“He fell in lust with you and you fell in desperation with him “
@jessybil4 жыл бұрын
I bursted in tears 😂😂😂, Tony and his unintended jokes
@swayze24034 жыл бұрын
It’s so true though 😞
@merlinsvdd3 жыл бұрын
So true. I did that. My biggest downfall ever.
@mahletalem3 жыл бұрын
So true.
@lizzylewis57934 жыл бұрын
So true...grow/fall into love first, get married, then give up the cookie. Ladies, sex should be the last thing you give to a man. He needs to earn it and your love first. Love yourself first, become healthy, healed, whole, confident, and be about your purpose. God will send that man to find you. There is nothing you have to do when God is is the mix, He is all knowing and doesn't need our help. Peace and blessings to you🙏
@angelicaangel26244 жыл бұрын
Yes yes and YES ! ☺
@lizzylewis57934 жыл бұрын
@@NikNik0123 Thanks!
@smile_nia_3 жыл бұрын
🎯
@Spark_Grace4 жыл бұрын
My Dad always told me if I’m not interested in a man and I know the man is interested in me, don’t accept anything from him, not even a dinner.
@Spark_Grace4 жыл бұрын
Jill Berry I respectfully disagree with many of your points. But to each its own...
@nikkyshamz26964 жыл бұрын
💯💯💯
@CeeceeH18194 жыл бұрын
There's a lot of damaged people walking around these days. Be careful in the dating game.
@brianrenarddavis7234 жыл бұрын
That's why I purchased a plant. It ain't broke my heart yet.
@mirandasmith85014 жыл бұрын
@@brianrenarddavis723 😭😭😭😭😭😭You right
@brianrenarddavis7234 жыл бұрын
@@mirandasmith8501 um serious these folk online talm bout they hurt. I know they is hurt.
@kat79394 жыл бұрын
Truth!
@leandrecheriviere42184 жыл бұрын
@@brianrenarddavis723 😂😂😂😂
@TreasureTeresa4 жыл бұрын
To the real women... when we close our legs and set strict boundaries...the male boy realizes..This ain't no loose bootie! So TRUE...Be Blessed!
@mouniadia19513 жыл бұрын
Teresa Freeman -this ain't no loose bootie 😂😂😂!!! SOOO true indeed!!i let them initiate and observe them at the same time
@Faithandseekerofchrist4 жыл бұрын
2020 is the year I won’t be used anymore because I won’t be in a relationship. Instead I will be focusing on my goals.
@marymesk5774 жыл бұрын
that's the spirit girrl . you got to shut them ron possibles when they approach you . take care
@BklynBabe4 жыл бұрын
Funny how women are "easy" but men are "experienced" 🤔
@TonyGaskins4 жыл бұрын
The world we live in. Men are easier than women, but both can be easy and experienced.
@ChloeLayneXO4 жыл бұрын
Because women are supposed to be worked for and men are doing the work...
@quianabraden35164 жыл бұрын
Exactly!
@ChloeLayneXO3 жыл бұрын
@Bridgee Bridge I've never met a woman that got mad at that lol
@ChloeLayneXO3 жыл бұрын
@Bridgee Bridge we like being pursued
@c.jjohnson51794 жыл бұрын
Yes bro you right alot men get enough of women after having sex 11 time. When I was playing in the field and operating from my brokenness got enough of a women after had sex one time and move to the next women. But that's why come your page get knowledge and approve so I can become and be a better man daily. And got couple of course to.Allot facts in what you say.
@Ulzannghome4 жыл бұрын
Wow a men finally admits he has brokenness. Jesus must be on his way back
@c.jjohnson51794 жыл бұрын
@@Ulzannghome Yes that was how who use to be. Yeah Jesus must be coming back sooner then we think lol. Alot people cant admit when was living or where they went wrong. But only get better is to admit where you were at so you can know where your heading to . So look back and see where you been
@itsHappening-ry2ef4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for being honest
@missj55644 жыл бұрын
If he thinks I am easy on first meeting me that is his problem, he cannot put me in the category with other women. That is such a turn off when men pre-judge women. Immature boys think this way.
@misstab28694 жыл бұрын
Exactly!!!
@dasani60554 жыл бұрын
Only players think women are easy the average man ain't getting ass like that.
@lcjones46824 жыл бұрын
Dasani605 yeah the average man is. I have male co workers who are average and they talk about how easy it is to get sex and to get it on the 1st date. Even when they tell the women that they are looking for more than just sex they say the women insist on having sex. I knew these men well and they were looking for a special woman so they weren’t players. Plus I can tell from my own dating experiences that men get sex easily. The last guy I dated and have known for 8 years told me I was the only woman that made him wait because usually he gets a woman in bed after about 1 week. I also have female co-workers that give up sex on the 1st meetup or within the 1st week of meeting a man.
@missj55644 жыл бұрын
@@dasani6055 Most of them are lying. You will go on a date with them and they will say you had sex with them.
@lovemyself91254 жыл бұрын
@@lcjones4682 Some women are not looking for a relationship and show love by pleasing a man. It don't make them a hoe, they don't know any better. Birds that flock together stay together. It's like 10 women to 1 man. If all 10 women say no, let's date and maybe 3 or 5 dates, you can come over. Some men would change and maybe settle down because not all men will date every woman he meet or wait for sex.
@LadyAngela6784 жыл бұрын
Men are easier. All you got to do is be alive, say hello, and not smell too bad.
@beauphomasterpiece37954 жыл бұрын
First Name Last Name right don’t even have to be a woman anymore these days . As long as you can get them off .
@ItsELE34 жыл бұрын
First Name Last Name 😩😩😂😂
@googleuser44284 жыл бұрын
chile, even if the smell is bad... they'll complain about the smell but AFTER the fact...lol
@pooh40254 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂 Just have a hole..any kind 🙄
@ChinadollcocoCaramel4 жыл бұрын
@@beauphomasterpiece3795 lol 🤣
@Godislove8184 жыл бұрын
Set firm boundaries ladies. Be Blessed !
@MsEvonU4 жыл бұрын
Amen! Thank you Tony! Men won't think you are a loose booty if you: 1. Keep your legs closed 2. Set Strick Boundaries 3. Come to the Table Like a BOSS! Be Blessed!🙏❤🦋
@googleuser44284 жыл бұрын
Most men treats relationships as if its a burden, married men IMO are the most thirsty, they act as if they are in bondage and needs to be freed. LOL. I'm very attractive, but abstinent for over 17 yrs. At this point I do feel hopeless, scared and will most likely die with cobwebs. It should not be this hard. I'm over it!
@ak-47intelligence754 жыл бұрын
Tell a man upfront if you choose to date, you want to honour God and lay off sex, sexting, nudes etc and see if he stays. Before you go on ANY date, ask how many women he has slept with. If he has a high body count, dont even bother seeing him. Some lie but you will see from the way he conducts himself, also, these days, a lot of them dont feel the need to lie. If you start by choosing quality men, you will eventually find a quality man. What's important is you choose to honour GOD and HE will bless you. He is a good father.
@laprincesse93124 жыл бұрын
But will be 40 years old and worn out expecting to find a good, beautiful woman to marry once they have slowed down? They aim shit
@googleuser44284 жыл бұрын
@@ak-47intelligence75 Thank you!
@miunicorn13244 жыл бұрын
Jill Berry THANK GOD... Somebody Knows! Bless You Miss🙏🏽
@mmommo-hx4dx2 жыл бұрын
same
@teetrustyah18494 жыл бұрын
Close my legs Set boundaries (strong boundaries)💪💪💪💪💪 Pay for my own meal but if he insist I am not going to feel guilty of not giving up my virtue (No cookies) at allllllll🍷🥗🥘 And drive my own car🚘🚘🚘🚗 And sleep in my own bed 🛏🛏🛏 GOT IT!!!!!!🤗🤗🤗🤗😘
@rozh83214 жыл бұрын
YESSSSSSSSS
@anointedstilettos4 жыл бұрын
Thank you!
@myramilton18334 жыл бұрын
Bad advice about a woman paying for a date. Women dont pay for a dates sir. I dont feel guilty at all.
@myramilton18334 жыл бұрын
Close legs, set boundaries, but dont pay for a date.
@anointedstilettos4 жыл бұрын
@@myramilton1833 Tony isn't saying pay for a date you're invited to. Just offer to show your independence because typically the man will say no anyway.
@zinahaddow47844 жыл бұрын
tony u the realest out here....i feel like i grow into a better woman each time u give me these advises
@weareuniqueforareason75034 жыл бұрын
Same
@nikkyshamz26964 жыл бұрын
Ditto
@itsHappening-ry2ef4 жыл бұрын
He throwing diamonds ‼️🌟🌟
@tstewart86984 жыл бұрын
We are living in a "hook up" culture, so most people (men and women) have no standards. It's time (been time) to reintroduce standards to our community.
@traquilasmith22754 жыл бұрын
Ladies let keep God first spend time with God and yourselves forgive yourselves and continue to learn, heal, grow and make better good positive changes. Come to the table with your standards and boundaries like a boss and if he dont like it tell him good bye dont waste your time. Every men is not worth our time and body keep legs close wait until you ready for the right man God has for you. Dont allow no one to disrespect you and dont disrespect yourselves. Dont ignore the red flags its for a reason pay attention. Stay focus on your values, worth, goals and dreams. Tony you right thank you always keeping it real i needed this. We need to hear the real truth.God will always show us who people really are. God bless all.😁👏👍
@tameekaharris64254 жыл бұрын
Yes and Amen!! I get it now my mind is being prepared and I am equipped. I'm so done with being mishandled.
@TiffanyFG4 жыл бұрын
Yes indeed. I notice the comments (right comments) that mention God first and God as the lead has the least thumbs up. It's no wonder so many women are having trouble, and they will keep, until they understand God comes first and then the blessings/real men.
@aliciabee27814 жыл бұрын
😘😘😘😘😘😘😘true true.
@marqthegirl314 жыл бұрын
Who else is cracking up at this "lil book of names" 😩😂😂😂 Wow, men are pettier than I thought smh..
@heisabletodo4 жыл бұрын
It’s a sad state of humanity when men think it’s strange that another man is faithful to his wife .. And this is why Hell is continuing to fill up with these men and with the women they sleep with outside of marriage
@thisqueeniswokenow58954 жыл бұрын
Yep, a lot of men think just like this.
@anointedstilettos4 жыл бұрын
💯💯💯
@RachelNicole4 жыл бұрын
Yoooooo my man gets played at work for being faithful to me cause every other dude at his job be smashing chicks on the job and go home to they girls but my dude too thurl for that he laughs at them cause it’s like wtf is the point of a relationship if that’s how y’all gonna run shit but that’s just how our world is
@Itchpls4 жыл бұрын
2020 the year of keeping your legs closed
@crystalmarcia26144 жыл бұрын
I’m not ashamed to say that I have been this woman! I thank God that I have healed from past insecurities that have led me to be desperate. Thank you for this it was well needed 💪🏾🗣‼️
@Iamcherese4 жыл бұрын
Everytime you say “desperate” I see a woman falling down to the floor in my mind😂😂😂🙄
@TonyGaskins4 жыл бұрын
Lol! #BlessedFam
@lakeisharansom70424 жыл бұрын
Lollll
@anointedstilettos4 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂
@savvydavvy34634 жыл бұрын
For real!!
@JasminMarie4 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂
@ebonieshenece4 жыл бұрын
Be blessed.🙏🏾 I started my purity walk 1 year and 5 months ago. The best thing I could’ve ever did.
@anitaeast92014 жыл бұрын
ebonie shenece GOD BLESS YOU SIS!!! Hang in there when the times get tough. Trust GOD, pray much. Read your Bible. Submit yourself TOTALLY to GOD. He is the way, the truth and the light!!!! He will always sustain you. Remember GOD Strength is made perfect in your weakness!!!! Corinthians 12:7-10.
@anitaeast92014 жыл бұрын
ebonie shenece I have not been sexually active for over 5 yrs. now!!!! TO GOD BE THE GLORY, for the great things he has done. I am a BORN AGAIN virgin. Praise JESUS, through his blood. I have had sex before so at times it can be trying to STAND here! However, but GOD he keeps and sustains me through it all!!! I was in a relationship for 3 1/2 yrs. and me and that man never had sex, never laid together, never came close, never saw each other exposed!!!! GLORY to GOD!!!!
@savvydavvy34634 жыл бұрын
I'm starting mine today!
@anitaeast92014 жыл бұрын
Dania Morris GOD BLESS YOU!!! Pray much, read your Bible much. Totally submit yourself you body to GOD as a living sacrifice holy and pure!!!! GOD will take care of you. He will sustain you!!! Do not believe the lies of the devil. Stand on the word of GOD continue to STAND!!!!!
@sophisticatedmm36324 жыл бұрын
I've been celibate over 2 years, best thing ever. Too many STDs/ venereal diseases out here.
@FeelingFitFabFun4 жыл бұрын
How to get men to call you? Literally every man wants to text these days. Every one of them.
@mesidye4 жыл бұрын
Say you can’t read. 😂💀
@FeelingFitFabFun4 жыл бұрын
@@mesidye 😂😂
@FeelingFitFabFun4 жыл бұрын
@Deatrice Brown I see what you're saying... Sometimes I think they are being so lazy. I have had a couple ask me on dates via text & they never called and spoke to me.
@msbubblyqueen35364 жыл бұрын
I agree what is up w just texting… its out of control.. i want to hear your voice sometimes Smh
@AllThingsTiffanyTV4 жыл бұрын
Because they can text multiple women at once but actually picking up the phone requires their full attention on a conversation. If all he do is text he may be overly occupied. I see my brothers and co workers do it all the time. They texting two at once 🤦🏾♀️
@nicolec.59384 жыл бұрын
Good word as always ! Young ladies please listen to this man 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
@TonyGaskins4 жыл бұрын
#BlessedFam
@BrookeElise814 жыл бұрын
The "loose booty" comment took me over the edge!!! Tony you are hilarious!!! Thanks Big Bro!!!
@royalnessa41954 жыл бұрын
I died 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@AllThingsTiffanyTV4 жыл бұрын
He done flipped ya and tossed ya...👋🏾✋🏾🤚🏾👋🏾 You flipped and tossed 😂😂😂
@faluqdah304 жыл бұрын
TiffanyB TV lol
@tammaramencias4954 жыл бұрын
I see no lies here. All the way on point. I'm listen one mo gen.
@thisqueeniswokenow58954 жыл бұрын
Me too
@110718744 жыл бұрын
Tammara Mencias ABSOLUTELY no lies. The man is helping us women grow up!
@sheriannette51094 жыл бұрын
I come to the table like a Boss! I love that!
@TiffanyFG4 жыл бұрын
A man becomes a MAN when he is submitted to Christ. And knowing Christ is what can keep him submitted to one woman. No man is worth having until he knows Christ.
@curli-lettey43194 жыл бұрын
Funny thing is, years ago I told "friends" I'm good all by myself and they saw I live up to it and they tried to ridicule me (could I be a lesbian....ahhh NO!) NOW, they're looking at me in a different light because I'm not ran thru, worn out and men know my history of not being a jump off, being easy and I get that respect from men that they really dont get.
@thesewingbratt9664 жыл бұрын
"He's Flipped & Tossed You!" WOW!! Straight truth !!
@nickbry73574 жыл бұрын
Its that statement really true?
@rozh83214 жыл бұрын
SET BOUNDARIES....
@charlenebeasley15334 жыл бұрын
A lot of generalizations about women. That’s the problem with men. Not all of us fit in ONE box. Blame it on the woman instead of men taking responsibility for their erroneous mindset and disrespectful actions.
@beauphomasterpiece37954 жыл бұрын
Charlene Beasley I would agree to some degree . I feel as a general consensus, there isn’t enough education out there for men to teach them how to be men and fathers but there’s plenty of information for women from women and men on how to be a woman . I hate that it seems as though we need all this education when it’s men that should be willing to receive and give this information to each other to hold each other accountable and to lift their fellow brother up . But I’ll say men don’t like to be told what to do . 🤔😉
@eroundo4 жыл бұрын
@@beauphomasterpiece3795 This is the realest comment on here. The biggest problem I noticed is these "pick-me-up" women who keep enabling these men. The sad part is they get disrespected too.
@moriahaddison4 жыл бұрын
Whew. Needed all of this. Boundaries are so important.
@ambiebby16364 жыл бұрын
At this point, it’s just better to remain single. Too many games being played and too many hoops to jump thru just to TRY to be in a relationship with someone. Ain’t nobody got the time or emotional energy to deal with this nonsense.
@LeiRoses4 жыл бұрын
Wisdom and comedy 🤣🤣🤣
@BrookeElise814 жыл бұрын
GIRL! Lmbo!!!
@LeiRoses4 жыл бұрын
BrookeElise81 😆
@deemorena13314 жыл бұрын
For real girl!!!!😂
@cherylwhite25664 жыл бұрын
He had me dyin wit them hand motions tho 😂
@sandymolina61424 жыл бұрын
Just before that he was talking when they come together and he was doing the eyebrows...lol luv it.
@sheilamartin75614 жыл бұрын
Me too... too funny!
@AuthoressRedd4 жыл бұрын
I do love the keeping your legs closed though. Since my divorce I feel that’s easy. I also agree with meeting them for the date. It’s some crazy men out here for real
@simplysimone71744 жыл бұрын
Flipped and tossed ya! 😂😂😂😂
@AuthoressRedd4 жыл бұрын
I disagree about the dates. I won’t feel guilty if he asked me out. My time is precious and I’m worth a meal. If not I can take myself out to eat. It’s not that serious. A thank you kindly is all he will get. I’m not paying on no date. That defeats the purpose. And trust I won’t feel any shame. I’m too old for the bs
@kimrobinson68364 жыл бұрын
Word.
@TonyGaskins4 жыл бұрын
Do you!
@StevieKnight4 жыл бұрын
Yep. Any man I date would be super offended if I even offered. He got my time. We’re good. 🥰
@cosmicroyaltyX74 жыл бұрын
You gone court me until marriage and I don’t owe you a got damm thang period!!!
@theresamischeski714 жыл бұрын
No disrepect to your Wife, You have the most sparkling eye's.
@ecclesiastesThreeVerseSevenАй бұрын
Its that holy spirit!
@roniellecopeland4 жыл бұрын
MAN Tony Gaskins! Hands down the realest man I know! Super funny! "that 11th TIME" LOL HAHAHAHA
@rozh83214 жыл бұрын
Funny but hes telln the truth..he knows..been there done that he said..
@gloriaspratt28374 жыл бұрын
I hollered when he said that. It's TRUE! But some dont make #11 they already gone. Lol
@tabithamcrae1474 жыл бұрын
Speak on that !!Needy women aren't boss ready and are being use
@DynamicallyDC4 жыл бұрын
I approve this message! 🏆 Set boundaries. 🙌🏽
@zee_princess47884 жыл бұрын
I didn’t realize my approach to dating was completely off 🤦🏽♀️ This channel is the right place for me to be. Boss moves all 2020 🙌🏽
@TonyGaskins4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your support, and for being a member of the Blessed Tribe! #BlessedFam
@myishaj74364 жыл бұрын
Good thing i have no guilt. I don't owe nothing from a date. My time is enuf of a transaction. The fact that 9 out of 10 men use 'prison exploitation tactics' is pitiful...those same 9 out of 10 that KNOW you a Boss Woman will only attempt to pilfer and manipulate you with 'Business Opportunities'...Juggle you between business associate and potential mate.. ..Those 9 out 10 not gonna mature..They character poor to begin with...Im hoping to sift out the 1/10 Man who knows a High Value Woman and who doesnt covet money and be happy and prosper together...
@aresney64494 жыл бұрын
Yes yes YES! So unbelievably true and articulately SAID wonderful,wise sister. I could never phantom how some women's self esteem to be so low believe they owe a man access to their temple even after a thousand paid dinner dates. Your temple is literally priceless according to God, so I never resonated with that low level thinking either. The no good men would just have to stay mad🤷♀️. Also speaking on your amazingly well said exposure of the 9/10 men motives you are so so accurate! I guess we are supposed to be naive and pretend that men don't have agendas set in place when they first meet us. Placing your value to thrift level thinking you can change a man by cheaply bargaining yourself(which in essence what this new age feminism is truly about) isn't going to turn his intentions pure. The right, responsible, righteous man(a.k.a A REAL man) WILL court you properly and won't even allow you to lower yourself even if you wanted to like suggesting to pay or help him in his presence. It's sad so many women here never seen such example of a proper man and believe all of this settling/compromising for less logic is normal. I pray God helps them see the light.
@charlottewilson86264 жыл бұрын
Any woman who gives her body up for a 20.00 lunch. She is the problem period
@Ericadoeslife4 жыл бұрын
My lunch time lesson is on!! Be blessed
@ericabostwick40334 жыл бұрын
You are definitely speaking truth! We have to understand that we have the power to control where the relationship goes! Thanks Tony! Always good knowledge!
@valarieford84174 жыл бұрын
I learned don't go alone any place with men then nothing won't happen sexually always go in public places
@memeseriously36044 жыл бұрын
This message is so powerful. Anyone who loves the truth will respect this message. I will be sure that me and my husband teach these things to our daughter. Please continue with these everyday messages, I appreciate them.
@TalkEssence4 жыл бұрын
Its hard to think we can be marrying men who are actually forcing themselves to not cheat when theyd like to. Can make a gal feel like shes not really fully being loved by her own husband. That even tho the husband is all in he might still wish he could be with other women. Its scary. Its something Ive thought about cuz I was cheated on in marriage. So as much as Id like to remarry I sometimes ask myself 'Whats the point?'
@TalkEssence4 жыл бұрын
@gorgeous nene Lord help us cuz its cold out there lol
@110718744 жыл бұрын
This man have me dying over here 😂😂😂😂. All this wisdom mixed in with humor. You are helping me Tony.
@letashaphillips58834 жыл бұрын
Come on Tony... keep your legs closed... respect... power. 👏👏👑
@wonderwoman76354 жыл бұрын
I been stopped whining over situations that I have control over. When a man act like he too busy to call at a decent hr only at night I wont never answer than, watch how early the phone calls get lol
@LakeyiaJoy4 жыл бұрын
It used to baffle me how men could whore around with who and whomever without judgment and condemnation and even be praised for their sexual conquest while women who do the same will be viewed with sexual contempt and disgust. However if we go back to the beginning we will understand the "judgment" that was placed on us when we broke relationship with God. Genesis 3:16 To the woman he said, "I will make your pains in childbearing very severe; with painful labor you will give birth to children. Your desire will be for your husband, and he will rule over you." Desire: strongly wish for or want (something). Rule: control of or dominion over an area or people. This explains why throughout history women have suffered at the hands of a male-dominated society. IT will never change until Christ returns, BUT we as individual females don't have to remain under this judgment when we recognize who we are (children of God) and walk in who we are (holiness). Bless queens.
@aliajohnson4704 жыл бұрын
Wow! Tony you are sent from the Most High to correct this Generation of Men and Women. Blessings.
@beautifullywonderfullymade62044 жыл бұрын
Most guys I hear about are more esey than women 🤷🏻♀️
@promisingrose87304 жыл бұрын
Been there done that. Now I know better. At some point I felt like I sold my soul to the devil. When you know better you do better! Lesson Learned. Great Video!
@lilanarcisse64704 жыл бұрын
you can get it back by repent that's Happened to me God set me free with a prayer of repentance. I ask God to disconnect me spiritually,emotionally and mentally. He did it for me.after I did that I received God power.remenber the devil come to still to kill and destroy..open your eyes and stay bless...
@aliciabee27814 жыл бұрын
I feel like that to but god is going to forgive me i 🙏 that i dont get discouraged no more .
@cherh4 жыл бұрын
That accent thick! "You was in them sheets, you was on yo byke" 😂😂😂 Be blessed 💫
@lerhondajones-bates33244 жыл бұрын
Yup, Tony, me and Plies 🤣🤣🤣🤣
@cherh4 жыл бұрын
@@lerhondajones-bates3324 😂
@TonyGaskins4 жыл бұрын
Lol! That’s how I said it? Lol. I gotta do better.
@cherh4 жыл бұрын
@@TonyGaskins yes! LMAO! @ 22:05 I fell out! 😂😂😂 Nah, keep giving it to us just like that, straight no chaser! You can't sugarcoat with grown folks. Lol
@biggim32654 жыл бұрын
Why are men so easy? Don't put all the work to the women...we are fed up teaching men how they are supposed to be....
@rosesareredusa4 жыл бұрын
The flipping and tossing hand movements are hilarious
@vblacksugar72494 жыл бұрын
Yes Tony....this so true number game. So ladies do not depend on a man even if he throwing you a couple of dollars. If you’re able to provide for yourself, take care of home 🏡, not looking desperate, then you will definitely stay off your back. Some men don’t care about your feelings, some men are not in all that passionate love ❤️. Some men are about that pimping mind game. Stay focus, and pay attention to your surrounding. Be Blessed, Be Safe.
@Sunflower_18184 жыл бұрын
I have never felt like I owed a man anything just because he took me out on a date. I am fully open to receiving from a man without a guilty conscience. I like him and he likes me, there’s nothing wrong with it.
@Khadijah_respectfully2 жыл бұрын
My thoughts exactly. I never feel guilty and I'm ALWAYS open to receive things.
@Gstarp Жыл бұрын
I need this mindset, I tend to want to give back. Not with intimacy however.
@ruthwells39904 жыл бұрын
In our society today sexual intimacy is seen as an acceptable route to getting to know someone outside of marriage . People of all ages speak on having sex and being intimate as the norm not the exception. And women speak on it A LOT, “I need mines”, “I cannot go without it”. And I’m talking women my age(50+). Women are perceived as easy because we do not set good boundaries and advocate for ourselves early in relationships. This male dominate society is hard on women in sooo many ways, especially women of color. If you read statistics, we have better chances at being struck by lightning than a successful marriage. Tony reiterates daily the same message, no disrespect, LOVE YOURSELF AND FOLLOW GOD AND THE REST FALLS IN PLACE!!!!! Loving yourself is a BEAUTIFUL THANG!!!! And loving God is BEST!!!! Listen to this man, he tells truth, but we make excuses. Own and take responsibility for your actions or lack of actions, because often we keep dating/ marrying same person but name changes. Look inward!!!! Be blessed
@shonaellington2114 жыл бұрын
I just experience this last night asked a ex boyfriend to help with a task dued to me having surgery.He felt like I was obligated to do a task for him cause he offer to do laundry.
@denetriaburnette28314 жыл бұрын
Absolutely. A man got angry cause i wanted to pay for my own meal. Dinner date.
@clarkclarke4 жыл бұрын
Thank you Tony 🌟 Be Blessed.. This is now on point ..I remember when I was younger and would go out my aunt would always tell me to make sure I have money in my wallet (purse) to get home ...I never let people drop me off (?) in front of my door ...and if I never had a problem if I had to pay for my dinner....there are people who don't even believe I live alone because I do not invite them to my home... I saw some comments on a YT video where the women were saying that they were not going g to "help" the man by paying for dinner etc .. and I felt that they were totally missing the point ..and here you are explaining WHY women should want to be ok paying for dinner etc ...especially if you are dating ... I am a woman in my 50's now ..and these things still apply. ..
@valgal364 жыл бұрын
Lord have mercy! I’m over here shouting, Preach Rev!! Women tell me all the time they have to give it up to keep a man. Yet they fall in love and the man fell in lust! Best phrase thus far. Thanks for all you do for us Tony. 🤗🙏🏽💯
@christineporter99144 жыл бұрын
I like that come to the table whole as a woman, don't come with a weak position that's good Tony Gaskins, we as women need to be whole and complete.
@coachnatishamommatish1854 жыл бұрын
I'm here and I HEAR& I AM LISTENING TONY 100% REAL!!!
@adoringgalore56364 жыл бұрын
I wish your following of men would grow also! They need to hear you too
@misssterling30944 жыл бұрын
@Jewel Dazzle You're unfortunately right :-( God is going to have to do a mighty work on these men to make them marriage ready.
@adoringgalore56364 жыл бұрын
But Tony said he was the biggest player out here... yet he managed to change. I have hope
@beauphomasterpiece37954 жыл бұрын
Tony ... man you so country .. but I respect you and I have learned a lot from you . I can’t afford the courses just yet but the fact that I can take nuggets from your video is priceless. Since implementing some of your techniques (setting boundaries) in my online meeting profile I don’t get as many dusties as i use to . Also when meeting I have offered to pay my own and I feel proud about it and gives me a sense of control in this dating thing. Now I am seeing someone who says things like us and we (referring me and him) when he talks about the future and his plans, as well literally wanna do things to make me happy. Takes genuine interest in me and the things I’m interested in. I feel like it’s authentic and may go somewhere however my boundaries and standards are still in tact . There’s absolutely no sex talk ( as with previous men which was an absolute turn off) . He talks and expresses his desire to not only date me and only me but to also court me . He drives to see me with no problem (an hour) . He’s physically to my liking and don’t have a gang of kids . He’s expressed through our conversations how knowledgeable I am ( I be quoting some of your advice in our conversations) Also Me: in my head (God let this be real and give me strength to keep my legs CLOSED) I’ll admit, it’s been a while since I’ve encountered a man like this . His character and actions sounds so promising to me however it’s been a while since I’ve been courted . So I don’t even know what that means to be exactly. To be continued....
@tameekaharris64254 жыл бұрын
I don't know you but I'm happy for and it gives me hope. You sound like a good woman that deserves to be treated well. I hope all continues to go well for you.
@beauphomasterpiece37954 жыл бұрын
Tameeka Harris thank you it’s been a long time coming . I was really getting weary because of the culture of “having a man” just to have a man and the continued questions of oh, you don’t have a man yet ? It was hurtful because I wanted one but I did not want a man just to have a man if that makes sense . I want something of substance . I’m not seeking validation by having a man on my shoulder. Thanks again for reading
@tameekaharris64254 жыл бұрын
@@beauphomasterpiece3795 Yw and I totally get it I feel the exact same way, because once you're a women of a certain age ,people act as if something is wrong with because you don't have a man. Substance is a must and it's almost impossible to find but I haven't given up I'll just keep working on me .
@wsandyland4 жыл бұрын
This is a conversation I wish my father had with me 😩💯 be blessed
@marilynbradley84874 жыл бұрын
I am a Lyft driver. My customer invited into his house to see his bedroom. I didn't fall for that one so instead he offered to take me to a movie. Too little too late. He already showed me his hand. What a dummy.
@tulip41694 жыл бұрын
Tony, you are the big brother I never had! Thanks so much for all you share with us! I appreciate it!!
@stephaniegrimes35354 жыл бұрын
Be blessed! This was so for me today, not the easy part but the okayness of putting him off while I take care of my business. Got me in tears.
@KB-5044 жыл бұрын
With this last guy I was dating, I had boundaries/ standards in place.... however, he told me my standards were to high... 2 months later, he left and started dating someone else 😖🥺
@danahportlouis75734 жыл бұрын
Love 23Amazed right 😂
@Glamrocs4 жыл бұрын
Which is a compliment that you have high standards. He needed a woman with loose booty 😂. He’ll be back wanting a woman with standards.
@vblacksugar72494 жыл бұрын
Love 23Amazed Or he will move to the next women.
@TheeBratzDollxox4 жыл бұрын
*sleeping with someone else. They weren’t looking for anything serious!
@lynnjones76954 жыл бұрын
Man, real talk! Y’all women better listen to his words & listen CLEAR!! A man will always do what you allow. THANK YOU, for your wisdom & just being 100 with us..
@rozh83214 жыл бұрын
Yes Tony.. My momma and my bother use to ask me and my neices where yall man at..we would say we aint got time for the foolery or foolinish... I guess ill die single..even the older men acting young and tryna play the game..😳🙄🙄..but that's crazy thou..and like u said Tony the other nite we allow to get played and they go back with ones they cant get easy...Its too much going on out here ...all these diseases and pregnancy with no protection..also yall know, ladies and gentleman there is a flesh eating std thats going around...Just keep your legs closed...Periodt......SET Boundaries...🙄🙄🙄🙄
@cherylwhite25664 жыл бұрын
You explain things very well sir
@tamarag99814 жыл бұрын
Celibant 😆😆😆
@Iamcherese4 жыл бұрын
Miss Lovely456 I hate you😂😂😂
@babycakez514 жыл бұрын
Lol!😂😂😂
@tabitaeguangs4 жыл бұрын
This man is telling the truth.Listen to him.Don't sleep with people.
@Dd-po2ij4 жыл бұрын
Bless you so much. You helped me today. Healthy. Boundaries. Is just A great deal for everyone. I need no hand'z out from anyone. Every woman is not easy...
@SAkween4 жыл бұрын
You can count the amount of faithful men on one hand. Oh man, so sad. My goodness.
@jenniferhill87764 жыл бұрын
There is a whole slew of men who think women are easy and their game is to sleep with the max number of women as possible plus keep some ladies on retainer or in rotation. I don't sleep with men, Pay my own meals on dates & keep dates simple (not pricey meals etc). I'd you are upfront there are ALWAYs the men who say OK but expect you to do or be different (it's just a cover or a front) in that you say one thing but 'secretly' you desire of give up for them. NOPE Nope Nope. It never ceases to amaze me how many men are in that game and will still walk thru the front door expecting a woman to be opposite of her stated preference of No Sex. If I am dating someone exclusively sex may be an option but I am taking my time and reinvestigating Christian values sex (scripture, Holu Spirit guidance) before marriage may not be necessary for me
@jdilla71424 жыл бұрын
Good Job👑King. You give hope to the righteous Men out here, it’s not many of us left.
@Glamrocs4 жыл бұрын
J Dilla Facts it’s slime pickings out here
@TonyGaskins4 жыл бұрын
Thanks bro! Keep pressing! Thanks for being a member of the blessed tribe!!
@melodie34324 жыл бұрын
I’m grateful for your effort in posting all these videos
@bxbee11004 жыл бұрын
U were making sense until u said we as women should pay for half the date. SOOOOO if a man asks me out I'm supposed to pay half ???? No Sir..that is not a date. I might as well go out with my girlfriends bc that is when I go dutch.
@HoneyBeeBee4 жыл бұрын
He's broke 😄
@StevieKnight4 жыл бұрын
Yep. Agreed. Love everything Tony says except for that issue.
@orridgenalcurlsncoir92533 жыл бұрын
I ain't paying no half, never ever. I go out, expect them to pay, be sweet n nice, and that's all he's getting. He can even pick me up and drive me back home. He just knows he's staying outside and driving himself back to where ever. I don't give a damn!! Ain't feeling no kinda guilty anyway anyhow. He can be vexed. Better him than me. They don't like that. So I'm perpetually single....but I look ten years younger than my actual age! 😋
@bxbee11003 жыл бұрын
@@orridgenalcurlsncoir9253 i agree with everything except him picking up. A man that im just talking to is not gonna know where I live.
@goddesswarrioress61234 жыл бұрын
I'm totally for this message cause way too many women are obsessed with the hypergamous lifestyle I get it I do but do for yourself stand on your own That's the greatest lesson that was taught to me
@kimberlywainwright79994 жыл бұрын
THIS TEACHING RIGHT HERE!!!! JESUSSSSS!!! Thank God for DELIVERANCE!!! This really blessed me because your definitely telling the truth!
@TeshaD4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this powerful information!
@odiliagaspar43394 жыл бұрын
I had a guy take a stupid pill/ came to my house at 3am .. knocking on my door 😡🤦🏽♀️ my fault for letting him pick me up. Yes! I cut him off .
@La_abbess4 жыл бұрын
@3am shoulda had a glock to answer the door with
@Restyoursoul2874 жыл бұрын
Amen, blessed my lunch break!
@1blackangel0054 жыл бұрын
👠What's the general standards for men when it comes to sex & social-acceptability? 🚩Can't women express their sexuality without judgements? I'm tired of men demanding equalities in the relationship either situationships and/or committed but they keep with a social normality that is sexually and/or socially oppressive!💅
@crystaldemarr4 жыл бұрын
Actually, to say celibate is wrong, unless she's a nun. Lol To be celibate is to never get married or have sex. To be abstinent is to wait until marriage. Yet, so many use the word celibate without knowing at all what they're saying. Drives me crazy. Lol
@annavasquez79724 жыл бұрын
Hi Tony , because you’re putting me up on game and I’m learning that nine out of 10 men are only giving and doing and being to get what they want ... why would I then feel guilty? They should take me out to dinner and pay for my meal! I don’t understand right ! if they spend time, Won’t they say I spend all my time with you ? Guilt you the same way so I’m not understanding what I’m supposed to do.. Dont do nothing .. the things that make you say “hmmm”.. Listen we can’t win he will find something to complain about what is this Time is money or anything else so girls go ahead and except her dinner and keep your legs close I’ll agree with him on that
@loveablej24744 жыл бұрын
17:20 is on point I seen a post where this guy asked this lady out to eat and after eating he told her she need to pay her half which was $20 I instantly said she went on a date with the devil and that was Gods way of teaching her a lesson to choose wisely who you bless to be in your feminine presence
@nickbry73574 жыл бұрын
Ladies dont argue with Tony.
@tameekaharris64254 жыл бұрын
Lol right please don't
@savvydavvy34634 жыл бұрын
I'm done arguing with Tony 💯 Truth hurts 🔪 🔪 🔪
@AuthoressRedd4 жыл бұрын
Not arguing. Just don’t agree with everything he says