Why Do Men & Women Cheat? Warning Signs & Safeguards For Your Marriage | Keith Battle

[@cindymorris564]

As an ex therapist, I really believe a person who cheats is idolizing something outside the marriage- lust of the eyes and lust of the flesh- they often want something else other than make an effort to or have the courage to work it out w their spouse.

[@elainebolling505]

Its called lack of maturity

[@Katmandu29]

I'm still feeling guilt, regret, sadness, despair, and it's been 25 years of the divorce. 😢I need therapy and healing so much. Please pray for me, if you're reading this. I'm in Ontario Canada.

[@rosasauceda6041]

Please find a church with a healing heart and surrender yourself to God. Talk to him everyday in prayer, tell him how you feel and call to Him for help. Read the Bible everyday.

[@chriskappel9886]

There are divorce recovery programs at many churches for the same reasons you too have experienced ❤

[@jacquieellis1602]

Prayers

[@rx4515]

🙏's sent ✝️

[@Ruth-vy1qj]

I love this message as a single person so I know what to do in future relationships. A lot of this can apply to other relationships.

[@victoriadejesus8180]

it's stunning how these two can sit and judge about what they are poster of!

[@rx4515]

D I t t o

[@jacquih8804]

This was very good! And I'm NOT even married!🫠 Praise The Lord for His Wisdom!!++🙌🏾🙏🏾🙌🏾

[@Tiff0324]

This was great teaching! Thank you for sharing this with us all.

[@snsn7251]

Because they want to! Selfishness

[@RTon3]

So so so good!!!! Im so glad you guys are sharing this treasure!!! It really is a treasure!!! A treasure to help us guard our treasure❤😍🙏🏼🙋‍♀️💗💗

[@langyd4518]

thank you this was so good, I didn’t know any of this it helps so much to have to all layed out, I knew we were supposted to do this but I didn’t know how or how to receive the SBI. yes, this is the source of all the arguments in relationships, not knowing how to do this or if it’s needed, also of times we don’t even need to we can just let it go too, this was so good.

[@annacastillo1663]

I’m a widow woman and so thankful that I didn’t remarried,

[@dc2930]

why didn't doug do this with his wife? Doesn't it hurt his children? Isn't this a hard thing for the lady of daystar to do? Practical objective observation. The leaders and teachers really really really need to confess some real things to be taken seriously

[@jacquieellis1602]

They did for 2 years they tried to work things out.

[@kerrylabrash2334]

Doug weise and Joni Lamb, you are living in a sinful relationship. You have brought this Daystar network down into the hands of the devil. You have forsaken your own firstborn son and his family to marry this adulterer and did you not learn anything from King David and Bathsheba, John the Baptist's beheading for calling out Herod or Herodotus? Ron and Hope Carpenter? How can you not see what you have done Doug weise? Joni?

[@jg1709]

💐💐💐Please pray for salvation for Chris, Pete and Nick who no longer believes in God

[@sherryfout6113]

I was a good wife, a lover romantic homemaker mother faithful and he still cheated many times, physically and emotionally

[@langyd4518]

he didn’t cover sex addiction issues or chronic cheating

[@elainebolling505]

You didnt cause his unfaithfulness, he made his choices.

[@rx4515]

So sorry, not your fault .. his is not worth you.

[@imWillJ]

men and women cheat because there's no instant penalty for cheating, that fact makes it easy to be careless in relationships.

[@QuietgalSeeya]

Exactly…..but karma never misses an appointment.

[@gracemartin8525]

Teacher you have blessed my heart, thank you!

[@mwangianne270]

God question Joni and I love you so very much, a woman highly favored of God ❤

[@mimismessages4509]

Prayer for me to confront my husband -

[@jg1709]

I am praying for guidance for you,from the Lord❤

[@mimismessages4509]

@@jg1709 thank you!!

[@rx4515]

🙏's sent ✝️

[@TheALIDA1986]

i dont think this would work in all relationships because in my case, when i make room for my husband, and i apologize, he however uses it against me, and torture me instead, i dont think i will ever apologize to him for anything, it is now like the pattern, when he realises that i am genuinely sorry he executes evil plan, for example, "last week i went for a revival after work, i realized that i had made the mistake because i had not let him know and it was getting late, i made calls back so that he will know, he later called me and he called, i explained, and he showed the dissatisfaction, i apologized and promised to get home, i practically ran home, he locked me outside for 2hrs, i was out in the cold, he wouldnt have done that if i didnt show any remorse, he feels important and uses dominion wrongly when i am Godly and obedient to God, it is someone who i think would rather have me as a dont care type attitude person, then he would keep quiet, with him, all i do is defend myself, i dont think he is normal.

[@ooyeniyi5300]

I pray the kingdom of God come to his life in Jesus name amen

[@TheALIDA1986]

@@ooyeniyi5300 Amen

[@sherryfout6113]

So I need to repent and tell him I’m sorry for him being unfaithful? What am I missing

[@rx4515]

We all have free will choice, you owe him only forgiveness. Jesus said we must forgive to be forgiven. ✝️

[@torywhite2074]

No you don’t have to do that. He needs to repent. Until then he won’t apologize to you.

[@lyssacox7941]

This was a very good program and helped me to recognize things in the work place we to as well as church that is I appropriate for single so not to develop wrong habits or strongholds as well as for those married. To think about what GOD EXPECTS of His Church, what we may think is innocent can be take the wrong a d lead to wrong interactions or down that road which could cause relationships problems later

[@bibiw8083]

what if the person who caused the pain doesn't admit his wrongdoing? although he said he's born-again, he won't reach out to the family he hurt. instead, he flaunts to other relatives his new woman and kid. :(

[@gailnell6776]

HELLO Daystar from South Africa.

[@angiearredondo6802]

Infidelity isn't always the other woman, but the stepdaughter's 😢

[@darnellwarner2953]

Nice❤

[@LsbLsb-w8v]

Matthew 18:15-17 tells you are to confess in front of the church. Did Doug and Lisa do that? If they did, the churh told them to divorce?

[@Willie3]

My husband won't do the work

[@user-jf5ir2er3e]

I know of a Christian married man and I know his unhappy because his opened up to me I know his a Christian but from what I’m hearing about her she confesses she’s Christian but I don’t think she’s truly born again I know because there is no love in her just things I’ve picked up. His such a beautiful Christian man and loves Jesus but stuck with a woman that’s there just for her gain. Very sad to see this. I would never have an affair with a married man because I’m a believer of Jesus Christ almighty and I’m loyal to my heavenly Father. And also I am aware she’s jealous of me and I believe witchcraft and burning sage against me was used I have never given any intention or made any move towards him in fact there has been times we were alone and I’ve ran the other way I know it’s dangerous going into that area but I do really pray for my brother in Christ that Jesus Christ protects him and unveils his eyes. She is not a very nice person. And I did pray over me and my family for protection and any witchcraft goes back were it came from. Amen

[@kathyhiggs5239]

I love your show jioni every morning

[@pamboire6973]

Color co-ordination..lol.. even the guests pink shirt and pink marker... Lol

[@laurasciortino474]

This is the pot calling the kettle black!

[@janiemalina6283]

😢🙏!!!

[@wrinthiak3431]

Adultery is more a sin issue and less a lack in another area. I believe that when this sin occurs in a marriage, the "me and my" became bigger than AbbaFather. None of us is perfect by any stretch of the imagination; however, when a spouse chooses another, it's his/her ungodly choice. I can't with this...sorry/not sorry.

[@rachellelovesbroccoli]

husband thinks since the new woman makes him happy and he's in love that it's not sinful. not adultery. What's worse is the he moved her into our house and I still live here!

[@zaklinabecker7700]

That’s the deception of the enemy at work in your husband. Check out Rejoice Marriage Ministries online or GYM-Gerald & Yvette Ministries for wisdom & things you can do

[@carolwalker4026]

You teach ppl how to treat You!!

[@bibiw8083]

that hurts and we, the children, are hurting :(

[@LsbLsb-w8v]

Sounds like Keith Battles is doing the justifing of the Doug and Joni marriage since they can't seem to do it all by themselves.

[@joycemullane5337]

Agree! They have been having a lot of guests on to justify their recent choices.

[@LsbLsb-w8v]

How come Doug quit doing the fun things with Lisa?

[@Katmandu29]

He didn't. Don't judge unless you know BOTH SIDES of the entire story!

[@mirtasanchez9109]

Lisa also chose not to do fun things with him either, for many years. He was already divorced when he approached Joni. Stop criticizing what you don’t know.

[@LsbLsb-w8v]

@@Katmandu29 you know both sides of the story?

[@LsbLsb-w8v]

@@mirtasanchez9109 how come Doug was always saying how wonderful she was and that's why they had a good marriage?

[@LsbLsb-w8v]

@@mirtasanchez9109 is it true the peope who worked with Doug didn't know til the last minute that he was divorced? Someone needs to start giving truth to stop the untruth.