Why Are South Sudanese Not Dating Each Other? 🇸🇸

[@efeaideloje2744]

Wow I love South Sudanese women so much 🫶🏾🥹❤️😩

[@ladiesofsosa]

We love you! ❤️

[@72vince27]

They really skipped over an important part of the conversation. Because it's a topic they know South Sudanese men will drag them on, on all the socials. And that is how a lot of our men (South Sudo millenials and Gen-Z) went to the West only to do nothing. Statistics have shown that most women of every race don't date down in social class. So all my South Sudo sisters who went Uni which is like 75% of them, if they have to choose out of the significantly smaller South Sudo population of men with a bachelor’s or master’s degree or if not that, the ones working in office or good jobs through networking. What you think is gonna happen? Grown men with gaps in resume or absolutely no work experience. This is the West, you can't just sit around eating kada kombo with asida all day and think a girl will be presented to you, because your family is wealthy or has a good name.

[@timothycartet8278]

I stumbled across this page while researching Sudan , I met a Sudanese woman last night, and being born black and raised Washington DC i wasn't sure how to approach, but she's absolutely amazing and I hope to get to know her and make a future with her, so I'm hanging on every word , and learning, listening closely, thank you for the Insite

[@ladiesofsosa]

That’s beautiful! Treat her well 😉🤎 And good luck.

[@LifeWithKosi]

I listened to this entire thing admiring the color and richness of all of y'alls skin. Just beautiful! 😍😍

[@ladiesofsosa]

Thank you sooo much lovely 💕

[@sueb1955]

Nubian here! Love S. Sudan. Appreciate this conversation.

[@nyankiirngor4966]

You ladies are speaking the facts of what's happening

[@Leekus13]

Great discussions ladies. I like the points made by Nyaliba, the Nubian girl, about not having opportunities for young single south Sudanese men and women to meet. Many of the points raised sound like USA South Sudanese problems. I would propose that people (maybe ladies of SOSA can do this) in the USA to hold events for young South Sudanese people, so that there’s an opportunity for them to meet (e.g. Trivia Night etc.) cause that’s a solution to having like minded people in your community meeting and getting to know each other. I think a major point that doesn’t seem to come up is dowry. It’s a massive financial burden that girls and our elders seem to not see as an issue but it really is a big issue for young south Sudanese men when it comes to committing to south Sudanese women. And I think it’s because it doesn’t affect women and elders, as much as it affects us.

[@nyabhanbol789]

Such an insightful conversation!! and more conversation like this need to be discussed!

[@ladiesofsosa]

Thanks for watching!! We definitely have a lot more content coming.

[@beccakiir5519]

This is a beautiful topic, not gonna lie I live in Australia (Brisbane)and it’s basically the same experience babes!

[@JamalHaroun]

Much love to Sudanese people💯💙

[@reginasima]

A very much needed conversation. Thank you LOS

[@ladiesofsosa]

Thank you so much for being apart of the conversation Regina 💕 We appreciate you!

[@reginasima]

@@ladiesofsosaof course I had a blast❤

[@bongiweantiz3285]

with us ZULUS WHEN ITS TIME FOR THOSE DISCUSSION WE ARE ALSO NOT PART OF IT

[@david________]

@@bongiweantiz3285what on earth are you talking about?

[@Samsonmanase]

Good episode !

[@ladiesofsosa]

We appreciate you! ❤️

[@jeaneestigene3652]

Look at all these beautiful melanin. You guys are so gorgeous❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@Directormb]

Am Sudanese and I love my Ghana man ❤❤

[@ladiesofsosa]

Aww, we love that for you sis! ❤️

[@chardoncrepu]

But the topics hidden is the other races Funny point is in white community/nationalist etc they will never date outside of their races That's probably their first and unique criteria

[@acholapieu6806]

Y’all also forgot the part where SS men never really wanna date or be serious with a SS woman that have dated a non-South Sudanese

[@Stanlee99]

This is very interesting, south sudanese women are the most beautiful women in the world...

[@gattuochkuon3745]

I love the conversation y’all had and it’s a start of the many ways to solve some of the issues we are facing as a community. 🙌🏿👏🏿!

[@Ms_fifi11]

great job ladies , great episode ! 🥰

[@ladiesofsosa]

Glad you enjoyed it! Thanks for watching!!

[@KushQueen9]

Great conversation! I appreciate that one of the women mentioned intentional dating and meeting someone on your level. Thats a shame to hear SS men were being colourist in the US.... that's absolutely crazy.

[@africaine4889]

It is crazy. You have the skin tone if not darker than your women and you want to be colorist. Anyway am happy that other african men see the beauty in SA women.

[@abdiqanihashi484]

Yall are beautiful ladies love an support from a somali 🇸🇴❤️

[@emmaalier]

Omg im watching and im so fascinated like I wasn’t there 😂❤ I love this so much thank you LOS

[@dikodandrewrhino1997]

Love from Home let yall have more of that plz

[@iwhippedcreamcode4642]

BW YOU DESERVE MORE!

[@errolstamp7579]

YOU SOUTH SUDANESE WOMAN ARE HEAVENLY BEAUTIFUL. ALLURING SKIN COLOUR, SKIN TEXTURE AND FACIAL/ BODY FEATURE

[@majokgarang]

Great Episode! But can I disagree? 🤐

[@ladiesofsosa]

Of course! But they have to wait for the next episode 👀

[@marcodeng7138]

How many west African women got married to South Sudanese men?,ladies of Sosa,please ask yourselves this question first

[@liliana169410]

love itttt 🤌🏾🤌🏾

[@ladiesofsosa]

Hiii! Were so glad you enjoyed 💕

[@doshadeng]

Love this ❤

[@ladiesofsosa]

Thanks for watching! ❤️

[@nyankiirngor4966]

That's right ✅️ intentional dating

[@bkzarok]

It's the colorism and INSECURITY on both genders. The question is who gonna step up and heal first haha

[@iwhippedcreamcode4642]

BW are Healing by Choosing Themselves and Atrracting Loving Husband who Build for Them! A Husband

[@jeong-ilkajokaya3849]

Facts, blaming each other is getting no where.

[@bigophilip2897]

This is a product of trauma/self hate. We need to heal.

[@marcodeng7138]

You have targeted the point my dear😅😅

[@sinyoraandrew1452]

Good programs love the topic but ladies please please always say south Sudanese bcoz we separated from Sudan 🇸🇩 in your passport we are called South Sudanese please always put south first

[@dengkuol836]

it’s never that serious, we all sudanese at the end of the day don’t spread negativity towards other sudanese we all are sudanese from different sides of the country one love 🇸🇸❤️🇸🇩

[@bongiweantiz3285]

mhhhh i ddnt know its different ,my guy ddnt tell me ,but ive seen it when tryjngbto learn about the sudanese recipes

[@thomasmarkjr.2917]

Also, IT'S VERY IMPORTANT TO ACKNOWLEDGE THAT SOUTH SUDAN HAS A VERY DIVERSE COMMUNITY (64 times with 64 languages). You can't just speak for every other South Sudanese especially if you have been living abroad... Just saying. But this is a very good topic to discuss.

[@tohhpp]

🔥🔥

[@bongiweantiz3285]

im South African dating a Sudanese guy

[@L_24678]

I am terribly confused, sorry. I am dating a Sudanese man, but he is more small town america and I am trying to get out of small town america. I'm wondering if he will like Boston, lol.

[@real8551]

Maybe the men are going outside because yall not loving them the way they wanna be love. It goes both ways

[@iwhippedcreamcode4642]

You Sound Weak! How Do Women not Love Men? They Are Made That Way! Maybe You Need to Stand Up To Manhood and Build! Or Let these Ladiez Discover LOVE BY Exploring Their Options! THEY ARE BEAUTIFUL &SMART. My Brother Married A Sudan Beauty! He's Never been Happier! I Married a beauty from Kenya. One of My Best Decisions! .Stop Making Excuses and DO MORE OR LOSE!

[@adutaken7745]

What do I have to do to be on this podcast 😭😭

[@ladiesofsosa]

Hi! We record in Dallas, Texas but email ladiesofsosa@gmail with your name, age, and interest and we will follow up with you when we need to cast speakers on the panel.

[@childofkingjesus9755]

And why you guys don't speak Arabic!?

[@MynameisAbduI]

Not all of them do

[@nyamerpouk7813]

I just don’t know how to attract with ss they be so rude and strict

[@magnanorris3530]

Nyaliba_m very lovely, hello from Canada's west coast!

[@itsboldtv]

nice! look at what I found! keep going ladies! look amazing! shokol jemil