Because nice guys treat women with kindness love and respect. Clearly the best strategy for attracting women in the modern dating scene is to hate them, disrespect them, and treat them like sub-human dirt. Only then will a woman be attracted to you… until you inevitably “catch feelings”, at which point she leaves ✌️
@jannaghaleiw55044 ай бұрын
Unfortunately you're right, it's really sad, but true 👍🙄
@vinaymulukutla3584 ай бұрын
I wish I could say that you are wrong.
@rrdutch41114 ай бұрын
I too wish I were wrong in my observations, I wish it weren’t the case, but unfortunately reality and the world of dating are inherently lacking in logic and reasonability …
@shrimpeyes46624 ай бұрын
Yeah that's it, if you want to keep a woman look up narcisistic abuse they absolutely love it.
@MartilyRamagado4 ай бұрын
Nice guys and good boys cheat, lie, and commit evil acts at the same rate as the bad boys. The only difference is bad boys are cutthroat and honest about chasing hot women, money, power, and s*x. But nice guys chase the same things via corn, video games, movies, and their 9 to 5 jobs.
@zebakhawaja4 ай бұрын
She's so right... beautiful woman are targeted by woman who are jealous and men who are interested.
@heartofpuregold4 ай бұрын
Okay
@felipedacruz36704 ай бұрын
There isn’t enough GOOD women now days… they are all lost in todays fake world…. Continue to be a nice guy and a nice person… the Universe is watching !!!
@tjbroussard35244 ай бұрын
Be an authentic guy that happens to be respectful and with boundaries even towards her.
@dennardleonard12284 ай бұрын
FACT!
@hastensavoir77824 ай бұрын
@@tjbroussard3524you’re still biting into that “nice girls are horny guys who want to get in her pants.”?
@truthseeker11-114 ай бұрын
Define Universe?
@CA1567-v8p4 ай бұрын
It's ok to say God
@xanderlee47334 ай бұрын
You can set boundaries with women and still get friend zoned. You can respect yourself and not roll over and still get disrespected by people. Modern western women do not want decent men. They want players. Being a nice guy does not mean push over. It means you are a decent human being.
@zebakhawaja4 ай бұрын
What's wrong with your mind and thinking... everything you said is a what a 16 yr old would say...
@xanderlee47334 ай бұрын
@@zebakhawaja What are you talking about? Modern Western women reward delinquent men. It has nothing to do with masculinity. There tons of decent masculine men who are over looked. Modern Western women are in love with the bad boy archetype. If this is what a 16 year old would say they are wise beyond their years.
@xanderlee47334 ай бұрын
@@zebakhawaja What Sadia is saying is wrong. They are masculine decent men that are still being overlooked by beautiful women. Modern Western women do not want decent men. They reward players who cheat and abuse them. Facts. Hence why so many women on TikTok videos ask where are all the good men. Your statement makes no sense. Also if a 16 year old said what I am saying they would be wise beyond their years.
@funbarsolaris28224 ай бұрын
@zebakhawaja Be realistic, its a fair point he's making even if it is an over generalisation. How many women do you know who say things like "why are all my partners narcissists", "every man I've been with has just used me", "men are always lying, cheating, manipulating etc"? Many, many women are attracted to and select over confident, cocky dckheads and then complain about the inevitable when it happens
@davnoble84724 ай бұрын
@@zebakhawajayeah he sounds like a 14 year old girl
@Robert_Westwood4 ай бұрын
I agree with her about 95% of the time. This will be part of the 5%. These days, men who have boundaries and expectations are called "controlling" and "narcissistic". If a woman expects a man to be decisive but she resists every decision she expects him to make, that becomes exhausting. I'm not sure if she's come across that in her research...
@JohnM...4 ай бұрын
She’s a single mother who was dumped by someone. Her viewpoint on males is generally incorrect.
@galina67074 ай бұрын
I really respect Sadia's opinion. I agree with her on many of the topics she talks about. But in this case I categorically disagree. A mentally healthy mature woman does not need a man who has a desire to leave. This is a weak man in my opinion. A mentally healthy woman is looking for an equal partner for mutual respect, admiration, help, support, accommodation, love, sex, etc. If I don't reciprocation, I will begin to hate the man. I will stop respecting him. For example, this man and I live together. We have commitment long-term relationships. God forbit I get sick. He didn't help. He left. In a club, or with another woman. I can't respect this man. Because his attitude is a betrayal.
@HristoGospodinov-hb9dd2 ай бұрын
But that's not what she really said. She basically said that women don't have any respect for "yes-men". Which is true.
@avon2alpha6764 ай бұрын
Doesn’t work like this overseas they love nice guys ✈️✈️✈️✈️
@ozzycortes4 ай бұрын
Depends where you go.
@johnhardy41724 ай бұрын
You can be a nice guy and good person and also not stand for no nonsence its called having a balance
@ianwynne7644 ай бұрын
Hello Sadia: Probably the most vile place I ever worked was a duty free shop I worked in. Our boss was a woman, add the vast majority of staff were women. I heard from one of the women that the rivalry between the women was intense.
@thebirdclan4 ай бұрын
The work environment depends on the boss not the gender.
@sanitary1034 ай бұрын
There’s a difference between being nice and a push over. Don’t be the latter.
@Lesly-ic3mq4 ай бұрын
A man might be...REALLY...nice and rejected by most of his adventures. It depends on these women tast, choice, and...personality.
@ibizawavey86304 ай бұрын
Nice in my culture means "misqueen" and you DON'T want to be called miski lol it is the same in the west, you don't want to be called a 'nice guy' but still, where i'm from it is BRUTAL and life will be hard for you if you are a miski.
@Lesly-ic3mq4 ай бұрын
@ibizawavey8630 Whatever it's CALLED in your language or CULTURE...the CONSIDERATION is...the same...!!! Trust me, there's NO other way around.. NICE GUYS FINISH...LAST !!!! Onnce your show too much kindness...you QUICKLY become....a manipulative OBJECT.
@maxmeister50644 ай бұрын
As someone who's been in that pair of shoes in person, I can say the following: women want the agreeable guys (I'm not using the common term cos it's actually dubious) only as a shoulder to cry on. To complain about the wrongdoings of the thug. But in the end they're either gonna return to said thug or pick the next one. Cos tenderness and intimacy is the thug's business, not yours. If it were yours, she wouldn't have taken you into confidence. So you see, you provided your sympathy and understanding and she made use of it. Not what you deserve, and certainly not what she deserves.
@skapunkoialternativeliving652214 күн бұрын
This is why I don't take people like this seriously. Why would you take advice from people who don't practice what they preach? But I love you fools do this? The fact that she's single and not married herself. I can't take her seriously.
@oladokunsamuel59234 ай бұрын
Some of us just chill... Avoiding the drama
@ibizawavey86304 ай бұрын
Peace and Tranquility
@rdrda2 ай бұрын
A friend of mine told me this years ago. Pick someone with whom you will always be the adored one in the relationship.
@SadiaKhanPodcast2 ай бұрын
That's the way of a happy relationship
@orxanbagirov27712 ай бұрын
@@SadiaKhanPodcast Evil and dumb features on your face perfectly define you .
@paulsmith10354 ай бұрын
Women desire what they can’t have. When you’re a nice guy you are too easy for them and can then be sidelined or friend zoned whilst they look for something better. Women nowadays just go not value what they have or too happy to take a guy as ‘mr right now’ as break ups/cheating/ relationship boredom have become so normalised over traditional loyal long term partnerships.
@thebirdclan4 ай бұрын
That's such bullshit. Friend zoned is a term men use when they think women should be sexually available to them, and women aren't just dropping their pants because they act "nice"
@EXPOSEDBYGABRIELPEREZ4 ай бұрын
They get it but at the end of the line
@RollingThunder8082 ай бұрын
Women don't want a nice guy that expects something in return for being nice. Treat her like you would anyone else.
@markpurvis8964 ай бұрын
The most important relationship a man can have is the one he has with himself. Men should be encouraged to be authentic and have intrinsic self worth. If women don’t like a decent man that knows who and what he is, that’s their issue. Empowerment is universal.
@VeteranCommand4 ай бұрын
I wonder if boundaries, leadership, and decision making is enough for the Miss "independent" "I don't need a man" trend that is a larger portion of women than days. I have had more the one relationship where they wanted their tyranical ex and their aladdin romance and think its achievable. 🤔
@sbsb49959 күн бұрын
Nice guys always get women. Idiots don't.
@eugenepohjola2584 ай бұрын
Howdy. I would like to refer to Anna Jorgensen. A nice guy is not the same as a kind man. A nice guy is a servil simp. A kind man does thoughtful things. Selectively. Regards.
@shootingbricks85544 ай бұрын
Why not call the simp a simp?
@Steveaky14 күн бұрын
The biggest problem is constantly talking about men versus women and vice versa
@BartokNeeskens6 күн бұрын
I have decided depart the dating scene because of the undue maligning of guys because they decide to treat women with respect
@Steveaky14 күн бұрын
I’m I consider myself a nice kind guy but I don’t let people take the piss and treat fire with fire 🔥
@AshrafAhmed-n4bАй бұрын
If you're assertive, they will label u as being controlling. If your nice to them, they think your a narcissists.
@matthewjjoss3821Ай бұрын
This Woman is Absolutely Beautiful inside and out!! Woman are Inherently smarter than Men. For Real!
@m4riokartph3nom4 ай бұрын
I feel like we need to shed more light into this whole "Nice guys finish last" because it's def true. I just feel like women like to deny this fact, and men like to over exegerate a lot of stuff from the redpill/blackpill.
@thebirdclan4 ай бұрын
I don't think you are listening to the term nice guys.
@dmen05634 ай бұрын
I'm learning
@piccadelly93602 ай бұрын
What I hear here , is Mother Nature is always present and the one who has the most urge to survive will also survive Women are by nature "forced" to make the decisions they make, those are not their own decisions. If you follow a little philosophy then you know that we have no will of our own.
@gikaradi87932 ай бұрын
WHY DO NICE GUYS GET NO WOMEN? bcz God is gracious and loving to them
@RonnyAndersson-q9b7 күн бұрын
Friend zone is the best place to be. If you can't be friends with your future wife, it's a waste of time. NEXT.
@steveh78234 ай бұрын
I can appear to be nice but women only have one role in my life: amusement. I don't want know about her life, feelings and I never want to meet her family/friends. If she starts talking about abstract issues like politics or values, I'm off like a light switch. Nothing is long term. It's far better to be a day trader than be trapped in a falling market with worsening negative returns.
@scott44992 ай бұрын
Two people pleasers don't work out in a relationship. Translation-One of the two must wear the pants and it doesn't matter which one. Especially in the U.S. where women love wearing the pants in a relationship or marriage.
@DuanePayne-q2y2 ай бұрын
Then I am screwed 😢
@ComradeCoopАй бұрын
Well I'm definitely not a nice guy because i have strict boundaries and ive walked away multiple times and didn't let the woman control me didnt get me anywhere but i guess I'm glad im not considered to be the nice guy....i guess
@alphabeta84034 ай бұрын
3:40 Nice guys lack masculinity 7:30 Lead her, don’t second guess
@marcin31364 ай бұрын
Why is Sadia surprised that women don't support her? She's beautiful/ smart/ very valuable... Probably few women can compete with her (for men). That's how it works. If someone finally wants her, they will be nicer to her :D
@heartofpuregold4 ай бұрын
Does she support women?
@sergiug28372 ай бұрын
She's a narcissist, trust me when I say, you don't want to be with someone who's breathing down your neck all the time. Then projects it onto the poor sap she's with and sabotages everything, blaming it on the poor "nice" bloke whose just decent and unable to handle her insanity.
@backyardrailroader4 ай бұрын
It depends on the definition of nice. I am mice to ladies, but do disagree on certain things without being too much in your face attitude..... you know, the Ivam right and you are wrong position.
@V3ct0r_S1gm42 ай бұрын
"Abandon all hope ye who enters here..." Reads the inscription at the gates of hell... Dantes Inferno, "The Divine Comedy"
@johnpower77324 ай бұрын
I don't have the bad girls that have the good girl
@rosswardrop4654 ай бұрын
Nice Guys like me.Dont get women.Because of looks money muscles .Flash cars.We are boring to them.we dont steal or use people.Nice Guys get used .i have been there.Singlefor 25 years.I cant be bothered.Better off lonely than sorry.To many Golddiggers.
@TerryBecker-bw1vx4 ай бұрын
It certainly isn't because of the nice guys. So most ALL excuses for women are to blame.
@jessicahitchens69264 ай бұрын
So "nice" means weak and not a man..
@johnpower77324 ай бұрын
I wouldn't let any girl uses me because I'm the king of the Travellers
@Chris-hp2gg4 ай бұрын
Nice guys finish last.😂
@carlswindelliv27014 ай бұрын
Not if they are praying the rosary
@andraserban30304 ай бұрын
Stop telling that shit... They are no nice guys.... They are all wolves in sheep's clothes !!
@robertobravo68344 ай бұрын
I strongly recommend you all the song "No More Mr. Nice Guy" by Alice Cooper. You can find it here on KZbin.
@hastensavoir77824 ай бұрын
Do those women who get BADBOYS end up Happy and Fulfilled and Well off???
@AnthonyManzio4 ай бұрын
all low value women
@shrimpeyes46624 ай бұрын
Lol no they end up with cptsd from all the narcisistic abuse they chase. Once this happens the women is finished for good.
@mr.mayhem74024 ай бұрын
They end up as single mums.
@AnthonyManzio4 ай бұрын
@@mr.mayhem7402 100%
@heartofpuregold4 ай бұрын
Agree with something that she says disagree with others try being a catholic plenty of bigotry to go round. Shes not a clinical psychologist so I understand, No further expo required.
@JohnJunior-l9z4 ай бұрын
Women dont want me at all.
@sadbois4 ай бұрын
whats this blokes name
@C89-f5u4 ай бұрын
Chris Williamson
@trainz39824 ай бұрын
I'm gonna be nice whether you like it or not who cares what you got to say I'm here to serve the Lord not you this is not about you sweet cakes "
@ismailpatel72224 ай бұрын
Are you attective sadia
@heartofpuregold4 ай бұрын
Yes shes an attractive woman according to cultural standards of the middle east shes a barbie. Its just a shame she uses her looks and the perceived threats they cause single insecure women online as a reason not to address the big problem of human rights abuses of women and children in islam because shes worried about getting hate. Is it about hate or empathy. Thats a good question to ask.
@Klown844 ай бұрын
Nice guys do get fit birds. It’s all on looks mainly anyway. If you’re good looking regardless of whether you’re good or bad you’re going to get a result imo. It’s all good 👍
@jessicahitchens69264 ай бұрын
This is so basic.. and all these stupid labels. "Nice guys" etc. You either have what I want or you don't. It's that simple. I'm not going to waste my time and energy on dross/energy vampires.
@TasnimMasudi4 ай бұрын
Miadoto watiy plz
@performancephysixx49834 ай бұрын
Sorry I get beautiful ladies and am a nice guy 👍
@Trace71734 ай бұрын
Seen any flying horses lately? derp derp derp
@BackeB4 ай бұрын
Horses evolved differently from birds, in that they don’t have wings. In addition their wings would have to be enormous. This fact has to do with the relationship between surface area and volume (mass). Great question!
@TasnimMasudi4 ай бұрын
Am sewaa niyi you nowo Sarah
@TasnimMasudi4 ай бұрын
Plz itizi raya tumachee plz
@TasnimMasudi4 ай бұрын
Hiy mi s s y u o arowo towo
@charlesporter11484 ай бұрын
this poor woman is confused...equating nice with boring...give her a few years and she'll learn to think at a higher level...
@BlakeKneale2 ай бұрын
First of all , completely erroneous statement saying nice guys never get women ..I know plenty of nice guys that are married and get plenty of women …quit painting people with a giant brush … as if anybody in this video has a looking glass into every nice guys life and how many women they get … all these so called authoritarians on KZbin make me laugh .. some people will believe anybody’s opinion!