.

[@speakmind300]

​@@BlackiscipleWomen do it all the time a do it all it's just that it's hidden and they are told to shut up constantly 😢

[@Blackisciple]

@@speakmind300 is that how things are for women in Africa ?

[@cindywebb9786]

@@Blackisciple been there and done that. Men will listen to the foolishness of other helpless men to the point that all of them end up broken and penniless. Can't help a man if he isn't willing to help himself first.

[@user-jc1ee1ne7d]

Their Singapore videos (when their relationship was just starting) are enjoyable for sure.

[@readoutloudrol5755]

The one that Trudy bought a ticket for herself to go see him...that one right ??

[@user-jc1ee1ne7d]

@@readoutloudrol5755 She did about six videos in Singapore and they are all enjoyable for me.

[@Healthymama79]

You cannot be not good looking and be stingy at the same time.Pick a battle brother.Stop hiding behind empowering your wife to avoid giving her a good time and happiness. Omg 🙄 Evidently the wife looks sad.Run Trudy Run!

[@cherylharewood6125]

May ALMIGHTY GOD 🙏 Bless, Protect, Guide, Enable him and every African leader now and forevermore as they MAGA(Make Africa Great Again) now and to the COMING AGAIN OF JESUS CHRIST. 👍

[@TheXplorer254]

Luo fathers are the best. The other side would ask for millions

[@Oges985]

I think wode Maya mistakes was that asking lady to meet you in Singapore without you paying for her ticket that really got me bad it wasn’t sound right ,even if you showed her how to make money it doesn’t matter you are the man and you said you don’t like wedding every single woman dream is to have a big wedding from child hood but every man dream is how to make money early in life and is not about investing on marriage wedding is a foundation of good marriage mostly,I personally think there is no respect and care from you to that innocent lady ,now I know why most Kenya love to marry Nigerian

[@pitime4764]

Exactly!! I agree. I like what he is doing g in the world but for how he speaks of her and money it sounds disturbing. She does not have a mother around to teach her, so she understands her value and worth as a woman. 🎉🎉🎉 He got away with getting everything for free. When she has children I wonder how he will be. A wedding is a beautiful memory for a woman also. This man wants a woman with her own money. A woman to propose to him. A woman to pay her way. While he gets free sex. Free support. A woman to propose to him. Born his children And still take care of the house, because he is a dirty Ninja. Is that fair??? She is getting more beautiful by the minute. One day a real man will snatch her.😊

[@Da-hellFreesHorseSlaves]

Exactly

[@dawnb12]

Whatever works with them, leave them alone, there are many people that invest in weddings, but lose out on the marriage, people invest in relationships, that is why money marry money, what he is doing is encouraging her to be dependent, which is a wonderful thing, she doesn't have to depend on him, and if anything happens she can stand on her own feet.

[@Da-hellFreesHorseSlaves]

@@pitime4764 he sounds like an arrogant, pissy little boy. If this is how Ghanian men are I don't want.

[@wodemayavlogs785]

🤭

[@wendyclarke106]

@ wode Maya, you are absolutely 💯 correct with that statement. Empowering your partner should not be an issue. If he's down today, I got you babe should be my answer to him. 🇯🇲🇯🇲🇯🇲🇯🇲

[@Themudohs]

Perfect!!!!!

[@LotusDolly]

All love to Wode and Trudy! ❤❤

[@nmg1909]

Wode is a wise specie ever to come from a black gold. His response to questions asked is top notch!

[@SammyJ96]

5:38 Awww... I love this so much.

[@annmarywamaya5025]

He doesnt believe in spending money on his wife???? Potential mother of hia kids????? Thats a sad statement wonder how trudy feels😢

[@veno7864]

That's not what he said, Go listen again. Did you even listen to the end...? SMH

[@annmarywamaya5025]

@@veno7864 yes I did not only in this video many other videos ..

[@mpumelelo526]

Listen very well. 😂😂

[@SammyJ96]

1:02 Trudy I'm loving the hair! Real empress Maya! 😊😊🤗

[@anngore3842]

A man with confidence who supports his other half and doesn't see her as a competition or a threat. Great interview 👍🏾

[@Kiriza22]

What I appreciate most about Wode Maya is that he is Open and he speaks his truth. A mature Lady can live very happily with him, since she knows his next move and she can plan for her life too! There are not bad surprised. That‘s what matters most! Most men just do not tell the open truth, and some actually use secrecy as a weapon. Thank you Wode Maya, much appreciation from Uganda! Uganda 🇺🇬

[@fredericksarkodie5658]

WITH TRUE ❤ AND THE 2 SHALL BE 1 💡 PERIOD.... Y'ALL KEEP MOVING FORWARD BACKWARDS NEVER.

[@sharommwawa4275]

Wode is always on point like a pyramid....african' world Wonder

[@juelz713]

I agree with everything Wode said

[@maggienjeru6342]

Miss Trudy my sister you don't look happy 😢😢be open we gonna look for a solution

[@TRUTHFUL2000]

She's not. I wish she stopped thinking about what people will say.😂😂😂

[@Everblessfamily]

This vibe is really good for me please come back to jamacia everbless family tv support on need to meet you guys this time

[@knowledgechinyama990]

I see a quality of leadership in you Ode Maya ,,,, the future Gana officials

[@user-xh4mj6eu3k]

Maya is the future - I admire his courage and sense of self. Ghana's future President

[@nanserekoagnes6530]

Hello friend, i am new here, watching your video,and thank you for sharing

[@nanaantwi-boasiako780]

Wodehouse s very intelligent, don't waste money on wedding

[@panafricanspirit170]

Truth and Wisdom!!!

[@user-pb6fr4jr1k]

THE PROBLEM WITH WODEMAYA IS THAT HE IS STINGY, WHILE TRUDY IS THAT WOMAN WHO WANTS TO BE TAKEN CAREOF BUT SHE WILL NOT BEG FOR IT.

[@Oges985]

He his selfish,stingy,self centered and talking how to unite Africa ,what have you give back to people that has been watching your video ?? Most blogger here in the states even give lots of homeless money your own case is all about my self my self my self I feel bad for the girl and Maya is lucky to marry African girl you can’t do this shit to Chinese or any American woman she will get half of your property if not all

[@SacklunchShacks]

Wode Maya "taught" his wife BEFORE THEY WERE Married how to earn an $8,000 - $10,000 (per month). That's called EMPOWERMENT. How is that being "stingy" ????? He didn't have to teach her anything. He taught her how to fish instead of giving her a fish. He invested in his woman.

[@user-pb6fr4jr1k]

@@SacklunchShacks Before Wodemaya it's Iam Marwa who gave her you tube tips, but Wode became jealous and destroyed the sister-bro friendship because he wanted all the glory

[@SacklunchShacks]

@@user-pb6fr4jr1k The bottom line is no one forced her to marry him. She has her own channels, can start new ones, and she can leave ANYTIME she wants.

[@estherserwaah4245]

I'm so so proud of you guys ❤❤

[@YvettePhilip]

Greetings from Trinidad and Tobago ❤

[@SammyJ96]

4:44 Wow... I respect Maya twice as much ! Extremely wise. You are indeed, Marcus Garvy reincarnated.

[@focused0002]

I Love This Team 🎉❤💰❤🎉

[@mercychambon4450]

Good couples, i love them❤

[@horatiobarnes8608]

👍🇱🇷🇯🇲🇯🇲 blessings galore.

[@SunkissFlower]

Where is the rest of the interview? I want more.

[@anonymoustube1]

❤i love wode and mrs trudy❤❤❤

[@coolmodeg4650]

I agree to the empowerment bit but contributing or footing the bill when the lady is low on credit isn't a bad one. Some genuinely do not have and if u like 'em then u pay for it. You got a good woman so it's easy to sit and say. Plenty Men dey wey them try empower women but...

[@CarlaRFowler]

He’s so smart!!!♥️♥️♥️🎉🎉🎉