Why are you afraid you're lazy? ft. Jack Manifold

[@NatureLoverSFL]

For being 19 jack expresses himself really well just had to throw that in lol

[@sinabonz8108]

damn, I'm older than him but I feel like he's so much more mature than me

[@justsomejojo]

Jack has all the same problems I had but is aware of them at 19. I powered through higher education and only then started to become aware of that stuff at 24, struggling with it until 27. The fact he's able to recognize and work on those things so early is amazing.

[@HANIMEME]

being 19 as well it felt kind of nice to have a similar age in life (not necesarily stage in life)

[@alexandramaclachlan7597]

@@justsomejojo BIG same. Brings up insecurity in me though, like I "should" have started working on myself earlier. But I understand that I have the cards I've been dealt, and I'm where I am sooooo... now's as good a time as any, and I can't change the past anyway.

[@greenfoxillustration]

Propper smart kid

[@banhai2]

I missed interviews, don't get me wrong I love the lectures, but it's always very insightful to look at the world through someone else's eyes, keep up the great work!

[@remondx8880]

big agree

[@HenryHe]

I second that. Been curious the past few weeks about where the interviews went but, I'm glad to see them back

[@yes3858]

I'd say the same but lucky enough to discover doc late in the game so I'm still catching up 👍

[@dropthekorpi]

To me personally it's more interesting to see how different patterns play out in real people's lives, it's easier to grasp than from a lecture.

[@greenfoxillustration]

Same! It’s nice to have a mix of both

[@jessdoritowhale]

Bro that meditation was so good, when he said “Notice for a time you stepped outside of yourself and just exsist, you were neither an A student or a F student” i freaked out because that was true. All sense of “self” both negative and positive was gone and i was like “woah i really just did exsisted” very good very good

[@parkouringmidget]

“It’s not like you’re doing something wrong and need do something right, it’s actually that you’re doing something right and if you wanna move forward you’re going to have to do things that are wrong.” This hits me on a level that I didn’t know existed.

[@sandoralik]

I really love the fact that I've discovered Dr.K for myself These videos are something Its like watching a detective movie And despite Dr.K doubtuing whether he does or doesn't have the skill to help Jack he did an AMAZING freaking job! I really hope i can fix myself too as i watch these videos and learn from them

[@fortisblue]

I think he played Jack with that remark regarding his skill because Jack has just revealed that he is not receptive to praise from people who dont understand his job. I think it was tactical and the purpose was to lower Jack's guard and make him more receptive to Dr. K's ideas. But I might be overthinking this a little lol.

[@HonryKebabKing]

@@fortisblue From observing the way Dr.k talks and what he suggests when trying to "convince" someone or even communicating with people, he tends to actively listen and understand what the person is saying which involves a lot of questioning. Most of the time people have these ideas that seem logical but aren't logical at all and more emotional, and as dr.k keeps questioning, their guard is lowered then Dr.k presents his ideas. The most fascinating interview is probs Hafu and Scara since both had so much resistance and was hard to have their guard down. So I don't think you're overthinking at all and you are somewhat right. I don't think dr.k's intention or main goal is to let their guard down, he pretty much listens to the person, meets them where they're at by understanding them to full extent possible. To be fair that's how I perceive it and I could be wrong, maybe dr.k does intend to lower their guard down.

[@chrippehansson201]

Dont think that a yuotube video or two can fix deeper problems. Get help from a pro if you need help.

[@ajmosutra7667]

You should really ask for help if youre struggling! You may even get medical therapy and that helps too... Dont live life in torment its not meant to be lived that way

[@bkh1324]

Just my two cents. It's less about fixing and more about accepting your self however perfect or imperfect you are. From that place of working to accept ourselves mabey we can heal and grow into . . .

[@rusinsr]

I did not expect to relate so much to this. Big props to Jack for coming on!

[@matthiass7760]

Same! Really interesting Podcast indeed

[@micheller3251]

This is a good timing for me, I just moved, I'm burned out, and I am constantly feeling like I'm not working enough and can't accept that I need time off

[@Fjasdflasdf]

I feel burnt out as well, and my self esteem is so low and I feel like I need to work more to make up for it.

[@ESPirits87]

Live to work or work to live?.

[@ElevatedLevetator]

Fuck a job

[@StarboyXL9]

And then there's me, who hates working hard and takes too much time off.

[@johncochran5852]

wow this is me. Really hit me when he said "If I'm the best I don't have to try any harder". I have said this to myself at some point in all of my jobs

[@chilanya]

I recognize SO much of what he says. Unable to relax because it makes me feel guilty and unproductive. And then the duality and constant internal struggle.

[@hemangmathur2823]

This just came out, but can I just say I've been waiting for a video on this topic for a long, long time. Thank you.

[@Fjasdflasdf]

Yeah same. I clicked instantly when I saw haha

[@whenwetalkaboutnature4903]

1:22:37 to remind myself why this is so relatable and why I had a good cry. Thank you Doctor K 🙏🙏

[@Directionless.Sponge]

This video, in conjunction with "Therapy Doesn't Work", showed me that I actually needed a life coach all along- this is the exact sort of conversation I was expecting to get out of my first therapist. She's newer and we don't get much time together because my commute cuts into my session time, so I don't fault her for my current lack of progress. But the idea that what you are demonstrating is almost unheard of in her field deeply concerns me about my ability to get help in traditional mental health services (my 6 previous counselors were also largely unsuccessful). I'm not entirely sure how to say this without coming off as passive-agressive, but... thanks, Dr. K. Thank you for being the first person to give me actual, demonstrable expectations for therapy and informing me of its greatest fault and how that may (not) work for me. Now I just need to research life coaches and hope that I can find one in my area/online, rip.

[@LizVonVillas]

Hey, I know exactly what you mean!! I sought therapy for general unhappiness and stress (as well as ADHD shame and guilt) a few years ago. My first therapist wasn't much help. My second one was better but the thing that helped me the most were some audiobooks combined with mediation and grounding techniques. I have a video about them on my channel (which is largely sewing-related, so not very relevant lol) if you want to hear my actual words, but I will list them here. You'd be able to listen to them on your commute! 1. The Power of Vulnerability by Brene Brown, 2. The Courage to Be Disliked by Ichiro Kishimi, 3. Atomic Habits by James Clear, 4. Radical Acceptance by Tara Brach 5. Take Control of Your Life by Mel Robbins. They're all wonderful in their own ways, but the combination of different deliveries with the same message was what finally helped me to feel better. Good luck!!

[@foxsspace]

Hit me up mate. It's an unregulated field so there's many traps and pitfalls to be cautious of. Some have a license, some do not. I do not but I have many years of teaching, and coaching for elementary to high school students. I'm not just advertising here, but keep in mind that just like counsellors, not everyone who has a certificate may not be actually qualified to help out with issues. While some without qualifications can be better than those with certificate. Focus on what your needs are, ask for a free session or two so you both get to know each other. From my experience, a trial session is always the best way to find out whether you click with the coach or not. Good luck and I hope you get the help you need mate! :D

[@jonaskoelker]

@@foxsspace > Some have a license, some do not. That's interesting. Given that a license is a permission slip and not a certificate of quality, if a license is not required (as evidenced by the fact some don't have one) why do some providers spend their time getting one, instead of e.g. honing their craft?

[@foxsspace]

@@jonaskoelker @Jonas K It's unregulated field (life coaching). The International Coaching Federation (IFC) does grant licenses for individuals. It basically states that "I completed a 'certified program' (which is unregulated by national boards/committees) and received a piece of paper that says I studied A-Z for at least 200 hours [minimum] under Y program's set guidelines (unregulated by government standards)." >> Why do some providers spend time getting one? It says [to your client] that you are showing some form of competency in your skills, whether it comes from direct life experience, learnt in some type of program, or have sufficient background knowledge. As I'm working on my PhD for clinical psychology, I could simply stop and work with a master's degree in my area. The big issue I personally would face is *my competitors have more education (PhD) and most likely have more years of experience compared to myself.* Even though more education may be a permission slip, the client may value the person who has obtained education and training compared to someone who doesn't.

[@mitthrawnuruodo1730]

I burned myself out 5 times in the past 8 months. Reasons being: -trying to eat an elephant in one bite -poor work/play balance -being extremely excited for a week going hard working, then crashing because I exhausted my energy -still think I’m not capable of change -adhd problems. I have a lot to work on but I haven’t given up. Seven steps back, eight steps forward

[@rootyful]

I doubt that this was 5 individual burn outs, but rather one long yet unsolved burnout and habits feeding into that. Don't give up, find help and counselling for what drives you to these habits, recognize them and change them.

[@kianakim1]

This was such an amazing interview. I'm struggling with these exact same things right now, and this gave me a lot to think about. Thanks for the upload, Dr. K!!

[@Dread_Mirror]

This became my favourite interview because I feel like it describes me almost to a T. The only difference is that I'm 31 and I'm like an extreme case of this exact problem. The other difference is that I can explain my own weakness by comparing my value to what society expects of me. I feel like at some point you have to ask yourself: "Do I just think I'm weak because of some internal reason that distorts my worldview, or am I factually weak because I'm still in the same spot after so many years?" There has to be a boundary somewhere between the two, and I feel like I crossed that boundary so now my issue doesn't come from an internal struggle but from the realisation about what kind of a person you need to be when you hit that age if you want to be a functional part of society. Like, some of that struggle is justifiable at that point.

[@quokkolotl]

32 here and same, this pendulum swing made my life so inconsistent and took so much energy, I did objectively fine but was never happy, I'm grieving who I could have been and what I could have achieved if only I would have found this balance ever

[@neo-gio]

Thank you Jack and Dr K. Jack you remind me of the younger version of me. Ive learned again new things thank you! I only can talk about myself what worked and iam still not perfect today. Ive worked hard towards my goal and overthink many times and forgot to be in that moment in time. After many years ive reached my goal and at that moment i tought: Is this it? Where is the WOW moment?? And forgot the road of enjoyment to my goal. The thing is, enjoy the road towards your goal AND the goal itself. Set some small goals(for the day) and write everything down what comes into your mind(onenote works for me). Please don't forget to rest or do some workout / walking around the park. Iam everyday thankfull of what i have reached and have. You did a awesome job Jack 💪 keep it going. Sorry for my writing skills. Hopefully it will work for some. Goodluck🙏

[@LizVonVillas]

Dr. K, you're quickly becoming my favorite KZbinr. I'm so glad that your channel exists to help people!!! So many of the things you say are things that have taken me so long to figure out for myself and you have such a wonderful way of connecting with your audience and guests. Thank you for helping to make the world a better place!

[@Phoenix.Sparkles]

Jack: "when people tell me things, I take them very literally" Me: "you are black and white" Jack: *turns into oreo* 50:10

[@chilldragon4752]

Might be a controversial take, but working long hours for 40 - 50 years of your life so you can retire and actually enjoy your life for the last 10 or so years is just sad to me. Not talking about this guy in particular but for the average person most people live to work instead of work to live. And unfortunately many people don't have a choice on that matter.

[@rachelhignett9473]

Working long hours for 40-50+ years so you can actually enjoy retirement for 10 years is such an awful pay off. You don't have as much energy left, you may suffer ill health or the stuff you wanted to do when you were younger may no longer be available. It's just so depressing to even think about

[@Winterreise189]

It's pathetic. Check out the antiwork movement to find more people who agree with you. We make so many sacrifices for work and waste away our entire lives, while work sacrifices nothing for us and only uses us.

[@hansonel]

Not controversial. Most people are realizing this is a bad deal. 2020 reminded us all life is too short and work life balance is absolutely crucial as is doing meaningful work.

[@ecke6274]

Just find a job you enjoy man

[@beelzeboob]

@@ecke6274 no such thing

[@androgenius_alisa]

"I am not the best at it" Literally one of the most successful people on planet It may be toxic, but Jack's genius. He is winning

[@justjuniorjaw]

It's the grindset. Dr K mentions early on with a worklife example, but change it to being smart. Imagine the smartest person saying "I'm not smart enough", they do their best to be 10% smarter and yet they still see that they're not smart enough. The cycle repeats.

[@androgenius_alisa]

@@justjuniorjaw I know. It's just that he's objectively successful in reference to most common frameworks

[@Fjasdflasdf]

I'm struggling with this. Every word is gold

[@INeed333Quid]

i think creative projects usually lead to yourself being your biggest critic. you have an idea of what you want to do and when you're done, if the idea you started with was better than the end product then it can feel like a failure when you've finished. and since creative pursuits usually have really high wide and tall skill ranges, when someone who doesn't do creative things compliments one of your end products you sorta have to take it with a bag of salt. the only real thing you can take from the compliment is the kindness, because in reality the complimenter has no grasp of the different skills, things you were trying to achieve, what was good, what went well and what didnt. edit: jack says stuff about parents maybe not understanding the world of what he's doing properly but i think even with like visual art stuff (which i think most people can understand) you can get the same feelings. for me the random art stuff that i've felt most proud of doesn't correlate with the art stuff that i get the most compliments for, not in a beret wearing holier than thou way. in a like, effort, skill, originality of ideas kinda way. like i did a spray painting of the queen as a lizard that took barely any time at all that i was only doing to test out some spray paints that a lot of people seem to really like. but then it ends up bein more liked than one i put a lot of time into and was really happy that it came out exactly how i wanted, or another where i managed to turn around a fuck up into something cool that you couldnt achieve on purpose. idgaf about my spray paint lizard queen stop complimenting it, you're inadvertently hurtin ma feelings almost.

[@Froghead2]

really wish i had this content 5 years ago because thats how long it took me to resolve this same issue within myself thanks for the work you do Dr K

[@astral3495]

Dr.k I'd like if you did a lecture on fear of failure and how to approach accepting failure and embarassment. These emotions are paramount to me and I avoid them at all costs, but humans need to fail in order to learn.

[@designanddevelop585]

Unbelievably relateable. Thanks so much!

[@itsraineingoutside]

been waiting for this topic and this creator. ty :)

[@aster_11]

Holy shit I found healthygamergg 2 weeks ago and he has already helped immensely, now i see he interviewed one of my streamers, I'm freaking out

[@Ouzzel]

This sounds like a lot of stuff I just got over myself, but at 24, and boy when you finally get past some of this is shit easier.

[@lolomopanot4810]

Did he already make an interview related to: "I need to do these things first (Fixing myself like going to gym again, eating healthy again, talking with a lot of person again) BEFORE I can proceed finding a job again. I know it's a bit confusing but in simple terms, I would like to fix myself first because I feel it's a pre-requirement for me to have a smooth working journey again. I've been in our family house since the pandemic started and before that I have a job then I leave because of it. I did nothing but watch youtube, netflix eat sleep repeat for about 2 years now since the pandemic. Ok, it's more of a CATCHING IN LIFE again after a long long break wherein I got used to it until I cannot get up in my ass anymore. Did he have a similar video on this kind of scenario?

[@Kaybye555]

I hope this behaviour gets discussed more. I tend to do this way too much. Like getting ready and can't do until ready or not feeling worthy so teying to fix everythinf and be good enough

[@deur]

I dont remember seeing video about that. But it sounds hard, dr. K is good and all but you if possible should find a professional. Good luck

[@lolomopanot4810]

@@Kaybye555 that's it! You summarized it for me. Yup, that behavior "Can't do anything until I feel ready or equiped enough" I'm so anxious about it. it's a weird behavior of mine.

[@lolomopanot4810]

@@deur I came to that point that I need to seek professionals but I'm trying to find some terms that can define this weird behavior or better find a similar case here in Dr.K content, but yeah thanks for your advise

[@lolomopanot4810]

It's so paralyzing, like the feeling that I need to borrow money first (on my mom) and do this "Readying things to fix myself first" for 1 month just to get back on track in life before going to a face to face job Again after Slacking for almost 2 years of not doing anything productive. I simply become a hermit. This pandemic really affected my confidence in social life (face to face conversation) my confidence physically and my overall mind function like I'm at this point that I feel I'm not ready to go out there and do a job after this long ass break.

[@servicetosociety20]

What a well spoken chap, I relate very deeply! Great interview!!!

[@spyschannel8000]

I'm glad to see I'm not the only one going through this stuff, happy to see these videos

[@ohnotagain851]

Man, I relate too much and no one even knows my name yet, I haven't even finished my book yet and yet I have all of these feelings Jack has. Great discussion. Great everything. A pleasure, an honor, and great insight. Thank you.

[@Semicolon42]

I'm feeling burned out, and that I'm coasting. This is a great interview for me. I'm seeing the same things, but slowly feel like I'm noticing things more. Layers of understanding.

[@cantthinkofaname8248]

Been a fan of jack manifold and dr k for a while now, so seeing this collab was a shock. This episode was interesting :00

[@TotalGoatHead]

I always love learning the meditation practices at the end, the whole interview was really great I should add too, I don't think exactly the same way as jack Manifold but it was really eye opening to listen to.

[@dorotihullam9191]

"No one can expect anything more of you when you're doing the best" it's so interesting that I feel the exact opposite. I'm doing quite well in school, and I'm terrified of disappointing my teachers, even though I know that they don't expect me to know everything, and I'm giving it more weight than it actually has.

[@blimp..]

this helped me out a ton, he is 19? I am 28 and he articulated issues i did not realize i had, very relatable. Also just moved.... along with a host of other lifechanging things and I didnt count these in at all

[@JournalingWithNadia]

thank you for taking the words right out of my mouth. I've been experiencing this for as long as I can remember but I had absolutely no idea on how to describe it. Thanks for another great interview Dr. K!

[@LizVonVillas]

I wrote this comment in response to someone else but I think maybe it could help more people, so I'm reposting it. (Jack and I have/had VERY similar issues with fear of being lazy, etc) I sought therapy for general unhappiness and stress (as well as ADHD shame and guilt) a few years ago. My first therapist wasn't much help. My second one was better but the thing that helped me the most were some audiobooks combined with mediation and grounding techniques. I have a video about them on my channel (which is largely sewing-related, so not very relevant lol) if you want to hear my actual words, but I will list them here. 1. The Power of Vulnerability by Brene Brown, 2. The Courage to Be Disliked by Ichiro Kishimi, 3. Atomic Habits by James Clear, 4. Radical Acceptance by Tara Brach 5. Take Control of Your Life by Mel Robbins. They're all wonderful in their own ways, but the combination of different deliveries with the same message was what finally helped me to reach a more peaceful state of existence. Good luck!!

[@db88821]

You are so insightful Dr K, I love love love these interview sessions

[@dorriankarnett]

this is so relatable

[@thisisafakeaccount3431]

Great content as always!!! 👍🏻

[@leon9785]

miss the interviews. Hope they return one day

[@jukx5892]

did they say they planned on not doing any more interviews? I was wondering why there haven't been any in such a long time.

[@kharygalt19]

This is spooky similar to my mental approach to EVERYTHING. No wonder I'm burned out all the time. Thank you both for the insight; I learned a lot today.

[@jessdoritowhale]

I wonder if it’s a lack of mental hygiene aka tools given to you to make your mind feel better when the negative feeling come into play. A lot of Jack says reminds me of my younger self, the task paralysis, the beating yourself up for not doing enough work even if you’ve given yourself time to relax, being afraid of being busy. For me it was bc my mom instilled this into me, and while I was given the tools to not be lazy, it took me so long to gain the tools the “hygiene” to feel good about myself. Your brain develops an internal categorization of what’s important vs what is worthless, and for my fix was to realize that the fun moments were important, everything that I do is important and enjoyable in some sense.

[@SirAlexch02]

I related so much to his situation, and even grew up with similar parents, that it's kind of freaking me out a little bit. But overall feel incredibly encouraged because of it

[@chaoticfloralarrangement8741]

i watched his stream from today where he talked about mental health and some other stuff and he mentioned this video. i didnt know you guys collaborated!

[@mniteshamwowbutwaittheresm5712]

I clicked on this thinking idk who this guy is but I've been enjoying listening and having introspective thoughts so I'll listen to this one too, never did I expect to relate so much on top of relatively being the the same stage of life.

[@vaevictus4637]

Absolutely beautiful. Well done, the both of you!

[@psyaviah]

Thanks a lot, from an elder-millenial ;-) - gamer & musician, I recognize some of these things a lot. And this is very helpful.

[@opNeptune]

you hear that big gulp after he counted, drk was asserting his dominance w that "can you count" question

[@deur]

Dr. K pease keep using "can i think for a second" we wont bully you

[@AssailantLF]

"can I think for a second?" is iconic

[@elektrotehnik94]

Lolz :D But true

[@mYcRiSpDiScK]

I've said that in normal conversation, and it really helps me get my thoughts together, so I know how I can keep the conversation going instead of vaguely meandering around the topic

[@christianwolthuis1285]

so far this meditation looks like its really helpful for building a working understanding of perminance as a concept holy cow I could see how that's helpful for emotional regulation as well

[@christianwolthuis1285]

its kinda weird hearing Dr.K deface/mock his spiritual practices though

[@devinoneill3854]

Thought: wondering if it didn't actually start for him when "he started to have to work" to be top of the class. It feels like it might be shielding something earlier-even back when it was EASY, what made him feel like he needed to be top of his class in the first place? Why is that what he always needed in order to relax, difficult to achieve or otherwise?

[@DarkMode95]

That meditation broke me. i need to do this.

[@lucasa8710]

During the meditation session I imagined that my third eye was like a laser than it transformed into a rocket engine and my head actually moved backwards LOL

[@niroo2781]

can you upload these kind of videos on spotify? I would love to see such videos (like this interview) as a podcast-series

[@andrewcooke-hedin1903]

Wow, this hit home hard.

[@jessdoritowhale]

Im half way through the video and I think Jack needs to realize that his job is stronger then he thinks. It sounds like a fear of failure and that he THINKS his platform is unbelievably fragile but its acctually not and he needs to believe that its strong, that if he lays down and relaxes, his platform is strong enough to hold him up.

[@blueknightcraze6766]

“If it was colors and shapes, the imaginary, instead of all of this weight that we have to carry would you be able to breathe” “He told me, son, if you want to hold on to yourself then let yourself slip” “They invade your mind and then fill it with nonsense these things that a man doesnt need. They take out the passion the love and the hope and they fill it with nothing but greed” ~ Colors and Shapes - Mac Miller “Just give me a sign, just show me something, is it my time? Can I stop runnin? Lost in the night and its so cold, forget the things that we dont know, I made my peace can I go Home?” ~ Yeah - Mac Miller

[@katmac2230]

I swear this could literally be me. My work is not related to streaming at all, but I also don't have many short term deadlines - it's up to me what I do/how I do it. So I end up in the same situation: never really knowing when I've done enough, so I do too much and get tired, so I don't do enough then swing back the other way again and repeat.... Thank you so much - I'm really going to try and apply the things discussed here to my own life.

[@kat-liqueur1120]

"Can you count"

[@Staplegunner]

He is mixing the sound levels for stream

[@alexgillespie4622]

@@Staplegunner or asserting dominance? 👀👀👀

[@elektrotehnik94]

@@alexgillespie4622 Dr. K, a pure Sigma

[@adrinsko2368]

that GG at the end was beautiful 1:53:32

[@Facubot2000]

1:26:51 this is my favourite part!

[@allignn210]

I really relate to Jack's situation and the way he expresses himself. This gives me motivation to get therapy for myself.

[@Kaybye555]

This has been a very relatable talk

[@ff7522]

more interviews! so good

[@eggsontoast]

Wow, this was really good. And the third eye charkra meditation thing was interesting. The spot felt kind of painful, don't know if that means anything. But I do feel different in a positive way afterwards

[@100M20o]

wow I think this is what I need

[@kailinsun6182]

Do you think that this "good at following instructions" thing comes from school? I am also from the UK and I've also been a trainee teacher for a while. The British school system is very much about behaviour management and obedience, and from what I've seen in other countries, this is not the case. The British school system is all about priming kids to follow instructions and put aside critical thinking. Do this and that and do your GCSEs. Do this and do your A-Levels. Everything is about teaching to the exam and not about the actual subject. You constantly get told that the next major exam is the most important thing in your life, but at the same time your critical thinking "knows" that a lot of what the teachers say is nonsense. Do you believe the system, or do you believe your inner voice? Maybe this is where the two voices come from?

[@TheGreektrojan]

To a degree yes. The larger effect is having very structured/regulated things to do as children in general. It creates a level of certainty that most human find intrinsically comforting (one of many reasons childhood is so nostalgic). As an adult, you need to learn how to navigate ambiguity and uncertainty, which are never fully resolved. Its a very different mental dynamic.

[@elektrotehnik94]

To be fair, most schools all around the world almost exclusively teach "factory worker", "follower", "obedient absorber of information" learning approaches, rather than teaching the "leader" approach, which requires "learn how to discern information yourself, through critical thinking" skills & "discover things for yourself" mentality in teaching. Both approaches are necessary; we need to know how to follow AND how to lead, depending on the situations that come our way. At the moment, schools seem to still rely too much on teaching the skills needed for the "follower" part, not spending nearly enough effort to cultivate the skills needed for the "leader" part.

[@weareallbornmad410]

Can you give some examples of "a lot of what the teachers say is nonsense?" I'm not from UK and find this very interesting.

[@jakobr_]

The “What is true” side and the “What should be true” side, you say? Truth and ideals? Dang, Pokemon themes go deeper than I thought. Unironically.

[@alias_peanut]

So much new influence KZbinrs 2021 anyone

[@Brotonik]

The freedom does not equal value of bank account, i disagree. You can go almost anywhere when you're a multi millionaire or billionaire. Don't you need at least 75k just to be happy some studies say?

[@bobroctopus2210]

I'm pretty sure it's actually your happiness growth in correlation to monetary gain plateaus at around 75k a year. that being said, I'd rather be rich and depressed than poor and depressed lmao

[@starius1154]

This one hit me. Reminded me of the Ethan interviews in a way.

[@blackandwhitedream]

Does anyone have more video suggestions on this subject? This 2 mind thing really spoke to me and I want to learn more

[@kamile258]

ooooh that meditation was so good!

[@saralovessonny11]

awesome interview!

[@sandoralik]

I actually did get overrun by a car and severely injured my leg a month before the exams (dont worry, im alright now and I've got all the exams done too)

[@bobroctopus2210]

that's sick, hope you did well

[@Juliana-kz6ld]

this was awesome! may i request an interview with wilbur soot as well?

[@RenneVangr]

Taking care of yourself / Making time for yourself = Being lazy Is such a counterproductive thought that is so common in content creators. So sad.

[@iantaakalla8180]

And the worst part is, given how people do tend to chase after the newest better thing and want more of a great channel/personality accounting for all other tendencies magnified by the fact that any major platform today punishes you for not being able to upload constantly either directly like KZbin or in making yourself indistinct like other platforms, their mindset is justified. This self-destructive mindset is justified and cultivated.

[@9622AvAtAr]

I'm only 8 mins in but I already love this guy!

[@lukzmit3593]

This hit home harder than a wrecking ball.

[@MrAbeh1995]

Love this video

[@debbiekruizinga6515]

I'm halfway into the interview and have to say that I wonder where the tripping up in words comes from. I can't tell whether it is nervousness, thinking faster than he is able to articulate, or just something else.

[@adobongcereal7506]

Right in the middle of their conversation, Jack is been looking away from the camera everytime Dr. K is telling something far-stretch from his real problem. That gave me an indicator on those exact moments, that he did not describe himself completely after the first assessment. It's like he wanted to end the whole conversation because he feels like it can go unsatisfactory for him at the end simply because he did not disclose information completely about himself. Then it surprised me when he confesses that he might be tricking Dr.K to some degree lol. And it made the previous discussions worthless and they get back to square one again.

[@adnuserg]

I don't really see it as getting to square one honestly, it feels more as next level of conversation that they were able to get to only after "finishing" previous one. At the end of the day it helped to understand the problem better, showed how deep the clash between "two Jacks" was.

[@alanwakeup3344]

Dr.K. real voice @24:27

[@ethanalias]

this one hit too hard

[@tarostartic8833]

✨ internal conflict ✨ my long term friend, oh to hear this discussion :] it is joyous to try comprehend and learn

[@raygoodspeed2382]

Yay. He talks like me - same accent!

[@jaketompkins2794]

Jack is me 10 years ago (and me today but older and with creakier knees)

[@SukacitaYeremia]

Such an environment also happen in schools where cheating is rampant, and if you participate in doing it...

[@killervacuum]

Not sure if anyone on the team will read this, but I'd love to see an interview with well-loved Starcraft boomer & e-sports personality Artosis about rage.

[@ayp5177]

35:30 As for me, i do have that thing that i do need to do something but it's fine that i wasted my time a bit. Is that healthy? Just wondering in case you see this haha

[@FizzyPopChan]

can someone explain why that meditation made me cry ? im confused :') i have bpd / adhd btw

[@starburst7681]

1:26:22 way ahead of you, Doc

[@coolcarly25]

Dr. K are you planning more interviews with normal people? I feel like twitch streamers already have a platform and access. I enjoy seeing regular people.

[@c1majesty85]

i missed those talks so much, it doesn't require much attention and you can just put them on in the background to have something to listen to.

[@vedadb1937]

dr k x pyrocynical would be amazing

[@GrayBlood1331]

He needs to listen to the song "vienna" by billy joel.

[@t-rx2921]

DR K did him dirty with that middle finger