Why do Couples Fall Out of Love After Some Time?

[@nilakshisood1368]

"you are using the other person as a key to unlock an experience within you.. why do you need a key when there is no lock" 👏 wow

[@happylindsay4475]

Sadhguru dropped the mic on this one! Lol I am adopting him as my Grandpa!! :)

[@twodogzdogue8710]

@@happylindsay4475 haha, I'm sure he will love to hear that he's your Gramps! He sure looks the part! 🌺🌸💐

[@quietdissent5482]

Yeah.. why do you need a key when there is no lock? So lets not love someone instead lets keep on masterbating. mysticism.. mysticism and mysticism! No clear answers.. these answers only makes a person feel better about themselves and feel better about the state they are in.

[@kaylaholmes1018]

That is SO good

[@WhiteMetal_]

@@quietdissent5482 she didn't mean that. Everyone doesn't shake his/her hands whole night like u.

[@rareone5041]

When your intentions are pure you don’t lose anyone, they lose you!

[@anndecosta4022]

Yes truly agree

[@thomasrinya2736]

😭😭😭😭😭😭...

[@adanjaimes8582]

So true, and deep.

[@ayushighosh20]

This is beautiful.. it's all about intentions..

[@aashi_5742]

Yeah

[@DesipetsoIndia]

what he said is absolutely correct "i love you " is like a mantra nowadays to get temporary love from a person in order to forget their past relationship, to get emotional or financial support or rather to get physical relationship.

[@JANICEWIGAN]

True...sad but true!!

[@goldyk80]

So true all temporary

[@oldschoolman1444]

True happiness comes from within, extracting happiness from others is dependency.

[@sundarihema25]

Co-dependancy..

[@vinobinto4310]

Nice 👍🏻

[@itsmeani21]

In a relationship commitment is necessary from both sides

[@wingnutmcspazatron3957]

@@sundarihema25 If both partners rely on eachother, then yes. But in a personal situation just looking at yourself and your actions, then it's your own dependency.

[@triptisingh6649]

I don't want to get married

[@kritidharakathak]

"A woman is a fool for love" hit hard!!!

[@MsAnnvy]

So true

[@Oyzatt]

Somehow our mind convince us to look at them as source of happiness 🙁

[@JANICEWIGAN]

Owww really

[@dorothymalomane1831]

You probably are one

[@LightBeingsBE]

Yep, it’s us not them 😅

[@kevinpeasetennisprofession4905]

This guy is my guide in life! Everything he says makes sense on a logical level. Thank creation for him.

[@warrior7478]

Yes...I m agree with u...

[@codewizard5327]

Then, please have some respective words for him. Don't call him "this man." C'mon, an Enlightened master deserves little more respect.

[@kevin080592]

me too.. I have only started months ago and boy I don't have the reason to feel depress anymore... he changed the way on how I think

[@horus-rz2sj]

I agree with you sir. Why this idea of life is not worldwide. I truly believe yoga and meditation is the key to saving our mother earth.

[@horus-rz2sj]

@@kevin080592me too sir

[@jmkhughes]

When the world tells us to look for answers outside of ourselves, Sadghuru tells us to look within. Thank you, these words of wisdom are life changing.

[@dhavalskyhawk]

That is very true. The person who has knowledge about life; even instant question, he doesn't even take time to think; he just make every answer so simple to understand.

[@forgivness]

He is so confident, but soooooo humble. TRUE YOGI💚

[@JANICEWIGAN]

Inspiring!!

[@SuryaPrakash-tx5su]

What sadghuru said was an absolutely correct. Bcz most of us are letting other people to control your emotions. I like The one quote he said "The source of all problems are within you, and their solutions are also within you"

[@medhadayal8439]

Wonderful . .

[@twodogzdogue8710]

'their solutions are also within you' - I don't understand what Sadhguru is explaining here. Can anyone please explain? Thank you 💐

[@nehastoilet9797]

@@twodogzdogue8710 Can U read " Bhagavan Ramana Maharshi's book - "Who Am I"

[@JANICEWIGAN]

That s true...

[@Yeah536]

@@twodogzdogue8710 I think it means that if you are looking for other people to be the solution to Your hapiness, you dont have to because the solution to your hapiness is already inside of you. You just have to focus on love and having happy thoughts within yourself. You have to be a good person as much as you can, and love and help people, and it will feed your soul with positivity, and then you will be able to share that with someone that you have a love connection with, and if it doesnt work out, it will be ok, because you loves that person with no expectations, and you will be hurt, but satisfied that you tried to share your love with that person without expectations for them to help you feel happy in your life, because the hapiness is already inside your soul.

[@shivakumarv7626]

My experience of love is understanding each other makes love possible. Chemistry of couple matures with time.

[@josephb.1770]

'What you have within you, reflect on your way' this is powerful

[@vanixvanpaul315]

Nice

[@JANICEWIGAN]

Nice one!!

[@rajapuramsunny3630]

He means to say love yourself before you love someone .

[@johnlangston5244]

No. He said your perception and sensation of Love is internal. It is derived only from you and not from the person you attach the sweetness of emotion to. He made the great point by calling "someone else" the key and asking "Why use a key, when there is no lock?" You can be in Love every day of your life and no be attached to anyone.

[@gopichintala4326]

Become Love itself.. so you will be loving towards everything ❤️

[@lionzDen23]

He is saying love comes from you

[@davidscott5266]

No he didn't say that

[@studypurpose7804]

It's a chemical process happens within u.. why u expect others to stimulate ? This is what he is trying to convey..!

[@priyanksharma1124]

Sadhguru's laugh is contagious.

[@scientistisro2457]

Yeah 😊

[@hobo6676]

Yes, ugly.

[@hobo6676]

I to find it ugly and contagious.

[@TheNishad]

Because he is a virgo man

[@sassy_s349]

@@hobo6676 The ONLY UGLY thing is YOUR COMMENT ND YOUR SAD LIFE.

[@simiroy9304]

When you do something for someone and don't expect anything frm tht particular person called happiness

[@DesipetsoIndia]

and its called true love

[@JANICEWIGAN]

Yes... maybe agree wth this!!

[@touheed4492]

Agree 👍🏻

[@LightBeingsBE]

and freedom ♥️

[@LightBeingsBE]

Things that are given freely usually adds no conditions, no stress, no pressure, requires no action

[@chipmunk3845]

The joy is inside of me!!!Joy is free,it doesn't need a lock or key

[@dipeshchawan2581]

He is such a calm person.really m trying to be like him atleast 5 percent so I can be happy always.

[@JANICEWIGAN]

Yeahh he is inspiring...

[@stormmaker7590]

Happiness or misery...Source should be within you...One should not make someone else source of his own happiness...This is the key thing which doesn't make a genuine relationship burdening in long run...n also helps to easily move on from a toxic relationship...Such a great lession learnt 🙏🙏🙏

[@nitamurphy966]

He Always Bring So Much Light To My Understanding. What A Awesome Human.

[@ScarlettBrescia]

I love you man , I watch your videos every night , you’ve taught me a lot about myself. Thank you for being the message I needed to hear I’m thankful for your wisdom.

[@aestheticanzi]

I found his video at such a point in my life when i m totally heartbroken with my life lonely depress and anxious...i really needed someone to guide me and advise me. It gives me teally relief by hearing him...i m getting the meaning of life

[@theresadeo649]

Remember that anxiety and depression are manifestations of our own thoughts. We focus on preempting situations that don't really exist and work so hard mentally to control these non existing experiences. Breathe, meditation,listen to binural beats and just be. Allow yourself to accept the situation and know that challenges are lessons that come with wisdom and experience. Hold on. I am so proud of you for working on your personal growth.

[@naomiloriana1367]

Text and inbox the great personality that helped me get my ex back

[@naomiloriana1367]

+ 2 3 4 8 1 5 9 1 5 8 9 1 5 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰

[@mzbernardful]

Easily said than done. When you are in a love relationship, your happiness depends on each other. One person has the ability to hurt the other regardless of how much inner happiness you have. It can be stressful. Don't fool yourself. You may have all the inner happiness but when you fall in love, you commit to the other person. If it doesn't workout you get hurt and will remain hurt until you heal. Of course everyone heals with time. And by the way, couples fall out of love not because they lacked inner happiness. Its simply because they were not meant to be. The signs were there but they simply ignored them and eventually ended up losing their inner happiness they had from the beginning. Thank me later

[@nele8888]

Thank u.I can totally relate with it.

[@dharminacharya]

true 100%

[@malemelanaphtali6631]

Best comment

[@oh9622]

True ♥️

[@SheriCheri94]

All of this is true plus what he said which makes the human condition and even further conundrum.

[@kantavekaria7085]

There is no such thing as human unconditional love..we all want something from each other. Even parents expect things from their children..🙏🏽

[@RichardWilliamDamien]

Parents expect from children that they can carry themselves without their help. They unconsciously want them to love themselves. Maybe that in reality we all expect that people love themselves. Love is God. "God only loves himself"

[@theshepherdsflame6017]

With children, the relationship is a bit more complex because we are largely responsible for how they turn out. They are a product of our work. With children (young or grown) many of us parents will continue to love them and take care of them when they fall short because we've invested so much care and interest in watching them grow and learn things. Sometimes this is healthy and showing true love for them, but other times the child takes advantage of us, especially when they become adults. Also, a lot of parents create an environment of dependancy where children never learn independent skills and thus don't really know how to survive as adults. Some parents like keeping their children infantile, while others get super annoyed when it was actually the parents own doing. Raising children is much longer and the care is more involved on all levels than a romantic relationship so it's usually a relationship we are in for the long haul.

[@srijalama544]

well not in a position to answer but I think parents do really want kids to be happy expecting love and care it’s human nature. Like some parents stick together just because of not to give the kid a sad childhood divorce would give the kid trauma. Women in this world beauty matters a lot but they give up that and bear the child they r happy but they do look at the mirror n sigh at their figure what has gone. Pregnancy and pain sickness they bear it but I saw it’s terrifying. N men grown up in such love and care would have to work for the family the pressure so much to do and handle And after all this we r like it’s my life I will live it my way. But no it’s not all ours we exist cause they threw away theirs.

[@maureentheresa4984]

Agree only unconditional is from animals

[@yasminevine]

I think unconditional love is with animals. I love my cat even if he scratches me

[@billmyers991]

The Adventures of Shankaran Pillai......Coming soon to a theatre near you

[@akshaytelang3102]

hahahaha

[@vidur7920]

Wise man

[@sandeshps5599]

ha ha\

[@twodogzdogue8710]

Who is he?

[@DRIVECLUBistimelessPS4]

they surely need to make a movie out of these stories!! :-D

[@harinath1995]

Don't extract happiness from other person. 🙏🏻♥️

[@kunalkishore6840]

I attended this event. IIT Bombay was one of the best audiences, they asked some really cool questions. I hope Isha Team uploads the full video of this session as well.

[@GKartik_guru]

When & Where is His next program nearby Mumbai...???

[@karanpatil6542]

Kartik G. Not soon bro, I attended the event too (I live in Mumbai), he was magical! I’m planning to go to Isha centre Coimbatore next year, will stay there! Maybe you can try the same and attend his personal events in Coimbatore itself.

[@preetichhabra1990]

@@GKartik_guru P

[@twodogzdogue8710]

@@karanpatil6542 does it cost very much to go to the ashram to live for a season or can you work there?

[@karanpatil6542]

Col Jackson you can volunteer over there, and they provide you basic amenities for living like food twice a day and a small cottage or bunk beds. If you just want to explore and have some deep pockets you can book yourself a cottage to a deluxe room. Everything is on their website.

[@jameskuttyjoseph656]

The source of joy is within you. Yes, the other may not be the same as we want, not even a single day...without the other, we can remain ecstatic.

[@ironically_iconic9848]

My issue is that I can happy by myself, but whenever relationships (from partners, parents, friends, etc.) I start to have doubt. My current boyfriend is absolutely amazing I love him with all my heart. Although with many relationships I feel though that I can overly sensitive and self deprecating, by myself I feel completely okay. And I feel like I can be toxic because I’m somewhat pessimistic. And me being over sensitive I fear will/has caused my boyfriend to think that’s he is the issue, when really it’s just me (and tbh my family)

[@katemustermann2765]

Same with me 😢😭

[@Nicolegin]

Did u heal? Going through the same

[@jmk2530]

Extracting or sharing- wow! This is awesome information. Joy or misery- the source is within you. Wow. I’m 49- I’m learning this now. Thank you for sharing this wisdom.

[@karthiknarayan8]

This answer is So empowering. Beautiful

[@dittakavisanthasrinivasara2644]

What Sadguru says is absolutely correct 🙏But the thing is we have to understand it properly ఇంట్లో వుండేవాళ్ళు అందరూ బావుంటేనే సాధన సరిగ్గా సాగుతుంది.అందూకే అందరూ బావుండాలి అనటంలో రెండు ఉద్దేశ్యాలు. 1. ఇంట్లో వుండేవాళ్ళు అందరూ క్షేమంగా వుండాలి 2.వారంతా నేను చేసే సాధనకు అనుకూలంగా వుండాలి.

[@Foxie635]

Marriage is first lust and selfishness. Maybe to stop loneliness or to have kids. Later it’s friendship and compromise.

[@JuniperTreeee]

agree

[@happyworld9164]

Luv1234 ... true ... compromise daily

[@nicholdsouza6482]

So right..

[@MoreLifePoetry]

Wow!!! I love this observation

[@vandanakumari6536]

@Lucy V ppp

[@Tomara710]

True love is very rare .. that's why their stories are remembered and celebrated through time .

[@prasannau3733]

INDIA needs u man... Especially our so called young generation! Thank you for being in INDIA unlike any other so called Gurus who just bother about foreign nations rather mother nation INDIA

[@naveedaazhar8524]

This is hundred percent true. Depending on other person makes us miserable. Love is never in the air it's always a feeling and an emotion within us.

[@amitk.9388]

"I love you" is just a mantra to fulfill needs 👌😢

[@JANICEWIGAN]

Mostly physical needs they want😢

[@lordwarrenhastings2201]

Yes

[@rosezful5241]

Watching from Canada. Moose! LOL You are wise and funny too! Yes, true freedom comes from inside, not from living in Canada. Love your videos. Thank you.

[@AL_FARID_23]

Mélanie Fréchette clair comme dleau de roche

[@rassulzamel6876]

Watching from Canada,the prairie ❤️I am feeling peace ✌️ with this guru

[@JANICEWIGAN]

Haha yeah! Many people dreaming to live in canada. Many people also dreaming to visit here in maldives!

[@LightBeingsBE]

It’s an ongoing joke that when everything goes wrong or not as you want it to....🙃🙂 move to Canada The reality is where ever you go there you are 🤭 so stay away from the Moose! 🤷🏽‍♀️😜

[@jennk1454]

Moose?

[@saurabhjain7904]

Sadhguru is the best person who comes in my life , thanks shiva because on mahashivratri i saw sadhguru 1st time in my life... 😇

[@kavya869009]

It means something.shiva wants u to know him more through sadhguru.blessings to u 🙂

[@erakkovaatainen148]

Namaskaram Sadhguru. This is so true. People fall in love to feel happy... no more. I am single forever. Can't enjoy it enough. It just fits my life vision. Freedom.

[@linettesuecrall3152]

Emotional Vampires : draining the JoY and Happiness out of other people; destroying relationships

[@sujapandey752]

From now his speech will get rewinded in my mind when i will be talking with my crush

[@JANICEWIGAN]

Its a reminder for you!!

[@johnmccallister1818]

Love is a choice you make, regardless of the feelings that may or may not be present. How you treat another person, how you respond to them, what you say or don't say...these should not be dictated by your emotions or feelings. Feelings and emotions change and fluctuate, and sometimes are influenced by flawed perceptions, and therefore, are a not an accurate gauge to base decisions on.

[@PrateekshaSrivastava]

much needed

[@bluemoonrising8625]

As a Canadian i have to comment how accurate the end is 😊💓

[@vanixvanpaul315]

How can I contact you

[@vishwathakkar5822]

Hey whT did he say?

[@JANICEWIGAN]

Hehehe

[@pratibhaahirwar7726]

How can he be correct all the time....u r awesome. Sadguruji..

[@jaylanjones1735]

I'm so bless to run across your video u are tha truth u are tha best love may tha most high bless u in so many ways

[@ellacilingir2803]

A very wise man, inspirational soul and a really great mentor 🙏🏼

[@JANICEWIGAN]

Yes agree!!

[@bajrangi4694]

The students of IIT BOMBAY , has shown what it means to be intelligent and educated. Keep it up guys.

[@lunarbutterfly1718]

You have opened my eyes thank you sadhguru

[@nikithakhatri414]

So beautiful exactly what I want to hear

[@DrDineshKumar]

Beautiful explanation of love!​

[@7rajcan]

Being an Indian living in Canada. All sounds good except "Canada" I met moose but also I met the most beautiful human beings in Canada. I cherish my being here in Canada

[@gokulyogeshgy]

Your words truely defined how love that exists of sharing emotions is connected! A Love that happens for extraction of something from the partner, can never be called as love.. You are true Guruji!

[@ibrahimjubayer8373]

Sadhguru is the great grandfather with a golden heart

[@sonxicor4005]

Ommggggg!!!!! Sadguru.....why didn't u enter my life ages back..... love u so much

[@theotherfoot]

I am Canadian, and I approve of this message ;)

[@jankijan8004]

Every sentence Sadhguru says, is a quote in itself and that too a powerful one!

[@k80jean09]

I want to see him live! He delivers such powerful and wise words

[@omtoolika]

He is so much fun & joy to listen to!...just a laughing therapy by himself & that too just free!!🥰 i'm already smiling!🥰 love u Sadhguru-u r such a bundle of joy!💖🙏😍

[@kellystev9226]

Great msg sir

[@sarithaprasad1]

Lovely..how beautiful said...why is that so difficult to follow sadhguru..

[@Last.Dark.Emperor]

Cas all our lifes we live what sistem and others had teached us,others who dont know nothing else but sistem and survival,when u awoke u start from 0,u dontt know nothing as a child

[@vanixvanpaul315]

Nice and warm

[@alis7217]

Love myself is the best way.

[@abhishek0o7]

*People complain about many things they would wish for later.* --- Barrick , GOW3

[@sabinapraween5052]

What a realistic thoughts sadguru... ...thank u 😊😊

[@Madhubindu.d]

Sadhguru you changed my life. I’m yet to believe god and guru, however your sayings are changing my perception of life 😇😇🙏🙏

[@masterpt2]

Sadhguru you are a gift From India for Indian Nations and for Humanity Worldwide 💐🤗👍We loved you

[@ramakrishnaprasad9928]

Really admired after watching your videos, gives so much positive and energy to mind

[@shayanandibra2840]

Guru bhai. You the boss

[@pranavsharma9205]

I like him in this dress attire

[@daniellamoreno3616]

Same!!

[@paritoshpandey5103]

We began to hate ourself when those who love began to criticise us

[@ruchigoyal2469]

Paritosh Pandey true

[@KeepLearningInLife]

Thank you Sadhguruji

[@kri4real70]

Joy or misery it's within you 💯🙌🏼💯

[@renukhanna1637]

Beautifully explained

[@IamSjit]

Love the way he shakes his body during the laugh

[@horus-rz2sj]

Reminds me of a kid in a Chinese commercial. The kid was doing the same thing.

[@Victoriakozi]

Inspiring as always. Thank you for existing! Thank you for sharing

[@babajamiaco]

Shite man, it was like a sledgehammer hitting my head and making things in there to rearrange in a logical and sensible order... And with just one sentence - you're trying to extract joy and happiness from another person whereas it is within yourself... Man, this is brilliant and priceless...

[@JANICEWIGAN]

So agree!!!

[@grannyfitness4154]

And the thing he said you can either make the choice to share your love or extract love from another....

[@jenyurikouth4984]

Good one.

[@kavita4689]

Couldn't agree more👍👍bravo Sadhguru xx

[@JANICEWIGAN]

Bravo!!

[@varshasinghchauhan3985]

Thank you Sadhguru thank you so much ❤thank you

[@shrilr3]

Joy are misery, the source is within u🔥🔥✨Whoaa😍

[@JANICEWIGAN]

Watched from maldives!! Full of wisdom!! So true!!

[@truth-equals-love]

This is the stuff I have been searching for. Thank you sadhguru

[@YouTheReal]

Truly on the spot. Namaskaram Sadhaguru 💐

[@isacdaimary9908]

Love you Sadhguru ❤

[@Tabithababy3456]

I really enjoyed!!

[@ruchikatikyani897]

finally i got my answer.Hats off to you sadguru 😊

[@bengaliblush]

All young people need to watch this !! So so so true .....

[@tangerinesage]

Sadhguru is the best 💜💜💜💜

[@Skywalker29]

Good listen very interesting makes sense

[@pupuni123]

It's awesome @sadhguru, how you solve everything in so simple way

[@janicealduesa783]

Thanks for encouraging message its truly help me...thank you and more blessing☺

[@shivakumarv7626]

The source of joy is in within you. Believe me stimulation is needed for the hormone to secert and life to blossom the way it should.

[@sariahlace5944]

He’s so wise. Philosophical 🧐 😻🥰😻🥰🥰 this.

[@roseagaatsz8403]

Sadhguru you’re amazing, love listening to your videos, you are a great teacher and master. ❤️🙏🏻

[@cecilialayer459]

Incredible Wisdom from a wise Sadhguro.👍👍👍👍

[@lizziebanyan8468]

Even the joy of love with a partner is experienced within you, isn't it so? How does this love come from the other person? This love comes from you in the first place!! It was all your love from the start.

[@kapil33333]

3:16 - 4:12 The moral 🌹

[@lizamarieestupa7859]

Thank you sadhguro

[@rahuljobs1410]

Hey! Share your contact info.. I'm interested in you. Thanks

[@MrPranzoi]

Thank you for this important lesson. Much needed for me in my current phase of life

[@StreamlinedPulse]

They fall out of love cause they experience the reality ...and both of them unable to handle the harsh reality.

[@Laprintanddesign]

So simply said and understood yet so profound.