WHY DO GUYS HATE FOREPLAY?!?

EP 125: In this episode we open up the podcast by taking a conflict style assessment quiz to find out how we all tend to handle conflict in relationships! Try to guess who got the worst style… The girls then go on to point out who is the “SASSIEST” man at the table and if the guys believe they are sassy men. We also talk about if we think “soft launching” is cool or overrated for couples to do…some of us get a little more passionate in this conversation than others… We wrap up the podcast by finding out what was the guys fastest time they’ve “finished” doing “the deed”... HOPE YA’LL ENJOY!!!!
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[@1022blr]

WE LOVE MARU STARTING OFF THE PODCAST 😭😭

[@valeriaanaya6639]

Sage struggling w the closet n Sean trying to help him while Nick is laughing will never not be funny 😭😭

[@suburbtalks623]

it wasn’t sages fault it was sean’s closets fault

[@christopheralvarado4544]

saw this before the episode and thought sage was coming out as bi

[@abbyh8533]

eee eeeeeeeeee eeeeeeee we see😅😅😊😅😊😅😊😅w😊😅😅😅😊w😊😊😅😊😊😅😅😅😊😅😊😅😅😅😊😅swewwwea

[@Ittsmeee_yanna]

I love every time someone messes up a word they look at Christine to correct them

[@suburbtalks623]

our smart queen

[@Ittsmeee_yanna]

Fr fr

[@tvlipx]

Maru's little introduction was so cute, also the Met Gala outfit Idea is genius!! You guys should fs do it

[@yazzz_p.b9790]

Or prom

[@Ari-fo1tv]

Maru is such a bright presence to the world I love her so much

[@wthjusthappen]

The way Sean said he’s gonna start making lip syncing and the one he recently posted with Nick is HILARIOUS😭😭😭

[@babykey418]

“Cause you’re not thinking about me when I wake up and that’s an issue!” Devin speaking bars right now 😂😂

[@christyxmuk]

i think nick is especially sassy whenever someone roasts him and he replies with "okay buddy" LMFAO

[@ninan3817]

Maru is right. Guys show progress at the gym faster then girls based on their biology. Not on a lack of effort ❤️

[@Mon3yl0v3_]

We need Sean to make thirst traps 😍😍 asap

[@heidiabigail9674]

real af

[@jennalavena]

right

[@miaperezz]

YESSS PLEASE SEAN😍😍😍

[@laosoftie]

that's just him existing fr🙏🏾

[@Sofia-hl8zi]

sean's hypothetical scenarios never fail to make me giggle LMAOO

[@tvlipx]

Sean's hair sticking out of the beanie is so cute to me idk why

[@pablopanesso1057]

Bro Sean is so good at coming up with funny ass fake scenarios 🤣 The “fake” gay best friend that switches up after she leaves had me DEAD

[@christopherhernandez6521]

“What’d you get 99 percent asshole 😂” will forever be my favorite line from Sage

[@anaisesquivel6677]

Maru: No he’s luke without the E Sage: luck 🤣

[@wrthAMILLION]

It's so interesting but lowkey upsetting that people think AAVE "is just how everyone talks." Yeah, everyone talks like that, but where do you think it comes from ??? It comes from black culture, and everyone adopts it without recognizing its origin.

[@joslynreed6743]

I completely agree; I wish they would have educated themselves before speaking about this. Also, it is hurtful when AAVE (and black culture in general) is simplify to the hood.

[@brisafer294]

@@joslynreed6743 god please shu t up

[@alicianerey9672]

It's not just black people who speak that way though in the Mexican community we always have

[@wrthAMILLION]

@@alicianerey9672 and where do you think they got it from? since they’re Mexican 💀

[@alicianerey9672]

@@wrthAMILLION Mexican people like me and my family have been talking like that for a really long time in Mexico we have Spanish words for ghettos language my family has spoken that way for generations its not like tge black community owns speaking that way they're not the only culture who do it and it is more common for people to speak that way now

[@sweatykeyboard5489]

The glasses fit Devin so well

[@amani98001]

And a bit of sage too

[@alexahokai7821]

Love how they spend 30 mins analysing a fake scenario that would never happen HAHA it’s so entertaining

[@manikaur9030]

1:02:14 The lag on Devins side had me doing a double take cuz I couldn't tell if my eyes were delayed from being tired or if that shit actually wasn't in sync

[@nataliecastro1851]

25:09 this was prime example of Sean being an avoider when not caring to argue how many times Devon went around lol

[@kyrajaeee]

code switching in the black community is basically speaking or acting more socially acceptable to not be seen as like “ghetto” or to be profiled ig as opposed to speaking more comfortably and naturally and our slang

[@zpwash97]

As a black guy I agree with what how Christine described code switching for black people. My “White”(Professional) voice helps me conduct my work better. Unless I feel safe and comfortable i usually “put on” the voice a bit

[@mackenzie6992]

next time i'm struggling to do smth i'm gonna hear sean going "let's try a new approach" x4 in the back of my head LMAOOO

[@zodi1356]

maru’s gym progress is crazy

[@estrellabarron7705]

Nick talking over sage Sage:” HEEYY LET ME FINISH” 😂

[@manikaur9030]

1:56 What made sage think that aggressively pushing the door over and over would make it close 😭✋️

[@deliaarias993]

U should let Sean host next time

[@notnat8455]

idk if this is mean to say but I have realized that Sage is not really aware about a lot of things, like with aave, or even some other concepts in other podcasts that I thought most people knew about.

[@mackenzie6992]

nick actin like he wouldn't be watching sean thirst traps on REPEAT.. be who you are

[@ruysanti]

PETITION TO GET AN EP. WHERE YALL ARE HIGH ‼️‼️ that shit would be funny asf.

[@RebHabyass]

I really hate how they talk about women sometimes lmao women are “emotion-based” and men are “logically-based” y’all just lack emotional intelligence and believe misogynistic stereotypes - with love though

[@Yahir_1207]

They say MOST women and MOST men. Which is true at the end of the day. But they also said sometimes it can switch and they’re not bashing anyone for being one or the other. Men can be emotion based, women can be logically based. They’re not saying it’s not possible, they’re just saying what’s the most common

[@user-rb7yq9ng5r]

I was literally just thinking that, so when they talk about a guy’s opinion they call it logic, but when they’re referring to a woman’s opinion it’s based on emotion, which is such a misogynistic way of viewing arguments in relationships. I love them, but this was not it.

[@Arolynn]

Okay I see Maru being on time!!

[@carlindzikiti2380]

Christine was so proud of Devin being sassy 😂

[@kathleenapaez8077]

Every quiz I take with y’all, I realize how similar I am to sean cause I also got 83% avoider and have had similar to him In other quizzes

[@yassir._.723]

Damn that's me with sage, we always have the same lol

[@sofiacabrera9312]

Me with Christine 🫶🏼

[@dannyvasquez4937]

nah fr

[@whossamz]

you guys really be my comfort people to watch, always lift up my mood when i’ve had a shitty day, i am a fairly new subscriber but i’ve been trying to catch up on all the podcasts from the beginning as it makes me feel like i’m apart of the group, i wish i had such good friends like the way you guys are around each other, i hope one day i can find a healthy friendship group like you guys. ps nick n devin have already been in my dreams can i just say y’all are so funny. ❤

[@aavtyz_]

the only reason why I look forward to tuesday 😊

[@AyeYoT]

I love the fake scenarios, they’re so funny 😭😂

[@Sheiscynister]

I need to see a video with Sean seated I'm between Maru and Christine. I think their banter would be epic.

[@Sofia-hl8zi]

1:19:31 that arm stretch is crazy nick 😭

[@jessicaa15]

83% avoider 79% accommodator 45% compromiser 36% problem solver 0% competer imma people pleaser til the day i die😭😭

[@ahahaahaha9366]

The way I have been refreshing y’all’s page for the past 30 minutes waiting on the new upload😭😭😭 yall dropped right in time for me to eat dinner!!

[@kelseylelei]

i love getting off work and going straight to this podcast

[@SShawtyx3]

them laughing at sean for getting 83% avoider when I got 92% avoider 😭😭

[@nohemiramirez6716]

me and sean always match in the quizzes scores 😭

[@michelleindicaa]

I love Maru I just want to put her in my pocket

[@esmecelest]

I love Sean!!! he's such a great addition to the pod!!!!

[@madi3747]

Supporting me and my fellow avoiders ✊🏽✊🏽✊🏽✊🏽

[@1st_raised98]

The way I’m attracted to Sean is the same way I should be avoiding this type because I’m the same way 💀😂 the avoiding conflict & fearful attachment these tests are calling me out too much y’all need to chill 🤣

[@lauradominguez4746]

00:00 You go Maru🥰🫶🏽

[@IDk-st5ep]

I think devin is the sassiest

[@gabriellejohnson1474]

There’s a card game called we’re not really strangers I would love if y’all could play it it’s at target :)

[@user-um6gz3pu4e]

At 22:03 I was really wishing Shaun would’ve said “stand together, avoid forever” 😂😂

[@kygmzzzz]

been waiting for this all day 😩

[@zaina022]

When Sean said “let’s go sweet heart “* insert lip bite 🫦 *33:24

[@jawahernaser9150]

putting videos and reference made me happy it looks better

[@pagssds]

Nah that 1:01:00 got me dead Maru too funny 🤣🤣🤣 Christine’s reaction so good as well

[@jennyfranco7199]

That last question’s discussion was the best 😂

[@caprisunyummy]

we need more maru segments at the beginning

[@elifmeralxo]

addicted to watching these videos fr

[@manikaur9030]

5:58 I agree that it's mad cringe and pains me to see those tiktoks but why did Devin lowkey eat that up 😭

[@BaldHeadSosa]

Y’all just made me feel so much better about my 3 mins

[@Sara-lb9zh]

GOT SO HAPPY WIT THAT NOTIF THAT YALL POSTEDDDD

[@alwayskim4901]

i love how the emotionally mature ones are in the same frame and the emotionally... questionable ones are on the right. its so funny when one side all agrees while the other side disagrees at the same time

[@Lovenpets1234]

As a Hispanic who grew up in an urban area. Aave or code whatever tf is legit but not only simplified from the “hood” most people in urban areas speak that way. Just like how people on suburban areas speak a certain way. It’s dialect. If you grew up in an urban area you would speak differently than someone that grew up in the suburbs. Because of social norms speaking in your “white” voice is more “professional” and more accepted for customer service. I get what they were trying to say here but it’s not only the hood and not everyone just speaks that way. Loved the podcast, bye!

[@Isabella-mr3cm]

im so happy yall posted i kept on rewatching ur old vids😱

[@emelyponce2398]

My percentages for the quiz seems pretty accurate for me and I’ve noticed I relate to most of you depending on the topics/situations

[@miaperezz]

I’ve been loving these quiz type things 😂 can we continue doing more?!? Plus idk why but Sean looked Soo good in this awesome podcast 😍🫶🏻

[@Kayyall]

3:47 Sean’s response to Maru🥹

[@aryapalla2491]

?

[@amani98001]

​@@aryapalla2491 I think they meant how his response was reassuring her that the vid wasn't cringe at all

[@aryapalla2491]

@@amani98001 it was just a normal response tho, they were all alr kinda saying the same thing too

[@ashgutierrez-5617]

@@aryapalla2491 no he was sweeter, he said he would start posting too to make her feel comfortable

[@aryapalla2491]

@@ashgutierrez-5617 💀

[@kenjee03]

maru’s laugh is so cute at 45:02❤🥹

[@Carlos-pi6yc]

Sean be having “what if’s” that make an entire movie in my mind

[@alexandraramirez3975]

Petition for sage and devin to host Nesdy podcast

[@janicexiong1130]

ALWAYS SUCH AN AMAZING PLEASURE WATCHING YALLS PODDY!!! I LOVE YALLLLL 🫶🫶🫶

[@Ari-fo1tv]

26:31 nick backing up Sean and Sage cover Dev is so funny and cute 😭🩷

[@joslynreed6743]

I wish you guys took the time understand AAVE before speaking upon it.

[@awwzuzu]

i got 91% problem solver and 57% accommodator… no wonder why i bring so many concerns up in relationships but end up being the one to say sorry most of the time 😭😭

[@Darlingartee]

I finally got off work and I’m so happy with the new poddy

[@samanthasalazar6980]

I took the test and this is what I got. 100% Competer, 58% Avoider, 48% compromiser, 36% problem solver, 14% accommodator

[@ffaeye]

The fact that you said waldo and not wally threw me for a second.

[@vanessaaguilar1195]

MARU WITH THE FIT CHECK POPPED OFFFFFFF LUV U MARUUU 🫶🫶🫶

[@lokyrubio2852]

One of the best pods

[@scarlethunter9361]

I’m always so excited for this ❤❤❤

[@Vibeswithsami]

I think christine comment on aave was lowkey inappropriate bc it’s not only people who talk from the hood. You don’t have to be from the hood to speak like that it’s just more comfortable to speak to other black people in that manner. It’s the same with other cultures too as well. The way people speak to their own ethnicity versus people outside their own ethnicity is so different. I wish she hasn’t said the hood. I think a different example should have been used. Also if you deem it to be inappropriate to say let’s not say it.

[@Yahir_1207]

She said she didn’t want to say it, but she brought it up because it would make it easier to understand what she was trying to say. If someone doesn’t understand or doesn’t know what AAVE is, you could say it’s more of “hood” slang and they’ll immediately know what you’re talking about. She also said it’s not correct but it’s easier to understand that way for some people. She’s not saying AAVE is a hood dialect, just that influences of AAVE are found in the hood. Which is true.

[@kristyng2807]

It’s kind of a nice change in this podcast with a random clip of maru in the beginning LOL I could get used to that 😚

[@zahrahhaffejee]

I think Devin is the sassiest the things he says smt is so funny and sassy I'm like period. 😂

[@persi4488]

On break and thus video is what I needed

[@tainaiyasootall]

32:14 I know Sean is deep down a sassy little warrior 😊

[@Hannah-ws4qj]

nick biting sean at 12.30 is so funnyyyy

[@moolisssaa]

1:15:22 seans wheeze was everything i cant stop laughing 😭😭

[@alexagonzales6199]

My fav podcast to get me through work lol Also Sean would be the type of person to not have a case on their phone

[@simrans8050]

EVERYONE LOOKS SO CUTE IN THESE COSTUMESSS

[@graciemenchaca8068]

I think I’ve learned from the guys that guys don’t always not communicate they’re feelings bcs they don’t want to but bcs they don’t know how. which is why I think they’ve learned sm more bcs emotional intelligence is hard to grasp bcs it’s all about perspectives.

[@jazzyp13]

Had to pause at the part where dev was like yall need to watch Alice in borderland 😭!! I'm like ahhhhhh my favorite! My two worlds colliding 🤭🫶🏽 Okay dev if you read this you should watch sweet home its a kdrama! Pretty good new season should be coming out soon 😌 also all of us are dead, hellbound (new season coming soon), the uncanny counter. Okay I could go on for days ill stop there😅 Okay going back to the podcast 🫡

[@marascepovic8215]

I also got 83% avoider on the quiz Sean if it makes u feel any better 😀

[@totallyfab95]

Sean is so intune to Maru, its so cute!! I've been binging the pod videos and they have so many cute moments ◡̈

[@ivanchico7197]

Sage saying “ i like it tho” is facts 😭

[@ssairachaa]

I got 79% Accommodator, 64% Compromiser, 58% Avoider, 45% Problem Solver and 0% Competer 😅 My scores make a LOT of sense

[@kairaratima3302]

love maru’s fit check

[@Scharneliluvt]

Yall should get suburb talks tattooed on all of you guys as a group tattoo !!

[@naiateree8915]

im just like sean. having full conversations in my sleep, thinking random shit happened, sending ppl tiktoks.

[@martiama]

YUH ALICE IN BORDERLAND IS SO GOATED