Why did we stop making videos on our main channel? | Q&A

[@minkamausi9285]

Imagine having the audacity to ask complete strangers about their family planning while simultaneously insinuating that having pets is weird in any way? The nerve of some people.

[@lovinani7]

Story of my life really. I've just entered my thirties and I still have no husband(or boyfriend no less) and people are worried about that. Like...first of all, my lifestyle is none of you business. Secondly, I'm ace and have no inkling for romance or sex. And lastly, as long as I can take care of myself, I need no man to do it for me and no kids to make me feel accomplished. But if others want that, that's cool. I'm just happy being single and a proud cat mama uwu

[@DictatorVer]

Right?! I feel like most of the comments they answered were really rude or straight up mean...

[@otoshithekid2957]

It's like... you can tell they would never do it(say it) in real life

[@jazzycocopanda9364]

@@otoshithekid2957 unfortunately people do say this shit in real life. Even if it’s the first time you’ve met them. 😒

[@ShadowRayne16]

Honestly! Like would you are someone directly about their uterus or testicles and what they want to do with them cause that's pretty much what you're doing and it's awkward as hell.

[@princeofstride5557]

Rachel: Poki are you a illegal cat Jun: he is from the mountain ⛰

[@nekowolf583]

Listen Poki, ain't no mountain high Ain't no valley low, ain't no river wide enough Poki If you need me call me no matter where you are No matter how far, don't worry Poki Just call my name I'll be there in a hurry You don't have to worry

[@Toyon95]

He looked so cute they she carried him >.

[@chefevilee9566]

I did not even catch that during the question and answers. That is hilarious! It just goes to show maybe you should watch Jun and Rachel’s videos more than one time!

[@MiriBON]

What the poster meant was whether cats needed to be 'microchipped' in Japan. While not compulsory, it's very recommended to keep your cats microchipped because they can be found more easily in case they ever get lost.

[@Sarafimm2]

Poki the Mountain God slumming at Jun & Rachel's home, "FEED ME, HUMAN!!!"

[@nataliewebber3139]

Rachel talking about her depression and anxiety was really eye opening and an important reminder to people that you never know what is going on behind the scenes. People being angry at her for her reaction to jun's surprise must have been so awful for her. From our perspective Rachel & Jun seem to have this perfect idealic life and relationship but the fact that Rachel was feeling like theres no point to existence at some point, just goes to show you can never understand what someone is going through from just seeing their public personas. She also isn't obligated to tell everyone what she is personally going through but was brave enough to give us a little insight here. So please remember that you don't know what people are going through and be patient & kind

[@AgentBrainless]

Seconded. Rachel, thank you for sharing (and for your support, Jun). I almost started crying when you were talking about your downward spiral (which is amazing because my own brand of depression leaves me emotionally numb). And to all the negative Nancies in the comments, I understand that sometimes we get upset on someone else's behalf. That's okay, because empathy leads to compassion, right? You were feeling hurt for Jun. However, as stated above...we really don't know what goes on behind-the-scenes. That said, rather than using the comment section to vent negative feelings and thoughts based on incomplete knowledge, let's try to lift one another up instead, yeah?

[@AgentBrainless]

Well...everyone is weird. What is normal? People cope with their emotions differently. And actions aren't always a true reflection of emotions. Anyway, that's subjective. What is a true reflection of emotion? Your truth might be different from another's truth since we learn those reflections as we grow. Maybe Jun's actions aren't how some would have reacted, but I recognise this type reaction. Also his actions on-camera might/probably aren't the same as they would be off-.

[@mal9525]

@@strongerthaneverph I don’t think you meant it in a horrible way but calling his actions weird comes across a bit tone deaf considering the main comment here is talking about not judging someone for a fraction of their behaviour that you see online.

[@bridishbirb8603]

1,000th Like

[@sunflowerhk100]

I have been depressed too since around the same time as her. Its just i am a nobody. Nobody cares if i am depressed or not

[@kellanbrosnan7239]

Poki meows - 3:42 - "meoooow" 5:11 - "mmmeow?" 5:42 - "MMRREEOow" 5:48 - "MREEOow" 5:52 - "mreeow" 6:12 - "MREAAAw" 7:39 - "mrooooowh" Poki is content with scratches from jun so no meows after 8m

[@medhadeb2892]

@Kellan You are the best.

[@eishchandeal128]

HELL YEAH!

[@falconeshield]

Quality comment

[@abx877]

This is my all time favourite comment!!

[@spark5012]

Thannks for transcribing

[@hayliechen9329]

why are all these questions so condescending? rachel and jun are literally so unproblematic and lovely

[@recoil53]

Really, who says "You have a uterus, USE IT". They aren't f*cki!ing Sims.

[@lfk6370]

Seriously!

[@jazs9882]

Dude this was what I was thinking. Some of these comments are crazy and rude!

[@moondal3245]

Agreed. Loving someone isn’t ONLY skinship. You can have deep conversations, rely on one another and simply just enjoy each others company in expressing your love. I feel that definition of being married or dating has become completely distorted this generation.

[@ABirdOnTheMoon]

I know! I was so shocked by the type of questions asked. Who say such a thing to such a lovely couple!

[@RachelShauna]

Rachel: *is enjoying married life doing all the things she's ever wanted, doesn't need children to fill a "void"* Comments: YOU ARE USING CATS TO FILL YOUR BARREN WOMB YOU CHILDLESS WENCH Rachel: nono- Jun: *smooshes face into cat* mmmmm cat

[@rachelrecycles369]

Its suuuuper fun to say 'actually I've had 5 miscarriages'and just watch their face go to O.O

[@zombiepika3118]

@@rachelrecycles369 that's kinda cruel, but understandable. Some people just need to learn to mind their own business 🤷‍♀️ they gotta understand being a woman doesn't mean you have to want a child

[@rachelrecycles369]

@@zombiepika3118 exactly, maybe it'll prevent them from saying it to someone who suffers with infertility issues.

[@27ratsinatrenchcoat90]

Completely agree, preach luv!!! Also Jun is literally me, smushing your face into a cat's soft belly is THE BEST!!😻

[@anakruger2412]

@@rachelrecycles369 I'm so so sorry, thank you for using your experiences to shut those kinds of people up. I hope that you're doing okay

[@leslieholland7843]

Jun speaks English beautifully, pronounces words correctly, and appears comfortable in front of the camera. That doesn't mean that Rachel is "stealing his thunder", she is naturally more bubbly in general when she isn't having a tough day. Jun is perfectly eloquent, but so is Rachel.

[@frostincubus4045]

Yup, I see Jun as the laid back, quite guy and Rachel as the more bubbly, outgoing girl

[@freshstart4423]

I select a worship song with lyrics on you tube in the early morning and it really, really heals my woes.

[@joellenhousego4639]

It's that old "Women should just be quiet," misogynist trope. My husband is quiet too- he's an introvert. We function just fine together. He talks when he feels like it. He likes my stories. I like his, too. I talk more in public situations. He talks more in private, when he feels like opening up.

[@goldenheart2667]

I think Rachel overtalks most of the time. I wish she had given more floor to Jun. As much as I like their videos, I have seen Rachel being very disrespectful and unappreciative towards Jun. My Japanese friend says that Rachel is passive aggressive and yes, I can see that.

[@Rosa-kd2cl]

@@goldenheart2667 how on earth is that the case?

[@MiykaZ1]

people are so rude and condescending. Rachel and Jun are literally the most unproblematic couple there is, just have some respect. stop asking ridiculous questions about babies or Jun is just quieter.

[@Yosatorn.Asavapatr.Naptvik]

Evan & katelyn, smaller channel tho

[@Kattzal]

@@Yosatorn.Asavapatr.Naptvik don’t make this a competition :) There’s no need for us to compare two lovely couples because they’re both great

[@Yosatorn.Asavapatr.Naptvik]

@@Kattzal yes, all of them are great! Who are your fav couple you'd want me to check? My recent find is nic &cheese, they're not unproblematic, but so fun! If anyone want to suggest me, i'm open to all kinds of couple as long as in english/ has english subtitle, thanks!

[@Abelion_Jayakerto]

simon and martina, oops RIP

[@Chuckles..]

The really nice youtubers such as this couple, you gotta hope the startlingly bizarre comments and questions they get do not effect them.

[@dbillz101]

It was pretty heartbreaking to hear how Rachel was treated (I hadn't heard the story about the surprise gift until now). She shouldn't have been put into a position where she had to explain things at all.

[@TheRainstorm97]

Yeah... like OMG... when Rachel was talking about how much she cried after she felt like she ruined Jun's video... I vaguely remember seeing loads of people say that she seems ungrateful, I'm actually so sad I didn't speak up and say something now. Of course we can't speak for others and I didn't know about her mental health issues, but still, damn... even if she didn't like the surprise or didn't LOOK like she liked it, I wouldn't have had a problem with her not being overtly ecstatic over presents, some people are just kind of stoic like that even if they are super happy.

[@starreia]

yea i had no idea, and i never judged her reaction in the first place, but does go to show how ignorant people can be on the internet. rachel didn’t owe us an explanation at all. its messed up, but with “fame” everyones always got something bad to say. it was literally a cooking video and people found something to criticize them about.

[@lisah-p8474]

This was so upsetting. I remember that video and at the time I thought she just didn't feel well (like health wise). Her energy was just kinda low compared to her usual bubbly personality. I had no idea people were so mean to her about it!! Jeez. Being judged for a few out of context seconds of video?? Folks need to calm down.

[@okiedokie5770]

@@Kitty_Sakura omg same

[@ArcticFirepixy]

This is real life. I'm glad she's able to put it in words and keep everyone in check. Because us as viewers we dont see behind the scenes or the cost that comes with making beautiful videos. Financial emotional and the time. 😁🥰🥰🥰🥰

[@ferglz5380]

"owning that many cats must be sad after a while" Dude clearly has never had a cat

[@lauryniti1807]

Or met children

[@dlfon99]

Or lived.

[@kittypixie.x]

Or existed.

[@moonlitpebbles4778]

Or know the meaning of happiness

[@dlfon99]

What is love?

[@KaIIavan]

Damn, my perspective on some of the R&J fans changed a lot after watching this video. C'mon now guys, we can be better than this. Learn to be mindful on what you say as it really comes off the wrong way. Some comments are also blatantly disrespectful.

[@tjl4688]

Respectfully, they also live in Japan. Having children is a major societal expectation.

[@4ever4given01]

@@tjl4688 I doubt the people telling them this live in Japan or are actually thinking of Japan’s population crisis. In fact, most are probably not thinking much of it as they pressure strangers to adhere to their envisioned lifestyle.

[@herondaless]

@@tjl4688 and?

[@XingeiaCosplay]

@@tjl4688 No it's not... Not at all. In fact, Japan has one of the lowest birthrates because no one wants to have kids over there. A lot of younger people/families just want to focus on careers.

[@comet_lolita]

@@tjl4688 ooooh no it is not XD

[@rpgamera]

I'm so glad that Rachel has been prioritising her health first, and that's been the reason why the main channel has been quieter. Let's be real: this year has been a b*tch, and depression just compounds all of what's going on in the world to make things worse. Massive love to you both; we'll see you when we see you.

[@salan3507]

Especially all due to an extremely over exaggerated "pandemic".

[@almeriaalien]

@@salan3507 its not exaggerated

[@salan3507]

@@almeriaalien You're right. It's not exaggerated. Its EXTREMELY exaggerated.

[@almeriaalien]

@@salan3507 dayum no wonder theres so many cases

[@fulltimehololivestan]

@@salan3507 over exaggerated? Wait till you get on life support. Don't cry for your life that time.

[@leahd9999]

Rachel darkening her eyebrows out of spite is just *chef's kiss* beautiful. Love you both, honestly happy to see you happy. :)

[@naylisyazwina6836]

*I hope the chef doesn't kiss my food before serving it to me* jk

[@regendanser]

I laughed really hard at it, but by the end of the video I actually thought it looked kinda nice

[@ecuadorianchocolate5950]

when did she said that?

[@ZaDussault]

Who dares comment on your eyebrows!

[@heathercutler5114]

My daughter and I loved that as well. 😉

[@thefluffymarshmallo]

I feel bad that people pressure you about kids. You shouldn't be pressured about that. =(

[@hauwley]

Bruh what the hell is people's problem tho. Not every one wants kids leave other people be.

[@ninaairheart7371]

They'd make cute kids... When/if they're ready to!

[@toperishtwice]

@@hauwley I don't understand what's so hard about saying you don't want kids though. It's a simple question, people ask it because generally everyone does want kids, so it's a departure from the norm to not have them. It's not like people asking are saying there's anything wrong with them not having kids. Rachel went on a tangent about women only being for childbearing but the comment didn't say anything about that.

[@dangitjacques5133]

IKR people need to mind their own business. I can’t stand it when people tell me I need to have kids

[@yamyrm3687]

@@toperishtwice The comment was rude, it did say having too many cats was sad. We never know what other people are going through and don't want to talk about. Maybe they want kids some day, maybe they don't, maybe they have fertility issues, who knows. It's normal to wonder but some people are too pushy and rude.

[@monodramatic_]

“i have one cooking channel, juns kitchen. that guys a dick.” seriously the funniest thing jun has ever said

[@lankbeaver6062]

Ikr 😆. That was hilarious

[@samwellsand8819]

“What if someone buys your house who hates cats?!” Well that sounds like a them problem for buying said house lmao.

[@Sibunamember101]

"We're going to accept more sponsporships." YES. DO IT. We'll understand your saving up for important things! I'll help by just letting every ad play on your vids

[@rachelrecycles369]

Like, yes girl! Make capitalization work for you!!

[@doc8125]

@Kook no, don't do that, it actually hurts their ability to get recommended and get on top of search results if a lot of people did not watch a lot of the video

[@mellowmallow3138]

@@doc8125 i think they meant the ads not the vids

[@doc8125]

@@mellowmallow3138 yeah, I definitely misread there, my mistake

[@audreym3908]

Same...as long as it's not like 30-58 mins long ads (yep saw one of those once and I was like thank god for the skip button because it's not like I didn't come on here to watch something for 20 mins or so just to watch something that's longer and I'm not interested in).

[@Danidecaf]

Imagine people being upset that they have sponsorships. Like the content is free and they have bills, if you want content they need to make a living somehow. Much love guys keep doing what ur doing!

[@chefevilee9566]

For sure!!!! I’m just glad after all these years they are actually going to take a real crack at this. Get sponsors!

[@videoket]

They having been said, I like how they're not just money-grabbing any random thing thrown their way. Mad respect that they look into the companies for sponsorship and for merch.

[@ErebosGR]

Sponsorships are fine as long as they're not scammy or harmful, like diet pills or "detox teas".

[@Danidecaf]

Completely agree with all of y'all!

[@Frostfern94]

Today has been sponsored by raid shadow legends-

[@cateyzuko1027]

"yOuR eYeBrOwS aRe ToO dArK" Rachel: *comes back with eyebrows twice as dark and a just a little thicker, and then wears them the rest of the video* I loved it! lol but I really wish that she had thought to gradually add more and more eyebrow makeup until they were both so thick that they could be moustaches.

[@lynnegee6814]

@CateyZuko Yayy, GO RACHEL!

[@widixidiw]

darker actually suits her

[@Godless-Heathen]

I find the whole pressure people to have kids otherwise they’ll be miserable is pretty awful. Like children aren’t something you have if you don’t want them or are indifferent to. I feel like they should be a hell yes (sure one can have doubts) or a no. Having and raising a child isn’t something you can screw up. That’s gonna be an actually living person and if you or your partner (if you have one) don’t feel onboard to have a child or you’re not mentally or physically ready for any reason you can wait until you feel in a better place or even never have kids at all. Heck you don’t even have to have a reason to not have kids, if it’s not something you want people should respect that.

[@Rezzmari]

Meanwhile, I have a shitty co-worker popping them out left and right and she loses custody of every single one (currently pregnant again as I type this, and the state is advising for her to abort it - this is hearsay but yeah), while here I am trying to have even one child with my husband and am struggling. Sorry, just venting and am salty.

[@Crosshill]

i think it was the same with eat your kimchi? they didn't want kids and needed to take time off from their channel for health reasons and people had to come to grips with them being real people with a real life that could possibly be more important than youtube

[@herzen9857]

Yess! It's better to have no kids at all rather than having kids when you're not ready to have kids. I find there's always this war of "you NEED to have kids" vs "kids are HORRIBLE crotch gremlins" and i really don't like that. People need to learn to accept others opinions and to be humble about their own opinion.

[@walnut5203]

@@Rezzmari I mean there’s always adoption, which is better for everyone

[@thaliacrafts407]

Being childfree myself, I feel like the people that attack me the most are the ones that regret having children themselves. Somehow I never get flak from parents who seem genuinely happy with their own life. Maybe it's a "If I'm suffering then so must you" kind of thing?

[@San1984]

Rachel: serious talk about mental health Jun: faceplant into a cat Both relatable, really ❤️

[@FancyHatching]

Burying your face in a cat is the best kind of coping with serious topics tbh

[@mimisezlol]

I think he was crying a little

[@viddergrapho8488]

My heart is breaking for her. These two put themselves out there for our enjoyment and people can just be really awful for no reason.

[@Scotschie]

I read it as they talk about it between themselves, "I'll just let her share her feelings to everyone else in her own words uninterrupted." - and in that setting, cuddle with the cats

[@MilesSmiles8]

Rachel: *talking about something super serious* Jun: *face-first into a cat's stomach*

[@natewarner]

Such a tough discussion/explanation to participate in, even in second hand. I feel for both Rachel and Jun.

[@fablefear]

I read this comment just as it happened

[@mellytempest]

Probably to comfort/distract the cats? They're pretty sensitive to the change in their owner's moods so Jun was trying to keep Haku and Poki calm so Rachel didn't feel bad about talking about her experiences.

[@yumeniai]

Probably hiding some of his own response too, I'm sure he also felt bad about it at the time

[@monicad.2269]

@@yumeniai agree

[@pavibaji3578]

I couldn’t tell if Rachel was about to have a panic attack or break down from being forced go back and relive the experience she wanted to forget. It’s not sad how they as a couple have three cats and Rachel isn’t popping babies out because she’s a woman. It’s not even sad how they’re choosing to live their married life. It’s sad that as human beings, people can say this to the poor woman because they’re protected behind a screen. Jun and Rachel are arguably the most approachable, loving and sweet natured couple, and I admire jun and Rachel for being the bad bitches they are. YALL ARE THE CUTEST COUPLE IVE EVER SEEN AND YOU DONT NEED TO FOLLOW SOCIETIES COMMON BELIEFS AND RULES. like literally go buy another cat to shove it in their face ✨❤️

[@ebbenilsson7661]

You mean anxiety attack

[@spleens4200]

The gift he made was the oil and chapsticks if I remember correctly, it’s understandable why you had such a muted reaction at first if you weren’t feeling good before it even happened. However, after that, when Jun told you he made it by hand, you did sound appreciative, Rachel, so I don’t know why the comments were still getting mad at the start..

[@chiungyichiu5305]

I think the “owning too many cats replacing children/become sad” comment is bit offensive, there are people who prefer not to have children, which should be okay.

[@tammyl3963]

Okay but why aren’t we talking about how Rachel helped Jun finish his video right after a panic attack and ended up getting hate for her reaction? Rachel didn’t deserve that and she’s so strong for doing what she could :(( It’s awful to hear that she went through that, thank you for everything Rachel!!

[@CriellaChant]

I looked back in that video, I just assumed when I first watched it she had just got back from work and was really tired, she has a right to be grumpy, she has a right to feel depressed,. I dare anyone to say that they’ve never felt the cold, tight grip of depression at least once in their life!

[@dragon-mw5ru]

What video is this?

[@OtakuMegane]

@@dragon-mw5ru "Cooking birthday presents for my wife!", it was about 2 years ago.

[@sta5348]

It's because people never consider what goes on behind the scenes, behind the camera. When I watched the video I didn't find her reaction something to be upset about. I mean, he lied about it being food, I would've been lowkey unimpressed with being lied to LOL. That aside, she had a panic attack that we didn't know about until now :(

[@dragon-mw5ru]

@OtakuMegane ohhhh

[@AliSakurai]

People criticized you for your reaction on Jun's gift?! When I saw it, I thought 'aww she was being shy!' I knew you loved them because it was a gift from your husband.

[@samiharahman1700]

Seeing you guys talking about sponsorships and ad revenue makes me sad tbh. I have been watching you both and your cats for so many years now and I have never seen any ads on your videos. You guys put so effort and time into filming and editing these videos, you two deserve that ad revenue because of all the hard work you put, please don’t feel guilty about it. I will comment this on literally every video hoping you’ll see this. You two and your cats deserve the world. ♥️

[@gkygrl7]

The level of sass in this video is awesome! “Are you guys married?” “Are we?” “No!”

[@blazingly8336]

What’s funny is that Poki’s meow also sounds like a ‘No...’ and was said a bit earlier than Rachel but it sounded almost like they said it at the same time

[@tropicalsadness2407]

Something tells me that they like _like_ each other.

[@gkygrl7]

@@tropicalsadness2407 I thought so too.

[@gkygrl7]

@@blazingly8336 It did!

[@latorgatorful]

As someone contemplating getting a cat and very tired of being asked if I want kids, Rachel's black-and-white dramatic "barren" moment was amazing and very relatable.

[@UnreasonablyNiceEE]

100000%

[@travellinjack9487]

"A Wooommmmaaann without a wwooooommmmbbbb!" LOL had to replay it two or three times :D

[@latristessdurera8763]

I don’t want kids or pets. I just want a motorbike. Brum Brum

[@eleanor.shadow]

I’ve been owned by cats since I was 21. I knew I didn’t want children when I was 12. I’m now 40, am still owned by cats and still don’t have or want human children. I got rid of the “when are you having children?” question when I started telling people my personal boundaries didn’t allow them to ask me that, the same I’d never ask them how they wipe their arses, for example. Problem solved!

[@jeanproctor3663]

@@eleanor.shadow Excellent response! I'm going to borrow that, if you don't mind. I always knew I didn't want kids too. I still get asked at 50!

[@XIc3Xp]

The kid question ughhh... I am 25 and my aunts always ask about that, by now it has become so annoying. I literally get a lecture whenever I say "I am not having kids" and they respond with "give it 2 years." I am perfectly happy as I am and would rather go traveling and enjoy myself and my youth. I don't plan on having kids or getting married why is that so wrong, it is my life and my body, plus I would be a bad mother since I have no maternal instinct whatsoever. They still call me selfish it's so dumb like I am depriving them of something...

[@athena_cr]

I think it’s wonderful that you take charge of what happens to your body, not to mention, you are also thinking of what’s best for the non existent child, you don’t what the child to grow up in a household where the mother doesn’t feel a connection with them, that’s a sign of being responsible, good for you!!.

[@thaliacrafts407]

"I think you should have an abortion" "WTF no! I told you I want kids!" "Give it two months"

[@akizahagami]

@@thaliacrafts407 I'd love to hear that for a change.

[@huangsc6963]

Just ask ur aunts if they are willing to provide free babysitting service or sponsor the cost. That'll shut them up😜

[@liskavanrijin]

I agree so much. Our generation finally has the chance to be perfectly happy as you describe it, and not having to give in about this topic is so important for me, too. Never let people take away your freedom and your inner peace because they think you should or shouldn't do something!

[@indigothecat]

I didn't even know there was "scandal" for you guys. You're one of the coolest KZbin couples in my humble opinion. I hope you continue to feel better, Rachel, and always remember to keep building that ladder! And Jun, your English is near perfect, better than a lot of people who speak English as a native language. I also loved seeing a Pichi in the top left corner, so thank you for the really smart camera angle!

[@sarasthoughts]

Buying a house just because of resell value literally makes no sense. You buy/build a house to live in it for the rest of your life without worrying about rent! To feel safe and completely independent!

[@avengermkii7872]

Because the commenters are Americans who don't understand how other people live in other countries. Most of the time you build a house and sell it to the highest bidder and hope that your "property value" doesn't go down. Capitalism in a nutshell

[@herranton]

I've got a friend with five kids. They have moved a few times as their family grew. And when the kids move out, they will probably sell and move somewhere smaller. If they lost a hundred grand on every house they had, they wouldn't have been able to afford the house they have now. It depends on your goals. To break it down by country is ridiculousness.

[@kaedatiger]

Relying on the housing market to get your money back is just not a smart "investment" move. It really only makes sense to consider a house an investment if you are making income from renting it out.

[@staceyrubio5906]

It's really none of your business why people decide to buy a house. I don't think you get to determine what are legitimate reasons to buy a house.

[@herranton]

@@kaedatiger I disagree. Blindly hoping your house doesn't lose value is a bad idea. Buying a popular style home in a good location with the intent on only living there for a short amount of time can be a good investment. There is no reason you can't make your home part of an investment strategy.

[@AxeMichi]

Adding my small voice to the sea to tell you: you don't owe any one of us on the internet your person, least of all the viewers who only like you when you're happy.

[@whatTFisThis]

The when I saw that video was really concerned, at first upset by her tone, but then I noticed her eyes looked teary, sad and tired. It makes sense her tone was like that, it's hard to be happy during/after a panic attack, I've had plenty enough to know, it's hard to put on a smile afterwards unless I have KZbin, horses, or Minecraft there. But even those can cause panic attacks I've nearly fainted on my horse before due to having flashback of being thrown off by him. I usually am a shy tsundere, but during times my Anxiety is at its peak, I become a aggressive tsundere, anger fits, bitey comments, rude attitude, etc. Or I'll become a shaking clumsy nervous wreck who nearly faints and cries all the time. The side effects of my Anxiety arent pretty either, I throw up when under pressure and have certain foods in my stomach. I hope Rachel gets better spiritually, as she recovers from self isolation issues. Id recommend lots of cat and Jun cuddles if she likes hugs. These times have been rough on us all.

[@DumbestDumbFool]

also, get more sponsorship, and use cats for the sponsor part of the video, because why not? Maybe the sponsor will be okay because people already bought their merch which only has cats printed on (very cute three of course, not trying to downplay how amazing the materials are and how detailed Rachel on picking it. It is an amazing shirt that I'd want to wear too).

[@gosiamalaczek]

I agree

[@ChelzLovesPeanut]

Humans first instinct is to react the way we are used to according to how our lives have typically been. I hope in the future we learn to actually look deeper before we speak.

[@Mstrickster2]

So many insensitive questions.. You two answered them very tactfully

[@TwoBees_or_Not_TwoBees]

Yeah there were SO MANY INVASIVE ONES like the "can I be your friend if I move?, What about the ReSelL vaLue and the children one.."

[@WarpFactor999]

My heart goes out to Rachel. Depression and anxiety can be terribly crippling. Being a drop dead gorgeous red head married to a great guy with two decent cats doesn't always make for an ideal life. Both can be helped. Never let it go without help before it becomes crushing. So many people think you can just "think happy thoughts" and all will be ok. Its brain chemistry. You just can't fix it that way. It can also be extremely hard on the spouse trying to deal with the ups and downs. My hats off to Jun.

[@defectiveshark7602]

"Let me ask the question that people are too shy to ask" Uh, no, that's just you, you breathtakingly rude person. Please don't share.

[@sarahbebe5022]

This exactly! It's not that people are "too shy" it's that they realise it's a bloody rude question.

[@rhiannon9673]

I hope the fact that she brought it up in a FAQ and then dramatically didn't answer the question would send the hint to these people that they know some people are curious but they want to keep this part of their private lives private..... but somehow I doubt it.

[@whatTFisThis]

I am curious about it, but if they don't want to answer that's ok. My curiosity can take a backseat. Even if hurts to restrain it I will.

[@rachelrecycles369]

@@rhiannon9673 Jun did answer it though, they just like cats.

[@ANPC-pi9vu]

I honestly think some fans are pickme bitches who are thirsty for Jun, because it seems like the negative and rude comments are always people trying to undermine Rachel's confidence or question her position as a wife. They are jealous.

[@lioralynx]

main message: don't judge. be kind. please don't be the reason someone's mental health gets worse.

[@spiffybumbleteeth]

It's got to be hard to be an "ideal" public figure online, let alone a woman online. I'm a stranger who doesn't know you at all, but still sending love to you guys for making videos that feel like a warm hug. Thank you!

[@theYammy]

Oh lmao I didn’t realize Jun still had Rachel’s ring on until the end when he gave it back to her 🤣

[@sarahparkin754]

I feel people have children to fill the void of not having a cat!

[@justshelby4589]

Exactly

[@cristinawentz]

That's true because I can't have cats😭

[@feyoko]

😎

[@chefevilee9566]

Yeah I don’t get upset about not having a grandchild! I just bought a kitten.

[@abigailmoreno6085]

I have a baby and 4 cats

[@ashleyleong8478]

At this point I’ve just followed all your channels and I just watch whatever video pops up wherever kinda like whack-a-mole lmao

[@CriellaChant]

Same here!

[@Puffypufferfish]

I also do this ! I'm always very excited to see what videos come out

[@moonstonepearl21]

LOL. What an amusing way of putting it.

[@kmds0412]

I feel so bad for Rachel, she's such a beautiful soul, and makes me sad that she have to deal with anxieth/depression. I know how hard all of this shit are because I also deal with this things since i'm a child, and then the pandemic got all it worse, i'm goind to back to my medical treatment and I hope to get better with time. I hope Rachel's can get better soon too, I know its difficult but try to not get mind to that shit that people with zero empathy try to tell you, both of you are so amazing and work hard in every thing, and your family its perfect the way it is!!! Cats, dogs, all pets is also family, i'm a mother of 2 canine and they're everything to me, all goes better because of them so, just be happy with the family you have ❤️ Thanks for your contents on your channels, sending lots of love from Brazil 😍❤️😘 Stay strong 🙏🙌🏻

[@Skyavatar]

Ok guys, Basically if you want MORE Jun videos, make sure Rachel is happy and appreciated!! I personally don't mind seeing Rachel happy cuz they are happy with their life. Happy Wife = Happy Jun.

[@ryuqiciaonly]

I love how Poki is just Meowing out loud and the question was "any tips for training a very vocal cat into being quitter?" LMAO 😂❤️

[@LunaRayArclight]

I also got an ad called "The Cats That Rule the World" right after.... XD

[@elijahh2220]

Perfect comedic timing

[@jokb235]

I miss having cats. If I had any, I would totally have a house built for them.

[@itsraymond2295]

Rachel: talking about a serious topic Jun: *C a t.*

[@Ziirf]

I don't want to psycho-analyze Jun so I will talk from personal experience: I usually try to distract myself whenever a person close to me talk about her mental hardship while I am near, due to it being taxing for my own emotions and I do not want to show weakness in front of her in those situations. But yeah, he also really seem to adore his cats, so there might be absolutely nothing to it.

[@Angel-rh2lo]

I'm sure he's very supportive to her. they seem to understand each other very well.

[@shegoisgay]

15:15 i love this mans hahaha

[@itsraymond2295]

@@Angel-rh2lo @Ziirf I know that he is very supportive of her but he also loves the bois. I wasn't trying to say there was anything wrong with that (if that is what y'all were thinking, if not disregard this) And Ziirf I can relate to that, my mom talks to me about some of her mental struggles, and sometimes I'll cry because I feel the pain in some way, so I try to distract myself in some way, but also still listen.

[@Ziirf]

@@itsraymond2295 I know you meant nothing ill of it, no need to defend your comment :)

[@kailyns8159]

The cats as kid substitutes thing is infuriating. I’m so sorry your ‘fans’ can be that disrespectful and judgmental. My ex-sister-in-law used to treat me that way too. Never mind that my cats had been a part of my life long before I ever dated. Ella was born when I was in 6th grade (I would have been around 12) and stayed close to me for 21 years while her children, Oliver and Heidi, were with me for 15 and 16 years. My cats always came first. She actually announced her second pregnancy on Mother’s Day by handing me (a childless woman) a Mother’s Day card that she modified to read Cat Mom. And she had my nephew deliver it while wearing an ‘I’m gonna be a big brother’ shirt...... I have never wanted to slap a person more in my life. That card was so cruel. Basically it was like hug your cats while I hug my actual kid. And be happy for me cause I’ve got another one on the way. I firmly believe that the judgmental people who say cat owners without kids are filling a void, or depressed, or need to get rid of the cats when the baby comes don’t actually understand what it means to be a parent. To them, kids are status symbols and show pieces. I wouldn’t even let those people care for a dead animal, let alone a vulnerable human like a baby.

[@dalidatoivola4866]

And that's how damaged people are made, my mother was the same and I went through so much shit due to her

[@thaliacrafts407]

WTF I would seriously not blame you if you went no contact with that hag. Your time is better spend with your cats.

[@huangsc6963]

Gd heavens. And no one called her out on it

[@ga4214]

Funny how you accuse such people of being judgmental towards you pet owners yet you did the exact same thing towards them 😑 also what is wrong with the card she gave you ? It is true isn’t it ? and cute as well ! so overdramatic 🙄 and I feel sorry for your ex sister-in-law she probably was trying to be nice towards you by giving you a card and the way you felt about it made it seems you do indeed have a *void* trying to fulfill it with cats, otherwise you would’ve been happy that she considered you a *mom* just like her and your cats as your children instead of calling you “ *cat* *lady* ” which many people say to female cat owners !!

[@kailyns8159]

@@ga4214 Everything you just said is based on who you THINK my ex-sis-in-law is.... you’re wrong because, unlike me, you don’t know her personally. Have your opinions; I don’t really care. I know the reality, the actual context. I know the hell this woman put my family through. You don’t.

[@haidamzeme2305]

I am a bit shocked at the questions, cause usually I see only wholesome comments! We love you guys and we are SUPER EXCITED to see how the house turns out!

[@chariiteee]

I love that Rachel kept the intense eyebrows lmaoo

[@lumenisalive]

by the end of the video it started looking intentional to me lmao, makes me feel better about my eyebrows

[@lilyfae7197]

Honestly it works.

[@jadeandblood]

Rachel became too intense for me because her eyebrows look like an emoji from Facebook x'D

[@ixluvxsunflower]

Lol yeah towards the end of the video I forgot about it

[@AlbinoAxolotl]

It’s funny because as a natural redhead myself, my eyebrows are quite a bit darker than my hair color so I felt that look. My hair is an auburn red and my eyebrows are straight up dark brown. No idea why but that’s always been the case!

[@KristyRadio]

My heart broke hearing about Rachel's anxiety and depression during the "Presents for my wife's birthday" video. We all need to make an effort to judge less and appreciate more. Thank you Rachel for sharing ❤️

[@FioreCiliegia]

It’s like really people, aside from the “just don’t be a jerk” clause that should exist in your existence as a human package, The heck? KZbin wasn’t a thing for most of us growing up, it wasn’t around when they were kids for sure! You are getting free entertainment from good people who care a hecking lot about you and the quality of the things they are advertising to their viewers. I mean Heck! Rachel took like 15 minutes to display every function of the merch shirts they made! Bleh... gonna say it because of what she said about fans being friends. Odds of me ever being in Japan are pretty slim but it’s safe to say many of us feel a kinship to you both, so it’s personally insulting that they be rude to you, cause you don’t get to be rude to my (pseudo internet) friends! XD (also have depression, also loves cooking, also enjoys fashion, and spending time outside... my red hair isn’t as natural as hers though haha) So yeah, you guys have friends here, we will try to bury the haters in hairballs

[@liskavanrijin]

Many of these questions were SO rude! It made me so sad and angry. You both are so lovely and nice people, gentle souls. You don't deserve any of that. Please stay safe - I have to deal with depression for years, too and I can relate so much to this panic attack topic and all of that. I wish you all the best. Build your house however you like, have as many cats as you wish, accept sponsorships to fulfill your dreams and never feel the need to apologize to any stranger from the internet. Big hug! :)

[@ladyofrillwater]

All these questions are so weirdly accusatory and judgemental. I guess it just speaks to the parasocial relationship... people get a wee glimpse into your life and suddenly think they have the right to ask invasive questions. Granted it was a Q&A but even so, most of these were just needlessly hostile.

[@IzzyZit]

"Owning that many cats must be sad after a while" Me: looks at my five year plan Five year plan: GET 30 CATS AND MAKE THEIR NAMES RHIME... and maybe a dog AND 30 CATS! (Really this is my dream)

[@TallulahFails]

lol my boyfriend and I will sometimes chant 'SIX CATS SIX CATS" whenever we talk about our future. For now we just have two. *sigh* one day..

[@justlapsi]

If you want them all to rhyme, make it funny

[@kaedatiger]

Maybe instead of having 30 cats, work at a cat shelter? That way kitties still get lovins without jepordizing your ability to find a place to live.

[@baddienamjoo-hyuk4507]

Same! I really want some!!

[@iancampbell1649]

Beware of the parable of Ishkabibble. Never name your cat anything you would be embarrassed to have your neighbors hear you screaming at 3am after your cat decided to escape to explore the great outdoors.

[@dreamer_soul4503]

Rachel talking about her depression and anxiety had me remembering about my own and I wanted to give her hug 🥺🥺

[@ussnjbb62]

Virtual hugs to you!

[@dreamer_soul4503]

@@ussnjbb62 *hugs back*

[@llamafromspace]

Yeah it has been a rough year. Hugs to all.

[@tatianalangerholz6280]

(⊃｡•́‿•̀｡)⊃

[@ChelzLovesPeanut]

Let’s all send virtual hugs! Or just positive energy whichever she loves more 😊😊😊

[@inhate-loverelationshipswi5413]

Why so many rude comment? I mean even they are kinda public figures but they still need some privacy. Some ppl are so nosy nowadays. Why can’t we just come to see Jun and Rachel and sleepy Haku or noisy Poki or something else happily?

[@madisonluecke6606]

Get that sponsorship money! Pay that mortgage! 👏👏

[@medhadeb2892]

Yass, and I'll watch your video ads too! Let's get those cats their own house, please!

[@PetushCherrySwirl]

I love how some people's comments are so rudely thrown out there and Rachel and Jun are just so chill answering respectfully. That talks a LOT about who you are. :)

[@ArcticFirepixy]

100000% I love them

[@canned_can_chan4590]

Why did you call him yun hahahahaha... That was his name when they made a parody

[@PetushCherrySwirl]

@@canned_can_chan4590 Misspelled it, sorry! Haha!

[@MyKoreanHusband]

People can be so rude :( Lol at pre-emptive response about Jun not talking. I have to do that all the time because people will be like "shut up and let your husband talk". I will give him so much time to speak but he prefers it if I talk because of course, not his native language. He also spends all his time at work talking, sometimes he wants to just chill. Even when couples have a baby, you immediately get asked "wHeN aRe YoU hAvInG a SeCoNd BaBy?!" Even when we shared our infertility issues and the whole journey of IVF.... apparently we should be popping out more babies!

[@fredrikmudas]

Typical ungrateful people just ignore and smile. We don't know their first intention to be funny or pure rude

[@pinadevos]

Well, about the not having children but only cats: my mother told me more than ones that people like that are egocentric....I have 4 cats and no children (by choice) so after a few times I told her that her comments are hurtfull to me. I think those remarks are pure stupidity. And for you guys having to answer more ‘stupid’ questions: well done. You guys are great. 😃

[@LittleSkyful]

@@ali_tafa006 Sadly they're still people thinking, because KZbinrs or others share some part of their life, its a right to comment everything they (the viewers) want. They didn't even think about it anymore.

[@ironmonkeyl2552]

Jun is too busy petting and playing with the cats to talk more. It's hard work, but somebody has to do it.

[@blessedcocoa5729]

Don't mind them. If they don't understand your struggle then that's on them. If you want more kids then have them. The youtube audience can't dictate your lif efor you. I'll pray for you. P.s you guys just got a new subscriber👍

[@Commenter339]

person: being unnecessarily critical of rachel's eyebrows rachel: *walks away* *comes back with super dark eyebrows* *stares into camera* me: HELL YEAH Rachel, you show them!!!! 😁

[@MAIS581]

You were so patient and calm answering these very rude and tactless questions.. people on the internet are getting worse and worse

[@terencechan86]

Never would have realized how many toxic comments there were until this Q&A. Thank god for top comments

[@theinacircleoftheancientpu492]

Ditto.

[@sarroumarbeu6810]

Wouldn't have guessed either ;-; they're so wholesome you wouldn't think someone would dare be rude to them

[@Warwing12]

Just a small reminder to some who don't seem to remember, but like all youtubers, Rachel and Jun are real people! They deserve your respect and have the same right to privacy that everyone does.

[@ebonyonce]

alternative title: rachel is right and she should say it

[@carlarhodes3013]

1) Cats are awesome. 2) People with severe depression and or anxiety understand. 3) Remember that the world is a better place because of you. 4) Jun's English is fantastic.

[@TheKeuliMeuli]

common sense train coming through: - asking women/couples about their plans for children can easily be a very invasive thing to do. there are a bunch of reasons why this can be a sensitive topic and not everyone wants to talk about it in public. Also, assuming that women want kids is enhancing stereotypes and puts pressure and expectations on us. Whether someone wants children or not is not a question of gender. Woman does not equal mother. Be considerate. - depression does hit hard and it hits even worse during a pandemic. rachel & jun are not obligated to be entertaining to you, just because they have a youtube channel. bad days come and sometimes they don't go for a while, but we should always be aware that behind someone's behavior, there is a bigger picture. Thank you rachel for being so open about your mental health and I wish you all the best. I'm sure you will be better again. Very inspiring to see you putting your mental health first :)

[@DFTBEmi]

Also, to add on, I am in a non-hetero relationship. I get asked a lot “When will you have children?” “Don’t you think it would legitimize your marriage if you had kids?” I love the idea of having children but people are so pushy about it.

[@ArcticFirepixy]

Ugh I'm totally for mental health awareness. But it's so hard and awkward to talk about my own battle. Maybe I'm still working up to it. But its super encouraging to see others working through it

[@kellyhh2519]

Also!!! Not every woman has a uterus and not every person who has a uterus is a woman! Plus with this in mind, some people's uteri just don't work properly. I'm a nonbinary person with family history of reproductive system issues and I really don't want kids.

[@marco_panda4606]

PREACH! Not everyone is ready or wants to have children. Sometimes people are better off without having kids.

[@Historian212]

I'm a hetero woman who never wanted kids. Even when I was a child, I had zero interest in playing with doll babies. I went straight to stuffed animals and Barbies. I love the way Rachel and Jun just didn't answer the question. It's their business, not ours.

[@BronzeBellaBria]

A cat room could easily be converted into anything. A wine cellar, a gaming room, a small office. Why are people being so closedminded?

[@kendalljennings3417]

Some people automatically see the negative in a situation, not the possibilities and solutions

[@jay_vee96]

@@kendalljennings3417 LOL nah like I'm super negative alot of the time, but these people are just plain old stinky bitter a**holes. How can they hate on such a beautiful couple smh..

[@gudrunorca]

BronzeBellaBria surely you mean "closet minded"? ;-P

[@idkanymore12]

@@gudrunorca maybe a better word would be unimaginative, a cat room can really be made into just about anything

[@thaliacrafts407]

I would totally pay extra for a cat room

[@valeriebolejack5957]

My number one pet peeve in the universe is someone questioning another person's choice for children. I warned my daughter that no matter how many children she decided from 0 to 10+, someone was going to think they had the right to get into that decision! I have 2 and even I heard about it as they were the same gender. I wish that question would go to the top of the questions you never ask someone! It should be a personal, well thought out choice that only they can make, it's one of the biggest choice in your life, why should a random stranger know better than you!

[@luluxxyuna]

I almost passed out laughing so hard when Rachel actually made her eyebrows darker! I need to the breathe 😂

[@kaymrenee]

So many of these questions were so rude/invasive... im sorry that yall have to deal with these types of people :((

[@tiaroybal9333]

@@carrydaddy6432 I dont think you know what that word means, bro

[@abhinavmk4255]

@@tiaroybal9333 he is little confused

[@furrypupsangel5446]

Yeah. I was listening to this in the background and multiple times I had to pause the video and rewind it because surely I didn’t hear that right. Especially the cat and child question! I found that one extremely rude!! I feel bad that they have to deal with this sometimes.

[@mariatrinidad1370]

Yes!! I honestly can’t believe the nerve of some people, they’re so rude

[@fossilfighters101]

+

[@platinumnib4443]

Stop with the Rachel scrutiny, people. Just be nice and enjoy a great channel.

[@MayowaSensei]

“WHAT IS A WOMAN WITHOUT A WOMB!?!” lmfaoooooo

[@jusbubz]

Rachel and Jun are honestly the only youtube couple that i care about because they're so unproblematic and cute together and the fact that people are trying to make them feel bad about not having kids upsets me. I will throw hands they're precious and don't deserve any form of hate or toxcity. edit: it kinda reminds me of how people ask felix when he's having kids with marzia

[@tailsofmischief2504]

Yeah apparantly it's a common thing to bother youtube couples about when they're having children. The first time i heard about it was from JennaMarbles, and it was clear how much these comments can affect someone. It's always weird how people can get so fixated on something that's really none of their business.

[@jusbubz]

@@tailsofmischief2504 omg yes, like i watch jenna too and it just rubs me the wrong way when people ask them stuff like that. Like they wouldn't ask some random stranger so why do they feel the need to ask youtubers

[@henrik3141]

Marzia now happily got kids

[@radiomandelbrot5868]

why the hell do people assume *you're* "not letting" Jun talk? Wth lol he's a grown adult and you're not holding a knife to his throat... you're not even interrupting him 🤦

[@IshaAnn]

Memento Mori, friend.

[@Saspharuss]

Memento Mori!

[@dhilipans5412]

Memento mori

[@Soosnathan]

Rachel: giving self-called tmi Jun: chilling, petting his cats, not making any indication of wanting to say something

[@machinismus]

Ikr, he's just naturally reserved, and Rachel is naturally outgoing, so the contrast is quite striking.

[@lexica510]

My husband, from next to me on the sofa: "We love you, Rachel! F the haters!" 💜 Me, a person with years of experience struggling with depression: "We love you, Rachel! F the haters!" 💜

[@lfk6370]

Yeah!! We love you Rachel!!! F the haters!

[@ShentheRogue]

*This*

[@sarroumarbeu6810]

Wholesome (*´ω｀*)

[@Plaidbeet]

You guys are just the best! I feel SO BAD that people attacked Rachel over that Juns cooking video. I have some anxiety issues and can totally imagine that whole scene playing out. Sometimes you just can’t turn it on.

[@rhymedelacruz8552]

"YeAh wE aRE vEry sAd peOpLe." Love how he replied with sarcasm!🤣 why do people always equate being fulfilled and happy in life to the need of having kids

[@StudioLindsay]

“Owning that many cats must be sad after a while.” Me, to my boyfriend: “In the future, we’ll have cats! Cats. Plural.”

[@peshgirl]

What really got me was that they only have 3 and a long term foster and there is no chance of kittens. Ugh.

[@aesaphyr]

I'd be happy for that commenter to sponsor me to test their theory! I wonder how many cats one needs before one becomes sad. Happy to be sponsored to carry out this valuable research. 😊

[@blablup1214]

@@aesaphyr I think if you have as many as the cat lady in the Simpsons it is enough to look sad :)

[@Scriptadiaboly]

People are so jealous to other cat happiness

[@hoomancatslave1738]

I have 3 kitties as well!!!!!! and I'm the happiest person in the world haha

[@FoxDragon]

"I am planning to live in that house for the rest of my life so I don't CARE!" Exactly!!! That's what I said to my dad when he criticized the plan my fiancé and I have for our home that we want to build (It has an entryway/interior courtyard that is completely enclosed by house. We call it the catyard.)

[@RachelandJunAdventures]

That sounds awesome!!

[@avengermkii7872]

It's Americans pushing their American ideas on Japan. A lot of people care about their "property value" even though it doesn't even matter in Japan. Especially the stupid question about why is your house so cat orientated. Maybe because Japan just loves cats. It's not like they have a whole island dedicated to stray cats.

[@zikasilver1]

If I ever was in a position to buy a house here in Canada, and there was one built for cats, I would totally buy it. Sounds like a dream come true

[@kasugaifox8571]

That's sound al cool!

[@foxwaffles]

People keep talking about my house being so nice because it'll appreciate but dude idgaf because I don't plan on leaving. I have so many grand plans for cat shelving and I always get the 'you'll have a lot of repair to do once you sell so you can get a profit' I LIVE HERE AND DON'T WANT TO LEAVE. The only benefit I get out of appreciation is property tax creep 😭

[@drawingyourattention]

Omg, some of these questions.. Love your channel(s) and cats! Nothing sad about having more cats, especially when they are rescued from the streets!! I'm a little late to the party I see.. but what I know about kibble (and I feed my two cats 50% kibble/50% wet food: they are very picky with wet food, I constantly have to rotate brands and/or combine to make them eat it.. argg) is that most wet food has better quality proteins than dry food. And it's also not just about having no grains, it's important that it doesn't have too much carbs, that can be wheat but also potatoes or rice.. A lot of dry food have certain additives that you might want to avoid or not give a whole year long. So maybe rotate dry food with a more natural brand, that's what I also do.

[@lb1460]

Love you both even more after watching this vid. Thank you for sharing about your issues Rachel. Your sharing will help so many who suffer as well. Your videos are soothing to the soul.

[@mangojzu9235]

rachel: talking about her hardships and depression jun: 😊✋🐈

[@sapphire_tears]

wowowowo

[@JaniceRafael]

You two are so cute. Yes life sucks sometimes. You are both so strong. I guess KZbin requires such a thick skin. You do a fantastic job and It's great that you determine a schedule that's right for you. 💓😷😊

[@alam5055]

I think he might've felt awkward and guilty for forcing her to be in the video that got her so many hate and that's why he was so avoidant.

[@granny-nyan]

i'd have felt bad and sad to reminice of this so i empathize with Jun 100%

[@Kizamo]

I hate how some people think a woman can’t be happy unless she has children. Like is it really such an impossible concept that people can be childless and still happy

[@davidsumner7604]

The overwhelming majority of people would need to feel a strong psychological need to have children in order to continue the continuity of our species.

[@evee2419]

in this time its even better to not having children

[@hrgrhrhhr]

@@evee2419 why

[@kuroneko8343]

@@hrgrhrhhr Children are wonderful but they cost a lot in terms of resources and most people hardly have time due to work esp. in countries like Japan and Korea which is why the birth rate is so low. Furthermore, the world is overpopulated and deteriorating as we consume far too much and adding more to the population just makes everything more complicated. On a personal level, the fact that people have children but can't even support themselves properly nor have any idea how to raise a decent human is crazy to me. Also, considering the whole COVID19 situation having a child isn't a great idea when people are struggling stay afloat and the economic impacts will last a decade.

[@bruh-mb1rd]

@@hrgrhrhhr people work 2 jobs and still can't afford housing

[@Riverbend1752]

How does owning a bunch of cats become sad? My family has 2 kids and 5 cats. Owning the cats doesn't make me sad, and it doesn't appear to make my brother or parents sad.

[@transplantman2287]

I'm glad you talked about the dry cat food because I've been looking for something to switch one of my cats onto (the other is on a special formula food) but I don't like a lot of the options in Japan. I'll try Ronnie and see if my cat likes it. Thank you!

[@isabeladesa649]

rachel is talking about how people missjudged her based on a small reaction an a youtube video, meanwhile people in this comment section judging jun for his reaction to her talking about this.... lmao just enjoy their videos and stop assuming things

[@user-pm7me3xc2c]

People don't understand that this couple are real people who can't always be at their 100%, just because they usually try to show their best sides for the camera. They probably expected Jun to be more supportive and engaged instead of turning away from the topic to play with cats, but you could tell he was doing that specifically because it was hard for him to listen to his wife describe her ordeal and was trying not to be upset on camera as he probably relived some of those dark moments. You would think people would have picked up on that especially after how they talked about how this video is basically improv, and at one point he seems to wipe away a tear. People are just terrible.

[@JCXP123]

I was surprised to hear people reacted poorly to her reaction on that video. They probably don't know Rachel (maybe they only watch Jun's channel) but that's still no excuse to hate on someone. When I heard her say, "what is it?" in Jun's video, I laughed because I would've reacted the same way, especially knowing now that Jun told her that it was food. Like even without knowing the situation, they could've thought "oh, maybe she's awkward in front of the camera" or "she showed her appreciation off camera". Why people just jumped to bashing her is so upsetting and baffling.

[@NikoleMcDonaldJonesSpooni]

Best statement!!!

[@KyraHogue]

I assumed she was very tired when she asked, "What is it?" I didn't assume the worse and didn't bash. I wish people weren't so judgemental or would stop and think before posting harsh comments.

[@noanRUA]

I feel like a horrible human being cause Rachel is pouring her heart out about her experience and all I can look at are her *strong* eyebrows 👌👌🙏🤧

[@bucketofcheeseballs]

It's so cute that everytime Poki meows off screen in a video they put in the same picture of Poki screaming

[@WrathNL]

basic rule that many should implement. if you have nothing nice to say, than don't say anything at all. a mean comment can lead to a lot of personal problems and even suicide if you don't know how the person is feeling mentally. like for real. how would you feel if someone said that to you while your state of mind isn't stable? think about that before you post a comment. Rachel and Jun. keep up the work you put in to it. keep us updated on the house and enjoy life as YOU want to enjoy it.

[@cheebiebeebie6611]

I cannot believe how rude some of those questions were.

[@yayalu8650]

“Make me happy, you, my many cats. You must fill the void in my heart that exists because I do not have children. There’s nothing worse in a woman’s life than to be barren and childless. The sole purpose of existence for humans is to breed. What is a woman without a womb.” *wipes tears,* such poetry and hilarity

[@AlwaysTiredish]

I couldn’t believe how rude that question was! It’s not like how to make a baby is a secret. Clearly, if someone doesn’t have a baby they either don’t want them or are having an issue conceiving.

[@heatherrhoades2006]

Yes!! I loved that this was Rachel's response to that obnoxiously rude a$$hat!

[@Vespalady13]

This question on the other hand is just rude. And something that is asked to often of any woman. (That and/or why aren't you dating/married?) . I loved you answer, Rachel.

[@Samuel-qi7in]

*Pokis my new husband now*

[@Unknown-uk9he]

😏

[@rumiatingel8989]

:O

[@Elandrianthetrue]

*"Look at me! LOOK! AT! ME! I am the husband now!"* - Poki 2020

[@Samuel-qi7in]

That One Buzzkill I don’t see why not

[@SanaSamaha]

You know Rachel and Jun are relationship goals when Rachel can take off her ring and Jun can accept it with good humour and no hard feelings.

[@WarpFactor999]

Depression is a subject that few that don't have it fully understand how debilitating it is. Most people feel that you just have to "be happy,' but it doesn't work that way. It's often a physical chemical imbalance in the brain that you have no control over. Still, Jun is a very lucky guy to have such an awesome wife as Rachel.

[@skylovermc2146]

And vice versa

[@julv5767]

The kid question was disrespectful, it’s not that people are “too shy to ask” it’s no ones business. There are many reasons why people choose to or not to have children, then theres people who want children but can’t or really struggle having them, miscarry, are infertile, you never know. Mind your own business.

[@Dr.RatioSnail]

Exactly my thoughts

[@koolaidman6251]

I can see why Rachel is hesitant to do more videos. Women always get criticized for everything they do and say and every expression on their face is hyper interpreted almost always to be negative. They get criticized for their looks -- not enough makeup and you're "not trying" . .too much and you're 'trying too hard' or 'eyebrows too dark', their clothes, their style or lack thereof. If they have kids they receive every criticism under the sun for the way they interact with their baby, feed, clothe, sleep schedule, EVERYTHING and then also criticized for not looking like a supermodel immediately after birth and then every day thereafter (see also: looks comments). , if they don't they are coldhearted weird cat ladies, or going against nature or whatever. It is so much easier to be a dude on social media -- you can wear what you want with simple hair and no makeup and not have your looks hyper criticized and if you have a baby and change 1 diaper you're the world's greatest hero, if you don't have kids you're just a dude living free, etc.

[@LietSayri]

Ditto. That question was so rude. It's nobody else's business but theirs.

[@LietSayri]

@@koolaidman6251 I really appreciate your comment in support of Rachel and women in general

[@Mari-hb5do]

yeah and like not everyone wants or is fit to be one for example, ffs. it’s none of your business.

[@romiciampa]

I really can't believe the rude questions some people made... You guys don't deserve being treated like this.

[@TheLyzardIAm]

In regards to the issue of cats not being hydrated enough, having worked in the pet industry 15 years, and being a cat owner, I HIGHLY recommend a water fountain. It keeps the oxygen content in the water higher than if it's in a bowl, which means to the cats, the water isn't stagnant, so it is safe. This is why cats love drinking from faucets.

[@LillianaLobster]

oh ive read a comment Rachel and jun made and they said they cant get one cause the cats break it every time, hope that helps

[@EvaSnyder]

Rachel, you are adorable! I suffer from depression myself. Take care of yourself.

[@kozukawa47]

"What is a woman without a womb?!!!" God, I love Rachel... and Jun. But like, Rachel is really really funny 😂

[@the_homun_system]

ah yes. wombman. lmao

[@therealhellkitty5388]

A woman without a womb is a human, why would anyone ask?

[@Beaut_Beau]

Jun's answer "Seriously though? We just like cats."

[@saeradien]

watching rachel and jun channel always heal my anxiety for some reason idk why🤷🏼‍♀️

[@JRspeaking]

Your honesty is so refreshing.