Why Are So Many People Unhappy?

[@VALUETAINMENT]

Biggest takeaway from today’s video?

[@hamdtauseef1181]

Patrick I totally see your perspective, where your coming from but I have a question, I also want that legacy but for that, the goal is productivity, if I don't have enough sleep, will I be as efficient as I could have been with my creativity, work done (instead of hours given to work)?

[@VALUETAINMENT]

Tell that to the most creative human being alive today. Elon Musk.

[@hamdtauseef1181]

@@VALUETAINMENT Okay I get it. I guess the people like us who want to reach to the top have to find ways to get better sleep in less time. Though Elon is driven by his massive vision, I would really like to know he manages his productivity. I want to know about how you manage your time with sleep and how do you maintain your productivity? BTW I'm a fan of your content for about a year now.

[@gabbythecat4367]

@@VALUETAINMENT Elon Musk is on team satan. Don't let them beguile you. Your too smart for that.

[@VALUETAINMENT]

@@hamdtauseef1181 To each his own. Meaning, no one know your vision more than you. NO ONE. Some have a big vision that is stemmed from within that can't be explained. The world doesn't understand them. Some are extremely talented who don't have the kind of fire someone else may have. It's tough to give one answer that applies to everyone. You choose your vision and the effort required to make that vision a reality.

[@mayacote4368]

Kobe Bryan once said *the one mistake we make in life is believing we have time*

[@danicathompson5882]

I am 51 years old without a retirement plan yet, any suggestions on accumulating a million dollar portfolio within 12-18 months? I have currently saved a capital of $1000k

[@piperwilson8917]

In time like this the best thing any American can do for him or herself is to have another source of income apart from his or her salary, invest wisely people!

[@taylorgirard5860]

@@mariajorge4011 I totally agree with you,Forex trading is the most profitable venture I ever invested in,I reached my goal of $500k yearly trade earnings, setting realistic goals is an essential part of trading

[@hafsatsuleiman8174]

Talking about being successful! I know am blessed because if not I wouldn't have met someone who is as spectacular as expert Mrs Audrey

[@agbobernard6613]

Hello I'm new to forex and I have been making huge loses but recently I see a lot of people earning from it,please can someone please tell me what is going wrong

[@christians131]

I always heard, “comparison is the thief of all joy.”

[@MH3GL]

A sidecar you can add along with that is: "expectations are the blue print of disappointment."

[@christinalw19]

I agree. Only compete with oneself. 👍🏼

[@GrowYourWealth101]

Most people are unhappy because they dont live their lives. They live what is expected from then and not what they really would love to do.

[@lewis1180]

Yes sir.

[@EEEBA1]

I agree with you. In my case I have never found any jobs that I'm interested in, in over 28 years. Even though everything I always did I was successful at and a top performer however I never cared about any of them. I think that's my biggest issue. It's an endless circle. I have zero passion for anything out there I guess I'm broken.

[@GrowYourWealth101]

@@EEEBA1 maybe you dont Like Work at all?

[@EEEBA1]

@@GrowYourWealth101 I don't mind working hard or 15 hour days as I did for many years. I just wish I could find something I'm at least interested in so it's not a chore.

[@oceanside88]

Yes. The soul dies.

[@Dan-is2je]

Pat, I wish there were more decent people like you that are media figures. Hope you NEVER get cancelled.

[@prasadramasamy904]

I wouldn't really care if society cancels him. I'll just follow his advice 😸

[@ingenierosdeexito2862]

Biggest takeaway: always evaluate the person giving you advice, it's dangerous to take the wrong advice

[@christinalw19]

Discernment in everything, no matter what.

[@phoenixmichel9610]

100 percent!

[@robc8468]

All people have a different life, the best advice is do more of what works for you and a lot less of what does not work.

[@hanifjones4914]

Thank you sir

[@hanifjones4914]

Are you a carpenter? Cause you sure squared that nail up

[@jackgarrett7349]

Normal, healthy people are unhappy because they have lost the "attitude of gratitude". That's all. When you are not happy with what you have and keep focusing on what you don't, you will ALWAYS be unhappy. The "attitude of gratitude" is the foundation of a happy life. Most people have absolutely NO reason to not be happy or at least content.

[@SingleTrak6]

💯

[@paulwilliams2024]

PREACH

[@kevincurran1783]

100% correct.

[@HaneefaTheHaneefa]

Thissssss!!!!

[@True38]

Being grateful is definitely important for one's own happiness, but what's even more important is to keep moving forward, make the best out of the opportunities you have in front of you. I always say, less is more, but I'd rather have more than less. You don't need a lot of money to be happy, but more money equals more freedom, and the more freedom you have, the happier you'll be in life.

[@MilesLeslie]

“You’re working too hard” don’t let nobody tell you that you’re working too hard because only you know your own limits!

[@Solizeus]

Loneliness is the main source of sadness these days

[@brooklynn52dee38]

I have a very obese women for a neighbor. Not feminine at all and seem to believe based on our interactions she is one miserable piece of work. I doubt it has anything to do with sleep!

[@Solizeus]

@Mister Kazama If we don't keep our head busy we will feel even more alone, if you want to be alone it isn't sad, but if you don't have anyone to bond with and hug you that is just not the same, some people can't find it, and for some, a warm bath is the closest thing they had from a human body touching them in years, i guess that is why people have pets.

[@benton-benton]

@@Solizeus You're right. One good cat, or better yet, a few good cats are better than 100 humans as company. Animals love unconditionally.

[@MyAkachi]

@@brooklynn52dee38 Out of curiosity, what does your neighbor being "not feminine" have to do with anything?

[@criptik5208]

@@MyAkachi very much think deeply not with gender study logic

[@nantumbwelinda5446]

How Mr. Patrick lights up when he talks about his kids... Priceless

[@SideHustleLane]

this name looks familiar... ☺️

[@MisterPol]

Most people are unhappy because they live trying to please others

[@MisterPol]

Thanks for your inspiration PBD

[@karenrussell276]

Really? I think people are unhappy because they are in love with money and never have enough. They are too stupid to realize they are being played.

[@audizul]

@@karenrussell276 ppl always like to compare themselves with others, and today's technology allows them to easily do that. Which mostly will result in them feeling bad.

[@utube7917]

I see it the opposite way. Human nature is selfish. People are typically victims of themselves, but blame others.

[@JamesThomas-pj2lx]

..... most people are unhappy becasue they do not know themselves, and hence live through others expectations.

[@ofentsemaluleka5836]

Pat we love you, This nearly made me cry because we all dont start off on the same line so there is no way our schdules can be the same.

[@00J-Tone]

I love that the answer isn't to do less but to do more. PBD this is why you can speak to everyone of all classes. Your message is straightforward and honest.

[@Juantobiasarango]

2nd time quoting NF. “Only thing I'm cool with losing is losing sleep And it's only cool with me If it means I get to watch my dreams Come true.”

[@phoenixmichel9610]

Why not just put the name of the person you're quoting? 🙄

[@Juantobiasarango]

@@phoenixmichel9610 Rapper NF or Nathan John Feuerstein. Deep lyrics in his music. More than a rapper, and artist.

[@phoenixmichel9610]

@@Juantobiasarango now that wasn't so hard...thanks

[@mattirwin6089]

@@phoenixmichel9610 he literally did douche. His rap name is NF lol

[@jessevilla8571]

Every time I feel like I can’t keep going or I just don’t want to. I listen to you & have been listening for you for the past 8 months… the turn around in my life has been crazy & I can’t believe that I’ve gone as far as I have in such a short time… thank you for motivating a 21 year old to go harder & further than anyone ever thought he could

[@rpshark7672]

Reinvent yourself everyday but most important have a goal/mission/direction where you want to get to in the future.

[@kelvinnguyen6048]

You are my mentor. Thank you for showing me the light on the other side. You are my mentor. Now and forever brother.

[@kriptoteknik986]

𝘛𝘩𝘢𝘯𝘬𝘴 𝘧𝘰𝘳 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘤𝘰𝘮𝘮𝘦𝘯𝘵, 𝘞𝘳𝘪𝘵𝘦 𝘮𝘺 𝘣𝘳𝘰𝘬𝘦𝘳 𝘈𝘳𝘵𝘩𝘶𝘳 𝘙𝘢𝘧𝘢𝘦𝘭 𝘈𝘺𝘣𝘢𝘳 𝘰𝘯 𝘞𝘩𝘢𝘵𝘴𝘈𝘱𝘱 𝘵𝘰 𝘦𝘢𝘳𝘯 𝘩𝘶𝘨𝘦 𝘪𝘯 𝘣𝘪𝘵𝘤𝘰𝘪𝘯 𝘵𝘳𝘢𝘥𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘧𝘰𝘳,𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘴𝘵𝘳𝘢𝘵𝘦𝘨𝘪𝘦𝘴 𝘢𝘳𝘦 𝘵𝘰𝘱 𝘯𝘰𝘵𝘤𝘩,𝘩𝘦'𝘴 𝘳𝘦𝘢𝘭𝘭𝘺 𝘮𝘢𝘬𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘮𝘦 𝘩𝘶𝘨𝘦 𝘨𝘢𝘪𝘯𝘴 𝘸𝘪𝘵𝘩 𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘴𝘵𝘳𝘢𝘵𝘦𝘨𝘪𝘦𝘴 𝘪𝘯 𝘵𝘳𝘢𝘥𝘪𝘯𝘨.

[@kriptoteknik986]

+ 𝟣 𝟩𝟣𝟨 𝟫𝟣𝟫 𝟩𝟩𝟣𝟦

[@EliteAutomation]

I love having those conversations with my kids. "Daddy, aren't you the boss? So you can't get fired right? Just don't work today." Then I get the luxury of explaining to them my role within the company and that "the company needs me and we need to make the money to we can get Hawaii and see the mermaids." My daughter started the mermaid thing and now she helps tell her the story of why daddy needs to get to work. Heck, some times when I'm not working they tell me I need to get to work so we can go on vacation.

[@cechichan]

I will never want to have kids but I think that..i would be tell them..."guys, I really really love you and to this to help and support your dreams, but the first reason I do it its becouse I love what I do"

[@safaaltinisik1652]

😂 thats sweet, God bless

[@simonfurman8007]

Haha that's awesome

[@LosPhoenix]

Guilt is a very valid point.

[@reeb9016]

I'm happy. Got God in my life.

[@Firm-Tofu-King]

Sounds hollow and meaningless

[@erodriguez4973]

Amen!

[@JamilLynch]

@@Firm-Tofu-King Projection much? LOL

[@petersimpson8563]

Well put together good philosophy !

[@dustinbanneddotvideo2082]

Banned.video has alot of info on everything going on

[@thebitcoinalchemist3877]

Hi Patrick. I just wanted to say how I think you are one of the most authentic guys on social media. You are so very blessed, and you seem to have your head on straight. God bless you man. You deserve it. TY Patrick.

[@dustywilson5461]

PBD -- i know this might sound weird, but you remind me of my father who died a few years ago, in terms of your demeanor and your style. He was much less disciplined than you, but still... When a man loses his father, he turns to other older gentlemen to look up to; you are one of the role models i've adopted as that figure. Keep being you! You've changed lives ! DW

[@troymsmith35]

Biggest take away for me is that people often time try to put you in a box based off of their own experiences and that is often the wrong perspective. Great analog with the therapist. Great connection.

[@Testeverything123]

Other takeaway is slow down and pay attention to what is important. When you sleep better you feel better and make better decisions.

[@rdas072]

I've been facing exactly these two problems for last 3-4 years. This video is exactly what I needed.

[@TheMusicVII]

This is one of those videos I never knew I needed. Thank you Patrick Bet-David!

[@last1out]

This is one of the best "real talks" i have ever heard on youtube.

[@Pedipossible]

Sleep : depth, not length Guilt : effects individuals with lack of self stem Jealousy: Bad comparison - Bringing others down Envy: Good comparison - lift myself up

[@jeewssam8418]

Pat is some of the best story tellers ive ever seen!! The delivary is immaculate. No wonder hes smashing sales

[@lisakvieira9201]

As long as I have God in my life I feel content!! Amen, everyone have a blessed day!!😊🙏✌

[@kelvinryme8618]

Yes indeed!!

[@Tyler_WI]

Amen!! 🙏

[@lisakvieira9201]

@@Tyler_WI Hi Tyler, God bless you and Amen to you brother, llol!! Take care now!!✌

[@thecoder7188]

I never comment on videos, but when i watch this kind of videos which patrick makes, I feel like i'm growing up as a human being and i'm getting lifelong lessons, i have to say it has improved my life drastically. So thanks Patrick.

[@briansteen8853]

As a new dad up since 3am cuz baby was screaming, I love this story.

[@copperinstaller9215]

When you work for yourself you understand what your getting into . Our passion is more important to us than any one else .

[@actuallybusiness1622]

*Successful people aren't afraid to fail, loosers are!*

[@DePalma.]

Gratitude foe what you have & the good stuff to come is what makes me happy. No gratitude, not much happiness.

[@CaseyBurnsInvesting]

Protect your energy and get enough sleep. Business culture is toxic with regards to those two essentials.

[@20kevron]

What do you think is enough hours sleep?

[@rottenproten142]

@@20kevron I think It's really important to mention quality of sleep, that's really important

[@shingiroaimable5905]

Sleeping makes you poor even oldest wisdom knew that

[@Sigmanovar]

@@20kevron depends onthe person,and depends on how u feel,if u still feel tired than u need to sleep more

[@bommaritohawaii]

Right. To me it’s not the amount of hours you’re awake it’s about the results your produce while you are awake. If you need nine hours of sleep, then fine go get nine hours of sleep. The sleeping time doesn’t matter for all intents and purposes. Always comes down the results.

[@OperatorTrickshot]

I pray all of your pain gets better, I pray you all find strength to keep going. Know there are people who care. People who feel just alone as you do. Keep going. I love you all.

[@teresamorales6850]

*Successful people don't become that way overnight. most people see at a glance-wealth, a great career, purpose-is the result of hard work and hustle over time. I pray that anyone who reads this will be successful in life..*

[@garaitzadele8905]

It's not ignorance, people are scared of investing due to high rate of scammers in the market......

[@claudettedelmy3927]

But of a truth they are scammers but real brokers are out there too waiting for investors.

[@claudettedelmy3927]

So don't be scared of giving any one a try.

[@ginnyhaylie6902]

Expert Mrs Svetlana has changed my financial status for the best. All thanks to my aunty who introduced her to me.

[@theronmalhotra2707]

She is obviously the best, I invested $3,000 and i made profit of $28,000 just in 7 days.

[@calebnelson6983]

Hi Pat, my name is Caleb, I started a construction company at 18, I am about to turn 19. I don’t usually comment on many videos at all, but I love your videos and watch them as opposed to music and other forms of entertainment. This video really spoke to me as the point of guilt really does hit me hard. I try to have a good heart in many business deals and sacrifices, but it does hurt my business or other people. I am in a serious relationship and I sacrifice time with her, I come home from work then work again marketing, paperwork, etc. Friends try to hang out, I say no. But it really does hit the heart. I hear from both sides, “friends and family are more important than money and success”, how do I come about creating success ethically, (still in the beginning of this business, meaning more than maybe 80 hours a week), and find a way to make the right sacrifices? I am still working on a perfect question to ask you on Minnect before I make an investment to schedule a call one day. Thank you for all the information you help us with virtually for free.

[@nutriwellth]

Personally I believe we're unhappy because we fail to understand what enjoy the process means. We quit not because what we're trying to do it hard. But because we failed to make it enjoyable. We quit because we want to be allowed to be happy again. It's out of self preservation. Three things that helped me are: pick something you like doing,design a way to make the everyday enjoyable, and enjoy your life outside of what you like to do. Those three things are what encompass "enjoy the process" when one suffers they all suffer including you. I made a video on this yesterday if you'd like another perspective. Be kind to yourself ❤️!

[@gregvesey4577]

Strong spiritual base gives you deep spiritual happiness, Nothing can effect you then ...Many people just are in a material world ....this often means they can only be happy when they are materially sufficient ....

[@Vbsjksjxjj]

chasing money makes me unhappy and realize that life is short

[@Ivontayfitzgerald]

That's another way to look at it I guess 😩

[@8all8at8once8]

Point made

[@Easyfinesse]

Life is actually long

[@TL-rh1lf]

@@Easyfinesse sometimes.. sometimes not

[@Dtella55]

Truth...💯💯👍

[@dr.kathrinebejanyan3197]

What a “healthy relationship” looks to a regular person will be toxic to an entrepreneur. As a relationship therapist working with entrepreneurs, I absolutely agree with Pat, regular relationship advice won’t work for high achievers. It’ll either leave them feeling guilty they can’t be there enough for their relationship or agitated that they are not working on their business. For an entrepreneur, their relationship has to serve and support their greater vision, otherwise they’ll always be caught between the two, pulled in two different directions, never quite feeling enough for either.

[@TylerSinden]

There are sacrifices with our choices, you have to be willing to sacrifice certain aspects of your life.

[@stephaniemiersch]

You speak the truth, Patrick. And I have to say, this is especially true for women. The Mom guilt can sometimes be overwhelming. It's gets us deep into our hearts.

[@kriptoteknik986]

𝘛𝘩𝘢𝘯𝘬𝘴 𝘧𝘰𝘳 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘤𝘰𝘮𝘮𝘦𝘯𝘵, 𝘞𝘳𝘪𝘵𝘦 𝘮𝘺 𝘣𝘳𝘰𝘬𝘦𝘳 𝘈𝘳𝘵𝘩𝘶𝘳 𝘙𝘢𝘧𝘢𝘦𝘭 𝘈𝘺𝘣𝘢𝘳 𝘰𝘯 𝘞𝘩𝘢𝘵𝘴𝘈𝘱𝘱 𝘵𝘰 𝘦𝘢𝘳𝘯 𝘩𝘶𝘨𝘦 𝘪𝘯 𝘣𝘪𝘵𝘤𝘰𝘪𝘯 𝘵𝘳𝘢𝘥𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘧𝘰𝘳,𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘴𝘵𝘳𝘢𝘵𝘦𝘨𝘪𝘦𝘴 𝘢𝘳𝘦 𝘵𝘰𝘱 𝘯𝘰𝘵𝘤𝘩,𝘩𝘦'𝘴 𝘳𝘦𝘢𝘭𝘭𝘺 𝘮𝘢𝘬𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘮𝘦 𝘩𝘶𝘨𝘦 𝘨𝘢𝘪𝘯𝘴 𝘸𝘪𝘵𝘩 𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘴𝘵𝘳𝘢𝘵𝘦𝘨𝘪𝘦𝘴 𝘪𝘯 𝘵𝘳𝘢𝘥𝘪𝘯𝘨

[@GrowYourWealth101]

Most people dont realize that not money or being a workaholic makes you happy... It is doing what you really love. The money comes automaticly. Most people just chase the money and not their passion!

[@zenbrucelee2653]

hmm i have a shadowban ;(

[@GrowYourWealth101]

@@zenbrucelee2653 What do you mean?

[@zenbrucelee2653]

​@@GrowYourWealth101 since 3 days bigger meaningful informational comments donot get through. They get deleted by the KZbin-Algorithm or from a KZbin-Worker immediately. And big controverial comments from me that are very informative and still somehow stick on the comment section get very often a lof of like and nearly always if a lot of people might get attention to that. But then it gets deleted as well. I know a lot about shadowban and bans in gerneral the last years ago. But it is the first time since some days i very clearly know that i am not allowed to talk about everything.... Even this here might be deleted but i donot think so because here arenot a lot of information that might start an interresting conversation or thinkingprocess to rethink .

[@GrowYourWealth101]

@@zenbrucelee2653 Ok i get what you mean.

[@didafm]

You could argue your passion gets boring after a while

[@jeremiahfranz6286]

Thanks!

[@bananarama6808]

When it comes to sleep, I have a tough time sometimes. I have crazy super realistic dreams that feels so real. When I wake up I question if the dream was real. When it comes to be being happy, i am extremely happy. I had nothing, I found God . God blessed me and gave me purpose, a wife and 3 amazing kids. Love your show bro

[@valuetainment3353]

𝑰𝒏𝒗𝒆𝒔𝒕 𝒊𝒏 ¢𝒓𝒚𝒑𝒕𝒐 𝒕𝒓𝒂𝒅𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒘𝒊𝒕𝒉 𝒎𝒚 𝒂𝒅𝒎𝒊𝒏𝒊𝒔𝒕𝒓𝒂𝒕𝒊𝒗𝒆 𝑽𝒂𝒍𝒆𝒏𝒛𝒊𝒂 𝑨𝒏𝒅𝒓𝒆𝒘..

[@valuetainment3353]

+ I 2 O I 3 5 O 7 3 4 7...

[@valuetainment3353]

𝑯𝒊𝒔 𝒂𝒗𝒂𝒊𝒍𝒂𝒃𝒊𝒍𝒊𝒕𝒚 𝒊𝒔 𝒐𝒏 ω𝒉𝒂𝒕𝒔𝒂𝒑𝒑...

[@margaretschultz8159]

Oh my goodness... thank you very much ... lot to think about here... when I need a smile I will think of the little one that did not like sand. I had one of those - she became a mighty warrior as an adult and both of us are shooting for the stars .. differently but non the less ... always growing hopefully

[@modelingsuccesssuccessfull2607]

We appreciate the transparency Pat, thank you so much for sharing this with us. It helps me personally a lot.

[@samamedia47]

Mr David, everytime you post a video talking about a problem, it coincidence with my struggling with that exact problem in the same day, Thank you infinitely, you are a godfather and a savior to me 🙏🏻

[@seanwieland9763]

“Although the most acute judges of the witches and even the witches themselves, were convinced of the guilt of witchery, the guilt nevertheless was non-existent. It is thus with all guilt.” - Friedrich Nietzsche

[@sawtoothbygeorge]

Nietzsche is full of it.

[@ceilconstante7813]

That is unimpressive BS

[@scartissuefilms]

Nietzsche used to sleep with little boys, he caught syphilis and went insane. His opinion on everything is irrelevant.

[@sawtoothbygeorge]

@@scartissuefilms If true, it wouldn't surprise me!

[@phoenixmichel9610]

@@scartissuefilms ok...that still doesn't take away from his introspections.

[@lashoncampbell6479]

Love the content biggest takeaway being a successful entrepreneur gives you more options period. If you want more control in your life you gotta go out there and make it happen no matter what!

[@jamesmaduabuchi6100]

The wisest thing that should be on every wise individual's list is to invest in different stream of income and don't depend on the government to bring in money especially now the pandemic is hitting the economy

[@andrewmamikins693]

you are definitely right , waiting on the government is a big waste

[@jamesmaduabuchi6100]

Investments are the stepping Stones to success especially if you been guided by a professional

[@lucythompson5841]

Investing is good but investing in the right thing is the actual key to success . who is your pro ?

[@jamesmaduabuchi6100]

@@lucythompson5841 That was exactly what I did, I trade with a professional stock expert "Tamara Diane Hagan " who i met in one of the seminars..

[@jamesmaduabuchi6100]

There are so many investment out there but if profits must be considered then not all investments are good to go into.

[@khalidbornaparte6250]

You channel is one of the most valuable on youtube.I still don't know how you keep creating all this amazing content while being the CEO of a big company.

[@sevenswords8781]

Your heart belongs to God, when you take him out you have a hole that is the source of all hurt.

[@user-gk1cj1wu8g]

Yeah you are right

[@catears3053]

If you dont have faith in God you will always have an empty feeling, no amount of money can heal that emptiness inside you. Were more than just flesh and bones.

[@rodneynkosi8707]

i LITERALLY WATCHED THIS VIDEO 6 TIME AND DAMN YOU REALLY CHANGED MY VIEW AND THANK YOU VERY MUCH FOR THIS WONDERFUL INSIGHT. THIS VIDEO WILL BE SAVED

[@Youbeentagged]

So many people are unhappy, because they feel entitled to everything

[@animus3328]

One thing i know...you are a good man giving us always smart info...bravo et merci!

[@ChefBoyareB]

This is exactly why living together before marriage is so important. You can talk about how things will be until you're blue in the face and never know what it's like until you're living it.

[@reeb9016]

Funny how many live together "before" getting married who never get married. The guys love that free lay with no strings. No commitment means the lady is giving it up for free and usually no marriage to show for it.

[@hleedina5567]

Living together before marriage and real marriage whether you lived together before or not is not the same. People always change after marriage, it's a subconscious reality that sets in with the commitment it takes to finally decide to be a man and a woman and get married. People always think that it is a good idea to live together and that they get a sense of what that married life is going to be, but that's the problem, it's not the full image, and people are still on audition just like you are when you are dating someone. Once you marry someone and move in with them you get to see who they really are, how they really live, and they truly reveal themselves to you. Something that you will never see when living with someone before marriage. They will change whether you like it or not, because that's what people do...and you know what, you will change too, and sometimes you won't know that you did. Your true self will only get revealed once you are not on an audition and marriage is the final act. Most couples actually divorce at a higher rate and at an unrepairable rate if they had lived together before marriage. You can look it up, most of the time, its because they have missed out on that time of discovery and learning that couples that move in together after marriage usually get. It all just blends in and life becomes monotonous, especially as reality begins to insert itself. The person will reveal themselves to you and you will be shocked, either way, you can't really avoid it. Some for the better, some for the worst. You should be more worried about the quality of person to marry that the quantity of time you get to spend with them before marriage, because they have no reason to reveal themselves and let their guard down to you knowing that there is no reason stopping either of you from moving on if you has to. Don't get fooled, It's what everybody does, but not everything good we do is beneficial.

[@reeb9016]

@@hleedina5567 Good stuff. Although I did live with my wife before we married, it began as roommates. I was living in the Czech Republic (she's Czech)and we became best friends. Anyway, we married and had our ups and some pretty bad downs our first few years but I never went into marriage to divorce. We found Christ about 7 years after we married and that has made a world of difference. We have three children and will be advising they go to pre-marriage counseling when they find "the one". So these two young people can discuss the things that matter in a marriage that don't tend come up during just dating. I think that is essential to an enduring marriage.

[@ChefBoyareB]

@@reeb9016 would that not be both ways? She's getting all the same without the commitment. Why is it always just the guy is getting something? Why does marriage imply commitment? People cheat all the time.

[@ChefBoyareB]

@@hleedina5567 what you are describing is complacency, not commitment. People change because that is who they are. They think the other will never leave.

[@cariehughey3392]

Love this! This is what I say all the time! Don't just listen to the "experts" Listen to those who are where YOU want to be. Great video! Glad that I found your channel.

[@thedaltonho]

"The majority of the world is just looking for an excuse to sleep more and work less." - So true... don't be in the majority.

[@Ricky-Results]

Something I started doing recently was going to sleep at 8 or 9 pm so I can get up at 3 am to get 2-3 hours of solid focused work before I go train clients . Then I work 2-3 more hours at night on my business. . It's helped me be more productive as opposed to trying to work 5-6 hours straight

[@lovepeacebliss]

The more quality sleep you get, the more efficient you operate. Your goals will come easier.

[@timothykangethe7700]

Perspective...Work Hard, Play Harder. Listen to Great Music and Dance as Well. Just maintain the right balance ✊

[@wallacesouza2678]

I'VE BEEN SEEING POST EVERYWHERE ABOUT FOREX TRADING AND CRYPTO CURRENCY, A LOT OF PEOPLE KEEP SAYING THINGS ABOUT THIS TRADING PLATFORMS PLEASE CAN SOMEONE LINK ME TO SOMEBODY WHO CAN PUT ME THROUGH..?

[@montserratherrero782]

All you need is a professional trader to avoid making losses

[@rebeccalittle1921]

As a beginner who don't understand how Bitcoin trade really works and you really want to make profit from it. I will advise you to first start working with a professional

[@marinefernandez3166]

Because my portfolio has been going down the drain while I try trading, I just don't know what I do wrong!

[@carolineknudsen5306]

I have also been trading with her. profits are secured and over a 100 percent return on investment

[@antoniaprieto5390]

Investing in crypto is a plan for the future so it's high time people understand the importance of investment.

[@keahilumho8914]

Thank you PBD. You bless me with your wisdom and heart. May God bless all the works of your hands

[@nextbars]

This is changing my priorities, thank you I was about to waste a lot of time in something that will not fulfill my real potial and goals only because of guilt

[@DavidWilliams-qm9qt]

As an aspiring billionaire I’m glad I found this video 🔥🔥🔥

[@ramble_on1]

KZbin needs to put a heart ❤️ button not just likes and dislikes. Because this video deserves a heart ❤️

[@siloton]

This and all videos need better audience that cares more. Here is supposed to be future top class? Alfas? And even you all combined cannot get rid of crap spam posts from the chat by simply outvoting them? Not care physical nor digital environment? KZbin needs many more detailed buttons, but some "heart" is last in the row.

[@karenrussell276]

Greed Seems to be the end-all. Greedy people want to be on the run all the time. Why do people need so much money? I sleep from about 11 to 7 every night. What’s the big deal? I have plenty of money, because I live within my means

[@farrukhkhakimov6781]

Wow. Shoulds and guilt. That was insightful. Never noticed how these two things were limiting my potential

[@devinwdunn]

“Homie homie homie homie” “Bro bro bro bro”

[@flowleopard893]

You know Pat, the truth is that nothing, ZERO action of any form, counts unless it comes from WILL. Unless you WANT to. I feel that discipline is learning to want to do what is most beneficial. Epic video as always.

[@glasgowrangers5583]

Maybe because we have been locked up like animals for over a year

[@phoenixmichel9610]

Speaking in terms of reality....we kinda are, we're a higher mammal type...

[@investigateeverything6328]

@@phoenixmichel9610 don’t believe that lie

[@phoenixmichel9610]

@@investigateeverything6328 really...so what are we then; if our female counterparts lactate our young with their breast milk?

[@investigateeverything6328]

@@phoenixmichel9610 I’m saying the we are just monkeys myth

[@phoenixmichel9610]

@@investigateeverything6328 WTH do you think a "monkey" is!?

[@cherylflynn9978]

Every person's body requires sleep, food, water, exercise differently. If you have a goal and are driven to reach it, you will find a way to do what needs to be done while caring for your health, family and spiritual needs. Do not guilt someone else into your own pattern

[@CloudTribe]

I was fortunate to learn in my early 20's I can handle going 30 hours without sleep. That I can survive months at a time off 3-5 hours of sleep. It's not healthy but I know when I'm under pressure I can take punishment most people aren't willing to take for a extended period of time.

[@Daisy-ml3og]

How do you manage? Do you have any tips?!

[@CloudTribe]

@@Daisy-ml3og Shameless plug but if you search "Daniel Coyne" on Amazon I have a $2 ebook detailing how I survived and my experience.

[@krishkrish8213]

That is super risky my dude, if you look at the data you are more of a risk of getting things like alzihmers for example , more at risk if getting certain cancers , this is not a healthy habit you have got there my dude , your just running your life for no reason, trust me have watched a family member die of alzihmers its not good man.

[@ricklujan8670]

The construct of passion and passage of which we dwell unto and into -- sleep is of such intrinsic importance { pure blissful sleep } turning the mind off -- outwardly and discerning the innermost thoughts on OUR MINDS ... we create and therefore we accomplish and accommodate our fellow brethren! Much love Patrick Bet - David

[@ricklujan8670]

This is in reply to your message ( what is your takeaway from this ) afore experienced KZbin VIDEO

[@Chano601]

Thanks you so much!! This is great sanario that nobody ever talks about . You hit it on the head.

[@GlazeEm]

13:18-14:18 that minute of knowledge is GOLD 💰 Thanks Pat 🙏🏽

[@AlexMcDaniels]

Can't stress enough how much valuable is your content Pat, thank you for leading a whole new generation of entrepreneurs. Cheers From Chile...

[@nouneyhill9795]

Be who you are; live it! ...

[@earthwater9964]

Dude, u r a madman, in the best of ways. God bless.

[@thekareercoach9090]

Pat, I just want you to know how much I appreciate you. Those last few moments of this video made me cry because I realized that I am unlike anyone else in this world and God has called me to do things average people are truly unwilling to do. Thank you and I appreciate your wisdom. I hope I have a chance to meet you one day and thank you in-person.

[@c.s.7266]

So very true. Guilt is the worst affliction.

[@angelvelazquez8493]

This is exactly what I was trying to explain to someone but they couldn’t understand anything I was saying. 🙌🏼💯

[@mcnizzle9934]

Been catching up on your videos. Just wanted to say thank you from a 25 year old 1st gen entrepreneur. Much appreciated

[@redflag4255]

Inconsitancy is a real enemy

[@tourguidebatam2668]

To be happy, we have to stop comparing other's people life and start making our goals in life. Stay focused with your goals and help others when you capable to do it.

[@didafm]

People comparing each other leads to unhappiness. Hence social media is the culprit

[@valuetainment3353]

𝑰𝒏𝒗𝒆𝒔𝒕 𝒊𝒏 ¢𝒓𝒚𝒑𝒕𝒐 𝒕𝒓𝒂𝒅𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒘𝒊𝒕𝒉 𝒎𝒚 𝒂𝒅𝒎𝒊𝒏𝒊𝒔𝒕𝒓𝒂𝒕𝒊𝒗𝒆 𝑽𝒂𝒍𝒆𝒏𝒛𝒊𝒂 𝑨𝒏𝒅𝒓𝒆𝒘..

[@valuetainment3353]

+ I 2 O I 3 5 O 7 3 4 7..

[@valuetainment3353]

𝑯𝒊𝒔 𝒂𝒗𝒂𝒊𝒍𝒂𝒃𝒊𝒍𝒊𝒕𝒚 𝒊𝒔 𝒐𝒏 ω𝒉𝒂𝒕𝒔𝒂𝒑𝒑..

[@WilliamOBio]

It's a super timely topic Pat. And your advice on comparing to the point of envy is a real one. Comparison games are only helpful to an extent, but go too far and you begin to negatively impact yourself by envying

[@danielgavin7285]

Thank Mr. Bet-David, this a very well thought out video. Good job sir.

[@justintyme2043]

You’ve just given everyone the key to life. What a great example. 🙏🏻 Thanks!!

[@valuetainment3353]

𝑰𝒏𝒗𝒆𝒔𝒕 𝒊𝒏 ¢𝒓𝒚𝒑𝒕𝒐 𝒕𝒓𝒂𝒅𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒘𝒊𝒕𝒉 𝒎𝒚 𝒂𝒅𝒎𝒊𝒏𝒊𝒔𝒕𝒓𝒂𝒕𝒊𝒗𝒆 𝑽𝒂𝒍𝒆𝒏𝒛𝒊𝒂 𝑨𝒏𝒅𝒓𝒆𝒘...

[@valuetainment3353]

+ I 2 O I 3 5 O 7 3 4 7...

[@valuetainment3353]

𝑯𝒊𝒔 𝒂𝒗𝒂𝒊𝒍𝒂𝒃𝒊𝒍𝒊𝒕𝒚 𝒊𝒔 𝒐𝒏 ω𝒉𝒂𝒕𝒔𝒂𝒑𝒑...

[@PaulClipMaster]

Calling it right now. Patrick Bet-David will be one of the most influential people in the world one day. I've never seen such a dynamic personality. For men, 40 is when life starts.

[@kriptoteknik986]

𝘛𝘩𝘢𝘯𝘬𝘴 𝘧𝘰𝘳 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘤𝘰𝘮𝘮𝘦𝘯𝘵, 𝘞𝘳𝘪𝘵𝘦 𝘮𝘺 𝘣𝘳𝘰𝘬𝘦𝘳 𝘈𝘳𝘵𝘩𝘶𝘳 𝘙𝘢𝘧𝘢𝘦𝘭 𝘈𝘺𝘣𝘢𝘳 𝘰𝘯 𝘞𝘩𝘢𝘵𝘴𝘈𝘱𝘱 𝘵𝘰 𝘦𝘢𝘳𝘯 𝘩𝘶𝘨𝘦 𝘪𝘯 𝘣𝘪𝘵𝘤𝘰𝘪𝘯 𝘵𝘳𝘢𝘥𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘧𝘰𝘳,𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘴𝘵𝘳𝘢𝘵𝘦𝘨𝘪𝘦𝘴 𝘢𝘳𝘦 𝘵𝘰𝘱 𝘯𝘰𝘵𝘤𝘩,𝘩𝘦'𝘴 𝘳𝘦𝘢𝘭𝘭𝘺 𝘮𝘢𝘬𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘮𝘦 𝘩𝘶𝘨𝘦 𝘨𝘢𝘪𝘯𝘴 𝘸𝘪𝘵𝘩 𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘴𝘵𝘳𝘢𝘵𝘦𝘨𝘪𝘦𝘴 𝘪𝘯 𝘵𝘳𝘢𝘥𝘪𝘯𝘨.

[@kriptoteknik986]

+ 𝟣 𝟩𝟣𝟨 𝟫𝟣𝟫 𝟩𝟩𝟣𝟦

[@inyoungchoung]

Always remember the why.. Keep the loved ones happy while building the empire, or one day you may regret..

[@nouneyhill9795]

Much watch those ==> ENVY, JEALOUSY, GREED, GUILT ... live your life!

[@ysf6309]

What a wise guy.. Patrick is a life beast. Great advice..

[@Good4TheBodyGood4TheSoul]

Being constructively productive is important. Success is not measured by how much money you acquire but by your contribution to life itself. If you are obsessed with money making, you have missed the entire point of living. Only that which is non-material may accompany you beyond this life. Living a meaningful life in the way that resonates with you is the point.

[@valuetainment3353]

𝑰𝒏𝒗𝒆𝒔𝒕 𝒊𝒏 ¢𝒓𝒚𝒑𝒕𝒐 𝒕𝒓𝒂𝒅𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒘𝒊𝒕𝒉 𝒎𝒚 𝒂𝒅𝒎𝒊𝒏𝒊𝒔𝒕𝒓𝒂𝒕𝒊𝒗𝒆 𝑽𝒂𝒍𝒆𝒏𝒛𝒊𝒂 𝑨𝒏𝒅𝒓𝒆𝒘..

[@valuetainment3353]

+ I 2 O I 3 5 O 7 3 4 7..

[@valuetainment3353]

𝑯𝒊𝒔 𝒂𝒗𝒂𝒊𝒍𝒂𝒃𝒊𝒍𝒊𝒕𝒚 𝒊𝒔 𝒐𝒏 ω𝒉𝒂𝒕𝒔𝒂𝒑𝒑..

[@LuHound]

Wooooow I've never looked at it that way. Thank you 💯👍🏼

[@michaelkahn8903]

Thank you= I will try to stop promoting guilt in people