Why Can't I Have What I Want?

[@MattandJoyKahn]

How do you handle fear or anxiety when you’re chasing your goals?

[@nycReaching]

I kind of don't. I just exist through it until it happens again. It's uncomfortable and bad but I don't think it's destroying me.

[@honeyvachhani]

I sit with myself and converse in mirror and let my inner voice take over. It shows me how far I have come and that the world needs to hear what I have to say. I am here for a purpose much larger than my fears and worries and then get back and get going ❤❤❤

[@WakingUpWithDragons]

When I have pushed through the fear. The outcome is always so much more beautiful than I was expecting ✨ Thanks for this video. You are a beautiful synergy together 🌹🐉

[@SylviaKleinsmith]

I freeze or I do nothing. I get still, pause. I definitely don't take action. But I'm not into chasing goals much anymore. I'm moving more toward seeing what's already here and appreciating that rather than trying to attain something, at least that's my goal...ha!

[@AurelienCarnoy]

I admit i m scared, anxious. Etc. I listen to if i have any bright ideas that are rooted in peace love etc. I admit i don't know what i don't know. I enjoy not knowing. Then i choose love peace truth and ethics. It will probably not be supported by fearful people. (Or fearful thoughts) i take those who are afraid into my journey like i take my fear along with the ride. I am kind. But those who have suffered and gone through will encourage me. I am learning to be a loving father and husband. 😢 Thank you.

[@IsaiahMolina37]

I’m not even finished watching this video but I just wanted to say you two are a perfect walking example of Unity Consciousness. I’m so honored to witness the greatness you two are reflecting to all! May you be blessed on your continued success, love and wisdom. Namaste 🙏🏽💚

[@MattandJoyKahn]

Thank you for your lovely, heartfelt expression. It's an honor for us to serve and have you as part of our journey. Namaste! 🙏💙

[@aaronm.2718]

You two are so cool and real. I love Matt's hidden little mischievous side that pops out now and then:) Thanks both for all you are, and what you share with the world. Much love always!

[@MattandJoyKahn]

It's truly such an honor for us to serve you. Much love to you as well! 💖💖

[@marugandii]

It's been a while since I last watched you Matt, woaW!!! What an upgrade to the garment you are wearing & the space ... I love your jacket with the sleeves ending a few cm above the shirt, your inner beauty is starting to reflect out in your style... or is the influence or the beauty sitting next to you. She definitely integrated her inner beauty in the style she presents herself and the beauty of the background... Awesome... CONGRATULATION!!! Joy and You are the most beautiful divine couple I know. Infinite Blessings of Love & Joy

[@MattandJoyKahn]

We thank you for your kind words ❤️ Sending so much love!

[@marugandii]

@@MattandJoyKahn ✨💛🙏💛✨

[@globalmaintenance2980]

Three and a half years ago I made a decision to say yes to going forward, once again, toward the fulfillment of a desire, a mission really, that has had a component of great angst associated with it nearly every step of the way. In addition to not being able to choose the route or the people you will serve, you cannot choose the ingredients in the pan. Once I was “deployed” to my assignment, I literally sat alone in this setting for three years coming into a state of acceptance that I had no idea why I was actually there. Nothing I thought of was it. At the three year mark I had a dream. I was on what looked like a completely barren planet with a completely flat, wide open and empty landscape as far as the eye could see. There was only one large industrial type of building with only one or two other people already there. As I surveyed the landscape I heard a voice say, “Congratulations. The good news is, you’ve arrrived. The bad news is that there is nothing here yet. You have to build it.” So now the fulfillment of my mission requires treading a path for which there is no known roadmap…

[@77SongbirdFlyingFree]

Well done! It sounds exciting! I trust you will have a great adventure! 😎❣

[@MattandJoyKahn]

❤️❤️

[@sebastiaopazcosta6684]

Matt & Joy, I recently started watching your videos and I swear, there is not one video that I’ve watched that hasn’t opened something in me… life a shift, massive clarity. And beyond vocabulary, I just feel it opening and making so much sense. Wow, thank you ❤

[@MattandJoyKahn]

That's beautiful to hear. It's truly an honor to serve you. Welcome home 🙏❤

[@PANOP123]

Seeing spiritual leaders evolving continuously. ❤ 🙏

[@MattandJoyKahn]

❤️❤️

[@marilyn3962]

Matt and Joy this video has awakened me at a deep cellular level and I am so grateful! So beautifully expressed I have a burbling of excitement in my Sou!! You two are beautiful together! Exciting to see you in person when it aligns! Many blessings and much love. 💜💜💜

[@MattandJoyKahn]

We're so happy to hear that. It would be an honor to meet you. Blessings and love to you as well! 🙏❤

[@alexsandereastmond7036]

with your teachings and books iam the light the light iam bless you matt and joy

[@ingepeeters647]

Dear Matt and Joy. Thank you 🌈❤️🌈

[@MattandJoyKahn]

You're SO very welcome. Thank you for allowing us to serve you 😍

[@patriciafernald4797]

Ohh Matt and Joy. I started listening to when Matt said It's easy, just love everyone! That is sooo me and finally felt I got permission to love everyone! ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ loves and. My beautiful and the love of my life puppy is named Joyjoy!! Im trying to make this short but I just ĺistened to Joy say how to do thìs and I don't know if she rrealized this or not but she has justt given me a List of what steps to do and what to watch for Omg. For years I have been wanting to do this business It is for me exactly as you guys are saying when I heard Joy start her boiling pot. Everything started coming together. It has always been hard for to concentrate and I just understood Joy and it start to sound like steps, a lst of how to do this!

[@MattandJoyKahn]

Thank you for sharing your experience. It's so beautiful to hear of your blossoming 🙏❤

[@SentientPaws]

Thank you so much for being YOU, Matt and Joy Kahn. My heart sends you love and is grateful for all you offer me and the world ~Danielle

[@MattandJoyKahn]

Thank you for your heartfelt expression of gratitude, Danielle! Much love ❤

[@chrisschwab7696]

What you can't escape is what the soul wants for you. What you want to happen is more likely a ego desire. What you push away is what your body doesn't want to hurt you.

[@juanaguacamaya]

Love the anecdote of being Peter Brady for two full weeks 😂 Thanks for sharing this segment with so much generosity, love to see your love in action M&J!

[@MattandJoyKahn]

Our pleasure to share 💖

[@lbedri60]

I’ll be listening to this a couple more times to get this deeper understanding that has eluded me for so long. I can’t say thank you enough…. Yet all I have is thank you 🙏 ❤

[@MattandJoyKahn]

You're so very welcome 🙏❤️

[@joiciellyoliveira1755]

This was so beautiful!! Thank you Matt and Joy!!! It was really inspiring and gave me so many insights about my own journey ❤ Thank you so much

[@MattandJoyKahn]

Lovely to hear 🙏🏼❤️ It's our honor to serve you!

[@j6homan]

Faced, felt and freed!

[@MattandJoyKahn]

❤️

[@IdontNEEDaFIX]

“ I am alchemizing the things in my body that are helping me experience what’s next. It IS the pathway” 💥

[@MattandJoyKahn]

Yess!! ❤️

[@laurafahey542]

Joy is beautiful so happy for u matt u so deserve this beautiful marriage congrats matt n joy a true blessing

[@WaywardLifeSailing]

Oh that endless dichotomy of life ❤️ thanks for sharing. So on point for these times, like always

[@TiffanySoulbird]

Joy is so wise wow.. Matt I'm so glad you married her. 😍 You both have imparted needed wisdom to me today. My pot is bubbling right now and it's been a struggle but y'all have helped me to make sense of it. Thanks so much.

[@MattandJoyKahn]

❤️❤️

[@vickivanyo7222]

Yes....speaking the truth. I am bubbling up quite intensely ..

[@rebeccashatswell3498]

You are so entertaining!!! Love this!!! Thank you!!! CHEERS ❤

[@MattandJoyKahn]

You're so welcome, Rebecca 🙏🏼❤️

[@worldadventuretravel]

I'd love it if the KZbin channel just stuck to one name and didn't change so frequently... I recommended True Divine Nature all the time, then Matt Kahn, then All for Love, and now nobody will find the channel I've been telling them about.

[@MattandJoyKahn]

Thank you for your recommendations! May we trust that everyone will find exactly what they need in divine timing ❤

[@janetteishiyama144]

So much wisdom, thank you for both your perspectives. Beautiful to see the divine feminine and masculine coexisting in peace and harmony 🙏

[@laurawright1066]

this is such brilliant advice and wisdom, how to navigate. many many thanks!

[@MattandJoyKahn]

You're so welcome ❤

[@sivangriver1204]

Matt you have helped me in some of the darkest confusing days. I found you on youtube and found goodness and clarity. I am really happy to see you in a loving connection, your humanity is glowing as well as your soul. Your joint creation feels honest and grounded. You guys harmonise as if your playing instruments together. Thanks ❤

[@MattandJoyKahn]

Thank you! ❤️

[@JudithWatt-h2x]

Thank you so much I love the way Joy expands what you say Matt, a wonderful duo! Learning so much 💗💗🙏🙏🌈🌈

[@MattandJoyKahn]

Love hearing that, thank you. ❤️

[@jeremyjon]

Love you 2. What a blessing to meet you, Joy, in Chicago on Matt’s book tour before I learned you are a teacher as well.. Now to see you sharing the stage. Love!

[@MattandJoyKahn]

Love back! ❤️

[@jacquelinecassidy8682]

Thank you Matt and Joy. This video came at the perfect time for me, struggling with a decision I made that will come to fruition tomorrow. One that I’ve been so torn about, so doubting of myself bringing fear and anxiety along with every step. Thank you both for the way you both speak, your voices calm, the way you look at one another with such love, and how we too feel that love beam at us along with you. You lifted me up. Put things in perspective. Taught me some things I’ve been on my own journey to learn. Blessings, gratitude and heartfelt love to you both.

[@MattandJoyKahn]

So happy it came at such a perfect time. ❤️

[@RospudaLife]

Thank you, very much.

[@MattandJoyKahn]

You're so welcome! ❤️

[@katyjk6301]

Thank you for the very lovely reminder… was really needing this tonight.

[@MattandJoyKahn]

Grateful it could prove timely for you 🙏 You're very welcome!

[@benjaminverhasselt6933]

This video actually brought so much clarity. I definitely lost sight of the work through the years… “forgetting Matt is a person” - and I had a negative reaction to Joy… (sorry 😢) but this was a great teaching, love you guys ❤

[@MattandJoyKahn]

Thank you for your honesty 🙏 We love you too! 💞

[@angiedamian681]

Love you both. Matt’s my fav comedian/intuitive.

[@georgekobty]

There's a new kind of stability and glow , with you two as a duo. Amazing -G

[@MattandJoyKahn]

🙏💖

[@NaikoArt]

thank you Matt for everything, discovered your work this year and it changed my trajectory forever. the world is getting into the spiritual train right now, i feel like we're at a point of no return.

[@MattandJoyKahn]

It's such an honor to serve you 🙏💓 Undoubtedly so!

[@TheRenalicious]

So good, gah, I love this message and how it's phrased. Another piece of the puzzle and more clarity to work with . Thanks M&J! :D

[@purplerose2244]

.......and I fell in love with Joy and glad she became your partner in this, I enjoy the take on numerology.

[@shanthijevanadam3857]

Dear brother thank you this is just what i needed today.❤

[@MattandJoyKahn]

❤️❤️

[@TheAnonymousBlah]

This blew my mind. I needed this right now. ✨

[@MattandJoyKahn]

💖

[@consciousequus]

Matt. Joy. THANK YOU BOTH for sharing your 'personal journeys' ; something sooo many of us have/are struggling with , regarding 'choices' that are presented to us in this crazy world, & what path to take to create the greatest - spiritual , soul , self & healing- NOT only for ourselves, but for the greater of all of humanity & the planet, moving/evolving forward. Your 'sharing' /'inside intel' , helps me -personally- to follow my 'innate' God given intuition, purpose , gifts, skills, and talents. Blessings to you both ! Truly EMPOWERING ! SO GRATEFUL ! ❤

[@MattandJoyKahn]

Grateful to hear that! Thank you for being here 💝

[@CristinaBurduja-u2l]

This is so beautiful! You are guiding the leaders. Much love. Thank you!

[@MattandJoyKahn]

❤️❤️

[@G.LISA888]

Can't wait to meet you,too,Joy. Love Matt's new look😊with you as his wife.❤LOVE 1:11 on 01/01

[@AurelienCarnoy]

I find his love an inspiration to love, protect and support my wife as she is, where she is. Thank you Matt ❤

[@MattandJoyKahn]

💛

[@catherineannenergy]

Thank you so much for sharing this! It resonated so deeply. Much love & gratitude to you both!

[@MattandJoyKahn]

Our pleasure to share 🙏 💖

[@Crystalflowers1]

Very helpful and inspirational. Thank you very much.

[@MattandJoyKahn]

Glad it was helpful! ❤️

[@staciejean]

😭 SO beautiful! Thank you for this. ❤

[@MattandJoyKahn]

Truly our pleasure to share it with you ❤

[@staciejean]

@MattandJoyKahn 🥰

[@loriingram]

Love the blessed work you are doing together, so helpful and much needed guidance at this time! This is exactly what I needed to hear and understand in regard to moving forward in my life, something I have been struggling with for a few years now. Thank you both! 🙏💝🌎

[@MattandJoyKahn]

It's truly our honor and pleasure to serve you. Thank you for being here ❤

[@micheleblanchard2727]

thank you this made me cry

[@MattandJoyKahn]

You're so welcome, it's our joy to serve you ❤

[@BeeLove369]

That was beautiful. Thank you ❤

[@MattandJoyKahn]

It's truly our honor to serve you 🙏🫶

[@gingersebastian2072]

Epic! So especially helpful as we leave the matrix and create a very different g way of life. Bless you both❤

[@MattandJoyKahn]

Blessings to you as well 🙏💓

[@Johshap]

Thank you Joy! Thank you Matt!

[@MattandJoyKahn]

You're so very welcome! 💟

[@carolynbobyk3514]

I love you guys!! Thank you, I was captivated. :)

[@tessmaem]

Thank you Matt & Joy. Fantastic video.💚

[@MattandJoyKahn]

You're so welcome, thank you as well 🫶

[@sharast.germaine2333]

Thanks again ❤

[@MattandJoyKahn]

❤

[@jovitatani4710]

Thank you❤️❤️❤️

[@barbaragarcia3179]

😊 I am so happy to see you both❤ ALL FOR LOVE MATT & JOY❤ what a blessing THANK U 😊

[@lilmisstlkalot]

Yay! A new long video!

[@MattandJoyKahn]

🙌💖🙏

[@shaktishooter2418]

MIC DROP! Amazing, as all-ways! Thank you for sharing. You two look and are beautiful. Lots of LOVE, Andrea

[@MattandJoyKahn]

💛💛

[@kamomoeng]

Matt makes me wanna cry 😢

[@MattandJoyKahn]

❤

[@robindobson646]

hello Matt and Joy. Thank you very much, a perfect follow up on the last message I recieved within ..Blessings to you both.

[@MattandJoyKahn]

Our pleasure to share this with you! Blessings to you as well 🙏🫶

[@sheilahughes5185]

Thank you to both of you...I have understanding now😊

[@MattandJoyKahn]

Our pleasure! ❤️

[@kathleenmead9259]

thank you

[@MattandJoyKahn]

You're so welcome! 🙏

[@LIGHTWARRIOR4YOU]

Gratitude 🙏🏾

[@MattandJoyKahn]

❤️❤️

[@SamToTheCherry]

Thanks for the meat and potatoes version.... I can't sit through a few hours because my boys are a handful and I can't hear anything over them lol.... I'm glad I found them on the Next Level Soul Podcast. I resonate with them big time.... I'm a character. Developing my skills and intuition... I don't want accolades just to see love and togetherness blossom. To feel together and not hide who we are to each other. I have so much to say but one question.... I'm a single mom and my aches and pains/ forgetting to drink water I'm so busy... Not sleeping enough..... How do we stay energized and still take care of our priorities when we know we don't have the help at the moment? My intuition subsided recently.... And I'm really tired but still have a lot to do... I don't know how to fix this or how anyone else deals with being run down and how to recoup. It's been a big obstacle for a long time.

[@MattandJoyKahn]

Making yourself a priority while being a parent is so often overlooked, but it is essential. The to do lists can be endless and more and more often gets added onto them, but let us not get caught up and overlook the fountain from which we give and perform. Maybe you can set aside even a small bit of time each day for yourself, perhaps even while your children are awake. Not sure how old your children are, but it helps to communicate to them the need for some time and space for ourselves.. a sort of establishing of healthy boundaries. There's nothing to fix, and your journey will naturally ebb and flow in its stages, preparing you for what's next. Blessings 🙏🫶

[@SamToTheCherry]

@MattandJoyKahn We definitely have been working on that! We just moved to Asheville, NC so the journey has been a bit challenging but rewarding. I know once the routine is set things will most likely take off. I'm so excited for the art and culture of spirituality the area will bring to our lives. Loving people. Help your neighbor people. Just like you two! We are thrilled to have your blessing. Sending them your way too. Love and light to all xoxo

[@Goldenguy84]

You confirmed so much for me.. I've recently been given the idea for a show which ironically, will have a similar situation like crossing over involved in it..❤❤❤

[@gaozongyang2455]

This !! I needed to hear all of this while also falling asleep and waking back up to this ❤❤🎉 It’s something I have been seeing for myself and with myself And to hear you both say this is comforting and soothing I really love the share that we don’t have to be healed to go for something I love this shared part SOOO GOOD And about the routes and what kind of value would we get based on what is available. I would love to hear more about this . And I’ll be exploring this myself with myself .

[@MattandJoyKahn]

🙏🙌🫶💖

[@innerauthority]

This is SO RELEVANT! I LOVE YOU GUYS! ❤

[@MattandJoyKahn]

Thank you! ❤️

[@purplerose2244]

You guys look fantastic...............

[@naturewithin9]

Sooo Grateful for your Guidance & Connections~Blessings to You Both & ALL🙌🪶💃🏼🕺🏾👨‍👩‍👧‍👦✌️💞

[@MattandJoyKahn]

🙏💖🙌

[@danielazeilinger3722]

Thank you both, this is precisely what I needed to hear and learn. So I can implement it in my life and then teach others too. 🙏👌✨❤️ Thank you for your work, you are highly appreciated. ☺️🙏❤️

[@MattandJoyKahn]

You're so very welcome. Thank you for your service 🙏🫶

[@tallyh6992]

This came at the perfect time for me. Thank you!

[@MattandJoyKahn]

Divine perfection 🙏

[@MattandJoyKahn]

Happy to hear! ❤️

[@alinaphoenix2176]

I love that you wanted to mix Crossing Over and Mindfreak! ❤ that's amazing and I feel accurate to what you've put out there in this world. 🌎 You're awesome 😊

[@MattandJoyKahn]

🙏🫶

[@nmen]

I so identified with you and Joy on the discussion of allowing the universe to guide you (my words but your meaning). I went through several life expanding journeys and was thankful for all, even if they were not comfortable while learning from the experience. I am about to have my 75th Bday and I am still talking to myself to measure how much I want to do the thing(s) I say to myself. I then wait to see if the Universe will bring me an opportunity to decide if I want to proceed or say that was not where my values mesh with the opportunity. I then wonder if I am getting senile should I stop pressing the button for opportunities, should I just relax and say I'm done, Take me to your side Lord. I have said to anyone who listens, I want to live to140 yrs of age. I believe I can. What can you tell me about that.

[@MattandJoyKahn]

Sending blessings to your mind, body and Soul 🙏🫶

[@starprice7389]

Magic ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉

[@adrianwalks]

Suit looks sharp!

[@lauramolecavage]

that was beautiful ty do you have more of this video on this topic a recording would like to listen to it

[@MattandJoyKahn]

yes, more coming!

[@SylviaKleinsmith]

So good. And for a touch of synchronicity, as I was listening I was in the process of reducing chicken stock. 😊

[@MattandJoyKahn]

😍🙌

[@IndigoPQ]

"Change your values, or change your idea", which you both said in your own words. 💜 Incredibly meaningful, and helpful. ty. Along with what you shared is the idea of the quantum, the mystery, the unknown, the miracle, the infinite potential. A feeling of making choices, while paradoxically, surrendering it to "something greater". Is it our will, or "God's" will? A koan in essence. "Isn't life grand?" 😏😌🙏🩷🌌✨

[@supersizegud]

Oh yes it is a barrier! 😂 If you try to show people that they are what they are looking for 😊

[@KrystalStar-x1t]

I'm so thrilled to see the Joy of your life right next to you. She's absolutely a Gorgeous Goddess. I pretty much intend to watch you everyday for now. As I develope a stronger spiritual foundation. I love Who You Are. Krystal Star ⭐

[@MattandJoyKahn]

Thank you so much. 🥰

[@dipper888bp]

been following matt for 12 years, never heard the acting story. Look nothing like peter brady though. 🤔 people on coke are not calm, they’re the opposite of calm. The relationship Matt is quite different than the single Matt….

[@OmegaSpin144]

Fraud! Hollywood exposing themselves. All comes to light!

[@carolynbobyk3514]

I have a question for both of you. I have had many, many jobs that I have been let go from, the most recent one I was let go 2 weeks ago after only 3 weeks. In the phone interview, she told me it was a "back end" job which I KNOW I don't like doing.. I like being in a front end role... however instead of saying thanks but no thanks - this does not seem like a job I would like..... I said nothing, I went to the job interview in person and was asked what do I know about purchasing.... I said zero... they hired me anyway and fired me 3 weeks later. HELP. This has happened literally dozens of times and I only have a certain amount of EI payment left. What am I doing wrong???? Matt- I have met you once year sago in the Seattle area at one of the functions you held, you are such a down to earth person. I trust your wisdom. Joy, I have never met you - however you seem the same as Matt. PLEASE tell me what am a NOT getting?

[@MattandJoyKahn]

What if you've never done anything wrong, and everything you do is right? We're never being rejected, but are always being guided, at times in the form of redirection. May you be blessed to trust the process of your unfolding as never before 🙏💖

[@carolynbobyk3514]

@@MattandJoyKahn - Thank you both for your response to my question with the answer being so wise and what I needed to hear. Thank you and wow :)

[@DalpremKaur-VirginiaSilvan]

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[@MattandJoyKahn]

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[@taylorjanegreen1]

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[@MaryL1144]

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[@Ktweeties]

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[@SylviaKleinsmith]

Thanks. Just listened to it again. So much that's in there applies to the last few days.

[@mannie2075]

Doing songs from your heart 💜 So very very beautiful message and video 💜♊️🇸🇪🌏🦋⚜️💥☀️♥️🌹❤️🙏✨👌

[@MattandJoyKahn]

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[@brandibarnes9484]

HM, financial advisor now.....look in the books

[@PerformanceHealer]

🎶🥰😁🤗💝🙏💜🤗😁🥰🎶

[@Jade.123]

Judge mental 😂😂😂I’m pretty sure that role had a long line, no worries

[@MattandJoyKahn]

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[@starprice7389]

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[@MattandJoyKahn]

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[@loreleimiceli5183]

That was so deeply moving that I had to write it down. Here you found another person that your message has delivered exactly what I needed to hear. I will thank you through the work that I do, and trust you will be the publisher when it is ready. 🙏🫶 love and light

[@MattandJoyKahn]

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[@IdontNEEDaFIX]

@@MattandJoyKahn🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉❤❤❤❤❤❤❤💋🍷🙌