Why Does My Mom Treat Her Alleged Sister Like A Daughter?! | KARAMO

[@oddchocolate964]

Tammee did this and I guarantee that trauma started when Naomi was little. She felt rejected since she was a child. The woman didn't even let them call her mother.

[@NayyAmo]

@@oddchocolate964 yes frfr

[@saffronlealle464]

Wow the momma saying I don't watch kids ... that's cold. Now I get that Naomi is dramatic and jealous but she's hurt and wants a relationship with her momma. She needs her momma. And she needs her aunt. I hope they heal.

[@emanueldavis1627]

@@saffronlealle464 no one is obligated to be anyone's childcare provider. Yall need to start having kids by men that wants to be a father instead of thinking yall could pawn your kids off onto your mom

[@genejaytre]

Not really. The mother is not obligated to raise her kids or watch her kids. She’s only obligated to have raised her own children.

[@urdestinydaughterofyah9739]

Grandmas don't grandma anymore 🤷🏾‍♀️

[@tonitwitty9529]

​@@urdestinydaughterofyah9739 Thank God, a lot of us had grandparents who helped. All races help their grandkids but what's going on with so many black ppl with this "nobody has to watch ur kids". It's true, they don't but most love their grandkids and want to spend time with them. Most watch while the parents work. If she was homeless, why wouldn't mom not want to help? Also, I wouldn't want Tammy watching my kids. Telling the 3 year old she doesn't like her? Smh

[@user-rq6pf7hm9f]

It’s an honor to be called mom. The fact that the kids call her Tammie is ridiculous!

[@PinkDracoAntics]

I really hope she starts to let her aunt in, because I feel like their relationship could be magnificent

[@giselleromero9350]

The mom has been rejecting her daughter since she was a little girl I can tell she doesn’t like being told the truth and really doesn’t like her own daughter and that is why her daughter is jealous of the relationship between her aunt and her mom! you guys keep saying that the mom isn’t a babysitter and are missing the important fact that what hurts her the most is that she is even rejecting her grandchildren! spending quality time and building a bond with your grandchildren isn’t babysitting! So the problem at hand is that no matter what the daughter does the mom will never give her the love she deserves and with that she just needs to separate herself from her toxic mom and love her from a distance.

[@kaitlyncarey3269]

@@giselleromero9350 preach!

[@ambzcloud]

That mama pissed me off. I don't know why we have so many mothers in our community who can't love their daughters, but I truly hope newer generations of mothers do better.

[@nicoleraheem1195]

Right! Like what's the problem?

[@marathonbleu]

that beautiful dark skin is just 🤌✨

[@user-wx6ww2ky1q]

@@marathonbleu Yes

[@pamelastates5600]

@@marathonbleu @ YESSS THEY ARE BEAUTIFUL BEAUTIFUL BLACK QUEENS. 👸🏾👑✨❤️🇨🇦

[@RawVeganJenNYC]

💯👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

[@ambzcloud]

Yes, just gorgeous!

[@friday8370]

@@marathonbleu yes w the purple is sickening!!

[@kaykaybutterfly4524]

I’m glad these videos have been going longer than 13-14 mins these last few been hittin

[@Queenalika85]

I feel like Karamo made this show all about the sister...that girl is hurting because she wants her mother...

[@MyaVatMii]

Because she needs to grow up. She doesn't need her mother. She needs to be a mother.. and focus

[@hazelboyce7230]

@@MyaVatMii Childhood trauma that is not dealt with through therapy can be brought into adulthood and cause major issues. So, you cannot speak to this woman’s issues. This show has revealed that many children were damaged by their own mothers.

[@lifewk]

That doesn’t justify her misplaced anger.

[@lifewk]

@@hazelboyce7230still a choice. As someone who CHOSE to deal with my trauma

[@tonitwitty9529]

Mom left the stage and said she wasn't coming back out. They are hopefully coming back for the maternity test and he can talk to them more... hopefully. The daughter feels neglected. Everyone SHOULD understand how she is feeling. U think a child growing up feeling not loved will just shake it off because they are adults? She needs prayer and God to heal her heart. Mom caused all of this.

[@user-rq6pf7hm9f]

She don’t want her aunt, she wants her momma!

[@nicoleraheem1195]

Right

[@sunflowerglo5492]

It’s kinda seems like the mother might be planting the seed of jealousy in her daughter.

[@nicoleraheem1195]

Look at how she went against her daughter for her sister. I agree with you

[@tonitwitty9529]

If u notice, it seemed that Karamo was having a breakthrough with the neice and daughter and to ME,that's when the mom came out raising all kind of hell getting on the daughter. Imagine how the daughter feels. U want the love of ur mother and she gives that love to a sister she just met. This been going on for 15 years. I empathize with the daughter. If ur mother doesn't love u or show u love, it will affect ur life.

[@sunflowerglo5492]

@@tonitwitty9529 Yes! That’s what made me put it all together. Smh unfortunately it doesn’t seem like she likes her daughter very much.

[@starbabi77]

This is so much emotion...and it's still not fixed

[@kaitlyncarey3269]

Yes but at least she has this concrete evidence that is Reality and at the end of the day you have to accept reality. Hopefully she can accept her aunt in some capacity…

[@Mrscarricom]

The daughter wants the relationship with her mom that the aunt has, but you can't force love

[@kimdean1079]

I have a feeling Naomi is like my daughter. My daughter made bad choices over and over again and I've done a lot to help her while she has turned down offers by the state to get on her feet. 4 kids later by 3 different fathers, I'm still trying to help. Raised my grandson for 3 years while she was supposedly getting on her feet. And still, sometimes she goes on a tangent and gets it into her mind that I haven't helped at all. My, how short her memory is. I refuse to do everything for her and at some point, she has to take accountability for the choices she made.

[@SheUhhThot]

@@kimdean1079 sounds about right. You can tell daughter is the problem

[@CarraThomas]

No wrong Tamie did not raise any of her kids and if you listen carefully she left her homeless the young lady had to figure it out on her own and Tamie is mad disrespectful did you see how she got kicked off the stage?

[@NayyAmo]

I have a feeling you weren't paying attention to this family at all, smh. You so tunnel vision focused on your daughter, you missed the part when she said her mom didn't even answer to her calling her mom/mommy... & girls who grow up to be women starting new family trees again and again COME FROM a dysfunctional family tree. Pray & heal, stop tryna throw your daughter under the bus 🙄

[@777JESUSISLORD71]

Mom is not responsible for someone else's kids. And if your mom is toxic,why would you want your kids around her in that way 🤔

[@cs3401]

@@777JESUSISLORD71 "Someone else's kids" their her grand(kids) no one said she's responsible for her children but she can help out sometimes especially for her daughter's mental health to have a little time for herself, not all the time and she should want to be around her grandkids anyway. 🤔

[@jazzyjennshighway]

I think she expected her mom to come through when she needed her the most, not to just randomly watch her kids. That’s what hurt her

[@tymberlynnj9875]

Something about the mother and the sister is very wicked

[@nicoleraheem1195]

@@tymberlynnj9875 I think the mother is more wicked than the sister

[@jazzyjennshighway]

Yep bc the way the sister paraded hard around the daughter of the results kinda seemed slick messy. Especially when she knew how she felt about it

[@kaitlyncarey3269]

@@jazzyjennshighwayI think she means well not gonna lie because she gave Naomi lots of physical support and reassurance.

[@ThePinkPurples]

She ain’t never gon be happy lol

[@kaitlyncarey3269]

😢 not true

[@TCA4381]

The daughter is in pain and it’s affecting her attitude. Bad attitudes push people away. I wish her mother was more loving and understanding of her daughters needs.

[@teshaholsey9367]

My heart really goes out to the daughter and the sister the daughter just wants a better relationship and love from mom and sister wants to be accepted from everybody in the family and not just her big sister when the mom came out again when karamo was breaking down the wall between the auntie and the daughter the mom come out and try to messed up everything

[@lisaholmes992]

Her Mama is Something!! And the daughter is feeling like a lost child from neglect!!

[@nunofyourbiz1980]

The mother don't want them to be friends

[@NyaRenae-pk1rl]

the daughter needs to grow up like fr you got an aunt that’s wants a relationship with you and you still making it about something it’s not🤦🏾‍♀️😒

[@ShayMiW]

That's her mother's fault. Idk what it's like to not receive a mother's love or be treated by my mom in that way, but it's obviously something that's detrimental to a child. For your mom to treat someone the way you deserved to be treated and still want to, and your mom is using that to play in your face, it's wild

[@Bhannahable]

Exactly! Still crying bc her mother has failed her. Well, build a relationship with ur aunt and if ur mom comes around, good. If not, then what's new??

[@penelopeb1370]

Aww, she's feeling so rejected. Her pain... And mom is only 15 years older than her child. Wow! This is so deep because there is so much broken pain.

[@SiNCERELYTAYY1]

The way the moma came out like that was ridiculous

[@Ms.NigeriaParker]

I swear I understand the daughter and she needs to hear those words from her mom.

[@GoneColoring]

Naomi is absolutely beautiful, its sad she was born from a monster.

[@elizabethkadiri2369]

I can feel Naomi’s pain omg. She just wants a mother-daughter relationship & I have a feeling tammie was never a mother to her.

[@margaretholman9515]

Your momma doing that on purpose. Make amends with the auntie she love the kids. Tammie don’t like you and love to make you jealous. Sad but true

[@skz3646]

I feel like everyone is being to hard on the daughter .😅 I don’t understand what’s it’s like not have a caring mother but I do understand not have a parent that have never been there for you and not taking your feelings in consideration. It seems like the mother never had love or showed love for her daughter in a way the daughter could recognize it. She probably could never go to her mom and talk about the things happening in her life and what she was going through.( to the point that she can’t even call her mom) And throughout all these years of her mother not showing love that she needed to meet as a mother she grew to hate her to a certain extent. At the end when she asks for a dna test and everyone was laughing it really hurt me to see that because she was so for real. She doesn’t even want to be related to that women that just goes to show had bad she treated her growing up. And the sister has no right to say that she doesn’t believe the daughter just because of what the mother told her. She should of sat down and have a deep talk with her to know the in and out of her relationship with her mother to truly understand what wrong with their relationship.

[@carmaarmour3452]

That "she's finna take her" broke me cause i know how that feels fr

[@angiec13]

yea...there is some jealousy here. Karamo, love how you allowed them to vent so we could get to the real issue!

[@tonitwitty9529]

As soon as the breakthrough was going on with the neice and aunt, the mom runs out like she didnt want them to get along and comes out going off on the daughter. I feel for the daughter.

[@andreajones886]

sounds a whole lot like my situation...homeless...a "mother" who doesn't care,etc.....

[@nicoleraheem1195]

Same! Homeless on and off from 17 30 Mom even said, "Go back to the box you crawled out of", but whenever I pulled 70-80 hour work weeks, she had her hand out. Finally found stability and she still shitted on me for having the same goals for years that I haven't accomplished: graduating from college(2 semesters left),obtaining my CDL class A license( I have a CDL C)and getting some type of medical certification (CNA, Pharmacy Technician)(fall back plan after graduation by might aim for LPN/RN) . That was because of homelessness 🤷🏽‍♀️ Now the bills delay my goals 😅 I just don't understand the negative energy after 20 years 🤷🏽‍♀️

[@andreajones886]

@@nicoleraheem1195 felt!🎯💯

[@raindrops4284]

Be quiet!!!! Stop talking!!

[@lynne2057]

Yes! I was yelling that 🤣🤣

[@egotistical83]

Right!? Like, damn! 😂

[@Ha_Girl248]

Big fan!!

[@PrincessBaby305]

Bruh tammee and the aunt are so freaking weird. And she says some disrespectful stuff i wish karamo didnt make her all buddy buddy with each other.

[@YenWay-v2b]

I love the lady with the red braids personality.

[@rhodanorton6944]

I just love Karamo I’m old enough to be his mother but I wish I had had someone like him in my life when I was growing up and even now!

[@jackwalter5970]

Something is wrong with that mother.

[@sbongisenindwandwe]

Let Karamo Speak 😫

[@Bhannahable]

Please don't make that face when crying. Grow up! It's too late to cry bc ur mom failed as a mother. Grow up! Ppl grow up without their mother all the time. U have to accept the pain and grow!

[@kaitlyncarey3269]

Here. Have a heart ❤.

[@Bhannahable]

@kaitlyncarey3269 I have one, just no sympathy for grown kids who wallowing in self-pity instead of going to counseling and healing themselves. 😘🖕 & her too

[@leotajackson5602]

I love this show!! Karamo always gets to the core of the issue. I hope that young lady accepts the relationship with her aunt!!

[@naanra301]

This mother is such a bad person- wow. I don’t watch kids… what a terrible (grand) mother. As she was going she should have been going for real - and never came back. But as she had to leave the stage that was so great!! Naomi had to learn that her „mother“ is not able to be a mother to her. And the aunt and the mom have something funny going..??!! It would be great if Naomi and her aunt become real friends and real relatives. But the mean mother will fight it. But Karma will come back and they all will get what they deserve. Naomi will be happy then!!

[@raymondben36466]

@naanra301 So because the daughter had a child, her parent have to automatically become a babysitter?

[@cupcakedeberry0728]

Not the aunt rubbing salt in nieces wounds at the end🤬

[@Chrisette-42]

I'm such a huge fan karamo I loved u in the real world Philadelphia

[@sweetness313sweet]

This is the sadness i ever seen im crying 😢 for the daughter and auntie omg im praying for yall

[@geslinerodne2125]

bro your video is the best

[@michaela4499]

i knew that was naomi aunt they look alike

[@MrsMyersSince2011]

@@michaela4499 look more alike than her and her mom to me lol

[@nicoleraheem1195]

Right!

[@Viva__XO]

Kicked str8 off the stage trying to run things

[@jazzyjennshighway]

😂😂😂😂right . Her & her thick bowlegs

[@1993kennyb]

Naomi (the daughter ) is the problem. He keep blaming Tammy smh

[@kaitlyncarey3269]

How can you blame someone if they didnt deserve blame? Doesn’t make sense. How are you so quick to absolve the parental responsibility to love and nurture their child??? Did you miss the part where her mother ignored her to the point she stopped even referring to her that way? Do you refer to your mother by her first name? Is that normal? Does that happen over night. I don’t think so honestly. Here’s a heart. ❤

[@monitricelashe1139]

These last couple of videos been A LOT

[@ziariakagler7292]

I can’t wait to see what the dna outcome going to be for the mom and daughter to see if they really are daughter and mom

[@emanueldavis1627]

Basically the daughter had kids by a bum and wants to pawn her kids off on her mom and feels like the aunt is the reason mom don't want to be a free babysitter

[@karenbrown922]

I agree! I have a child that behaves the same way. He created a life of chaos and tries to make the world feel sorry for him because I won't engage....

[@jazzyjennshighway]

I think it was bc she needed her the most at that time.. & bc she refused to help her in a crisis , it hurt her

[@kaitlyncarey3269]

@@jazzyjennshighwaythese people are heartless

[@jazzyjennshighway]

@@kaitlyncarey3269 ikr!

[@user-cx5nn8dx9c]

Naomi will always be jealous and love drama, until she look within herself and try to change.

[@kitrinka37]

When I found my little sister, she was 14 years old, I wanted to show her the love she missed out on through out the years, I wanted her to bond with my family and grow up with my kids, my 22yrs old daughter was pure evil, was mean and ugly towards my sister, they eventually became like bff's but that first year was pure hell. and I raised all my kids. so I can see how a grow up daughter could feel a way - especially after the results were given, because my daughter hollered at me one day, "she not even your child.."! In my case - my daughter was spoiled and felt she would have to share me with another girl. lol

[@dannysalzer770]

Even though the mother [Tammy] could benefit from a tad more empathy, the daughter REALLY needs to grow up! She’s way too dramatic and jealousy is a terrible trait. It infiltrates and seals your fate! I’m glad the aunt got the confirmation she needed, now she knows for sure she fits in and belongs there. The rest of the family now needs to embrace/welcome her.

[@kaitlyncarey3269]

How can you pass judgement so quickly and crassly? You see all this and your conclusion is that Jealousy is a terrible trait? Do you think it came out of nowhere? Do you think she’ll just wake up one day and say “hm yes the pervasive rejection I’ve felt is suddenly gone through zero forces at all” . That’s absolutely ludicrous and a gross misunderstanding of the human psyche and how vulnerable children are- and how that affects the adults they grown into being.

[@love1318-y5x]

Another mother hating her daughter. Narcissistic to the bone. Sons have it so much easier than daughters when it comes to moms. It's like most mothers are in competition with their daughters.

[@lynne2057]

Whewwww this was a lot but Karma's broach was beautiful

[@jay13x81]

Her mom probably hates her dad and she just rejected her

[@JojosOasis]

Your child is a reflection of you. The mother didn’t do right.

[@IAMTHEEQUEEN]

I cant stand when ppl over talk and dont listen

[@nolalmills7762]

I’m happy for the Aunt, blessings to their family ❤

[@jazzyjennshighway]

The daughter need to take heed of what karamo said…. She need to stop being jealous… that trait is dangerous. It’s the mom she need to recognize is actually toxic… you can read that vibe a mile away.

[@lifewk]

She needs counseling she’s not thinking logically. She wants her mother to be someone she isn’t.

[@cocobenji6123]

She has abandonment issued. Don't dismiss that

[@kaitlyncarey3269]

She wants her mother to be a mother? Which she isn’t. That’s sad.

[@brandyuni-gx7uo]

She needs to stop wanting a relationship with her mum and move on . She will never change

[@user-cx5nn8dx9c]

Naomi is very jealous and is not receptive to correction.

[@Philtmnt]

The mom is a narcissist.

[@MyaVatMii]

I think the daughter is a professional victim.

[@VONiiE8]

She really went on a tangent about how she need to shut up and listen instead of shutting up and listening 😭😂

[@VONiiE8]

Karamo got some PATIENCE! 😮‍💨

[@Rbrb7701]

The mom Tammy is so toxic but the daughter is also weird and mad at the aunt for no reason

[@myidaalexandra2322]

I think the whole family is broken

[@Leniloveyeshua3483]

Naomi needs to grow up she is too much. And she is blaming the sister for their problems,just sick . I'm so tired of these immature Naomi

[@LexiePorter-t9u]

It's very strange and disheartening when your mom can love everyone but you. It damages you

[@Mrscarricom]

The mother was very disrespectful, trying to speak over the host

[@Leniloveyeshua3483]

Leave this girl alone. She chose to be bitter. This won't end up well

[@sabrinashealey3020]

Idk I think the daughter is embellishing a little. I truly feel her but Mothers do not HAVE TO WATCH YOUR KIDS..... where are the fathers friends etc... I don't think is right to automatically think people HAVE to watch your kids they CHOOSE to watch them and yeah if you laying with a dude and still need help cause you homeless priorities not right. I hope they mend their issues

[@nottodaylilbaldhead]

If her mom didn't want to be a mom to her why in God's green earth would you want Tammy aka mama to watch your kids? The daughter is trying to force a relationship but meanwhile the mama oops Tammy doesn't want no parts of that. The aunt does though.

[@CcBeautiful94]

I’m sorry but your mother is not your baby daddy! They are not obligated to watch the kids y’all made

[@jen62865]

7:56 you got 6 kids but stay in a studio with 2???

[@Carmelcomfort982]

@jen62865 right🤔....6 and only got 2 is wild ....imma need her to be honest like the mom said cuz ummm no ma'am something is not adding up

[@nicoleraheem1195]

How are you going to tell KARAMO, of the KARAMO SHOW, "NO", when he asked you to give him a minute before you come on the stage?!😅 THEN, HAVE THE AUDACITY TO LOOK OFFENDED when SECURITY had to escort you off???!!!!😅😂😂😂😂Whooooo, Child!!! 😅

[@damiencrews7603]

Naomi need to focus on keeping her legs closed, stop making so many babies n getting her life together

[@MsMVP]

HERE YOU GO PPL, THIS IS ONE EXAMPLE OF WHY THERE ARE, "ANGRY BLACK WOMEN!" 😪😪

[@lanalana9621]

They literally look just alike

[@RiahMunnblock]

Uncle karamo keep doing your thing 💯🗣️💙

[@period8705]

Lil sis is definitely holding those watermelons nicely.

[@angelamyers2924]

They All talk way tooo much. And Tamme is disrespectful. Karamo did the right thing. Put her off your stage.

[@nl8128]

And I thought my life is complete 😔😔

[@chrystalb85ify]

She feel stupid now.. A fraud what that was her sister I feel so bad

[@lkpeace911]

First of all!!!……. They got black folk in Iowa?

[@Preciousdxo]

I knew they were related because they have the same high pitched grainy voice

[@Bellydaughter]

The daughter need to grow up she’s such a child

[@antoniquewalker3242]

@@Bellydaughter you clearly grew up with your mother

[@Bellydaughter]

@@antoniquewalker3242 with both parents and she is very childish and this is coming from a 24 year old

[@ariesgirl.]

Karamo, you’ve been missing the mark lately. This show was NOT about the aunt. That young lady has issues with her mother crying out for love and a relationship. The mother is the root of this.

[@donnie4262]

@@ariesgirl. The ep was titled sister or scammer. That was the premise of the episode she didn't bring her mom on the show to fix their relationship. She brought her aunt to see if it's her real aunt

[@emanueldavis1627]

That daughter is simply annoying. People that plays the victim card is the absolute worst

[@internationalchic]

The daughter should have been REMOVED for the DNA portion and Tammy should have been allowed to stay. This daughter is irresponsible and tiring. Aunt is the best and most patient woman. Bring Tammy back to tell her story.

[@Bhannahable]

You shut up and listen to the TV show host

[@kourtneyjackson6216]

IM EARLY FOR ONCE OMGGG

[@noluvomonelo244]

Naomi is jealous, dramatic and she needs to grow up and be a mom to her kids

[@CharlesWrice-qw6yg]

❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@Sanismom]

im sorry

[@MsMVP]

😢🥺😪😪

[@dioradabrat7400]

What in the Halloween hair type shit is this?

[@marianamwanje8968]

We here again 😍