Why Are NEET/JEE Toppers Bullied So Much? A Deep Dive

Why Are NEET/JEE Toppers Bullied So Much? A Deep Dive | Dr Anuj Pachhel

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@DrAnujPachhel 5 ай бұрын

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@aashiftakhan 5 ай бұрын

Waiting for it !

@abhilashjaiswal07 5 ай бұрын

How's life going bhaiya!!

@SrishankDhayapule 5 ай бұрын

Waiting for it bhaiyya

@unapologeticathiest2976 5 ай бұрын

Bhai m ek naya student hun muge ek bahut bada doubt h. Does mbbs students really need books, especially in the first yr? I have seen many foreign youtubers like jack highly and aliabdal, they don't use books, they even advised us not to use books as they are overrated. Rather we should do Google search, youtube and Wikipedia in med school because they are smarter ways. They said books are waste of money. So I am very confused what to do please help me out as a senior please.

@C4AZ3_Kaze 5 ай бұрын

After looking at that star wars vid thumbnail I gotta ask Whats better prequels or sequels Theres only one correct answer

@dr.arup24 5 ай бұрын

They bully toppers because they can't be like them. They are simply jealous. Nowadays people make backbenchers attitude edits and troll toppers. How pathetic this generation is!

@aosper4350 5 ай бұрын

You are in 8th standard don't take so much stress😅@Shashwat-nv4zu

@Root-pd4dt 5 ай бұрын

It doesn't mean that backbenchers are just idiots. Most successful businesses and individuals aren't necessarily at the top of their class. Every successful person has put in hard work at some point in their life. Ultimately, hard work is important, whether it's for an exam or building a business.

@Shinshien-cg5jb 5 ай бұрын

Exactly

@Youkai_arts 5 ай бұрын

Bro I too read those comments . But it never occurred to me they were offending . Just casually joking will do no harm.... ..

@anunayprasanth 5 ай бұрын

True af

@Raha-zr1jj 5 ай бұрын

So true... And people glorify passing in exams without study and bully toppers and don't see that how many sacrifices it takes to become one

@unapologeticathiest2976 5 ай бұрын

@Gargi.860 5 ай бұрын

@@unapologeticathiest2976 tab really helps! you dont need to buy all the books, you can download the pdf and study from tab or ipad since books are very expensive

@Gargi.860 5 ай бұрын

@@unapologeticathiest2976 watch anuj pacchal and dr aditya's 1st year mbbs guide video

@virendersingh1822 5 ай бұрын

@@unapologeticathiest2976without books you can't study mbbs , may be you just pass exam by using some videos, but books are essential to become better physician

@unapologeticathiest2976 5 ай бұрын

@@virendersingh1822 to fer Ali abdal jaise bade bade youtubers q bol rahe h Jo khud productivity ke guru h

@lucifer-im7gk 5 ай бұрын

Let’s be honest people hate anyone who are successful in any aspect if you are not hated then you are doing something wrong, be quiet and silently achieve your dreams

@DrAnujPachhel 5 ай бұрын

👏👏

@sinhaha 5 ай бұрын

Indeed!

@promitaghosh-zx4jh 5 ай бұрын

But one thing I have noticed that no one hates anuj bhaiyya but he isn't doing something wrong I wanna know the psychology in this 😅

@sattubeans 5 ай бұрын

People on social media especially INSTAGRAM hate everyone successful and unsuccessful like even a cat's video will have hate comments

@HariPathare-w3m 5 ай бұрын

You ......made my day ❤

@MitaliThisSide 5 ай бұрын

ahahaha! loved this video, you said mere "dil ki baatein" through this video!! always wanted to talk about this. Also proud "sharma ji ki beti"

@MuskanTailor-z9g 5 ай бұрын

definitely the Sharma ji ki beti every person is inspired from ✨

@sabaparveen2682 5 ай бұрын

Omg Mitali di U are here🎉

@BoneCloud-bx1ei 5 ай бұрын

😂 ok keeping coping

@Billy-gete 5 ай бұрын

I was thinking about u when he said sharma ji ka beta😅

@amnasyed1173 5 ай бұрын

Our two beautiful seniors ❤❤🎉

@DeepakKumar-ud9by 5 ай бұрын

Children dont hate the topper they hate when their parents compare them with topper they feel like efforts arent good enough .

@sundaswaheed8564 5 ай бұрын

And they hate toppers bcz of this is just an excuse to hate them

@onlyvoice9094 5 ай бұрын

Grade-3

@Klumsyyykitshz 5 ай бұрын

Nowadays they do HATE THE TOPPER

@Unite_Gamerz7 5 ай бұрын

So what is the fault of the topper?

@DeepakKumar-ud9by 5 ай бұрын

@@Unite_Gamerz7 parents thinking is the fault not toppers

@ritu82967 5 ай бұрын

It's the recent instagram generation that hate toppers so much. Back then they were actually praised more .

@Vanshika_876 5 ай бұрын

finally someone spoke up about it 😭 instgram only spreads hate and nothing else. ppl who top r hated and ppl who couldn't qualify are also hated. jobless ppl for real

@snehabrahamane8109 5 ай бұрын

exactly

@kumarsanu5724 3 ай бұрын

If there is love there will be hate ....well I don't use insta gram but this is the side of internet which is exist till love is exisiting

@AdityaRaj-xo3hn 5 ай бұрын

I think when people cannot achieve something, they get jealous of those who have achieved it. That's why whole class hates the topper because they can't become one!

@JV-ut4fi 5 ай бұрын

💯 true. It is only jealousy. There are 2 kinds of people, one who gets inspired and wishes to rise up to the level of those above him. The second kind is the one who drags down those above him to their level and berates the person just feel good.

@PRATIKSHA2007-q4e 5 ай бұрын

So true 💯

@StethGodin 5 ай бұрын

True. Only losers get upset when winners talk

@Sushmita-e5o 5 ай бұрын

True

@meghajain7892 5 ай бұрын

I was always topper of my class, and when I got to know that some of my very good friends talk behind my back, I became so insecure and upset.

@anshikagupta3584 5 ай бұрын

Majority has no idea about what sacrifices it takes to become a topper. In India most like to make fun of what they can’t achieve.

@direction433 5 ай бұрын

Being a topper myself in school, i know how my batchmates envied me and attempted to demean me. I lost my mother in class 9th but still that didnt reduce my academic performance. But still after 2 decades, my batchees say that you were privileged as you were topper...

@vaish1314 5 ай бұрын

Don't let the hate get you... You know you did the hard work to get where you are and you deserve it all ...the people who said that you had privilege just projected their own failure onto you ,,,

@direction433 5 ай бұрын

@@vaish1314 agree with your statement..thanks

@chocoeuxlatier 5 ай бұрын

You are an incredibly strong person! Always have been ❤

@txh588 5 ай бұрын

You were privileged due to your hardwork only. Its not called privilege. You earned it. They could also gain that "privilege". Say this to their faces next time. They were losers.

@ifykyk679 5 ай бұрын

@@txh588 Hardwork matters to some extent only. The rest depends upon one's IQ. So yeah, even some toppers can be privileged if they have a higher IQ. It's just the truth.

@amr_._.962 5 ай бұрын

Damn true! Even I was so pissed off seeing my friends talking shits about toppers and uk that viral meme don't believe a topper trend.. It was for fun until it really affects someone's hardwork and dedication. This sounds so irritating. You will find this common comment in every topper's interview. Idk why people are so determined to prove them liers.

@DrAnujPachhel 5 ай бұрын

Well written

@unapologeticathiest2976 5 ай бұрын

@theunbeatable728 5 ай бұрын

@@unapologeticathiest2976 ask these questions to your seniors in college once you will be in college and you will get your answer

@unapologeticathiest2976 5 ай бұрын

@@theunbeatable728 what do you think

@theunbeatable728 5 ай бұрын

@@unapologeticathiest2976 I myself will go this year so don't have much clue although none of my Friends who are in medical Colleges or graduated have studied without Books

@prajwalnarute3084 5 ай бұрын

1:30 that sharma ji ki beti is just amazing yaar! She is the real example of how anyone can be so much multitalented ❤

@sangeetalohumi2468 5 ай бұрын

Sir , i have scored 706 marks this yr , with an AIR of 812(revised) . I was expecting an under 100 AIR like previous yrs , but now i have accepted my rank., I would like to sincerely thank you as your videos provided a major confidence boost to me during my low times.thankyou sir !!

@manaspyasi3659 5 ай бұрын

Yaar tu kya abhi bhi chahega reneet ho? Realistically nahi. Isliye please ye reneet mangne waalon ke khilaaf awaaz uthao.

@shreyadas2574 5 ай бұрын

Omg congratulations! 🎉🎉🎉

@shahalamkhan1910 5 ай бұрын

Bhai kya please batao ge prep kese kri please

@AbhinavJha-v6v 5 ай бұрын

Aru u fresher or dropper?

@shahalamkhan1910 5 ай бұрын

@@AbhinavJha-v6v it's my 1st drop

@unkownMN07 5 ай бұрын

I personally think KZbin comment sections are much better than that of Instagram 😅 people are a bit more judgemental there!dunno why🤷‍♀️

@DrAnujPachhel 5 ай бұрын

Yup.

@NEET_perception10 5 ай бұрын

Yess❤

@Ansh.Katiyar 5 ай бұрын

it is well moderated tbh, it's also audiences but also the platform too

@Shinshien-cg5jb 5 ай бұрын

Wahan Lvish bhai ki audience jyada hoti h to samajh jao💀

@crystal_isha 5 ай бұрын

Yt has a wider age audience while insta is filled with kids and teenagers mostly. Also yt is better at handling comments and reports

@ashleshsahni 5 ай бұрын

"Only good at studying" is actually a big thing. Million years of evolution is not for you to dance or do smth meaningless.

@Jupto 5 ай бұрын

@apurva56 5 ай бұрын

😂😂

@anshunandankar3700 5 ай бұрын

😂

@kartik1559 5 ай бұрын

Ya, But sometimes it feels so sad by seeing the people managing everything.😢😅 I am also the one who is only good at study.😅

@Ayanshjaiswal-wi9ur 5 ай бұрын

@@apurva56 Yes, You anuj bhaiya is talking about people like you, I know that toppers will achieve a lot in life due to their analytical thinking, And keen observation and perceptive intelligence. And you all can waste time here Doing 😂 Everywhere else.

@GraceTolliver5115 5 ай бұрын

Toppers are shamed for crying for that 1 mark but when you have worked so hard, leaving everything behind, you'll cry for that mark.

@shadesofcyanide5346 5 ай бұрын

Finally a light video 😂 Doc made my Sunday! The "I'm an MBBS grad" tho 🙌

@DrAnujPachhel 5 ай бұрын

Yoo!!

@unapologeticathiest2976 5 ай бұрын

@chiragsorte7791 5 ай бұрын

@@DrAnujPachheli will get gmc this year through maharshtra state quota i got 642, is mbbs 1st year tough iam scared

@Rairaiiiiiiiiii 5 ай бұрын

Yeah and that girl who topped in up board, I swear all the comments I read that time in Instagram just broke my heart. Matlab when they couldn't find anything they started to bully her for her looks -_- and when someone tried to confront the bully, they'd reply "this is joke bro! This is meme bro!" How tf is that joke? Saddest thing is she probably is way too traumatized now, I even heard she said to some news channel that she regrets being a topper. It's just open bullying at this point

@poptart8241 5 ай бұрын

personally for me its not like i hate toppers because they re toppers, ive been a topper average failure and everything in between all at once, and i really respect them for working hard throughout harsh conditions but the fact that they get so jealous and harmful, emotionally abusive when they see someone else doing better and/or use their work ethics and goals as an excuse to abandon or hurt you if you are their friends or s/o Thats why toppers are awful to me, they can have support but they are too selfish for their own good

@KaziShahimoonHossain 5 ай бұрын

Was looking for this comment 💯

@forevermore13 4 ай бұрын

I swear, not all toppers are like that (speaking as a topper myself) 😭

@ojasvashishtha4453 3 ай бұрын

Right it happens they just can't tolerate that someone is doing better than them. They would literally cry if they didn't top.

@harshit_962 5 ай бұрын

"Sorry Mitali" was personal 😂😂😂😂

@RohitUmrao-mq9ml 5 ай бұрын

😂😂

@SrishankDhayapule 5 ай бұрын

😂😂

@SouroSekharGhosh-vd9zu 5 ай бұрын

You probably are the kind of person Anuj is talking about in the video.

@sinhaha 5 ай бұрын

Not only social media but how the society in general perceive toppers. Even in my family I've heard people saying "Yaar! Ye saare toppers to rattu tote hote hai, padhai ke ilawa kuch nahi aata inhe." Although I never agreed to this. But your video explained it all. The comparing factor. Not everything you hear from your family is true. It's their way of seeing things, you can have a different pov!

@kartik1559 3 ай бұрын

Sorry for ranting but Dil ki bhadas nikal dii @@sinhaha" padhai ke ilawa kuch nahi aata inhe" Dil pe chubh Gaye baat😅 I faced this a lot in my life , I was topper in the school and also secured a gov medical college this year (670 in neet this year ) but life sirf padhai Tak hi acchi hai meri ,life ke is state par bhi bohot introvert innocent and somtimes lack commen scene , unlike others it easy for me to study than to do something in real world ,kyuki jab bahar nikalta hu toh pata chalta hai mujh me kitna dimag hai ( aap samaj hi Gaye hoge ). Sirf ghar mai. Rahna padhai ke aalawa kuch nahi aana , Zindagi zhund hai kyuki jab main baki logo ko dekhta hu jo sirg padhai nahi par real life Main baki imp things main bhi acche ho aur main ekdum chutiya hu ..

@sinhaha 3 ай бұрын

Hey @@kartik1559 First of congratulations! I can understand what you're talking about. But, since you'll stepping into college this year try to explore a bit. It'll be out of your comfort zone and you'll encounter plethora of experiences. All the best. PS: Tum C nahi ho, you can change things from here

@kartik1559 3 ай бұрын

@@sinhaha Thank you so much for your words💫. Blw what are you doing this days ( you seemed so senior and experienced.)

@Gauz3 5 ай бұрын

660 neet 2024 I was an average student at studies till my 11th Didnt have any hobbies other than watching KZbin😅 average at basketball and terible at other sports but during my neet prep i fell in love with boxing and i was naturally decent at it so it gives me confidence to stand up for myself against my haters

@CrispyISliveyt 5 ай бұрын

I have scored 620 in neet 2023, so I guess we have a similar rank , trust me bro, you'll have more than enough time to play around and mess with your hobbies mbbs, we play football and everything all the time, check videos of us playing on my channel lmao

@dibyanshudivy39 3 ай бұрын

So what do i conclude, you joined boxing as you enjoyed the sport or to trash your haters 😂

@artmocha9901 5 ай бұрын

Good perspective but people hate on toppers/good looking ones/rich just for the sake of it. Jealousy has no boundaries and to express it people select less-backfiring ways like crack jokes/call them lame etc. Plain jealousy doesn’t have logic of any sort.

@hardilsawaiyan9142 5 ай бұрын

i talked with some bullies and their past was full of scolding due to toppers and they said that they appreciated the topper heres what i got: bully1:why bully bcuz i feel like they r tryna bully me. bully2:i dont have envy man see u know i have anger issue i bully everyone but i dont bully people with less mark (who cares about mark, the one who studies but gets less marks) ______much bcuz they r already depressed man. bully3:i do have some envy but i would not bully but compete instead heheha ha(evil laugh). theres more but that should give enough clue

@QqqRrrr-cu2jv 5 ай бұрын

I dont have any problem with toppers but nowadays people are pushing their children into this preparation journey very much before than it should be and their childhood is pretty much destroyed. Two year time for preparation is enough but for being topper they do this and i have a problem with that. Second thing most of the students cracking this exams become overconfident and start seeing the others who cannot with a lower value and also the coaching institutes celebrate the toppers as a success which eventually shows that the other people are unsuccessful so i think that these exams are overhyped in our countrty. This all are my thoughts only. Btw i have scored 690 in neet 2024.

@UchihaItachi-yc4pc 4 ай бұрын

You are absolutely correct

@bratatisarkarroy4819 5 ай бұрын

You provided a very well balanced view on this topic. And it was just what was required Good job Anuj!

@DrAnujPachhel 5 ай бұрын

Thank you so much!

@JV-ut4fi 5 ай бұрын

@aditinandekar9113 5 ай бұрын

Wow this is such a refreshing topic to talk about! Great work anuj keep it up 👍🏻👌🏻

@DrAnujPachhel 5 ай бұрын

Thank you so much 😄😄

@unapologeticathiest2976 5 ай бұрын

@AbhishekSharmaNEET_639 5 ай бұрын

I got 639 in NEET (without any scam) Followed my hobby of playing cricket Made my physique at an avg level And obviously danced so good at felicitation And this was my attempt with class 12 And I am Sharma ji ka beta 😅

@Nikhil-w8u9b 5 ай бұрын

Tum bachpan se hi topper hoenge 😂😂😂

@AbhishekSharmaNEET_639 5 ай бұрын

@@Nikhil-w8u9b ye sach hai 😅

@AnkitaDevi-ky3bl 5 ай бұрын

Bro are you getting college this year? because I'm not getting even after above cutoff marks in my state (of last year)😭😭😭😭

@AbhishekSharmaNEET_639 5 ай бұрын

@@AnkitaDevi-ky3bl no very less chances But hopes alive ✌🏻

@AbhishekSharmaNEET_639 5 ай бұрын

@SarthakHariPandey good one 😌

@shrii-pd6hm 5 ай бұрын

Sunday ❌️ Anujday✅️

@DrAnujPachhel 5 ай бұрын

Hahaahahaha

@shrii-pd6hm 5 ай бұрын

@@DrAnujPachhel thank u bhaiya🤍

@aparna4883 5 ай бұрын

At last, thank you that you talked about this. Everyday the amount of things one has to give up(obviously knowingly) isn't always acknowledged by our own grps. The isolation i used to face because of all this made me question as if what i was doing for that anysake any topper was doing was worth everytime or not. No one stops from making fun of us or indirectly/directly saying, "pdhne ke alawa aur kya aata hai"

@kartik1559 3 ай бұрын

@@aparna4883 Sorry for ranting but Dil ki bhadas nikal dii " padhai ke ilawa kuch nahi aata inhe" Dil pe chubh Gaye baat😅 I faced this a lot in my life , I was topper in the school and also secured a gov medical college this year (670 in neet this year ) but life sirf padhai Tak hi acchi hai meri ,life ke is state par bhi bohot introvert innocent and somtimes lack commen scene , unlike others it easy for me to study than to do something in real world ,kyuki jab bahar nikalta hu toh pata chalta hai mujh me kitna dimag hai ( aap samaj hi Gaye hoge ). Sirf ghar mai. Rahna padhai ke aalawa kuch nahi aana , Zindagi zhund hai kyuki jab main baki logo ko dekhta hu jo sirg padhai nahi par real life Main baki imp things main bhi acche ho aur main ekdum chutiya hu ..

@sana006-ss 5 ай бұрын

They are bullied because jalti hai logo ki SIMPLE

@AdityaRaj-xo3hn 5 ай бұрын

@@sana006-ss 💯. Jalti hai duniya jalne do

@Irenic-girl2024 5 ай бұрын

He is Dhruv Rathee of medicos { [ Not comparing guys ! It's personification] }

@Ansh.Katiyar 5 ай бұрын

he is way better than that biased guy

@tommoway134 5 ай бұрын

@@Ansh.Katiyargobarbhakt come

@dhwanitpatell 5 ай бұрын

Chamchee😂😂😂@@tommoway134

@doom_punpun 5 ай бұрын

@@tommoway134 puri tarah sah biased hain woh reddit khol usko bola tha ki his opinion on congress bhakts and aap bhakts and he said there are only modi bhakts 🤡 what can we expect from a librandu.

@ruthlessgoon 5 ай бұрын

@@tommoway134 tu Maharashtra me mil kabhi.

@potatolifelong 5 ай бұрын

I deeply respect toppers , It is damn hard to study . Giving up your social life , they are really hard on themselves and I believe that's how they achieve results.

@dakshpathak6285 5 ай бұрын

Jealousy is what these people suffers

@pupyunho4600 5 ай бұрын

absolutely adore how u research your video topics and put the info and opinions all together! awesome video! waiting for the study vlogs❤

@DrAnujPachhel 5 ай бұрын

Thank you!!

@JituRaul-ou1bm 5 ай бұрын

Finally someone talking about it .plus majority back benchers don't even become successful real life .trust me i am topper and was back benchers for two year (11,12th)

@Thinking...579 5 ай бұрын

Sometimes i feel not toppers but students who have cleared an exam just create's yt channel and give the most useless advice like 6 months strategy than 3 months than even 15 days which is so wrong they themselves prepared for atleast 1 yera and 16 hours of study but just misguide in thumbnail and so called strategy i hate those people because you might earn money from it but someone is getting distracted because of your fake motivation and hope which leads them into taking drops again and again which is a never ending loop and you just regret in the end and there are many channels about and nobody questions them..... beware people!

@kartik1559 3 ай бұрын

@@Thinking...579 Sorry for ranting but Dil ki bhadas nikal dii @sinhaha " padhai ke ilawa kuch nahi aata inhe" Dil pe chubh Gaye baat😅 I faced this a lot in my life , I was topper in the school and also secured a gov medical college this year (670 in neet this year ) but life sirf padhai Tak hi acchi hai meri ,life ke is state par bhi bohot introvert innocent and somtimes lack commen scene , unlike others it easy for me to study than to do something in real world ,kyuki jab bahar nikalta hu toh pata chalta hai mujh me kitna dimag hai ( aap samaj hi Gaye hoge ). Sirf ghar mai. Rahna padhai ke aalawa kuch nahi aana , Zindagi zhund hai kyuki jab main baki logo ko dekhta hu jo sirg padhai nahi par real life Main baki imp things main bhi acche ho aur main ekdum chutiya hu ..

@niharika1704 5 ай бұрын

THIS VIDEO IS SO GOOD! amazing topic to talk about. loved it !!!

@unapologeticathiest2976 5 ай бұрын

@NeetNEET-d5m 25 күн бұрын

People critisised me alot since childhood ,they gave me trauma(including some members of my family ,friends)..as i was involved in my studies and was a topper ..they made me to hate my school life and topper tag (I have hobbies too like singing ,painting but they never looked my this side and just bullied me for being a topper )..now i am at a stage of being alone with 0 frnds... I don't know I should or not but I literally hate my childhood(I am a dusky skin tonned girl so they also juged me for my colour) 💔😢

@alpanaverma3398 5 ай бұрын

Mitali didi😂😂❤❣Always inspired by you, and love your content and dedication a lot🥺❤

@unapologeticathiest2976 5 ай бұрын

@alpanaverma3398 5 ай бұрын

@@unapologeticathiest2976 Anuj Bhaiya has a video on this, please search by adding his name, you'll find it, it's particularly about 1st year of mbbs

@HARSH_WHOO 5 ай бұрын

Before watching I want to share my thought - berozgar logon ko successful log acche nahi lgte kyonki unhe jalan hoti hai and value pata nhi hoti... As it is same with iitians we get hate too

@vanshikachoudhary1111 5 ай бұрын

It's a harsh truth , people can't see other's achievements , they will pull u down always maybe in front of u they will talk to u nicely but it's just to show The people who troll u online ,they don't have the nerve to say a thing in front of u Hating a topper will not help u try to see the good side Jealousy won't gonna help u ever

@saurabhkakade. 5 ай бұрын

Wish me all the best bhaiyya for upcoming 1st Yr university exams.

@unapologeticathiest2976 5 ай бұрын

@saurabhkakade. 5 ай бұрын

@@unapologeticathiest2976 books are very helpful if you don't want to purchase you can download and read from pdf.

@ArchanaKumari-kn1jn 4 ай бұрын

That's actually truee.. me being a topper can totally relate to this.. throughout my school i had to try very hard to communicate with other students of different sections or classes .. idk why but they always treated me different not ready to accept me as a normal person.. Although i am friendly person but this social media image of topper has changed mentality of people.. they treats us diferent , they always think if anyone is topper then for no doubt he/she will be rude or so called 'teacher ke chamche' or very 'bhole bhale bechare' .. me as a person do too have problems in studies when i try to communicate with my friends about that they always say that you are a topper Don't be lier, you know everything.. And that's why i hate to being call a topper .. In other fields like sports, dance or singing being excellent is actually cool but when it comes to academic idk why people just seperate us , treat us differently, in this case that is not cool.. Toppers are also a human being at the end..

@SreetamBhue 4 ай бұрын

Same😢

@lakshyatimsina374 5 ай бұрын

10 am attendence

@asmaakram4552 5 ай бұрын

We don't hate them for their success we hate how our parents compare us to them and shame us, i have been an average student all my life but i have many talents as a creative person but nothing ever mattered. My mother literally abuse my brother because a relatives kid who studied with him is a topper. And my brother is not even a bad student is in 80% category.

@timeeesbot 5 ай бұрын

now this is something where we say "ate and left no crumbs"

@ayushi4719 5 ай бұрын

Its simple , they are just jealous 😂😂

@DrAnujPachhel 5 ай бұрын

Its a bit more than that

@AkashTheChillGuy 5 ай бұрын

Jealous without knowing they're jealous

@unapologeticathiest2976 5 ай бұрын

@n6v-f3l 5 ай бұрын

Actually 😊@@AkashTheChillGuy

@AkashTheChillGuy 5 ай бұрын

@@unapologeticathiest2976 go to college first then decide, nobody purchase books beforehand

@shrutiashtul9905 5 ай бұрын

Sorry mitali 😂😂 was fun

@SrijaChatterjee7679 5 ай бұрын

Waiting for this.... 10:00am club🙌😍

@unapologeticathiest2976 5 ай бұрын

@manaspyasi3659 5 ай бұрын

That's why all backbencher are dedicated to cancel the neet exam so that the efforts of genuine toppers go waste. Unhe pata hai unka kuch nahi hone wala. Bas jealousy mein hame bhi pareshan Kar rahe hai

@manaspyasi3659 5 ай бұрын

Only a small fraction of them is genuine, while 98% of them are sadist idiots, good for nothing.

@hiitzme228 4 ай бұрын

Why in indian schools toppers are treated differently from average students,the first step of creating hatred starts from schools only, shouldn't they motivate others to do better insead of comparing anyways...

@vi23tream74 5 ай бұрын

I think that people hate toppers because in school an average kid or backbencher was constantly compared with toppers by teachers or mother and father.

@palashsakharkar4725 5 ай бұрын

Toppers are not lame but the people who say this they really are.

@harshilgoyal2928 5 ай бұрын

PEOPLE ARE JUST JEALOUS Khud ka kuch nahi hota 24 ghante BGMI khelte hai fir toppers ko so called roast karte hai. We need to understand that they didn't spoiled their childhood they have passion in studies. Why one cannot have different interest and passion than you have. Why we think only dancing in rain, playing cricket in afternoon, hanging out with friends as golden childhood. One can be very interested in studies and can have gold child hood with books. In fact these people get better parenting and have better childhood as their parents are also happy. Appreciate their hard work

@organicartwork609 5 ай бұрын

Now some people will say bhaiya is a topper so he's defending, without understanding the whole picture

@aditibhakare4067 5 ай бұрын

Great research Dr. Anuj✨️❤

@mednmaddy 5 ай бұрын

As a topper during my school time I did not have a lot of friends because I would be compared with someone for my marks or my batchmates get jealous on me! I know how hurting it is sometimes and at a point ended up good scoring in boards but not as upto my parents or teachers expectation. I was put down to a point where I'm capable of nothing. More than being topper, we have to be mentally stable and we should never influence others to spoil our preparation!

@sarathilokhande3979 5 ай бұрын

Great video sir Thats true competing with yourself helps😊

@shreelakshmi11 5 ай бұрын

Your insight and perspectives on things is really fascinating! One of the best videos on your channel 🙌

@pranjalkumari8401 5 ай бұрын

Honestly, Thought this video would make me realise that I am jealous of toppers, Instead it was healing.😊

@HermioneGranger-f2x 2 ай бұрын

someone finally said it!

@isharana20 5 ай бұрын

How well you've explained the comparison part. It's not only because of social media but had always been there always

@saumyarapelli8294 3 ай бұрын

Thi video actually addresses the insecurity of every student, and provides a healthy perspective that is growth oriented. I wish that this is what our parents and teachers told us instead of comparing us with our cousins, siblings and classmates 😊

@ushakosarkar9177 5 ай бұрын

Thank you for such refreshing topics... Love your videos😊

@Itz_My_Art_ 5 ай бұрын

1:19 1 Sorry this is not true I'm a topper and not shy ..i don't wear glasses... I'm not a nerd ... I draw ..dance and have other hobbies too ... I'm not always studying.... And besides that I watch anime kdrama and series too

@187iit 4 ай бұрын

Good to know But what do u study??

@tanmayvarshney9200 4 ай бұрын

Just make fun of it what u can't get , Indian mindset. Hate to Ambani adani is best example

@calivervase7302 5 ай бұрын

I don't specifically hate toppers whatever, they are just humans like us but they study more to score for exam while most people are just irresponsible and doesn't study until last day. The main reason I kinda hate toppers is because , not all of them , but I have dealt with people who act like they know everything cz they study and score well, like they show some type of ego idk why, and are usually just super focused on their goals, so much so they neglect others emotional wellbeing , like straight up being manipulative in order to get what they want from others or say harsh things. I seen this stuff so please don't rage, I also know some toppers in my own class despite being super good at studies share their knowledge and be friendly towards other and even help others with their free time etc.

@shreyamsingh2605 5 ай бұрын

Really Lucky to watch the video under 5mins of being posted. Btw loving your content from last 5years ❤❤❤ Thanks Anuj Bhaiya 🎉😊

@Heisenberg0804 5 ай бұрын

The way you started the video.....loved it❤

@Sameera_1404 5 ай бұрын

Best video so far on KZbin❤ Very inspiring and motivational as well😊 Highly recommended video✨👍

@dibyanshudivy39 3 ай бұрын

First of all, a topper is someone who is excellent in his/her field Fact is that those who are not willing to work hard, show their hatred in the form of trolling, YOU WILL NEVER SEE A SUCCESSFUL MAN TROLLING OTHERS, prime example is ratan tata and narayan murti, competitors but show high level of respect to each other, as they know the man in front came up after a lot of hardwork and struggle

@NRupesh-hn4fr 5 ай бұрын

Bro took a drop and focused on neet and I left each and everything but the final results was hopeless (my mistake was I took a lot of pressure in my examination hall)

@pushpendrapandey533 5 ай бұрын

Pls do a video on how medical fraternity should behave with each other respectfully. Why resident docs do not call interns respectfully with name but say "interns do this or that"? Why many seniors do not follow simple etiquette to ask if fellow interns had food? Why many seniors try to use them like peon and do not return the expenses? .......this should change. First doctors should respect for doctors.

@swastikassiingh8128 5 ай бұрын

1. Toppers have other hobbies 2. Toppers have will power to pause the hobies during preparation phase 3. Toppers are hyperfocused 4. We must not compare ourselves with others 5. Toppers are bullies because our brain makes excuses like toppers have no skill but we have alot skills to protect us 6. Toppers always analyse their mistakes 7. It shouldn't matter whether toppers are lame or not 8. We make our own future 9. We must focus on what we are good at and keep improving 10. God's plan > our plan 11. Toppers are not always successful and it is okay

@sowmyasunder 4 ай бұрын

This video felt like a warm hug 🫂 Thank you 😊

@ColourfulPens 5 ай бұрын

In class 11, I was the nerd topper of the PCM class. The second topper of our class would talk behind my back and say, "She doesn't know how to enjoy life, so boring".... 😢

@hardilsawaiyan9142 5 ай бұрын

why do u care about that, life is interesting if u use the knowledge u got for making life better, if u r gud at pcm you can try beating newton or solving tough question or invent something that helps whatever... um u r topper so why not do it and people will also appreciate u later for ur work

@Sumit_Girhe 5 ай бұрын

If you getting upset by that then she was right

@ColourfulPens 5 ай бұрын

Well I got upset then, but now I m thriving in life (^-^)

@_user_993 5 ай бұрын

its an amazing thing this man covered Its the CRAB MENTALITY that people have if we can’t climb then non can …if u cant score the one who did is lame ..if u got something new haram ka paisa …if u got a hot grl she is a pros*** 😂 yeh it goes on …point is that we can’t get validation from everyone n also its not necessary lets cherish our own success wid our loved ones ..n just enjoy the jealousy thats how u know ur more than them 😁

@nisha-c100 5 ай бұрын

Your topic of discussion is absolutely refreshing ..Thank you Anuj bhaiya ..Much love from Nepal 💐

@syd0168 5 ай бұрын

Really obsessed with ur vlogs sir ❤ love from Karnataka ♥️♥️♥️ please reply sir😢

@praveennsajjan 5 ай бұрын

Because many teachers don't try to give extra attention to the poor students so that they too can do well and even indian parents too has got lot of problem with their children scoring less marks and comparing them with toppers , so finally it's the upbringing by the teachers and parents putting in their mind that there is nothing except marks

@Slasla1610 4 ай бұрын

Let me tell you something very important. If a adult get jealous it is difficult, but a child get jealous, it is their parent's fault. Let me explain, from age 0 to 6 all the emotions you get are your parents' emotions. The lazy, the sadness, mental disease like adhd, which many thought it is genetic but only 50% genetic and rest is environmental, bi polar, everything is child hood trauma. If they are sad, your child will absorb the sadness like it is theirs. If you are angry they will think we did something wrong. So jealous is simply the adult emotion, you pass on to your children. The child won't get jealous if the parents don't compare or show their jealous emotions to their child. It will pass on generation. Your childhood character grow into adult. What ever you think your way of behaving is all that build in 0 to 6 year old. I have an example, i used to get anxious in early morning because my mom used to shout at me at 6 am if I didn't wake up. But still, even though she is not there, will have the same anxious waking up, cause what she did to me in childhood. No one will get jealous, they don't know how to get it, as their parents ask their children top mark like a landlord ask for rent. I don't support bullying as i was bullied in school, also I dont hate toppers as i did hard work and got one amount in school toppers. No one is born evil, it is environment that make one evil.

@Criush_19 5 ай бұрын

Yaaaaa watched Firstly bhaiya🥰

@DrAnujPachhel 5 ай бұрын

Yayy!!

@monishhk870 5 ай бұрын

Most needed video 🥲

@alphaseegma123fr 5 ай бұрын

this is why i deleted Instagram,such toxic comments from no-lifers who hate on EVERYTHING they see,if it isn't hate it is not-required sexualization. It doesn't matter if the OP is underage,a CHILD,an elderly woman or a woman who achieved something great,they will all get the same amount of hate.

@DrAnujPachhel 5 ай бұрын

It shouldn’t matter

@shadowyt376 5 ай бұрын

People get unneeded confidence when writing anything on social media. If they use that confidence in the jee exam hall maybe they can be the one who gets under air 1000 rank

@nehamallikarjun2007 5 ай бұрын

love love love this video good content

@Swift_valo 5 ай бұрын

lmao same thing I thought before opening the video and it turned out to be the answer! great Video Anuj brother

@DrAnujPachhel 5 ай бұрын

Glad you liked it

@Swift_valo 5 ай бұрын

@@DrAnujPachhel wow thanks for replying on my comment its like a dream come true :)))

5 ай бұрын

Hope we all become toppers but not get Bullied

@kartik1559 5 ай бұрын

Bhaiya, But It feels so bad of not being good in other things rather than studies.I was topper in the school and also scored 675 in Neet this year . But I feel so sad and demotivated when i see the people who are good in both studies and other activities. Loved the video,Dr bhaiya.😅❤

@jishuranjandey4385 5 ай бұрын

We love seeing diplomatic Anuj sir💗

@arihanta3688 5 ай бұрын

Why practice with past years' question papers when current once are available

@yellowlemon-lo8uf 5 ай бұрын

Maybe I come from a different society. My friend circle literally worship toppers as if they are supreme begins. Irrespective of being topper or not, in India everyone jokes about everyone. Being a topper or not, if you are on internet, people with ample free time will always say something. Bas ab topper ko free ka victim card mat do. Pehele hi bhot victim cards hai market mein.

@aspirant9845 5 ай бұрын

Jokes on backbenchers are like sigma, cool, etc while on toppers it's demeaning. So both are not same my frnd

@SonuKumar-sd9ty 5 ай бұрын

This knowledge was really helpful to me!!keep posting😊😊 #WESHALLPREVAIL

@riyasakariya5708 5 ай бұрын

This always happened in my school..A person who has got 78% in studying one day before exam is always glorified than student who studied consistently n scored above 90%..people just don't care amount of hardwork or they r jealous of your performance

@nishadtak8983 5 ай бұрын

Yes its true...just don't pay attention..they r not even worth it😂

@saniamirza953 5 ай бұрын

It's very helpful to us . Thanks @Anujpachhel 😊 ❤

@deepikha.b6287 5 ай бұрын

"Grade 3 - blaming NEET toppers" is the typical and standard comment of TN govt

@Vinay-Kumar04 5 ай бұрын

Idk if this is weird but I like comparing myself to others. Like most of my friends (parents) are rich and joined MBBS abroad or in management quota in India while I took drop and prepared for NEET. I know I can't live a life like them, but at the same time it motivates me to work hard so that my kids can live the life I always dreamt of living but couldn't cuz of financial problems.

@NEET_perception10 5 ай бұрын

You videos as always are awesome ❤🎉❣️💫

@NEET...-wc4sp 5 ай бұрын

Toppers actually want to do many things.... But we have to sacrifice them to get the top ranks... Means krna toh bahut kuch chahate hai... but kr nhi pate.... :(