WHY CHRISTIAN WAS GIVEN THE BOOT FIRST BY THE LADIES | READY TO LOVE S4 EP2

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[@missbell1634]

Christian is just a sweet man some woman will appreciate the type of man he is💖

[@esilverline]

The man is a model. Clearly he is confident. However, I think he is socially awkward in a large crowd of complete strangers. Most people are. That is why socially awkward people don’t do well in dating competition shows. These women have yet to figure out that the aggressive man is not necessarily the good man.

[@ladyofspa]

Models and confidence dont equal always. But I can see how most think so. Some of the most attractive people dont believe in themselves. Hell ugly people have confidence look to celebrities. Hes unsure and it shows.

[@angeleyes3386]

@@ladyofspa Very true.

[@angeleyes3386]

To give the women some credit, These women asked for assertiveness not aggressiveness.

[@ladyzinada5341]

They aggressive enough to keep 15 women at one time. Women are the one's aggressive

[@kelsb303]

I agree

[@busridingchick1063]

Christian, is that guy, who treats you well, picks up your fave food from a soul food spot, grabs your dry cleaning, takes your kids/grandkids to Chick-fil-a and turn on Love You Down, when it’s adult time.

[@maralinautube]

That's a whole part... that's a whole vibe right there!!! That will have me feeling some type of way! 😍🥰

[@bd3825]

So basically he is the help and he loves fast food? Interesting.

[@De_Sava]

@@bd3825 no he's considered and old skool. His woman will take care of him as well.

[@tamarastone141]

@@bd3825 very much beta male

[@msjgs07]

Hardest working man on KZbin. Thank you for the multiple videos! Much appreciated!

[@LittleBlackBook91]

Not a problem we got a few more coming

[@moniquesmith372]

@@LittleBlackBook91 ur detailed explanations my man...spot on...💖

[@aprillipscomb991]

I really liked Christian! His conversation, mannerisms, and his looks🥰 HE had the IT factor for me!!!

[@Lodeenie]

Same here. What LBB describes here is a player vs a nice guy. You would think these ladies would be tired of being fooled by swag and bravado. Smh

[@consciousanfesiashapsnikof8688]

For me too. He's going to make someone a great husband.

[@zoraxye4325]

I liked his deep, rich complexion and gentle demeanour but he is instantly forgettable amongst the other male contestants.

[@queenofthesouth4205]

Christian is a a real gentlemen (introvert) !!!......too many of these extroverts are habitual cheaters and always want to be the center of attention.

[@MsJani70]

I’m tired of the women on this show. They always send home the introverted men who could make great partners. Just because a man is an introvert, doesn’t mean he lacks confidence or assertiveness.

[@zoraxye4325]

Maybe so but in a competition (which #ReadyToLove is) introverted participants will never be given an opportunity to showcase their other attributes.

[@Teachingtea]

Exactly!! They haven't learned yet smh but they kept Troy who is FULL of it.

[@MrsBlack8998]

These women in their thirties and forties still focusing on "swag" over character... 🙄

[@FromMikaWithLove]

@@MrsBlack8998 that part!!! A hot mess

[@rforresterbrown]

💯💯 I'm married to one and can attest that.

[@sweetiewithlove]

If I was to go on a show like this, I would pick contrary to what I’ve always picked because the men I picked before is part of the reason I was single.

[@professorxaviour3649]

Are you susceptible to peer pressure and group think?

[@consciousanfesiashapsnikof8688]

Exactly! This show is for entertainment purposes ONLY. Christian is an ideal mate. He's educated, gainfully employed, never married, and zero baby mothers under his belt.

[@consciousanfesiashapsnikof8688]

@@Naija4K What are you really stating is that only younger women should be on the show with older seasoned men, who mostly have played themselves out. The show is entertainment that's all. Tommy shouldn't be the host simply because he's been married for over 20 years. Relationship experts with professional degrees need to be on the show to help people with decisions.

[@consciousanfesiashapsnikof8688]

@@Naija4K = So, them old men on the show with several marriages, a host of baby mothers, and grandchildren qualify to date younger women because....(LMBO and SMH). I'll wait for the answer. Some of those women have never been married, and some are childless. They qualify according to the Bible. Who wants a playout old or young man?

[@consciousanfesiashapsnikof8688]

@@Naija4K - The majority of women on the show could be on a magazine cover, and two of those women are attorneys. Your statement is just like jackass fool Chris from MAFS. People must be beautiful inside and out.

[@vonchris7515]

Christian is more introverted than the other men. In which, can be a turn-on to some women. Not all women like extroverted/ assertive men.

[@aran08504]

I thought Chrisitian was a sweet and kind guy yeah but that environment was not the best for him. you have to be super confident and know how to deal with rejection, opinions, and competition.

[@Lodeenie]

Agreed. It's clearly become about the conflicts between super alpha females and men. This is why they say women don't really want a nice guy.

[@eleksienoir1576]

I think there is something people don't get about socially awkward people. When they get comfortable they can be really goofy and assertive. Truth is not everyone is just over confident around strangers. Personalities differ. Maybe he is an introvert.

[@ym-vl5ck]

Absolutely 💯

[@sadasofly]

I can see that too. I think people confuse introverted and confidence

[@kelsb303]

Christian seems like a nice guy so hope he finds someone deserving

[@leannewheeler5351]

I hope having been on the show and having had brief but positive exposure, will bring a wonderful woman his way. It happened in season 1 with the woman who wore a lot of makeup and always introduced herself as a doctor. She has a less than positive experience on the show but at the reunion ep. she had a fiancé.

[@wizzysloungetitaure]

Christian is that type of man that will truly give love when he finds someone that can give him the love he seeks. Why should every man be expected to be assertive? Sometimes its charming to see a man that is not to aggressive in approach.

[@legalmemories]

Kicking off Christian by confusing “strong” with “cocky and arrogant” made me see why some of these sisters will continue to not find love. Plus kicking off Christian and the teacher showed a bias against working class and less lucrative careers that is also not a great look for the ladies

[@pinksilkdurag]

There’s nothing wrong with women wanting to be with men that could provide and have lucrative careers. Everyone has their preference

[@zheahra]

No. Kyra was out of pocket and out of bounds with that snake move. It was not her place to advise or counsel anyone on the show. She placed him in an awkward position and interrogated him. Christian was minding his own business. If the man isn't the man for you, then leave him alone. There was no need to call him out in front of the other ladies. I don't care what she thought the consensus was during that time. I would have more respect for her so-called efforts to help him had she pulled him to the side. I see why she had to pay for her own drink(s).

[@hoyatay2004]

I noticed it too.. didn’t like that from the ladies

[@FromMikaWithLove]

Yessssssss!!!!

[@angeleyes3386]

Yes it was a snake move. People with that kind of heart: act in goodwill but have a darker intent in their heart for that action will always get played in the end.

[@uoeno4817]

Did y'all also notice that when he offered to go get Kyra a drink, she left him. That was cold.

[@neneleach22]

I loved Christian I would have totally given him a chance if I was on the show and not married already! 😂

[@Rhenadhis]

Christian gives out the committed, patient, sweet and caring type vibes. He is what I call a quiet force; one can only feel his force/energy once you get to know him but as usual, the ladies always manage to eliminate this type early on. This kind of show is not for introverts like him

[@ARay8715]

I thought he was handsome and sweet. I’m not a fan of an aggressive man which I felt most the others were.

[@phdgirl2016]

I feel the same - I hate that this show is, in a way, sending this message that women only like aggressive men. Confidence, being self-assure, is key - but aggression, not quite.

[@marleemall]

He seems sweet and easy to chill with.

[@LifeofBoj]

This episode was all about first interactions in a competitive environment with 10 beautiful women. The handsome confident and assertive (not aggressive) men will always shine brighter in that environment.

[@LifeofBoj]

@Self love Heals reflects a competitive dating environment in the real world.

[@LifeofBoj]

@Self love Heals it is but in the real world you don’t get to see what each other is doing people are dating multiple people but you just don’t get to see it.

[@ena__we4205]

Christian is going to find a woman that appreciates his nuances.

[@MrsBlack8998]

Hopefully a Black woman

[@originaldaughterofabyayala6678]

Do you no his socials?

[@simbabs5049]

I see myself in Christian. He is not shy just socially awkward, I can relate. If only he had more time. But yeah this competition was not for him. Wow, he seems like a nice guy.

[@letstalk8219]

Tressa did herself a disservice by her attire. I thought that was unnecessary of her to point that out to Christian. Men will regularly introduce themselves more formal to a woman than to the guys. The only reason she's not going home is because no one wants to be accused of getting rid of the fat one. Y'all can say thick to be political.

[@GAshoneybear]

She'll go home because she gives off homeboy vibes like Dani did last season.

[@ACSaaang]

Agreed. Completely unnecessary.

[@angeleyes3386]

It was unnecessary; she wanted to know what he wanted to be called but it was jarring and she should have done it differently

[@tanbutterfly8282]

No lies told

[@exquisite921]

Agreed!

[@jennajamez1967]

Yeah this environment was not well suited for Christian and I don't say this alot if at all but I think he would have been better suited for MAFS actually

[@ihave2ques902]

He would be perfect for that show!

[@letstalk8219]

Christian didn't come across lustful or arrogant and that's what these women are misunderstanding. Smh.

[@tonyswifey7976]

I thought he was sweet and a nice catch. Shameful 😃😃. My husband is very meek and gentle but is a giant in the world of his buisness.

[@glorybetoGod3712]

But is your husband confident? You can be mild mannered but still assertive. I think he lacks confidence and that's not attractive, even when you're cute.

[@tonyswifey7976]

@@glorybetoGod3712 being one of two black Buisness owners in his world he has to be assertive when need be. Woman and men alike should give people a chance.

[@ladyzinada5341]

The kind o want

[@jackeeB]

Tressa didn't need to embarrass that man like that. 🤦🏿‍♀️She reminds me of Della Reese from Harlem Nights. I don't see her getting far with all that masculine energy.

[@inmytravelstoday]

Tressa was unnecessarily aggressive with Christian. She’s acting like a momma correcting a child.

[@sweetsadi27]

She just wanted clarity. Why is that embarrassing if he said it.

[@ashleychamon6446]

I don’t see how that’s embarrassing, he is just shy, and lack a little bit of confidence. I literally always ask people what they prefer to be called.

[@zoraxye4325]

Christian had every right to excuse himself from the conversation but he didn't. He sat there like a lemon and allowed himself to be grilled by STRANGERS. Nah son

[@glorybetoGod3712]

Exactly!! People in the comment always like to front like if they were in that same situation, they would give Christian time of the day. We are just rooting for him cause he was cute and an underdog but realistically, in a setting like this, if you don't do good in a group setting or public grilling, take one of the ladies to the side or excuse yourself.

[@yobiwolrd07]

Something tells me that NONE of the couples who end up together will STAY Together. Much like season 3 Last Resort

[@consciousanfesiashapsnikof8688]

Tommy's Clownish Show is for entertainment.

[@lovelylight444]

I thought the same

[@droosyg252]

All of the seasons

[@LolaSemone]

None of them will.

[@linzslove1]

This "confidence" is overrated, as there are plenty of men and women who are good at playing confident and full of insecurity😒 plus one of the ladies said he needed more assertiveness and the other aggressiveness. This maybe an example demonstrating they don't know the difference.

[@dahliaherrod4301]

You made a great point about assertiveness vs. Aggressiveness. There is a very clear difference and a lot of people-not just women-really don't know the difference. In my opinion assertiveness is having self-confidence and making sure other people respect your boundaries. Aggressiveness is disrespecting other people's boundaries.

[@linzslove1]

@@dahliaherrod4301 on point!

[@ladyofspa]

One wanted aggressive the other assertive. No conflict... he was neither

[@angeleyes3386]

Many don’t.

[@DaLane4real]

That part! Keep watching this show just like the past shows you discover some of them is not who and what they portray.

[@VanAddae]

What I cant understand is these women have been single for years, the reason you're here is cos what you've been doing ain't working. Yet you come here and base everything on looks, height and swag. Will swag take care of you? When will people not just stick to what they see and give things a chance?

[@sweetsadi27]

They're not there to pull personality out of people. There's a short time to make connections.

[@mi834]

I'd bet my next salary that if Christian were a CEO they wouldn't let him go so easily. Most of them wouldn't admit it but most women want a man for financial security. Most of them are probably making a lot more than he is amd they won't like that in the long term.

[@ladyofspa]

I sense it's more about the power and edginess of ones position. A stable government job is a qualifier. But a DJ or record producer is sexy, sounds appealing but the record producer couldn't pay for a date as shown. 2 gents on rtl make less then the postal worker, but have more prestigious sounding jobs, and more swag.Gotta get honest and realize sometimes it is what sounds cool over what's actually stable.

[@manestreambeauty]

@Little Black Book 91 Kojo, I think Christian's introduction to Tressa and Dedrick might be for another reason: He usually goes by Chris but production directed him to go by his full name to avoid confusion with Kris (KG) . Chrisantheium also goes by Chris because most people struggle with her name. 3 people with the same name on one show isn't ideal.

[@03lisajade]

Good point!!

[@CJ-kq8je]

So why didn’t he go wit Christian to the guy 🤷🏽‍♂️🤷🏽‍♂️

[@queeniearthur7439]

@@CJ-kq8je Because he is used to going by Chris! He can't switch to Christian just like that. it'll take some time.

[@jwil7954]

@@queeniearthur7439 Exactly! I used to have the same experience with my name in formal vs. an informal setting.

[@TishaPisha]

Christian is "Say Blk" from the Waxaholics. He is close to a very popular DJ in Houston. I've frequented some spots and events that they host and he's always been very kind and timid! He's such a sweetheart, seriously.

[@originaldaughterofabyayala6678]

Do you have any of his socials? He’s too handsome and seems like an interesting person to be around.

[@NatashaLogan]

Big facts - he was represented wrong

[@afiamanuwats]

Women, we are so contrdictory with what we want. We want a sweet and caring man but then when we get that we throw them to the wayside for a man who is aggressive/assertive, which are also typically the ones that are not caring or sweet XD

[@zoraxye4325]

We are a barrel of contradictions!

[@MrsBlack8998]

The men that the women on the show like will have them crying - as we saw in the previews.. they should know better by now than to get caught up on the superficial stuff...

[@cammiosis]

No my man is both .. he will rub me down and feed me no matter what kind of day he’s having. He will also get real rude about me. Get you an assertive man and let him know you want to be pampered. I find it comes natural to Aries & Scorpio Men. The men who struggle with this the most are Cancer & Libra men. Just my opinion.

[@glorybetoGod3712]

Men say they want a loving, nurturing and loving woman but will not give a good woman a chance if she doesn't look "bad". People need to quick chastising women for being attracted what they are biologically meant to be attracted to. "Good" guys need to step their game up. He was meek and mannered and that doesn't work in a show like this. He would be great to match with on Tinder or would have been better for. show like Love is Blind or Married at First Sight. Sorry!

[@MrsBlack8998]

@@glorybetoGod3712 My motivation for criticizing women for focusing on the outward is because I want every sister who wants someone to have someone but that's not the reality because you have 80% of women wanting 10-20 percent of a certain type of man which means a whole lot of some bodies are going to be left out while overlooking guys who maybe would treat them right. I keep seeing this happen over and over again. I have no dog in this hunt, I have been happily married going on 27 years. People can do what they want. I believe a change in mindset can benefit sisters. Men aren't having problems finding decent women, it's the other way around but to each their own. 🤷🏿

[@sadasofly]

Chris doesn’t seem to lack confidence he seems to be introverted but people commonly confuse the two

[@originaldaughterofabyayala6678]

Facts

[@vickilester9779]

Christian wasn't the first guy eliminated, Khalil's goofy behind was the first... 😂

[@DeeDiamond2981]

The teacher..lol

[@vickilester9779]

@@DeeDiamond2981 Exactly...🤭🙄

[@DeeDiamond2981]

@@vickilester9779 didn't he tell the women something weird?

[@angeldavis6947]

This show’s stats for lasting successful relationships is a strong 00000.000%! We’ve had 3 whole seasons and still no LOVE from Ready to Love💔.

[@helloooo7703]

There's one couple still currently dating...Reva and Mario from season 2.

[@droosyg252]

@@helloooo7703, but they didn’t get together until after. I think there’s another couple from that season who became engaged/got married. Each was eliminated earlier on.

[@armyvetgrl2731]

@@droosyg252 that couple didn’t get married and broke up who was engaged! 🙄

[@manestreambeauty]

Christian is the Kris of season 4. Lowkey he is the Steve Urkle to KG's Stefan Urquelle do-over redemption arc that they are trying to create this season. This show needs to stop casting the same archetypes over and over again.

[@professorxaviour3649]

That’s not the work, they are going to have to have rigid rules to prevent the high school peer pressure(group think) activities!

[@andrejohnson1703]

I disagree comparing this guy to weak ass Kris..

[@joyous1011]

🤣🤣 Steve Erkel

[@curls4theworld]

I felt so bad for how they did Christian! I liked him!

[@angeldavis6947]

I’m flabbergasted about UncleTommy being with his wife for 30years but just married her 4years ago. How is he giving any advice to the black community? Make it make sense 😫.

[@leannewheeler5351]

Wow for real? where they friends to lovers or they were romantic the whole time?

[@GAshoneybear]

Christian reminds me of a friend of mine. My friend doesn't do well with pressure and comes off as awkward in crowds, but does have a natural charm and genuine nature about him. Christian just needs an alpha female.

[@lorealjane9192]

They were about 9 alpha females there in the mixer

[@D.A.Y.O]

@@lorealjane9192 😂

[@taylorduvernay9789]

@@lorealjane9192 which 1 out of the 10 is not an alpha female 😂😂😂

[@droosyg252]

@@taylorduvernay9789, Andrea 😁

[@taylorduvernay9789]

@@droosyg252 true 😀

[@nandileqwabe1315]

On point!🔥🔥🔥 To a certain extent, I thought that perhaps the manner in which he was raised or previous experiences he went through had an impact on his confidence. 💔 I thought I was the only one who disagreed with the way one of the ladies called him over, twas quite *disrespectful.* 😕

[@ladyofspa]

Agree he didnt ask for help or ideas or suggestions. I dont think any of these women have roomTo offer unsolicited advice.

[@shadex3736]

I can relate to Chris...he's an introvert just like me. And let me break down what's going on with him. He was nervous cause he's in a new unfamiliar environment. He had to adjust to it before feeling more comfortable mingling with people...its the same way as me...I am usually quiet at first because I'm analyzing and processing the environment to adapt but as time goes on I get comfortable mingling naturally. I know Kyra was trying to help him, but she didn't. She may have noticed Chris's nervousness...instead of her trying to help him feel comfortable..you know just having a conversation to relax him instead she is telling him what he's doing wrong and need to be fixed. So as an introvert, he became self-conscious and became more awkward(obviously). I have seen this happen..when people give criticism to introverts, they start trying to force something they are not instead of learning and improving naturally..it becomes awkward. Introvert ladies can get away from being nervous or awkward but men are not given the same chance. Most women specifically black women tend to ignore the good introvert guy because his first presentation may come off as not confident or awkward...not giving him a chance to be comfortable and show his real character. From my dating experiences, I have realized BW have higher expectation from BM compared to non-Black women...example approaching them, holding a conversation and yes they will BS test you. And you have to handle yourself well or else they will eat you up. From my experiences, it's easier to holla at non-black women than BW... Black women usually expect a black man to be superman having the swag, smooth, confident, no mistakes or errors..but those traits are what some guys who are players tend to have that they are attracted to, which is not good for them...only when they got older that's when they realized it.

[@Eman14128]

You said it perfectly

[@uoeno4817]

@@peacheskong2245 I agree not all black women act this way. Kyra did not handle this very well. If Christian wasn't your type, why bother calling him over. I am an introvert myself, Christian didn't deserve that.

[@damonte985]

Well said.

[@ladyzinada5341]

On point.

[@taylorduvernay9789]

I love how you simplify things, I appreciate how you explained that boundary testing thing and its true.

[@queenknyoki5447]

You just locked down the whole situation 🔥🔥🔥You popped up randomly on my feed. Liked👍🏾and💥 you have yourself a new subscriber

[@LittleBlackBook91]

Thank u manne much love for that

[@healingfrominsideout3282]

I can’t believe they kick Christian off but left the. Playa! These women have their pickers off. He may have been a bit shy but a good man is a good man.

[@MrsBlack8998]

They do it every time. Previews show women crying over the Playa...

[@uoeno4817]

I feel like when they have the reunion, they'll realize that they missed out on a good one.

[@olugbenga8422]

Love your videos! But didn't he say 'I want to love a woman the way I always wanted my mum to be loved' not 'I want to love a woman the way my mum always wanted to be loved' - would this change the way you explained his approach?

[@Kollii111]

This. two totally different phrases and meanings

[@eggshell99]

Yes it does. He said it the way you heard and I thought that was very sweet of him.

[@Anita-tl7hn]

Yes, Christian said it the way you heard it Olu Gbenga

[@LifeofBoj]

This show just isn’t for him, not everyone can hang in a competitive dating environment, where you have to be quick to the prey. I do wonder if maybe his confidence has been knocked due to his more recent sobriety path. Anyway fellas find you’re lane and you’ll be fine.

[@Amber_AB_Boyd]

This sounds good, but he is very confident the portrayal of him on the show is inaccurate.

[@LifeofBoj]

@@Amber_AB_Boyd Yes he maybe confident in real life (don’t know him so...) but on this show, in this environment he wasn’t able compete and show his confidence. The ladies picked that up and that tells you all you need to know.

[@Amber_AB_Boyd]

Exactly, I do know him and have for over 20 years... that’s a fair assessment as a viewer.

[@LifeofBoj]

@@Amber_AB_Boyd understood

[@ladyofspa]

Stay In your lane!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[@mrscheek7611]

Good display of why many women fail to find the one. They rush to judgment and many times value the wrong things. This show reinforces the very reason these people are not finding love. You have to get to know people.

[@MrsBlack8998]

These women are of the age they should know better... but they don't.

[@ladyofspa]

Christian ....Hes a sweetie, the alpha pitch today is so overrated. But having confidence and comfortable in ones skin is a must, and he has to know who he is unapologeticly. My Rx is a ultra ladylike, passive woman. Someone that can fall back and appreciate what he has to give. Those cougars would eat that baby deer alive.😂

[@rforresterbrown]

Christian reminds me of my husband when we first met quiet and seemingly meek until you get to know him. Not all men wear their strength loudly and that is sexy. This type of environment is not good for every type of man or women. Hard to watch.

[@pamwiththebadhair5118]

Kojo, you are making my experiences make sense. Thank you.

[@LittleBlackBook91]

oooooooooo wow, mad i love these type of comments

[@corlisssmith6801]

Wow! I have one thing to say to those thirsty women. Clean up your own back yard. You say you want a good hard working man, well Ya just sent him home!

[@taylorduvernay9789]

I dated a guy with Chris's personality. I liked that he was sweet, patient, intelligent and his quietness. He was different from what I normally go for. But we didn't last for long.

[@i.mkwanazi8090]

I’m ready to talk about Troy whenever you are

[@Teachingtea]

Chilllllleeee!

[@FromMikaWithLove]

Let’s talk about it!!!! Bc listen!!!!!!!!

[@akuaamoako-tuffour8128]

Can we puh-lease

[@gossipchoppedandsrewed7410]

Kojo 🙌🏾 “Big Ups”as you would say. The commercials are serious. You might make me buy a KZbin subscription 😂

[@professorxaviour3649]

Exactly why so many commercials

[@gossipchoppedandsrewed7410]

I understand the economics of commercials... just happy for you

I don't even know nor watch this show but I love the way your breaking that down ^^liked and shared ^^

[@curt349]

The best of luck to him. He was a sweet, great guy. This is 1 reason I don't like these elimination shows at times

[@876me7]

They do this on the first episode of every season. It's tired at this point.

[@The-Mediator]

Why do these women dismiss the humble men? I don’t get it. There are many humble men who are are superior leaders, providers, and businessmen. But I guess they’d rather lay with an alpha male in a tight suit who’s cards decline or who have mistresses while married or who buys their ex a car. And women wonder why some of our good men jump ship to swirl.

[@Mya_water]

I hear what you are saying I prefer a humble guys. But he wasn't just humble but moreso simple. Not much depth in my opinion.

[@NODE1975]

Those men that you're describing jump to the swirl too so that's not it

[@The-Mediator]

@@Mya_water Everyone doesn’t break the ice at the exact same moment. Some people warm up a little later than others. At least give the cast a couple of days and a few drinks to loosen up and get comfortable with each other before eliminating them. This made-for-tv confidence is extremely fake. This show is a player environment only.

[@professorxaviour3649]

@@The-Mediator You said a mouthful. The behavior on this show is disrespectful to black love! The childish group think mentality leads to nothing but failure. No couples will connect at this rate!

[@Mya_water]

@@The-Mediator I agree with you. There should be a few days to warm up. But I would be hard pressed to believe there would be more depth from him. He is sweet and lovely but that isn't enough for a lot women.

[@DailyVenusDivaTV]

Tressa is a comedian. Calling people out is apart of her job. Plus she's probably quick witted so it's difficult to turn it off. Similar to how Kyra tried to put him on game. Tressa and Kyra were trying to give him a lifeline.

[@CJ-kq8je]

Nah kyra put him under the spot lights, called him over like some little boy, not a gd look🤷🏽‍♂️

[@missis4048]

@@CJ-kq8je I thought that as well. I didn’t like the way Kyra called him and especially in front of other women.

[@ronelleroberts636]

You could tell once given some time he would have come out of his shell magnificently 🤦🏾‍♀️

[@leogirl8990]

This breakdown was hilarious! I’m sorry

[@Antilles86.]

I just found your channel. I was not ready for the Bible study!

[@leecosey7003]

Trust and believe these women on this show is nothing to brag about. I seen better-looking women on the street

[@tiffanyhughes2026]

If a man loves his mom, he will love you right. Christian was good on me ...we don't know him well enough for all this analysis...lol

[@angeleyes3386]

You kept it 100% real. I can be like that at times.

[@kgonzalez8098]

I got unsubscribed from you. Thought you stopped making vids?! So happy to see you on season 2 of RTL!!

[@eleksienoir1576]

That explanation on confidence was really dope Kojo. Thanks😊

[@chriswale4793]

You missed that clip where Christian was talking to Andrea(Air Hostess), that awkward silence was mad, frequency of the body language low.

[@thickbrownlegs1859]

Yet again a great guy was passed over. I’m over this show sorry to say.

[@nitro11294]

You have the minerals baaaby

[@joiperkins7243]

Im sorry having your moisturized ankles noticed and complemented on is a Madly Weird complement. That would had most laughing

[@GoddessY1968]

Christian was ill prepared to be on this show. This is a dating show on national TV. Therefore it's competitive. Compete or stay home.

[@herlittledove]

My mother earned more than my father. But I think it is important to see a men being able to pay his own bills. I am not supposed to be his mother but wife. He is supposed to be my husband not father.

[@sherilwray5559]

He looks terrified 😲😲 this is so disappointing!!!

[@ladyofspa]

🦌🦌🦌deer in headlight😳

[@luvsupreme]

I completely agree with your assessment. Speaking for myself, I absolutely test men. And I would haved picked up on Christian's energy as lacking confidence. This would have put me off because I would have seen him as needy or hypersensitive. No disrespect to him but I would see him as escaping any difficult situations. 🤷🏾‍♀️

[@kristofferwash1]

Black is that dude, he runs Houston, 75 percent of the women in that city would jump in front of a bus to get on ( Literally)... These some birds, he ain't gotta be thirsty.. That's my bro... This show is beneath him..

[@The-Mediator]

I’m so sick of people referring to black people as chocolate.

[@liliwms508]

Right?!😒🤦🏽‍♀️

[@ihave2ques902]

I agree, it’s overused and juvenile

[@shavychic685]

Girl!!! So sick of it! Thought I was the only one. 🙄

[@angeleyes3386]

I never liked that. Even when I was in high school, called redbone. Just felt fetishy in a sense.

[@punkinpunkin6524]

IKR! It’s tired!

[@n.bloomberg3028]

THANKS AGAIN KO FOR THE KNOWLEDGE.

[@LavidaLovesCoils]

Troy stood out to me instantly (initially) and he was my favorite (again initially) until I found out he’s for the streets. He exudes confidence. I prefer a confidence and masculine, assertive man over a timid, reserved man with a boyish energy. Kojo you are absolutely right. Woman will feel like Rulers over Christian.

[@cherrelles.7889]

Lets be very clear, just because you come off as assertive does not mean you are an effective leader. Chirstian is an introvert and he seems as though he likes to read the room (competition was not a good idea) before interacting with others. As an introvert, when someone steps in to my space I step back; not because I'm not interested but because I don't know you and I have to get a feel of you first before I let you enter into my space.

[@OyaRevolutionary]

Christian just needed time to warm up and it's just unfortunate that some women have their definition of "strong" black man and it's almost always false. He is gorgeous in every way.

[@Jazzy_Elevations]

I didn't see anything wrong with Christian. He is the guy who gets thought about AFTER the loud, over confident, womanizer dogs a woman out. She wants to go back to the reserved one with morals

[@bodaciousshenanigans7171]

You betta sang LBB!!!

[@gaillastof837]

Yes actually BROAD shoulders and a DEEP voice and spiritually stable...💪🏿

[@gaillastof837]

Tressa working her dress. She came across as very loving when talking about her daughter and I think she's quite nurturing in relationships it seems.

[@lowkee777]

Christian is a Taurus...he's not all sweet and innocent lol. He can be assertive when needed. However, he is a introvert and an observer. They should've kept him around longer...then they would've experienced the type of man he is.

[@letstalk8219]

I think he thought emphasizing he likes mean girls would come across edgy or kinky. NOT.

[@allthingskia9424]

I loved christian..he was reserved, handsome successful..these women keep going for these alpha males that can't give them what they want..he's a different vibe

[@ZIASBLOU]

After watching the first 2 episodes my fav women so far(note this can change for sure) are-Kyra, Stacy, Chrisantheium, Amber, Alexis, and Liz

[@lelle1068]

And I'm with you on this energy thing EXCEPT for the we want men to lead business- that's where I, as a woman, part ways with the Christianity aspects.

[@shanekiapatterson1509]

Didn't find Christian attractive but I think he'll make a good man for someone

[@Geminidurham]

Sound went out for a moment towards the end

[@eggshell99]

That’s really sad. Let the quiet guy go. Some of the women are too aggressive🤷🏾‍♀️ that’s unattractive as well.

[@ladyzinada5341]

Righ

[@hwat9544]

He got disqualified because of Alda! She said something nerdy about him & planted that idea in the women heads that he wasn't a good fit? They judge him in the beginning of the show too soon!

[@GAshoneybear]

I think that was Stacy wasn't it?

[@myishaj7436]

Christian was solid and stable and secure...they slept on him...24 hours in he would be top 3

[@sandman7025]

He was too short for these women. Period

[@gossipchoppedandsrewed7410]

Thank you for the review.

[@charlottej.6032]

Christian is literally the type of man i would be interested in. Given, we only saw him for a short time and ppl pretend well but i can tell he was being his real self the entire time...they lost not him

[@Xscape128]

Why does assertiveness have to be dictated by the man's ability to hap his mouth? There's multiple ways of displaying assertiveness

[@consciousanfesiashapsnikof8688]

Key word "competition" is the reasons that not one couple from the show gained a meaningful relationship. The show is terrible. I think the show needs experts on relationships. Tommy and his wife aren't experts. No one can know a person within an hour of meeting. I think that 24 -48 should suffice.

[@ihave2ques902]

I agree. I was hoping they would’ve stopped with the first night elimination bc it’s not the best environment to make a first impression. Tommy’s presence has proven to be useless on this show, they need experts.

[@consciousanfesiashapsnikof8688]

@@ihave2ques902 Christian being eliminated the 1st day was clearly an indication that again, no one is on the show for real authentic love, with a quality candidate. Dude has everything a decent woman should want. Those silly "forever single" women, who eliminated Christian, demonstrated that they don't know how to choose the right man.

[@consciousanfesiashapsnikof8688]

@@MJPhelps-ji4rm - I noted Christian's qualifications which all equated to one of the most qualified cast member. Most of those men are divorced and still playing Romeo. Christian wasn't ready for the games production/producers are playing. I most likely won't watch the show until it ends. No ratings from me.