WHY DO NICE GUYS GET NO WOMEN?

[@rrdutch4111]

Because nice guys treat women with kindness love and respect. Clearly the best strategy for attracting women in the modern dating scene is to hate them, disrespect them, and treat them like sub-human dirt. Only then will a woman be attracted to you… until you inevitably “catch feelings”, at which point she leaves ✌️

[@jannaghaleiw5504]

Unfortunately you're right, it's really sad, but true 👍🙄

[@vinaymulukutla358]

I wish I could say that you are wrong.

[@rrdutch4111]

I too wish I were wrong in my observations, I wish it weren’t the case, but unfortunately reality and the world of dating are inherently lacking in logic and reasonability …

[@shrimpeyes4662]

Yeah that's it, if you want to keep a woman look up narcisistic abuse they absolutely love it.

[@MartilyRamagado]

Nice guys and good boys cheat, lie, and commit evil acts at the same rate as the bad boys. The only difference is bad boys are cutthroat and honest about chasing hot women, money, power, and s*x. But nice guys chase the same things via corn, video games, movies, and their 9 to 5 jobs.

[@zebakhawaja]

She's so right... beautiful woman are targeted by woman who are jealous and men who are interested.

[@heartofpuregold]

Okay

[@felipedacruz3670]

There isn’t enough GOOD women now days… they are all lost in todays fake world…. Continue to be a nice guy and a nice person… the Universe is watching !!!

[@tjbroussard3524]

Be an authentic guy that happens to be respectful and with boundaries even towards her.

[@dennardleonard1228]

FACT!

[@hastensavoir7782]

@@tjbroussard3524you’re still biting into that “nice girls are horny guys who want to get in her pants.”?

[@truthseeker11-11]

Define Universe?

[@CA1567-v8p]

It's ok to say God

[@xanderlee4733]

You can set boundaries with women and still get friend zoned. You can respect yourself and not roll over and still get disrespected by people. Modern western women do not want decent men. They want players. Being a nice guy does not mean push over. It means you are a decent human being.

[@zebakhawaja]

What's wrong with your mind and thinking... everything you said is a what a 16 yr old would say...

[@xanderlee4733]

@@zebakhawaja What are you talking about? Modern Western women reward delinquent men. It has nothing to do with masculinity. There tons of decent masculine men who are over looked. Modern Western women are in love with the bad boy archetype. If this is what a 16 year old would say they are wise beyond their years.

[@xanderlee4733]

@@zebakhawaja What Sadia is saying is wrong. They are masculine decent men that are still being overlooked by beautiful women. Modern Western women do not want decent men. They reward players who cheat and abuse them. Facts. Hence why so many women on TikTok videos ask where are all the good men. Your statement makes no sense. Also if a 16 year old said what I am saying they would be wise beyond their years.

[@funbarsolaris2822]

​@zebakhawaja Be realistic, its a fair point he's making even if it is an over generalisation. How many women do you know who say things like "why are all my partners narcissists", "every man I've been with has just used me", "men are always lying, cheating, manipulating etc"? Many, many women are attracted to and select over confident, cocky dckheads and then complain about the inevitable when it happens

[@davnoble8472]

@@zebakhawajayeah he sounds like a 14 year old girl

[@Robert_Westwood]

I agree with her about 95% of the time. This will be part of the 5%. These days, men who have boundaries and expectations are called "controlling" and "narcissistic". If a woman expects a man to be decisive but she resists every decision she expects him to make, that becomes exhausting. I'm not sure if she's come across that in her research...

[@JohnM...]

She’s a single mother who was dumped by someone. Her viewpoint on males is generally incorrect.

[@galina6707]

I really respect Sadia's opinion. I agree with her on many of the topics she talks about. But in this case I categorically disagree. A mentally healthy mature woman does not need a man who has a desire to leave. This is a weak man in my opinion. A mentally healthy woman is looking for an equal partner for mutual respect, admiration, help, support, accommodation, love, sex, etc. If I don't reciprocation, I will begin to hate the man. I will stop respecting him. For example, this man and I live together. We have commitment long-term relationships. God forbit I get sick. He didn't help. He left. In a club, or with another woman. I can't respect this man. Because his attitude is a betrayal.

[@HristoGospodinov-hb9dd]

But that's not what she really said. She basically said that women don't have any respect for "yes-men". Which is true.

[@avon2alpha676]

Doesn’t work like this overseas they love nice guys ✈️✈️✈️✈️

[@ozzycortes]

Depends where you go.

[@johnhardy4172]

You can be a nice guy and good person and also not stand for no nonsence its called having a balance

[@ianwynne764]

Hello Sadia: Probably the most vile place I ever worked was a duty free shop I worked in. Our boss was a woman, add the vast majority of staff were women. I heard from one of the women that the rivalry between the women was intense.

[@thebirdclan]

The work environment depends on the boss not the gender.

[@sanitary103]

There’s a difference between being nice and a push over. Don’t be the latter.

[@Lesly-ic3mq]

A man might be...REALLY...nice and rejected by most of his adventures. It depends on these women tast, choice, and...personality.

[@ibizawavey8630]

Nice in my culture means "misqueen" and you DON'T want to be called miski lol it is the same in the west, you don't want to be called a 'nice guy' but still, where i'm from it is BRUTAL and life will be hard for you if you are a miski.

[@Lesly-ic3mq]

@ibizawavey8630 Whatever it's CALLED in your language or CULTURE...the CONSIDERATION is...the same...!!! Trust me, there's NO other way around.. NICE GUYS FINISH...LAST !!!! Onnce your show too much kindness...you QUICKLY become....a manipulative OBJECT.

[@maxmeister5064]

As someone who's been in that pair of shoes in person, I can say the following: women want the agreeable guys (I'm not using the common term cos it's actually dubious) only as a shoulder to cry on. To complain about the wrongdoings of the thug. But in the end they're either gonna return to said thug or pick the next one. Cos tenderness and intimacy is the thug's business, not yours. If it were yours, she wouldn't have taken you into confidence. So you see, you provided your sympathy and understanding and she made use of it. Not what you deserve, and certainly not what she deserves.

[@skapunkoialternativeliving6522]

This is why I don't take people like this seriously. Why would you take advice from people who don't practice what they preach? But I love you fools do this? The fact that she's single and not married herself. I can't take her seriously.

[@oladokunsamuel5923]

Some of us just chill... Avoiding the drama

[@ibizawavey8630]

Peace and Tranquility

[@rdrda]

A friend of mine told me this years ago. Pick someone with whom you will always be the adored one in the relationship.

[@SadiaKhanPodcast]

That's the way of a happy relationship

[@orxanbagirov2771]

@@SadiaKhanPodcast Evil and dumb features on your face perfectly define you .

[@paulsmith1035]

Women desire what they can’t have. When you’re a nice guy you are too easy for them and can then be sidelined or friend zoned whilst they look for something better. Women nowadays just go not value what they have or too happy to take a guy as ‘mr right now’ as break ups/cheating/ relationship boredom have become so normalised over traditional loyal long term partnerships.

[@thebirdclan]

That's such bullshit. Friend zoned is a term men use when they think women should be sexually available to them, and women aren't just dropping their pants because they act "nice"

[@EXPOSEDBYGABRIELPEREZ]

They get it but at the end of the line

[@RollingThunder808]

Women don't want a nice guy that expects something in return for being nice. Treat her like you would anyone else.

[@markpurvis896]

The most important relationship a man can have is the one he has with himself. Men should be encouraged to be authentic and have intrinsic self worth. If women don’t like a decent man that knows who and what he is, that’s their issue. Empowerment is universal.

[@VeteranCommand]

I wonder if boundaries, leadership, and decision making is enough for the Miss "independent" "I don't need a man" trend that is a larger portion of women than days. I have had more the one relationship where they wanted their tyranical ex and their aladdin romance and think its achievable. 🤔

[@sbsb4995]

Nice guys always get women. Idiots don't.

[@eugenepohjola258]

Howdy. I would like to refer to Anna Jorgensen. A nice guy is not the same as a kind man. A nice guy is a servil simp. A kind man does thoughtful things. Selectively. Regards.

[@shootingbricks8554]

Why not call the simp a simp?

[@Steveaky]

The biggest problem is constantly talking about men versus women and vice versa

[@BartokNeeskens]

I have decided depart the dating scene because of the undue maligning of guys because they decide to treat women with respect

[@Steveaky]

I’m I consider myself a nice kind guy but I don’t let people take the piss and treat fire with fire 🔥

[@AshrafAhmed-n4b]

If you're assertive, they will label u as being controlling. If your nice to them, they think your a narcissists.

[@matthewjjoss3821]

This Woman is Absolutely Beautiful inside and out!! Woman are Inherently smarter than Men. For Real!

[@m4riokartph3nom]

I feel like we need to shed more light into this whole "Nice guys finish last" because it's def true. I just feel like women like to deny this fact, and men like to over exegerate a lot of stuff from the redpill/blackpill.

[@thebirdclan]

I don't think you are listening to the term nice guys.

[@dmen0563]

I'm learning

[@piccadelly9360]

What I hear here , is Mother Nature is always present and the one who has the most urge to survive will also survive Women are by nature "forced" to make the decisions they make, those are not their own decisions. If you follow a little philosophy then you know that we have no will of our own.

[@gikaradi8793]

WHY DO NICE GUYS GET NO WOMEN? bcz God is gracious and loving to them

[@RonnyAndersson-q9b]

Friend zone is the best place to be. If you can't be friends with your future wife, it's a waste of time. NEXT.

[@steveh7823]

I can appear to be nice but women only have one role in my life: amusement. I don't want know about her life, feelings and I never want to meet her family/friends. If she starts talking about abstract issues like politics or values, I'm off like a light switch. Nothing is long term. It's far better to be a day trader than be trapped in a falling market with worsening negative returns.

[@scott4499]

Two people pleasers don't work out in a relationship. Translation-One of the two must wear the pants and it doesn't matter which one. Especially in the U.S. where women love wearing the pants in a relationship or marriage.

[@DuanePayne-q2y]

Then I am screwed 😢

[@ComradeCoop]

Well I'm definitely not a nice guy because i have strict boundaries and ive walked away multiple times and didn't let the woman control me didnt get me anywhere but i guess I'm glad im not considered to be the nice guy....i guess

[@alphabeta8403]

3:40 Nice guys lack masculinity 7:30 Lead her, don’t second guess

[@marcin3136]

Why is Sadia surprised that women don't support her? She's beautiful/ smart/ very valuable... Probably few women can compete with her (for men). That's how it works. If someone finally wants her, they will be nicer to her :D

[@heartofpuregold]

Does she support women?

[@sergiug2837]

She's a narcissist, trust me when I say, you don't want to be with someone who's breathing down your neck all the time. Then projects it onto the poor sap she's with and sabotages everything, blaming it on the poor "nice" bloke whose just decent and unable to handle her insanity.

[@backyardrailroader]

It depends on the definition of nice. I am mice to ladies, but do disagree on certain things without being too much in your face attitude..... you know, the Ivam right and you are wrong position.

[@V3ct0r_S1gm4]

"Abandon all hope ye who enters here..." Reads the inscription at the gates of hell... Dantes Inferno, "The Divine Comedy"

[@johnpower7732]

I don't have the bad girls that have the good girl

[@rosswardrop465]

Nice Guys like me.Dont get women.Because of looks money muscles .Flash cars.We are boring to them.we dont steal or use people.Nice Guys get used .i have been there.Singlefor 25 years.I cant be bothered.Better off lonely than sorry.To many Golddiggers.

[@TerryBecker-bw1vx]

It certainly isn't because of the nice guys. So most ALL excuses for women are to blame.

[@jessicahitchens6926]

So "nice" means weak and not a man..

[@johnpower7732]

I wouldn't let any girl uses me because I'm the king of the Travellers

[@Chris-hp2gg]

Nice guys finish last.😂

[@carlswindelliv2701]

Not if they are praying the rosary

[@andraserban3030]

Stop telling that shit... They are no nice guys.... They are all wolves in sheep's clothes !!

[@robertobravo6834]

I strongly recommend you all the song "No More Mr. Nice Guy" by Alice Cooper. You can find it here on KZbin.

[@hastensavoir7782]

Do those women who get BADBOYS end up Happy and Fulfilled and Well off???

[@AnthonyManzio]

all low value women

[@shrimpeyes4662]

Lol no they end up with cptsd from all the narcisistic abuse they chase. Once this happens the women is finished for good.

[@mr.mayhem7402]

They end up as single mums.

[@AnthonyManzio]

@@mr.mayhem7402 100%

[@heartofpuregold]

Agree with something that she says disagree with others try being a catholic plenty of bigotry to go round. Shes not a clinical psychologist so I understand, No further expo required.

[@JohnJunior-l9z]

Women dont want me at all.

[@sadbois]

whats this blokes name

[@C89-f5u]

Chris Williamson

[@trainz3982]

I'm gonna be nice whether you like it or not who cares what you got to say I'm here to serve the Lord not you this is not about you sweet cakes "

[@ismailpatel7222]

Are you attective sadia

[@heartofpuregold]

Yes shes an attractive woman according to cultural standards of the middle east shes a barbie. Its just a shame she uses her looks and the perceived threats they cause single insecure women online as a reason not to address the big problem of human rights abuses of women and children in islam because shes worried about getting hate. Is it about hate or empathy. Thats a good question to ask.

[@Klown84]

Nice guys do get fit birds. It’s all on looks mainly anyway. If you’re good looking regardless of whether you’re good or bad you’re going to get a result imo. It’s all good 👍

[@jessicahitchens6926]

This is so basic.. and all these stupid labels. "Nice guys" etc. You either have what I want or you don't. It's that simple. I'm not going to waste my time and energy on dross/energy vampires.

[@TasnimMasudi]

Miadoto watiy plz

[@performancephysixx4983]

Sorry I get beautiful ladies and am a nice guy 👍

[@Trace7173]

Seen any flying horses lately? derp derp derp

[@BackeB]

Horses evolved differently from birds, in that they don’t have wings. In addition their wings would have to be enormous. This fact has to do with the relationship between surface area and volume (mass). Great question!

[@TasnimMasudi]

Am sewaa niyi you nowo Sarah

[@TasnimMasudi]

Plz itizi raya tumachee plz

[@TasnimMasudi]

Hiy mi s s y u o arowo towo

[@charlesporter1148]

this poor woman is confused...equating nice with boring...give her a few years and she'll learn to think at a higher level...

[@BlakeKneale]

First of all , completely erroneous statement saying nice guys never get women ..I know plenty of nice guys that are married and get plenty of women …quit painting people with a giant brush … as if anybody in this video has a looking glass into every nice guys life and how many women they get … all these so called authoritarians on KZbin make me laugh .. some people will believe anybody’s opinion!