Why Divorce is Hard but Increasing in Korea | Shocking Reasons & Cultural Insights

[@book_worm22]

I love how you drop allll the South Korean tea like the South Korean Wendy Williams. How you doinngg 🍵 😂😂

[@moniquegreen9567]

That is a Good Comment.🤣

[@MrsMeganMoon]

Hahaha how you doin 😂😂😂. I miss Wendy Williams. Haha. Hot topics was my guilty pleasure 😂😂

[@justmeagain7]

🐘 what does your mother in law think about these kinds of videos? 🐘 @mrsmeganmoon

[@heykanhey]

Girl! You are single handedly dismantling all K-Drama fantasies.🤣🤣🤣

[@mariasol1545]

anyone who has ever been in the presence of a Korean man, knows just hoy mysoginistic they can be

[@kristinesharp6286]

I have been watching Kdrama and Kmovies for 20 years. As soon as they confess their love they then focus on their career, promotion, even leave the county. Flower Boys Next Door, Soulmate series, Someday series, What Will Happen to My Family, Oh My Ghost, My Golden Life….

[@nardagraham1002]

No one but a child would believe those fantasies anyway. That's like thinking that American soap operas are real life.

[@venuslove-i1v]

That's crazy that mishandling someone's money is not considered "mistreatment" and therefore it is not grounds for divorce.

[@quixoticsonnet]

This is nice. I miss these type of videos about Korean culture and way of life. It's interesting to see how other people live.

[@MrsMeganMoon]

❤❤❤❤ yaaay. Thanks for watching

[@Pollo.a.la.crema.]

I am one of your OG fans and every now and then I comeback to see how you’re doing, it’s amazing to see what you have accomplished with personal and family. You were my introduction to Korean culture and now I’m finally making my first trip next year. ❤

[@MrsMeganMoon]

❤❤❤❤ yaaay! Thanks for coming back!!

[@dudie5403]

I heard of stories where children are taken to the orphanage or get adopted without one of the parents knowing (like in the case of Kim Jaejoong) after a divorce or separation which I found heartbreaking and not done. But getting a divorce and then act like your child never existed and keep it hidden for your future spouse?! Are those people even human?! I know bloodlines are important in Korea but this is next level. How terrible for the child to know they are so unwanted and just thrown in a corner as if they where a broken toy they could throw away. How damaging that is for the child.

[@MrsMeganMoon]

Yes. If the one parent has full custody then that could happen. But nowadays I hear both people might need to sign

[@lilmamagc]

jaejoong❤

[@homiekeen23]

Wtf 😮😮😮

[@WinsieWINSTARLee]

Abandoning child for future spouse is bad indeed. I’ve only seen a case like this in Kdrama ‘18 Again’.

[@ShielaM-p1w]

Well the answer to are they even human is PRECISELY that they AREN'T. One gender isnt human. And pretending to be. Can you guess which???

[@BlessinginBloom]

Okay Megan we NEED a podcast😅 You got all the TEA HUNNY😂🍵🫖

[@MrsMeganMoon]

It would be fun to have Korean lawyers and psychologists come on to talk with me

[@BlessinginBloom]

@ yeah! Cause you give really insightful advice/perspective. And I love how you don’t sugar coat anything

[@impuritiesshow]

@@MrsMeganMoonI love this idea!

[@justmeagain7]

​@@MrsMeganMoonmake it happen!

[@Ellie-yb9hw]

Not sure if you have already but a video on the 4b movement would be cool. It'd be nice to see your perspective on it, especially now as it is more prevalent in America atm.

[@MrsMeganMoon]

Ok! Sounds like a great topic! I was avoiding it haha. But I shall go for it

[@CuracaoCow]

​@@MrsMeganMoon Please don't avoid it!! We, the people, need it!!!

[@beccathewrecker]

@@MrsMeganMoon It's a hot topic atm, so it might be a lot of views...both positive and negative. I'd like to see it but I'm sure no one would blame you for waiting a while before covering it 🙂

[@LkeaFeather]

I came to the comments to ask this.......after that last story she told 4b made a lot of sense...

[@propertymanager9149]

@@LkeaFeather uh I live in Korea...4b is not a thing and most women don't know abut it. its sensationalized by western media and I'm pretty sure Megan will corroborate

[@jeenjeanjeen]

The 50-60 year olds are divorcing now because they're parents are now dead and they won't be lectured and nagged at 😂

[@MrsMeganMoon]

😂😂😂😂 that could also be true

[@lilaroxary2686]

At 60, what is the point of divorcing someone ? In a few years, you are either gonna be dead or single again. Or are you gonna have alzahimer

[@annlorrii]

Wow! Megan, this is so interesting. I've never heard of people fighting to NOT get custody of their own children. I was really surprised by that.

[@MyshelafromTanelorn]

They probably have them because of social pressure but not want them for real? When you love your kids you do anything to have them regardless of how difficult it might be.

[@beewest5704]

Fathers do it all the time & custody just falls on the mom.

[@annlorrii]

@beewest5704 I hear what you're saying, but it's not quite the same thing. That sounds more like an absent father who just disappears or doesn't show up to take responsibility for their children.

[@justmeagain7]

​@beewest5704 "you are not the father" And the guy dances, laughs, yells with joy.

[@justmeagain7]

​@@annlorrii normal when men do it. Appealing when women do it.

[@lilmamagc]

Megan is uploading so much and we LOVE IT

[@MrsMeganMoon]

❤❤❤❤ yaaay! Probably upload tomorrow too

[@marlene1708]

What upsets me is that the daughter in law is expected to do so much. But the husband doesn't have to do any of that stuff call to check in, cook meals for birthday, etc.

[@Likelyfairy]

Then they’re surprised when they want a divorce lol

[@MrsMeganMoon]

Nowadays since women are having the husbands do similarly for their parents. People have realized how uncomfortable it is~ and many people have stopped it altogether.

[@propertymanager9149]

maybe stop watching drama to inform all your views on Korea

[@Chessica450-m3d]

Thank God I don't have to check in with in laws..that's my hubby's job!! He only shares with them what we're both comfortable with! I don't owe his parents anything except respect. That's it. I'm not their slaves or subordinate

[@justmeagain7]

Kind of acceptable, if that's the only work the woman has. Unacceptable if she works as much as the husband. To have extra work just because she is a woman is totally unacceptable.

[@ashpie22]

My mouth was just agape hearing how that wife and her mom spent all the money. The physical pain I’d feel 😖 and NOT be able to divorce?! Sheesh

[@MrsMeganMoon]

Gurl…. My heart hurt for him. The comments of the Koreans under that video were also similar. Like the nerve of that woman and her mom!!

[@amorelockster1023]

Smh I would’ve went crazy

[@justmeagain7]

​@@MrsMeganMoon IMO: too close relationships with parents are toxic when you are an adult. Even more when you are a married adult.

[@kpt002]

In Finland (I am Finnish) people usually live together for several years before getting married (some never marry even when they have kids) and the good thing about it is that no-one can fake stuff for years everyday (unless they are some kind of psycopaths) so when you finally marry someone you already know how many times in a day they take a shower or brush their teeth.. 😊

[@cadethumann8605]

This should be the standard for relationships. Get to know each other for a couple of years and see if the partnership is healthy before you marry and/or have kids. Simple.

[@Thegoodnewssharer]

Marital life in SK is wild🤯! Thank you for all these informative videos💚

[@carlaw5297]

Chores is a big issue in my house. When I see him wash dishes, I ask if he did something wrong 😂.

[@MrsMeganMoon]

😂😂😂

[@lolingkwarts3999]

I agree with many points but the chore one is weird. Per observations Koreans would spend less time overall on chores as they live in smaller spaces in managed flats/apts (lawns, facilities mantained by specialists) and often have alot of home appliances like robot vaccum cleaners (which also mop), dishwashers, washing machines etc. Most things are delivered to door everywhere including online shopping, fresh ingredients, complete meals etc. People are generally spend less time on food, eating out is affordable, or they have a quick meal using prepackaged meal kits or instant food or delivery. I've observed people generall spend less time on chores overall in Korea, no lawns to mow, no shed to fix etc. It should be weighted as percentage against total time spent doing chores in the household.

[@marlene1708]

Couldn't financial abuse be on the list. Cause that scenario is messed up, I would take over the money and give her nothing monthly and handle the finances.

[@MrsMeganMoon]

It’s only on there if the man doesn’t give the housewife money every month. Like withholding money maliciously. But nothing for overspending unfortunately I’ve heard :(

[@emilwandel]

Divorce by fault makes it much harder to divorce when domestic violence exists. These things are hard to proof especially when there is a culture where other people look away as it is private matter. In Germany there is a no fault divorce but you must proof you are separated for a year. Normally by asking for a divorce with the state and wait. The state hopes the couple could solve their issues.

[@Lee1Min-Ji]

The older people are divorcing and remarrying the people they actually wanted to marry in the first place?🤣

[@MrsMeganMoon]

Probably 😂😂

[@no.6377]

Aww that's actually kinda sweet. People are letting go of what society or their family tells them they should want and choose love instead. ( The cheating is gross when it happens, tho😅)

[@sprocket8662]

Education would be a great topic because I don't understand why kids have to go to schools until 10 or 11 pm (when did all this start). In America as you know we go to 3 or 4pm then kids might have a tutor at home. We have people going to Ivy League schools like Harvard, MIT, Yale, Brown, etc.

[@mariasol1545]

the way they give their entire lives up to capitalism.. how could anyone be happy there

[@polivepea]

Ivy league classroom education is not the same...there are legacy students who are not qualified to be there. In essence they are just buying there degree for participating.

[@sprocket8662]

@@polivepea Same in Korea with all the Chaebol families

[@bbvistas7596]

Megan, what about divorce with foreigners and the Korean is usually able to keep the child/children. I think we are witnessing such a situation with one online couple. I even felt that he physically abused her, but no proof of that other than she was injured frequently. It's sad because the child was learning 2 languages from the parents, but now, she will definitely lose one of those languages and part of her identity.

[@lbell9695]

Which online couple?

[@lumpthedog2003]

I've been watching your video's for years. Every time I watch one, I always move the way you do in the intro. Anyway, recently my husband has been watching your videos with me. And now he also moves the same way every time he hears your intro😂

[@MrsMeganMoon]

😂😂😂😂😂 yassss!! Everyone let’s sing the intro together hehehe. Thanks for watching and supporting!

[@lumpthedog2003]

@MrsMeganMoon hehe of course. 😁

[@polkadotteandglitterspots5367]

That poor first man. I’d quit that high paying job and make sure I constantly smelled like onions. She’d agree to that divorce.

[@MrsMeganMoon]

😂😂😂😂😂😂 yes. He could say he was fired but be on long leave hehe. She would then agree probably~~

[@lilmamagc]

girl the onion thing is true I've been in that situation before and i was like get me out of this room😂

[@80Lora]

Can't he just make a Private Account and not give her any money. She would veg for divorce.

[@polivepea]

😂😂😂😂

[@Mr2Reviews]

Korean-American here. My parents divorced when I was young. My mom wanted all her kids, me plus my 2 sisters (typical American experience). Dad hardly ever paid child support. Fast forward decades later and she re-marries. My new Korean step dad also had a son from a previous marriage in Korea and I met him. He was raised by his uncle (dad's brother). Turns out the mom wanted nothing to do with her son for the sake of her future/new husband. When I pieced that together, I was shocked. Watching this video and now it makes sense. Damn, South Korea can be pretty savage. I'm in my 40s now and single. I've resigned to forgo marriage for the reasons you outlined here plus others.

[@thefadingmoonlight]

Private investigators must make a lot of money. I imagine a lot of people hire them to find proof of cheating

[@sspiker]

For that man with the wife giving his money away to her mom. Simple, he prevents her from having access to any of his money. He removes her from the process and only buys what they would need for the house. If she wants more she can get a job. Or he could move out and abandon her to the point she asks to divorce. At this point she obviously cares more about her mom and herself so he can use anything outside of breaking laws to make her leave. He can play the petty long game.

[@Dr3Mc3Ninja]

I really enjoy these more controversial topics. A video about perceptions of North Korea and its defectors would be good but obviously that is a very heavy topic that requires sensitivity.

[@frankyelysa]

wow the divorce laws seem to really be against people trying to escape a bad marriage. Like what do you mean i'll get a fine for getting in his phone????

[@JessicaAnotii]

Fantastic video My five-year relationship ended a month ago. The decision to part ways with the love of my life is something that truly consumes me. Though it's all in vain, I've tried everything to get him back, and I can't fathom my life with anyone else. Even though I've made every effort to quit thinking about him, I can't help but miss him and can't stop thinking about him. Why I am stating this here is beyond me.

[@Allenwatts-y9n]

It's hard to say goodbye to someone you love; I experienced this when my 12-year relationship ended. However, I couldn't just let him go; instead, I tried everything to win him back. Eventually, I turned to a spiritual counsellor for assistance, and he was able to help me win him back.

[@JessicaAnotii]

Interesting! How did you locate a spiritual counsellor, and how can I get in touch with him most effectively?

[@Allenwatts-y9n]

he is father obah eze, he has great powers, he can help you.

[@JessicaAnotii]

Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked him up now online. impressive Wow I just looked Father Obah Eze on the net he’s very legit thanks once again ❤

[@MyshelafromTanelorn]

Its a scaaaaaam 😂

[@gabby05-j1g]

Hey, I do want to know more about the children being “kidnapped” by one parent away from the other because I have seen a lot of the other parent venting online in Korea. I just want to know how it happened or what the parents are doing.

[@MrsMeganMoon]

Yup~~ I’ll look into it more

[@barbarabee5734]

Megan, I like the way you present such interesting info on Korean life, the cultural differences can be pretty surprising. I would like to see a casual date night totally planned by Mr. Moon for the two of you😊🤗

[@angelbabe133]

I love this new genre of videos for you😂more video essay types please !! Also where’d you get the top from?? So cute ❤

[@ariannam.9360]

I just wanna talk about the skin care set. I absolutely LOVE the green tea enzyme cleanser and completely finished mine I love how gentle it makes my skin feel

[@ItsNyxie4]

It's funny because that item made my skin break out in a fine rash. But my skin loved the other 3 products 😂

[@MrsMeganMoon]

Yeah!! ❤❤❤ glad you love it!!

[@MrsMeganMoon]

@@ItsNyxie4oh no. Sorry to hear that. There is a sensitive skin option 2~~ the cleanser is different~

[@MakeWay4CJ]

Oh llawd! 😩please don't become like Wendy Williams! Stay you girl! Informative and objective - and never messy! I love to hear your perspective along with what you've seen and heard - and you do it with respect! 🙌🏽 That's one of the many reasons I've watched you for years! ❤️

[@ariel765]

I dont thik she was messy she relayed the info in an informative matter 😮

[@MakeWay4CJ]

@@ariel765 I don't think so either which is why I said in the 2nd sentence that I hope that she DOESN'T become like Wendy Williams....who IS messy!

[@shelbycarr4682]

That's wild that there's a cultural expectation of callin the mother-in-law often. I havent seen hide nor hair of my mother-in-law in 3-4 years for a funeral, and then another 6 yrs before that. Ive no clue where even in the country she is, the woman is flighty.

[@jellyrolly]

I'd rather see the divorce rate go up than women being stuck in unhappy marriages due to not having financial independence like our mothers and grandmothers did.

[@BT-hx7kx]

its sad to see how women are treated sometimes but I'm happy to see them fighting for equality and to get rid of harmful traditions. Traditions should be a beautiful thing to want to continue not archaic ideas that single out a certain gender, or group of people.

[@thekru2024]

It was similar in Soviet Union when I was growing up my dad’s family was prioritized. I did see my grandmother from my mom’s side but only when she came over to babysit which was not that often. I spent more time with my dad’s side of the family, grandparents and cousins etc.

[@Ilona231]

It was the complete opposite for me in Soviet Union

[@Wurd2yaMutha]

Very informative content Megan🤓… I wasn’t married to the father of my child, but we still had to go through all the child custody courts. U are absolutely correct,” u have to start slinging mud about the other parent “ to prove you’re the more fit parent.. the money in attorney fees will break ur bank and the process will break your heart. One thing that seems to be taboo to discuss, is that when you have children, you don’t put up with the 💩 that you put up with before.. lots of conflicts between families and hella stress.

[@MrsMeganMoon]

Sorry you had to deal with that 😢😢

[@lostgirl5191]

Thankfully my hubby does laundry, yard work, bills, pets and the trash. I do the cooking and cleaning, gro shopping. So ur evens out❤❤❤

[@MrsMeganMoon]

❤❤

[@meniyaperkins7538]

Love these videos , keep it up megan❤

[@kninja4]

It’s not just a lack of communication. There’s that saying someone’s true colors don’t show until you put a ring on it. Can’t remember how it goes but something along those lines and that’s everywhere

[@CrEEpierart]

love the new format, educational with a bit of spice 🤩

[@hi-rp7tc]

2 weeks is crazy

[@brittanyb.6976]

Great video Meghan!

[@biekevanriel5231]

happy for people that are married,or in a relation,but not for me happy single,thank you for the info,bless❤

[@frostkiss2]

I LOVE this format with you so much!!

[@amyallen9780]

Here 5 mins after upload 🎉

[@MrsMeganMoon]

Hey 🎉🎉🎉❤❤❤

[@zanderC5953]

I feel i get a much better perspective on these issues after discovering this channel❤ So awesome! Keep on making great content😊

[@dominiccarracedo3582]

This was so interesting megan!! Thank u for these informative videos

[@raquelfigueroa5539]

7:21 I got my skin kit routine last week, and I'm so happy . I bought it before and loved it and still love it. ❤

[@MrsMeganMoon]

Yeah!! ❤❤

[@valeriepankey6097]

Thank you

[@felzebub1762]

This is so informative ❤

[@Passion84GodAlways]

CHIIIIIIIIIIILE.....Megan YOU BE HAVIN' THA TEAAAA!!!! 👀🍿

[@MrsMeganMoon]

❤❤❤❤ yeah!! I try nowadays

[@MiaMizuno]

Now it makes crazily sense with the K dramas, where mostly the boomer age parents are hating each other and disputing, where one character drops "I would have divorced you long ago!", whereas the other spouse smiles often in those scenes, and repsonds like "well, you can't really do anything big about it, as long as A) female wife character "I maintain the household in perfect condition and take care of my kids" B) male husband Character "I bring the money home and you can have everything you need!"

[@myshirayne2382]

Thanks for the skincare must, and another great video 😊

[@karefitz9502]

Great episode. Very informative

[@MrsMeganMoon]

I’m glad that you enjoyed it~~ 😢thanks for watching.

[@chiaroscural]

I love this series!

[@rinchan632]

Skincare routine added to cart 🎉 This was insightful since most dramas just show them going to sign documents and then their divorced. I know you spoke on mental health previously but I'm curious about the entertainment industry and the lack of support these celebraties have that "going to sleep permanently" seems to be their own form of relief. Like why is it this bad? Why are the expectations so high and they are only human too.

[@Boobookwys]

Megan please could you speak on the 4B movement going on in SK since we are on the topic of rising divorce rates!

[@katherinejimenezmatos2009]

another reason to not want to marry in SK 💀 imagine you marry someone, for years you try to make it work and it doesnt. How do you and your spouse show up to court with just: this isnt working for both of us 😭 Its like gov makes it difficult on purpose to keep people locked in bad marriages which is worst than being single 💀 Thank you Megan for bringing light to these issues 🙏

[@Grahamcracker6366]

There should be more! So many women are miserable but can’t leave for financial reasons.

[@nicoler5797]

Thank you Megan for your skin care. Does the package come with instructions on what to put on first, second, etc?

[@Yuyu99000]

..Cooking for your mother-in-law and monthly allowance for all FOUR IN-LAWS?!!! wtf now I get why they don't get married omfg also,I'd divorce the toothbrush guy in a second oufff 🤢🤢

[@taigaaj]

Simple answer cheating is like normal thing over there for some reason, too tired because long hours of work/studying, broke to even pay for entrainment and dates, dealing with awful in laws plus pressure from society. Yes so is a bad deal.

[@kristinesharp6286]

Anna the directors cut you have to watch. One prospective IL had checked the other partners education transcripts and all sorts of background check before the registration of the marriage.

[@torturedparadox]

Guessing the 3 year one stems from war time. There were a lot of displaced people at that time. Makes sense.

[@damienpatrick8334]

Insert kermit drinking tea meme LOL. Btw just watched the vlogs when the fam came to visit you. You and your lil sis are ´jokes.

[@MrsMeganMoon]

Ohhh 😂😂😂 yeah~~ thanks for watching and supporting

[@fancynancy6467]

Wow. Thats a lot and crazy. Thanks very interesting.

[@yunagurlz95]

Stay single, guys 🙂

[@MrsMeganMoon]

😂😂 if you know what to look for it’s a great thing to find your life partner. Pre marriage counseling is great too

[@wereallabitcrazee4312]

​@@MrsMeganMoon and we're all so happy that you found yours or we wouldn't be watching this wonderful channel 🥰

[@ShielaM-p1w]

​@@MrsMeganMoonno it isn't. Did you know that relationships is not actually HUMAN nature??? It's MALE nature. JUST males, not females. But do you know why males and females would even have different natures? Can you guess?

[@ShielaM-p1w]

Yes guys please stay single

[@ShielaM-p1w]

Ohhhh lol you have a partner. 😢😢😢 Do you know how many women think they have a perfect partner only to find....he was always shitty?.

[@Coconut_Stacks]

Megan has had the same skincare routine for over a decade. 😂 ❤

[@Raphanne]

Damn, that video made me appreciate my husband even more than I already do. He's very clean (showers at least once a day), does his part at home, we're both frugal without any debt, we see his parents once a month but they're cool, and he has a full set of non detachable hair.

[@ashtree336]

The free shipping is a good deal

[@shakiyagotdreams2299]

This came right on time as there is a movement in the US right now about this! Very informative 🫶🏾💕

[@toyintoy]

Im loving this tea era❤❤

[@MrsMeganMoon]

me too!!! HEHE Im enjoying finding out all the stuff too.

[@cariiinen]

Love the deep dives

[@lisama4903]

The wig story made me laugh ! That’s crazy lol v interesting video . ❤

[@Hernewnetwork]

My aunt has been twice; I want to visit! Important connections from now on..

[@ThisCCLife]

I’m picking up the skin care routine!

[@ngocishere]

I love these talks. You're a great story teller. Also, these topics are relative. My husband does gross me out but I'll definitely tell him to go shower and brush his teeth 😂

[@katie9735]

“Nobody’s dirty here except for that man!” I spit my imaginary drink out when I heard that!

[@MrsMeganMoon]

hahaha. Im glad the drink was just imaginary!!

[@clynt7452]

wow I am earlyyyy!!

[@MrsMeganMoon]

Yaaay!! ❤❤

[@sammyb8152]

I'm surprised people get married. I'd rather stay by myself.

[@KasapaR]

I just got the skincare set, hope this one works for me....🤞

[@RomelJonesromesgtx]

I'm not marrying for that 😢

[@r.m.4653]

Marriage is hard work. There are seasons of unrest and seasons of peace. You have to be willing to persevere and work towards unity. It takes sacrifice and not having things your way if you’re a woman. When are controlling. I know because I am one.

[@everydayisariceday]

I need your skin care!

[@SamMari]

New supporter ❤️❤️❤️ Can you please tell me the title of the song in "1:06"? Thank you so much 😚

[@pamm5]

Are you able to explain the 4B movement as someone who is living in Korea?

[@AmoreMiu]

Korea is like an iceberg. All nice and pretty on the surface, but has sooo many faults and craziness below the surface..😅

[@shakiyagotdreams2299]

Can u also talk about that 4b movement.?

[@bearycallie2104]

How can you not brush your teeth in 2 WEEKS??

[@believensee8621]

I came for the info....stayed for the editing. lol

[@BlessinginBloom]

The South Korean Wendy Williams 😅

[@MrsMeganMoon]

😂😂😂😂

[@thirdlynephilim]

my korean husband lied about his mom's health issues and then started a relationship with a woman he was clearly attracted to and tried to say she was his 'sister'. He decided to leave me when I was 7 months pregnant. Luckily, we had moved to America where the courts favor the mother and once he left I knew the custody of my baby was secure, but I just hate how Korean parents feel like they can interfere with relationships. If my mom and his parents had left us alone, we probably would not have been divorced. His parents told him to lie to me which caused him to emotionally drift away from me. My mom caused a lot of issues as well. I hate what the situation has done to my life, but there is no going back.

[@alysah6396]

Girl these edits were too funny 😭

[@anyacamille7815]

"Nobody is dirty here except for THAT man" made me giggle out loud hehehe

[@RedToxicHoodie]

It just uploading it on me 22:00 PM

[@MrsMeganMoon]

❤❤❤❤❤ thanks for watching so late

[@kphines]

Wow! 😮

[@vigerminaberrios4116]

No wonder why Korean women don’t want to get married. I would not be a slave of the in-laws. Na ah I’m glad I live here in Puerto Rico you don’t have to do anything for the in-laws unless you want to. ❤