Why Do I Have My HAIR Like This?

[@amadeus_ex7505]

Male confidence personified

[@terrorsquadlith]

real men dont care about hairloss

[@eswarjuri]

@@terrorsquadlith Then most men are no real men, because you will get bullied in school, Uni or work if you rock a haircut like this and you are young!

[@Dkingof]

@@eswarjuri and then only weak men would care about getting bullied by something like that. You are not that smart, eh?

[@eswarjuri]

@@Dkingof You show me first how not caring about being bullied looks if you are the only one with hair loss and that happens everyday. You are not that smart for a Canadian, eh?

[@aadarshjoshi_]

You are truly an inspiration for many of us

[@Baldcafe]

I appreciate your support brother

[@zubairwasit552]

@@Baldcafe Yessss

[@rolieploeg1807]

@@Baldcafe Hii yes your video's are here toooo kzbin.infobYJ1_DF9E_E

[@rolieploeg1807]

@@Baldcafe You need more finesss broo than you look good! plate belly!

[@chefduke3719]

@@Baldcafe ok baldy

[@dflosounds]

Awesome video and speech! I got my hairloss "diagnosis" from my barber during my freshman year at college, which set the tone for my entire time there. I remember it all like it was yesterday; walking to class with my head hung low so that the wind wouldn't reveal my receding hairline; constantly checking my hair in the mirror, as if keeping my eye on it would stop it from falling out; waking up and checking my pillow to see how much came out overnight. It was an ongoing nightmare. And worst of all, I felt like I was the only one. If only your channel existed then! Thanks for always putting yourself out there for the rest of us.

[@blake_229]

Going bald is an anxiety that I think most of society doesn't talk about. We are told to just suck it up, which we do. But the anxiety is still there.

[@TheOnlyKontrol]

Well if everything reminds you and everything you view shows you the nice head of hair you could have what do you expect? Y’all are on the root cause of most of your anxiety…the internet. We’ve seen what anxiety we can get from something we can’t even see cough cough…Covid

[@JoelGonzalez-xb2ip]

Hair is overrated don't sweat it

[@bobcobb158]

thats being a man brother. Sucks for all guys, but you suck it up and do it.. just like everything that sucks in life

[@Jonkoloog]

​@@TheOnlyKontrol Who is Y'all? Are you literally not on the internet right now?

[@Baldcafe]

It's all anxiety

[@KuntHuge9068]

This is powerful man, I hope everyone feeling the same as you gets to see this and gets to be empowered by your journey

[@BigPloopy]

I hope this comment gets to you been watching you for years and can so much relate to the old video of young you. I began balding at 15 so it was a huge insecurity of mine and got laughed at by peers. Finally at 18 I shaved it all based on this channel, I am really happy you are pioneering this online community. I hope you understand that seeing this helps men realize not all the fancy tik tokers with lushious hair is the norm. Seeing bald men helps me realize it's normal for us to lose it eventually. Thanks bro💪

[@mnnglss_xstnc]

I like your hair, you look like a philosopher

[@nicks6813]

Your diving headlong into your own fear and anxiety is the definition of courage, and inspires me (and countless others). You are doing the "hard work" we all know is what's beneath the anxiety and showing the path. Thank you thank you thank you.

[@StephenIC]

I love this channel so much. Honestly if I saw someone in public with hair like yours, I would assume they're in denial and think "come on man just shave it off you'll look way better" But to see you sporting it by choice and with such confidence has changed my perspective a bit.

[@justlaughatlife8461]

@James Harris 💯 what a statement

[@andyjones5824]

@@shyman99 I can go half way to agreeing with this..... you have to go 50/50 between what you want yourself and what your girlfriend/wife/partner would like to see. After following the videos on this channel I finally shaved my head and feel good about it. My wife loves my bald head too. I prefer my beard longer but my wife prefers just stubble instead of a beard. All of life is about compromise so st the moment I'm trying a long stubble which I don't mind, so both happy. Good to explore and confront your demons though harry. At the end of the day, do what makes you happy and thanks for the videos. Rock it the way you want man

[@andyjones5824]

@James Harris No not at all. We don't tell each other what to do at all. That's why I grew a beard which she didn't originally approve of and then we respected each others opinions. It's all about balance of of opinion. At the end of the day it's each individual's choice. But would you do something to your appearance if everyone around you didn't like it and told you you it didn't look great?

[@KingOfTheCapybaras]

@@shyman99 The way you talk about him is really weird and quite ironically considering your whole point being respect, very disrespectful. "Endure" "deteriorate" "rat infested look" etc. He has grown his hair out as part of a challenge to himself. Hes lost 30 pounds and is more comfortable with himself. Not sure how his hair is infested as it looks clean. At the end of the day its nobodys business what anyones hair looks like and its nice to see him more comfortable with something that gave him such life changing anxiety and watch him improve himself and continue on his journey. Get a grip and stop caring so much just because literal strands of hair are growing out of someones head lmao

[@prod7906]

Unironically, I think he looks better with that cut then no hair at all, mixed with his beard, it looks pretty sagely.

[@loveandrespecttoall9980]

You beat it, well done. My father went bald and had the full horse shoe by 30. Mines thinning my father told me that the journey is long and tough but you will get over it. I loved your video with your father and the two of you sharing your own thoughts and feelings, different era but the same mental pain. As always keep up the great work you have helped me and so many many others

[@X_theOracle]

Keep the travel videos going, you are so natural and authentic. Your channel will explode. 1 million subs is within your grasp, just push forward its yours,

[@elijahsmith5570]

Bro, I've been watching you for 2 years, and it's been an amazing journey to see. I'm not even balding but I love what you have to say about insecurity in general and just giving confidence back to guys. When you say that you're now walking around as the very picture of the man that your younger self did not want to become, it really makes me think. Despite shaving your head to avoid your fears and keep confidence, now you have fully embraced the fears and lived them out fully, and you're loving it! It brings me lots of hope for being able to overcome my own insecurities and worries in the future. Thank you so much, God Bless and a happy new year!

[@johnduv07]

Incredible, this makes me rethink my own approach. Been buzzing for a couple years now... May just let it go, try to face the anxiety 🙏 thanks for the confidence boost brother. Your look is great either way!

[@phinkss]

Stumbled across this channel after several years. Just want to say you made me be confident with my baldness when I first watched your videos. Glad to see you still thriving mate

[@Mattrycky]

This channel was the catalyst to shaving my head completely bald a couple of years ago. It’s done my confidence a world of good. Better yet, it’s so damn easy to maintain that I can’t see myself going back. My point to this is to acknowledge the inspiration you have given me and that you’re doing so much good for a lot of men out there!

[@Baldcafe]

Very pleased to hear it brother 🤝

[@foxhound13]

Its amazing how I my view on baldness has changed because of this channel. I hardly follow bloggers or anything like this. Just how many years I wasted worry about my hair. And seeing you having that hair and living a confident life traveling is inspiration. There is just so much shit out on the internet but there are inspirational people that don't get enough recognition or the thanks for having the idea to film the journey and share it. Thank you for this. I am amazed you had video of yourself so young talking about your hair falling out, and kind of fun to know that that guy will inspire many in his future.

[@Flowerlifts111]

Copium

[@kyrylopaints]

I feel many things from watching your brilliant videos but the main message i always hear is "hairloss is ok, you'll be ok". Thank you

[@chrismartin5870]

You are so human mate. Love the way you lay bare your insecurities. Stay strong mate.

[@tomandmarley]

The best comment I’ve ever seen on your videos is from that video of you realising your hair was going and going through such despair. The comment said “That lad needs Baldcafe” Mate the work you have done has helped so many people. Absolute legend 👍🏼

[@dimitrisp90]

I was rocking the balding hair for almost 20 years before going bald and I didn't feel insecure most of the time. But I wanted the shaved head look only because I had tried it before and I liked the feel of shaved/buzzed hair. However I can say I felt less insecure in my balding hair than with a shaved head(each time I decided to shave it). Then I found your channel where you say you can be confident bald so I took the step. So your channel did help me. However I found out that the bald buzzcut suits me more than the razored head, so that's what I'm going with. And since I'm confident with my balding hair I don't have a schedule buzzing my hair, I just do it whenever I feel. Anyway, happy new year everyone!

[@oesyps3]

You are such an amazing guy! I've been watching you videos for a long time, and it has completely ereased every self doubt if I want to shave my hair off one day. My hair is still full., but it runs in the family. I have probably watched every single video, especially enjoyed those where the video was about you and your very real stories. You are an inspiration to many, escpecially in a time where all those weird lifestyle KZbinrs that only talk about masculinity and dumb dating strategies exist. Thank you for everything!

[@Baldcafe]

Thank you so much for the kind works brother. I really can’t stress how much I appreciate having you and other like minded people here as part of the channel. I know this is only a comment reply but I truly mean that 🤝

[@DropoutJerome]

I sometimes lurk on this channel out of boredom and I was going to laugh if this trip was to a Chinese hair transplant clinic or something like that, but it ended up being incredibly inspiring. You're a legend dude

[@madharaboy]

Fpr a second there, I thought he was going to North Korea🥲

[@julianp.5818]

Thanks for this video Harry. You inspire me so much, I've been growing the hair for two weeks now. I'm gonna shave it off again in about six weeks, but for now I want to learn how to accept myself just the way I am. I don't have to hide anything from anyone anymore.

[@Atlas92936]

This felt very intimate and ethereal for some reason. There is an army standing behind you. I’ve been eating like shit as I’ve been in a rut the past few weeks. I woke up at 4am today, took a shower, and I will go get a run and some calisthenics in. Time to fix up the diet.

[@mckonal]

among many things, your not using sub-music in your videos and edits is what I like about your channel sir. keep up.

[@maesterjono]

5 minutes of absolute pure gold, Harry. Keep it growing imo mate - push the boundaries. Cheers, Jono.

[@MartinHervy]

I was waiting to know what was the plan with this! The video did not disappoint. And the main takeaway I got from all your videos: it doesn't matter what you do with it! It's all about being confident with whatever you have on your head 😎

[@dmarc3050]

I live you thank you for giving me hope for self acceptance

[@Baldcafe]

It’s all possible man 👍

[@ihaveaidsish]

Awesome man well done. A proper influencer.

[@velvetsunset343]

What a powerful video! Well done mate this was spectacular. You've shown that true bald acceptance goes beyond just shaving your head, what it really means is maintaining your self worth whatever your hair looks like. Obsessing over shaving/buzzing can be damaging too, it was in my case. In my opinion you've gone beyond just the balding issue, this speaks to overcoming the overall human experience of insecurity and just concentrating on living your life to the maximum. Taking your insecurities, whatever they may be, head on, improving yourself and concentrating on things that make you happy. It's important to take care of yourself sure but also very important to remember your worth isnt dependent on a characteristic or a change in your appearance. The hair actually ended up looking quite decent too!

[@SqueezySponge]

Shave shave shave LETS GO MATE BEEN WAITING A WHILE FOR THIS MOMENT

[@mujtabaqamar7194]

Thank you so much for this video, it just proves that if you rock a balding look and be confident with it, you don't need to go bald, it's you who decide to be insecure of imperfections, not the society who dictates u

[@guksack]

One of my favourite videos of yours. Does everything I needed to see when I was worried like you were. I hope it helps many in those early stages. Also I grew my hair out for two months last year after Covid made me lazy and it was quite fun going back to shampooing etc!

[@lucaswb1433]

I love being part of this community. Thanks for sharing your story! Looking forward for more awesome stuff!

[@Abyssaeon]

Keep it flowing, man. I’m in a very similar situation. I met with a dermatologist and discussed options, and when I left, I just thought - what am I doing? Why should this matter? These are my genetics. This is how it is. Yes, I can alter it a bit, but not forever, and it would come at a price - the known cost, as well as the definite as well as potential side effects. I just sort of said, F it. I should focus on my health, my vocation, my life satisfaction over all, not clinging to transient youth and vanity. My thinking just evolved. Embrace the skullet. Flaunt it. Cultivate confidence over more important areas of life. Many women have told me flat out that they are more attracted to confidence than mere appearance - and certainly found obsession over appearance to be off putting and frankly un-masculine. They want strength and manliness and certitude, and those are our natural best assets, when we refine them.

[@AshtoneTV]

Harry, I've been following your videos for a long time, I find it admirable that you have achieved the great challenge of being comfortable with the "horseshoe look" and that you have been able to return to that place with a totally different perspective and mentality. I'm still at the stage of feeling comfortable with shaving my hair, but your videos are helping me achieve it. I admire your bravery

[@forhisglory700]

Good on you brother. You've assisted countless others with acceptance and moving on.

[@lonestar2276]

Honestly, that balding hair with that beard looks pretty sweet, man. It's great for that natural rugged look, at least in my opinion. It's a massively underrated look I think, and It can look pretty amazing as you've shown us here. Besides that, with all that you do, you've inspired so many great people here, thanks man!

[@galacticstarcrew4279]

Yeah, I totally agree with you. I suppose it all comes down to the individual and what they prefer.

[@patrickbateman8699]

he is better with that hair ... he mustn't shave it

[@AZ-gs6hj]

No it doesn’t. Quit lying to him

[@lonestar2276]

@@AZ-gs6hj Your opinion. 👍

[@matiomo]

No... he looks homeless with that hair

[@whitewolf-hn2sk]

Brilliant video bro Well well done sir!!!!! Your one subscriber that I really look forward to producing new content. And long my that reign....

[@soundoftoday10]

I really liked Harry's long hair. It was interesting to see him. Thanks for give confidence to a lot of people. You rock!

[@corruptedbrain6]

your message hit hard... i have a lot of pondering to do my friend

[@frosts1956]

I think a good video/next step would be to purchase a hair system and wear it for a month or two, simply to showcase to people how stressful it actually is. alot of people get one or think having one will make the problem go away however it actually only makes you even more hyper aware of it ("can people tell" "is it see through" "has it moved" the cost, the maintenance etc etc) I think people would actually listen to what your experience of one is and that it most likely is just another way to create worries for yourself! I actually really wanted one for the past 2 years, however after realizing all this i'm pretty grateful that I've lost that urge. I think others would benefit from being given this same peace of mind too! :)

[@linusst8019]

Wow Bro Ur such an Inspiration! I currently have a few hair left but soon I’ll go completely bald and because of ur channel I’m not scared Good job ! Keep up the great work :)

[@venkateshramanathan7599]

You are helping many people! redefining taboos about baldness! thank you so much from deep of my heart 💓!

[@LowleyUK]

I've really enjoyed your videos around China. You should do a travel vlog channel like Bald and Bankrupt and Kurt Kaz. You're a natural at it!

[@cjdriving22]

Gali damn this guy has balls to wear his hair like that🙌🏻

[@Baldcafe]

I thank you sir

[@zakriaimran9952]

​@@Baldcafe please checkout fueexpert transplant clinic results on youtube. People in norwood 5-6 get head full of hair best hair transplant centre you will ever see..! I suggest..Do check ❤

[@cjdriving22]

@@Baldcafe unfortunately i didn’t accepted the fact that i’m going bald and i got SMP a few months ago… i have light blonde hair…. “Had” i rectify

[@Mikeysham]

@@cjdriving22 was it a good decision, or do you regret it?

[@cjdriving22]

@@Mikeysham so far i feel good about myself with the SMP bc its only been a few months since i have it. We’ll see in the future how its holding up

[@dipakkumarmuduli6445]

Thank you for inspiring us...I am grateful for having you in my life as motivator. Now a days I learn to accept myself as I am with my flaws.I learn to comfortable myself. Love you spread positivity......

[@Tomas.P]

Thank you Harry. I buzzed my head yesterday with guard 0... still not sure if I like it. This video gives me confidence... I can regrow it anytime and dont give a damn about it. Its not "weird" or anything like that. You look amazing. Smile, be positive and DO THINGS. Then you can have any type of hair and you will look amazing.

[@asamatteroflaw570]

You, my good sir, are absolutely inspiring!!! Great video editing and substance!

[@yannpatry5841]

You look amazing with or without hair 🏆

[@tenchichrono]

I'm fortunate to not be balding but your story resonates with us all on things that may prevent us from achieving our goals. Props bro.

[@sehrerwachsen8955]

How old are you? No balding signs at all?

[@tenchichrono]

@@sehrerwachsen8955 77 right now. I've been blessed. Thank the Lord.

[@00700556]

Same. 31- not balding and all and prob never will but it’s just so interesting

[@sehrerwachsen8955]

@@00700556 i dont think youre out of the woods already with 31 :D

[@AstroNope1]

This channel gave me a sort of peace with my balding head. I'm fortunate to be able to grow a beard, will focus on that then take the plunge and shave off this dying forest.

[@amnesiac9397]

Yet another inspiring video! It’s thanks to these videos I finally got the courage to shave my hair off and honestly, it’s the best decision I ever made! All the stresses and worries are gone and people actually love it! I’ve been slowly balding for a while but in the last year it’s really nosedived so I’d been toying with the idea but never had the balls to, until I found this channel, so just thanks so much 😊

[@TheLogan1186]

This dude is a solid representation of not letting your hair define you. So many ppl out there living in anxiety and shame based on what society depicts as beautiful or handsome. All these cookie cutter tik tokers are just scared conformists. We need more Ppl like you bratha:

[@paul5324]

@duncanmacleod7287classic troll.

[@paul5324]

@duncanmacleod7287 yep

[@exactly1176]

@duncanmacleod7287 fact. Finasteride is a super safe drug and this channel is about coping

[@exactly1176]

@@paul5324 he is not trolling but just saying a fact

[@SoFGR]

@@exactly1176 roflmao

[@adrianborek7598]

I know that this is slightly off-topic, but I think more travel videos and the way you tell stories are great! Really enjoy listening to you. Thanks for the great video

[@justinengland9814]

This is so powerful and makes perfect sense. I was interested in your hair story as we know you are normally a shaved head dude. I do enjoy yours videos.

[@Baldcafe]

Glad you enjoyed it!

[@LRM5195]

What’s ironic is a lot of bald men are shaming receding men to cut it all off, but some guys just look way better with a receding look.

[@rzbo9000]

Shaved head, not shaved, Long hair, doesnt matter, the important is to rock and embrace balding

[@rocketman3066]

@@rzbo9000 Why embrace when you can stop it with finasteride/dutasteride, minoxidil and hair transplant?

[@amey104_]

@@rocketman3066 you can't and you have to repeat it again and again. So why waste so much money when it's going to occur again

[@rocketman3066]

@@amey104_ But you can. Finasteride/dutasteride stops balding in majority of people, add minoxidil to that, and one or more hair transplants, which is a permanent solution, and you don't go bald. Also, the point is to prevent baldness in your 20's and 30's. I really don't mind being bald after I turn 40-45...

[@kwt2000trucker]

I have never seen a guy who looks good with a receding look. A shaved head look a lot better, sharper, cleaner, tougher

[@mazzsolo619]

Congrats on achieving your goal Harry! But…you gotta drop the routine/diet plan. I need to lose 15lbs and you’ve been my inspiration for everything the last few years

[@phczajkowskij]

Congratulations ! You look really great? To the question "what to do next ?" Maybe try the combover/comb forward style, just for fun, of course. Then ... That's your hair !

[@lnbabz]

Great mindset and with confidence and self-respect you can conquer everything!

[@BigGreedyWolf]

What a wonderful video. Thanks for being such an inspiration

[@gloriouskatatsumuri]

Only just noticed the thumbnail on this one. Love it 😍

[@probablyoversharingpodcast815]

This is just a great video, straight up. For so many reasons. Don't even need to name them all. It's pure, well intentioned, inspiring and entertaining. Great work.

[@szekike4095]

You are a legend man !

[@officialsilverbusiness613]

I have to say dude, I think this hair length doesn't look bad at all (to be clear, I mean the one with a little more length in the back) - despite the balding. I never thought that someone could pull this look off, but you just did it!

[@robertshamrock8070]

Much respect to you Baldcafe! ✊🙌

[@leonski8528]

Striving confidence, it's actually really cool to show a different side of hair loss and owning it. Keep up the good work sir.👍 Great job on the weight loss, look awesome man.💪

[@lookout9345]

This channel is one the greatest inspirations in my life! HNY continue to inspire men all around the world! I wasted my 20’s because of my hair loss never again!

[@larrylongprong5219]

Thank you for your honesty. Enjoy the confidence of not giving a shit anymore! 👍👍👍👏👏👏

[@HZIEI]

I think that Milan look suited you best. That nice beard with the decent hair length on top. Cheers Harry 😎

[@CurtisC685]

You really did rock the Norwood 5. It can be done

[@victoremery]

That Thumbnail is class!

[@Baldcafe]

Cheers Victor 👍

[@victoremery]

@@Baldcafe You're doing amazing work with your message and videos! :) True inspiration!

[@willberkowitz8269]

Harry, Congrats on achieving your body weight goal and achieving so much wisdom. Thank you for sharing with us.

[@jgonsalk]

Faark! This kinda makes me regret my SMP! I got a subtle job done but I do sometimes want to grow it out and give less of a crap about it. This is awesome content, very inspirational!

[@Kkvta]

It all makes sense, I've been wondering and asking for a while. Respect man, great job.

[@rogergalindo7318]

man, you’re such an inspiration! love your confidence

[@ndehm10]

This is truly incredible. Thank you for everything man. I will forever be indebted to you for giving me the courage to take the plunge at a young age. 🙏❤️

[@iphone4wsom3]

I love you man! I’m growing out my hair again because I want to and because I love myself. Also I recognized that fear of living life, though not entirely because people would see my balding hair but simply because of me having a fear of people, of life and living. I’ve recently started to break through that bs survival mode and actually started doing things and going places. I choose to live life instead of fearing it. :)

[@arno94s58]

I'm not sure if I speak for a lot of guys here but thank you for sharing your story and the stories of so many other guys struggle with baldness. I shaved my head two years ago. The moment someone at work said to me my hair was falling out, my confidence dropped like a rock. The first weeks were so hard because I was so embarrassed and worried. Worried that I wouldn't be attractive anymore. I tried everything to hide it. I searched for every possible solution. I tried even denying it first. But I knew I couldn't do that. Eventually everything became better when I regularly starting watching your channel. My fear and stress went away and finally found acceptance; You saved me from a lot of worrying and maybe even falling into a depression. Again, I think I speak for a lot of guys here. Thanks you so much bro.

[@kostantinossv5810]

You are better than bald I think by far! This hair style all hair back look so gentleman so good I think with a right dress outfit you’ll rock hard

[@gitgiit6894]

Thank you very much , you just inspired me to start pyrilutamide .as long as there is something to do about losing my hair i will never give

[@morriskeller]

Very inspirational. I think your videos help a lot of men overcome their insecurities much faster.

[@TanT423]

Awesome video and I’m glad you made this. My gf was also impressed. You’ve shown that’s it’s not always about the hair but how you handle life itself with a positive outlook. Keep it up!

[@comonerleon]

You the man brother ❤️ much love

[@tanneryoung6439]

let’s goooo!!! love that you finally made this video 🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼

[@martyn1678]

well done harry, you rule your hair not the other way around so yeh hats off to you 👏👏👏

[@wheeliewheelie]

another good video sir...his hair looks good because his confidence has gone up...

[@jamesjameson7635]

Your hair looks Fantastic like that brother! It really looks good grown out with the beard combo it looks great!

[@Liam_Pac]

Mate!! Absolute banger of a video! So very happy for you! ❤

[@bd5697]

Dude you rock it so well. Look like a boss

[@davidanthonygrech9079]

Harry- thank you for being an inspiration to me and so many others!! While you have that much hair to work with- maybe rock a skullet (bald mullet) for fun before shaving it all again?

[@Jdeezy4]

This is hair loss as a spiritual journey, thanks for leading the way for so many of us to follow

[@AlexEdfort]

This was my favorite video on your channel! Bro, you are FREE!! I wonder, what are you going to do next?

[@thelastofgus]

Keep going strong on your journey!

[@Docholiday728]

This channel 100% gave me the confidence to let go of my hat and shave my head went to work next day with the pale head and felt great finally don’t feel self conscious about just walking in with not a care in the world thank you Harry big motivation brother

[@lancelot_28]

Most people focus on the final destination when what really matters is the process, the journeys and this video explained pretty well Thank You Mate :D

[@daveythomas4473]

Mate u look amazing with a bald head tbh people always see you in a better light than yourself x

[@milesolsen_]

Dude this is awesome

[@erickluna0247]

Im not bald or going bald, but damn I love watching this channel! Respect✊🏻

[@Zombie101]

one day!

[@TheRoarWithin]

As someone with a slightly receded or mature hairline, but an otherwise full head of hair, I admire you and am inspired by you so much. Not only have you created a wonderful community for men who need support going through a difficult change, but you are just a nice dude who makes excellent content. Much love✌️