Why Does SHE Do All The Work? - ASK

She loves digging, math, problem solving, crochet and drinking wine. And while our Portugal renovation project, vegetable gardening and life admin are very much a joint effort, sometimes it doesn't appear that way on camera.
In this video we explain how we approach dividing up the workload and show you a bit more progress on our ground floor farm house conversion.
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[@42apprentice]

Kylie & Guy don’t ever change, your division of labour plays to your strengths & personalities & sense of fun.

[@InquisitiveBaldMan]

Just don't read too deeply into the comments. They will always have a section that's a cesspit of sh*t and villainy.

[@kathybaugh3823]

I applaud both of you. You make a great team and you shouldn't have to explain your choices. Of course you are absolutely right that you play to each other's strengths and preferences. I wish I had even half of your skills and energy. Look forward to your next video. You are incredible. 👍👏👏💪

[@magicmaze1998]

Half is perfect. That means you just need somebody else for the other half;)

[@theharringtons2010]

Kylie has given me the confidence to start using power tools and doing my own diy projects..thanks Kylie 👍

[@MAKEDOGROW]

YAY!!!! 😍

[@junehitchcock170]

Yep Kylie has inspired me to explore woodworking!! I love my new chop saw, jig saw and my other power tools. Forget about the Neil polish etc. simply not interested! 😂

[@Neilhuny]

@@junehitchcock170 Yay! Go ladies! There is absolutely no reason to believe men are better - though it may be convenient at times. You can do what you want

[@chrislarsen2684]

I find it a bit sad that you have to even explain yourself in relation to what you are doing on your property and how the work gets done and by whom....I think what you are both doing takes a huge leap of faith, strength and courage...Thank you for sharing. It opens our eyes as to the possibilities abroad and with our own homes...Rock On!!

[@michelezolezzi5114]

The subtext of a question reveals so much more about the person asking the question than the reply.

[@Syntella]

It's hilarious to me how, others assume, one is doing more than the other. Simply because they are not the one being filmed. Well hello, these are only between 15-45 minute long videos. Obviously, the work is being distributed! 😂 I too love doing manual labor also, so I get it. You do you, people are way too jugdy. You're both amazing and I admire the hard work you guys are doing and achieving wonderful results . ❤️

[@junehess501]

Your mom sounds so much like mine did. I give her all the credit for the strong foundation that made me the woman I am today. She was a single mom with 5 kids on a cattle farm in the 60s and 70s and there was never a question if a job was “man’s work” or “woman’s work”- it was just work and it had to be done. Thank god for that lesson- it has served me well for 67 years. I can cook, sew, keep house, design, create, but also set a fence post and stretch barbed wire with a come-along if need be. I enjoy it all. God bless our mamas.

[@MAKEDOGROW]

Yay for the kickass mums .... I’m totally who I am because of her 😍

[@vickyoakes4584]

Amen to that!

[@gbatty4691]

Kylie your a legend, Guy your a legend 2 😁 love watching you guys, we didn’t for one second think Kylie would let you get away with not working and vice versa, looking forward to next weekends episode 👍

[@salscycleshop3416]

You two are awesome together, and thank goodness your mother raised a "fiercely independent daughter "

[@moiragoldsmith7052]

I appreciate your team work. You both do a grand job. Kylie is digging holes, Guy is filling holes and the armchair critics are picking holes. 🙄.

[@MAKEDOGROW]

😂😂 Love it 😍

[@carlosdelagarza8983]

Hurrah! to your egalitarian partnership - few things in life are as uplifting and rewarding as a partner who values and nurtures your contributions.

[@vrrtg]

As a fiercely independent woman myself I am mightily proud to see Kylie doing all she does and doing it all so well. Congratulations to both of you on your beautiful relationship!

[@jolleyolley1204]

You guys have a fantastic balance and a healthy and happy relationship. You have built an amazing project together and you are both very skilled at what you do. You are having so much fun and that's what's important.

[@Patricia-pq9xw]

I think you both do a great job and are a good team. I would not pay any attention to people that don't challenge themselves. Kylie you are a fantastic role model. Great videos guys!!

[@dianavousden9587]

This is the first video (and I have watched from the beginning) that made me "sad". You shouldn't have to explain or justify how or why you are sharing your workload. It is very obvious that you are a great team! Stay as you are - both of you! And continue doing what you so obviously enjoy. Onwards and upwards.... keep it up, certainly helps to keep me motivated.

[@WomensCareCenterFredericton]

You are an example in following your dreams facing every challenge.

[@chrisroberts5562]

There will always be people who see things through negative eyes. Your journey is great to watch and I wish you all the very best going forward.

[@eartecathy7378]

I have been impressed with the broad scope of work I have seen Kylie doing. That is part of what has interested me about your channel. Knowing now that you are both happy with the division of labor, makes it even more pleasant to watch you both.

[@MAKEDOGROW]

I just wish my body was able to keep up with all the physical labour my mind wants to do … I’ve definitely had to learn to slow down a little 😂 - Kylie

[@maemangiameli4841]

I love this twelve ways till Sunday and way back again. 💯💕. Balance is key and these two have that rationale down pat! Keep up the good work guys!! Salute!!

[@sailaway1015]

Guy... you're a lucky man! Kylie, fine example of a confident woman who sees challenges and not barriers.

[@sharon4364]

People wonder why I usually do all the yard work, even some landscaping. I LIKE it! I call on hubs when I need his brute strength. He also does all the financials, which I don't care for. He drives alot too. Works for us!

[@nancibishof6462]

I find as a woman many of the tasks are achievable but it will take me longer to accomplish. There is no job that does not include some aspects that are less agreeable than others. The joy comes with the completion of the project and accomplishment of my goals. I could not afford all the improvements to my home without my labor. That labor makes the final project's contribution to my environment and life all the greater because of it. And it pushes me to tackle things I haven't a clue how to do until I research it. It broadens me as a person and provides more freedom as I am less dependent. So keep on keeping on in what you do. It works for you and harms no one else. Your home is going to be a fabulous home for you two.

[@fishermann1102]

I am very sorry to hear that you received these unprogressive comments Kylie. I have been watching Kylie's hardwork since the beginning of your vlog. I have always admire Kylie's intelligence and practicality. Kylie, you go girl! Also it is good exercise! Kylie is fit and tan. Lol! She is gorgeous.

[@pattywhite3988]

Girl power Kylie💪🏻!!! I completely understand the division of labor when remodeling a home! Hubby has his specialty and I have mine! Enjoying the videos!

[@dawnboone2]

I admire you both. This is all such hard work and you both have an amazing work ethic. Your videos are wonderful to watch. Thank you.

[@fuziface]

Keep up the good work , both of you ! , Both of my Daughter's are very independant , my Youngest drive an 18 wheeler gravel truck

[@MAKEDOGROW]

OMG, that must be awesome!! 😃

[@taniakeldin]

You are very lucky to have her!!

[@nickfosterxx]

I had to look for this video after watching your second limecrete floor. Was so glad I'd remembered the title from some earlier time. Anyway, I think this is one of your more important videos, and as ever, beautifully stated. And you both seem so good tempered together it actually warms my own heart. All the best to you both.

[@jillismyname]

Love this! And it case it boosts your enthusiasm -seeing another woman doing work sometimes seen as "male" is refreshing and a lot of what I like about your channel! :)

[@jameyjones1595]

Kylie definitely has bigger muscles than Guy :P Thank you for being an advocate of being independant and doing things you love without the stereotyping and bias. I enjoy watching both of you, including Guy's geeky jokes :D

[@MsCorrier]

Excellent response to the questions!

[@claudiotenreiro3111]

It is quite obvious that you both enjoy what you are doing and how you are working on, so, just continue having fun and thanks for the videos (and also for some good ideas for us to copy jajaja). Cheers.

[@johnsage1020]

Please don't go away i enjoy watching and learn about your part of the world. Here in the states we cement everything the pointing i find relaxing. Love you guys until next time

[@lancedaniels]

Thanks for posting and sharing.

[@seriouslypagan6904]

Haters gonna hate! Ignore them, you both are amazing!

[@rnggall9640]

I love your answer just mystified why multiple people would ask it.

[@ginafreeman1634]

Team work makes the dream work. It’s clear you both have your roles to play. It’s great watching you work together and I love that you don’t feel tied to a stereotype. Keep doing you 😁

[@elizabethtoet1113]

I will never understand why some people find it necessary to mind other people's business. Kylie and Guy you have got it all sorted You both do amazing work, you are both clearly happy and content with your life. Guy you just keep churning out these fabulous videos, we all love them Kylie you do what makes you happy.

[@unexpectedgoodluck2210]

As a marathoner, I love the run! And talking about running and planning runs.

[@MAKEDOGROW]

So you’re one of those crazies 😂.... was it always like that, or only once you got good at running? I find digging is a lot more enjoyable (with music) now that I’m a lot fitter and stronger

[@sherrybarclay7133]

You are an amazing couple who work so well with each other and have fun doing it. You are taking the challenge of renovating an old ruin yourself and enjoying it which makes your video channel a delight to watch and learn.from. I am so excited to have found your channel. You're the Best! ❤️❤️❤️

[@donnadunjafenton3719]

Fantastic answers.

[@margaretbacon7874]

Carry on girl you show them. It was my father who maid me be able to do things 💚👍

[@marissaalonzo7997]

My husband and I are the same. Respect.

[@seriouslyjoking2]

Kylie, I am the one who like to take the photos of my husband working on one of our projects & people assume he is doing the work all by himself. That is when I ask: WHY do you think there are 2 ladders? There was one time when I was doing all the digging for some steps...as my husband has back problems, but I took a photograph of him digging. Again, the assumption was that I did not contribute except to take photos. These are people who sit back and watch everyone else....They are projecting themselves in the situation.

[@carolerodeghiero8157]

Don't change a thing we love 💖 you both and I see shared work.

[@Eddi.M.]

LOL, this seems not only to be a very touchy issue, but also one that moves a lot of people...

[@Tigaroto]

People have too much opinion about others, that's inevitable on an internet public life in a way, but yeah... a couple knows what work for them. So focus on the content not in 'whys' and enjoy it :).

[@luminyam6145]

I love how you approach these projects. Actually your videos are perfect to show others how a good team operates. I love you guys.

[@kerrylynnparsons9441]

Your mom gave you good messages, Kylie. I was pushed to marriage and kids as young as possible but I chose education instead. Life is funny like that! I agree about shared work based on skills and desires. Keep it up!!! 😊❤️🇨🇦👏👏👏

[@dianejones1289]

So hold on ...so if someone choses to marry and have children young that's seems as something wrong, seriously stfu, that's attacking young parents.

[@kerrylynnparsons9441]

@@dianejones1289 NO! If Someone PUSHES you to do that--THAT IS WRONG!!! Grow up.

[@leacruz7311]

Lucky you, you do anything you consider enjoyable.

[@sophieb8666]

Good answers! I love labor too…sometimes

[@alisonward3167]

Kylie I completely support you, as an independent single mum I’ve always done all the work 😊 including the hard labour in my huge garden and I LOvE it, although a little help every now and then would be nice. 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

[@Callofdootie]

As I said on another channels video (on a similar subject): it’s great to hear that you guys are happy but sad that you have to explain yourself - people should just enjoy the content.

[@naturalcombinations]

You guys are going through so much hard labouring, keeping it together at the same time is a great way to make it happen! I take my hat off for you guys!

[@gaynor3976]

Thank you both for all you do to get the videos out and the filming. You have a great relationship and work so well together. You will have a beautiful home when you're finished due to all your hard work xxxx

[@margaretlovelock7031]

Well done Kylie

[@debbiegarza1287]

You guys nailed it! I was raised on a farm in Kansas & I tossed hay bales with the best of them. Plus I’d rather do garden work than cook. Male/female jobs…if you don’t work you don’t eat.

[@LaReynedEpee]

A lot of viewers don't understand the amount of time it takes to edit vlogs. I've a friend who does short, no-fuss instructional vlogs on the Kia EV6, he has previous experience of shooting video, but has noted it takes much longer than he anticipated to put them together.

[@nevisscot7697]

Well you have done so many courses .it makes a lot of people have what the hell feelings. I dont see a problem in this couple ...they self criticise....but they are soooo funny.i love his sense of humour... I presume they dont work 24/7 ....and probably have friends ☺☺☺☺.....it also depends on which country the people come from who are asking all the questions.

[@TheJo96jo]

Great team 👍

[@mme_en_vadrouille]

Bravo you two! I think you need to pin this video at the top, you have addressed this question soo many times. You are kind to do it again. Love your channel, you have a beautiful property. I am so impressed with all the work that you have done. Hang in there!!

[@sarahlovesdonuts9601]

Kylie…I relate to this very much. I choose to do the physical work because I want to get stuff done. And to be honest, I get a lot of satisfaction out of seeing markable progress in projects. It can be wonderful when a couple who appreciates one another’s talents, skills and abilities, achieves their goals. A family/ a couple is very much like a business.

[@marco.mennenga]

You're absolutely right in deviding the jobs as you like it. Look at skills, not gender. But stop working at the same moment and enjoy the moments of rest and contemplation together. As my father always said:"You're only ready if the rest is ready too. You can always pickup a broom and clean." Found your channel just recently and i'm loving it.

[@heidibear44]

Totally here for it! My partner and I agreed very early on that we should focus on what we are good at and what we enjoy and build from there. It works so well. Very fulfilling approach. Your journey is so wonderful to see, thanks for sharing. Love from South Africa!

[@jacquipicard1336]

Team work makes the dream work.Good luck to you both.

[@amcab1625]

You guys are truly inspirational...as individuals and as a couple. Unfortunate that there is a need for you to explain your AWESOME partnership! ❤️

[@Rostha846]

Muy buena respuesta, si una persona se siente capacitada puede hacer lo que quiera👍👍

[@ElJasperino]

Sounds like a good balance! 😃

[@aquasha2799]

Of course you both work, “many hands make light work”. Your both hard workers . Your amazing 😊 keep up the excellent and non boring content

[@klausklausen1700]

Thumps up for teamwork :-)

[@peterbfernandes]

Huge respect, just beautiful content. I was a fan, now I am a big fan! Great video and sound editing, but the way you explained you complementing each other in tasks and relationship as a team and as one is so moving! Big hug from Sintra!

[@PauloRSilva-mu3tk]

The big rock challenge was hilarious.. 🤣🤣 Good job or Bom Trabalho em Portuguese ..

[@patriciawalz7022]

Very unfortunate you had to explain yourselves, your relationship is obvious.

[@jerrielindsey5939]

Thanks for addressing the thoughtless comments. I am inspired by your work ethic. I‘m not as good at math Kylie but I too can dig!

[@hectoro-martinez5955]

honey you doing a very good job and you`re husban too .hellow from Laurel Mississippi USA

[@greenfrog8871]

11:35 maybe a heavy duty hand truck dolly to transport the bigger rocks?

[@TheHappyBookMaker]

Brilliant video! My friend and I were talking about this last night. He assumed this and I said I didn’t believe it. It looks to me like a great partner ship! Plus I reminded him that Guy is filming and editing and this all takes time. He gets it now. 😉 Love your videos and look forward to more! ❤️

[@mariadange06]

It comes over as good teamwork and building in a shared interested is what stops stagnation in a relationship. Bon continuation 💪💪

[@sydfin]

It’s not a gender thing its an Aussie/Brit thing… haha love your vids. As an Aussie who was born in Portugal and tired of living in big city I’m living my dreams through your vids. Keep up the great work.

[@stephenscott5400]

My wife does more than me in many ways but very equal through out our life,

[@curiouscat3384]

I'm a Kylie. I'm fiercely independent and renovated one house and now working on my single gal "forever home" at 68. I don't have the upper body strength of a young man so I'm slower and sometimes need to ask for help but mostly can find a way. I've noticed across many channels that viewers forget that there are 10000 minutes in a week and we see 15 minutes of their life! Just ignore those comments - you do not need to 'splain yourselves!

[@curiouscat3384]

p.s. I would offer a suggestion though. Kylie after years of torturing my lower back digging and hauling heavy stuff, I have a compressed lumbar disk that I have to nurse. Wearing an elastic brace helps a lot - along with core strength exercises and yoga at the end of the day :)

[@nena4215]

Kylie forgot to yell “Ouch” when Guy pushed the massive boulder out the door! I live my life the same way, absolutely wouldn’t be with anyone who was not equal, I’ve been lucky, so lucky to have found my perfect life partner!!! Really looking forward to the Lyme adventures, it seems like amazing stuff.

[@georgeandheatherfrancis6643]

Well said

[@carolined3058]

You work good as a couple. Don't care about what anybody 's opinion might be.

[@marisa01082012]

Kylie, your mom was ABSOLUTELY RIGHT! and you two are EQUALLY RIGHT, being happy making each other happy! In addition, it is SMART to manage tastes/preferences, skills and strengths with a view to optimizing results, excellent work by both 💯👌👍🤗🤗

[@cynthiamery8286]

I think you both are amazing, hard working and see the beauty your place has to offer, I’m sure it’s going to be absolutely beautiful once it finished!! Love your videos

[@michelehernandez5992]

Such great teamwork!! I totally love watching your videos. Kylie I sure hope you did get some knee pads eventually. 👍👍🧜‍♀️🌻

[@MAKEDOGROW]

If you look really closely you’ll see I use a kneeling pad on the floor .... I hate knee pads (chaffing, difficult to get up/down etc)

[@SaseDegete]

Whenever I'm watching your videos I never think that you get exploited and stuff, so in my opinion you have no need to be defensive. To me it's clear that you enjoy that kind of labor, as it's written on your face (most of the time :P), as it's clear that both of you do their part in this project of yours. It's not about she or he, it's just about two people that are lucky to have found each other, and that are working together to accomplish their common dream. All the best wishes :)

[@debbiegarza1287]

Girl! You need Rome roofers knee pads! They’ll help a lot.

[@shakirakhan7118]

love fiercely independant...and so great for health of the body. I share your attitudes

[@veroniquemora2683]

Égal et complémentaire !! 👏👏👍

[@hwinny2]

Touché!

[@hamadalmazroui7112]

you gays are amazing .... Good job.... keep pushing.... All the best to you all

[@loribillings3810]

I admire you for all your hard work. It's also a good stress relief. Before I got health issues and am no longer able to do alot of manual labor I was like Kylie and loved it. You guys don't have to explain to anyone on how you live your life. You are a great team and compliment each other. Your home and property is beautiful and all your hard work is truly paying off.

[@mafish7962]

Team work in your home, oh and teamwork in your marriage-who would’ve thought that worked?!!!!🤣🤣🤣 Take super care guys! Laura xx🍻🍻🍻

[@musicg1696]

Kylie and Guy make a dynamic team, it's wonderful to watch the progress on this channel.

[@CerahHedrick]

Equal Partnerships #Rock #GenderBiasSucks I was wondering what kind of rock n roll Kyle like to jam out to... was that ACDC?

[@edwardweeden8837]

It is called TEAMWORK. Questions like this are called an AGENDA!

[@keyem4504]

It's quite obvious from the videos that Kylie does more of the physical work than Guy, and he's playing with that fact himself. I wonder however, why that should concern anybody except you two. Obviously, Kylie is 100% capable of doing these jobs. We have several hours of video material proving that. I love watching you two interacting, so please keep that up. 🙂

[@ammaramirza2215]

Kylie I love how badass you are ❤️

[@johannessauer9353]

Girl Power !! Lets's go Kylie !